1 STEP ON HANGOUT.

It's nice to have you here

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1. What are Your Hobbies?
Ans
l love the outdoors mountain biking, camping, fishing, horseback riding, outdoor
photography and also spending some time out with my son

I also enjoy, cooking, swimming, and reading, walking on the beach, scrabbling,
playing checkers

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2, What's the last book you read?
Ans.
I am currently reading a dozen or so self help books on success, motivation,
relationships, financial security and positive thinking.I like the Marianne
Williamson's books.the last one I read of her was: A RETURN TO LOVE.

3.... What are your Political views?

Ans
How nice. Well, I am neutral when it comes to politics as I serve the United States
and the President.

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4..... Do you smoke cigarettes or drink alcohol or do drugs?

Ans..
I as a normal guy; I do not take drugs to keep me on track. I had never smoked in
my life neither used drugs and never pretend too, because it's not for me. If I
drink alcohol; well I drink socially,
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5..... What are your likes and dislikes?
Ans.
I like real things; I like honesty, truthful, caring person. I dislike
dramas,cheating, lies, disrespect, racist & Betrayal.

I don't really like anything too much, but I focus on people who are basically
honest and straightforward. Those who live life according to their "golden rule"
and practice humility on a daily basis, I try to remain open to trying new things,
as this rounds out a person's soul.

I want someone that will love me for me, regardless of age, distance, language
barrier, cultural differences or material purpose. Because I do believe love knows
no barriers and is the conqueror all things.

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6.... So tell me; what is your favorite food?

Ans 1

My favorite food is Pasta,fried rice and sallad..I love to cook great home made
meals and try new recipes when I am in town with my Son...

Ans 2

I like many ethnic foods, including Indian, Thai, and Greek. Italian if you feel
like it! I cook everything I want to eat, but my weakness is chicken fries, but
here we mainly stock up on chili and beans, spaghetti, beef stew, veggie burgers,
and chicken fajitas. Side dishes include rice, corn, and mashed potatoes, plus
crackers or bread and a variety of types sorts (peanut butter, jelly, or cheese).

Ans 3

I also love to cook. Cooking always allows me to show my creative side, please
people and create something complex from simple ingredients. I can experiment with
different foods, with different equipment (it's my thing...Lol) and try new
techniques.

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7.... What is your favorite dessert.??

Ans 1

Banana Split cake and goey Carmel pie

Ans 2

Cherry pie or chocolate carmel pie

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8.... What is your favorite jelly.??
Ans
I like Pineapple Habanero Pineapple Jelly for a glaze on BBQ spare ribs

9.... What are the favorite dishes you like???

Ans..
I like seafood salad

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10.... Are you a picky eater.?
Ans

No.
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11......... Do you have any tattoos and body piercings?

Ans.

I don't have any tattoo and i don't have any piercing too

12....... Do you have a car? Can you drive a vehicle?

Ans

I have 2 cars that I drive when I am back in town; I have a range rover 2012 and
a chevrolet

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13.... How do you normally spend your leisure time?
Ans..

I enjoy listening to music, cuddling up reading a magazine or watching TV,

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14...... How much do you enjoy walking in the park?

Ans.
 I enjoy it a lot; feel the fresh air of the nature, viewing the beautiful green
trees with my soul mate.

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15.... What’s Your Favorite color?
Ans
My favorite colors is white sign of purity, peace & nobility.

16.... Body/Height, How tall are you ?

Ans
I'm 5.11 Ft tall, blue eyes/brown hair. I have an athletic physique, and I have
always been a very sports-oriented active person

17...... Do you like Sports/Favorite sport ?

Ans

I prefer Basketball,Football,Golf,Dancing,Running,Swimming and Volleyball.

All sports are unique and are different in the way we see and love them. Sports
energize our lives.
In this way the sport that I love, my Energy Booster and my favorite sport is
Basket Ball.I spent almost 6 years playing Basket Ball when I was younger. Day by
day I loved it more.

Lessons learned from Basket Ball?

Ans
It taught me to coordinate with people, think and act wisely, aim high, fight for
victory, and never give up.
I love each and every day I spent at my court, my second home after all. The way we
call out shots for each basket during games energizes my body and relaxes my mind.
This can never be replaced anywhere. It also helped me stay strong and healthy. The
distance between the basket and no matter how far you are with the ball has always
taught me one thing in life ... IF you think it's far then you can't, you really
can't. And if you think you can, you really can. It has always been the same for me
in all my tasks. Try this magic in your life also because it is beautiful. The
greatest joy and pleasure I had in my life were the days I spent playing Basket
Ball. My favorite sport for life.

18.... How often do you exercise?

Ans.
I exercise 1-2 times per week Exercise

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19.... What kind of music do you like?
Ans
I love blues, 80s, and 90s, Rnb, Jazz, Gospel Jams, and RocknRoll.

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20,,,, What is your favorite song?

Ans.
Amazed by Lonestar
21...... What are you most passionate about?

Ans 1
Relationship with God , and Family and friends....I have learned that with
age....everything else comes and goes...friends and family are there forever.
Ans 2
Having a loving marriage or a trusting relationship with your significant other;
Finding and keeping a healthy work-life balance, with time for friends and family;
Ans 3
One thing that I'm passionate about is healthy living and healthy eating. ... It
allows me to blend my personal interests and passions with my career. I feel like
I'm spending my time working on helping people with something that's important, and
that motivates me to do great work

22.... Please if you don't mind may I ask you for a few of your photos, that will
definitely make me feel closer to you.
Ans
I love the way you look, you look drop-dead gorgeous your smile melts my heart
you're very charming you are so adorable.

Ans 2

I wish I can do that but it's too risky because we are not allowed to take pictures
or make calls over here. But I'll try to look into my computer and send one to you.
But please don't dispose it, I hope you understand?

23.... Do you like flowers?

24..... How old are you ?

Ans
Well, I am 60 years old, although my colleagues say that I look younger compared to
my age, but I think that age is just a number. Maturity is what really matters. The
heart wants what the heart wants and it's a cliche that couldn't be more accurate.

Tell me about your family/ childhood.???

Ans.
ABOUT MY CHILDHOOD

I lost my sister Trese who was also in the Military died after her retirement. we
were brought up by our foster parents ... My grand parents gave birth to 2 boys ..
my dad and his late brother who died in world war II ... I lost my parents
already ... my dad died at the age of 87... lost him 2006.. i miss him ..My dad
was a Military man and he was very successful.

About my children./ occupation.

Ans
Grace dead in auto crash accident after her graduation as a computer Engineer.,
While Alex is in the service just like me, but is in the SPECIAL DIVISION MISSION
in Syria.

ABOUT MY MOM
I have my christian faith as my mom was member of the church choir so i was brought
up in a good christian home .. and so i have brought up my daughter too ... you
will love her i'm sure ..smiles

My mom kept the prayers coming too she was very sweet and would prepare sweet meals
even working at the floral shop.But with her having a floral shop ..I came to terms
loving the rose flower as it has a beautiful love tone and theme that comes with it
NOTE.

Does distance really matter? You love your favorite actor, drool for your favorite
singer and await patiently for the next art from your favorite artist or writer.
Why not the one you love?

SECOND DAY.

RELATIONSHIP FRIENDSHIP
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1.... How many countries you have been to..?

ANS.
I have been to. Turkey. Italy.NewZealand,Canada Switzerland
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How Many beautiful place have you been to..?

ANS... I have been to Yosemite National Park, California, Lake Tahoe,

California/Nevada Monument Valley, Arizona/Utah . Yellowstone National Park,
Wyoming

Though I learned about Japan and France from my parents. I would like to visit.
Ireland, England and Venice to see the Spanish Riding School and watch the
Lippizans perform

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2... What three words best describe you?
Ans

For me generous, kind, and humble.

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3..... Which best describes your daily diet?
ANS....

I like meat and potatoes Keeps me healthy

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4... What do you do to get rid of stress?
Ans..

I force myself to leave the situation. Take a time out, walk away, and avoid coming
back too soon. Take a walk or go for a run.

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5.... How do you deal with doubt?
Ans.
.Make decisions from a position of love. I Don't invest in doubt. Overthinking will
never solve any problems.

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6.. Do you have any pets?
Yes, a dog his name is Scott. He is also a service dog a German shephard
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7... ,,,,What’s your favorite season? Why?
Ans 1
Spring & because everything is just coming back to life & fresh all new !
Ans 2

...... Chilling winter

I like Chilling winter cause it's so beautiful
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8.... What are your best food for dinner?
Ans
Stuffed turkey rolls with gravy mashed potatoes and roasted asparagus garlic and
parmesan cheese

9... What is your best food for lunch..??

Ans
I had a turkey with spinach / cheese for lunch and a tapioca pudding

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10..... If you could travel back in time, what year would you visit?

ANS... The year I became a father.

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11... What memorable lesson did you learn from your parents?
Ans

My parents thought me never to give up on my dream no matter how difficult things

maybe.

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12... How have your priorities changed over time?
ANS.
As we grow older, things that were important to us are no longer so.Things that
interested us don’t any longer.We change/we mature/we grow up.

In college my priority was to get my degree. I accomplished that and set a new
priority-to become established in a career that I could spend my life at.

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13.... What’s one of your greatest accomplishments?
ANS
.Being a General.

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14... What person, dead or alive, do you wish you could be more like?
ANS...

.Sam Clemens... Samuel Langhorne Clemens (November 30, 1835 – April 21, 1910),
known by his pen name Mark Twain, was an American writer, humorist, entrepreneur,
publisher

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15.... What fear would you like to overcome?

ANS..... My greatest fear and sorrow is not being accepted for who I am.

My deepest fear is being alone without family or friends. I can’t understand how
people can love me.Lack of intimacy with life and people. And lack of effective and
valuable contribution to society. I still want to do more for my Country.

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16.. What goals have you recently set for yourself?
ANS ..

Improve my growth mindset.

Be persistent despite obstacles. Learn to accept your limits.Learn how to make

effective decisions.Practice gratitude.Stay open-minded to new opportunities.

As a General I hopes to do my part in making sure the Army and general public
realize how important the civil affairs mission is. I have the initiative,
adaptability, and strategic perspective that will enable me to succeed.

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17... What’s something about yourself that you hope will never change?

ANS.... My generousity.

I am known to be a leader that cares for the development and well being of my
Soldiers. Amd that will never change.

I believe that the most successful leaders are able to communicate their vision
and intent while fully supporting their subordinate leaders.

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19.... Do you prefer to watch movies in the theater or in the comfort of your own
home?
Ans
Both.

what is your favorite movie?

I have so many, Steel Magnolia's and Forrest Gump. Because the movies are about
life, birth, living and dyeing.

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20.. What strange habit do you have?

ANS... I get upset easily.but I have learn to control my anger.

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21.... Have you ever given a presentation in front of a large group of people?

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22. . Would you want to live on a boat, a mountain or an island?

Ans..... I do not like to draw attention. Definitely mountain

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23.. If you could turn into any animal, which one would you be?

ANS.. A dog or zebra.

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24.... Who’s had the biggest influence on you?

ANS..... A Coach—Coaches often teach us leadership, responsibility and teamwork.

As long as your response doesn't reveal that you value athletics more than
academics, a coach can be a great choice. Try to articulate how your coach has
helped you succeed in areas other than sports.

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25 Do you sing or play a musical instrument?

.I sing and I play several instruments,I play French horn, trumpet, guitar, oboe,
and piano
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26.. How did you meet your first partner..?

HOW I MET MY WIFE

Ans.
My wife I met her on a dance floor. She was going to a singles group. and I was
going to one also. The two groups would get together sometimes for picnics, dances,
etc.. I asked her to dance. We took it from there. We were married 29 years till
she passed away.

3RD DAY..,.....

Hello my good friend..?

How are you today, I hope everything is fine?

I missed chatting with you... what is your mood today?

You are the kindest person in the whole world. Let nothing stop you from doing what
you do best.

I'm happy to hear that. You deserve to be happy no matter the circumstance

You have a big heart.I feel loved and encouraged as a friend when I am with you.

I guess you're at home now, am I right?

I was thinking of you so I decided to come online. how was work today?

You are a loyal friend, honest and I am thankful for you.You are special in your
own way.

Since the day we became friends I Wake up every day with a smile and a positive
attitude.I Live every day as if it were the last.
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when are your workings days? do you also work on saturday and sunday?

This short period of knowing you has been the most happiest days of my life. I'm
really happy to have you as a friend.

I Find joy in the things you do.The conversation we hard Put a smile on my face of
wish others may not understand. I have been a lonely person for 4years now thank
you for accepting to be my friend.

I notice you're a friend who understands my past, Make me believes in my future,

and accepts me just the way I am.
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What’s the best way to travel? (Plane, car, train, etc.)

Ans,,, I used plane or train mostly.

I must have been born under a lucky star, to find a friend as nice as you are. I
will follow the rainbow to the end , if you promise to remain my friend
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What’s the best compliment you’ve ever received?

Our friendship is never a coincidence in our life, we're meant to enter our lives
to bring joy and laughter. So, I wil4years now.

GET A WOMAN INTO A RELATIONSHIP,

1.....Tell me are you into any relationship..??

Ans. None I have been alone for 4years now.

2....Tell me, do you have any health challenges?

As for me, I am healthy and fit. I like listening to music, although I'm not a
good dancer but I like dancing when I'm happy. how about you?

it's cool listening to nice music, sometimes it can be inspirational, it also

softens the spirit.

3... Do you want more children?..

I don't think I need more kids I'm done with having children but I welcome kids if
the Woman I choose to be with had children

4...... Do you believe in a long distance relationship...?

Ans; I don't think Destance should be a problem what matters is the heart.

Life has taught us that love does not consist in gazing at each other but in
looking outward together in the same direction

5,,,,,,. Do you believe in true love..?

Ans; Yes, if it comes from the heart.
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6... Have you ever dated online before..?

None. Just one and that's you, honestly after I started writing you, I thought it
will be wise to know you very well and know where it leads us.

7... What do you think the 5 stepping stones in a relationship are?.

The 5 stepping stones to any relationship to my way of thinking would have to be

love,communication,honesty,faith and Trust..

8.,, What are the main things you will not allow someone you would be with to do
to you?

.I won't like my woman to be lying to me and not been honest to me I like being
told the whole truth no matter if it hurts

9, Do you treat others as you would like to be treated?

Yes, my parent thought me to be good to people no matter their status rich or poor
the same respect shall people give to me. I am a generous man.

10.. Do you love unconditionally?

I, forgive mistakes and continue to offer love and acceptance, even if their
choices distress me or cause harm.

11.. Have you ever been unfaithful to your mate?

I'm the type of man that believe in one man one woman relationship and also
strongly believes that marriage is for better for worse and to cherish till death
cos I'm a very honest and simple and easy going man.

12...Do you live alone?

Ans
My retirement is going to be a long move and it's a move that I have been planning
for years and I want my retirement to be a major change in my life

I live in Quaters 1 (Forth Myers) D.C. I moved to Washington prior to an

assignment. After retirement, I'd love to get a home Downtown of D.C. The United
States Capital is one of the Safest cities around the world.

13.. Are you financially secure?

I have achieved everything I want as a man except a happy family. I plan on

settling down once I retire from the Army.

14... What are your plans, in terms of Savings and investment ?

I have enough savings for my family and investment plans and insurance plans, both
under the name Alex. I'm not broke either. I have well thought out plans for my
future with my partner that include rooms for a family, they will pay me well
before my retirement, I have love and affection for people that is why I want to
invest in health, I want to build a hospital and a charitable foundation and I run
it myself with a woman of my dreams.

15.. What's more, important to you, love, or money?

I didn't get attracted because of your intelligent,beauty or success.I got
attracted because of your honesty,caring,understanding and a woman of integrity.

NEXT CHAT....
QUALITIES OF A GOOD RELATIONSHIP

1... I think a good relationship requires being each other's best friend, and
trusting one another. I think each should respect the other's opinion and that
stupid arguments over stupid things are healthy, as long as they are not taken too
far.

2...
Good communication. Never being ashamed of each other for any reason. On occasion
surprising your mate with a nice romantic date or evening together and telling each
other I love you.

3... A good relationship is when your partner is more than just a partner... they
should be your best friend always being free with each other and it starts from the
heart by each other taking each other close to heart from their hearts

4.. A good relationship is when two lovers understand each other, they're concerned
for each other and they respect one another.

GET HER INTO RELATIONSHIP.

My dear I have known you well now and you have the quality a man need in woman.

I have learned never to force myself on anybody as the only person who can stand
for you in hard times are those who accepts you from their hearts of hearts.

1, Do you still need a man in your life.?

My Son wants me to find someone for for myself and someone he can call mom and
who will love him as her own child and love me too

2,, What's your deepest insecurity? In a relationship.?

I fear I will not attractive enough. and that her feelings aren't as strong as
mine for her, I fear she won't respect me

3... How much do you think you know how to please a man? ?

Well, I think when you love and care for someone, those things come naturally.
You want nothing but the best for your partner and will see that they are treated,
loved and cared for in the very best way. At least that is how I work
4.. What quality do you look for in a man..?

Ans; I'm looking for a warm-hearted, compassionate woman lol, share, grow, and
enjoy the rest of my life with.

I am looking for true Love and am interested in a relationship on a long term

basis with one woman.

I want someone who will enjoy at least some of the things I like, someone who
will appreciate me for who I am and will support me in all my endeavors to excel in
life.

5 ... If you have to meet someone that love you and care about you and you also
feel the same for the person will you want to get married with him?

6 Let me tell you about myself and see if am the type of man you have been looking
for or who you would love to spend the rest of your life with, with the hopes of a
happy one with

But be it as it may, If 'm the type of man you want please let me know

ABOUT MY SELF.

I am a single dad as you know I lost my wife years ago. I lost my sister Trese who
was also in the Military died after her retirement. we were brought up by our
foster parents . Meaning I have no siblings. My grand parents gave birth to 2
boys .. my dad and his late brother who died in world war II ... I lost my parents
already ... my dad died at the age of 87... lost him 2006.. i miss him ..My dad
was a Military man and he was very successful. We were later adopted. My foster
parents were so nice to me but they died later on. Right now all the family I have
left is my Son Alex..

1.. I'm romantic, sweet, caring, honest, loyal and some would say sexy. I suppose
it depends on your definition of sexy.

2,, I love to make lovely jokes with my woman as well and try as hard as i can to
make her smile up for me ,

3.. My mother raised me to be a man, and I am in all aspects of the life...I have
grown to be who I am with the laws of my parents and the will to be a good man and
a helper to mankind.

4,.. I'm not perfect but i'm willing to improve onmyself and be better day in and
out.. I grow with my daily living learning new things of life ..I have met alot of
people too and I have learnt about the good and bad characteristics of living which
is a major part of man's existence.
5,, I like going to the point in any thing I do ..I say it as it is and i hate
beating round the bush.

6, I'm brave as some people who knows me say and I'm very apologetic when I'm
wrong but I hate stupid attitudes too ..I can get angry but depending on what is on
ground as well..

7.. Tell me what does your heart feels for me?

When you trust someone..Your heart believes in everything she does and you find
yourself being attracted to that same person and it's part of the law of
attraction.

I am proud to admit that I'm falling in love with you because you are the source of
my happiness.

I will not dissapoint you if you give your heart to me, and I hope you won't
dissapoint me if I give my heart to you?

We need care, understanding and mutual feelings to make our relationship/marriage

stronger and everlasting.

All that should matter to us is to really understand each other and have a great
plan for our future as destiny has brought us together...

I'm so greatful to have you in my life. my heart desires you so much, your
happiness and success matters a lot to me.

I'm very comfortable with you because I frequently feel you inside of me. It would
be my pleasure to always make you happy and satisfied with my love because I feel
you deserve it.

Even when I'm busy, I still think of you and I pray for the angels to guide you
always.

I promise to always make you happy and contented with my love, My desire is to high
to be with you and take care of you

Destiny has brought us together, I promise to love, honor and cherish you for the
rest of my life.

All I need from you is your prayers and best wishes for me while I'm still here in
South Korea

I have a lot of stories and experience to share with you when we are together, I
hope you will like to listen?

Since you came into my life, I've been very happy, I think about you all the time,
i want to be with you soon and forever.

Honey, I missed you so much, I feel like holding you now.

Your words really touch me and I feel so worried that you are lonely there. I
cannot wait for us to be together forever, so that i can take good care of you. all
i want is your love, I promise that I'll not break your heart if you give your love
to me. do you also promise not to break my heart if I give my love to you?
I'm short of words and I feel like a teenager now falling in love again. I promise
to protect you, cherish you, take good care of you, honor you, love you forever and
to always give you the attention that you deserve for the rest of our lives.

I strongly beleive that I have found the best and most wonderful darling in the
whole wide world. You have really touched my life in so many ways because you
brought back joy into my heart. I will never treat you wrong and give all the
things that you deserve in life.

before now, my son was the gratest part of my life, but now it's so amazing that
you are also a greater part of my life. I'm overwhelmed with joy and these days my
colleagues have also noticed the recent happiness all over me. A million words is
too small to express the how greatful I am to God for putting you in my life. I
pray to him to also unite us as husband and wife, I'm willing to share my joy,
happiness and future with you.

For me, I had a hard times growing up. I told you that I lost my parents at tender
ages. life was quite difficult for me because in most cases, I had to provide for
myself. within that stage of my life, i learned to be responsible and discplined
realizing the fact that I was on my own. all I just want is happiness and comfort.
I always pray to God that I will be patient enough till I meet the right woman for
me and when I met you, I didn't hesitate to send you a message.