Dating Format

Thank you for talking to me my friend. How are you doing today? I hope that you
are fine and having a wonderful time with yourself? I must confess that you look
very beautiful and gorgeous in your pictures here ..

I'm sorry if i had invaded your privacy, i was searching for a friend of mine
that work under me i lost contact with him and he is from you country that is how i
saw your profile, and i decide to add this beautiful lady and i wish if we can be
friends, and that is when i notice you are a good woman who have a pure heart and
that is why am talking to you now

I want to use this medium to write more about myself. Although difficult to
describe, but if I said a little about myself. I'm Heffern, an American, I'm from
China, but I was based in New York and that's where I got my house and you?

I Am Marine Engineer i work in a big sea in Malaysia That what 200,000 Million
Dollars I have 2 Months left to complete our contract here in Malaysia, How about
you?

Are you married and have kids?

I'm divorced almost four years now with one kid, a boy and my Son is 13 years old
now his name is David, he is in boarding School now

I divorce my wife few years back because she misused my resources (money), she
has met a guy now who she called her boyfriends, i realized that this is not the
kind of woman i deserved, she's currently married to another man, i need a woman
who is honest, faithful and caring.

Do you wish to get married again if you have the chance to?

As human beings, we all need someone to lean on in difficult times and someone
to talk to and Share those joyous moments with happy.think about it because As for
me I will love to if only I can see a truthful woman, a woman I can love with all
my heart
 what are those things you will like and dislike if you will want to remarry
again? i mean what quality will you want from a man if you want to marry him?

As for me am very simple I will like an honest, caring, faithful, kind and lovely
person I hate disrespectful, unkind, unfaithful, cheater and a liar.

How old are you now?

I'm 54 years old now, i was born May 15th 1964, and you?

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Please i will like to have some few minutes of your time and ask you some few
questions if you don't mind?

Where originally are you from i mean what city and where do you live now?

what do you normally have your leisure time or when do you normally have time to
chat so that we can be communicating as real friends?

Have you ever had any relationship on the internet before now?

With the Experience you have had so far do you really believe that you can find
your soul mate through the z. E?

As for me I believe and also have the courage that I will find the woman whom I
which to spend the rest of my life with. I do believe in soul mates. I have
friends that have found theirs and live very happily with them, and I have decided
a while ago that I would never "settle" for anyone less than my soul mate

Do you believe in distance relationship?

 Yes I do believe in distance relationship, because I do have the faith That I
will meet the woman whom will love and cherish me as I do.

So tell me more about your country i hear that there are beautiful people and big
city in your country, so tell me more about it and tell me more about your
environment and about the culture there

Are you willing to relocate if you find your soul mate?

To me it depends on my soul mate; if she willingly wants me relocate to her

house of living its ok with me, but if she wants to relocate to my house its ok
with me also, or if she wants us both to relocate to a new location, that again
will be ok with me.

On a serious note; have you ever thought of leaving your country in search of
the man you want to be with in the future?

Are you a God fearing woman? I mean are you a christian?

I am a God fearing man, I do have my Christian faith to credit for my life,

attitude and success; however, I don't use the name of God to attract women for my
character speaks for itself. I am not the type of man who is focused entirely on
himself.

What are Your Hobbies? I mean what do you like to do in your free time?

Well as for me I enjoy, swimming, and reading, walking on the beach, fishing,
camping, scrabbling, playing checkers and seeing good comedies. I love the
outdoors moutain cooking and also spending some time out with my friends.

What’s Your Favorite color?

 My favorite colors are both white and red, because the white stands for a pure
heart and the red stands for love, so when you add the both of them together you
have a pure hearted love, that is me because I do have a pure heart for love.

So tell me how big is your family? I mean how many brothers and sisters you have?
What about your parents ?.

Unfortunately my both parents are dead and I am the only kid my parents gave
birth to, so you see my dear son David is the apple of my eyes and the only close
family I have at the moment

Do you know what went wrong in your past relationship?

Cheating and lies made my last relationship ended. I am a very compressive

person. When there is something wrong with my relationship, I don’t fight, and be
hysterical, I like to talk. A better conversation is always the best solution for
everything, But of course with every experience you learn more how to deal, and
always there is something new to you discover.

What are your goals or dreams in life?

My goals and dreams in life are to be with the woman of my life whom I will call
my wife, who I will love and we will both live together and have a loving family
forever

Do you smoke cigarettes or drink alcohol or do drugs?

Yes, I ask you because I do not like it and I am a man of society and millions of
people are looking forward to me in my country, so I do not like it and I have
never smoked in my life nor used drugs. and never pretend too much, it's not for
me. If I drink alcohol, well, I drink socially, if I go out with some friends and
they are drinking something light, that's fine.

So tell me what is your favorite food?

 beef, but sometimes I like eating what I prepared my self because I cook very
well, and I will like to cook for you someday my if destiny really brings us
togetherl in my
I also like eating spaghetti that's one of my favorite

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Do you like music? What are your favorite music

What’s your favorite drink?

My favorite drinks Red Wines, but I prefer Champagne more likely.

Do you like sports? And what are your favorite sports?

I have a passion for sports and my favorite sport IS

It was nice meeting you, well my dear friend, I want to leave now, can we share
email so that i can send you email later because, due to the nature of my job, I am
always a busy man and i will like us to know more about ourselves, hope you don't
mind?

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Do you believe in true love?

And you also believe that what you feel right now is a feelings that end up
having a true love and a life time partner? I mean do you also believe that true
love exists?

Well as for me i will say Yes i believe in true love and i believe everybody has
a better half out there and the main thing is to meet that special person and i
also believe in my heart that everything happen for a reason and there is a reason
why we meet people in this world do not you think so too?
 Well my friend, i have somethin seeg in mind to tell you that is really bordering
me and i don't know how to tell you but i have think about it over and over and
decide to put away my fear and face my challenges as a man because we are no more
kids, we know what we want in life and when we feel something about somebody.

I do not know how you will feel because i think is too early to tell you such
words and the words are heavy in my mouth and am afraid to say them

From the moment I saw you, I felt something inside of me that moved me all over.
I feel something mutual, i feel connected to you, i want to be close to your heart.
You are everything I admire in a woman, intelligent, thoughtful, good looking,
funny. That's why I feel so happy to have met you because I could see all these
qualities when we shared time together. "

Well, I'm ready for a fresh start and I am searching for a serious long term
relationship that could lead to marriage. I hope you agree with me on this? .....
Smile.

I don't mind traveling or relocating anywhere for love.All that matters is that
we understand ourselves and let love find it's way into our heart ... i hope you
don't mind?

What's the best dream you've ever had?

Mine is dreaming about meeting that special woman and now I think that dreams has
been fulfilled by God

Describe the to vacation you have had!

As for me my work has took me to so many places and also I have been to some
places for vacation too, places like, Flying to Paris, then taking a train through
France, and turkey even china,, and Greece. Then spending 1 month on a Greek
Island together with my friends. I had the time of my life, and these are my
fondest memories.and i think I will do it again.

Are you talking to someone else on the net apart from me at this moment? Because
I see you delayed in reply

Oh I see and you are the only person am talking to right now and now I will never
go back to any social media again because I have found my trust and true love what
about you?

As for me i will say God, Family, health, Living to help others without asking
for anything in return. Finally living long enough to tell you that I think you
are great. Remember this. I live to help and if you ever need my help, I'm always
here for you to ask anything I which you Good luck and much wisdom.

What would you cook for a date at home? I mean if I come to meet you for a date
what would you cook for me

Smiles !!! As for me if i want to prepare a meal for my date at home hmm i will
not tell her because That is going to be a secrete because I will be making her
favorite meal ... Even if I do not know how to, before then I must get

instructions from good quality chefs and also read cooking books, to meet up to
perfection the day I will cook the meal.

Am man who is convinced that life without love is meaningless. Everyone thinks
that love comes into our life only once but i think that it is always possible to
feel it again and again! My soul is looking for true love. I am a gentleman, i
love comfort and quiet atmosphere, i enjoy simple things in life.

What are the five most important things in your life.

I'm a honest, loving, caring and responsible committed, down to earth. A man who
believe in love and would like to have long lasting relationship. Understanding
trustworthy and kind heated.

About passionate in life ... Peace and love support each other for good and bad
times, respect and understanding would give strength and harmony to a relationship,
sincerity, truthfulness and faithfulness will make love last

So tell me, are you fully interested in this relationship with me, and ready to
open a new book of life with me?

Thank you, What more can a man say to the woman who opened her heart to him,
allowing him to feel the warmth of her love across the great distance that
separates them? You truly have no idea what I feel for you.

Thanks so much Dear for your beautiful words, i'm so happy to meet you here and i
really want to create a good and trustworthy relationship with you.

............... TRUST .......................

Now you know I really believe in true love and I have true love in my heart

If you want I can explain what true love really means if you can give me time to
explain

Love have so many ingredients and love is all about trust and is from the heart
not just from the mouth or what you see but from the heart and the mind

So for you to love with all your heart body and soul, You need trust to love, but
first you need to love in order to trust.To love someone is to understand each
other, to laugh together, to smile with your heart and to trust one another.

One important thing is to let each other go if you can't do this. Love is like a
wonderful feeling of compassion and satisfaction. It should be given respect and
trust; and it should receive that love back.

The best proof of love is trust..True love is the greatest thing finding love and
finding trust was a gift from you to me.

Relationships should never be taken for granted. The choice of being with
another life is an amazing thing. Trust, loyalty and respect are a must for
eternal happiness. No matter how much you love someone if you don't have these
ingredients you will never succeed.

To be in love means being patient but to be patient you must trust him / her
first. You can never find love through the eye or ear, so you must trust the only
thing that will never fade until you die, your heart.
 Love is like trust, when you find your special someone it is as if you're
trusting them with your heart.

Trust is what you put in someone's hands. Faith is what you hold on to.Trust is
what makes everyone realize that you are always there for them. Faith is what
makes everyone realize that you are always there to help them in case they need
some help.

Love makes not everyone, but the only one in your life who is special, think that
you are always there for her / him, to be with her / him, to cherish her / him, to
fulfill her / his dreams, to share with her / him and most of all, to make her /
him realize how much you really love her / him.

I just want to tell you that Distance doesn't matter if you really love the
person, what matters most is your honesty and trust for that relationship to work
out..Without romance, love gets dry. Without respect, love gets lost. Without
caring, love gets boring. Without honesty, love gets unhappy, and without trust,
love gets unstable.

.Love is a wonderful gift; trust in it, believe in it, give it, and it will be
returned to you to give again and again. You can get advice from family, friends
and strangers, but the best advice comes from your heart; it never lies - trust
it.

There may be many people that are trustworthy, but only a few are worth trusting
with your heart; choose wisely.To be trusted is a greater compliment than to be
loved. For you can love many, but without trust you have nothing.

The heart already knows what the mind can only dream of. Trust your
heart.Distance cannot, and will not hurt a bond between two people that is based on
mutual respect, trust, commitment, and love.

Love means never doubting anything. It means trusting and being honest with each
other, Someone can be as beautiful on the outside as they are on the inside, but
when he or she betrays your trust, they become the ugliest person in the world.
cause love has just one important ingredient: Trust. Do you trust me? Yes or no?

Love is patient. Love is kind. It does not envy. It does not boast. It is not
proud. It is not rude. It is not self-seeking. It is not easily angered. It
keeps no record of wrong doing. It does not delight in evil, but rejoices in the
truth. It always protects, trusts, hopes, persevere
 Love takes many things: trust, hope, wishes, dreams, and everything you've got,
even when you know it's not going be enough. Love is not always fireworks and
shooting stars; sometimes it's a simple understanding and trust between two people
..

..................... LOVE ............................ .......

Well, I just want us to be certain of what we actually want. At this stage of my

life, I have achieved almost everything I wanted except a united family and it
hurts me. My priority is to have a happy and harmonious family. what about you,
do wish for a happy family too?

Do you like holding hands and exchanging casual kisses with your partner?

As for me Holding her close and make her feel the warmth of my body while
kissing her and I will like to do that with you

Have you talked about your feelings with someone else? I mean have you tell any
body about how you feel for me and how I feel for you too?

As for me I have no friends and you are the only person whom I am sharing my
feelings with and That's good to know and I pray for the both of our dreams to come
to pass. I hope you will be able to make out time for us to be together in .....
when I arrive?

I see! all I need in a woman is a care, trust, understandin

, sincerity, faithfulness and respect in other for us to spend the rest of our
lives together and happily. I also value the sense of humor in a woman, What
interest you in a man?

well, I'm caring, out-spoken, humorous, understanding, passionate and cheerful.

Definitely, you will be the one to see for yourself by the time we will be
together. I really don't like a dirty woman, what about you? what are the habits
that you hate in a man?

If I may ask, are you romantic?

I like the way you express yourself. As for me, I'm a romantic man, I know how
to make my woman contented with my love and If I love you more or you finally
become my wife, I will love you with all my heart, respect you, care for you ,
cherish you so much and treat you like a Queen because I'll be ready to take
sacrifices in order to make you happy and be there for you.

As for you, how would you treat me if I come to you and become your husband?

I'm so happy to hear that and it's really becoming interesting as we get to know
more about each other.

Please if you don't mind, can I ask you for few of your photos. I hope you don't
mind sending me about 2 of your photos?

Oh i see, you are so beautiful, you must be the second woman God created after
Eve. You are such beautiful like a goddess.

Do you like flowers?

As time goes on, I will surprise you with lovely flowers. So what is the time
there?

I'm so happy chatting with you and I pray for our communication and relationship
to lead to a fruitful end. Dear, don't you wish so too?

The quality of a woman is in you. When I saw your picture and profile I made up
my mind it got to be you and as if i found my missing rib. I really love you not
for canal gratification but for intimacy. I will love to love you more without no
reservation, see you as my destiny my world.

I love you so much, I need you like the desert needs rain. Like the breathless
need air, like the flowers need sunshine. I need you from the frist chapter of my
love story to the last. I really hate my heart because it lives inside me but
beats only for you.

If there was a perfect way for me to show you how much you mean to me. I'd be the
happiest person in the world. Because you really are my whole life and i want to
shout that out loud to the world. I love you darling.
 it feels like you have pumped a new life into me. I feel like a confident about
myself. Thank you so much, For walking into my life and transforming into somet
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