About Bar searching:

I am not really into the bar/club scene to meet someone for a lasting relationship.
They usually never work out. Don't get me wrong I do enjoy going out to have a good
time but not every weekend.....I believe that you can have fun doing almost
anything as long as you enjoy the people that you are with. Life is too short not
to enjoy it! i would Like to know what

About work
I am an independent contractor working in Sdp Consulting engineering Ltd.I am also
into sale and supply of electrical material within and out side London.Here is my
company website.www.sdpce.co.uk

About my wife and Luca:

I have only one son and his name is jackson and he will be 4 years old by 19th of
December.I lost my late wife in a child birth of my lovely son jackson.It was a bad
moment for me.I have been a dad and a mum for some years.I do every human possible
to make him smile in other for him not miss the absence of his late mum.I have been
a single ever since i lost my late wife because of the love and respect i have for
my late wife and her existing family.

ABOUT MARY AND MARTHA

i have two kids there are names Mary and martha and there well be 11 years old by
April .I lost my late wife in a child birth of my lovely kids Mary and martha. It
was a bad moment for me.I have been a dad and a mum for 11 years.I do every human
possible to make them smile in other for them not miss the absence of there late
mum.I have been a single ever since i lost my late wife because of the love and
respect i have for my late wife and her existing family

ABOUT CHLOE.................
I have only one daugther and her name is Chloe and she will be 4 years old by 29th
of June.I lost my late wife in a child birth of my lovely daugther Chloe.It was a
bad moment for me.I have been a dad and a mom for four years.I do every human
possible to make her smile in other for her not miss the absence of her late mum.I
have been a single ever since i lost my late wife because of the love and respect i
have for my late wife and her existing family.

ABOUT SARA
I have only one daughter and her name is sara and she will be 13 years old by 19th
of june.I lost my late wife in a child birth of my lovely daughter.It was a bad
moment for me.I have been a dad and a mum for 13 years.I do every human possible to
make her smile in other for her not miss the absence of her late mum.I have been a
single ever since i lost my late wife because of the love and respect i have for my
late wife and her existing family.

ABOUT SARA AND lUCA

i have two kids there are names SARA and Luca and there well be 11 years old by
21st feburey.I lost my late wife in a child birth of my lovely kids Mary and Luca.
It was a bad moment for me.I have been a dad and a mum for 11 years.I do every
human possible to make them smile in other for them not miss the absence of there
late mum.I have been a single ever since i lost my late wife because of the love
and respect i have for my late wife and her existing family

About Friendship:
I am trying to change my pattern of jumping into serious relationships. I'm trying
to move slowly and not rush things. Please don't take my hesitation as lack of
interest. I want to be sure before I commit to someone. I want to take a lot of
time to get to know you before I get serious. I want to concentrate on the
friendship aspect first without taking away from the passion.

About soul mate:

I think that I'm ready to find my soul mate. Other times I wonder if a soul mate
really exists. I've been in love numerous times. I really want the real thing. I am
a very organized, hard-working person who is very dedicated to my job. I take my
job seriously however, sometimes I need to be distracted! :)

About distance and age:

Mind you Distance and Age is Nothing to me cause I believe that distance between
two hearts is not an obstacle, rather a beautiful reminder of just how strong true
love can be and Age is a Number but Love makes the strongest man weak and the
weakest heart strong and also Love gives you courage, being loved gives you
strength.
Distance cannot and will not hurt a bond between two people that is based on mutual
respect,trust commitment and love

About how i know you:

Good morning sweetie,how was your night?I was searching for a childhood friend by
the name Nicole who live in the same neighbourhood with me.She left with her family
to Netherland and i never met her.Once i set my eyes on your profile pic my heart
started beating fast.You are so beautiful and you are a duplicate of angel.I would
love to be your friend and i hope i am not too late

How truthful i'm:

I am exceptionally honest, open, up front, direct, assertive. If I even suspect
that someone is lying to me, I walk away. There are so many women and I'm a great
catch that I don't need to waste my time on someone who isn't completely truthful,
totally interested, and kind-hearted. I don't like dishonesty - even small things.
If I accidentally walk out of a store with a pack of gum I didn't purchase, I go
right back in and pay for it. If someone gives me too much change, I correct them.
I am honest regardless of the consequences and regardless of whether someone is
watching.

About my humanitarian character:

I am very responsible and enjoy helping others. Nothing makes me happier than to
help someone out and make them smile! I am sincere in actions and words. I love to
learn new things. I enjoy spending time with people and I don't really care what I
am doing as long as I am having fun with people. I enjoy laughing and having fun
and I think I am pretty funny! :) Guess you will have to find out!

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what are your like and dislike?
I enjoy the simplest things in life. I love the outdoors and feel fortunate to be
able to experience all four seasons. I like to go camping, gaze at the stars on a
clear night, take walks just to enjoy nature and scenic drives to nowhere.I dislike
dishonesty with passion.I go far from any one i found telling lies.I believe
honesty is the best policy.

what is your favorite activities:

my favorite activities are basically anything to do with being outdoors..camping is
one of my favorite things sw

What are your hobby?

cooking is one of my Major hobby, i also i love swimming, reading, I like
singing,and dancing.

What do you do for fun?

I enjoy simple things such as walking bare foot on the grass and listening to the
birds singing and the branches and the leaves on the trees moving, while i feel the
warm sun on my skin and look at its brightness, the blue sky and how beautiful the
colors around me are.I like riding bicycles listening to different kinds of music:
rock in general, jazz, some country music, romantic,instrumental and classic even
though I really don't know names of interpreters or melodies of these last two, In
English or Italian.. I like watching Good movies too.I love playing and watching
sports, singing and playing music, listening to music, watching TV, reading news in
internet, traveling and taking pictures.I like some outdoor activities as well. I
have more fun with more people.

please tell me your favorite season?

My favorite season, is a spring! I love spring because in the spring all is comes
to life, the nature wakes up after winter, the cheerful rivers flow, trees become
covered by green foliage. I think it is fine! In the spring all receives a new
life. Also I like summer because it is very warm in the summer, it is possible to
bathe, visit a beach, to sunbathe.

about drink:
I don't get drunk when I go "out" with the friends, bc drunk ppl (even me) can do
stupid stuff. I don't put myself in situations that a woman will have even a chance
to make a pass at me. So I can promise beyond all doubt that I will not cheat on my
partner

About religious belief:

I don't think religion is a breaking point of any relationship .I evaluate people
by their actions rather than their beliefs , Since you support any belief, I don't
think we will have any conflict as long as one of us does not force the other to
believe in a certain way.

About cheating:
One last thing, I can say without a shadow of a doubt that I will not cheat on
someone I am committed to. I will not even kiss another woman. I hesitate to even
ride alone in a car unless I know they are trustworthy and my significant other is
aware of it and ok with it. I have strong boundaries when it comes to protecting my
relationship.

what did you do at your leisure time?

i can sing for my supper if need be and I love to play Guitar and at my Leisure
time..
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What's being single like?
To me it's both, a sense of accomplishment , independence, and free.Sometimes
easier to make decisions, which may be good, I think; yet it is also hard because
of the lack of emotional support, very lonely all the time. It okay's because I can
concentrate my energy toward my career and life goals.However, I always want
someone with whom I can share my dream and thoughtfulness and she also wants to
share hers with me.It is very important to have a balance in life.

What do you seek for in a relationship?

I'd love to meet a good woman to spend time together and get to know each other.
Share who we are and what we like to enjoy the best in this life.I'll try to tell
you in general what I would like my princess to be like. I want her to be cheerful.
She may get upset or even mad, but not everyday. I need her communicate with me and
listen to me too, especially when things are not working in the relationship or in
the family..She would love me even though at times she didn�t understand me. I
would like her to enjoy going out at times, but other times may just prefer to stay
at home with me embracing each other. She has to be hard working and family
oriented, loving children is a must. Hard working,passionate, but also tender would
be wonderful.The list can go on and on, and if you notice, some of the things are
so very important like communicating with each other, loving one another in a way
and quantity that whatever is wrong or bad, we work it out. These two I consider
the most important

What sort of relationship you seek for?

I seek a relationship where both of us are worth the same as humans and partners
who commit to one another for love by own free will. A relationship built upon
trust, communication, respect, support, fairness, companionship,sharing ideas,
sharing good moments and bad moments as well. I expect being together forever and
grow old raising a beautiful happy, loving family.When i decide to marry a woman,
it means I have a firm commitment to build a better life with her.I want a sincere
and eternal relationship that each is willing to share everything. No lying. No
secret.Be there for the other in both good and bad time.To achieve that, a true
friendship and a true love must exist.

What are the basic qualities you seek for in a man?

A loving intelligent woman and wonderful caring loving tender but firm mother.A
partner, a best friend, cheerful, strong, hard working, tender,
passionate,dedicated, with great moral values, family oriented.

How do you treat your man?

I treat her like my most precious gift from heaven other than my family . I give my
woman the place she has in my life, a unique one, my beloved and admired one. I
adore her and look forward to make her drams come true along with mine.With
unconditional love. With sincerity, honesty, fairness, respect and caring. These
are my values that I apply to every person as well.

Would you hit or slap your man for any reasons?

NO, that's a big NO to me. I rather walk out or leave if it is the only way out
from hitting a woman. So when talking, discussing, explaining, requesting,demanding
and everything else fails to communicate an idea, need or desire,people need a
space and time out to cool down, and look for a possible different solution to the
problem when anger is under control.

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How did you handle your problem?
I always would rather talk out a problem than hold it in.

For how long have you being operating this account?

I signed up online because of several things. First, I'm not into the bar or club
scene and don't feel that is the most appropriate place to meet someone.

Do you do things according to a plan?

Yea.. I do Plan My schedule so much ..so I do things according to my plan for that
day ...So , I try to but as you know in life there are a great deal of things that
we have no control over and we must be able to adjust or plans, life accordingly.

Do you take time out for others. ?yea , I do create time for others when they need
me ..I think that it is very important to take the time to appreciate others.
Do you feel unable to deal with things. ?Nope , cos I believe that all things is
been created by God and he would always make every possible ..
Do you love to help others ? Yes, I feel that there is something to be said when
you can help others and expect nothing in return.
Do you seek adventure ? I do believe so adventure is all about taking chance sand
trusting those around you. So for me meeting you could be considered an adventure.
Now the more risk taking the behavior is the more I would have to learn that things
will be ok.

Do you often leave a mess in my room ? Nope,I try not to, I do believe that there
is something to be said for clean and organized areas but I would prefer to spend
time taking care of my family and clean up afterward.

Do you often carry the conversation to a higher level ?yea , I love to Carry Our
Conversation to High Level , i men beyond our imagination..What do you think?
Do you get stressed out easily ? Nope,No not really, when I get stressed out i like
to talk the issues through with someone so that I can understand them better.

Do you often make others feel good ? Yea,I aways try my best in making others feel
good and important. Sometimes something as simple as a smile and saying hi to
someone can make a difference in their day.
Do you good at analyzing problems ? yes, many people have told me that I am
considered a "what if" type of person.
Do you usually stand up for myself ?Normally I do stand up for myself but if it
means that I'm truly going to hurt someone by what I say or think it makes it very
difficult and then I try to think things through before I say anything.
Do you easily discouraged ? No, it takes alot to discourage me from doing things
can you handle a lot of information ? yea
Do you waste your time ?I try not to but I do think that depends on what you
define as important.
Do you catch on to things quickly ? yea ,in most cases
Do you usually wait for others to lead the way ? Yea,It depends on the situation if
I'm not comfortable I will let others take the lead. If I'm confident and trust the
person I'm with then I 'am ok with "leading the way." In a friendship and dating
relationship I would like to think it works both ways. What about you?
Do you love order and regularity ?I like to have order and regularity but that's
not always the way life goes so I feel like you must be ok with adjusting to the
situation. What do you think?
Do you often do nice things for people ? I try to do nice things for others without
thinking that I should receive anything.
Do you get angry easily ?No, it takes a great deal to make me frustrated or angry.
I feel like one should be able to talk things through.....
Do you enjoy mingling with people on social occasions ?sometimes it is difficult
for me because I tend to observe and then interact. I guess you could say I can be
shy and then warm up to people and unfamiliar situations.
Do you satisfied with your level of emotional development ?Given all that I have
experienced in life I would say yes. I also believe that there is always room to
grow
Can you be able to express myself in unique ways (e.g., words, music, art) ?At
times I will struggle with expressing myself but I get there sometimes it does take
someone helping me by talking things through. As to creativity, um I would say I'm
just me I like music and some art but can I play an instrument yes
Do your personal religious beliefs are important to you ? yes because they help
define who you are as a person. As I think your beliefs would be important to you.
Do you have a high desire for sexual activity ?yes, with that being said you should
know I'm a very affectionate person.
It is easy for you to engage in conversations with people you have just met ?not
always the easy time I have talking with someone I just met is you. I think it is
because I truly believe you are interested in what I have to say.
Do you greatly appreciate the physical beauty of the opposite sex ? yea,I do not
feel that physical beauty is the most important part of a person. I do want you to
know your smile and eyes got my attention.
Do you ask questions in search of information ? yes in most cases.What about you?It
is important for you to take time to "smell the roses" ?I do feel it is important
to smell the roses. I think in some case I need a friendly reminder to do just
that.
Do you need to spend time creating things to feel satisfied ?no if you are not in
control of a situation ? Will you Leave or Not ?um-mm...it depends on the situation
alot of times I'm ok with not being in control. i would leave if there was a
chance or threat of violence to myself or others.
Do your friends come to you when they are in difficult times because they know you
can handle emotional crisis ?In most cases they do they look for me to support them
and care about them.
Do you think it is important to express your feelings whether they are positive or
negative ?yes I feel it is very important because even if they are negative
thoughts/feelings there is a respectful way to deal with it. Plus if you ignore
what the problem is it will only get worse and someones feeling will get hurt.
Do you prefer not to be around people who have emotional swings ? I like to think
that even when people are having emotional swings you should be there to help them
through it unless they ask to give them their personal space then that is what
needs to be done. I would like you to know that if emotional swings includes
yelling screaming and hitting would have a very difficult time with that because I
do not think that is any way to deal with things.
Do you try to accommodate the other person's position ?Yes, I think that in every
relationship that works both ways. What do you think.
Do you try to be respectful of all opinions different from your own ? yes,every
person is unique and your difference allow a person to learn and grow.
Do you try to resolve the conflict quickly ? yes, I do not like when others are mad
at me in general that tells me someones feelings were hurt.
Do you try to avoid disagreement ? I try to let my opinion be known if someone
takes issue with that I prefer they talk to me about it. Sometimes when someone
else can provide a different point of view it makes all the difference in the world

what is your idea about life partner:

I don't know about life partner. If I find her, then I will be happy. If I don't,
then I will be happy. I deeply want to find somebody that I can live in harmony
with, share our lives, support each other, lift each other up when we're down,
spoil one another, be on the same team, facing the world together as a united
front, enjoying all the crazy opportunities that come along, cheering each other to
the finish line, picking up the pieces together when things don't go the way we
hoped, loving and respecting each other unconditionally. I really, really, really
need someone who speaks kindly to me, who listens, respects, and believes in me. I
have been nice to people my whole life and I really deserve to be treated the same
way.

love and expectation:

I am not too sure that I am missing anything or anyone. I'm really happy,
fulfilled, and content. What I really want is someone who will wrap her arms around
me, tell me she loves me unexpectedly, stroke my hair, tell me she believes in me,
want to spend her days and nights with me even when it's boring or a drag, someone
who will make me a cup of tea or pot of soup when I am sick, all the things I'd do
for her in a heartbeat. I'm not really lonely. I have a lot of close friends. I
yearn for something deeper, almost spiritual, truly meaningful.

If you treat me like a king,i will treal like a queen:

It hurt me when I lost My late wife and I'm looking for someone that can be
respectful, sincere, loving and passionate and most important just real!! I will
treat you like a Queen if you treat me like a king!! It's a 2 way street! I'm
different than most guys that you have met before i Guess .... and i know this,
that's why I'm looking for someone sweet, like me! I'm not arrogant just
confident..I don't know how far you are from me but as long as your not on the
other side of the world anything is possible cos I'm looking for someone special
to share my life with..

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Can you love this me even though you continue talking to me ???
I sure can do that and lots of many other things. I can love you even more because
I continue talking to you,
What is love to you?To me, love is a feeling of selflessness, of no more me and me,
but you and me.Which implies thinking of the other person and yourself too of
course, but many times willingness to sacrifice oneself for the one that you love.
For me this applies not only to couples but also family, relatives, friends and
even other people.Love is giving and forgiving. Give without requiring a return.
Forgive no matter how painful it is or how stupid the mistake is.When one is sick,
the other is always at bed side.Always think and do whatever to make the other
happy