Here are 15 Traits of an Alpha Man
1. He Doesn’t Need Anyone’s Approval
An Alpha Man defines his own ethics, rules, and code of honor.
What other people think of this is secondary.
He does not need anyone else to give a stamp of approval for the way he
chooses to live his life.
2. Self-Interest Is His Priority
An Alpha puts himself first. Period.
This doesn’t mean he’s selfish. It means he knows he can’t pour from an empty
cup.
His mission, health, and happiness are non-negotiable.
A man who sacrifices his life to please others is not noble. He’s a fool.
If you don’t act to ensure your own satisfaction in life, you’ll die a miserable man.
3. He Creates His Reality
An Alpha Man realizes that he cannot be dependent on anyone to make his life
fun, so he must do it himself.
He builds a bubble of energy, positivity, good spirit, and happiness around
himself.
He knows that using his smarts and his instincts are most important.
4. He’s Ruthless With His Time
Time is an Alpha’s most valuable asset.
He doesn’t waste hours on meaningless calls or waiting for flaky women.
If you can’t respect his time, you don’t deserve his presence.
5. Uses his wits first, then his brawn:
A true Alpha knows that today’s man doesn’t have to fight and hunt for his
survival the way our ancestors once did.
We now have the luxury of forging a new kind of dominant man that does not
need to physically overpower his enemies.
6. He Knows What He Wants
Most men drift through life like a leaf in the wind.
The Alpha doesn’t “try.” He decides.
He’s clear about his goals and relentlessly pursues them.
Ambiguity is a killer of masculinity. Decide what you want and make it yours.
7. He Accepts Risk as the Price of Greatness
No risk, no reward.
The Alpha embraces discomfort and challenges because he knows regret hurts
far more than failure.
Life is either a great adventure or a dull existence. He chooses greatness.
Alpha Men calculate risks and act.
8. He Plays the Game Smart
An Alpha doesn’t risk it all unless the reward is worth it.
He knows when to be bold and when to hold back.
Discipline and foresight are his secret weapons.
Betting your life on impulsive decisions isn’t courage. It’s stupidity.
9. He Forgives Himself Quickly
Alpha Man knows that the only men who do not fail are those that do not try.
When he fails, he learns, adapts, and moves forward.
He forgives himself after failure because it brings him closer to success.
10. Grows every day:
The Alpha Man knows that the only way to stay at the head of the evolutionary
pack is to learn and grow to his limits.
Those who are not growing are dying. He reads books and literature every single
day.
11. Knows that Women are a Secondary Goal, never a Primary Goal:
Women and s*x are an important part of the evolutionary drive, but they are not
a focus for the Alpha Man’s life.
Women will be the side benefit of a life that is fully lived, and confidently
navigated.
12. He Masters His Passions and Demons
An Alpha knows his strengths and his weaknesses.
He doesn’t let addictions, vices, or emotions control him.
He also knows his vulnerabilities, and he cultivates the self-discipline to not let
them get the better of him.
13. He Thinks Long-Term
Weak men seek instant gratification—money, women, attention.
An Alpha man delays pleasure to build real power and success.
He doesn’t trade his empire and life's dreams for a moment of
validation/satisfaction.
No one on their deathbed wishes they spent more time at the office.
Time is all you have to spend. Never, ever let yourself “k!ll time.” That’s really k!
lling yourself
14. Is mature and confident enough to put his ego aside:
The Alpha knows that his ego is just a figment of his imagination.
When he makes it a priority to protect his “image,” he will inevitably fall prey to
the disillusioning effect of pride.
When he encounters a new person he’s confident that he will be interesting just
by the aura of power he exudes. Only insecure men need to protect their ego at
the expense of learning and growing. He sets attainable goals and focuses his
drive and ambition toward their achievement.
There’s plenty of time to be mellow and relaxed when he’s dead. Life is very
short, and he’s got plenty of work to do here.
15. Recognizes that Time is the most valuable asset:
Even more than money, time is priceless.
As the saying goes, you can’t take it with you, and you don’t want to wind up at
the end of your life having pursued wealth and then have no time to enjoy it.
Tips on how to become an alpha male:
1. Develop Confidence: Alpha males exude self-assurance and confidence. Work
on building your self-esteem by setting goals, achieving them, and celebrating
your successes.
1. Take Charge and Lead: Alpha males are natural leaders. Practice taking charge
of situations, making decisions, and guiding others. This can be as simple as
leading a team project or organizing a social event.
1. Improve Your Physical Presence: Alpha males take care of their physical health
and appearance. Focus on building your strength, endurance, and overall fitness.
Dress well, groom yourself, and maintain good posture.
1. Develop Emotional Intelligence: Alpha males are emotionally intelligent,
meaning they can read and manage their own emotions, as well as those of
others. Practice self-awareness, empathy, and effective communication.
1. Set Boundaries and Be Decisive: Alpha males are clear about their boundaries
and aren't afraid to say "no." Practice setting healthy boundaries, making tough
decisions, and standing by your choices.
Remember, becoming an alpha male is not about being aggressive or dominant;
it's about being confident, self-assured, and respected by others.
