So tell me when traveling do you travel alone or you like traveling with a
Companion?
I love traveling with my son, because he is my only family that I have now.
Describe the perfect vacation you have had?
Flying to Paris, then taking a train through France, Switzerland, Italy,
Yugoslavia, and Greece. Then spending 1 month on Santorini a Greek Island together
with my kids. I had the time of my life, and these are my fondest memories. I will
do it again.
If you are found guilty of a crime, would you admit yourself and accept your
mistakes?
I will admit my self, accept my mistakes, and face the consequences, because I am a
God fearing man, and I do abide to the truth.
Do you believe in true love? And do you think you can be trusted by your man?
Yes of course I can be trusted, because I am ready to open up my mind and my heart
and also lay down my life for the woman I love.
In a relationship how do you see a situation whereby the woman earns more money
than the man?
A good relationship where two lovers understand each other, they're concerned for
each other and they respect one another, I don�t think that there will be problem
about that, to me is no problem as far as they both love and understand their
selves.
Do you like holding hands and exchanging casual kisses with your partner?
I like anything that has to do with romance; Holding hands, cuddling, kissing,
looking into each others eyes and talking about anything and everything. Being open
and honest, no lying or playing games. Making each other happy makes a relationship
work. Give and take equally.
Marriage they say "Is For Better, For Worse" do you believe in this principle?
Yes, I do believe in that, because that is where you have to show that you love
your partner very much.
Do you like to re-marry again?
I can remarry again when she love me and love my son so much that she care about
the family been together as one.
Do you really believe that you can possibly find that special man you would like to
spend the rest of your life with someday?And If I you are at a loose end what are
some of the following things you do?
Yeah i believe and have faith and i know it's going to happen and i will pray over
it because i know nothing is too big or small for God too handle okay.
What is your favourite book? Well the bible and Maggie Cassidy: A Love Story Maggie
Cassidy is the love interest of a teenage boy growing up in Lowell, MA. The base is
a basic adolescent love story in a New England mill town.
What motivates and gives you inspirations in life?
I'm motivated by life itself, because life is what you made out of it. God our
father in heaven inspires me so much with his love and mercies that he shows us
each passing day. My sons also inspires me too, because they makes me happy and I
am so glad having them in my life.
How do you feel when someone upset you? And what will you do to calm yourself down?
I do feel unhappy for that moment; go to quite place and listening to a cool music
that will calm me down.
If you could change something about yourself, what would it be & why?
I would change how I tend to dwell on the past, because it's really dragging me
down lately. Our experiences in life made us who we are. No one is free from
difficult times in life or what some may call baggage. How you've dealt with those
experiences will determine if you're damaged or resilient. I'm a prime example of
resilient and not looking to do damage control. I understand everyone has old
baggage, but I want someone who has put the old baggage up for old memories and is
ready to create new memories. Life is short and you never know about tomorrow, so
if you want to live life "like there is no tomorrow.
Who is your mentor?
My mentor is my late dad, he was a nice, caring and understanding dad, who loves
and take good care of his family, he always speaks the truth and he is a self
discipline man, my dad is ready to risk everything he has for his loved ones, but I
do feel the pain because he never lived to enjoy me, he was really the best dad in
the world. He always tells me that uneasy lies the head that wears the crown, so
for you to be successful in life you have to face some challenges.
What languages can you speak? Which would you like to learn?
I speak English fluently and understand little Italian, hoping to learn more
Italian and Spanish when I have the chance to.
What do you think is the biggest mistake that men/women make in their
relationships?
Not trusting, understanding and trying to find time and share things with each
others.
Describe some of the most important things in your life?
My son happiness and I having a complete family is the most important thing I pray
for in my life.
What are the five most important things in your at this point of time in your life?
God, my son, health, living to help others without asking for anything in return.
Finally living long enough to tell you that I think you are great. Remember this. I
live to help and if you ever need my help anytime anyday, I am here for you.
If you see somebody you don't know who needs help, would you be of any support?
Yes I would help in anyway, because God in heaven says it is good to help those
that are in need and he loves a cheerful giver. I think it's important to have
compassion for others in need of help. I have a good and caring heart. I don't like
arrogance or to be selfish. It's the strangest thing, but kindness attracts
kindness, like whenever I see someone�s car got broke down, I always love to help
and assist that person, because when mine also gets broke down or I had a flat tire
someone always has come to my rescue.
Do you any tattoos and body piercings?
I don't have any tattoo nor piercing, but if my partner is okay with the idea of me
having any of that on me then that's cool...Lol.
So tell me; what are some of the places you have visited?
I have been out of the States several times on different occasion, maybe on a work
trip, or vacation trip. My work has too
So tell me how big is your family? I mean how many brothers and sisters you have?
What about your parents?
I am from a very big and quiet family, although my dad is dead, I was the only kid
that they had. Lost my Dad January 1981. My kids to me are like my mother, my
brother and my friends. The reason why I say that is, because they are the only
family I've got now, and that is due to the fact that my parents brought me up not
knowing any of their parents or relatives; they told me that they had issues with
their family not giving approval of their marriage or even supported them at that
time they both wanted to get married. So, they lived their life off them, raising
me to be a man away from their family for years. But I have been keeping tabs on
finding my roots, though work has not been giving me the best of time to relax and
do that, but I have made up my mind that I will be giving it a full time finding my
relatives when I have settled down with a woman by my side that will be ready to go
with me on such trips.
So tell me what do you do for a living?
I work with Rig 6 Drilling Unit, as a Rig Departmental Supervisor Sole Contractor
in Supply of Crude Oil [Chemicals] for refining: I guess you know about the Rig,? A
Rig is a platform built in the middle of a sea or shore, to drill crude oil
beneath the earth surface and refine the crude oil to various stages to obtain gas
and other fuel substance for the final consumers to use. A Rig is of two type.
Offshore and Onshore Rig. Offshore Rig is located in the middle of the sea while
Onshore Rig is located along the shore of the Sea, Land.A Rig Engineer develops,
plans, costs, schedules and supervises the operations necessary to the process of
drilling & refining crude oil, from initial Raw Level to the completion and Final
level. Their role can involve administering, drilling and service contractor's. Rig
engineers work with other professionals, such as geologists and geoscientists, to
monitor drilling progress, oversee safety management and ensure the protection of
the environment.
What are your goals or dreams in life?
My goals and dreams in life is to have a complete family with a loving and caring
woman by my side, having a registered company of my own that will deal into buying
and selling of Industrial, FPSO Materials to Offshore and Onshore Fabrication
companies, and also watching my kids to become a grown up man and woman someday.
What are your likes and dislikes?
I like real things; I like honesty, truthful and caring person. I dislike anything
having to do with; dramas, deceit, cheating, lies, disrespect and racism,
quarreling and argument, because all that turns me off. I just want someone that
will love me for me, regardless of age, distance, language barrier, cultural
differences and all that. Because I do believe love knows no barriers and is the
conqueror of it all and all things.
what kind of a man are you looking for?
Truthfulness and respect. It really makes me get closer to a lady is the person
inside; I do considers that more important because beauty fades with time but the
person inside appreciates with time. I go for the inner beauty; it radiates and it
speaks for itself over time and for a woman like you who is family oriented is an
added advantage to me.
How often do you like to go out; I mean going partying?
I do not go out partying often that much ever since I lost my late wife, because
going out alone seems not enjoyable to me, so the few time that I go out must be
with my kid or whenever I am in town alone, it gets boring when I'm the only one
cooking for myself at home, so I always take a drive around the city, having a
taste of the restaurants around. There is this nice Italian Restaurant not too far
from where I live and they call it Maria's Italian Kitchen. I love their Pasta and
they cook well. I will be looking forward to go out with that special lady and
eating her meals someday.
Do you smoke cigarettes or drink alcohol or do drugs?
I am a normal guy; I do not take drugs to keep me on track. I had never smoked in
my life neither used drugs and never pretend too, because it's not for me. If I
drink alcohol; well I drink socially, if I go out with some friends and they are
drinking something light its okay.
What�s your favorite drink?
My favorite drinks are Red Wines, but I prefer Champagne more likely.
So tell me; what is your favorite food?
My favorite food is Pasta and Fried Chicken. I love to cook great home made meals
and try new recipes when I am in town with my kids. I also love to exercise and the
importance of being healthy and eating healthy. Would like a lady to cook with!
What�s Your Favorite colors?
My favorite colors are both white and red, because the white stands for a pure
heart and the red stands for love, so when you add the both of them together you
have a pure hearted love, that is me because I do have a pure heart for love.
What are your favorite movies?
Titanic is my favorite movie.
What are your favorite TV Shows?
Action movies
What brand of music do you like?
R and B
Do you have a favorite musician in particular?
Don Williams is my favorite and he is a nice artist who inspires me in terms of
music for that he is my number one musician.
What about your favorite music band?
Mine is ABBA
So what do you expect from your man?
I want you to treat me right, be truthful and honest with me, because I do believe
in the gospel truth and that is I want a long term relationship with someone real.
I am in search of true love and happiness with the right lady. I desire to shower
the real lady with lots of love, respect, loyalty, happiness and care.
Do you like sports? And if you do, what is your favorite sports and sports teams
you support?
I have a passion for sports and my favorite sport is Football(Soccer) But I also
like, Basketball, Baseball, Tennis and Golf, because they are my sports choice.
Manchester United football club is my favorite Football(Soccer) Team and I have
been a fan since the 90's. I love their pattern of playing and whenever I am free
from work, I like taking my kids alongside with me to go and watch their game in
the City of Manchester, UK.
What positive lessons have you learned from your past relationships that will help
you succeed in future relationships?
Well i have learn to me very kind and sweet to my woman and also treat her like a
queen and make her smile and love every moment she is with me..
Have you forgiven all the past relationship and those that have offended you or
hurt you in the past?
Yeah i have and the past is past and we have to face our future and make it real
okay.
This is a very funny question, How old were you when you first fell in love?
Well i was 20years old when i first fell in love and i had my kiss when i was
18years old with my classmate and it was so sweet..lol
where is one place you did like to visit that you haven't gotten the opportunity to
see?
Well that special place is where Jesus was born.
I am a very honest man who would like to meet that special someone to share life's
adventures with. I'm searching for a car
What is your present relationship status? Do you have kids?
I am a widowed man with two lovely and God fearing kids most of all they are very
funny little kids with a good ambition.It has been hard for me since I lost my late
wife in a car accident last 3years ago, however I've managed to fight life as it
maybe, with the fact of losing my late wife and acting as a father and mother to my
daughters for the past years, but I thought I wasn't giving my kids the best they
deserve, because I feel they are still at the stage of life where they needs
motherly love and advice, of which I can't offer them and that is one of the major
reason I came online looking for the right lady.
So tell me where are you chatting from?
Well am originally from Madrid, Spain but i relocated Nebraska after the death of
my late dad dewto some issues we where having with my dad relatives they took all
that we had and left i and my mum with nothing before relocated to North Carolina
ever since the death of my late wife but am currently having my last and retirement
contract here in Canada and will be coming back home soon miss my kids so much and
can't wait to meet them and put smiles on their faces and have fun with them with
my life partner.
So tell me for how long have you been on this social media site?
I am new to online dating, registered some days back a friend of mine did introduce
me into this and i have my faith and believe that am gonna find my life partner
here because he did and he has three kids now and living happy with his family,
just decided to give it a try and I contacted you. I really do not have so many
clues on how online dating is done.
I just want us to be open and honest with each other here okay, So, when was the
last relationship you had before now and share with me what actually went wrong in
your last relationship before you came online?
After the death of my late wife, I stayed 2 year and five months alone, that was
where I met this lady named Ana; She was from Wyoming, I thought I was going to get
married to her, due to the fact that we stayed 3 months together. The relationship
ended, because I caught her in bed with another man and I later found out that she
has been lying and cheating on me, so I had no other option than quitting the
relationship and it hurts me so much. I am a very comprehensive person. When there
is something wrong with my relationship, I don�t fight, and be hysterical. I like
to talk, for I believe that a better conversation is always the best solution for
everything, but of course with every experience you learn more how to deal, and
always there is something new to you discover. So since then I have been single.
Just recently decided to give online dating a try with the hopes of meeting the
right lady for me and my kids.
How has your present marital life affected you so far?
Been lonely has affected me a lot, because me living alone with my kids without a
woman to call my wife, it is not making me happy, and I know my kids also are not
happy rather, because they has no one to call a mother. I need a woman who will
take me and my kids to be her husband and children, also make me happy for the rest
of my life and I will do the same to her and her kids. I am widower who does not
want to spend life alone. Life is too short for regrets.
Do you believe in distance relationship?
Yes, I do believe in distance relationship, because if there is love, trust,
understanding with good and steady communication between two partners, I do not see
any obstruction caused by the distance and I feel that when they do believe in one
another; Allowing their love bond grow by staying truthfully committed and honest
to each other it will become a perfect relationship. For I believe true love knows
no distance.
Are you willing to relocate if you find your soul mate?
For sure, I will love to relocate anywhere in this world to be with my soul-mate,
but if she would love to move in with me that's fine, or if she wants us both to
move into a new home, to have a fresh start building our lives together, that will
be totally fine with me. I want a conversation with a lady that will enjoy making
out time getting to talk with me and know me better.
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What are Your Hobbies?
Well, I have a lot of stuffs that I enjoy doing as hobbies, so you can either catch
me; cooking, reading, swimming, walking along the beach, painting, playing
checkers, scrabbling. I love the outdoors mountain biking, camping, fishing,
horseback riding, outdoor or indoor photography, spending some time out with my
friends or my son; like going to concerts, cinemas and seeing good comedies. But
mostly when I am free from work and doing nothing; I enjoy myself cuddling up with
a glass of champagne while reading a nice magazine and listening to a cool music;
that easily gives me peace of mind and also a nice time of relaxation. How do you
normally spend your leisure time?
What's your religion?
My mom had me baptized in Pentecostal church, but she was good Christian and my
father just believed in God. Let's say that
