BEFORE THE 4th ADDL FAMILY COURT AT BANGALORE
MC 2024
Between
PRAJWAL A Petitioner
Vs
CHITRA V Respondent
EVIDENCE OF PETITIONER BY THE WAY OF AFFIDAVIT
I, PRAJWAL A,s/o ASHOK, aged about 30 years,R/O at #19, Flat
No, 101, GR Enclave,2nd main, Srinivas Nagar, opposite to SLV
Refreshment, BSK 3rd Stage,Bangalore – 560050 , do hereby
solemnly affirm and state on oath as follows:
1. I state that the Respondent is my legally wedded wife as per
Hindu rites and custom. My and Respondent marriage was
an arranged marriage solemnized on 30Th August 2020 at
Sri Karthika Kalyana Mantapa,Bangalore, I further state that
out of said wedlock a daughter was born namely Kumari
Lasya P about 2 years old now. Wedding Card, photograph
and ID proof is herein marked as Annexure: A,B and C.
2. I state that the Marriage was an arranged marriage, and the
bride was shown through a wedding broker. I further state
that after due enquiry both families were satisfied with the
proposal and gave consent to marriage.
3. I state that since the I comes from the educated family, I
never accepted dowry from the respondent in any form. In
fact, during the wedding I have taken care of food and
pooja/ritual charges.
4. I state that after the marriage I and the Respondent started
living together in my home along with my mother, father and
Grand Mother. I state that since day one the conduct of the
respondent was intolerable wherein she use to raise her
voice and use to quarrel with me even for small trivial issues.
I being a dutiful husband in order to save marriage I
compromised and adjusted with the respondent. Even
though the behaviour of the respondent was complain able, I
never revealed the same to my friends, parents and relatives
for the reason he wanted to save the marriage.
5. I state that the temper of the respondent was so
unpredictable that if I requested to serve him food, she use
to feel offended and use to throw the utensils down and
scream loudly so that the neighbours would listen and have
a bad impression on me as though I was torturing her. This
attitude was not only at home but also in the public places
wherein I was put to great shame, embarrassment and
humiliation.
6. I state that the respondent failed her duties as a wife. She
declined cook food and all household work was done by the
my mother. I state that whenever respondent cooked
occasionally the respondent purposefully add more salt and
chilly powder so that I should stop asking her to cook. I
further state that the Respondent had habit of talking to her
mother the entire day without spending any valuable time
with me and his family, me and his family dint question her
in the beginning thinking that because its very in marriage
she will take time to change but she never changed, hence I
and my mother asked her very politely she started
disrespecting me and my mother, in fact the Respondents
mother use to instigate the Respondent against me and
particularly against the my mother and also use to tell the
respondent not to cook or do any household chores and
demand that my mother to do all the household chores.
Hence I was put to great mental agony and was subjected
mental Cruelty.
7. I state that the Respondent would always wake up late and
would do nothing even the coffee/tea for the Respondent
was served to her by the my mother and as me and my
father leave office early but because of Respondent they use
to get late as she never prepared food on time nor supported
the mother in law in preparing food hence the my mother
use to do all the work and the Respondent was busy on
phone.
8. I state that Since the behaviour of the respondent was
violent and very disrespectful I was scared to take his friend
and relative’s home. But I always treated the respondent
and her family I respected way. The respondent was not
interested in the marital life and refused to give marital
happiness to the petitioner. Subsequently the elders of the
family advised her to discharge her duties as a wife.
Ultimately the respondent conceived in the year 2021.
9. I state that since the Marriage happened during corona time
there were restrictions on going out and still the Danger of
spreading COVID was at peak but still the Respondent
wanted to go out and when Petitioner tried to explain to the
Respondent that it is not safe to go out as there risk of
COVID but the Respondent was very aggressive and started
abusing me and the same use to happen every day even
though I had taken the Respondent to restaurant and
movies in whatever SOP were in place during that time.
10. I state that During the time of Diwali which was the
first Diwali after marriage as per the tradition I went and
stayed in Wallajpet in my in laws place where me and the
respondent had stayed in the room in the terrace and they
came back after that, I state that After a couple of months
the Respondent and her family had raised the issue that
few gold ornaments were missing and they accused me of
taking it , whereas I was new to that home and no prudent
person would keep any valuables in a room at Terrace this
accusation put me into great mental agony.
11. I state that the Respondent father was also not working
and they had no source of income except for the house for
which they had stayed in wallajpet and one day the
Respondent asked me an amount of 75,000 before her
pregnancy time for which they might utilize for hospital and
other expenses which I paid to them by taking hand loan
from my Sisters Husband.
12. I state that the Respondent had some health issues in
delivering eventually a female Baby was born on 28Th
August 2021and baby was kept in incubator and was moved
to NICU as well and later phototherapy was also been done
for the baby as it had developed the symptoms of Jaundice
and even during that time the Respondents family dint care
for daughter nor supported me in taking care of the their
daughter or the child rather they were busy fighting for silly
reason I dint distribute sweets at hospital but they were so
ignorant that it was covid time and Hospital had clear
instruction to maintain social Distance and not to distribute
sweets and also there were many restriction on visiting at
Hospital.
13. I state that the Respondent went to her mother’s place
from hospital and only Returned after 9 months even for this
neither petitioner nor his parents raised any issues. I state
that whenever I and my family visited the Respondent home
intentionally the Respondent and her mother use to take the
child away from me and his mother and more specifically the
Respondent never gave the child to the My mother as such I
was deprived from his daughters love and the my mother
was deprived of her granddaughters love.
14. I state that the Respondent always started fighting
with me and family for silly reasons and she use to call her
parents for which the Respondents parents use to come
abuse me and family in filthy language and also get physical
with me and Respondents father always use to give life
threats to me.
15. I state that during the naming of the child also the
Respondent and her family created a huge issue where I
decided to go on with Lasya for which both Respondent and
her family were happy which they never but after naming
ceremony was conducted and after few days Respondent
and her family suddenly created issues and started fighting
that they wanted different name this behaviour of the
Respondent and her family put me and my family to lot of
mental agony resulting in disrupting family harmony.
16. I state that On November 25th 2022, My father due to
some professional issue which he was accused wrongly
committed suicide and on the same day the Respondent
became unconscious in this situation also I rushed the
Respondent to Hospital and the Respondent family had no
support me in this tough situation in fact when at hospital
the Respondent was not opening her eyes not drinking water
when I asked the doctors what happened I was shocked
when doctors told that the Respondent was acting and it put
me into great mental agony.
17. I further state that there was a ritual organized on the
16th day of the Demise of my father which was to start early
in the morning by 7 A A:M but the Respondent as usual dint
wake up early nor participated in the ritual and also started
fighting that I dint invite the respondents parents to take
food and also started abusing me and also started
blackmailing me that she will commit suicide this behaviour
of the Respondent made me go into mental turmoil where I
has just lost my father a few months ago and the
Respondent and her family was fighting for silly reasons
rather than supporting me in this tough time.
18. I state that on 18th Jan 2023 3rd month ritual was
organized regarding my fathers demise even during that
time the Respondent did not participate in any of the ritual
nor did any work and also she was being very rude to my
Relatives and was showing tantrums to everyone. I further
state that as usual the Respondent started making excuse
about her health and suddenly she left home with her
parents stating that she has appointment with doctor but
within a hour she came back very normal and happy. I
further state that all of a sudden she started shouting at my
mother and sister with intention to instigate them and start
fight in front of everyone so that she can separate petitioner
from his parents and go separately which was her plan all
since beginning. I further state that when she started
abusing everyone and thing went out of control petitioner
tried to control the Respondent but the Respondent and her
parents behaved very badly by abusing them in filthy
language and also physically attacking me and my mother
and sister and also they caused physical damage to property
by throwing stones. This behaviour has put down the
Reputation of me and my family in his neighbourhood.
19. I state that the Respondent on 18th Jan 2023 left the
matrimonial home and with her parents to her parents
home and while leaving she took her all jewellery and some
cloths. I further state that on 30th may 2023 the
Respondent again came to my home in my absence and
started abusing my mother and started throwing things and
also abused the old aged grandmother of and when I came
back and was shocked to see the Respondent in that violent
condition and without any option had to call 100 and when
police came the Respondent started to argue with them also
and without any option police asked everyone to go to police
station and with lot of efforts also the Respondents dint calm
down and she left with her parents while Respondents father
threatened me with life and limb and told that the he would
never let me see my child’s face ever nor send the daughter
back and if I tries to visit them he will do something very
bad to me, this behaviour of the Respondents father created
apprehension of life threat in my mind as such he could not
meet his child.
20. It Is submitted that the conduct of the respondent
clearly amounts to cruelty and that the conduct is that it
cause a reasonable oppression in my mind that it is harmful
and injurious to live with the respondent. The respondent
always use to emotional blackmail that she will commit
suicide.
21. I come from a religious family having good education
and softly spoken. But the respondent even though she was
educated she had no manners to conduct herself but always
screamed at me irrespective of the place, situation and
circumstances which put Ito great mental cruelty.
22. I state that persistence abuse and insults hurled at me
and my parents have imperilled my sense of personal
safety and mental happiness.
23. The matrimonial matters are of delicate humane and
emotional relationship and it demand mutual respect, trust
love and affection. Which the respondent refused to give me.
As such it is not possible for me to live with the respondent
because she always threatens me that she would file a
dowry harassment case, kill herself, put the reputation of me
down in the public, and threatening that she will go to media
and put the me down.
24. The disrespectful attitude and behaviors of the
respondent , use of foul and abusive language to me and to
my parents, respondent often picked up quarrels with me
and disturbed his mental peace, this conduct of the
respondent amount to cruelty me. From the conduct of the
respondent it is established and inference can legitimately
and reasonable drawn that treatment of spouse is that
causes the oppression in the mind of petitioner about his
mental welfare, as such the conduct of the respondent
amounts to cruelty.
25. I state that the relationship between and the
Respondent is irretrievable broken because of non-
cooperation and hostile attitude of Respondent I was
subjected to serious traumatic experiences which can be
safely termed as cruelty, the Respondent declined her
discharge her duty of mother and inflicted mental agony on
husband .
26. I further state that the Respondent has made baseless
allegation against me which constitute cruelty. The
Respondent has withdrawn herself from matrimonial home
without justification abstaining from sexual relationship
without any reasonable causing mental cruelty to Petitioner.
The Respondent has indulged in character assignation
depicting me a person of dishonest and greedy people have
lost faith in me and stare at him with suspicion which has
ultimately lowered the prestige of me and his family.
27. I have lived with my wife without a single moment of
peace and she has not shown any love and affection or
compassion except hatred, agony and cruelty towards me. I
also submits that as I am under immense mental pressure,
the Respondent has treated me with utmost cruelty that it is
no longer possible and conducive for him over all well-being
to continue in matrimony with the Respondent hence the
petition for divorce.
28. The cause of action for the petition arose on 30Th
August 2020 at Sri Karthika Kalyana Mantapa,Bangalore and
when Respondent left the matrimonial home on 18th jan
2023.
Wherefore, it is prayed that this Hon`ble court be pleased to pass
a judgment and decree
a) Dissolve the marriage dated marriage solemnized on 30Th
August 2020 at Sri Karthika Kalyana Mantapa,Bangalore by a
decree of divorce.
b) Grant such other relief or consequential relief as this court
deems fit in the fat and circumstances of the case in the interest
of justice and equity,
Advocate for Petitioner Petitioner
VERIFICATION
I, PRAJWAL A, the petitioner in the above named do solemnly
affirm and state that what is stated above is true and correct to
the best of my knowledge belief and information
Bangalore petitioner
Date.