Old-MODULE 2 Unpacking The Self
Old-MODULE 2 Unpacking The Self
MODULE 2
Topic I: Unpacking the Self
Overview
This module scrutinizes the many aspects of self and identity as seen from the
points of view of the physical, sexual, material or economic, spiritual, and digital
self. This chapter also discusses the required topics on family planning and
population education
The body - the touchable part of the person which can be seen, scrutinized and
observed. One uses it to communicate, socialize or to connect with others. It is
an important aspect in the study of the person’s self and his identity. It is
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through his body that he is able to interact and make sense of the world around
him. He expresses himself through the use of his body. It is through his body
that one is able to express his gender, sexuality and others.
a. Body image
This is how one sees himself or herself physically. The way how a person
visualizes how he/she looks, which could have either be positive or negative. And
this has connection on how others see us specifically our body. Thus a body
image can be both internal (personal) and external (social). Therefore body
image is an individual’s mental representation of his own body which is very
important to his identity.
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• Skin colors signifies the value of the people in society. Lighter skinned
individuals are considered higher in terms of social status.
• Our concept of “physical selves” as Filipinos is largely associated with our skin
color (Rondilla 2012).
• Historically, our people were colonized by fairer skinned races- the Spaniards, the
Americans and the Japanese.
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Body dissatisfaction was more common and felt more strongly in women, yet
men were also clearly affected by body dissatisfaction (MacNeill, Best, Davis,
2017)
Girls are three times more likely than boys to have negative body image.
(Konter, 2017)
80%of children who are 10 years old are afraid of being fat. (Konter, 2017)
More than 90% of 15-17 years old girls want to change at least one aspect of
their physical appearance. (Konter, 2017)
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b. Eating Disorder
b.1 Anorexia Nervosa - People with anorexia nervosa starve themselves,
subsisting on little or no food for every long periods of time, yet they remain
convinced that they need to lose more weight. As a result, their body weight
is significantly below what is minimally normal for their age and height.
People with anorexia nervosa have a distorted image of their body, often
believing that they are disgusting fat and need to lose more weight.
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5. Body Shaming
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Human sexuality – this is more than sexual feelings or sexual intercourse, this
is the capacity for sexual feelings. It is the person’s sexual orientation,
preferences or gender identity.
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2. Sexuality
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c. Forced abortion
d. Unwanted sexual advances or sexual Harassment including demanding sex in
return for favors
e. Forced marriage or cohabitation, including the marriage of children
f. Violent acts against the sexual integrity of women: female genital
mutilation and obligatory inspects for virginity
g. Sexual abuse or mentally or physically disabled people
h. Denial of the right to use contraception or to adopt other measures to
proper against sexually transmitted diseases
i. Forced prostitution and trafficking of people for the purpose of sexual
exploitation.
Once youth have reached puberty and beyond there is an increased interest in
romantic and sexual relationship. As one matures he/she experiences strong emotional
attachment to romantic partner and finds it natural to express his/her feelings. Once all
most adolescents explore relationship with one another, participate in sexual
intercourse before the age of 20.
Lust –Phase driven by the sex hormones. Testosterone and estrogen, male and
female. Excite the feeling of lust within the brain with a very strong sexual desire
for someone.
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Sexual Orientation – the sexual and emotional attraction to the same and or opposite
sex. It refers to the person’s sense of identity.
Gender Identity – This is not biological sex but rather a psychological sense of being
male or female.
Ex. A woman trapped in a man’s body.
He is male but feels like a woman
1. Heterosexual – A romantic attraction or sexual attraction or sexual
behavior between people or persons of the opposite sex or gender.
2. Homosexuality - A romantic attraction or sexual attraction or sexual
behavior between members of the same sex or gender.
3. Bisexual – One is sexually attracted not exclusively to people of one
particular gender. Attracted to both male and female.
4. Transsexual - These are people who literally change sex.
Ex. Transpinay – Group of transsexual Pinays
o Transgender – one who does not have a complete sex change
o Intersexed / intersexual – an individual with mixed sexual configuration.
He/she falls outside the male/female dichotomy. One is born with a
combination of male / female characteristics
Ex. Male / female has genitals that can make doctors unable to
assign their sex as distinctly male or female.
5. Pansexual/Omnisexual – it is the sexual, romantic or emotional attraction
towards people regardless of their sex or gender identity. Pansexual people
may refer to themselves as gender blind, asserting that gender and sex are
not determining factors in their romantic or sexual attraction to others.
6. Asexual – Not sexually attracted to any sex or gender.
Sexual behavior – the process by which humans and other animals demonstrate and
or express sexuality
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Influencing factors that increases sexual desires (Quadara, El-Murr, & Latham,
(2017).
o Curiosity
o Sexually abuse
o Media Influence
o Exposure to Pornographic videos or images
FANSTASY/Pre-occupation
The person becomes a hostage of her own thoughts, and become
attracted to a sex object.
RITUALIZATION
Giving life to sexual thoughts; Imagining; Fantasizing
Examples;
Reading pornographic tabloids, magazines, pocketbooks
Watching x-rated movies
Visiting prostitution districts
Surfing pornographic websites
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ACTING OUT
Plans are carried out; Is the release of out-of-control aggressive or sexual
impulse
Examples: Hiring prostitutes; raping
Bringing your bf/gf to a motel, masturbating
When boredom creeps in or when pressures of life stress the addict, the
attraction to sex returns: the cravings becoming more intense and the shame
more unbearable. The cycle if not corrected is addictive. Hence, it is called the
Addictive Cycle. The cycle destroys even the godliest person. It must be avoided
and broken.
“We cannot always build the future for our youth, but we can build our youth for
the future.”
— Franklin D. Roosevelt
STDs are sexually transmitted diseases meaning they are most often but
not exclusively spread by sexual intercourse. HIV, chlamydia, genital herpes,
genital warts, gonorrhea some forms of hepatitis, syphilis and trichomonas’s are
STDs.
What are the first signs of an STD? Or what are the symptoms of STDs?
- Bumps, sores or warts near the mouth, anus, penis or vagina
- Swelling or redness near the penis or vagina.
- Skin rash
- Painful urination
- Weight loss, loose stool, night sweats
- Aches, Pains, fever and chills
- Yellowing of the skin (Jaundice)
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Major Forms of Artificial Contraception are barrier methods, of which the most
common are: condom, the contraceptive pill, which contains synthetic sex hormones
that prevent ovulation in the female, intrauterine devices such as the coil, which
prevent the fertilized ovum from implanting in the uterus and male/ female sterilization.
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A woman can get pregnant if a man’s sperm reaches one of her eggs
(OVA)
Contraception tries to stop this from happening by:
- Keeping the egg and sperm apart
- Stopping egg production
- Stopping the combined sperm and egg (fertilized egg) attaching to
the lining of the womb
Artificial
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3. Female condoms – are made from soft, thin synthetic latex or latex. They are
worn inside the vagina to prevent semen getting to the womb. 95% effective if
used correctly.
4. Male condoms – are made from very thin latex (rubber) polyisoprene or
polyurethane and are designed to stop man’s semen from coming into contact
with his sexual partner. 98% effective.
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10. Vaginal ring (NuvaRing) is a small soft, plastic ring that is placed inside the
vagina. It releases a continuous dose of the hormone oestrogen and
progestogen into the blood stream to prevent pregnancy. 99% effective if used
correctly.
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11. Contraceptive patch is a small sticky patch that releases hormones into the
body through the skin to prevent pregnancy. Each patch lasts for 1 week. The
patch can be changed every week for 3 weeks, then have a week off without any
patch. 99% effective in preventing pregnancy when used correctly.
6.1.3 Natural
The menstrual cycle lasts from the 1st day of one’s menstruation until the
day before the next period starts. This is 28 days on average but longer or
shorter cycles, from 21 to 40 days are normal.
During the cycle and egg is released from one of the ovaries (Ovulation)
and travels down the fallopian tube. It is usually released 10 -16 days before the
next period. Occasionally, a second egg is released, within 24 hours of the first
egg.
The egg only lives for a maximum of 24 hours after ovulation and a sperm
must meet the egg within that period for pregnancy to happen. One can get
pregnant in up to 2 days after one ovulates.
But if she had sex in the 7 days before ovulation, it is possible to get
pregnant because the sperm can live inside the woman’s body for up to 7 days
and fertilize the egg when it is released. It is 99% effective if used correctly.
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A. Material Self is constituted by: our bodies, clothes, immediate family, and home. It
is it to these things, according to William James (1890), that we are the most deeply
affected by because of our investments of self within these things. The more we invest
of ourselves in these objects, the more attached to them we inevitably are to them.
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Less privileged people usually believe that social class is not associated
to genes in a sense that anyone can become poor and rich. On the other
hand, wealthy people usually believe that money or being rich is associated
with genes and identity. That they have the right to wealth based on the
situation they are in. They believe that life is fair and people get what they
deserved.
Ethics
Those who see themselves belonging in the higher echelon of society
were the most to engage in unethical behavior. Specially, when they
believe that they are untouchables.
Self- interest maximization is the term used to imply that those
people who belong to the higher class of society usually have this “ what’s
in it for me” attitude. Where they mostly aspire for what they can gain
from the situation without thinking of other people.
Addiction
Many addictions begin because a person experiences a positive feeling
when he does a certain behaviour. Thus a happy feeling he gets from his
action whether the consequence is good or bad as long as he gains a
feeling of exhilaration from his behaviour can trigger an addiction.
Ex. Shopping or gambling
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Spiritual Self
- This is the most intimate, inner subjective part of the self.
It is the most intimate version of the self because of the
satisfaction experienced when thinking of one’s ability to argue
and discriminate, of one’s moral sensibility and conscience, and
of our unconquerable will is purer than all other sentiments of
satisfaction.
- The ability to use moral sensibility and conscience may be seen
through the expression of religion, its beliefs and practices. In the
same manner, cultural rituals and ceremonies are some
manifestations what people believe in.
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Bagobos = gimokod
Bukidnon = makatu
Ilocano = kadkaddwa or kararuon (invite the physical body);
Ilongos= dunga (if a person is alive) andkalag (if the person is dead);
Visayans = Dungan (Will power)
Cebuano = kaluha
Mindoro folks = Karadwa or kalag
Kankanays and Cordillera = Ab.abiik – the term used for the spiritual self
which is also applicable to trees, stones, rivers etc.
Ibanag =Ikararwa – gives direction and wholeness to man, the body can
stay align independently of the soul, while the soul itself, and then when
separate from the body, experiences materials wants and needs.
Also when the person is frightened, the ikararua learns the body while the
body remains alive. A ritual called Mangagakao is performed to invite the
soul to return to the body.
For the Tagalogs, the kaluluwa speaks more of the soul of the dead person
than that of the living. The soul of the living person is known as kakambal (Twin
or Double) which is thought of as the MALAY or the “Tinig voice” – the capacity
of the individual to think, to reason or will power, at night the kakambal may
travel around its troublesome encounters could be the cause of nightmares (
Bangungut). The double becomes a kaluluwa after the person dies.
For the ilonggos and Cebuanos, the Dungan (not normally seen by the
human eye), sometimes comes out of the body and takes on a visible forms
example: housefly, lizard.
The Dungan may leave the body voluntarily as when a person is asleep.
When the person sees himself in his dream, this means that his “other
self” has left his physical body. The Dungan travel outside the body
shoved be free from accidents, because whatever happens to the Dungan
happens to the physical body as well. Only when the soul has safely
returned home would the owner be able to wake up.
1. Kararwa- the soul proper vital element in man, it can leave only after death.
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2. Karkarma – second soul can leave the body when one is frightened; or it
can be stolen from the body when the person gives to isolated places. If the
soul fails to return the owner becomes insane. Rituals and sacrifices are done
to lure it back to the person.
3. Aniwaas (Aningaas, Alingaas) – third soul can leave the body during
sleep and visit places which the person who owns its figments when awake.
If he wakes up, he may lose his aniwaas and becomes insane.
4. Ar-aria (Al-alia) – fourth soul is the liberated soul of the dead. It is the soul
that comes back to earth to visit people close to it. The howling of dogs
announces the presence of an ar-aria / Al-alia.
III. Religiosity
- Rebecca Stein (2011), works on the definition of religion “as a set of
cultural beliefs and practices that usually includes some or all of basic
characteristics. “
- An individual lives in a society where there are many practices of religion.
The choice of religious belief lies within the spiritual self. Although the
choice maybe influenced by the society and its culture. Religious beliefs,
rituals, practices, and customs are all part of the expression of the
spiritual self.
- What to believe and how to manifest the belief is entirely dependent on
the individual, to the self.
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2. Christianity
Beliefs:
Christians believe in Trinitarian God, one God in three personas:
God the Father (Creator), God the Son (Savior), and God the Holy
Spirit (Sustainer). Eternal life after death will be achieved through
faith in Jesus Christ. The Holy Bible is a selection of books, which is
divided into two ‒ the Old Testament and New Testament.
Customs and Practices:
i. The Sacrament of Baptism symbolizes the birth in Christian
World.
ii. The Sacrament of Communion is an act of remembrance of
Jesus Christ’s sacrificial love.
iii. Christmas and Resurrection (Easter) are the two major
celebrations in Christianity.
3. Hinduism
Beliefs:
Hindu believe that existence is a cycle of birth, death, and rebirth,
governed by Karma, a concept where the reincarnated life will
depend on how the past life was spent.
Customs and Practices:
a. Diwalii is the Festival of Lights.
b. Navrati is the festival of nine nights, which celebrate the
triumph of good over evil.
c. Hindus have set dates to honor particular manifestations
of God.
4. Islam
Beliefs:
Islam means “willing submission to God.” Muslims believe in Allah,
who is their “One God”, in the unity and universality of God, that
Mohammed is the last and final prophet sent by God. The Holy
Book of Islam is called the Quran.
Customs and Practices: Muslims believe in the five pillars of
Islam, which are the foundation of Muslim life:
a. Shahadah – statement of faith: “There is no God but the one
true God and Mohammed is his messenger.
b. Salat– the prayer that is practiced five times a day.
c. Zakat – the monetary offering for the benefit of the poor. It
comprises the 2.5% of a Muslim’s assets.
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1. Practice Religion
It is the way of connecting oneself with God.
a. Rituals
Patterned forms of behavior that have something to do which one supernatural
realm they are performed in a repetitive nature requires a considerable amount
of time or personal sacrifices.
b. Magic
Referred to as tricks and illusions. Make impossible things seem to happen.
Anthropological point of view; activities usually rituals by what a person can
compel the supernatural to behave in certain way. Used for healing.
Refers to the idea that certain people have an inborn power to harness
spirit or energies for specific purposes. It is an explanation of events based
on the belief that a certain individuals possess an innate psychic power
capable of causing harm, including sickness and death.
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Online identity is not the same as the real world identity because what you
present online may be different from who you really are or your physical
world.
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When people actually meet up with different people they only know on the
internet, or at least those they perform to online through various cues and
expressions.
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Positive aspect:
- Social media sites when used correctly can gives information that
can empower the individual as well as the community in general.
- Can increase self-esteem when one receives many likes and shares
to his posts online
- It can boost morale and self-worth as a person,
Negative aspect:
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Aside from alienating the Muslim minority, the intellectual elites have also
managed to divide the population over national historic narratives. Between pro
and anti-Spanish propaganda to modern-day narratives on Philippine history,
there is a divide on how parties to historical events are portrayed. This became
painfully obvious during the 4 year celebration of the centenary of independence
from the Spaniards: 1996 which marked the centenary of the execution of Jose
Rizal, one of the few revolutionary heroes untouched by the United States; 1997
where the spread of the revolution to the Visayas and Mindanao was celebrated
while downplaying Bonifacio and Aguinaldo; and moving Independence day from
4 July to 12 June, which was met with indifference from the Muslim population
as there was no connection between 12 June to any of their ethnic history. The
elites failed to consider local narrations and revolutionary leaders, while creating
an official narrative that was incoherent and lacking in any emotion.
Finally, the sociological approach posits that a national identity naturally
comes out of social ties and processes; a national identity is a byproduct of
socialization. This translates to a social bargain among the ruling elite and
between the general population to create a functional civil society that caters to
the needs of everyone party to the bargain; the people pay taxes to the
government, in turn the government provides them with benefits (e.g. welfare,
education, healthcare). However, the very core argument of this approach also is
the weakness of it as this model opens up the political landscape to patronage
politics—the people cast their support to the candidate that is most likely to give
them what they want, at the expense of the common good. Contentious issues
would have had a different outcome if it were not for the elite trying to protect
their vested interests; hacienderos conspiring with the friars to protect their vast
farmlands, corporations and big local landowners gobbling land through
homesteading, the reluctance to implement land reform under the first Aquino
administration despite being a core piece to her campaign for presidency.
It is hard to define what it means to be a Filipino because of
mismanagement, ethnic conflict and distrust, and corruption. We mostly base
being a Filipino on more abstract manifestations that cut across cultures—
bayanihan, resilience, happiness. Attempts to attach a common identity to any
socioeconomic, cultural, or historical accounts will most likely be met with
resistance or indifference to at least one segment of the population.
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A true Filipino would be one who is unafraid to explore the country and all
what it offers and hides. I do not mean wanderlusting through all 81 provinces
but exploring the messy but rich history that have been unrecognized or shunned
by the ruling elites for the longest time. We can truly understand what it means
to be a Filipino once we elect to take a neutral stance to everything our nation
can offer from its diverse culture and rich history.
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