Kryeziu 2
Kryeziu 2
Sindorela Doli-Kryeziu
Assoc. Prof. Dr., University of Gjakova "Fehmi Agani". Kosova
Abstract
A fairy tale as a form of a cultural code is the most important tool for cultural
and ethnic socialization, the transfer of social experience, values, and
worldview. Modern society is characterized by a high level of
technologization, standardization, and universalization of the
communication process which leads to the formation of new social practices
of communication of various social groups. The article is focused on
highlighting the functional and activity role of a fairy tale in the formation of
the social memory of the younger generation and the features of the
implementation of intergenerational communication through the fairy tale.
Communication is a powerful mechanism to live a life of harmony, impact
and emotional resilience. Effectively conveying your thoughts into words
that build trust and influence has the ability to dramatically shift the course
of your life. Think about some of the most legendary people that have lived
on this planet. In modern society, the range of communication agents in the
transmission of social experience between generations has significantly
expanded. There appear agents of non-family communication, which take
part in the transmission of cultural memory and the formation of memory
places in the younger generation.
Keywords: fairy tale, socialization, communication, education, culture.
Introduction
“If you want your children to be intellogent, read fairy tales to them. If you want them
be more intelligent, read them more fairy tales.” - Albert Einstein
We started with a saying, which more and more is convincing us that we shuld act
like that. So, why educators read fairy tales to our pupils of early childhood and
elementary schools? Because fairy tales are imaginative histories with rich visual
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and conextual elements that bring to children inner emotions. They engage children
who believe the stories - many for children outside their own world are relevant to
their lives. In this way, fairy tales model behaviors for children such as problem
solving or emotional intelligence. Bad things happen to good people in fairy tales,
and then, in many cases, those good people (often children) find their way in and
around these difficulties. As G.K. says. Chesterton once said, "Fairy tales don't tell
children that dragons exist. Children already know that dragons exist. Fairy tales tell
children that dragons can be killed."
From an educational perspective, future young readers are learning the basics of
storytelling in a thematic and consistent way—the setting, characters, and plot
(rising action, climax, and resolution) unfold predictably and help children orient
their minds. them about the elements of writing. And, of course, understanding these
elements will not only help children to write, but also to read. In Waldorf Education,
developing the imagination is a key part of helping to foster reading comprehension.
To imagine these tales is to think abstractly and transform words into personal,
inner meanings.
After all, as Hans Christian Andersen once said, "Life itself is the most wonderful
fairy tale."
Materials and Methodology
Storytelling is a method widely used by teachers in teaching history to children,
storytelling is an activity that children enjoy. Almost all children in this world are
happy to listen to stories, especially if they are presented in an interesting way.
Through storytelling activities, children recognize, recognize and understand
different alternatives for non-aggressive conflict resolution. A story is a description
of something verbal. Stories can be used as a tool to stimulate aspects of children's
development because stories and storytelling activities are identical to children.
Children get several benefits through stories among others, improving children's
imagination, developing language skills, developing social aspects, developing moral
aspects, developing emotional aspects, promoting achievement of enthusiasm and
training children's concentration.1
Storytelling is a fundamental method of sharing knowledge between people as it
allows participants to be transported to another time and place. Through the use of
descriptive oral language, students can have an expanded experience with literature.
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Before the teacher tells a story to the students, they should read it completely and
understand the appropriateness of the message moral to their age.
Basically, there are three important elements that need to be prepared, they are the
story material, the story skills and the props that support the story.
The step to be prepared in the story:
Story material, namely preliminary preparation, after the story material has been
selected some important things to be done, namely reviewing the content and
mission of the story, creating the scene, as well as designing the opening and closing
of the story.
Review the story, that is, a storyteller must read the story that has been chosen
several times, and some aspects that must be taken into account, namely setting
specific goals for the age of the child who is the audience; to recognize the characters
in the story; pay attention to the time, location and type of event; choose the correct
and easy to observe sentence; determine which auxiliary tools (costumes and props)
will be used.
Create a story line, that is, a storyteller or storyteller should make a summary order
of the stories to make it easier to tell the stories. If the story is to be told at length, it
is very necessary to keep the child's attention.
Drafting the opening and closing of the story. Opening the story with something
different and creative will make children interested in listening and listening to
stories, for example starting with magic, imitating sounds, dramatizing, acting out so
that children pay attention and with a character hidden. In addition to designing the
opening, a storyteller must also design the cover of the story. A story needs an
interesting cover. The cover story becomes so important because that is where the
message can be embedded. The storyteller should avoid closing with abstract
messages, in other words, the storyteller should provide an operational explanation
for the listener.
Storytelling skills, a storyteller must have deep story-telling skills, especially for
early childhood, so that stories can be understood by children. The skills the
storyteller must have, including physical exercise, voice processing, music, and the
means to win the baby.
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Props that support the story. The use of props is very necessary, not only to attract
children's attention, but also to help children remember, digest and understand the
story conveyed.1
During the presentetation of a story, a storyteller should learn techniques to present
it.
Choosing and preparing a place. The story activity should not be done in the
classroom. History activities can be carried out anywhere, provided they meet the
criteria of cleanliness, safety and comfort. The chosen place should be arranged in
such a way that all the children can see the teacher telling the story.
Tell stories with teaching tools, ie stories can be made with different tools, which is
called story with props. Props used in the story are such as books, photographs,
panels, puppets and silent films. All props require special skills that allow the use of
props to function optimally.
Storytelling without teaching aids. Storytelling without teaching aids is also said to
tell stories by relying directly on voice quality, facial expressions, and hand and body
gestures.
Expression of character figures. Characters can be expressed in different ways,
including through visual expression (facial features, mouth, eyes, face, hands) and
character of voice expression. Character traits such as character traits, character
feelings and emotions can be known by expressing the characters. Not all character
traits can be expressed through advanced features. However, the teacher can
develop the expression of the characters through three basic expressions, namely
the sad expression, the happy expression and the expressions of anger.
Imitation of sounds and sounds of characters. Sound has an important meaning in
the story, and sound in the story is an essential sound that has no linguistic meaning.
Sounds give insight into events that can make a story more dramatic and interesting.
To express the teacher's voice, he must know the characteristics of prosody, namely
stress (words and sentences), intonation, also pattern, melody and time.
Ignite the atmosphere of the story. The atmosphere is largely determined by the
expertise of the storytellers.
The atmosphere of the story is defined as the condition that accompanies the
teacher's narration process. Techniques to ignite the story include optimizing the
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dialogue of the characters of the story, optimizing the climax of the story, evoking
humor at the periphery of the story, involving the child in the story through
questions and reprimands, improvisation and interpolation or preparing language
elements such as words or sentences.
Results of the work
Play and intellectual and language development. Preschool children learn rapidly
through play. Thinking and reasoning play an important role in the intellectual
game. Through play, children learn to count, speak, read, taste, touch and see. It is
fun and entertaining when children find new things and add to their collection.
When children act out and play roles of their choice they develop language, speech
and expression. Games with mud, sand, water, painting with crayons, water colors,
give the child freedom and independence to create according to his own imagination
and fantasy. The word game is a very good way to stimulate children's thinking
skills, reasoning and creative skills. For young children it is very fun to draw the
words, and learn to write by drawing e.g. the words CLOCK, HAND, SUN, can be
expressed symbolically. The same can be done for the words BALL and MOUNTAIN,
by drawing them first. Every child should be listened to and respected for their
opinion and ideas. Anecdotes, literal riddles, are activities that stimulate children's
logical thinking, the connection between the data given and the reality they
represent. They encourage the development of fantasy, imagination to find the
enigma, ambiguity or trick they hold inside.
Play and intellectual education of the preschool child, intellectual development
means: - Gaining a certain amount of knowledge and forming a scientific outlook on
the world, - Development of mental skills (formation and enrichment of vocabulary,
independent logical judgment, conclusion, expansion of horizons and knowledge of
the subjective truth), -Education of curiosity (the formation and development of
curiosity and the impatient feeling to learn and know something new), -And the
formation of the work culture. In the realization of these very complicated tasks, the
game occupies an important place. For intellectual education, the following play an
important role: -Games with rules, -Riddles, -Imitation games (the child plays the
role), -Games for familiarizing with the environment, etc. During play, the child
develops various functions and skills. Through play, the child gains basic
experiences about the world around him. Playing with many different objects and
things, he grabs them with his hands, observes them, changes their places, separates
and folds them, etc. Gradually, the child, using different items during the game,
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affect their academic progress. This can also lead to students becoming demotivated,
disliking school and believing they are unable to achieve. This can have
consequences for the rest of their lives.
Therefore, effective communication between teachers and students is extremely
important. This allows you to do your job well, with positive results for your
students. An added benefit is that your class can use you as a model for improving
their communication skills, which are critical to their development and future
learning.
Strategies for effetive classroom communication
What we classify as "good" or "effective" communication depends on the context.
When you're presenting in front of a class, you'll use different strategies than when
you're facilitating a group discussion or talking to a student one-on-one.
This is because when students feel supported, they are more comfortable expressing
their thoughts and ideas in class discussions, taking on challenges and asking when
they need help. Higher levels of engagement and participation then lead to more
developed knowledge and greater achievement.1
It's a good idea to learn students' names at the beginning of the year and use them
often. Have an open door policy for students to come and talk to you about any issue
and be empathetic and caring when interacting with them at all times: don't berate
them for not understanding or mock their thoughts and ideas .
Additionally, you should understand that some students are uncomfortable speaking
in front of the class. If you ask them to participate, you can use scaffolding (such as
sentence starters) to make them feel more confident doing so. However, forced
participation is usually unnecessary: quieter students are likely to have excellent
listening skills and learn just as much despite not sharing their thoughts.
Group work and group discussions contribute to making the classroom a more
comfortable environment. By working in small groups, students are able to share
their ideas more easily and improve their communication skills. These activities also
give them a good opportunity to ask you questions and get feedback on their work,
leading to effective communication between you, better understanding of the lesson
and academic benefits.2
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Communication is not only verbal, but also non-verbal: you need to make sure that
the signals you give through your body language are positive, confident and
attractive.
For example, making eye contact with students when you are talking to them shows
that you are supportive and attentive. Making eye contact is also important when
presenting to the whole class – it motivates everyone to pay attention, which helps
them learn, as well as making them feel involved. In order to make more eye contact,
you may need to learn the lesson content in more detail beforehand so you don't
have to look away to read your notes.1
While teaching, you should use gestures to emphasize your words. This increases
the interactivity of the lesson, making it more visually interesting and therefore
more memorable. Keep your arms open – don't fold them – and use smiles, nods, and
thumbs up to encourage students when they participate. Moving around the
classroom while you teach can help remove the barrier between you and your
students and gives them less opportunity to zone out or get distracted.
Body language is also important when dealing with negative behavior. To avoid
confrontation, be sure not to stand directly over or in front of a student, point at or
invade their personal space. It can be effective to get down to their level and quietly
talk about their behavior, or talk to them outside of class to avoid drawing too much
attention.
The 'listening' component of communication should not be neglected - over 60% of
all misunderstandings result from poor listening.2
Practicing good listening in the classroom can benefit you in two ways. First, you will
be a role model for your students, who will improve their listening skills and thus
retain the lessons better. Second, by using active listening, you can correct
misunderstandings and extend learning, resulting in a better education for your
students.
Active listening involves listening carefully to what your students say, checking that
you have understood them correctly (for example, by repeating back to them what
you think they have said), building on their ideas and challenging or questioning
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them. It is the best approach to use to foster understanding in the classroom and is
an excellent example of effective communication.1
There have been many studies focused on feedback in recent years. Positive
feedback (ie praise) has been shown to build students' confidence – making them
more likely to believe they can succeed – and helps create a supportive environment
and increase academic success.
Using humor in the classroom has been found to increase learning, self-motivation,
and positive relationships between students and teachers. This allows you to build
rapport with your class and keep them interested in the lesson.
For example, you can tell funny jokes or anecdotes, give simple personal examples,
or laugh at students' own jokes. However, you should make sure you don't use
negative humor – where you put down or embarrass students – or humor that is
either irrelevant to the lesson, disturbing, violent, sexual, or coercive. Continue to
use only humor that has received a positive response from the class (such as
laughter).
Using up-to-date learning tools such as computers, videos, and online resources is
another way to keep students engaged and reinforce their understanding. It can also
increase the effectiveness of your communication with students with different
learning styles, who may benefit more from online resources than old-fashioned
ones. Try to use some of these aids regularly in your lessons.2
Personality development in children through fairy tales
Cultivating characters compared to fairy tales will become more and more fun, and
the atmosphere of the school environment will be more exciting. The tradition of
storytelling from the ancestors for generations turns out to have a tremendous
impact on the development of the child's personality after he grows up.
Fairy tales are the tradition and heritage of people throughout the ages. This shows
that the tradition of fairy tales is the most important and inseparable part of human
life in creating a better nation personality. According to the American psychologist
Lawrence Kutner, "Fairytales are important for children to enter their lives without
danger. Children can overcome the problem by identifying themselves with the
characters of the story.
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for example, let's help our falling friend. So the characters are useful for the child to
spread to another friend.1
Developing critical thinking through fairy tales
Fairy tales teach children to be critical thinkers. As they ponder the situations that
led the main character through all their adventures, they can decide what they
would have done differently in the character's situation. Would they have eaten the
apple if they were in Snow White's place? After all, every child knows not to take
candy from strangers. Fairy tales also teach children to see a person's appearance.
An innocent-looking old woman was still evil in the case of Snow White, while a big
scary gorilla can have a heart of gold and raise a human child, just like in Tarzan.
Children learn that their decisions can shape the situation, so they should always
think before they act.2
The complexity of human nature, in which good and evil coexist, is well identified in
fairy tales. Figures in fairy tales are good and bad at the same time, as we all are in
reality. But since polarization dominates the child's mind, it also dominates fairy
tales. A person is either good or bad, never anything in between. For example, one
sister is virtuous and hardworking, the others are dirty and lazy, one parent is good,
the other bad. Comparing the opposite characters allows the child to easily
understand the difference between the two, which he could not do if these figures
were closer to real life. In the safe space of imagination, children can come into
contact with this wide range of 'forbidden', dark emotions - negative reactions and
expressions of life, themselves and others, without having to suffer the
consequences. painful everyday life or disrupt the life, sense of reality and
relationship of children with important persons from the world of adults.3
Fairytale stories expressed through language with transference and symbolic
representation facilitate the development of symbolic thinking, representational
skills and mental processing of life events at the fantasy level, which form the basis
for the development of creative thinking and emotional intelligence.
Storytelling greatly contributes to the development of children's creative
imagination, which is essential for their psycho-emotional health. To have
imagination is to enjoy inner richness, a relentless and spontaneous flow of images
and to see the world in its entirety. The structure of fairy tales allows children to
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move into a dream world without restrictions and cancellations. At the same time,
through the mechanisms of identification and projection, the child has the ability to
identify, express his negative feelings, attach importance to personal traumatic
experiences and, ultimately, seek and find a meaning in it.
Disscusions
To teach young children to communicate only in close cooperation between them,
negatively involving them in cognitive activity or play. Children must be taught to
ask their own questions, to express their opinions on various topics in a negative
way, to create a relationship of trust, without conflicts to hold a conversation. A way
to teach children to communicate and cope with all these tasks are theatrical games.
These games are very popular among preschoolers, because together with the
characters of fairy tales, children explore the world around us, going through a
variety of emotions and feelings, an assessment of the behavior of his favorite
character in interaction with other characters in fairy tales. It is important, in
addition to memorizing artificial texts and gestures, to develop improvisation,
children's fantasy, the ability to feel the emotional state of theatrical characters, to
form a sense of confidence in their abilities, and to convey verbal communication
skills. During play, children play and behave safely, and are active. Fairy tales-
characterized to interact, communicate, argue, disagree, sad ending, and with the
transformation of the image of the hero in fairy tales. The interpretation of the
division of roles helps the child to understand the moral and ethical background of
the characters' behavior, because he receives a positive or negative evaluation of the
qualities and actions of the fairy tale heroes. Such an increased evaluation forms a
personal ability of ethical behavior and pushes him that of making a choice in favor
of moral acts.
All game exercises can be divided into six sections, depending on which sphere of
the human personality is affected. Games that affect the physiology of preschool
children. Games that focus on bodily sensations - Help the child cope with passivity,
rigidity, enslavement and closeness. It's no secret that relaxation at the level of the
body and muscles helps a person find psychological peace, balance, relaxation.
Example of the game "Move like a bear, an ostrich, a frog, etc.", children are
encouraged to describe any animal or fairy character in motion. Games that develop
verbal and non-verbal ways of communication - Verbal communication is formed by
writing a story about the experience of a strong feeling: fear, anger, sadness, and
also in the game "Corrupt Phone". Teaching non-verbal communication with the
help of gestures, facial expressions, pantomime is carried out in the games "We talk
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through the glass", Games that introduce human emotions- Learn the ability to
express their emotions and correctly understand the emotional state of a friend.
This section uses the games "Diary of moods", "Image of emotions with fingers",
"Emotions in pictures". For playing cards with the image of different emotions are
used with a schematic drawing, children choose the corresponding pictogram with
the emotion shown in the picture. On the blank cards, children can see their own
face, happy or sad. Games that direct attention to oneself, feelings and state - In the
exercise "Psychological portrait", children take turns to answer questions about
themselves: what can be praised and what can be blamed? Games form a conscious
attitude to the family as a whole, each member separately and independently as real
and complete members of the family. To apply this setting, "Draw your family and
your home", viewing albums, photos with the task of commenting on each photo, we
talk about parental love.
Conclusions
To summarize, we would say that the fairy tale is the main form in which the child
learns to read his mind with the language of images-symbols, which is the only
language that allows understanding before mental maturity is reached.
Understanding the dynamics that occur in the journey of the hero/heroine of the
tale, which usually leads from misery to higher development, can reveal to us, as
therapists and youth workers, some ways to help children, but also adults, in their
way up in life. However, it is necessary to remember that no technique or method
can fully respond to the multidimensional needs of children, be they social,
educational, emotional, cognitive or biological. Therefore, fairy tales are
complementary to the range of methods used in the framework of psycho-
educational or therapeutic intervention. At this point, it should be mentioned that
the above study is part of a research on storytelling and its benefits in changing
unhealthy eating habits in children.
Let's not forget that fairy tales can also be interpreted through play, which
influences the child to mature physically, but also to learn social relationships. What
is even more important, is that the game enables that child to form higher psychic
processes as well. Most of those who deal with children agree that play has a
fundamental role in child development. The game is the work of the child, the means
by which he grows and develops. Based on what was said above, it can be concluded
that the game, in addition to being an activity that is usually undertaken for fun, is
also used as an educational tool. Considering the fact that it is the best way to
educate a child, it is very important to choose the books and activities that we
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dedicate to children carefully. Also, the game enriches the child's personality,
enabling him to make progress in further development. For this reason, it is good
that from early childhood, the child should be given the conditions to play, read,
touch, move, and speak. Likewise, the child should be enabled to create, discover and
oppose. The games should enable the development of the child in the direction of the
free and authentic personality, which through the game will develop initiative,
creativity and sense of responsibility, these factors which are argued to be
developed through the game, are extremely necessary factors for the creation of
relationships towards others and towards society.
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