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net All Rights Reserved When we first started holding our Fellatio Classes, our goal was to have every woman leave that class dying to give her man a blowjob. Thats what makes you great at it. You can have all sorts of techniques in your arsenal but if you dont enjoy giving head then theres no point in being there. We hope that these techniques and pointers, culled from feedback from our instructors, workshop attendees and men all over the country will help you see how powerful and sensual giving head can be. Its NOT just about him. If you dont like something or feel uncomfortable then say it. Communicate. Talk to your partner. Nothing builds intimacy better than effective communication and a willingness to be vulnerable. Attend a Fellatio Workshop in Your City: www.MoxieintheCity.net Take a Fellatio Teleclass Led By One of Our Instructors: http://www.moxieinthecity.net/clinics.php

Give an Award Winning Performance Dialogue, Scenic Design, Sound Effects Let him watch you before you ever even get his pants off. Make giving head a complete performance where youre the star. Set the scene with candles, strip for him slowly, caress your own body while watches. Go ahead, touch yourself. Guys are visual! It will be like watching an erotic film. Talk to him. Ask him what he wants you to do to him. Ask him if he likes what he sees. Show him how much you love your own body. Give him hints about what pleases you. Interact with him. The more he sees how much you want to give him head, the better it will be for both of you. Men want to feel as though their lovers to want to give them head. Techniques are not enough. To be great at giving head you have to love and anticipate doing it. Set your own rules. Determine what it is that you like and what you dont like. Do not ever let a man talk you in to doing something you are not comfortable with. No Teeth! - If there is one thing that you must, must, must remember about giving head its this always cover your teeth! You can trail your teeth lightly over his head or shaft, but the minute he feels your incisors coming close to his penis he will tense up. Teeth have sharp edges and even nicksthats why its so important to keep your lips firmly wrapped around your teeth. Variety Is The Spice of Life You dont have to use just your mouth when giving head. Actually, men would prefer that you didnt. Switch things up a bit. Alternate between orally stimulating him and ally stroking his shaft. Sometimes slow, sometimes fast. Lubrication is key. While there are several products on the market that you can buy, what truly works best is your own saliva. Before you take his shaft in to your mouth, wet his shaft harmonica style. Tip your head to the left or right, open your mouth and, starting at either the tip or the base, run your open

mouth up or down his shaft, letting your saliva collect in your mouth and seep out over his shaft. Hell LOVE the combination of the warmth and the wetness of your mouth. a. You can also use some kind of flavored topical gel (Good Head is a fantastic product!) and rub it on his shaft before you place him in your mouth. It will leave you with a pleasant taste and add a bit of a tingle to hisjingle. b. Go ahead. Drool. That may seem a little porn star-ish for you but guys LOVE it. Just let your mouth fill up with saliva, then lower your bottom jaw and let your saliva run over his head and shaft. Even better, as you drool over the tip/head of his penis, pull away and let a light string of saliva trail from his head (or glans) to your mouth. Its dirty in exactly the right way!

Blow It Because the shaft and glans are so sensitive, any and all slight movements can be arousing. So, alternate between soft, cool blows (as if youre trying to blow your nails dry) and warm breaths. Make eye contact as often as possible - This is the most important way to make the act of Fellatio a two-way street. You want to feel connected with your partner? Look him in the eye. You dont have to stare him down. You can look away from time to time. But definitely try to maintain eye contact for 2 second intervals from time to time. Guys like it because it lets them know that you are comfortable and willing to be doing what youre doing. If they sense hesitation of any kind, then they will immediately tense up. This could prolong their orgasm or prevent it all together. It also makes him feel like the two of you are connected and that its a loving, and not emotionless, act. Keep Him Guessing I know you think all a guy wants is a bit of a rub and a tug but thats NOT true. Dont go right for the penis! Flick the inside of his thighs. Run your nails up and down the outside of his thighs. Let your hair trail down his stomach. Maybe tease him with a few quick Blow Pop-like licks and then go back to licking and sucking his nipples or the inside of his thighs. Talk Dirty Ask him, while youre out for drinks or in the car on the ride home, if hed like for you to go down on him. Tell him youve been waiting all day to do it. Call him at work and tell him you cant wait to see him because youre dying to go down on him. Hell be so turned on with all the teasing and fantasizing that a) hell he hard and ready to go and b) hes more likely to ejaculate sooner. Breathe- If you take in a good, deep breath before going down on him, youll relax your throat muscles and gag-reflex. Practice Control One way to prevent his penis from hitting the back of your throat and triggering your gag-reflex is to wrap your hand around the base of his penis. When your lips meet your mouth youll still have about 1-3 inches before his penis is all the way in your mouth.

Wake Him Up You can still give him head if he isnt completely hard. Take his whole flaccid penis in your mouth and tighten your lips around then shaft and suck while moving your head upwards. Flick your tongue quickly over his balls. Hell be hard in no time. Under Pressure While shaft/penis can be very sensitive, its not going to break if you apply a little pressure. Alternate between a firm grip around the shaft and a loose one.

Know Your Way Around His Penis Take a look at the diagram below and familiarize yourself with the terms. Well be mentioning these terms through out this manual.

1. Rattle and Hum Slight vibrations on his shaft will definitely make him moan. Take the head of his penis in your mouth, slide your lips down about an inch and hum. Remember, all sensations are heightened when it comes to the penis because the skin is so thin. A basic Mmmmmmmm will do the trick. Plus, it will let him know how much you are enjoying pleasuring him. 2. Tongue Twisters The frenulum (the small v on the underside of the head) is the most sensitive spot on his penis. So, be sure to pay it a lot of attention! Run your tongue around and around the tip of his penis. Clockwise, then counter clockwise. Flick your tongue quickly over the head (make sure to look him right in the eye when you do it.) Place the head of his penis in your mouth (just the head!) and suck inward as if you were sipping a straw. Then flick your tongue back and forth in a z like formation over his head.

3. The Blow Pop When youre about to begin giving him head, start off the act by wrapping your hand (either one, your choice) around the head. Then, while hes either lying down or standing up, start at the testicles and lick his shaft alllll the way up. Nice and slow. (Eye contact!) Do this maybe 3 times, alternating your starting points but making sure to go from bottom to top. That will get his genitalia lubricated and his engines revving. 4. The Tongue Slap - With your mouth wide open, stick out your tongue., Then, take his penis in your hand and gently slap the bottom of his shaft/head of his shaft against your tongue. The vibrations resulting from the light slaps will send shivers up his spine. Remember, the frenulum is located on the underside of the head and its incredibly sensitive. Thats what makes this move so hot for him. This also has a tendency to speed up ejaculation. So, if your jaw is growing tired you can always try this trick and give your mouth a rest while getting him closer to the edge. 5. London Bridge While sitting up (and giving your jaw a rest) clasp your hands together as if you were praying. Then take your clasped hands and wrap them around his shaft. Slowly stroke him up and down and, while doing that, gently squeeze your hands together. Do this while stroking his shaft. Think of it as a special massage. 6. Under Your Thumb Form the letter C with your hand and place it around his shaft. The four fingers should be on the top of his penis and your thumb should be on the underside. Apply pressure with your thumb as you stroke his shaft up and down, paying close attention to the vein on the underside of his shaft. 7. Check Under The Hood Using either your thumb or your tongue, lightly run either around the head of his penis. Watch out for jagged edges on your nails! 8. Going to The Well Wrap your left hand around the base of his penis and grip lightly. Pull upwards. Just before your left hand leaves his penis, wrap your right hand around the base of his shaft and repeat the motion. As if you were pulling up a bucket full of water from a well. 9. Hand to Mouth When youre going down on him, and youve progressed to actually taking his shaft in and out of your mouth, make sure to use your hand with your mouth, Wrap your palm around his shaft (not too tight, but tight enough to simulate the tightness of your own genitalia. As your head is moving upward or down, let your hand trail along behind. That way youre adding an additional sensation to the wetness and warmth. Doing this simulates actual intercourse. Alternate the tightness of your grip. 10. Sensation-al- Remember how we talked about how thin the skin of his shaft is? Thats because all of the nerve endings are closer to the surface of the skin. Want to make moan? Take your left hand (or right, doesnt matter. Which ever youre more comfortable with) and lightly (lightly!) pull the skin of his shaft taught and hold your hand there. To give you a better idea, imagine that you are putting a condom on his penis. Slowly unrolling it, pulling it down. Thats how you should be pulling his skin, in a downward direction. Then, using your other hand, slowly stroke his shaft up and down. (This would be a good time to do a little more drooling, too.) This is a great way to give your jaw a rest, too. This is what cock rings are for, so maybe pick up one or two!

11. The Two Fisted Handshake Heres another great way to give your jaw and mouth a rest while still staying in the moment. Wrap one palm around his shaft, then the other hand. With one fist resting atop the other, begin to twist light. One first should go clockwise, the other counter clockwise. Carefuldont wring his penis as if it were a wet towel. 12. No Means No & Stir The Pot With his penis in your mouth, slowly shake your head as if you were saying no. Make sure his shaft hits all the corners of your mouth. Your mouth does not have to be tightly clamped around his penis. Leave your mouth slightly open. A variation of this is to keep his penis in your mouth and move your head in a circular motion. First clock-wise, then counter clock-wise. Add your tongue to the mix and flick it across the head of his penis while youre circling or shaking your head. 13. H2OhMyGod Keep a glass of cold water by your bed side. Put a couple ice cubes in the water. Before you take his shaft in your mouth, take a sip of the cold water and tip your head back to keep it there in the back of your throat. Then take his penis in your mouth and let his shaft dip into the cold water. The Boys, The Twins..You Know What We Mean If there is one thing that is universally asked for by men during oral sex it is Ball-Play. Alternate licks from the shaft to the balls. One great trick is to trace a figure 8 with your tongue over his balls. And, like you did with the tip if his penis, flick your tongue quickly and lightly (almost barely touching them) over his sac. Trace your tongue up and down the seam of his sac. Lightly handle the testicles while you have his shaft in your mouth. Slight tugs are also good but be gentle! Take each ball in your mouth and flick your tongue back and forth over it. Suck and nibble on each ball lightly while you have it in your mouth. Run your finger nail (watch for jagged edges) lightly over the inseam of his groin. (The place between his groin and his thigh.) 14. The Squeeze Just as hes about to climax, gently squeeze his scrotum. It will send him over the top! 15. Deep Throating believe it or not, guys do not actually expect women to deep throat. If you like a challenge, then you can certainly give it a go. Remember to breathe through your nose and SLOWLY take him inside your mouth. Once youve hit limit, your gag reflex will kick in. Taking it further requires practice. Dont expect to get it the first time out. Just take a little bit more in each time. Youll build up your gag reflex and will eventually be able to take him further in to the back of your throat. You can, however, perform a fake deep throat. While youre taking him in deeper, flatten your tongue vertically until his penis hits it. This will appear to alter the depth of your mouth and hell think youve got him further back than hes used to. 16. Ah One and Ah Two and Ah Three This is a three part techniques that should be performed in unison. Part one is taking the glans (or head) in to your mouth and roll it around, Part two is stroking his shaft up and down while rolling the head of his penis in your mouth and Part three is massaging his testicles. Youre hitting every possible hot spot. 17. Fish Face This is where you take the head in your mouth and suck as hard as possible, as if youre drinking from a straw and youve hit the bottom of the glass. Just be sure that your teeth are covered! To add some extra oomph, while sucking inward (like if you were doing a fish imitation) flick your tongue quickly over the tip of his shaft.

18. Over The Edge One way to make his climax more intense is to bring him close to ejaculating, the stopping or slowing down your movements. Wait a bit, keep things slowed down for a minute, then go back at it at a quicker pace. Then slow down again. Make sure to pay close attention to his non-verbal cues. Listen to his breathing. Is it becoming labored or heavy? Then hes getting close to climaxing. Have his moans increased or become more like growls? Have his hips begun to move as if hes simulating actual intercourse? Hes almost there, baby! 19.A Different Kind of Pearl Necklace Wear a string of pearls (or have one close to yoru bed or around your wrist.) While giving him head, sit up and let him watch you take the necklace off or retrieve it from where ever it is. Then, gently wrap the necklace around his shaft. Wrap it around until the whole string is around his penis. Then, wrap your hand around the pearls and slowly stroke up and down, keeping the pearls between your palm and his shaft. 20. The He-Spot Like women, men have their own version of the G-Spot. For men, its the prostate. The prostate is located inside the anus, right behind the perineum. To stimulate the prostate, slide a lubricated finger inside the anus (warn him first!) and wiggle it as if you were telling him to come here. If you do this while he is on the brink of orgasm it can intensify his climax. Now, not every guy is comfortable with manual/digital stimulation of their anus. This isnt something you should surprise him with. You can also stimulate this spot externally. Seconds before he comes, run the ball of your index finger up and down the skin between his testicles and his anus. Apply just a slight bit of pressure.

Swallowing Swallowing isnt for everyone. Thats why its very important, before things get too heated, to make sure you tell your lover whether or not you plan on swallowing. Guys are always willing to give a woman a signal to let them know when their about to come. Sometimes theyre just so turned on that they get lost in the moment and forget. One sign to look for is the tightening of his testicles. They almost appear to shrink a bit. Thats because they are getting ready to produce ejaculate/semen and are bringing the fluid closer to the ureter (the tube that transports urine and semen to the little blow hole at the tip of his penis.) His perineum (the taint or space between his testicles and the base of his penis) will also throb a bit just before he climaxes. Why Men Love It Swallowing ejaculate was symbolic. It was a sign of total love and acceptance of your partner. It drew the two lovers closer. As far as how it feels, men equate coming in your mouth to coming in your vagina during intercourse. The warmth, the wetness, the tightness. But what they truly love about it is that it makes them feel as though youre not disgusted by it and them. Running to the bathroom to spit it out, which is absolutely your right and your call, makes them feel a bit abandoned. Let Him Arrive All Over You Although most men prefer that women swallow because it makes them feel more accepted and loved, theyll certainly settle for some of the following variations:

 Let him ejaculate on to your face. Again, its a bit porn-star-ish but thats what they love about it. Just watch your eyes! Semen can sting. Finish him off with a hand job. Tell him you love to watch him erupt. Keep a Wet Ones cloth nearby so you can wipe your hand. Let him come on his own stomach, then gently and tenderly wipe him clean with a warm wash cloth. Remember, they dont want to feel like youre disconnected from them. Nor do they want to think youre disgusted by their ejaculate. Theyre Not Just For Minty Fresh Breath One way to improve the taste of his semen is to pop a Tic Tac in your mouth before giving him head. You can also try an Altoid or Halls cough drop but keep in mind that they contain a high level of menthol. If his penis is chaffed, that menthol could end up burning his skin. The menthol from the Altoid/Halls trick can also give him a little extra tingling sensation. If the taste of his semen is just too much for you, ask him to make some dietary changes like adding pineapple, kiwi or strawberries to his diet and lightening up on the more acidic/malodorous foods like asparagus and fish.

Bitter & Sweet The bitter taste buds are located further to the back of your tongue. So, if possible, try to catch his come on the front of your tongue where the sweet taste buds are. Try to collect all of his semen in your mouth and swallow in one quick gulp.

Mirror, Mirror Want to make your own porn movie without worrying if it will show up on the internet? Perform oral sex on him while in front of a mirror. The best position is to have him laying down on his back and you in the reverse missionary position. Make sure he can watch your head movements and see his penis disappearing in and out of your mouth. Crouching Tiger/Hidden Dragon Have him stand up against the wall. Kiss him, then begin kissing a trail down his chest. Slowly lower yourself until your head is level with his penis. You dont have to kneel at his feet. You can crouch down while you perform. An added suggestion? Wear nothing but a pair of high heels while youre in this position. The Ladle This position simulates a ladle being dipped in to hot soup. He kneels at your head, to the side and dips his penis in to your mouth as you lie on your back. The Straddle Have him place his knees on either side of your body, closer to your shoulders. Have him slowly feed you his penis. Put a pillow under your head so you can incorporate in hand techniques.

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Cockrings A cockring allows a mans shaft to stay harder longer. It also helps keep the skin on the shaft taut so that sensations are heightened and intensified. Great for giving hand jobs because hell feel every up and down stroke times ten! They come in either rubber or metal and can be purchased for $5-$20 dollars. http://www.nawtythings.com/

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