Case 2:22-cv-00024-DLC Document 52-1 Filed 07/21/22 Page 181 of 1373

From: Tom Roseen tomroseen@gmail.com

Subject: Fwd: Response to Friday's Text
Date: March 2, 2021 at 8:54 PM
To: Zach Rusk zachrusk5@icloud.com

---------- Forwarded message ---------

From: Tom Roseen <tomroseen@gmail.com>
Date: Mon, Feb 22, 2021 at 6:03 PM
Subject: Response to Friday's Text
To: Cindy Roseen <croseen14@gmail.com>

Cindy,

Thank you for your trying to cultivate a healthy relationship between Zach and me.
You have been helpful to Zach, and us. I have considered a conversation for a while, and
originally, I intended to talk to you, but I know you are busy. So, I wrote to you, which is
typically a better communication method for me anyway. This letter includes examples of
how I feel that you have hurt or mistreated me. Mary and Shawn have also hurt or
mistreated me in some ways, too.
I understand that you are surprised about Zach and me moving “quickly,” and that it
bothers you. However, I feel that you are projecting your dissatisfaction onto me. Why are
you making that my problem? Why is it that, when I enter a relationship, I receive so much
shit when I have supported or mostly supported you in your relationships? I have also
supported Shawn and Mary in their relationships. I realize that there were sometimes when I
may not have been positive about your relationship with Dan, but I do not believe I was
passive aggressive or using the silent treatment. I am hurt by your lack of response to some
of my contact attempts and I feel it was passive aggressive. It feels controlling and
manipulative. For example, at the end of January, I texted you asking how you are and that I
miss you. You did not respond. I also recognize that I can be slow to respond, but I do not
think that I ignore your messages. Sometime in mid-December we talked over the phone
about the living situation topic. I mentioned that Zach and I were considering moving in
together. You became upset and said “Tom, you are not moving in with him.” I also think
you described it as something like a stupid idea, but I do not remember that as clearly as
your forceful statement telling me what to do. You referenced you and Dan, and how you
moved in together after one year and you felt that it was too soon. Your comment startled
and confused me, and I felt something was wrong, but of course, I did not say much because
that is how I operate. I have constantly been the intermediary between all of us but not cared
for or advocated for myself. I wish I could have processed the moment quickly enough and
had the confidence to advocate for myself, because I would have called you-out on that.
Why did you think you could say that? It was controlling, manipulative and you have no
right to tell me how to live. I do not do that to you. Zach and I are not you and Dan. I love
that you think this is any of your business.
In our communications just before the new year, you said some hurtful and passive
aggressive comments, such as “It’s also given me anxiety. I don’t want to talk about it. We
have talk about this for a while and now that Zach is here, you are ditching me.” I was not
ditching you and never intend to. In your response message on Friday, you said that you are
politely declining the invitation to live with Zach and me. We entertained that idea in
December, but when I talked with you in December, you were uninterested, and then your
 Case 2:22-cv-00024-DLC Document 52-1 Filed 07/21/22 Page 182 of 1373

December, but when I talked with you in December, you were uninterested, and then your
actions throughout the past couple of months showed that. So, to be clear, that was not an
ongoing offer, and we decided a couple months ago that we would rather live together by
ourselves. Zach was willing to live in some way with you, but you were unwilling to do
that. He was open and willing to try, and I was too. You also said: “I am finding out that I
am the only person I can count on and to never assume anything about anyone or anything.”
I am sure that there are many people and experiences that have contributed to you feeling
this way, but I know that this comment includes me. It is a good idea to be careful about
assumptions, but it sounds like you believe you cannot count on anyone else, and that is
hurtful and unhealthy. I have tried to be there for you to the best of my ability for as long as
I can remember.
You and Shawn criticized me during Thanksgiving because I arrived late in the day. I
know that I wanted to be there early to spend the day with you and tried to plan for all of us
to do that, but I also was spending some time with Zach, who feels uncomfortable around
you two, understandably. I also have a difficult time in the morning and evenings, largely
related to my long-term clinical depression, which you have no idea about. Maybe that was
frustrating to you, but why do you think you can speak to me or treat me that way? I do not
treat you that way. As far as I know, I treat you both with kindness and respect and I expect
and deserve the same from you. I feel like I am viewed and treated as the sensitive, fragile,
anxious brother, and I am tired of it.

I don’t know what you really think of our relationship, but we communicate well
with each other and make our own decisions. The fact that I need to write this email seems
messed-up. Zach loves me and I love him, and he wants so much to be friends with all of
you (our immediate family). However, he is resilient and knows when he is wasting his
time. I certainly hope that is not the case here. Is that so hard for you to believe, because this
is my first relationship and I have been your sensitive, fragile, anxious brother?
Just before Shawn’s Birthday Party, I texted you and expressed some concerns. You
responded: “Oh Tom, so serious.” This sarcastic comment invalidated my concerns, and I
felt foolish. However, I am owning it. You are right, I was serious, because this is a serious
topic: it’s about our long-term, valuable and strong sibling relationship. I am angry, and
serious, and I need to tolerate less and teach people how to treat me. I love you and care
about you, and about our relationship.
Tom
 Case 2:22-cv-00024-DLC Document 52-1 Filed 07/21/22 Page 259 of 1373

From: Zach Rusk zachrusk5@gmail.com

Subject: Re: Evidence of Respondent Thomas Roseens vexatious litigation filing the same request in the same district court for which
was already denied earlier by a different district court judge
Date: July 28, 2021 at 10:34 AM
To: Jason Armstrong jason@cromwellpllc.com
Cc: Troy Fraley tfraley@bozeman.net, qellingson@bozeman.net
Bcc: zachrusk5@gmail.com, zach.rusk@gmail.com, zachrusk5@icloud.com

Jason, stop filing false police reports, lying and continuing with your lawless attempts to intimidate, harass, annoy, engage in rule 11 violations,
with the intent to try and blackmail and extort me to w/d the case against your lawless clients who slander, libel, stalk, engage in illicit drug use and
dealing, welfare fraud and company theft to name just a few.

This is your nth violations of my C&D’s. Please don’t continue to waste valuable public resources just because you can’t win in advancing your
frivolous defense on behalf of your lawless clients who you extort money from them.

On Jul 28, 2021, at 10:27 AM, Jason Armstrong <jason@cromwellpllc.com> wrote:

Mr. Rusk,
I’ve copied Officer Quinn and Detective Ellingson here so they can see that you are threatening my family’s well being.

You have caused me to feel fear for mine and my family’s well being and I have taken steps to protect myself and them from you.

Detective Ellingson advised you, after I advised you, to stop with your threats against me. You have not stopped.

I am going to forward to them, separately, your thoughts of Tom’s rape as well as your monitoring of Roseen emails.

Sent from my IPhone.

On Jul 28, 2021, at 8:35 AM, Zach Rusk <zachrusk5@gmail.com> wrote:

Why would you put your family through this and risk your license, profession and put your entire net worth (if now nil or in the deficit) on the
line? I simply cant begin to understand. Your malice will be cause for your insurance not to pay out when you lawless Roseen fam find out.
You don't think the courts already see everyting? I’m simply dumfounded. Never expected to meet such an irrational person.

On Jul 28, 2021, at 7:58 AM, Zach Rusk <zachrusk5@gmail.com> wrote:

Nuts how how you made your clients vexatious.

On Jul 28, 2021, at 7:53 AM, Zach Rusk <zachrusk5@gmail.com> wrote:

please include the attached as an exhibit to yesterday evenings filing.

<Evidence of Respondents Thomas Roseens vexatious litigation filing the same request in the same district court for which was already
denied earlier by a different judge.pdf>
Case 2:22-cv-00024-DLC Document 52-1 Filed 07/21/22 Page 227 of 1373

On Sun, Jul 11, 2021 at 2:28 PM Zach Rusk <zachrusk5@icloud.com> wrote:

Since you emailed me your stance in your threatening email to me earlier,
this offer is now rescinded unless you return all of the money the Roseen
fam has paid you for advising them wrongly, violating ethics, making
misrepresentations and advancing your frivolous and tenuous defense
simply for billable hours and against your clients best interests. If that is
done along with the elements of the offer fulfilled by Tuesday, I would
agree to not file a rule 11 motion and bar complaint against you.

> On Jul 10, 2021, at 8:09 PM, Zach Rusk <zachrusk5@gmail.com> wrote:
>
> ​Feel free to counter with one dollar less to provide consideration as to this
meeting of the minds opportunity but duly note that I’m not interested in
any other counter offer otherwise and would rather the court decide the
matter in that case.
>
>> On Jul 9, 2021, at 7:14 PM, Zach Rusk <zachrusk5@gmail.com> wrote:
>>
>> ​Jason,
>>
>> I will try this one time with you. But only one time.
>>
>> In exchange for me moving to dismiss with prejudice the active cases I
have against the Roseens, including the slander and libel action, as well as
the small claims action against Tom, in addition to not filling a small claims
court action against Tom as to the promissory note at issue, I demand the
following by Tuesday 5pm of next week:
>>
>> 1. Tom, Cindy and Shawn returning the last page of the Slander and
Libel C&D they were served, signed, dated and notarized.
>> 2. Payment to me in the amount of $1,000 as to the small claims court
action I have again Tom.
>> 3. Payment of me of $1,500 as to the costs incurred to litigate these
cases.
>> 4. Reducing the promissory note amount by $6,500.
>> 5. Designation of a contact for the fulfillment of anything left of the
promissory note coupled with a requirement to be updated on such if ever
changed.
>> 4. Mutual no contact agreement between each of the Roseen family
members and myself.
>> 5. Schedule of sanctions for violations to the mutual no-contact
agreement and the C&D’s served upon the Roseens.
>>
>> Thanks-
>> Zach Rusk
>>
 Case 2:22-cv-00024-DLC Document 52-1 Filed 07/21/22 Page 195 of 1373

From: Zach Rusk zachrusk5@icloud.com

Subject: Re: Case: DV-16-2021-0000432-IJ - Zachary Rusk vs. Thomas Roseen, et al. - Files Attached
Date: July 11, 2021 at 1:57 PM
To: tfraley@bozeman.net, qellingson@bozeman.net
Cc: GallatinCountyDCFilings@mt.gov
Bcc: Zach Rusk zachrusk5@icloud.com, Zach Rusk zach.rusk@gmail.com, Zach Rusk zachrusk5@gmail.com

Jason evidently doesn’t know you have everything to show he is advancing a frivolous defense and making false claims and misrepresentions and
so does the court. I have been completely transparent and honest with all of you contrary to him and the roseens as I was ordered to cooperate in the
baseless threatening investigation email I was sent. He knows he is billing the Roseens unessessary for things he brought up irrelevantly and falsely,
and he is not even addressing any of the merits of the case (another lie he made). Lawyers lie through their teeth. You going to let him do that to you
and let him use you like that?

On Jul 11, 2021, at 1:47 PM, Zach Rusk <zachrusk5@icloud.com> wrote:

You may care to know that I told the sgt on his call with me the other day that I’m strongly considering filing a complaint with the inspector
general and others given he won’t even order you to do your jobs.

Begin forwarded message:

From: Zach Rusk <zachrusk5@gmail.com>

Date: July 11, 2021 at 1:28:53 PM MDT
To: Jason Armstrong <jason@cromwellpllc.com>
Cc: tfraley@bozeman.net, GallatinCountyDCFilings@mt.gov, qellingson@bozeman.net
Subject: Re: Case: DV-16-2021-0000432-IJ - Zachary Rusk vs. Thomas Roseen, et al. - Files Attached

​Jason, since the police won’t do anything for me you must know promptly as per attached, to tell your clients Tom and Cindy to STOP
STALKING ME.

<image0.png>
<image1.png>
<image2.png>

<Affidavit Rusk DV-21-432B.pdf>

 Case 2:22-cv-00024-DLC Document 52-1 Filed 07/21/22 Page 312 of 1373
Sl.N Contact Time Received Sent
o (MM-DD-
YYYY)
1 Mary Roseen: Jul 11, 2020 Hi. Is something going on that
+16039012064 07:14 PM is why you’ve been distracted?

2 Mary Roseen: Jul 12, 2020 Hi. Yes, actually....I found a

+16039012064 07:11 AM guy :)

3 Mary Roseen: Jul 12, 2020 His name is Zach, and he’s
+16039012064 07:26 AM working on his MBA at USU.
So, once again, Logan shows
up in my life. Interesting.

4 Mary Roseen: Jul 12, 2020 Hi. That’s exciting! Have you
+16039012064 07:39 AM been driving down to Logan?

5 Mary Roseen: Jul 15, 2020 I’m here, not sure what was
+16039012064 11:55 AM happening, but I’m here

6 Mary Roseen: Jul 19, 2020 Seriously, I want an update

+16039012064 12:34 PM when the dishes are done

7 Mary Roseen: Jul 19, 2020 Haha ok. Seriously, though, it

+16039012064 12:42 PM will be a few hours from now

8 Mary Roseen: Jul 26, 2020 Look what dad spotted

+16039012064 05:05 PM

9 Mary Roseen: Jul 25, 2020

+16039012064 03:08 PM

10 Mary Roseen: Jul 25, 2020 Look what dad spotted

+16039012064 03:08 PM

11 Mary Roseen: Jul 26, 2020

+16039012064 05:05 PM

12 Mary Roseen: Jul 26, 2020 Awesome! That’s amazing

+16039012064 07:29 PM find. 2 of them, maybe a
mating couple!? I think that’s
rare

13 Mary Roseen: Jul 26, 2020 Reminds me of being a kid.

+16039012064 07:29 PM That’s all I wanted

14 Mary Roseen: Jul 26, 2020 They were cool. Seemed

+16039012064 07:32 PM small? Dad thought maybe
newly hatched

15 Mary Roseen: Aug 22, 2020 Whatcha doing tonight? Want

+16039012064 03:53 PM to catch up?

16 Mary Roseen: Aug 22, 2020 Hi. I’m spending time with
+16039012064 04:43 PM Shawn and Brian at their new
place. Talk tomorrow?

17 Mary Roseen: Aug 22, 2020 Sure

+16039012064 04:44 PM
 Case 2:22-cv-00024-DLC Document 52-1 Filed 07/21/22 Page 313 of 1373
18 Mary Roseen: Aug 26, 2020 Jacob Evans is getting married
+16039012064 07:26 PM in October! He invited me to
the wedding I don’t know
What to do. So far I’ve avoided
These decision. I wanted to
mention this the other night
but forgot

19 Mary Roseen: Aug 26, 2020 Hi. Congrats to Jake!

+16039012064 07:42 PM

20 Mary Roseen: Aug 26, 2020 You’d have to fly home?

+16039012064 07:42 PM

21 Mary Roseen: Aug 26, 2020 Yeah I’m happy for him. Yes
+16039012064 07:46 PM I’m going to look at flights
tonight just to see

22 Mary Roseen: Aug 26, 2020 They look cheap at first look
+16039012064 07:48 PM

23 Mary Roseen: Aug 26, 2020 They are asking out-of-state

+16039012064 07:50 PM people to get tested

24 Mary Roseen: Aug 26, 2020 Where is it?

+16039012064 08:14 PM

25 Mary Roseen: Aug 26, 2020 At his parents house in

+16039012064 08:17 PM Effingham. I don’t know the
number but He says it’s a
small gathering

26 Mary Roseen: Sep 08, 2020 Hi. I just read the recent news
+16039012064 07:35 AM about the fire-did you get a
damaging frost?

27 Mary Roseen: Sep 10, 2020 Hi, sorry for the late reply. We
+16039012064 10:26 PM did get a couple nights of
snow and cold temps, but we
were able to save everything
we really cared about. So, it
turned out ok.

28 Mary Roseen: Sep 10, 2020 We have two ungrateful

+16039012064 10:46 PM Hoop houses with good
tomato crops in them, so we
had to be creative to save
them. Thanks for asking

29 Mary Roseen: Sep 10, 2020 Also, I talked to Zach on

+16039012064 10:49 PM Sunday, and he told me that
he talked to you and Mom.
We had a good chat about
things. I’ve felt awestruck this
week. He is so sweet

30 Mary Roseen: Sep 11, 2020 Hi. Okay great. I’m glad he
+16039012064 05:17 AM talked to you.

31 Mary Roseen: Sep 11, 2020 Is he religious?

+16039012064 05:17 AM

32 Mary Roseen: Sep 11, 2020 I’d love to talk to you about it
+16039012064 05:22 AM over the phone
 Case 2:22-cv-00024-DLC Document 52-1 Filed 07/21/22 Page 314 of 1373
33 Mary Roseen: Sep 12, 2020 Hi, I was going to call today
+16039012064 07:34 PM but it was busy and I’m too
tied now. Talk tomorrow? That
would be nice

34 Mary Roseen: Sep 12, 2020 Zach has a Lutheran

+16039012064 07:35 PM background but is no longer
religious

35 Mary Roseen: Sep 12, 2020 Sure. Maybe later afternoon?

+16039012064 07:42 PM

36 Mary Roseen: Sep 12, 2020 Sounds good. How is your

+16039012064 08:19 PM weekend?

37 Mary Roseen: Sep 12, 2020 Weekend is good-on duty

+16039012064 08:19 PM

38 Mary Roseen: Sep 12, 2020 But bed time. Talk tomorrow
+16039012064 08:19 PM

39 Mary Roseen: Sep 12, 2020 Good. Lala salama

+16039012064 08:21 PM

40 Mary Roseen: Sep 25, 2020 Hi. I’ve been thinking of you all
+16039012064 09:12 PM week. Are you in UT?

41 Mary Roseen: Sep 25, 2020 I’m going to bed, but I love
+16039012064 09:13 PM you and I hope your drive
safely and have a good
weekend.

42 Mary Roseen: Sep 26, 2020 Did you get to Utah?

+16039012064 06:12 PM

43 Mary Roseen: Sep 26, 2020 Hi, yes, sorry. I made it late
+16039012064 06:20 PM Thursday night. We’ve had a
really nice time. Zach is
wonderful. Hiking yesterday,
and a hot springs today.

44 Mary Roseen: Sep 26, 2020 Liked “Hi, yes, sorry. I made it
+16039012064 06:20 PM late Thursday night. We’ve
had a really nice time. Zach is
wonderful. Hiking yesterday,
and a hot springs today.”

45 Mary Roseen: Sep 26, 2020 Can you send that to mom
+16039012064 06:20 PM too?

46 Mary Roseen: Sep 26, 2020 I’m glad you made it and
+16039012064 06:20 PM things are good.

47 Mary Roseen: Sep 26, 2020 How long of a drive is it?

+16039012064 06:21 PM

48 Mary Roseen: Sep 26, 2020 Yes I will. It’s 6hrs

+16039012064 06:24 PM

49 Mary Roseen: Sep 27, 2020

+16039012064 07:53 AM

50 Mary Roseen: Sep 27, 2020 Liked an image

+16039012064 11:33 AM

51 Mary Roseen: Oct 03, 2020 Can we catch up? I want to

+16039012064 11:47 AM hear about last weekend
 Case 2:22-cv-00024-DLC Document 52-1 Filed 07/21/22 Page 315 of 1373
69 Mary Roseen: Oct 12, 2020 I don’t have much faith that the
+16039012064 10:30 AM ACA will survive and, What
are we all going to do? Am I
just uninformed or is that a
legitimate fear? The premium
tax credit is vital for me

70 Mary Roseen: Oct 12, 2020 I don’t know...I think if Biden

+16039012064 10:37 AM wins, they will find a way to
keep it

71 Mary Roseen: Oct 12, 2020 So we have to be hopeful..

+16039012064 10:37 AM

72 Mary Roseen: Oct 12, 2020 But I’m also not very informed
+16039012064 10:37 AM

73 Mary Roseen: Oct 13, 2020 Is Cindy’s birthday tomorrow

+16039012064 05:49 PM or the 18th?

74 Mary Roseen: Oct 13, 2020 18

+16039012064 05:50 PM

75 Mary Roseen: Oct 13, 2020 Thanks

+16039012064 06:02 PM

76 Mary Roseen: Nov 02, 2020 Hi, I’m thinking about you. I
+16039012064 10:42 AM spent the weekend in a city
just south of salt lake with
Zach, who was dog watching
for his friends. Maybe you’ve
already heard but long-story-
short he is moving to
Bozeman, so I came down to
get him. It was a fun weekend
and we are just about to leave.
Hope you are well and Talk to
you later

77 Mary Roseen: Nov 02, 2020 Wow. Where’s he going to

+16039012064 12:20 PM live?

78 Mary Roseen: Nov 02, 2020 No, I didn’t hear that. Have a
+16039012064 12:20 PM good drive.

79 Mary Roseen: Dec 16, 2020 I’m very much on the Zach
+16039012064 01:26 PM Tom team, I also nervous bc
this is your first relationship
and I don’t want you to go
through it thinking things are
“normal”...you’re right, there’s
no normal, which means you
have to checkin with yourself
regularly. that’s all I’m saying.

80 Mary Roseen: Dec 16, 2020 Thank you. I appreciate that.

+16039012064 01:44 PM

81 Mary Roseen: Dec 16, 2020 I want to ask you about

+16039012064 03:46 PM working out at the gym with a
mask when we talk later. I may
forget.

82 Mary Roseen: Dec 16, 2020 I’m free if you want to talk.
+16039012064 05:25 PM
 Case 2:22-cv-00024-DLC Document 52-1 Filed 07/21/22 Page 316 of 1373
83 Mary Roseen: Dec 16, 2020 Ok. Is 30min ok?
+16039012064 05:28 PM

84 Mary Roseen: Dec 16, 2020 Sure

+16039012064 05:50 PM

85 Mary Roseen: Dec 23, 2020 Hi, did Nana die today 5 years
+16039012064 07:51 AM ago?

86 Mary Roseen: Dec 23, 2020 Yes

+16039012064 07:54 AM

87 Mary Roseen: Dec 23, 2020 Mom went to church this

+16039012064 07:54 AM morning.

88 Mary Roseen: Dec 23, 2020 Thanks

+16039012064 03:12 PM

89 Mary Roseen: Jan 16, 2021 Catch up this weekend?

+16039012064 06:23 AM

90 Mary Roseen: Jan 16, 2021 Yes sounds good. I don’t know
+16039012064 08:03 AM when yet. I’m going to
crosscut soon and I will be in
touch later

91 Mary Roseen: Jan 31, 2021 I’ve heard through the

+16039012064 08:22 AM grapevine that you’re moving?

92 Mary Roseen: Feb 01, 2021 Hi, yes. Zach and I are looking
+16039012064 08:35 AM for a place together, but it may
take some time to find it.

Did you talk to Cindy?

93 Mary Roseen: Feb 01, 2021 No, mom

+16039012064 09:29 AM

94 Mary Roseen: Feb 01, 2021 But mom had talked to Cindy
+16039012064 09:56 AM who I guess had been hoping
you’d find a place with her?

95 Mary Roseen: Feb 01, 2021 I think it’s great your

+16039012064 09:58 AM considering moving bc your
apt is practical but tough in
other ways. I do worry about
you moving in with Zach

96 Mary Roseen: Feb 02, 2021 Yes, she has wanted that for a
+16039012064 03:14 PM while and I have been open to
considering it but never
committed to living with her.
She has mostly stopped
talking to me for the past
month, but I have reached-out
to her a few times.

97 Mary Roseen: Feb 02, 2021 Eww. I hate the silent

+16039012064 03:49 PM treatment

98 Mary Roseen: Feb 02, 2021 That’s lame

+16039012064 03:49 PM
 Case 2:22-cv-00024-DLC Document 52-1 Filed 07/21/22 Page 317 of 1373
99 Mary Roseen: Feb 02, 2021 Yes is agree. I know she is
+16039012064 04:20 PM hurting because of some
reasons including the housing,
but I think she is being
immature and passive-
aggressive. I have not done
anything wrong, that I know of.
Her approach to this is hurting
me a little bit.

100 Mary Roseen: Feb 02, 2021 Im sure b

+16039012064 04:42 PM

101 Mary Roseen: Feb 02, 2021 I’m sure*

+16039012064 04:42 PM

102 Mary Roseen: Feb 02, 2021 I also wonder if this isn’t only
+16039012064 04:43 PM about housing? But rather the
housing issue is the last straw
so to speak? Might she be
frustrated by a number of
things?

103 Mary Roseen: Feb 02, 2021 And, you and Zach are moving
+16039012064 04:43 PM quickly. You can’t deny that.

104 Mary Roseen: Feb 02, 2021 I’m not suggesting you move
+16039012064 04:44 PM in with Cindy-I imagine that
would be a triggering
experience for you, nor am I
trying to talk you out of moving
in with Zach, just that there are
many sides here.

105 Mary Roseen: Feb 16, 2021 Shawn said you skied with him
+16039012064 04:06 PM yesterday? What happened
with Brian?

106 Mary Roseen: Feb 16, 2021 Hello,

+16039012064 07:55 PM

107 Mary Roseen: Feb 16, 2021 ?

+16039012064 07:55 PM

108 Mary Roseen: Feb 16, 2021 Hi, I’m sorry. Busy day.
+16039012064 08:07 PM Unfortunately He broke his leg

109 Mary Roseen: Feb 16, 2021 Yea, I heard

+16039012064 08:09 PM

110 Mary Roseen: Feb 16, 2021 I need to go to bed.

+16039012064 08:09 PM

111 Mary Roseen: Feb 16, 2021 But we should talk soon.
+16039012064 08:09 PM

112 Mary Roseen: Feb 17, 2021 Liked “ But we should talk
+16039012064 12:55 PM soon. ”

113 Mary Roseen: Feb 28, 2021 We still haven’t found a time
+16039012064 07:12 PM
 Case 2:22-cv-00024-DLC Document 52-1 Filed 07/21/22 Page 318 of 1373
114 Mary Roseen: Feb 28, 2021 Hi, I know. I was thinking
+16039012064 07:35 PM about I’m you today but ended
up taking wi to Mom and Dad
for a while. It was good. Do
you want to talk this week or
next weekend?

115 Mary Roseen: Feb 28, 2021 Oh good. I’m glad you talked
+16039012064 08:02 PM with them

116 Mary Roseen: Feb 28, 2021 Probably not this week. It’s
+16039012064 08:02 PM hard to find a time these days

117 Mary Roseen: Feb 28, 2021 But the weekend is looking
+16039012064 08:03 PM wide open

118 Mary Roseen: Feb 28, 2021 Sounds good. Let’s plan
+16039012064 09:19 PM tentatively for Sunday

119 Mary Roseen: Mar 01, 2021 Tom, this is not okay.
+16039012064 03:42 AM

120 Mary Roseen: Mar 01, 2021 You are an adult with your
+16039012064 03:42 AM own relationships to tend to. Y

121 Mary Roseen: Mar 01, 2021 And sure. Sunday sounds fine.
+16039012064 03:43 AM

122 Mary Roseen: Mar 01, 2021

+16039012064 08:30 AM

123 Mary Roseen: Mar 01, 2021 You aren’t going to talk to us?
+16039012064 08:30 AM

124 Mary Roseen: Mar 01, 2021 You are isolating yourself
+16039012064 08:30 AM

125 Mary Roseen: Mar 01, 2021 From people you’ve know for
+16039012064 08:30 AM 30 yrs. not 9 months.

126 Mary Roseen: Mar 01, 2021 ??

+16039012064 08:31 AM

127 Mary Roseen: Mar 01, 2021 I understand your concerns

+16039012064 08:53 AM but I feel that they are based
on lack of information,
misinformation, and
misunderstanding. I know that
I haven’t talked with you for a
while and you have probably
heard pieces from everyone
else. I will talk with all of you,
but Zach is going to take a
break because he is hurt. He
has been kind with all of you
and tried to develop a
relationship, but it’s not
working right now. I speak for
myself and this is my
message. I did not answer
your call because we are
preparing to have a fun day
xcskiing in big sky and trying
not to let all of this get in the
way of that.
 Case 2:22-cv-00024-DLC Document 52-1 Filed 07/21/22 Page 319 of 1373
128 Mary Roseen: Mar 01, 2021 Tom I’m at work so I couldnt
+16039012064 09:51 AM talk anyway, but I needed to
leave a message. Zach’s
messages are sweet, but they
aren’t a “hi, how are you?
How’s life?” Instead, it feels
like he is talking for you and
defending you and that doesn’t
feel good to me., espcially
since there’s no conflict
between you and me as far as
I know. And, he only
messaged after I messaged
you last night. His text wasn’t
an out of the blue attempt to
connect.
I’ve heard snippets from
Cindy, but I understand there
are multiple sides to a story
and I’ve heard zero from you.
As Far as I can tell you’ve just
been absent-isn’t it winter and
don’t you have a more flexible
schedule? I’m out straight, so I
haven’t had much time to
communicate lately and I’ll
own that, but you haven’t
made an effort. I’m not trying
to take sides between you and
Cindy. That situation bothers
me, it my priority is trying to
maintain my Relationship
With my brother. I’m glad
you’ve found Zach, and I’d
understand zero
communication over a
weekend If he still Lived in
Utah and you only Saw each
other once a month, but he
lives in Bozeman now. You
see each other all the time. So
I think it’s time to come up For
air and reconnect with your
world. One person is not a
world.

I’m not trying to ruin your ski

day. I hope it’s nice.

129 Mary Roseen: Mar 01, 2021 *but my priority

+16039012064 09:52 AM

130 Mary Roseen: Mar 01, 2021 We are on the way and I’m
+16039012064 09:57 AM loosing service soon. I will
respond later

131 Mary Roseen: Mar 01, 2021 Mom is filling in details for me.
+16039012064 09:57 AM I reacted to Zach’s text the
way I did Bc I believed it was
in response to my text you
about talking.

132 Mary Roseen: Mar 01, 2021 To you*

+16039012064 09:57 AM
 Case 2:22-cv-00024-DLC Document 52-1 Filed 07/21/22 Page 320 of 1373
133 Mary Roseen: Mar 01, 2021 Removed a like from “We are
+16039012064 05:51 PM on the way and I’m loosing
service soon. I will respond
later”

134 Mary Roseen: Mar 01, 2021 You’re right that I haven’t
+16039012064 05:57 PM made much of an effort to
connect with you, and I’m
sorry. It sounds to me like you
are trying to be objective and I
appreciate that. Can we plan
to talk tomorrow evening?

135 Mary Roseen: Mar 01, 2021 We had a good day. It was
+16039012064 05:58 PM beautiful. I skied and Zach
snowshoed.

136 Mary Roseen: Mar 01, 2021

+16039012064 05:58 PM

137 Mary Roseen: Mar 01, 2021 Omg that weather.

+16039012064 07:00 PM

138 Mary Roseen: Mar 01, 2021 Yes tomorrow evening should
+16039012064 07:00 PM work.

139 Mary Roseen: Mar 01, 2021 Liked “Yes tomorrow evening
+16039012064 08:21 PM should work.”

140 Mary Roseen: Mar 02, 2021 Hi, did you say that 8 Est was
+16039012064 10:25 AM too late? That would be good
for me

141 Mary Roseen: Mar 02, 2021 *is

+16039012064 10:26 AM

142 Mary Roseen: Mar 02, 2021 That should be fine

+16039012064 10:34 AM

143 Mary Roseen: Mar 02, 2021 Good. I also want to clarify
+16039012064 10:46 AM that yesterday morning I did
say to Zach that we need to
stop talking to everyone for a
while because I was
overwhelmed, annoyed, and
often I think that less input can
help the dust settle. However,
I realized what I really meant
is that I will talk with all of you
but it’s best that Zach does not
or has very limited contact for
now.

144 Mary Roseen: Mar 02, 2021 Yes. I agree. Tom, Zach is a
+16039012064 10:51 AM stranger to me and you should
be the one facilitating
introductions to his family. He
shouldn’t be left alone to do
that. And, his communication,
although kind, doesn’t have
the same Impact as his
intention. His intentions are
good, but it’s impact is odd,
and since we hardly hear from
you, it’s causing tension.
 Case 2:22-cv-00024-DLC Document 52-1 Filed 07/21/22 Page 321 of 1373
145 Mary Roseen: Mar 02, 2021 So, I’m glad you’re realizing
+16039012064 10:51 AM this.

146 Mary Roseen: Mar 02, 2021 Talk tonight.

+16039012064 10:52 AM

147 Mary Roseen: Mar 02, 2021 I’m glad we talked.

+16039012064 07:45 PM Remember, you are in the
epitome of the gray

148 Mary Roseen: Mar 02, 2021 No one is unsupportive of your

+16039012064 07:46 PM relationship.

149 Mary Roseen: Mar 02, 2021 And everyone wants to see
+16039012064 07:46 PM you happy and thriving.

150 Mary Roseen: Mar 02, 2021 As long as that happiness

+16039012064 07:47 PM includes your family.

151 Mary Roseen: Mar 02, 2021 And, for the record, from what
+16039012064 07:57 PM you’ve said, the ways that
Zach is helping you are ways
I’d want to help you too. So
that earns Zach some points in
my book.

I am open minded but I also

reserve the right to be careful
and cautious.

152 Mary Roseen: Mar 02, 2021 Before I left Fryeburg one of
+16039012064 08:02 PM my
Favorite teacher friends who
was probably 15 yrs older than
me said that she remembered
her late 20s and early 30s
being really rocky. It stuck with
me Bc it was true and I think
the same might the case for
you. I feel like you’re in this
giant journey of self-
acceptance that is difficult and
painful and lonely. I’m glad
you have Zach to help you
through it, but, again, you
need a village.

153 Mary Roseen: Mar 05, 2021 Hello?

+16039012064 07:17 PM

154 Mary Roseen: Mar 05, 2021 Please stop texting that to me.
+16039012064 07:23 PM It’s sarcastic and annoying.
I’ve had a lot of tough
conversations this week and
received a lot of information
but I have had no time to
process. I will respond when I
am ready. I have a ski race
tomorrow.

155 Mary Roseen: Mar 05, 2021 Ok. Good luck.

+16039012064 07:24 PM

156 Mary Roseen: Mar 05, 2021 But please start

+16039012064 07:24 PM acknowledging to texts.
 Case 2:22-cv-00024-DLC Document 52-1 Filed 07/21/22 Page 322 of 1373
157 Mary Roseen: Mar 05, 2021 All you have to say is “thank
+16039012064 07:25 PM you. Talk soon.”

158 Mary Roseen: Mar 05, 2021 Or “talk later”

+16039012064 07:25 PM

159 Mary Roseen: Mar 05, 2021 (And for the record, your
+16039012064 07:30 PM silence is annoying and could
be interpreted as passive
aggressive. i try not to think
that way, but in the spirit of
communication, I figure you
should know how your
behavior can be perceived.)

160 Mary Roseen: Mar 05, 2021 Thank you for the good luck. I
+16039012064 08:15 PM am not done with this but I do
not have the time or energy to
respond.

161 Mary Roseen: Mar 19, 2021

+16039012064 09:23 AM

162 Mary Roseen: Mar 19, 2021 I downloaded this app

+16039012064 09:25 AM yesterday. $20/yr. It’s great so
far. You would probably like it
to.

163 Mary Roseen: Mar 19, 2021 I’ll check it out

+16039012064 10:41 AM

164 Mary Roseen: Mar 20, 2021 Hi, call later. I’m eating
+16039012064 07:06 PM

165 Mary Roseen: Mar 20, 2021 You awake?

+16039012064 08:29 PM

166 Mary Roseen: Mar 20, 2021 Not really

+16039012064 08:39 PM

167 Mary Roseen: Mar 20, 2021 Ok. Maybe we can catch up
+16039012064 08:40 PM tomorrow. Sleep well

168 Mary Roseen: Mar 21, 2021 Hi. Yes

+16039012064 06:38 AM
 Case 2:22-cv-00024-DLC Document 52-1 Filed 07/21/22 Page 323 of 1373
169 Mary Roseen: Mar 21, 2021 Tom, I’m nervous to even
+16039012064 08:36 PM reach out to you these days
Bc I’m scared I’m going to
drive you away. This isn’t a
situation of an older sister not
listening to you or telling you
what to do or not letting you
advocate for yourself, it’s a
situation of “please listen Bc
your considering a dangerous
path.” But I’m scared to even
talk to you these days Bc I’m
worried I’ll just irritate you. I
don’t know how to frame it in a
positive way, but no matter
how good Zach made you feel
at times, I do not believe that
was the right relationship for
you and I ask that you really
consult with others before you
make any decisions regarding
getting back together. And
again, you’ll just prolong the
pain.

170 Mary Roseen: Mar 21, 2021 https://www.psychologytoday.c

+16039012064 08:46 PM om/us/blog/the-mindful-self-
express/201603/is-your-brain-
breakup

171 Mary Roseen: Mar 22, 2021 https://www.healthline.com/he

+16039012064 09:37 AM alth/stages-of-grief

172 Mary Roseen: Mar 30, 2021 1 by 1 you are losing your
+16039012064 01:22 PM family. Is that what you want?

173 Mary Roseen: Mar 30, 2021 No, Mary. I have meant to
+16039012064 02:22 PM respond to you, but I have
needed some space. And yes,
sometimes I get irritated
because of the way you talk to
me. I am talking to Mom and
Dad tonight.

174 Mary Roseen: Mar 30, 2021 Tom, you’re not the only one
+16039012064 03:06 PM around here with feelings. And
we all love you and are
worried. Happy birthday eve.

175 Mary Roseen: Mar 30, 2021 Also, I do not believe my texts
+16039012064 03:18 PM from a week ago were
anything but supportive. I’m
not going to talk to you about
this anymore, but when you
want to talk I’m here.

176 Mary Roseen: Mar 31, 2021 Happy Birthday.

+16039012064 06:28 AM

177 Mary Roseen: Mar 31, 2021 Thank you, and thank you for
+16039012064 10:06 AM the card. I love it. I will open
your gift tonight

178 Mary Roseen: Mar 31, 2021 Glad you got it

+16039012064 11:28 AM
 Case 2:22-cv-00024-DLC Document 52-1 Filed 07/21/22 Page 46 of 1373

From: Tom Roseen tomroseen@gmail.com

Subject: Re: Last four pages of texts
Date: April 2, 2021 at 7:21 AM
To: Zach Rusk zachrusk5@gmail.com

This is what I wrote in response during that weekend/week of the 20th. We have talked about
or addressed some of this since then, I think even during the week of the 21st, so I have felt
since then that maybe I need to rework it to account for the changes. However, now I want to
send this to show you my thought process at the time.
Standout topics to work on:
Like I mentioned, I want to work on improving my communication, including being open to
sharing more information and advocating more for myself. I know that I am improving, and
I even sense that in the past week, such as being more confident, even in the tough time.
I want to improve my ability to follow my nature and truly take the time and space I need to
process. Throughout my life I learned that I was too slow, my speed was unacceptable, and
that I need to make decisions quicker because that is what society values and needs.
Therefore, I developed a habit of expediting my decision-making process to bring myself to
the level of society. For example, I will still find myself making a decision at work, and
thinking “wait, why did I say that? Is that true?” and if it’s not, then I have to redirect my
coworkers, or myself. This has not happened with critical things on the farm, and has not
resulted in terrible mistakes, but I realize it can be annoying for my coworkers and I need to
follow my nature. I am embarrassed but I know it has happened with us, and I am sorry for
that because I know it has caused some pain. I know this may be alarming to you. I am
being vulnerable right now and telling you that I recognize it, and I am working on it, with
myself and in therapy. I am good enough and there is nothing wrong with my deliberate
process. In fact, it is a strength. The other night you recognized how much I have changed in
the past year, and in the past nine months, and said that I am not slow. I appreciate that and
thank you.
Recognize and vocalize when I feel pressured to respond or make a decision.

Improving positivity in my life. One step I have already taken is that I subscribed to the I
Am app, and it has already been helpful. I get a three-day free trial, but I am sold.
I want to find ways to decrease my alcohol intake. I will soon begin working full time, and
if we can establish healthy routines, I think that will help significantly.
Use my phone to be more organized and set reminders, such as the appropriate advance time
to call for med refills.
Go to bed at a consistent, early time.
Try not to raise my voice when I feel triggered or upset.
“I do sometimes ask for the time I need and then find myself slipping into avoidance, often
unintentionally. I say I need more time, but then sometimes I don’t necessarily use it to
address a topic. I am working on this.” Maybe I can use my phone to help?
Thinking errors...say more
 Case 2:22-cv-00024-DLC Document 52-1 Filed 07/21/22 Page 47 of 1373

Thinking errors...say more

“However, I have work to do because I mostly lack the self-compassion that I want. I am
making progress. I know that being a compassionate person does not mean that I do not
advocate for myself, but I am learning to advocate for myself with compassion. There are
times when I lose sight of that compassion, such as when I learn about some of your actions
and misinterpret them, when I know that you have good intentions.”

On Sat, Mar 20, 2021 at 9:27 AM Zach Rusk <zachrusk5@gmail.com> wrote:

What are the standout topics you see you need and would like to work on? Specifically. You’ve communicated some in the past.
Curious if/how they have evolved and if there are any new ones.

On Mar 20, 2021, at 8:48 AM, Tom Roseen <tomroseen@gmail.com> wrote:

I would really like to find a healthy way to move forward, and like you have mentioned about yourself, I too have some standout
topics to work on. I believe that involves some amount of time and space, and therapy for each of us.

On Sat, Mar 20, 2021 at 8:32 AM Tom Roseen <tomroseen@gmail.com> wrote:

Hi,

Thank you for this. It looks helpful.

On Sat, Mar 20, 2021 at 7:54 AM Zach Rusk <zachrusk5@gmail.com> wrote:

FYI that as I’ve stated, to get my own medical advice, like yours from Greg (therapeutic wise), I’ve sent everything to Dr
Starr, including our texts (in full, likewise with those you’ve sent me between you and Cindy, Mary, etc., plus your email to
Cindy) and the journal entries. Sent him my comms (texts) with you/your siblings, too. He just responded moment ago with
“Zach, I’m looking forward to seeing you”. I responded with I haven’t made an official decision yet due to logistics in large
part and I’m torn. But that I have until the 27th

> On Mar 20, 2021, at 7:44 AM, Zach Rusk <zachrusk5@gmail.com> wrote:
>
> If helpful, the last four pages of our most recent texts are attached. These commence from just moments prior to your call
to me the first time yesterday, This may help Greg help you best, when coupled with my journal entry from yesterday, which
is also attached (the full journal entry in one pdf, this time). And our call records from yesterday, as well. (Provided snippets
of the journal entries to you intermittently between your three calls to me yesterday). Plus ideas (written to you this morning
via email) on how to possibly approach the most important topic to you, as you communicated, from our last call last night.
>
> <TextMsgs_Tom_Roseen_2021_0320_07_29 copy.pdf>
> <Zach Full March 19th 2021 Journal Entry PDF.pdf>
> <IMG_0279.PNG>
>
>
>
> <How to improve partners relationship with their siblings .pdf>
> <7 Helpful Ways To Actually Get Along Better With Your Partners Parents.pdf>
> <How to Help Your Partner Feel Comfortable With Your Family.pdf>
>
>
Case 2:22-cv-00024-DLC Document 45-1 Filed 07/05/22 Page 78 of 78
 Case 2:22-cv-00024-DLC Document 45-1 Filed 07/05/22 Page 39 of 78

From: Tom Roseen tomroseen@gmail.com

Subject: Re: Last four pages of texts
Date: April 2, 2021 at 7:21 AM
To: Zach Rusk zachrusk5@gmail.com

This is what I wrote in response during that weekend/week of the 20th. We have talked about
or addressed some of this since then, I think even during the week of the 21st, so I have felt
since then that maybe I need to rework it to account for the changes. However, now I want to
send this to show you my thought process at the time.
Standout topics to work on:

Like I mentioned, I want to work on improving my communication, including being open to

sharing more information and advocating more for myself. I know that I am improving, and
I even sense that in the past week, such as being more confident, even in the tough time.
I want to improve my ability to follow my nature and truly take the time and space I need to
process. Throughout my life I learned that I was too slow, my speed was unacceptable, and
that I need to make decisions quicker because that is what society values and needs.
Therefore, I developed a habit of expediting my decision-making process to bring myself to
the level of society. For example, I will still find myself making a decision at work, and
thinking “wait, why did I say that? Is that true?” and if it’s not, then I have to redirect my
coworkers, or myself. This has not happened with critical things on the farm, and has not
resulted in terrible mistakes, but I realize it can be annoying for my coworkers and I need to
follow my nature. I am embarrassed but I know it has happened with us, and I am sorry for
that because I know it has caused some pain. I know this may be alarming to you. I am
being vulnerable right now and telling you that I recognize it, and I am working on it, with
myself and in therapy. I am good enough and there is nothing wrong with my deliberate
process. In fact, it is a strength. The other night you recognized how much I have changed in
the past year, and in the past nine months, and said that I am not slow. I appreciate that and
thank you.
Recognize and vocalize when I feel pressured to respond or make a decision.

Improving positivity in my life. One step I have already taken is that I subscribed to the I
Am app, and it has already been helpful. I get a three-day free trial, but I am sold.
I want to find ways to decrease my alcohol intake. I will soon begin working full time, and
if we can establish healthy routines, I think that will help significantly.
Use my phone to be more organized and set reminders, such as the appropriate advance time
to call for med refills.

Go to bed at a consistent, early time.

Try not to raise my voice when I feel triggered or upset.
“I do sometimes ask for the time I need and then find myself slipping into avoidance, often
unintentionally. I say I need more time, but then sometimes I don’t necessarily use it to
address a topic. I am working on this.” Maybe I can use my phone to help?
Thinking errors...say more
 Case 2:22-cv-00024-DLC Document 45-1 Filed 07/05/22 Page 40 of 78

Thinking errors...say more

“However, I have work to do because I mostly lack the self-compassion that I want. I am
making progress. I know that being a compassionate person does not mean that I do not
advocate for myself, but I am learning to advocate for myself with compassion. There are
times when I lose sight of that compassion, such as when I learn about some of your actions
and misinterpret them, when I know that you have good intentions.”

On Sat, Mar 20, 2021 at 9:27 AM Zach Rusk <zachrusk5@gmail.com> wrote:

What are the standout topics you see you need and would like to work on? Specifically. You’ve communicated some in the past.
Curious if/how they have evolved and if there are any new ones.

On Mar 20, 2021, at 8:48 AM, Tom Roseen <tomroseen@gmail.com> wrote:

I would really like to find a healthy way to move forward, and like you have mentioned about yourself, I too have some standout
topics to work on. I believe that involves some amount of time and space, and therapy for each of us.

On Sat, Mar 20, 2021 at 8:32 AM Tom Roseen <tomroseen@gmail.com> wrote:

Hi,

Thank you for this. It looks helpful.

On Sat, Mar 20, 2021 at 7:54 AM Zach Rusk <zachrusk5@gmail.com> wrote:

FYI that as I’ve stated, to get my own medical advice, like yours from Greg (therapeutic wise), I’ve sent everything to Dr
Starr, including our texts (in full, likewise with those you’ve sent me between you and Cindy, Mary, etc., plus your email to
Cindy) and the journal entries. Sent him my comms (texts) with you/your siblings, too. He just responded moment ago with
“Zach, I’m looking forward to seeing you”. I responded with I haven’t made an official decision yet due to logistics in large
part and I’m torn. But that I have until the 27th

> On Mar 20, 2021, at 7:44 AM, Zach Rusk <zachrusk5@gmail.com> wrote:
>
> If helpful, the last four pages of our most recent texts are attached. These commence from just moments prior to your call
to me the first time yesterday, This may help Greg help you best, when coupled with my journal entry from yesterday, which
is also attached (the full journal entry in one pdf, this time). And our call records from yesterday, as well. (Provided snippets
of the journal entries to you intermittently between your three calls to me yesterday). Plus ideas (written to you this morning
via email) on how to possibly approach the most important topic to you, as you communicated, from our last call last night.
>
> <TextMsgs_Tom_Roseen_2021_0320_07_29 copy.pdf>
> <Zach Full March 19th 2021 Journal Entry PDF.pdf>
> <IMG_0279.PNG>
>
>
>
> <How to improve partners relationship with their siblings .pdf>
> <7 Helpful Ways To Actually Get Along Better With Your Partners Parents.pdf>
> <How to Help Your Partner Feel Comfortable With Your Family.pdf>
>
>
 Case 2:22-cv-00024-DLC Document 45-1 Filed 07/05/22 Page 29 of 78

From: Tom Roseen tomroseen@gmail.com

Subject: Re: Email response and notes for Mar8 meeting
Date: March 7, 2021 at 9:42 PM
To: Zach Rusk zachrusk5@gmail.com

The cost of my Vyvanse is not just $300. It’s the opportunity cost of paying the deductible
so that my policy can pay for thousands if I have a medical emergency.
You are trying to help me recognize and correct my thinking errors.

You have focused on me so much recently because you love me so much that you have not
addressed some of the personal business that you would normally address immediately. This
is one example of your cognitive dissonance.
You said: “I’m glad you put your phone on silent.”
You referenced your own medical expenses which would be less than the full cost of my
Vyvanse.

The point of this email was to help me organize my thoughts and prepare for tomorrow, not
to provide something for you to read.
“This took too long, Tom, again.”

On Sun, Mar 7, 2021 at 8:28 PM Tom Roseen <tomroseen@gmail.com> wrote:

Zach,
This a draft response to your texts, emails and our conversations leading up to our
meeting with Greg. I am dissatisfied with some of the phrasing, and organization, and
there are many topics that I did not address, but I hope to address them. Please ask
questions. I may have wanted to change some things around, but I no longer have time
before the meeting. I hope this helps. I love you.
You are unsure about my commitment. I understand, but what if my commitment is
masked by the different pace of my life? I am persistent, tolerant, loyal, and I do not give
up easily. I am happy to provide examples, but I’m not sure I need to. When I say I am
committed to you and our relationship for a while, I mean it. I know that “a while” is
subjective and intangible, but how can I put a number on that? Please know that when I
pursue an interest or passion, it is usually a part of my life for years. You also said that you
may not have the patience to continue with the current circumstance of our relationship,
such as my inability to advocate for myself and you, particularly with my family, and my
“wishy-washy” style. I know that this is difficult, and you have lived with repetitive
challenges throughout your life, but maybe you need to learn to be patient with me and this
process. I know that you are working on this. Things are moving and I am changing. I am
a big-picture thinker, and I am able to remove myself from the drama of a moment and
realize that “I’m not ready to be done with this endeavor.” You say that the past is the best
predictor of the future. I know that in our 10-month past we have experienced some tough
times and you have found a lot of red flags. For me, challenging, stressful, exhausting, and
 Case 2:22-cv-00024-DLC Document 45-1 Filed 07/05/22 Page 30 of 78

times and you have found a lot of red flags. For me, challenging, stressful, exhausting, and
overwhelming. I only mention these dissatisfying aspects to provide reason that I could
have bailed many times, but I am still by your side. What does that say about me? It has
also been beautiful and positively life changing, and more.
You said that you are going to tell it how it is “finally,” and push me. Please
remember that I have been pushed and dragged through school and other parts of life since
I was a kid because I did not fit into everyone else’s pace of life. It was traumatic for me
and I am sensitive to ideas about someone pushing me to do something. I am not opposed
if I know the person loves me, is well intended, and empowers me, but it is still a delicate
topic. For example, you used the metaphor of “only dipping my feet in the water.” I
understand what you mean when you say this, but it immediately pulled a memory that I
have of my Mom essentially forcing me to jump in the deep water at the end of the dock at
our town’s beach, because I was scared and not ready at the same time as others in my
swimming class. She brought me there one evening after dinner and I sat on the dock in
agony trying to figure out what to do. She said: “we are not leaving until you jump in the
water.” I realize she was well intended, and sometimes I think: “why was this so difficult
for me- your Mom made you jump in some deep water. Big deal.” However, I often
question if she learned when to stop pushing me, when too far was too far. It feels to me
that she did not know, and I was incapable of effectively communicating that.
You also use a lot of language that is upsetting, and possibly distancing, such as
“liability,” “threat,” “egregious,” “protect myself,” etc. I understand your meaning and
accept it, but I am uncomfortable about your language choice. Again, I know that you are
very experienced and knowledgeable in law, and that impresses me and I want to learn
more, but sometimes I feel like there is less distance between our relationship and your
lawsuits. Our relationship is loving, caring, honest… and when I think of lawyers,
lawsuits, and the judicial system, the words that come to my mind are cold, strict,
objective, tiresome, devoid of feeling, and more. That is not our relationship.
You commented on my illogical or hypocritical approach to you seeing other
people- I want you for myself but don’t want to commit to you. I am not oblivious to this
characteristic. I also felt similarly with Emilie and I recognized it and questioned it. We
were close in college but when I saw her hanging out with other guys, I became upset,
although I never expressed it. I knew that I was not ready to date her, because I was
physically unattracted to her and because of other many unresolved personal issues, yet I
did not want her to see other people. When we graduated and she began to date another
guy, I was angry and resentful of him. I felt like she belonged to me, but I was incapable of
having a relationship with her. I recognized that this was hypocritical, and I never acted
on this feeling, but I questioned it. So, I have picked up on this thinking pattern in myself,
and I am trying to work through it, but I did not communicate it to you.

Other topics, questions, and excerpts I wanted to/am addressing. Some of these questions
may seem crazy to you, but I wrote them to ask myself and make sure that I am answering
them for myself and speaking my truth.
 Case 2:22-cv-00024-DLC Document 45-1 Filed 07/05/22 Page 31 of 78

My siblings are not accommodating my communication style

Tell me to not move in with Zach but do not explain reasons why.

Do I defend my oppressors? Are my siblings oppressing me? What power do I give them?
“Don’t make the person YOU hurt feel bad for being hurt.”
You claim that my siblings were driving a wedge between us as early as last fall. Mary
said they forgave the promise wring incident- which says to me that they saw it as doing
something wrong. Maybe it was quick, but was it wrong?
I did not realize how serious my family situation is, and maybe I was caught in a view that
things would be fine and that my family would welcome you. I suppose that was naïve, or
idealistic.
Are my siblings jealous of us?
What do you mean when you say that I benched you? Put you on the sidelines?
I feel a lot of pressure to respond “the right way” because you are concerned about my
family threatening you and everything you have worked towards for the last 10 years. This
is difficult for me and leads me to start questioning my process: “Have I thought about this
enough? Is this really how I feel? Maybe I feel this way right now, but it may change
later….”
You sense that I am not committed 100% like you are.
“Please show me that you are serious about trying.”
I fell in love with you again on our ski day at Bridger- with the car and when we got home
and you wanted pretzels and cheese, but I was out.
Discussion points for the meeting with Greg:
“It’s not couples counseling. It’s facilitating a conversation to help me explain myself to
you. This is part of my therapy.”

-In October when Cindy was helping me figure out how to help Zach, I was
procrastinating about telling Shawn, and I said “…I’ll be honest, it’s difficult talking to all
of you, our family, about this stuff. I guess I’m afraid.” Cindy replied: “Just explain. Are
you afraid that we’re all going to say it’s too soon, etc?” I said that I was not sure what the
fear was.
-I am really struggling to see how my family is treating me so poorly. I feel like something
is wrong, but I am unsure if I know entirely what is wrong. I see how Cindy has treated
me poorly, but Mary and Shawn are more confusing. I keep returning to the same theme
that they are disrespecting my agency, but is that it? Is that the problem, or is there more
that I am missing? They are projecting their concerns onto me and appear not to trust me?
Again, I feel that I have not questioned their relationships to the same extent that they are
questioning mine.
 Case 2:22-cv-00024-DLC Document 45-1 Filed 07/05/22 Page 32 of 78
questioning mine.
-My feelings of inadequacy
-My trouble accepting Zach’s need to have sexual contact with other people- Do I feel
envious or jealous? Do I take it as being inadequate? I think some of it comes from feeling
left out
-Do I receive some pleasure from emotional self-abuse?
-How do we help them help us?
Case 2:22-cv-00024-DLC Document 45-1 Filed 07/05/22 Page 1 of 78
1128 Shawn Roseen: Mar 06, 2021 "I am mentally ill"
+16035818972 11:46 AM

1129 Mary Roseen: Mar 06, 2021 Wow

+16039012064 12:15 PM

1130 group Mar 06, 2021

04:01 PM

1131 Mary Roseen: Mar 08, 2021 Tom, how did the race go?
+16039012064 02:43 PM

1132 group Mar 09, 2021 It went pretty well. It was a

11:06 AM different course and the 45k
was three laps, which is tough.
The first two were pretty fast
but then it warmed up and was
sticky and windy.
Unfortunately Zach was not
able to see much because the
start was at the biathalon
range and difficult to be to. We
had a nice day though

1133 Mary Roseen: Mar 09, 2021 Sounds good

+16039012064 03:16 PM

1134 group Mar 15, 2021 Zach and I broke up early this
01:31 PM morning. I met with Greg for
two hours today. I am
exhausted and numb, but ok
for the moment. I know you
will all want to talk but I cannot
talk with all of you right now
because I am so tired.

1135 Kathy Roseen: Mar 15, 2021 Oh Tom! Thank you for
+16033033371 01:35 PM sharing this. It must have been
very difficult & I’m so glad you
had Greg to help you through
this.
We are all here for you as you
know & will help in any way we
can when you are ready. This
is always hard, but you will get
through it. Call anytime

1136 Mary Roseen: Mar 15, 2021 Yes. What mom said.
+16039012064 01:36 PM

1137 group Mar 15, 2021 Thank you

01:48 PM

1138 Kathy Roseen: Mar 26, 2021 Thunder storm in T’boro & lots
+16033033371 03:04 PM of rain

1139 Mary Roseen: Mar 26, 2021 It’s windy here

+16039012064 04:03 PM
1140 group Mar 31, 2021 Hi, I sent you a group email
12:44 PM this morning. Please read it
when you get chance, if you
have not already. Zach and I
are continuing our relationship
and are working through our
challenges and focusing on
healthy ways to move forward.
I’m not ignoring what
happened last week and
everything leading up to it, but
I wanted to take some time
before addressing it. I hope to
be in touch with each of you
soon.

1141 Mary Roseen: Mar 31, 2021 Take some to address it with
+16039012064 12:52 PM us? Or with him?

1142 group Mar 31, 2021 Both. He and I have been

12:59 PM talking about it some

1143 Mary Roseen: Mar 31, 2021 Ok

+16039012064 01:18 PM

1144 Kathy Roseen: Mar 31, 2021 Thank you Tom

+16033033371 01:20 PM

1145 group Apr 06, 2021 Hi, Zach is excited about some
07:35 PM of my winter projects and
wanted to share it with you
because he knows I may not
for a while. I understand this
may feel uncomfortable
because you haven’t heard
from me in a bit, but I am in
the process of writing to you
because that is an easier way
for me to communicate. So,
I’m not ignoring you.

1146 Cindy Roseen: Apr 06, 2021 It’s extremely uncomfortable.

+16032448055 07:36 PM

1147 group Apr 06, 2021 I know this is a tough time.

07:37 PM He’s trying to connect
positively.

1148 Mary Roseen: Apr 06, 2021 Tom, he’s does some
+16039012064 07:37 PM damage.

1149 Mary Roseen: Apr 06, 2021 Done*

+16039012064 07:37 PM

1150 group Apr 06, 2021 He and I both want a healthy

07:38 PM relationship between us and
all of you and realize it will
take some time.

1151 Cindy Roseen: Apr 06, 2021 Does he think that everything
+16032448055 07:39 PM is back to normal now? Does
he think he can just smooth
things over? He’s burned all
bridges. I’m absolutely done
with him.
1152 Mary Roseen: Apr 06, 2021 But yes, your projects are
+16039012064 07:39 PM cool.

1153 group Apr 06, 2021 No, he does not think that.
07:39 PM And I don’t either

1154 group Apr 06, 2021 Thank you.

07:39 PM

1155 Mary Roseen: Apr 06, 2021 I literally just ordered the book
+16039012064 07:40 PM velvet rage. It was
recommended to me by a
friend.

1156 Mary Roseen: Apr 06, 2021 That’s the only way I can
+16039012064 07:41 PM make sense of any of this.

1157 Mary Roseen: Apr 06, 2021 Any of this = the situation we
+16039012064 07:41 PM find ourselves in.

1158 Mary Roseen: Apr 06, 2021 The situation being you aren’t
+16039012064 07:50 PM talking to us and are in what
appears to be an extremely
manipulative relationship.

1159 Mary Roseen: Apr 06, 2021 And now I’m sure I’ve just
+16039012064 07:51 PM made it worse. But when
you’re ready to talk, we’re
here.

1160 Mary Roseen: Apr 06, 2021 And Tom, if Zach wants to
+16039012064 08:08 PM make amends, he should
consider apologizing.
Especially to Cindy. And I’d
love to see your projects,
especially if you share them
with me. They are yours to
share.
1161 Kathy Roseen: Apr 06, 2021 Thank you for being in touch
+16033033371 08:08 PM Tom. We all have concerns
about you not connecting with
us for lengths of time; we are
concerned about you being
swayed away from us; we are
concerned about the way Zach
has reacted against you & the
others; but I also know you are
now 30 & I for one have to let
go & trust that you are on a
safe path, despite our
concerns. And right now what I
want more than anything is to
have everyone call a truce.....
acknowledge that stuff in the
recent past is yucky, & that it
won’t change because
everyone is so hurt & angry,
but to move forward & fix the
relationships with your sisters
& brother. That’s the most
important thing to me & dad
right now. And all he & I can
do is hope that you have made
a good choice that is safe,
even in times of stress when
behaviors can escalate. That,
& you not being in touch, are
our biggest concerns.

1162 Kathy Roseen: Apr 06, 2021 And I agree with Mary that
+16033033371 08:39 PM Cindy deserves an apology.
She was deeply affected & his
intent was to cause severe &
costly harm & consequences
for her by making up stories &
“reporting “ her. That is just
unbelievable to me & it has to
be addressed.

1163 group Apr 06, 2021 I am not avoidant, but I ask

08:53 PM that you do not contact me
right now until I am ready, and
I will let you know. I hope to be
in touch soon. If you have
things to say to me, and I
expect that you do, please
write them somewhere else
and send them to me later
after I have reached out. I love
you all.
347 Shawn Roseen: Feb 06, 2021 Hey, sorry. It’s going ok how
+16035818972 01:25 PM are you? I’m happy to hear
you played with them and that
we could have a good time
too. I would love that. I’m
excited about next weekend

348 Shawn Roseen: Feb 06, 2021 I'm good. Working a ton
+16035818972 01:35 PM currently

349 Shawn Roseen: Feb 06, 2021 Hopefully the weather holds
+16035818972 01:35 PM off for next weekend

350 Shawn Roseen: Feb 13, 2021 Trying to get to sky and
+16035818972 11:28 AM Trisha's by 5

351 Shawn Roseen: Feb 13, 2021 Did you bring a shirt(s) for
+16035818972 04:47 PM Zach?

352 Shawn Roseen: Feb 13, 2021 I haven't left yet but I will
+16035818972 04:47 PM

353 Shawn Roseen: Feb 13, 2021 You want multiple shirts?
+16035818972 04:47 PM

354 Shawn Roseen: Feb 13, 2021 Ok thanks no just one you to
+16035818972 04:49 PM think he might like

355 Shawn Roseen: Feb 13, 2021 What is their address?

+16035818972 05:08 PM

356 Shawn Roseen: Feb 13, 2021 4979

+16035818972 05:10 PM

357 Shawn Roseen: Feb 13, 2021 Thanks. Durston right

+16035818972 05:12 PM

358 Shawn Roseen: Feb 13, 2021 Yeah. I'll be there in a few
+16035818972 05:19 PM

359 Shawn Roseen: Feb 14, 2021 How're you doing?

+16035818972 01:49 PM

360 Shawn Roseen: Feb 14, 2021 Hi, ok. Feeling better now.
+16035818972 01:55 PM You?

361 Shawn Roseen: Feb 14, 2021 I'm good. Definitely slow
+16035818972 01:58 PM

362 Shawn Roseen: Feb 14, 2021 You guys are still skiing
+16035818972 06:04 PM tomorrow?

363 Shawn Roseen: Feb 14, 2021 I just want to make sure I
+16035818972 07:49 PM clarify. I’m not sure why you
assumed Zach gave that
edible to me, but just for the
record he did not give me an
edible. It was Peter.

364 Shawn Roseen: Feb 14, 2021 Yeah I know now. Because
+16035818972 07:49 PM Zach had talked about you
hitting the bong earlier that
night haha

365 Shawn Roseen: Feb 14, 2021 So I assumed he gave the

+16035818972 07:50 PM edible
366 Shawn Roseen: Feb 14, 2021 Im not sure what you mean
+16035818972 07:56 PM about him talking about that,
but maybe you just overheard
me saying that I had never
done that. Did Peter offer you
an edible?

367 Shawn Roseen: Feb 14, 2021 Earlier in the night he jokingly
+16035818972 07:59 PM mentioned you and the bong. I
know you haven't had much of
any experience with weed. I
knew they were available but I
can't have weed because I
could be drug tested

368 Shawn Roseen: Feb 14, 2021 Thanks for your response.
+16035818972 09:44 PM Over Thanksgiving, you and
Cindy told Zach and I about
going to the yurt a week or two
after the holidays and said
you’d be doing psilocybin.
Wouldn’t that be part of your
drug testing? We did not go,
because I was worried about
COVID, and I was. You two
invited us but we decided not
to go. Prior to that, I told Zach
that when I tried psilocybin
with you, Cindy and Dan, I
passed out and woke up to
Cindy yelling at me. This
worried Zach, and he
discouraged me from going
because he worried for my
health and safety (I also did
not want to go). I’m concerned
about Zach being blamed for
last night because he is not
like that.

369 Shawn Roseen: Feb 15, 2021 Hi, Happy Birthday Shawn!
+16035818972 08:45 AM

370 Shawn Roseen: Feb 15, 2021 Our morning didn’t go as

+16035818972 08:47 AM planned. We’re hoping to
leave soon, what time are we
all trying to meet?

371 Shawn Roseen: Feb 15, 2021 Hi, we’re leaving now. Sorry
+16035818972 09:24 AM

372 Shawn Roseen: Feb 15, 2021 All good. They had to stop for
+16035818972 09:25 AM coffee so we're on the same
page

373 Shawn Roseen: Feb 15, 2021 Great

+16035818972 09:40 AM

374 Shawn Roseen: Feb 15, 2021 Here. In F lot

+16035818972 09:52 AM

375 Shawn Roseen: Feb 15, 2021 Yeah I saw you. We just
+16035818972 09:55 AM parked in commuter. Meet in
jbl face shots bar

376 Shawn Roseen: Feb 15, 2021 Actually ticket office

+16035818972 10:04 AM
Sl.N Contact Time Received Sent
o (MM-DD-
YYYY)
1 Mary Roseen: Jul 11, 2020 Hi. Is something going on that
+16039012064 07:14 PM is why you’ve been distracted?

2 Mary Roseen: Jul 12, 2020 Hi. Yes, actually....I found a

+16039012064 07:11 AM guy :)

3 Mary Roseen: Jul 12, 2020 His name is Zach, and he’s
+16039012064 07:26 AM working on his MBA at USU.
So, once again, Logan shows
up in my life. Interesting.

4 Mary Roseen: Jul 12, 2020 Hi. That’s exciting! Have you
+16039012064 07:39 AM been driving down to Logan?

5 Mary Roseen: Jul 15, 2020 I’m here, not sure what was
+16039012064 11:55 AM happening, but I’m here

6 Mary Roseen: Jul 19, 2020 Seriously, I want an update

+16039012064 12:34 PM when the dishes are done

7 Mary Roseen: Jul 19, 2020 Haha ok. Seriously, though, it

+16039012064 12:42 PM will be a few hours from now

8 Mary Roseen: Jul 26, 2020 Look what dad spotted

+16039012064 05:05 PM

9 Mary Roseen: Jul 25, 2020

+16039012064 03:08 PM

10 Mary Roseen: Jul 25, 2020 Look what dad spotted

+16039012064 03:08 PM

11 Mary Roseen: Jul 26, 2020

+16039012064 05:05 PM

12 Mary Roseen: Jul 26, 2020 Awesome! That’s amazing

+16039012064 07:29 PM find. 2 of them, maybe a
mating couple!? I think that’s
rare

13 Mary Roseen: Jul 26, 2020 Reminds me of being a kid.

+16039012064 07:29 PM That’s all I wanted

14 Mary Roseen: Jul 26, 2020 They were cool. Seemed

+16039012064 07:32 PM small? Dad thought maybe
newly hatched

15 Mary Roseen: Aug 22, 2020 Whatcha doing tonight? Want

+16039012064 03:53 PM to catch up?

16 Mary Roseen: Aug 22, 2020 Hi. I’m spending time with
+16039012064 04:43 PM Shawn and Brian at their new
place. Talk tomorrow?

17 Mary Roseen: Aug 22, 2020 Sure

+16039012064 04:44 PM
18 Mary Roseen: Aug 26, 2020 Jacob Evans is getting married
+16039012064 07:26 PM in October! He invited me to
the wedding I don’t know
What to do. So far I’ve avoided
These decision. I wanted to
mention this the other night
but forgot

19 Mary Roseen: Aug 26, 2020 Hi. Congrats to Jake!

+16039012064 07:42 PM

20 Mary Roseen: Aug 26, 2020 You’d have to fly home?

+16039012064 07:42 PM

21 Mary Roseen: Aug 26, 2020 Yeah I’m happy for him. Yes
+16039012064 07:46 PM I’m going to look at flights
tonight just to see

22 Mary Roseen: Aug 26, 2020 They look cheap at first look
+16039012064 07:48 PM

23 Mary Roseen: Aug 26, 2020 They are asking out-of-state

+16039012064 07:50 PM people to get tested

24 Mary Roseen: Aug 26, 2020 Where is it?

+16039012064 08:14 PM

25 Mary Roseen: Aug 26, 2020 At his parents house in

+16039012064 08:17 PM Effingham. I don’t know the
number but He says it’s a
small gathering

26 Mary Roseen: Sep 08, 2020 Hi. I just read the recent news
+16039012064 07:35 AM about the fire-did you get a
damaging frost?

27 Mary Roseen: Sep 10, 2020 Hi, sorry for the late reply. We
+16039012064 10:26 PM did get a couple nights of
snow and cold temps, but we
were able to save everything
we really cared about. So, it
turned out ok.

28 Mary Roseen: Sep 10, 2020 We have two ungrateful

+16039012064 10:46 PM Hoop houses with good
tomato crops in them, so we
had to be creative to save
them. Thanks for asking

29 Mary Roseen: Sep 10, 2020 Also, I talked to Zach on

+16039012064 10:49 PM Sunday, and he told me that
he talked to you and Mom.
We had a good chat about
things. I’ve felt awestruck this
week. He is so sweet

30 Mary Roseen: Sep 11, 2020 Hi. Okay great. I’m glad he
+16039012064 05:17 AM talked to you.

31 Mary Roseen: Sep 11, 2020 Is he religious?

+16039012064 05:17 AM

32 Mary Roseen: Sep 11, 2020 I’d love to talk to you about it
+16039012064 05:22 AM over the phone
33 Mary Roseen: Sep 12, 2020 Hi, I was going to call today
+16039012064 07:34 PM but it was busy and I’m too
tied now. Talk tomorrow? That
would be nice

34 Mary Roseen: Sep 12, 2020 Zach has a Lutheran

+16039012064 07:35 PM background but is no longer
religious

35 Mary Roseen: Sep 12, 2020 Sure. Maybe later afternoon?

+16039012064 07:42 PM

36 Mary Roseen: Sep 12, 2020 Sounds good. How is your

+16039012064 08:19 PM weekend?

37 Mary Roseen: Sep 12, 2020 Weekend is good-on duty

+16039012064 08:19 PM

38 Mary Roseen: Sep 12, 2020 But bed time. Talk tomorrow
+16039012064 08:19 PM

39 Mary Roseen: Sep 12, 2020 Good. Lala salama

+16039012064 08:21 PM

40 Mary Roseen: Sep 25, 2020 Hi. I’ve been thinking of you all
+16039012064 09:12 PM week. Are you in UT?

41 Mary Roseen: Sep 25, 2020 I’m going to bed, but I love
+16039012064 09:13 PM you and I hope your drive
safely and have a good
weekend.

42 Mary Roseen: Sep 26, 2020 Did you get to Utah?

+16039012064 06:12 PM

43 Mary Roseen: Sep 26, 2020 Hi, yes, sorry. I made it late
+16039012064 06:20 PM Thursday night. We’ve had a
really nice time. Zach is
wonderful. Hiking yesterday,
and a hot springs today.

44 Mary Roseen: Sep 26, 2020 Liked “Hi, yes, sorry. I made it
+16039012064 06:20 PM late Thursday night. We’ve
had a really nice time. Zach is
wonderful. Hiking yesterday,
and a hot springs today.”

45 Mary Roseen: Sep 26, 2020 Can you send that to mom
+16039012064 06:20 PM too?

46 Mary Roseen: Sep 26, 2020 I’m glad you made it and
+16039012064 06:20 PM things are good.

47 Mary Roseen: Sep 26, 2020 How long of a drive is it?

+16039012064 06:21 PM

48 Mary Roseen: Sep 26, 2020 Yes I will. It’s 6hrs

+16039012064 06:24 PM

49 Mary Roseen: Sep 27, 2020

+16039012064 07:53 AM

50 Mary Roseen: Sep 27, 2020 Liked an image

+16039012064 11:33 AM

51 Mary Roseen: Oct 03, 2020 Can we catch up? I want to

+16039012064 11:47 AM hear about last weekend
69 Mary Roseen: Oct 12, 2020 I don’t have much faith that the
+16039012064 10:30 AM ACA will survive and, What
are we all going to do? Am I
just uninformed or is that a
legitimate fear? The premium
tax credit is vital for me

70 Mary Roseen: Oct 12, 2020 I don’t know...I think if Biden

+16039012064 10:37 AM wins, they will find a way to
keep it

71 Mary Roseen: Oct 12, 2020 So we have to be hopeful..

+16039012064 10:37 AM

72 Mary Roseen: Oct 12, 2020 But I’m also not very informed
+16039012064 10:37 AM

73 Mary Roseen: Oct 13, 2020 Is Cindy’s birthday tomorrow

+16039012064 05:49 PM or the 18th?

74 Mary Roseen: Oct 13, 2020 18

+16039012064 05:50 PM

75 Mary Roseen: Oct 13, 2020 Thanks

+16039012064 06:02 PM

76 Mary Roseen: Nov 02, 2020 Hi, I’m thinking about you. I
+16039012064 10:42 AM spent the weekend in a city
just south of salt lake with
Zach, who was dog watching
for his friends. Maybe you’ve
already heard but long-story-
short he is moving to
Bozeman, so I came down to
get him. It was a fun weekend
and we are just about to leave.
Hope you are well and Talk to
you later

77 Mary Roseen: Nov 02, 2020 Wow. Where’s he going to

+16039012064 12:20 PM live?

78 Mary Roseen: Nov 02, 2020 No, I didn’t hear that. Have a
+16039012064 12:20 PM good drive.

79 Mary Roseen: Dec 16, 2020 I’m very much on the Zach
+16039012064 01:26 PM Tom team, I also nervous bc
this is your first relationship
and I don’t want you to go
through it thinking things are
“normal”...you’re right, there’s
no normal, which means you
have to checkin with yourself
regularly. that’s all I’m saying.

80 Mary Roseen: Dec 16, 2020 Thank you. I appreciate that.

+16039012064 01:44 PM

81 Mary Roseen: Dec 16, 2020 I want to ask you about

+16039012064 03:46 PM working out at the gym with a
mask when we talk later. I may
forget.

82 Mary Roseen: Dec 16, 2020 I’m free if you want to talk.
+16039012064 05:25 PM
83 Mary Roseen: Dec 16, 2020 Ok. Is 30min ok?
+16039012064 05:28 PM

84 Mary Roseen: Dec 16, 2020 Sure

+16039012064 05:50 PM

85 Mary Roseen: Dec 23, 2020 Hi, did Nana die today 5 years
+16039012064 07:51 AM ago?

86 Mary Roseen: Dec 23, 2020 Yes

+16039012064 07:54 AM

87 Mary Roseen: Dec 23, 2020 Mom went to church this

+16039012064 07:54 AM morning.

88 Mary Roseen: Dec 23, 2020 Thanks

+16039012064 03:12 PM

89 Mary Roseen: Jan 16, 2021 Catch up this weekend?

+16039012064 06:23 AM

90 Mary Roseen: Jan 16, 2021 Yes sounds good. I don’t know
+16039012064 08:03 AM when yet. I’m going to
crosscut soon and I will be in
touch later

91 Mary Roseen: Jan 31, 2021 I’ve heard through the

+16039012064 08:22 AM grapevine that you’re moving?

92 Mary Roseen: Feb 01, 2021 Hi, yes. Zach and I are looking
+16039012064 08:35 AM for a place together, but it may
take some time to find it.

Did you talk to Cindy?

93 Mary Roseen: Feb 01, 2021 No, mom

+16039012064 09:29 AM

94 Mary Roseen: Feb 01, 2021 But mom had talked to Cindy
+16039012064 09:56 AM who I guess had been hoping
you’d find a place with her?

95 Mary Roseen: Feb 01, 2021 I think it’s great your

+16039012064 09:58 AM considering moving bc your
apt is practical but tough in
other ways. I do worry about
you moving in with Zach

96 Mary Roseen: Feb 02, 2021 Yes, she has wanted that for a
+16039012064 03:14 PM while and I have been open to
considering it but never
committed to living with her.
She has mostly stopped
talking to me for the past
month, but I have reached-out
to her a few times.

97 Mary Roseen: Feb 02, 2021 Eww. I hate the silent

+16039012064 03:49 PM treatment

98 Mary Roseen: Feb 02, 2021 That’s lame

+16039012064 03:49 PM
99 Mary Roseen: Feb 02, 2021 Yes is agree. I know she is
+16039012064 04:20 PM hurting because of some
reasons including the housing,
but I think she is being
immature and passive-
aggressive. I have not done
anything wrong, that I know of.
Her approach to this is hurting
me a little bit.

100 Mary Roseen: Feb 02, 2021 Im sure b

+16039012064 04:42 PM

101 Mary Roseen: Feb 02, 2021 I’m sure*

+16039012064 04:42 PM

102 Mary Roseen: Feb 02, 2021 I also wonder if this isn’t only
+16039012064 04:43 PM about housing? But rather the
housing issue is the last straw
so to speak? Might she be
frustrated by a number of
things?

103 Mary Roseen: Feb 02, 2021 And, you and Zach are moving
+16039012064 04:43 PM quickly. You can’t deny that.

104 Mary Roseen: Feb 02, 2021 I’m not suggesting you move
+16039012064 04:44 PM in with Cindy-I imagine that
would be a triggering
experience for you, nor am I
trying to talk you out of moving
in with Zach, just that there are
many sides here.

105 Mary Roseen: Feb 16, 2021 Shawn said you skied with him
+16039012064 04:06 PM yesterday? What happened
with Brian?

106 Mary Roseen: Feb 16, 2021 Hello,

+16039012064 07:55 PM

107 Mary Roseen: Feb 16, 2021 ?

+16039012064 07:55 PM

108 Mary Roseen: Feb 16, 2021 Hi, I’m sorry. Busy day.
+16039012064 08:07 PM Unfortunately He broke his leg

109 Mary Roseen: Feb 16, 2021 Yea, I heard

+16039012064 08:09 PM

110 Mary Roseen: Feb 16, 2021 I need to go to bed.

+16039012064 08:09 PM

111 Mary Roseen: Feb 16, 2021 But we should talk soon.
+16039012064 08:09 PM

112 Mary Roseen: Feb 17, 2021 Liked “ But we should talk
+16039012064 12:55 PM soon. ”

113 Mary Roseen: Feb 28, 2021 We still haven’t found a time
+16039012064 07:12 PM
114 Mary Roseen: Feb 28, 2021 Hi, I know. I was thinking
+16039012064 07:35 PM about I’m you today but ended
up taking wi to Mom and Dad
for a while. It was good. Do
you want to talk this week or
next weekend?

115 Mary Roseen: Feb 28, 2021 Oh good. I’m glad you talked
+16039012064 08:02 PM with them

116 Mary Roseen: Feb 28, 2021 Probably not this week. It’s
+16039012064 08:02 PM hard to find a time these days

117 Mary Roseen: Feb 28, 2021 But the weekend is looking
+16039012064 08:03 PM wide open

118 Mary Roseen: Feb 28, 2021 Sounds good. Let’s plan
+16039012064 09:19 PM tentatively for Sunday

119 Mary Roseen: Mar 01, 2021 Tom, this is not okay.
+16039012064 03:42 AM

120 Mary Roseen: Mar 01, 2021 You are an adult with your
+16039012064 03:42 AM own relationships to tend to. Y

121 Mary Roseen: Mar 01, 2021 And sure. Sunday sounds fine.
+16039012064 03:43 AM

122 Mary Roseen: Mar 01, 2021

+16039012064 08:30 AM

123 Mary Roseen: Mar 01, 2021 You aren’t going to talk to us?
+16039012064 08:30 AM

124 Mary Roseen: Mar 01, 2021 You are isolating yourself
+16039012064 08:30 AM

125 Mary Roseen: Mar 01, 2021 From people you’ve know for
+16039012064 08:30 AM 30 yrs. not 9 months.

126 Mary Roseen: Mar 01, 2021 ??

+16039012064 08:31 AM

127 Mary Roseen: Mar 01, 2021 I understand your concerns

+16039012064 08:53 AM but I feel that they are based
on lack of information,
misinformation, and
misunderstanding. I know that
I haven’t talked with you for a
while and you have probably
heard pieces from everyone
else. I will talk with all of you,
but Zach is going to take a
break because he is hurt. He
has been kind with all of you
and tried to develop a
relationship, but it’s not
working right now. I speak for
myself and this is my
message. I did not answer
your call because we are
preparing to have a fun day
xcskiing in big sky and trying
not to let all of this get in the
way of that.
128 Mary Roseen: Mar 01, 2021 Tom I’m at work so I couldnt
+16039012064 09:51 AM talk anyway, but I needed to
leave a message. Zach’s
messages are sweet, but they
aren’t a “hi, how are you?
How’s life?” Instead, it feels
like he is talking for you and
defending you and that doesn’t
feel good to me., espcially
since there’s no conflict
between you and me as far as
I know. And, he only
messaged after I messaged
you last night. His text wasn’t
an out of the blue attempt to
connect.
I’ve heard snippets from
Cindy, but I understand there
are multiple sides to a story
and I’ve heard zero from you.
As Far as I can tell you’ve just
been absent-isn’t it winter and
don’t you have a more flexible
schedule? I’m out straight, so I
haven’t had much time to
communicate lately and I’ll
own that, but you haven’t
made an effort. I’m not trying
to take sides between you and
Cindy. That situation bothers
me, it my priority is trying to
maintain my Relationship
With my brother. I’m glad
you’ve found Zach, and I’d
understand zero
communication over a
weekend If he still Lived in
Utah and you only Saw each
other once a month, but he
lives in Bozeman now. You
see each other all the time. So
I think it’s time to come up For
air and reconnect with your
world. One person is not a
world.
I’m not trying to ruin your ski
day. I hope it’s nice.

129 Mary Roseen: Mar 01, 2021 *but my priority

+16039012064 09:52 AM

130 Mary Roseen: Mar 01, 2021 We are on the way and I’m
+16039012064 09:57 AM loosing service soon. I will
respond later

131 Mary Roseen: Mar 01, 2021 Mom is filling in details for me.
+16039012064 09:57 AM I reacted to Zach’s text the
way I did Bc I believed it was
in response to my text you
about talking.

132 Mary Roseen: Mar 01, 2021 To you*

+16039012064 09:57 AM
133 Mary Roseen: Mar 01, 2021 Removed a like from “We are
+16039012064 05:51 PM on the way and I’m loosing
service soon. I will respond
later”

134 Mary Roseen: Mar 01, 2021 You’re right that I haven’t
+16039012064 05:57 PM made much of an effort to
connect with you, and I’m
sorry. It sounds to me like you
are trying to be objective and I
appreciate that. Can we plan
to talk tomorrow evening?

135 Mary Roseen: Mar 01, 2021 We had a good day. It was
+16039012064 05:58 PM beautiful. I skied and Zach
snowshoed.

136 Mary Roseen: Mar 01, 2021

+16039012064 05:58 PM

137 Mary Roseen: Mar 01, 2021 Omg that weather.

+16039012064 07:00 PM

138 Mary Roseen: Mar 01, 2021 Yes tomorrow evening should
+16039012064 07:00 PM work.

139 Mary Roseen: Mar 01, 2021 Liked “Yes tomorrow evening
+16039012064 08:21 PM should work.”

140 Mary Roseen: Mar 02, 2021 Hi, did you say that 8 Est was
+16039012064 10:25 AM too late? That would be good
for me

141 Mary Roseen: Mar 02, 2021 *is

+16039012064 10:26 AM

142 Mary Roseen: Mar 02, 2021 That should be fine

+16039012064 10:34 AM

143 Mary Roseen: Mar 02, 2021 Good. I also want to clarify
+16039012064 10:46 AM that yesterday morning I did
say to Zach that we need to
stop talking to everyone for a
while because I was
overwhelmed, annoyed, and
often I think that less input can
help the dust settle. However,
I realized what I really meant
is that I will talk with all of you
but it’s best that Zach does not
or has very limited contact for
now.

144 Mary Roseen: Mar 02, 2021 Yes. I agree. Tom, Zach is a
+16039012064 10:51 AM stranger to me and you should
be the one facilitating
introductions to his family. He
shouldn’t be left alone to do
that. And, his communication,
although kind, doesn’t have
the same Impact as his
intention. His intentions are
good, but it’s impact is odd,
and since we hardly hear from
you, it’s causing tension.
145 Mary Roseen: Mar 02, 2021 So, I’m glad you’re realizing
+16039012064 10:51 AM this.

146 Mary Roseen: Mar 02, 2021 Talk tonight.

+16039012064 10:52 AM

147 Mary Roseen: Mar 02, 2021 I’m glad we talked.

+16039012064 07:45 PM Remember, you are in the
epitome of the gray

148 Mary Roseen: Mar 02, 2021 No one is unsupportive of your

+16039012064 07:46 PM relationship.

149 Mary Roseen: Mar 02, 2021 And everyone wants to see
+16039012064 07:46 PM you happy and thriving.

150 Mary Roseen: Mar 02, 2021 As long as that happiness

+16039012064 07:47 PM includes your family.

151 Mary Roseen: Mar 02, 2021 And, for the record, from what
+16039012064 07:57 PM you’ve said, the ways that
Zach is helping you are ways
I’d want to help you too. So
that earns Zach some points in
my book.
I am open minded but I also
reserve the right to be careful
and cautious.

152 Mary Roseen: Mar 02, 2021 Before I left Fryeburg one of
+16039012064 08:02 PM my
Favorite teacher friends who
was probably 15 yrs older than
me said that she remembered
her late 20s and early 30s
being really rocky. It stuck with
me Bc it was true and I think
the same might the case for
you. I feel like you’re in this
giant journey of self-
acceptance that is difficult and
painful and lonely. I’m glad
you have Zach to help you
through it, but, again, you
need a village.

153 Mary Roseen: Mar 05, 2021 Hello?

+16039012064 07:17 PM

154 Mary Roseen: Mar 05, 2021 Please stop texting that to me.
+16039012064 07:23 PM It’s sarcastic and annoying.
I’ve had a lot of tough
conversations this week and
received a lot of information
but I have had no time to
process. I will respond when I
am ready. I have a ski race
tomorrow.

155 Mary Roseen: Mar 05, 2021 Ok. Good luck.

+16039012064 07:24 PM

156 Mary Roseen: Mar 05, 2021 But please start

+16039012064 07:24 PM acknowledging to texts.
157 Mary Roseen: Mar 05, 2021 All you have to say is “thank
+16039012064 07:25 PM you. Talk soon.”

158 Mary Roseen: Mar 05, 2021 Or “talk later”

+16039012064 07:25 PM

159 Mary Roseen: Mar 05, 2021 (And for the record, your
+16039012064 07:30 PM silence is annoying and could
be interpreted as passive
aggressive. i try not to think
that way, but in the spirit of
communication, I figure you
should know how your
behavior can be perceived.)

160 Mary Roseen: Mar 05, 2021 Thank you for the good luck. I
+16039012064 08:15 PM am not done with this but I do
not have the time or energy to
respond.

161 Mary Roseen: Mar 19, 2021

+16039012064 09:23 AM

162 Mary Roseen: Mar 19, 2021 I downloaded this app

+16039012064 09:25 AM yesterday. $20/yr. It’s great so
far. You would probably like it
to.

163 Mary Roseen: Mar 19, 2021 I’ll check it out

+16039012064 10:41 AM

164 Mary Roseen: Mar 20, 2021 Hi, call later. I’m eating
+16039012064 07:06 PM

165 Mary Roseen: Mar 20, 2021 You awake?

+16039012064 08:29 PM

166 Mary Roseen: Mar 20, 2021 Not really

+16039012064 08:39 PM

167 Mary Roseen: Mar 20, 2021 Ok. Maybe we can catch up
+16039012064 08:40 PM tomorrow. Sleep well

168 Mary Roseen: Mar 21, 2021 Hi. Yes

+16039012064 06:38 AM
169 Mary Roseen: Mar 21, 2021 Tom, I’m nervous to even
+16039012064 08:36 PM reach out to you these days
Bc I’m scared I’m going to
drive you away. This isn’t a
situation of an older sister not
listening to you or telling you
what to do or not letting you
advocate for yourself, it’s a
situation of “please listen Bc
your considering a dangerous
path.” But I’m scared to even
talk to you these days Bc I’m
worried I’ll just irritate you. I
don’t know how to frame it in a
positive way, but no matter
how good Zach made you feel
at times, I do not believe that
was the right relationship for
you and I ask that you really
consult with others before you
make any decisions regarding
getting back together. And
again, you’ll just prolong the
pain.

170 Mary Roseen: Mar 21, 2021 https://www.psychologytoday.c

+16039012064 08:46 PM om/us/blog/the-mindful-self-
express/201603/is-your-brain-
breakup

171 Mary Roseen: Mar 22, 2021 https://www.healthline.com/he

+16039012064 09:37 AM alth/stages-of-grief

172 Mary Roseen: Mar 30, 2021 1 by 1 you are losing your
+16039012064 01:22 PM family. Is that what you want?

173 Mary Roseen: Mar 30, 2021 No, Mary. I have meant to
+16039012064 02:22 PM respond to you, but I have
needed some space. And yes,
sometimes I get irritated
because of the way you talk to
me. I am talking to Mom and
Dad tonight.

174 Mary Roseen: Mar 30, 2021 Tom, you’re not the only one
+16039012064 03:06 PM around here with feelings. And
we all love you and are
worried. Happy birthday eve.

175 Mary Roseen: Mar 30, 2021 Also, I do not believe my texts
+16039012064 03:18 PM from a week ago were
anything but supportive. I’m
not going to talk to you about
this anymore, but when you
want to talk I’m here.

176 Mary Roseen: Mar 31, 2021 Happy Birthday.

+16039012064 06:28 AM

177 Mary Roseen: Mar 31, 2021 Thank you, and thank you for
+16039012064 10:06 AM the card. I love it. I will open
your gift tonight

178 Mary Roseen: Mar 31, 2021 Glad you got it

+16039012064 11:28 AM
396 Cindy Roseen: Dec 22, 2020 Nevermind.
+16032448055 02:19 PM

397 Cindy Roseen: Dec 22, 2020 I asked Mary.

+16032448055 02:20 PM

398 Cindy Roseen: Dec 22, 2020 Ok, I’m sorry. On the way
+16032448055 04:49 PM

399 Cindy Roseen: Dec 25, 2020 We’re hoping to zoom at noon.
+16032448055 10:55 AM

400 Cindy Roseen: Dec 25, 2020 Ok. We can probably be there
+16032448055 10:58 AM by 11:30... sorry

401 Cindy Roseen: Dec 25, 2020 No worries.

+16032448055 11:16 AM

402 Cindy Roseen: Dec 26, 2020 Would you be interested in

+16032448055 11:49 AM doing part of the foothills trail
after you do your run?

403 Cindy Roseen: Dec 31, 2020 Are we still on the same page
+16032448055 08:50 AM for living together? Ideally
looking for something in the
spring.

404 Cindy Roseen: Dec 31, 2020 Hi, no I don’t think we’re on
+16032448055 09:11 AM the same page. Let’s talk
about that. I have tomorrow
off Bytheway

405 Cindy Roseen: Dec 31, 2020 Nevermind.

+16032448055 09:12 AM

406 Cindy Roseen: Dec 31, 2020 Of course you’re not.

+16032448055 09:12 AM

407 Cindy Roseen: Dec 31, 2020 Super cool Tom.

+16032448055 09:15 AM

408 Cindy Roseen: Dec 31, 2020 I said that just in case you
+16032448055 09:19 AM wanted to hang out tomorrow

409 Cindy Roseen: Dec 31, 2020 I feel like I have done
+16032448055 12:33 PM something wrong, but I have
not. To my knowledge I have
not given you any
commitment. This topic has
caused a lot of anxiety for me
recently, and additionally the
way that you communicate
about it with me makes me
feel guilty. Let’s talk later.

410 Cindy Roseen: Dec 31, 2020 It’s also given me anxiety. I
+16032448055 12:41 PM don’t want to talk about it. We
have talked about this for a
while and now that Zach is
here, you are ditching me.

411 Cindy Roseen: Dec 31, 2020 I’m done with this. You do you
+16032448055 12:41 PM Tom. You deserve it.
412 Cindy Roseen: Dec 31, 2020 I want to continue this
+16032448055 01:08 PM discussion. I think it’s
important because I can sense
that you have building
resentment towards me or
Zach or both of us, and I want
to resolve it before it hurts our
relationship too much. I may
also have building resentment
towards you.

413 Cindy Roseen: Dec 31, 2020 Well I’m sorry for that, for
+16032448055 01:28 PM whatever I did. I set you free
from it. I’m going to try to let
this not set the tone for the
rest of my day. I’m letting it go.

414 Cindy Roseen: Jan 09, 2021 Hi, I’m thinking about you. I
+16032448055 02:11 PM just want you to know how
happy and relieved I am for
you because of your wage
increase. You deserve it. I love
you and hope you’re doing ok.

415 Cindy Roseen: Jan 09, 2021 Thanks. I got you something.
+16032448055 03:45 PM

416 Cindy Roseen: Jan 09, 2021

+16032448055 03:45 PM

417 Cindy Roseen: Jan 09, 2021 Merry Christmas.

+16032448055 03:45 PM

418 Cindy Roseen: Jan 10, 2021 Loved an image

+16032448055 08:37 AM

419 Cindy Roseen: Jan 10, 2021 Hi, thank you, I love it! Can’t
+16032448055 08:40 AM wait to use it

420 Cindy Roseen: Jan 30, 2021 Hey Cindy, how are you? I
+16032448055 08:12 AM miss you.

421 Cindy Roseen: Feb 12, 2021 Hi Cindy,

+16032448055 09:39 PM
I am being patient with you,
but I am concerned about us
seeing each other tomorrow
because you have not
responded to my messages
and appear to be uninterested
in talking. I want to talk
tomorrow before we see each
other. I look forward to having
a good time tomorrow but I’m
concerned about unintended
tensions surfacing.
422 Cindy Roseen: Feb 12, 2021 Oh Tom, so serious. I haven’t
+16032448055 11:00 PM responded to you because I
feel hurt. To be fair, you never
gave me a solid answer but
you were never direct with me
either. We had been talking
about this for a while. I’m
getting over it but it’s slow.
You just surprised me. I did
not expect you to move this
fast. It’s the straw that broke
the camels back. It’s been a
weird winter for me. I needed
to take myself out of the
situation, get space and put
my head down. I barely see
you anyway and now you’re in
a relationship (I’m happy for
you) but I feel as though I’ll
really not see you. At the
moment, actions speak louder
than words for me. And it’s not
just you, it’s everyone. I wasn’t
going to make anyone
uncomfortable tomorrow night.
I can hide it well. But I’m glad
you reached out.
423 Cindy Roseen: Feb 13, 2021 Thank you for responding and,
+16032448055 12:03 AM so promptly. Everything you
said means a lot to me. Thank
you for being open with me
about your feelings. I know
you’re hurting and dealing with
a lot and I feel so much for
you. Zach has been
concerned about me because
he knows how much I care
about you and he has been
worried he has interfered with
our relationship. Zach wants
us to have “just you and I
time,” and I told him last night,
when we continued our pursuit
in applying for apartments,
that I slept on your floor when I
moved here (we were filling
out landlord information and I
have only my current). I could
sense how this genuine and
honest disclosure affected
Zach, and he, again, strongly
encouraged me to reach out to
you tonight to check-in on you
because he also sensed that
us not talking lately has been
wearing on me. That said,
again, thank you so much for
your response tonight. You
mean so much to me. I want to
talk more if you want to, but I
am so tired right now. I had
frustrating and long day. I was
just concerned about you and I
felt so sad, but I’m happy we
were able to connect prior to
tomorrow. Please let me know
how I can help and what I can
do for you. We are really
looking forward to seeing you
tomorrow. I’m still thinking
about what you said and will
respond more later. Goodnight

424 Cindy Roseen: Feb 14, 2021 Hey, are you ok?
+16032448055 08:31 AM

425 Cindy Roseen: Feb 14, 2021 I’m at work now but wanted to
+16032448055 08:31 AM check in. I won’t be able to
respond in a little bit.

426 Cindy Roseen: Feb 14, 2021 Hi, I don’t feel great but I’m ok.
+16032448055 09:09 AM Thanks for checking in. I’m
embarrassed and
disappointed.

427 Cindy Roseen: Feb 14, 2021 Don’t be.

+16032448055 10:24 AM

428 Cindy Roseen: Feb 14, 2021 Yeah. Thanks. How are you?
+16032448055 12:27 PM
429 Cindy Roseen: Feb 14, 2021 I’m glad you’re ok. I hope
+16032448055 03:26 PM you’re feeling better by now
too. I’m surprisingly good. I’ll
crash hard tonight but
otherwise feel good.

430 Cindy Roseen: Feb 14, 2021 Thank you, and I’m glad to
+16032448055 08:49 PM hear that

431 Cindy Roseen: Feb 14, 2021 Can Zach and I take the Prius
+16032448055 08:59 PM to Bridger tomorrow?

432 Cindy Roseen: Feb 14, 2021 Sure.

+16032448055 09:00 PM

433 Cindy Roseen: Feb 15, 2021 Thanks

+16032448055 08:07 AM

434 Cindy Roseen: Feb 19, 2021 Thank you for your response
+16032448055 10:53 PM today. It clarified some things.

435 Cindy Roseen: Feb 23, 2021 Hi. Thanks for your email.
+16032448055 07:33 PM Want to get a beer at 317 one
of these nights?

436 Cindy Roseen: Feb 23, 2021 That sounds good. What’s a
+16032448055 08:46 PM good day for you?

437 Cindy Roseen: Feb 23, 2021 Thursday night

+16032448055 09:30 PM

438 Cindy Roseen: Feb 23, 2021 Ok, but I need you to respond
+16032448055 11:31 PM to my email tomorrow, so that I
have enough time to think. If
that is not enough time for
you, then let’s reschedule.
Good night.

439 Cindy Roseen: Feb 24, 2021 Ok. Then we need to

+16032448055 07:50 AM reschedule.

440 Cindy Roseen: Feb 24, 2021 Ok keep me posted

+16032448055 12:48 PM

441 Cindy Roseen: Mar 05, 2021 Good luck tomorrow!

+16032448055 10:11 PM

442 Cindy Roseen: Mar 05, 2021 Thank you

+16032448055 10:18 PM

443 Cindy Roseen: Mar 15, 2021 Zach and I broke up. Do what
+16032448055 12:14 PM you need to do, but he will
need time to clean out the car.
Be careful with your language.
I’m about to call Shari. I’m
available to talk.

444 Cindy Roseen: Mar 15, 2021 What?!?

+16032448055 12:15 PM

445 Cindy Roseen: Mar 15, 2021 Yes, I know it is alarming. We

+16032448055 12:16 PM can deal with it tonight but I
want to let you know now.

446 Cindy Roseen: Mar 15, 2021 I can talk now if you want to.
+16032448055 12:17 PM
447 Cindy Roseen: Mar 15, 2021 I’m home. I have this week off.
+16032448055 12:17 PM

448 Cindy Roseen: Mar 15, 2021 Ok I’ll call

+16032448055 12:18 PM

449 Cindy Roseen: Mar 15, 2021 Can I come over?

+16032448055 01:33 PM

450 Cindy Roseen: Mar 15, 2021 Shawn and I are headed to
+16032448055 01:34 PM Cashman’s soon. Do you want
to come?

451 Cindy Roseen: Mar 15, 2021 Yes

+16032448055 01:34 PM

452 Cindy Roseen: Mar 15, 2021 Come on over.

+16032448055 01:34 PM

453 Cindy Roseen: Mar 15, 2021 On the way

+16032448055 01:34 PM

454 Cindy Roseen: Mar 15, 2021 Zach, please return the Prius
+16032448055 03:14 PM no later than 5:00pm on next
Monday March22nd, and do
not leave Bozeman and
Belgrade city limits with the
Prius. I will return the prorated
insurance payment when you
have returned it.

455 Cindy Roseen: Mar 15, 2021

+16032448055 05:30 PM

456 Cindy Roseen: Mar 15, 2021 I haven’t responded yet.

+16032448055 05:33 PM

457 Cindy Roseen: Mar 15, 2021 It’s ok. You don’t need to now.
+16032448055 05:38 PM Thanks for sending that.

458 Cindy Roseen: Mar 15, 2021 Ok

+16032448055 05:39 PM

459 Cindy Roseen: Mar 15, 2021 Come stay the night with me.
+16032448055 06:14 PM

460 Cindy Roseen: Mar 15, 2021 We’ll eat a bunch of good
+16032448055 06:14 PM food.

461 Cindy Roseen: Mar 15, 2021 Thank you, Cindy. That
+16032448055 06:42 PM sounds nice, but I need to be
alone tonight. There is no
need to be concerned.

462 Cindy Roseen: Mar 15, 2021 About my safety

+16032448055 06:42 PM

463 Cindy Roseen: Mar 15, 2021 I’m coming over. You can
+16032448055 06:56 PM order pakezza if you want to
get that going.

464 Cindy Roseen: Mar 15, 2021 Ok

+16032448055 06:57 PM
465 Cindy Roseen: Mar 16, 2021 Would you be willing to take
+16032448055 04:24 PM some of Zach’s items he left
here and somehow give them
to Shari? If so I will bring them
over now

466 Cindy Roseen: Mar 16, 2021 It’s ok We can figure that out
+16032448055 04:34 PM later

467 Cindy Roseen: Mar 16, 2021 I’ll have to send you the gfc
+16032448055 04:50 PM thing when I get home from
my run.

468 Cindy Roseen: Mar 16, 2021 Ok have fun

+16032448055 04:55 PM

469 Cindy Roseen: Mar 16, 2021

+16032448055 08:41 PM

470 Cindy Roseen: Mar 17, 2021 Thanks for sharing this. I think
+16032448055 07:31 AM it’s a good start, if anything
precipitates from this. Send it.

471 Cindy Roseen: Mar 17, 2021

+16032448055 07:32 AM

472 Cindy Roseen: Mar 17, 2021 Are you ok this morning?
+16032448055 07:32 AM

473 Cindy Roseen: Mar 17, 2021 Yes. I’m working on some
+16032448055 07:34 AM things, and will to work later
this morning. Thanks for
checking in.

474 Cindy Roseen: Mar 17, 2021 How are you?

+16032448055 07:34 AM

475 Cindy Roseen: Mar 17, 2021 Ok good. I’m ok. I’m helping
+16032448055 07:36 AM Marie get her car to the
mechanics, then I’m going
back to bed.

476 Cindy Roseen: Mar 17, 2021 Good

+16032448055 07:37 AM

477 Cindy Roseen: Mar 18, 2021 Are people talking about Zach
+16032448055 04:10 PM at gfc? That could be
detrimental

478 Cindy Roseen: Mar 18, 2021 Have a minute to talk? Sorry
+16032448055 04:48 PM I'm just anxious. I think it will
be fine

479 Cindy Roseen: Mar 18, 2021 From my manger Ben.

+16032448055 06:00 PM

480 Cindy Roseen: Mar 18, 2021 Between Wiley calling me and
+16032448055 06:02 PM Ben getting in touch with me
today, that’s it. So no, I don’t
think so but I’m just protecting
myself.
495 Cindy Roseen: Mar 29, 2021 Wow. That’s a lot. Hopefully
+16032448055 03:19 PM short-lived though. I don’t have
ideas for birthday yet. Maybe
this coming weekend.

496 Cindy Roseen: Mar 29, 2021 We are delivering the Prius
+16032448055 03:20 PM now to your place, and I’ll put
the keys inside

497 Cindy Roseen: Mar 29, 2021 Thanks. Can you give me an
+16032448055 03:22 PM update of what’s been going
on please?

498 Cindy Roseen: Mar 29, 2021 Zach and I are working
+16032448055 03:52 PM through our challenges, and
we are doing well.

499 Cindy Roseen: Mar 31, 2021 Hi, I just tried calling you but
+16032448055 08:05 PM my phone died. It’s having
hardware issues recently I
think. I’ll try again in a bit

500 Cindy Roseen: Mar 31, 2021 I’m at work and honestly
+16032448055 08:06 PM shouldn’t talk with you right
now. I’m too upset.

501 Cindy Roseen: Mar 31, 2021 I understand

+16032448055 08:16 PM

502 Cindy Roseen: Apr 02, 2021 How are you?

+16032448055 12:31 PM

503 Cindy Roseen: Apr 06, 2021 To answer your question, I’m
+16032448055 07:59 PM exhausted, extremely upset
and Mary doesn’t speak for
me. I’m removing myself from
the entire situation. I did my
part. I have nothing but mean
things to say and I feel if I see
you in person, I will make a
scene. Zach burned all the
bridges. The one between us
is on fire. I do not trust you.
That being said, anything sent
via text or email is only meant
for you but at this point I don’t
trust it so that’s all I’m going to
say. How can you trust him?
Enjoy living with a dog that
bites and a master
manipulator. Good luck.

504 Cindy Roseen: Apr 06, 2021 “Master manipulator” = your

+16032448055 08:00 PM words.
 Case 2:22-cv-00024-DLC Document 52-1 Filed 07/21/22 Page 181 of 1373

From: Tom Roseen tomroseen@gmail.com

Subject: Fwd: Response to Friday's Text
Date: March 2, 2021 at 8:54 PM
To: Zach Rusk zachrusk5@icloud.com

---------- Forwarded message ---------

From: Tom Roseen <tomroseen@gmail.com>
Date: Mon, Feb 22, 2021 at 6:03 PM
Subject: Response to Friday's Text
To: Cindy Roseen <croseen14@gmail.com>

Cindy,

Thank you for your trying to cultivate a healthy relationship between Zach and me.
You have been helpful to Zach, and us. I have considered a conversation for a while, and
originally, I intended to talk to you, but I know you are busy. So, I wrote to you, which is
typically a better communication method for me anyway. This letter includes examples of
how I feel that you have hurt or mistreated me. Mary and Shawn have also hurt or
mistreated me in some ways, too.
I understand that you are surprised about Zach and me moving “quickly,” and that it
bothers you. However, I feel that you are projecting your dissatisfaction onto me. Why are
you making that my problem? Why is it that, when I enter a relationship, I receive so much
shit when I have supported or mostly supported you in your relationships? I have also
supported Shawn and Mary in their relationships. I realize that there were sometimes when I
may not have been positive about your relationship with Dan, but I do not believe I was
passive aggressive or using the silent treatment. I am hurt by your lack of response to some
of my contact attempts and I feel it was passive aggressive. It feels controlling and
manipulative. For example, at the end of January, I texted you asking how you are and that I
miss you. You did not respond. I also recognize that I can be slow to respond, but I do not
think that I ignore your messages. Sometime in mid-December we talked over the phone
about the living situation topic. I mentioned that Zach and I were considering moving in
together. You became upset and said “Tom, you are not moving in with him.” I also think
you described it as something like a stupid idea, but I do not remember that as clearly as
your forceful statement telling me what to do. You referenced you and Dan, and how you
moved in together after one year and you felt that it was too soon. Your comment startled
and confused me, and I felt something was wrong, but of course, I did not say much because
that is how I operate. I have constantly been the intermediary between all of us but not cared
for or advocated for myself. I wish I could have processed the moment quickly enough and
had the confidence to advocate for myself, because I would have called you-out on that.
Why did you think you could say that? It was controlling, manipulative and you have no
right to tell me how to live. I do not do that to you. Zach and I are not you and Dan. I love
that you think this is any of your business.
In our communications just before the new year, you said some hurtful and passive
aggressive comments, such as “It’s also given me anxiety. I don’t want to talk about it. We
have talk about this for a while and now that Zach is here, you are ditching me.” I was not
ditching you and never intend to. In your response message on Friday, you said that you are
politely declining the invitation to live with Zach and me. We entertained that idea in
December, but when I talked with you in December, you were uninterested, and then your
 Case 2:22-cv-00024-DLC Document 52-1 Filed 07/21/22 Page 182 of 1373

December, but when I talked with you in December, you were uninterested, and then your
actions throughout the past couple of months showed that. So, to be clear, that was not an
ongoing offer, and we decided a couple months ago that we would rather live together by
ourselves. Zach was willing to live in some way with you, but you were unwilling to do
that. He was open and willing to try, and I was too. You also said: “I am finding out that I
am the only person I can count on and to never assume anything about anyone or anything.”
I am sure that there are many people and experiences that have contributed to you feeling
this way, but I know that this comment includes me. It is a good idea to be careful about
assumptions, but it sounds like you believe you cannot count on anyone else, and that is
hurtful and unhealthy. I have tried to be there for you to the best of my ability for as long as
I can remember.
You and Shawn criticized me during Thanksgiving because I arrived late in the day. I
know that I wanted to be there early to spend the day with you and tried to plan for all of us
to do that, but I also was spending some time with Zach, who feels uncomfortable around
you two, understandably. I also have a difficult time in the morning and evenings, largely
related to my long-term clinical depression, which you have no idea about. Maybe that was
frustrating to you, but why do you think you can speak to me or treat me that way? I do not
treat you that way. As far as I know, I treat you both with kindness and respect and I expect
and deserve the same from you. I feel like I am viewed and treated as the sensitive, fragile,
anxious brother, and I am tired of it.

I don’t know what you really think of our relationship, but we communicate well
with each other and make our own decisions. The fact that I need to write this email seems
messed-up. Zach loves me and I love him, and he wants so much to be friends with all of
you (our immediate family). However, he is resilient and knows when he is wasting his
time. I certainly hope that is not the case here. Is that so hard for you to believe, because this
is my first relationship and I have been your sensitive, fragile, anxious brother?
Just before Shawn’s Birthday Party, I texted you and expressed some concerns. You
responded: “Oh Tom, so serious.” This sarcastic comment invalidated my concerns, and I
felt foolish. However, I am owning it. You are right, I was serious, because this is a serious
topic: it’s about our long-term, valuable and strong sibling relationship. I am angry, and
serious, and I need to tolerate less and teach people how to treat me. I love you and care
about you, and about our relationship.
Tom
Case 2:22-cv-00024-DLC Document 52-1 Filed 07/21/22 Page 227 of 1373

On Sun, Jul 11, 2021 at 2:28 PM Zach Rusk <zachrusk5@icloud.com> wrote:

Since you emailed me your stance in your threatening email to me earlier,
this offer is now rescinded unless you return all of the money the Roseen
fam has paid you for advising them wrongly, violating ethics, making
misrepresentations and advancing your frivolous and tenuous defense
simply for billable hours and against your clients best interests. If that is
done along with the elements of the offer fulfilled by Tuesday, I would
agree to not file a rule 11 motion and bar complaint against you.

> On Jul 10, 2021, at 8:09 PM, Zach Rusk <zachrusk5@gmail.com> wrote:
>
> ​Feel free to counter with one dollar less to provide consideration as to this
meeting of the minds opportunity but duly note that I’m not interested in
any other counter offer otherwise and would rather the court decide the
matter in that case.
>
>> On Jul 9, 2021, at 7:14 PM, Zach Rusk <zachrusk5@gmail.com> wrote:
>>
>> ​Jason,
>>
>> I will try this one time with you. But only one time.
>>
>> In exchange for me moving to dismiss with prejudice the active cases I
have against the Roseens, including the slander and libel action, as well as
the small claims action against Tom, in addition to not filling a small claims
court action against Tom as to the promissory note at issue, I demand the
following by Tuesday 5pm of next week:
>>
>> 1. Tom, Cindy and Shawn returning the last page of the Slander and
Libel C&D they were served, signed, dated and notarized.
>> 2. Payment to me in the amount of $1,000 as to the small claims court
action I have again Tom.
>> 3. Payment of me of $1,500 as to the costs incurred to litigate these
cases.
>> 4. Reducing the promissory note amount by $6,500.
>> 5. Designation of a contact for the fulfillment of anything left of the
promissory note coupled with a requirement to be updated on such if ever
changed.
>> 4. Mutual no contact agreement between each of the Roseen family
members and myself.
>> 5. Schedule of sanctions for violations to the mutual no-contact
agreement and the C&D’s served upon the Roseens.
>>
>> Thanks-
>> Zach Rusk
>>
 Case 2:22-cv-00024-DLC Document 52-1 Filed 07/21/22 Page 195 of 1373

From: Zach Rusk zachrusk5@icloud.com

Subject: Re: Case: DV-16-2021-0000432-IJ - Zachary Rusk vs. Thomas Roseen, et al. - Files Attached
Date: July 11, 2021 at 1:57 PM
To: tfraley@bozeman.net, qellingson@bozeman.net
Cc: GallatinCountyDCFilings@mt.gov
Bcc: Zach Rusk zachrusk5@icloud.com, Zach Rusk zach.rusk@gmail.com, Zach Rusk zachrusk5@gmail.com

Jason evidently doesn’t know you have everything to show he is advancing a frivolous defense and making false claims and misrepresentions and
so does the court. I have been completely transparent and honest with all of you contrary to him and the roseens as I was ordered to cooperate in the
baseless threatening investigation email I was sent. He knows he is billing the Roseens unessessary for things he brought up irrelevantly and falsely,
and he is not even addressing any of the merits of the case (another lie he made). Lawyers lie through their teeth. You going to let him do that to you
and let him use you like that?

On Jul 11, 2021, at 1:47 PM, Zach Rusk <zachrusk5@icloud.com> wrote:

You may care to know that I told the sgt on his call with me the other day that I’m strongly considering filing a complaint with the inspector
general and others given he won’t even order you to do your jobs.

Begin forwarded message:

From: Zach Rusk <zachrusk5@gmail.com>

Date: July 11, 2021 at 1:28:53 PM MDT
To: Jason Armstrong <jason@cromwellpllc.com>
Cc: tfraley@bozeman.net, GallatinCountyDCFilings@mt.gov, qellingson@bozeman.net
Subject: Re: Case: DV-16-2021-0000432-IJ - Zachary Rusk vs. Thomas Roseen, et al. - Files Attached

​Jason, since the police won’t do anything for me you must know promptly as per attached, to tell your clients Tom and Cindy to STOP
STALKING ME.

<image0.png>
<image1.png>
<image2.png>

<Affidavit Rusk DV-21-432B.pdf>

 Case 2:22-cv-00024-DLC Document 52-1 Filed 07/21/22 Page 312 of 1373
Sl.N Contact Time Received Sent
o (MM-DD-
YYYY)
1 Mary Roseen: Jul 11, 2020 Hi. Is something going on that
+16039012064 07:14 PM is why you’ve been distracted?

2 Mary Roseen: Jul 12, 2020 Hi. Yes, actually....I found a

+16039012064 07:11 AM guy :)

3 Mary Roseen: Jul 12, 2020 His name is Zach, and he’s
+16039012064 07:26 AM working on his MBA at USU.
So, once again, Logan shows
up in my life. Interesting.

4 Mary Roseen: Jul 12, 2020 Hi. That’s exciting! Have you
+16039012064 07:39 AM been driving down to Logan?

5 Mary Roseen: Jul 15, 2020 I’m here, not sure what was
+16039012064 11:55 AM happening, but I’m here

6 Mary Roseen: Jul 19, 2020 Seriously, I want an update

+16039012064 12:34 PM when the dishes are done

7 Mary Roseen: Jul 19, 2020 Haha ok. Seriously, though, it

+16039012064 12:42 PM will be a few hours from now

8 Mary Roseen: Jul 26, 2020 Look what dad spotted

+16039012064 05:05 PM

9 Mary Roseen: Jul 25, 2020

+16039012064 03:08 PM

10 Mary Roseen: Jul 25, 2020 Look what dad spotted

+16039012064 03:08 PM

11 Mary Roseen: Jul 26, 2020

+16039012064 05:05 PM

12 Mary Roseen: Jul 26, 2020 Awesome! That’s amazing

+16039012064 07:29 PM find. 2 of them, maybe a
mating couple!? I think that’s
rare

13 Mary Roseen: Jul 26, 2020 Reminds me of being a kid.

+16039012064 07:29 PM That’s all I wanted

14 Mary Roseen: Jul 26, 2020 They were cool. Seemed

+16039012064 07:32 PM small? Dad thought maybe
newly hatched

15 Mary Roseen: Aug 22, 2020 Whatcha doing tonight? Want

+16039012064 03:53 PM to catch up?

16 Mary Roseen: Aug 22, 2020 Hi. I’m spending time with
+16039012064 04:43 PM Shawn and Brian at their new
place. Talk tomorrow?

17 Mary Roseen: Aug 22, 2020 Sure

+16039012064 04:44 PM
 Case 2:22-cv-00024-DLC Document 52-1 Filed 07/21/22 Page 313 of 1373
18 Mary Roseen: Aug 26, 2020 Jacob Evans is getting married
+16039012064 07:26 PM in October! He invited me to
the wedding I don’t know
What to do. So far I’ve avoided
These decision. I wanted to
mention this the other night
but forgot

19 Mary Roseen: Aug 26, 2020 Hi. Congrats to Jake!

+16039012064 07:42 PM

20 Mary Roseen: Aug 26, 2020 You’d have to fly home?

+16039012064 07:42 PM

21 Mary Roseen: Aug 26, 2020 Yeah I’m happy for him. Yes
+16039012064 07:46 PM I’m going to look at flights
tonight just to see

22 Mary Roseen: Aug 26, 2020 They look cheap at first look
+16039012064 07:48 PM

23 Mary Roseen: Aug 26, 2020 They are asking out-of-state

+16039012064 07:50 PM people to get tested

24 Mary Roseen: Aug 26, 2020 Where is it?

+16039012064 08:14 PM

25 Mary Roseen: Aug 26, 2020 At his parents house in

+16039012064 08:17 PM Effingham. I don’t know the
number but He says it’s a
small gathering

26 Mary Roseen: Sep 08, 2020 Hi. I just read the recent news
+16039012064 07:35 AM about the fire-did you get a
damaging frost?

27 Mary Roseen: Sep 10, 2020 Hi, sorry for the late reply. We
+16039012064 10:26 PM did get a couple nights of
snow and cold temps, but we
were able to save everything
we really cared about. So, it
turned out ok.

28 Mary Roseen: Sep 10, 2020 We have two ungrateful

+16039012064 10:46 PM Hoop houses with good
tomato crops in them, so we
had to be creative to save
them. Thanks for asking

29 Mary Roseen: Sep 10, 2020 Also, I talked to Zach on

+16039012064 10:49 PM Sunday, and he told me that
he talked to you and Mom.
We had a good chat about
things. I’ve felt awestruck this
week. He is so sweet

30 Mary Roseen: Sep 11, 2020 Hi. Okay great. I’m glad he
+16039012064 05:17 AM talked to you.

31 Mary Roseen: Sep 11, 2020 Is he religious?

+16039012064 05:17 AM

32 Mary Roseen: Sep 11, 2020 I’d love to talk to you about it
+16039012064 05:22 AM over the phone
 Case 2:22-cv-00024-DLC Document 52-1 Filed 07/21/22 Page 314 of 1373
33 Mary Roseen: Sep 12, 2020 Hi, I was going to call today
+16039012064 07:34 PM but it was busy and I’m too
tied now. Talk tomorrow? That
would be nice

34 Mary Roseen: Sep 12, 2020 Zach has a Lutheran

+16039012064 07:35 PM background but is no longer
religious

35 Mary Roseen: Sep 12, 2020 Sure. Maybe later afternoon?

+16039012064 07:42 PM

36 Mary Roseen: Sep 12, 2020 Sounds good. How is your

+16039012064 08:19 PM weekend?

37 Mary Roseen: Sep 12, 2020 Weekend is good-on duty

+16039012064 08:19 PM

38 Mary Roseen: Sep 12, 2020 But bed time. Talk tomorrow
+16039012064 08:19 PM

39 Mary Roseen: Sep 12, 2020 Good. Lala salama

+16039012064 08:21 PM

40 Mary Roseen: Sep 25, 2020 Hi. I’ve been thinking of you all
+16039012064 09:12 PM week. Are you in UT?

41 Mary Roseen: Sep 25, 2020 I’m going to bed, but I love
+16039012064 09:13 PM you and I hope your drive
safely and have a good
weekend.

42 Mary Roseen: Sep 26, 2020 Did you get to Utah?

+16039012064 06:12 PM

43 Mary Roseen: Sep 26, 2020 Hi, yes, sorry. I made it late
+16039012064 06:20 PM Thursday night. We’ve had a
really nice time. Zach is
wonderful. Hiking yesterday,
and a hot springs today.

44 Mary Roseen: Sep 26, 2020 Liked “Hi, yes, sorry. I made it
+16039012064 06:20 PM late Thursday night. We’ve
had a really nice time. Zach is
wonderful. Hiking yesterday,
and a hot springs today.”

45 Mary Roseen: Sep 26, 2020 Can you send that to mom
+16039012064 06:20 PM too?

46 Mary Roseen: Sep 26, 2020 I’m glad you made it and
+16039012064 06:20 PM things are good.

47 Mary Roseen: Sep 26, 2020 How long of a drive is it?

+16039012064 06:21 PM

48 Mary Roseen: Sep 26, 2020 Yes I will. It’s 6hrs

+16039012064 06:24 PM

49 Mary Roseen: Sep 27, 2020

+16039012064 07:53 AM

50 Mary Roseen: Sep 27, 2020 Liked an image

+16039012064 11:33 AM

51 Mary Roseen: Oct 03, 2020 Can we catch up? I want to

+16039012064 11:47 AM hear about last weekend
 Case 2:22-cv-00024-DLC Document 52-1 Filed 07/21/22 Page 315 of 1373
69 Mary Roseen: Oct 12, 2020 I don’t have much faith that the
+16039012064 10:30 AM ACA will survive and, What
are we all going to do? Am I
just uninformed or is that a
legitimate fear? The premium
tax credit is vital for me

70 Mary Roseen: Oct 12, 2020 I don’t know...I think if Biden

+16039012064 10:37 AM wins, they will find a way to
keep it

71 Mary Roseen: Oct 12, 2020 So we have to be hopeful..

+16039012064 10:37 AM

72 Mary Roseen: Oct 12, 2020 But I’m also not very informed
+16039012064 10:37 AM

73 Mary Roseen: Oct 13, 2020 Is Cindy’s birthday tomorrow

+16039012064 05:49 PM or the 18th?

74 Mary Roseen: Oct 13, 2020 18

+16039012064 05:50 PM

75 Mary Roseen: Oct 13, 2020 Thanks

+16039012064 06:02 PM

76 Mary Roseen: Nov 02, 2020 Hi, I’m thinking about you. I
+16039012064 10:42 AM spent the weekend in a city
just south of salt lake with
Zach, who was dog watching
for his friends. Maybe you’ve
already heard but long-story-
short he is moving to
Bozeman, so I came down to
get him. It was a fun weekend
and we are just about to leave.
Hope you are well and Talk to
you later

77 Mary Roseen: Nov 02, 2020 Wow. Where’s he going to

+16039012064 12:20 PM live?

78 Mary Roseen: Nov 02, 2020 No, I didn’t hear that. Have a
+16039012064 12:20 PM good drive.

79 Mary Roseen: Dec 16, 2020 I’m very much on the Zach
+16039012064 01:26 PM Tom team, I also nervous bc
this is your first relationship
and I don’t want you to go
through it thinking things are
“normal”...you’re right, there’s
no normal, which means you
have to checkin with yourself
regularly. that’s all I’m saying.

80 Mary Roseen: Dec 16, 2020 Thank you. I appreciate that.

+16039012064 01:44 PM

81 Mary Roseen: Dec 16, 2020 I want to ask you about

+16039012064 03:46 PM working out at the gym with a
mask when we talk later. I may
forget.

82 Mary Roseen: Dec 16, 2020 I’m free if you want to talk.
+16039012064 05:25 PM
 Case 2:22-cv-00024-DLC Document 52-1 Filed 07/21/22 Page 316 of 1373
83 Mary Roseen: Dec 16, 2020 Ok. Is 30min ok?
+16039012064 05:28 PM

84 Mary Roseen: Dec 16, 2020 Sure

+16039012064 05:50 PM

85 Mary Roseen: Dec 23, 2020 Hi, did Nana die today 5 years
+16039012064 07:51 AM ago?

86 Mary Roseen: Dec 23, 2020 Yes

+16039012064 07:54 AM

87 Mary Roseen: Dec 23, 2020 Mom went to church this

+16039012064 07:54 AM morning.

88 Mary Roseen: Dec 23, 2020 Thanks

+16039012064 03:12 PM

89 Mary Roseen: Jan 16, 2021 Catch up this weekend?

+16039012064 06:23 AM

90 Mary Roseen: Jan 16, 2021 Yes sounds good. I don’t know
+16039012064 08:03 AM when yet. I’m going to
crosscut soon and I will be in
touch later

91 Mary Roseen: Jan 31, 2021 I’ve heard through the

+16039012064 08:22 AM grapevine that you’re moving?

92 Mary Roseen: Feb 01, 2021 Hi, yes. Zach and I are looking
+16039012064 08:35 AM for a place together, but it may
take some time to find it.

Did you talk to Cindy?

93 Mary Roseen: Feb 01, 2021 No, mom

+16039012064 09:29 AM

94 Mary Roseen: Feb 01, 2021 But mom had talked to Cindy
+16039012064 09:56 AM who I guess had been hoping
you’d find a place with her?

95 Mary Roseen: Feb 01, 2021 I think it’s great your

+16039012064 09:58 AM considering moving bc your
apt is practical but tough in
other ways. I do worry about
you moving in with Zach

96 Mary Roseen: Feb 02, 2021 Yes, she has wanted that for a
+16039012064 03:14 PM while and I have been open to
considering it but never
committed to living with her.
She has mostly stopped
talking to me for the past
month, but I have reached-out
to her a few times.

97 Mary Roseen: Feb 02, 2021 Eww. I hate the silent

+16039012064 03:49 PM treatment

98 Mary Roseen: Feb 02, 2021 That’s lame

+16039012064 03:49 PM
 Case 2:22-cv-00024-DLC Document 52-1 Filed 07/21/22 Page 317 of 1373
99 Mary Roseen: Feb 02, 2021 Yes is agree. I know she is
+16039012064 04:20 PM hurting because of some
reasons including the housing,
but I think she is being
immature and passive-
aggressive. I have not done
anything wrong, that I know of.
Her approach to this is hurting
me a little bit.

100 Mary Roseen: Feb 02, 2021 Im sure b

+16039012064 04:42 PM

101 Mary Roseen: Feb 02, 2021 I’m sure*

+16039012064 04:42 PM

102 Mary Roseen: Feb 02, 2021 I also wonder if this isn’t only
+16039012064 04:43 PM about housing? But rather the
housing issue is the last straw
so to speak? Might she be
frustrated by a number of
things?

103 Mary Roseen: Feb 02, 2021 And, you and Zach are moving
+16039012064 04:43 PM quickly. You can’t deny that.

104 Mary Roseen: Feb 02, 2021 I’m not suggesting you move
+16039012064 04:44 PM in with Cindy-I imagine that
would be a triggering
experience for you, nor am I
trying to talk you out of moving
in with Zach, just that there are
many sides here.

105 Mary Roseen: Feb 16, 2021 Shawn said you skied with him
+16039012064 04:06 PM yesterday? What happened
with Brian?

106 Mary Roseen: Feb 16, 2021 Hello,

+16039012064 07:55 PM

107 Mary Roseen: Feb 16, 2021 ?

+16039012064 07:55 PM

108 Mary Roseen: Feb 16, 2021 Hi, I’m sorry. Busy day.
+16039012064 08:07 PM Unfortunately He broke his leg

109 Mary Roseen: Feb 16, 2021 Yea, I heard

+16039012064 08:09 PM

110 Mary Roseen: Feb 16, 2021 I need to go to bed.

+16039012064 08:09 PM

111 Mary Roseen: Feb 16, 2021 But we should talk soon.
+16039012064 08:09 PM

112 Mary Roseen: Feb 17, 2021 Liked “ But we should talk
+16039012064 12:55 PM soon. ”

113 Mary Roseen: Feb 28, 2021 We still haven’t found a time
+16039012064 07:12 PM
 Case 2:22-cv-00024-DLC Document 52-1 Filed 07/21/22 Page 318 of 1373
114 Mary Roseen: Feb 28, 2021 Hi, I know. I was thinking
+16039012064 07:35 PM about I’m you today but ended
up taking wi to Mom and Dad
for a while. It was good. Do
you want to talk this week or
next weekend?

115 Mary Roseen: Feb 28, 2021 Oh good. I’m glad you talked
+16039012064 08:02 PM with them

116 Mary Roseen: Feb 28, 2021 Probably not this week. It’s
+16039012064 08:02 PM hard to find a time these days

117 Mary Roseen: Feb 28, 2021 But the weekend is looking
+16039012064 08:03 PM wide open

118 Mary Roseen: Feb 28, 2021 Sounds good. Let’s plan
+16039012064 09:19 PM tentatively for Sunday

119 Mary Roseen: Mar 01, 2021 Tom, this is not okay.
+16039012064 03:42 AM

120 Mary Roseen: Mar 01, 2021 You are an adult with your
+16039012064 03:42 AM own relationships to tend to. Y

121 Mary Roseen: Mar 01, 2021 And sure. Sunday sounds fine.
+16039012064 03:43 AM

122 Mary Roseen: Mar 01, 2021

+16039012064 08:30 AM

123 Mary Roseen: Mar 01, 2021 You aren’t going to talk to us?
+16039012064 08:30 AM

124 Mary Roseen: Mar 01, 2021 You are isolating yourself
+16039012064 08:30 AM

125 Mary Roseen: Mar 01, 2021 From people you’ve know for
+16039012064 08:30 AM 30 yrs. not 9 months.

126 Mary Roseen: Mar 01, 2021 ??

+16039012064 08:31 AM

127 Mary Roseen: Mar 01, 2021 I understand your concerns

+16039012064 08:53 AM but I feel that they are based
on lack of information,
misinformation, and
misunderstanding. I know that
I haven’t talked with you for a
while and you have probably
heard pieces from everyone
else. I will talk with all of you,
but Zach is going to take a
break because he is hurt. He
has been kind with all of you
and tried to develop a
relationship, but it’s not
working right now. I speak for
myself and this is my
message. I did not answer
your call because we are
preparing to have a fun day
xcskiing in big sky and trying
not to let all of this get in the
way of that.
 Case 2:22-cv-00024-DLC Document 52-1 Filed 07/21/22 Page 319 of 1373
128 Mary Roseen: Mar 01, 2021 Tom I’m at work so I couldnt
+16039012064 09:51 AM talk anyway, but I needed to
leave a message. Zach’s
messages are sweet, but they
aren’t a “hi, how are you?
How’s life?” Instead, it feels
like he is talking for you and
defending you and that doesn’t
feel good to me., espcially
since there’s no conflict
between you and me as far as
I know. And, he only
messaged after I messaged
you last night. His text wasn’t
an out of the blue attempt to
connect.
I’ve heard snippets from
Cindy, but I understand there
are multiple sides to a story
and I’ve heard zero from you.
As Far as I can tell you’ve just
been absent-isn’t it winter and
don’t you have a more flexible
schedule? I’m out straight, so I
haven’t had much time to
communicate lately and I’ll
own that, but you haven’t
made an effort. I’m not trying
to take sides between you and
Cindy. That situation bothers
me, it my priority is trying to
maintain my Relationship
With my brother. I’m glad
you’ve found Zach, and I’d
understand zero
communication over a
weekend If he still Lived in
Utah and you only Saw each
other once a month, but he
lives in Bozeman now. You
see each other all the time. So
I think it’s time to come up For
air and reconnect with your
world. One person is not a
world.

I’m not trying to ruin your ski

day. I hope it’s nice.

129 Mary Roseen: Mar 01, 2021 *but my priority

+16039012064 09:52 AM

130 Mary Roseen: Mar 01, 2021 We are on the way and I’m
+16039012064 09:57 AM loosing service soon. I will
respond later

131 Mary Roseen: Mar 01, 2021 Mom is filling in details for me.
+16039012064 09:57 AM I reacted to Zach’s text the
way I did Bc I believed it was
in response to my text you
about talking.

132 Mary Roseen: Mar 01, 2021 To you*

+16039012064 09:57 AM
 Case 2:22-cv-00024-DLC Document 52-1 Filed 07/21/22 Page 320 of 1373
133 Mary Roseen: Mar 01, 2021 Removed a like from “We are
+16039012064 05:51 PM on the way and I’m loosing
service soon. I will respond
later”

134 Mary Roseen: Mar 01, 2021 You’re right that I haven’t
+16039012064 05:57 PM made much of an effort to
connect with you, and I’m
sorry. It sounds to me like you
are trying to be objective and I
appreciate that. Can we plan
to talk tomorrow evening?

135 Mary Roseen: Mar 01, 2021 We had a good day. It was
+16039012064 05:58 PM beautiful. I skied and Zach
snowshoed.

136 Mary Roseen: Mar 01, 2021

+16039012064 05:58 PM

137 Mary Roseen: Mar 01, 2021 Omg that weather.

+16039012064 07:00 PM

138 Mary Roseen: Mar 01, 2021 Yes tomorrow evening should
+16039012064 07:00 PM work.

139 Mary Roseen: Mar 01, 2021 Liked “Yes tomorrow evening
+16039012064 08:21 PM should work.”

140 Mary Roseen: Mar 02, 2021 Hi, did you say that 8 Est was
+16039012064 10:25 AM too late? That would be good
for me

141 Mary Roseen: Mar 02, 2021 *is

+16039012064 10:26 AM

142 Mary Roseen: Mar 02, 2021 That should be fine

+16039012064 10:34 AM

143 Mary Roseen: Mar 02, 2021 Good. I also want to clarify
+16039012064 10:46 AM that yesterday morning I did
say to Zach that we need to
stop talking to everyone for a
while because I was
overwhelmed, annoyed, and
often I think that less input can
help the dust settle. However,
I realized what I really meant
is that I will talk with all of you
but it’s best that Zach does not
or has very limited contact for
now.

144 Mary Roseen: Mar 02, 2021 Yes. I agree. Tom, Zach is a
+16039012064 10:51 AM stranger to me and you should
be the one facilitating
introductions to his family. He
shouldn’t be left alone to do
that. And, his communication,
although kind, doesn’t have
the same Impact as his
intention. His intentions are
good, but it’s impact is odd,
and since we hardly hear from
you, it’s causing tension.
 Case 2:22-cv-00024-DLC Document 52-1 Filed 07/21/22 Page 321 of 1373
145 Mary Roseen: Mar 02, 2021 So, I’m glad you’re realizing
+16039012064 10:51 AM this.

146 Mary Roseen: Mar 02, 2021 Talk tonight.

+16039012064 10:52 AM

147 Mary Roseen: Mar 02, 2021 I’m glad we talked.

+16039012064 07:45 PM Remember, you are in the
epitome of the gray

148 Mary Roseen: Mar 02, 2021 No one is unsupportive of your

+16039012064 07:46 PM relationship.

149 Mary Roseen: Mar 02, 2021 And everyone wants to see
+16039012064 07:46 PM you happy and thriving.

150 Mary Roseen: Mar 02, 2021 As long as that happiness

+16039012064 07:47 PM includes your family.

151 Mary Roseen: Mar 02, 2021 And, for the record, from what
+16039012064 07:57 PM you’ve said, the ways that
Zach is helping you are ways
I’d want to help you too. So
that earns Zach some points in
my book.

I am open minded but I also

reserve the right to be careful
and cautious.

152 Mary Roseen: Mar 02, 2021 Before I left Fryeburg one of
+16039012064 08:02 PM my
Favorite teacher friends who
was probably 15 yrs older than
me said that she remembered
her late 20s and early 30s
being really rocky. It stuck with
me Bc it was true and I think
the same might the case for
you. I feel like you’re in this
giant journey of self-
acceptance that is difficult and
painful and lonely. I’m glad
you have Zach to help you
through it, but, again, you
need a village.

153 Mary Roseen: Mar 05, 2021 Hello?

+16039012064 07:17 PM

154 Mary Roseen: Mar 05, 2021 Please stop texting that to me.
+16039012064 07:23 PM It’s sarcastic and annoying.
I’ve had a lot of tough
conversations this week and
received a lot of information
but I have had no time to
process. I will respond when I
am ready. I have a ski race
tomorrow.

155 Mary Roseen: Mar 05, 2021 Ok. Good luck.

+16039012064 07:24 PM

156 Mary Roseen: Mar 05, 2021 But please start

+16039012064 07:24 PM acknowledging to texts.
 Case 2:22-cv-00024-DLC Document 52-1 Filed 07/21/22 Page 322 of 1373
157 Mary Roseen: Mar 05, 2021 All you have to say is “thank
+16039012064 07:25 PM you. Talk soon.”

158 Mary Roseen: Mar 05, 2021 Or “talk later”

+16039012064 07:25 PM

159 Mary Roseen: Mar 05, 2021 (And for the record, your
+16039012064 07:30 PM silence is annoying and could
be interpreted as passive
aggressive. i try not to think
that way, but in the spirit of
communication, I figure you
should know how your
behavior can be perceived.)

160 Mary Roseen: Mar 05, 2021 Thank you for the good luck. I
+16039012064 08:15 PM am not done with this but I do
not have the time or energy to
respond.

161 Mary Roseen: Mar 19, 2021

+16039012064 09:23 AM

162 Mary Roseen: Mar 19, 2021 I downloaded this app

+16039012064 09:25 AM yesterday. $20/yr. It’s great so
far. You would probably like it
to.

163 Mary Roseen: Mar 19, 2021 I’ll check it out

+16039012064 10:41 AM

164 Mary Roseen: Mar 20, 2021 Hi, call later. I’m eating
+16039012064 07:06 PM

165 Mary Roseen: Mar 20, 2021 You awake?

+16039012064 08:29 PM

166 Mary Roseen: Mar 20, 2021 Not really

+16039012064 08:39 PM

167 Mary Roseen: Mar 20, 2021 Ok. Maybe we can catch up
+16039012064 08:40 PM tomorrow. Sleep well

168 Mary Roseen: Mar 21, 2021 Hi. Yes

+16039012064 06:38 AM
 Case 2:22-cv-00024-DLC Document 52-1 Filed 07/21/22 Page 323 of 1373
169 Mary Roseen: Mar 21, 2021 Tom, I’m nervous to even
+16039012064 08:36 PM reach out to you these days
Bc I’m scared I’m going to
drive you away. This isn’t a
situation of an older sister not
listening to you or telling you
what to do or not letting you
advocate for yourself, it’s a
situation of “please listen Bc
your considering a dangerous
path.” But I’m scared to even
talk to you these days Bc I’m
worried I’ll just irritate you. I
don’t know how to frame it in a
positive way, but no matter
how good Zach made you feel
at times, I do not believe that
was the right relationship for
you and I ask that you really
consult with others before you
make any decisions regarding
getting back together. And
again, you’ll just prolong the
pain.

170 Mary Roseen: Mar 21, 2021 https://www.psychologytoday.c

+16039012064 08:46 PM om/us/blog/the-mindful-self-
express/201603/is-your-brain-
breakup

171 Mary Roseen: Mar 22, 2021 https://www.healthline.com/he

+16039012064 09:37 AM alth/stages-of-grief

172 Mary Roseen: Mar 30, 2021 1 by 1 you are losing your
+16039012064 01:22 PM family. Is that what you want?

173 Mary Roseen: Mar 30, 2021 No, Mary. I have meant to
+16039012064 02:22 PM respond to you, but I have
needed some space. And yes,
sometimes I get irritated
because of the way you talk to
me. I am talking to Mom and
Dad tonight.

174 Mary Roseen: Mar 30, 2021 Tom, you’re not the only one
+16039012064 03:06 PM around here with feelings. And
we all love you and are
worried. Happy birthday eve.

175 Mary Roseen: Mar 30, 2021 Also, I do not believe my texts
+16039012064 03:18 PM from a week ago were
anything but supportive. I’m
not going to talk to you about
this anymore, but when you
want to talk I’m here.

176 Mary Roseen: Mar 31, 2021 Happy Birthday.

+16039012064 06:28 AM

177 Mary Roseen: Mar 31, 2021 Thank you, and thank you for
+16039012064 10:06 AM the card. I love it. I will open
your gift tonight

178 Mary Roseen: Mar 31, 2021 Glad you got it

+16039012064 11:28 AM
 Case 2:22-cv-00024-DLC Document 52-1 Filed 07/21/22 Page 46 of 1373

From: Tom Roseen tomroseen@gmail.com

Subject: Re: Last four pages of texts
Date: April 2, 2021 at 7:21 AM
To: Zach Rusk zachrusk5@gmail.com

This is what I wrote in response during that weekend/week of the 20th. We have talked about
or addressed some of this since then, I think even during the week of the 21st, so I have felt
since then that maybe I need to rework it to account for the changes. However, now I want to
send this to show you my thought process at the time.
Standout topics to work on:
Like I mentioned, I want to work on improving my communication, including being open to
sharing more information and advocating more for myself. I know that I am improving, and
I even sense that in the past week, such as being more confident, even in the tough time.
I want to improve my ability to follow my nature and truly take the time and space I need to
process. Throughout my life I learned that I was too slow, my speed was unacceptable, and
that I need to make decisions quicker because that is what society values and needs.
Therefore, I developed a habit of expediting my decision-making process to bring myself to
the level of society. For example, I will still find myself making a decision at work, and
thinking “wait, why did I say that? Is that true?” and if it’s not, then I have to redirect my
coworkers, or myself. This has not happened with critical things on the farm, and has not
resulted in terrible mistakes, but I realize it can be annoying for my coworkers and I need to
follow my nature. I am embarrassed but I know it has happened with us, and I am sorry for
that because I know it has caused some pain. I know this may be alarming to you. I am
being vulnerable right now and telling you that I recognize it, and I am working on it, with
myself and in therapy. I am good enough and there is nothing wrong with my deliberate
process. In fact, it is a strength. The other night you recognized how much I have changed in
the past year, and in the past nine months, and said that I am not slow. I appreciate that and
thank you.
Recognize and vocalize when I feel pressured to respond or make a decision.

Improving positivity in my life. One step I have already taken is that I subscribed to the I
Am app, and it has already been helpful. I get a three-day free trial, but I am sold.
I want to find ways to decrease my alcohol intake. I will soon begin working full time, and
if we can establish healthy routines, I think that will help significantly.
Use my phone to be more organized and set reminders, such as the appropriate advance time
to call for med refills.
Go to bed at a consistent, early time.
Try not to raise my voice when I feel triggered or upset.
“I do sometimes ask for the time I need and then find myself slipping into avoidance, often
unintentionally. I say I need more time, but then sometimes I don’t necessarily use it to
address a topic. I am working on this.” Maybe I can use my phone to help?
Thinking errors...say more
 Case 2:22-cv-00024-DLC Document 52-1 Filed 07/21/22 Page 47 of 1373

Thinking errors...say more

“However, I have work to do because I mostly lack the self-compassion that I want. I am
making progress. I know that being a compassionate person does not mean that I do not
advocate for myself, but I am learning to advocate for myself with compassion. There are
times when I lose sight of that compassion, such as when I learn about some of your actions
and misinterpret them, when I know that you have good intentions.”

On Sat, Mar 20, 2021 at 9:27 AM Zach Rusk <zachrusk5@gmail.com> wrote:

What are the standout topics you see you need and would like to work on? Specifically. You’ve communicated some in the past.
Curious if/how they have evolved and if there are any new ones.

On Mar 20, 2021, at 8:48 AM, Tom Roseen <tomroseen@gmail.com> wrote:

I would really like to find a healthy way to move forward, and like you have mentioned about yourself, I too have some standout
topics to work on. I believe that involves some amount of time and space, and therapy for each of us.

On Sat, Mar 20, 2021 at 8:32 AM Tom Roseen <tomroseen@gmail.com> wrote:

Hi,

Thank you for this. It looks helpful.

On Sat, Mar 20, 2021 at 7:54 AM Zach Rusk <zachrusk5@gmail.com> wrote:

FYI that as I’ve stated, to get my own medical advice, like yours from Greg (therapeutic wise), I’ve sent everything to Dr
Starr, including our texts (in full, likewise with those you’ve sent me between you and Cindy, Mary, etc., plus your email to
Cindy) and the journal entries. Sent him my comms (texts) with you/your siblings, too. He just responded moment ago with
“Zach, I’m looking forward to seeing you”. I responded with I haven’t made an official decision yet due to logistics in large
part and I’m torn. But that I have until the 27th

> On Mar 20, 2021, at 7:44 AM, Zach Rusk <zachrusk5@gmail.com> wrote:
>
> If helpful, the last four pages of our most recent texts are attached. These commence from just moments prior to your call
to me the first time yesterday, This may help Greg help you best, when coupled with my journal entry from yesterday, which
is also attached (the full journal entry in one pdf, this time). And our call records from yesterday, as well. (Provided snippets
of the journal entries to you intermittently between your three calls to me yesterday). Plus ideas (written to you this morning
via email) on how to possibly approach the most important topic to you, as you communicated, from our last call last night.
>
> <TextMsgs_Tom_Roseen_2021_0320_07_29 copy.pdf>
> <Zach Full March 19th 2021 Journal Entry PDF.pdf>
> <IMG_0279.PNG>
>
>
>
> <How to improve partners relationship with their siblings .pdf>
> <7 Helpful Ways To Actually Get Along Better With Your Partners Parents.pdf>
> <How to Help Your Partner Feel Comfortable With Your Family.pdf>
>
>
Case 2:22-cv-00024-DLC Document 45-1 Filed 07/05/22 Page 78 of 78
 Case 2:22-cv-00024-DLC Document 45-1 Filed 07/05/22 Page 39 of 78

From: Tom Roseen tomroseen@gmail.com

Subject: Re: Last four pages of texts
Date: April 2, 2021 at 7:21 AM
To: Zach Rusk zachrusk5@gmail.com

This is what I wrote in response during that weekend/week of the 20th. We have talked about
or addressed some of this since then, I think even during the week of the 21st, so I have felt
since then that maybe I need to rework it to account for the changes. However, now I want to
send this to show you my thought process at the time.
Standout topics to work on:

Like I mentioned, I want to work on improving my communication, including being open to

sharing more information and advocating more for myself. I know that I am improving, and
I even sense that in the past week, such as being more confident, even in the tough time.
I want to improve my ability to follow my nature and truly take the time and space I need to
process. Throughout my life I learned that I was too slow, my speed was unacceptable, and
that I need to make decisions quicker because that is what society values and needs.
Therefore, I developed a habit of expediting my decision-making process to bring myself to
the level of society. For example, I will still find myself making a decision at work, and
thinking “wait, why did I say that? Is that true?” and if it’s not, then I have to redirect my
coworkers, or myself. This has not happened with critical things on the farm, and has not
resulted in terrible mistakes, but I realize it can be annoying for my coworkers and I need to
follow my nature. I am embarrassed but I know it has happened with us, and I am sorry for
that because I know it has caused some pain. I know this may be alarming to you. I am
being vulnerable right now and telling you that I recognize it, and I am working on it, with
myself and in therapy. I am good enough and there is nothing wrong with my deliberate
process. In fact, it is a strength. The other night you recognized how much I have changed in
the past year, and in the past nine months, and said that I am not slow. I appreciate that and
thank you.
Recognize and vocalize when I feel pressured to respond or make a decision.

Improving positivity in my life. One step I have already taken is that I subscribed to the I
Am app, and it has already been helpful. I get a three-day free trial, but I am sold.
I want to find ways to decrease my alcohol intake. I will soon begin working full time, and
if we can establish healthy routines, I think that will help significantly.
Use my phone to be more organized and set reminders, such as the appropriate advance time
to call for med refills.

Go to bed at a consistent, early time.

Try not to raise my voice when I feel triggered or upset.
“I do sometimes ask for the time I need and then find myself slipping into avoidance, often
unintentionally. I say I need more time, but then sometimes I don’t necessarily use it to
address a topic. I am working on this.” Maybe I can use my phone to help?
Thinking errors...say more
 Case 2:22-cv-00024-DLC Document 45-1 Filed 07/05/22 Page 40 of 78

Thinking errors...say more

“However, I have work to do because I mostly lack the self-compassion that I want. I am
making progress. I know that being a compassionate person does not mean that I do not
advocate for myself, but I am learning to advocate for myself with compassion. There are
times when I lose sight of that compassion, such as when I learn about some of your actions
and misinterpret them, when I know that you have good intentions.”

On Sat, Mar 20, 2021 at 9:27 AM Zach Rusk <zachrusk5@gmail.com> wrote:

What are the standout topics you see you need and would like to work on? Specifically. You’ve communicated some in the past.
Curious if/how they have evolved and if there are any new ones.

On Mar 20, 2021, at 8:48 AM, Tom Roseen <tomroseen@gmail.com> wrote:

I would really like to find a healthy way to move forward, and like you have mentioned about yourself, I too have some standout
topics to work on. I believe that involves some amount of time and space, and therapy for each of us.

On Sat, Mar 20, 2021 at 8:32 AM Tom Roseen <tomroseen@gmail.com> wrote:

Hi,

Thank you for this. It looks helpful.

On Sat, Mar 20, 2021 at 7:54 AM Zach Rusk <zachrusk5@gmail.com> wrote:

FYI that as I’ve stated, to get my own medical advice, like yours from Greg (therapeutic wise), I’ve sent everything to Dr
Starr, including our texts (in full, likewise with those you’ve sent me between you and Cindy, Mary, etc., plus your email to
Cindy) and the journal entries. Sent him my comms (texts) with you/your siblings, too. He just responded moment ago with
“Zach, I’m looking forward to seeing you”. I responded with I haven’t made an official decision yet due to logistics in large
part and I’m torn. But that I have until the 27th

> On Mar 20, 2021, at 7:44 AM, Zach Rusk <zachrusk5@gmail.com> wrote:
>
> If helpful, the last four pages of our most recent texts are attached. These commence from just moments prior to your call
to me the first time yesterday, This may help Greg help you best, when coupled with my journal entry from yesterday, which
is also attached (the full journal entry in one pdf, this time). And our call records from yesterday, as well. (Provided snippets
of the journal entries to you intermittently between your three calls to me yesterday). Plus ideas (written to you this morning
via email) on how to possibly approach the most important topic to you, as you communicated, from our last call last night.
>
> <TextMsgs_Tom_Roseen_2021_0320_07_29 copy.pdf>
> <Zach Full March 19th 2021 Journal Entry PDF.pdf>
> <IMG_0279.PNG>
>
>
>
> <How to improve partners relationship with their siblings .pdf>
> <7 Helpful Ways To Actually Get Along Better With Your Partners Parents.pdf>
> <How to Help Your Partner Feel Comfortable With Your Family.pdf>
>
>
 Case 2:22-cv-00024-DLC Document 45-1 Filed 07/05/22 Page 29 of 78

From: Tom Roseen tomroseen@gmail.com

Subject: Re: Email response and notes for Mar8 meeting
Date: March 7, 2021 at 9:42 PM
To: Zach Rusk zachrusk5@gmail.com

The cost of my Vyvanse is not just $300. It’s the opportunity cost of paying the deductible
so that my policy can pay for thousands if I have a medical emergency.
You are trying to help me recognize and correct my thinking errors.

You have focused on me so much recently because you love me so much that you have not
addressed some of the personal business that you would normally address immediately. This
is one example of your cognitive dissonance.
You said: “I’m glad you put your phone on silent.”
You referenced your own medical expenses which would be less than the full cost of my
Vyvanse.

The point of this email was to help me organize my thoughts and prepare for tomorrow, not
to provide something for you to read.
“This took too long, Tom, again.”

On Sun, Mar 7, 2021 at 8:28 PM Tom Roseen <tomroseen@gmail.com> wrote:

Zach,
This a draft response to your texts, emails and our conversations leading up to our
meeting with Greg. I am dissatisfied with some of the phrasing, and organization, and
there are many topics that I did not address, but I hope to address them. Please ask
questions. I may have wanted to change some things around, but I no longer have time
before the meeting. I hope this helps. I love you.
You are unsure about my commitment. I understand, but what if my commitment is
masked by the different pace of my life? I am persistent, tolerant, loyal, and I do not give
up easily. I am happy to provide examples, but I’m not sure I need to. When I say I am
committed to you and our relationship for a while, I mean it. I know that “a while” is
subjective and intangible, but how can I put a number on that? Please know that when I
pursue an interest or passion, it is usually a part of my life for years. You also said that you
may not have the patience to continue with the current circumstance of our relationship,
such as my inability to advocate for myself and you, particularly with my family, and my
“wishy-washy” style. I know that this is difficult, and you have lived with repetitive
challenges throughout your life, but maybe you need to learn to be patient with me and this
process. I know that you are working on this. Things are moving and I am changing. I am
a big-picture thinker, and I am able to remove myself from the drama of a moment and
realize that “I’m not ready to be done with this endeavor.” You say that the past is the best
predictor of the future. I know that in our 10-month past we have experienced some tough
times and you have found a lot of red flags. For me, challenging, stressful, exhausting, and
 Case 2:22-cv-00024-DLC Document 45-1 Filed 07/05/22 Page 30 of 78

times and you have found a lot of red flags. For me, challenging, stressful, exhausting, and
overwhelming. I only mention these dissatisfying aspects to provide reason that I could
have bailed many times, but I am still by your side. What does that say about me? It has
also been beautiful and positively life changing, and more.
You said that you are going to tell it how it is “finally,” and push me. Please
remember that I have been pushed and dragged through school and other parts of life since
I was a kid because I did not fit into everyone else’s pace of life. It was traumatic for me
and I am sensitive to ideas about someone pushing me to do something. I am not opposed
if I know the person loves me, is well intended, and empowers me, but it is still a delicate
topic. For example, you used the metaphor of “only dipping my feet in the water.” I
understand what you mean when you say this, but it immediately pulled a memory that I
have of my Mom essentially forcing me to jump in the deep water at the end of the dock at
our town’s beach, because I was scared and not ready at the same time as others in my
swimming class. She brought me there one evening after dinner and I sat on the dock in
agony trying to figure out what to do. She said: “we are not leaving until you jump in the
water.” I realize she was well intended, and sometimes I think: “why was this so difficult
for me- your Mom made you jump in some deep water. Big deal.” However, I often
question if she learned when to stop pushing me, when too far was too far. It feels to me
that she did not know, and I was incapable of effectively communicating that.
You also use a lot of language that is upsetting, and possibly distancing, such as
“liability,” “threat,” “egregious,” “protect myself,” etc. I understand your meaning and
accept it, but I am uncomfortable about your language choice. Again, I know that you are
very experienced and knowledgeable in law, and that impresses me and I want to learn
more, but sometimes I feel like there is less distance between our relationship and your
lawsuits. Our relationship is loving, caring, honest… and when I think of lawyers,
lawsuits, and the judicial system, the words that come to my mind are cold, strict,
objective, tiresome, devoid of feeling, and more. That is not our relationship.
You commented on my illogical or hypocritical approach to you seeing other
people- I want you for myself but don’t want to commit to you. I am not oblivious to this
characteristic. I also felt similarly with Emilie and I recognized it and questioned it. We
were close in college but when I saw her hanging out with other guys, I became upset,
although I never expressed it. I knew that I was not ready to date her, because I was
physically unattracted to her and because of other many unresolved personal issues, yet I
did not want her to see other people. When we graduated and she began to date another
guy, I was angry and resentful of him. I felt like she belonged to me, but I was incapable of
having a relationship with her. I recognized that this was hypocritical, and I never acted
on this feeling, but I questioned it. So, I have picked up on this thinking pattern in myself,
and I am trying to work through it, but I did not communicate it to you.

Other topics, questions, and excerpts I wanted to/am addressing. Some of these questions
may seem crazy to you, but I wrote them to ask myself and make sure that I am answering
them for myself and speaking my truth.
 Case 2:22-cv-00024-DLC Document 45-1 Filed 07/05/22 Page 31 of 78

My siblings are not accommodating my communication style

Tell me to not move in with Zach but do not explain reasons why.

Do I defend my oppressors? Are my siblings oppressing me? What power do I give them?
“Don’t make the person YOU hurt feel bad for being hurt.”
You claim that my siblings were driving a wedge between us as early as last fall. Mary
said they forgave the promise wring incident- which says to me that they saw it as doing
something wrong. Maybe it was quick, but was it wrong?
I did not realize how serious my family situation is, and maybe I was caught in a view that
things would be fine and that my family would welcome you. I suppose that was naïve, or
idealistic.
Are my siblings jealous of us?
What do you mean when you say that I benched you? Put you on the sidelines?
I feel a lot of pressure to respond “the right way” because you are concerned about my
family threatening you and everything you have worked towards for the last 10 years. This
is difficult for me and leads me to start questioning my process: “Have I thought about this
enough? Is this really how I feel? Maybe I feel this way right now, but it may change
later….”
You sense that I am not committed 100% like you are.
“Please show me that you are serious about trying.”
I fell in love with you again on our ski day at Bridger- with the car and when we got home
and you wanted pretzels and cheese, but I was out.
Discussion points for the meeting with Greg:
“It’s not couples counseling. It’s facilitating a conversation to help me explain myself to
you. This is part of my therapy.”

-In October when Cindy was helping me figure out how to help Zach, I was
procrastinating about telling Shawn, and I said “…I’ll be honest, it’s difficult talking to all
of you, our family, about this stuff. I guess I’m afraid.” Cindy replied: “Just explain. Are
you afraid that we’re all going to say it’s too soon, etc?” I said that I was not sure what the
fear was.
-I am really struggling to see how my family is treating me so poorly. I feel like something
is wrong, but I am unsure if I know entirely what is wrong. I see how Cindy has treated
me poorly, but Mary and Shawn are more confusing. I keep returning to the same theme
that they are disrespecting my agency, but is that it? Is that the problem, or is there more
that I am missing? They are projecting their concerns onto me and appear not to trust me?
Again, I feel that I have not questioned their relationships to the same extent that they are
questioning mine.
 Case 2:22-cv-00024-DLC Document 45-1 Filed 07/05/22 Page 32 of 78
questioning mine.
-My feelings of inadequacy
-My trouble accepting Zach’s need to have sexual contact with other people- Do I feel
envious or jealous? Do I take it as being inadequate? I think some of it comes from feeling
left out
-Do I receive some pleasure from emotional self-abuse?
-How do we help them help us?
Case 2:22-cv-00024-DLC Document 45-1 Filed 07/05/22 Page 1 of 78
1128 Shawn Roseen: Mar 06, 2021 "I am mentally ill"
+16035818972 11:46 AM

1129 Mary Roseen: Mar 06, 2021 Wow

+16039012064 12:15 PM

1130 group Mar 06, 2021

04:01 PM

1131 Mary Roseen: Mar 08, 2021 Tom, how did the race go?
+16039012064 02:43 PM

1132 group Mar 09, 2021 It went pretty well. It was a

11:06 AM different course and the 45k
was three laps, which is tough.
The first two were pretty fast
but then it warmed up and was
sticky and windy.
Unfortunately Zach was not
able to see much because the
start was at the biathalon
range and difficult to be to. We
had a nice day though

1133 Mary Roseen: Mar 09, 2021 Sounds good

+16039012064 03:16 PM

1134 group Mar 15, 2021 Zach and I broke up early this
01:31 PM morning. I met with Greg for
two hours today. I am
exhausted and numb, but ok
for the moment. I know you
will all want to talk but I cannot
talk with all of you right now
because I am so tired.

1135 Kathy Roseen: Mar 15, 2021 Oh Tom! Thank you for
+16033033371 01:35 PM sharing this. It must have been
very difficult & I’m so glad you
had Greg to help you through
this.
We are all here for you as you
know & will help in any way we
can when you are ready. This
is always hard, but you will get
through it. Call anytime

1136 Mary Roseen: Mar 15, 2021 Yes. What mom said.
+16039012064 01:36 PM

1137 group Mar 15, 2021 Thank you

01:48 PM

1138 Kathy Roseen: Mar 26, 2021 Thunder storm in T’boro & lots
+16033033371 03:04 PM of rain

1139 Mary Roseen: Mar 26, 2021 It’s windy here

+16039012064 04:03 PM
1140 group Mar 31, 2021 Hi, I sent you a group email
12:44 PM this morning. Please read it
when you get chance, if you
have not already. Zach and I
are continuing our relationship
and are working through our
challenges and focusing on
healthy ways to move forward.
I’m not ignoring what
happened last week and
everything leading up to it, but
I wanted to take some time
before addressing it. I hope to
be in touch with each of you
soon.

1141 Mary Roseen: Mar 31, 2021 Take some to address it with
+16039012064 12:52 PM us? Or with him?

1142 group Mar 31, 2021 Both. He and I have been

12:59 PM talking about it some

1143 Mary Roseen: Mar 31, 2021 Ok

+16039012064 01:18 PM

1144 Kathy Roseen: Mar 31, 2021 Thank you Tom

+16033033371 01:20 PM

1145 group Apr 06, 2021 Hi, Zach is excited about some
07:35 PM of my winter projects and
wanted to share it with you
because he knows I may not
for a while. I understand this
may feel uncomfortable
because you haven’t heard
from me in a bit, but I am in
the process of writing to you
because that is an easier way
for me to communicate. So,
I’m not ignoring you.

1146 Cindy Roseen: Apr 06, 2021 It’s extremely uncomfortable.

+16032448055 07:36 PM

1147 group Apr 06, 2021 I know this is a tough time.

07:37 PM He’s trying to connect
positively.

1148 Mary Roseen: Apr 06, 2021 Tom, he’s does some
+16039012064 07:37 PM damage.

1149 Mary Roseen: Apr 06, 2021 Done*

+16039012064 07:37 PM

1150 group Apr 06, 2021 He and I both want a healthy

07:38 PM relationship between us and
all of you and realize it will
take some time.

1151 Cindy Roseen: Apr 06, 2021 Does he think that everything
+16032448055 07:39 PM is back to normal now? Does
he think he can just smooth
things over? He’s burned all
bridges. I’m absolutely done
with him.
1152 Mary Roseen: Apr 06, 2021 But yes, your projects are
+16039012064 07:39 PM cool.

1153 group Apr 06, 2021 No, he does not think that.
07:39 PM And I don’t either

1154 group Apr 06, 2021 Thank you.

07:39 PM

1155 Mary Roseen: Apr 06, 2021 I literally just ordered the book
+16039012064 07:40 PM velvet rage. It was
recommended to me by a
friend.

1156 Mary Roseen: Apr 06, 2021 That’s the only way I can
+16039012064 07:41 PM make sense of any of this.

1157 Mary Roseen: Apr 06, 2021 Any of this = the situation we
+16039012064 07:41 PM find ourselves in.

1158 Mary Roseen: Apr 06, 2021 The situation being you aren’t
+16039012064 07:50 PM talking to us and are in what
appears to be an extremely
manipulative relationship.

1159 Mary Roseen: Apr 06, 2021 And now I’m sure I’ve just
+16039012064 07:51 PM made it worse. But when
you’re ready to talk, we’re
here.

1160 Mary Roseen: Apr 06, 2021 And Tom, if Zach wants to
+16039012064 08:08 PM make amends, he should
consider apologizing.
Especially to Cindy. And I’d
love to see your projects,
especially if you share them
with me. They are yours to
share.
1161 Kathy Roseen: Apr 06, 2021 Thank you for being in touch
+16033033371 08:08 PM Tom. We all have concerns
about you not connecting with
us for lengths of time; we are
concerned about you being
swayed away from us; we are
concerned about the way Zach
has reacted against you & the
others; but I also know you are
now 30 & I for one have to let
go & trust that you are on a
safe path, despite our
concerns. And right now what I
want more than anything is to
have everyone call a truce.....
acknowledge that stuff in the
recent past is yucky, & that it
won’t change because
everyone is so hurt & angry,
but to move forward & fix the
relationships with your sisters
& brother. That’s the most
important thing to me & dad
right now. And all he & I can
do is hope that you have made
a good choice that is safe,
even in times of stress when
behaviors can escalate. That,
& you not being in touch, are
our biggest concerns.

1162 Kathy Roseen: Apr 06, 2021 And I agree with Mary that
+16033033371 08:39 PM Cindy deserves an apology.
She was deeply affected & his
intent was to cause severe &
costly harm & consequences
for her by making up stories &
“reporting “ her. That is just
unbelievable to me & it has to
be addressed.

1163 group Apr 06, 2021 I am not avoidant, but I ask

08:53 PM that you do not contact me
right now until I am ready, and
I will let you know. I hope to be
in touch soon. If you have
things to say to me, and I
expect that you do, please
write them somewhere else
and send them to me later
after I have reached out. I love
you all.
347 Shawn Roseen: Feb 06, 2021 Hey, sorry. It’s going ok how
+16035818972 01:25 PM are you? I’m happy to hear
you played with them and that
we could have a good time
too. I would love that. I’m
excited about next weekend

348 Shawn Roseen: Feb 06, 2021 I'm good. Working a ton
+16035818972 01:35 PM currently

349 Shawn Roseen: Feb 06, 2021 Hopefully the weather holds
+16035818972 01:35 PM off for next weekend

350 Shawn Roseen: Feb 13, 2021 Trying to get to sky and
+16035818972 11:28 AM Trisha's by 5

351 Shawn Roseen: Feb 13, 2021 Did you bring a shirt(s) for
+16035818972 04:47 PM Zach?

352 Shawn Roseen: Feb 13, 2021 I haven't left yet but I will
+16035818972 04:47 PM

353 Shawn Roseen: Feb 13, 2021 You want multiple shirts?
+16035818972 04:47 PM

354 Shawn Roseen: Feb 13, 2021 Ok thanks no just one you to
+16035818972 04:49 PM think he might like

355 Shawn Roseen: Feb 13, 2021 What is their address?

+16035818972 05:08 PM

356 Shawn Roseen: Feb 13, 2021 4979

+16035818972 05:10 PM

357 Shawn Roseen: Feb 13, 2021 Thanks. Durston right

+16035818972 05:12 PM

358 Shawn Roseen: Feb 13, 2021 Yeah. I'll be there in a few
+16035818972 05:19 PM

359 Shawn Roseen: Feb 14, 2021 How're you doing?

+16035818972 01:49 PM

360 Shawn Roseen: Feb 14, 2021 Hi, ok. Feeling better now.
+16035818972 01:55 PM You?

361 Shawn Roseen: Feb 14, 2021 I'm good. Definitely slow
+16035818972 01:58 PM

362 Shawn Roseen: Feb 14, 2021 You guys are still skiing
+16035818972 06:04 PM tomorrow?

363 Shawn Roseen: Feb 14, 2021 I just want to make sure I
+16035818972 07:49 PM clarify. I’m not sure why you
assumed Zach gave that
edible to me, but just for the
record he did not give me an
edible. It was Peter.

364 Shawn Roseen: Feb 14, 2021 Yeah I know now. Because
+16035818972 07:49 PM Zach had talked about you
hitting the bong earlier that
night haha

365 Shawn Roseen: Feb 14, 2021 So I assumed he gave the

+16035818972 07:50 PM edible
366 Shawn Roseen: Feb 14, 2021 Im not sure what you mean
+16035818972 07:56 PM about him talking about that,
but maybe you just overheard
me saying that I had never
done that. Did Peter offer you
an edible?

367 Shawn Roseen: Feb 14, 2021 Earlier in the night he jokingly
+16035818972 07:59 PM mentioned you and the bong. I
know you haven't had much of
any experience with weed. I
knew they were available but I
can't have weed because I
could be drug tested

368 Shawn Roseen: Feb 14, 2021 Thanks for your response.
+16035818972 09:44 PM Over Thanksgiving, you and
Cindy told Zach and I about
going to the yurt a week or two
after the holidays and said
you’d be doing psilocybin.
Wouldn’t that be part of your
drug testing? We did not go,
because I was worried about
COVID, and I was. You two
invited us but we decided not
to go. Prior to that, I told Zach
that when I tried psilocybin
with you, Cindy and Dan, I
passed out and woke up to
Cindy yelling at me. This
worried Zach, and he
discouraged me from going
because he worried for my
health and safety (I also did
not want to go). I’m concerned
about Zach being blamed for
last night because he is not
like that.

369 Shawn Roseen: Feb 15, 2021 Hi, Happy Birthday Shawn!
+16035818972 08:45 AM

370 Shawn Roseen: Feb 15, 2021 Our morning didn’t go as

+16035818972 08:47 AM planned. We’re hoping to
leave soon, what time are we
all trying to meet?

371 Shawn Roseen: Feb 15, 2021 Hi, we’re leaving now. Sorry
+16035818972 09:24 AM

372 Shawn Roseen: Feb 15, 2021 All good. They had to stop for
+16035818972 09:25 AM coffee so we're on the same
page

373 Shawn Roseen: Feb 15, 2021 Great

+16035818972 09:40 AM

374 Shawn Roseen: Feb 15, 2021 Here. In F lot

+16035818972 09:52 AM

375 Shawn Roseen: Feb 15, 2021 Yeah I saw you. We just
+16035818972 09:55 AM parked in commuter. Meet in
jbl face shots bar

376 Shawn Roseen: Feb 15, 2021 Actually ticket office

+16035818972 10:04 AM
Sl.N Contact Time Received Sent
o (MM-DD-
YYYY)
1 Mary Roseen: Jul 11, 2020 Hi. Is something going on that
+16039012064 07:14 PM is why you’ve been distracted?

2 Mary Roseen: Jul 12, 2020 Hi. Yes, actually....I found a

+16039012064 07:11 AM guy :)

3 Mary Roseen: Jul 12, 2020 His name is Zach, and he’s
+16039012064 07:26 AM working on his MBA at USU.
So, once again, Logan shows
up in my life. Interesting.

4 Mary Roseen: Jul 12, 2020 Hi. That’s exciting! Have you
+16039012064 07:39 AM been driving down to Logan?

5 Mary Roseen: Jul 15, 2020 I’m here, not sure what was
+16039012064 11:55 AM happening, but I’m here

6 Mary Roseen: Jul 19, 2020 Seriously, I want an update

+16039012064 12:34 PM when the dishes are done

7 Mary Roseen: Jul 19, 2020 Haha ok. Seriously, though, it

+16039012064 12:42 PM will be a few hours from now

8 Mary Roseen: Jul 26, 2020 Look what dad spotted

+16039012064 05:05 PM

9 Mary Roseen: Jul 25, 2020

+16039012064 03:08 PM

10 Mary Roseen: Jul 25, 2020 Look what dad spotted

+16039012064 03:08 PM

11 Mary Roseen: Jul 26, 2020

+16039012064 05:05 PM

12 Mary Roseen: Jul 26, 2020 Awesome! That’s amazing

+16039012064 07:29 PM find. 2 of them, maybe a
mating couple!? I think that’s
rare

13 Mary Roseen: Jul 26, 2020 Reminds me of being a kid.

+16039012064 07:29 PM That’s all I wanted

14 Mary Roseen: Jul 26, 2020 They were cool. Seemed

+16039012064 07:32 PM small? Dad thought maybe
newly hatched

15 Mary Roseen: Aug 22, 2020 Whatcha doing tonight? Want

+16039012064 03:53 PM to catch up?

16 Mary Roseen: Aug 22, 2020 Hi. I’m spending time with
+16039012064 04:43 PM Shawn and Brian at their new
place. Talk tomorrow?

17 Mary Roseen: Aug 22, 2020 Sure

+16039012064 04:44 PM
18 Mary Roseen: Aug 26, 2020 Jacob Evans is getting married
+16039012064 07:26 PM in October! He invited me to
the wedding I don’t know
What to do. So far I’ve avoided
These decision. I wanted to
mention this the other night
but forgot

19 Mary Roseen: Aug 26, 2020 Hi. Congrats to Jake!

+16039012064 07:42 PM

20 Mary Roseen: Aug 26, 2020 You’d have to fly home?

+16039012064 07:42 PM

21 Mary Roseen: Aug 26, 2020 Yeah I’m happy for him. Yes
+16039012064 07:46 PM I’m going to look at flights
tonight just to see

22 Mary Roseen: Aug 26, 2020 They look cheap at first look
+16039012064 07:48 PM

23 Mary Roseen: Aug 26, 2020 They are asking out-of-state

+16039012064 07:50 PM people to get tested

24 Mary Roseen: Aug 26, 2020 Where is it?

+16039012064 08:14 PM

25 Mary Roseen: Aug 26, 2020 At his parents house in

+16039012064 08:17 PM Effingham. I don’t know the
number but He says it’s a
small gathering

26 Mary Roseen: Sep 08, 2020 Hi. I just read the recent news
+16039012064 07:35 AM about the fire-did you get a
damaging frost?

27 Mary Roseen: Sep 10, 2020 Hi, sorry for the late reply. We
+16039012064 10:26 PM did get a couple nights of
snow and cold temps, but we
were able to save everything
we really cared about. So, it
turned out ok.

28 Mary Roseen: Sep 10, 2020 We have two ungrateful

+16039012064 10:46 PM Hoop houses with good
tomato crops in them, so we
had to be creative to save
them. Thanks for asking

29 Mary Roseen: Sep 10, 2020 Also, I talked to Zach on

+16039012064 10:49 PM Sunday, and he told me that
he talked to you and Mom.
We had a good chat about
things. I’ve felt awestruck this
week. He is so sweet

30 Mary Roseen: Sep 11, 2020 Hi. Okay great. I’m glad he
+16039012064 05:17 AM talked to you.

31 Mary Roseen: Sep 11, 2020 Is he religious?

+16039012064 05:17 AM

32 Mary Roseen: Sep 11, 2020 I’d love to talk to you about it
+16039012064 05:22 AM over the phone
33 Mary Roseen: Sep 12, 2020 Hi, I was going to call today
+16039012064 07:34 PM but it was busy and I’m too
tied now. Talk tomorrow? That
would be nice

34 Mary Roseen: Sep 12, 2020 Zach has a Lutheran

+16039012064 07:35 PM background but is no longer
religious

35 Mary Roseen: Sep 12, 2020 Sure. Maybe later afternoon?

+16039012064 07:42 PM

36 Mary Roseen: Sep 12, 2020 Sounds good. How is your

+16039012064 08:19 PM weekend?

37 Mary Roseen: Sep 12, 2020 Weekend is good-on duty

+16039012064 08:19 PM

38 Mary Roseen: Sep 12, 2020 But bed time. Talk tomorrow
+16039012064 08:19 PM

39 Mary Roseen: Sep 12, 2020 Good. Lala salama

+16039012064 08:21 PM

40 Mary Roseen: Sep 25, 2020 Hi. I’ve been thinking of you all
+16039012064 09:12 PM week. Are you in UT?

41 Mary Roseen: Sep 25, 2020 I’m going to bed, but I love
+16039012064 09:13 PM you and I hope your drive
safely and have a good
weekend.

42 Mary Roseen: Sep 26, 2020 Did you get to Utah?

+16039012064 06:12 PM

43 Mary Roseen: Sep 26, 2020 Hi, yes, sorry. I made it late
+16039012064 06:20 PM Thursday night. We’ve had a
really nice time. Zach is
wonderful. Hiking yesterday,
and a hot springs today.

44 Mary Roseen: Sep 26, 2020 Liked “Hi, yes, sorry. I made it
+16039012064 06:20 PM late Thursday night. We’ve
had a really nice time. Zach is
wonderful. Hiking yesterday,
and a hot springs today.”

45 Mary Roseen: Sep 26, 2020 Can you send that to mom
+16039012064 06:20 PM too?

46 Mary Roseen: Sep 26, 2020 I’m glad you made it and
+16039012064 06:20 PM things are good.

47 Mary Roseen: Sep 26, 2020 How long of a drive is it?

+16039012064 06:21 PM

48 Mary Roseen: Sep 26, 2020 Yes I will. It’s 6hrs

+16039012064 06:24 PM

49 Mary Roseen: Sep 27, 2020

+16039012064 07:53 AM

50 Mary Roseen: Sep 27, 2020 Liked an image

+16039012064 11:33 AM

51 Mary Roseen: Oct 03, 2020 Can we catch up? I want to

+16039012064 11:47 AM hear about last weekend
69 Mary Roseen: Oct 12, 2020 I don’t have much faith that the
+16039012064 10:30 AM ACA will survive and, What
are we all going to do? Am I
just uninformed or is that a
legitimate fear? The premium
tax credit is vital for me

70 Mary Roseen: Oct 12, 2020 I don’t know...I think if Biden

+16039012064 10:37 AM wins, they will find a way to
keep it

71 Mary Roseen: Oct 12, 2020 So we have to be hopeful..

+16039012064 10:37 AM

72 Mary Roseen: Oct 12, 2020 But I’m also not very informed
+16039012064 10:37 AM

73 Mary Roseen: Oct 13, 2020 Is Cindy’s birthday tomorrow

+16039012064 05:49 PM or the 18th?

74 Mary Roseen: Oct 13, 2020 18

+16039012064 05:50 PM

75 Mary Roseen: Oct 13, 2020 Thanks

+16039012064 06:02 PM

76 Mary Roseen: Nov 02, 2020 Hi, I’m thinking about you. I
+16039012064 10:42 AM spent the weekend in a city
just south of salt lake with
Zach, who was dog watching
for his friends. Maybe you’ve
already heard but long-story-
short he is moving to
Bozeman, so I came down to
get him. It was a fun weekend
and we are just about to leave.
Hope you are well and Talk to
you later

77 Mary Roseen: Nov 02, 2020 Wow. Where’s he going to

+16039012064 12:20 PM live?

78 Mary Roseen: Nov 02, 2020 No, I didn’t hear that. Have a
+16039012064 12:20 PM good drive.

79 Mary Roseen: Dec 16, 2020 I’m very much on the Zach
+16039012064 01:26 PM Tom team, I also nervous bc
this is your first relationship
and I don’t want you to go
through it thinking things are
“normal”...you’re right, there’s
no normal, which means you
have to checkin with yourself
regularly. that’s all I’m saying.

80 Mary Roseen: Dec 16, 2020 Thank you. I appreciate that.

+16039012064 01:44 PM

81 Mary Roseen: Dec 16, 2020 I want to ask you about

+16039012064 03:46 PM working out at the gym with a
mask when we talk later. I may
forget.

82 Mary Roseen: Dec 16, 2020 I’m free if you want to talk.
+16039012064 05:25 PM
83 Mary Roseen: Dec 16, 2020 Ok. Is 30min ok?
+16039012064 05:28 PM

84 Mary Roseen: Dec 16, 2020 Sure

+16039012064 05:50 PM

85 Mary Roseen: Dec 23, 2020 Hi, did Nana die today 5 years
+16039012064 07:51 AM ago?

86 Mary Roseen: Dec 23, 2020 Yes

+16039012064 07:54 AM

87 Mary Roseen: Dec 23, 2020 Mom went to church this

+16039012064 07:54 AM morning.

88 Mary Roseen: Dec 23, 2020 Thanks

+16039012064 03:12 PM

89 Mary Roseen: Jan 16, 2021 Catch up this weekend?

+16039012064 06:23 AM

90 Mary Roseen: Jan 16, 2021 Yes sounds good. I don’t know
+16039012064 08:03 AM when yet. I’m going to
crosscut soon and I will be in
touch later

91 Mary Roseen: Jan 31, 2021 I’ve heard through the

+16039012064 08:22 AM grapevine that you’re moving?

92 Mary Roseen: Feb 01, 2021 Hi, yes. Zach and I are looking
+16039012064 08:35 AM for a place together, but it may
take some time to find it.

Did you talk to Cindy?

93 Mary Roseen: Feb 01, 2021 No, mom

+16039012064 09:29 AM

94 Mary Roseen: Feb 01, 2021 But mom had talked to Cindy
+16039012064 09:56 AM who I guess had been hoping
you’d find a place with her?

95 Mary Roseen: Feb 01, 2021 I think it’s great your

+16039012064 09:58 AM considering moving bc your
apt is practical but tough in
other ways. I do worry about
you moving in with Zach

96 Mary Roseen: Feb 02, 2021 Yes, she has wanted that for a
+16039012064 03:14 PM while and I have been open to
considering it but never
committed to living with her.
She has mostly stopped
talking to me for the past
month, but I have reached-out
to her a few times.

97 Mary Roseen: Feb 02, 2021 Eww. I hate the silent

+16039012064 03:49 PM treatment

98 Mary Roseen: Feb 02, 2021 That’s lame

+16039012064 03:49 PM
99 Mary Roseen: Feb 02, 2021 Yes is agree. I know she is
+16039012064 04:20 PM hurting because of some
reasons including the housing,
but I think she is being
immature and passive-
aggressive. I have not done
anything wrong, that I know of.
Her approach to this is hurting
me a little bit.

100 Mary Roseen: Feb 02, 2021 Im sure b

+16039012064 04:42 PM

101 Mary Roseen: Feb 02, 2021 I’m sure*

+16039012064 04:42 PM

102 Mary Roseen: Feb 02, 2021 I also wonder if this isn’t only
+16039012064 04:43 PM about housing? But rather the
housing issue is the last straw
so to speak? Might she be
frustrated by a number of
things?

103 Mary Roseen: Feb 02, 2021 And, you and Zach are moving
+16039012064 04:43 PM quickly. You can’t deny that.

104 Mary Roseen: Feb 02, 2021 I’m not suggesting you move
+16039012064 04:44 PM in with Cindy-I imagine that
would be a triggering
experience for you, nor am I
trying to talk you out of moving
in with Zach, just that there are
many sides here.

105 Mary Roseen: Feb 16, 2021 Shawn said you skied with him
+16039012064 04:06 PM yesterday? What happened
with Brian?

106 Mary Roseen: Feb 16, 2021 Hello,

+16039012064 07:55 PM

107 Mary Roseen: Feb 16, 2021 ?

+16039012064 07:55 PM

108 Mary Roseen: Feb 16, 2021 Hi, I’m sorry. Busy day.
+16039012064 08:07 PM Unfortunately He broke his leg

109 Mary Roseen: Feb 16, 2021 Yea, I heard

+16039012064 08:09 PM

110 Mary Roseen: Feb 16, 2021 I need to go to bed.

+16039012064 08:09 PM

111 Mary Roseen: Feb 16, 2021 But we should talk soon.
+16039012064 08:09 PM

112 Mary Roseen: Feb 17, 2021 Liked “ But we should talk
+16039012064 12:55 PM soon. ”

113 Mary Roseen: Feb 28, 2021 We still haven’t found a time
+16039012064 07:12 PM
114 Mary Roseen: Feb 28, 2021 Hi, I know. I was thinking
+16039012064 07:35 PM about I’m you today but ended
up taking wi to Mom and Dad
for a while. It was good. Do
you want to talk this week or
next weekend?

115 Mary Roseen: Feb 28, 2021 Oh good. I’m glad you talked
+16039012064 08:02 PM with them

116 Mary Roseen: Feb 28, 2021 Probably not this week. It’s
+16039012064 08:02 PM hard to find a time these days

117 Mary Roseen: Feb 28, 2021 But the weekend is looking
+16039012064 08:03 PM wide open

118 Mary Roseen: Feb 28, 2021 Sounds good. Let’s plan
+16039012064 09:19 PM tentatively for Sunday

119 Mary Roseen: Mar 01, 2021 Tom, this is not okay.
+16039012064 03:42 AM

120 Mary Roseen: Mar 01, 2021 You are an adult with your
+16039012064 03:42 AM own relationships to tend to. Y

121 Mary Roseen: Mar 01, 2021 And sure. Sunday sounds fine.
+16039012064 03:43 AM

122 Mary Roseen: Mar 01, 2021

+16039012064 08:30 AM

123 Mary Roseen: Mar 01, 2021 You aren’t going to talk to us?
+16039012064 08:30 AM

124 Mary Roseen: Mar 01, 2021 You are isolating yourself
+16039012064 08:30 AM

125 Mary Roseen: Mar 01, 2021 From people you’ve know for
+16039012064 08:30 AM 30 yrs. not 9 months.

126 Mary Roseen: Mar 01, 2021 ??

+16039012064 08:31 AM

127 Mary Roseen: Mar 01, 2021 I understand your concerns

+16039012064 08:53 AM but I feel that they are based
on lack of information,
misinformation, and
misunderstanding. I know that
I haven’t talked with you for a
while and you have probably
heard pieces from everyone
else. I will talk with all of you,
but Zach is going to take a
break because he is hurt. He
has been kind with all of you
and tried to develop a
relationship, but it’s not
working right now. I speak for
myself and this is my
message. I did not answer
your call because we are
preparing to have a fun day
xcskiing in big sky and trying
not to let all of this get in the
way of that.
128 Mary Roseen: Mar 01, 2021 Tom I’m at work so I couldnt
+16039012064 09:51 AM talk anyway, but I needed to
leave a message. Zach’s
messages are sweet, but they
aren’t a “hi, how are you?
How’s life?” Instead, it feels
like he is talking for you and
defending you and that doesn’t
feel good to me., espcially
since there’s no conflict
between you and me as far as
I know. And, he only
messaged after I messaged
you last night. His text wasn’t
an out of the blue attempt to
connect.
I’ve heard snippets from
Cindy, but I understand there
are multiple sides to a story
and I’ve heard zero from you.
As Far as I can tell you’ve just
been absent-isn’t it winter and
don’t you have a more flexible
schedule? I’m out straight, so I
haven’t had much time to
communicate lately and I’ll
own that, but you haven’t
made an effort. I’m not trying
to take sides between you and
Cindy. That situation bothers
me, it my priority is trying to
maintain my Relationship
With my brother. I’m glad
you’ve found Zach, and I’d
understand zero
communication over a
weekend If he still Lived in
Utah and you only Saw each
other once a month, but he
lives in Bozeman now. You
see each other all the time. So
I think it’s time to come up For
air and reconnect with your
world. One person is not a
world.
I’m not trying to ruin your ski
day. I hope it’s nice.

129 Mary Roseen: Mar 01, 2021 *but my priority

+16039012064 09:52 AM

130 Mary Roseen: Mar 01, 2021 We are on the way and I’m
+16039012064 09:57 AM loosing service soon. I will
respond later

131 Mary Roseen: Mar 01, 2021 Mom is filling in details for me.
+16039012064 09:57 AM I reacted to Zach’s text the
way I did Bc I believed it was
in response to my text you
about talking.

132 Mary Roseen: Mar 01, 2021 To you*

+16039012064 09:57 AM
133 Mary Roseen: Mar 01, 2021 Removed a like from “We are
+16039012064 05:51 PM on the way and I’m loosing
service soon. I will respond
later”

134 Mary Roseen: Mar 01, 2021 You’re right that I haven’t
+16039012064 05:57 PM made much of an effort to
connect with you, and I’m
sorry. It sounds to me like you
are trying to be objective and I
appreciate that. Can we plan
to talk tomorrow evening?

135 Mary Roseen: Mar 01, 2021 We had a good day. It was
+16039012064 05:58 PM beautiful. I skied and Zach
snowshoed.

136 Mary Roseen: Mar 01, 2021

+16039012064 05:58 PM

137 Mary Roseen: Mar 01, 2021 Omg that weather.

+16039012064 07:00 PM

138 Mary Roseen: Mar 01, 2021 Yes tomorrow evening should
+16039012064 07:00 PM work.

139 Mary Roseen: Mar 01, 2021 Liked “Yes tomorrow evening
+16039012064 08:21 PM should work.”

140 Mary Roseen: Mar 02, 2021 Hi, did you say that 8 Est was
+16039012064 10:25 AM too late? That would be good
for me

141 Mary Roseen: Mar 02, 2021 *is

+16039012064 10:26 AM

142 Mary Roseen: Mar 02, 2021 That should be fine

+16039012064 10:34 AM

143 Mary Roseen: Mar 02, 2021 Good. I also want to clarify
+16039012064 10:46 AM that yesterday morning I did
say to Zach that we need to
stop talking to everyone for a
while because I was
overwhelmed, annoyed, and
often I think that less input can
help the dust settle. However,
I realized what I really meant
is that I will talk with all of you
but it’s best that Zach does not
or has very limited contact for
now.

144 Mary Roseen: Mar 02, 2021 Yes. I agree. Tom, Zach is a
+16039012064 10:51 AM stranger to me and you should
be the one facilitating
introductions to his family. He
shouldn’t be left alone to do
that. And, his communication,
although kind, doesn’t have
the same Impact as his
intention. His intentions are
good, but it’s impact is odd,
and since we hardly hear from
you, it’s causing tension.
145 Mary Roseen: Mar 02, 2021 So, I’m glad you’re realizing
+16039012064 10:51 AM this.

146 Mary Roseen: Mar 02, 2021 Talk tonight.

+16039012064 10:52 AM

147 Mary Roseen: Mar 02, 2021 I’m glad we talked.

+16039012064 07:45 PM Remember, you are in the
epitome of the gray

148 Mary Roseen: Mar 02, 2021 No one is unsupportive of your

+16039012064 07:46 PM relationship.

149 Mary Roseen: Mar 02, 2021 And everyone wants to see
+16039012064 07:46 PM you happy and thriving.

150 Mary Roseen: Mar 02, 2021 As long as that happiness

+16039012064 07:47 PM includes your family.

151 Mary Roseen: Mar 02, 2021 And, for the record, from what
+16039012064 07:57 PM you’ve said, the ways that
Zach is helping you are ways
I’d want to help you too. So
that earns Zach some points in
my book.
I am open minded but I also
reserve the right to be careful
and cautious.

152 Mary Roseen: Mar 02, 2021 Before I left Fryeburg one of
+16039012064 08:02 PM my
Favorite teacher friends who
was probably 15 yrs older than
me said that she remembered
her late 20s and early 30s
being really rocky. It stuck with
me Bc it was true and I think
the same might the case for
you. I feel like you’re in this
giant journey of self-
acceptance that is difficult and
painful and lonely. I’m glad
you have Zach to help you
through it, but, again, you
need a village.

153 Mary Roseen: Mar 05, 2021 Hello?

+16039012064 07:17 PM

154 Mary Roseen: Mar 05, 2021 Please stop texting that to me.
+16039012064 07:23 PM It’s sarcastic and annoying.
I’ve had a lot of tough
conversations this week and
received a lot of information
but I have had no time to
process. I will respond when I
am ready. I have a ski race
tomorrow.

155 Mary Roseen: Mar 05, 2021 Ok. Good luck.

+16039012064 07:24 PM

156 Mary Roseen: Mar 05, 2021 But please start

+16039012064 07:24 PM acknowledging to texts.
157 Mary Roseen: Mar 05, 2021 All you have to say is “thank
+16039012064 07:25 PM you. Talk soon.”

158 Mary Roseen: Mar 05, 2021 Or “talk later”

+16039012064 07:25 PM

159 Mary Roseen: Mar 05, 2021 (And for the record, your
+16039012064 07:30 PM silence is annoying and could
be interpreted as passive
aggressive. i try not to think
that way, but in the spirit of
communication, I figure you
should know how your
behavior can be perceived.)

160 Mary Roseen: Mar 05, 2021 Thank you for the good luck. I
+16039012064 08:15 PM am not done with this but I do
not have the time or energy to
respond.

161 Mary Roseen: Mar 19, 2021

+16039012064 09:23 AM

162 Mary Roseen: Mar 19, 2021 I downloaded this app

+16039012064 09:25 AM yesterday. $20/yr. It’s great so
far. You would probably like it
to.

163 Mary Roseen: Mar 19, 2021 I’ll check it out

+16039012064 10:41 AM

164 Mary Roseen: Mar 20, 2021 Hi, call later. I’m eating
+16039012064 07:06 PM

165 Mary Roseen: Mar 20, 2021 You awake?

+16039012064 08:29 PM

166 Mary Roseen: Mar 20, 2021 Not really

+16039012064 08:39 PM

167 Mary Roseen: Mar 20, 2021 Ok. Maybe we can catch up
+16039012064 08:40 PM tomorrow. Sleep well

168 Mary Roseen: Mar 21, 2021 Hi. Yes

+16039012064 06:38 AM
169 Mary Roseen: Mar 21, 2021 Tom, I’m nervous to even
+16039012064 08:36 PM reach out to you these days
Bc I’m scared I’m going to
drive you away. This isn’t a
situation of an older sister not
listening to you or telling you
what to do or not letting you
advocate for yourself, it’s a
situation of “please listen Bc
your considering a dangerous
path.” But I’m scared to even
talk to you these days Bc I’m
worried I’ll just irritate you. I
don’t know how to frame it in a
positive way, but no matter
how good Zach made you feel
at times, I do not believe that
was the right relationship for
you and I ask that you really
consult with others before you
make any decisions regarding
getting back together. And
again, you’ll just prolong the
pain.

170 Mary Roseen: Mar 21, 2021 https://www.psychologytoday.c

+16039012064 08:46 PM om/us/blog/the-mindful-self-
express/201603/is-your-brain-
breakup

171 Mary Roseen: Mar 22, 2021 https://www.healthline.com/he

+16039012064 09:37 AM alth/stages-of-grief

172 Mary Roseen: Mar 30, 2021 1 by 1 you are losing your
+16039012064 01:22 PM family. Is that what you want?

173 Mary Roseen: Mar 30, 2021 No, Mary. I have meant to
+16039012064 02:22 PM respond to you, but I have
needed some space. And yes,
sometimes I get irritated
because of the way you talk to
me. I am talking to Mom and
Dad tonight.

174 Mary Roseen: Mar 30, 2021 Tom, you’re not the only one
+16039012064 03:06 PM around here with feelings. And
we all love you and are
worried. Happy birthday eve.

175 Mary Roseen: Mar 30, 2021 Also, I do not believe my texts
+16039012064 03:18 PM from a week ago were
anything but supportive. I’m
not going to talk to you about
this anymore, but when you
want to talk I’m here.

176 Mary Roseen: Mar 31, 2021 Happy Birthday.

+16039012064 06:28 AM

177 Mary Roseen: Mar 31, 2021 Thank you, and thank you for
+16039012064 10:06 AM the card. I love it. I will open
your gift tonight

178 Mary Roseen: Mar 31, 2021 Glad you got it

+16039012064 11:28 AM
396 Cindy Roseen: Dec 22, 2020 Nevermind.
+16032448055 02:19 PM

397 Cindy Roseen: Dec 22, 2020 I asked Mary.

+16032448055 02:20 PM

398 Cindy Roseen: Dec 22, 2020 Ok, I’m sorry. On the way
+16032448055 04:49 PM

399 Cindy Roseen: Dec 25, 2020 We’re hoping to zoom at noon.
+16032448055 10:55 AM

400 Cindy Roseen: Dec 25, 2020 Ok. We can probably be there
+16032448055 10:58 AM by 11:30... sorry

401 Cindy Roseen: Dec 25, 2020 No worries.

+16032448055 11:16 AM

402 Cindy Roseen: Dec 26, 2020 Would you be interested in

+16032448055 11:49 AM doing part of the foothills trail
after you do your run?

403 Cindy Roseen: Dec 31, 2020 Are we still on the same page
+16032448055 08:50 AM for living together? Ideally
looking for something in the
spring.

404 Cindy Roseen: Dec 31, 2020 Hi, no I don’t think we’re on
+16032448055 09:11 AM the same page. Let’s talk
about that. I have tomorrow
off Bytheway

405 Cindy Roseen: Dec 31, 2020 Nevermind.

+16032448055 09:12 AM

406 Cindy Roseen: Dec 31, 2020 Of course you’re not.

+16032448055 09:12 AM

407 Cindy Roseen: Dec 31, 2020 Super cool Tom.

+16032448055 09:15 AM

408 Cindy Roseen: Dec 31, 2020 I said that just in case you
+16032448055 09:19 AM wanted to hang out tomorrow

409 Cindy Roseen: Dec 31, 2020 I feel like I have done
+16032448055 12:33 PM something wrong, but I have
not. To my knowledge I have
not given you any
commitment. This topic has
caused a lot of anxiety for me
recently, and additionally the
way that you communicate
about it with me makes me
feel guilty. Let’s talk later.

410 Cindy Roseen: Dec 31, 2020 It’s also given me anxiety. I
+16032448055 12:41 PM don’t want to talk about it. We
have talked about this for a
while and now that Zach is
here, you are ditching me.

411 Cindy Roseen: Dec 31, 2020 I’m done with this. You do you
+16032448055 12:41 PM Tom. You deserve it.
412 Cindy Roseen: Dec 31, 2020 I want to continue this
+16032448055 01:08 PM discussion. I think it’s
important because I can sense
that you have building
resentment towards me or
Zach or both of us, and I want
to resolve it before it hurts our
relationship too much. I may
also have building resentment
towards you.

413 Cindy Roseen: Dec 31, 2020 Well I’m sorry for that, for
+16032448055 01:28 PM whatever I did. I set you free
from it. I’m going to try to let
this not set the tone for the
rest of my day. I’m letting it go.

414 Cindy Roseen: Jan 09, 2021 Hi, I’m thinking about you. I
+16032448055 02:11 PM just want you to know how
happy and relieved I am for
you because of your wage
increase. You deserve it. I love
you and hope you’re doing ok.

415 Cindy Roseen: Jan 09, 2021 Thanks. I got you something.
+16032448055 03:45 PM

416 Cindy Roseen: Jan 09, 2021

+16032448055 03:45 PM

417 Cindy Roseen: Jan 09, 2021 Merry Christmas.

+16032448055 03:45 PM

418 Cindy Roseen: Jan 10, 2021 Loved an image

+16032448055 08:37 AM

419 Cindy Roseen: Jan 10, 2021 Hi, thank you, I love it! Can’t
+16032448055 08:40 AM wait to use it

420 Cindy Roseen: Jan 30, 2021 Hey Cindy, how are you? I
+16032448055 08:12 AM miss you.

421 Cindy Roseen: Feb 12, 2021 Hi Cindy,

+16032448055 09:39 PM
I am being patient with you,
but I am concerned about us
seeing each other tomorrow
because you have not
responded to my messages
and appear to be uninterested
in talking. I want to talk
tomorrow before we see each
other. I look forward to having
a good time tomorrow but I’m
concerned about unintended
tensions surfacing.
422 Cindy Roseen: Feb 12, 2021 Oh Tom, so serious. I haven’t
+16032448055 11:00 PM responded to you because I
feel hurt. To be fair, you never
gave me a solid answer but
you were never direct with me
either. We had been talking
about this for a while. I’m
getting over it but it’s slow.
You just surprised me. I did
not expect you to move this
fast. It’s the straw that broke
the camels back. It’s been a
weird winter for me. I needed
to take myself out of the
situation, get space and put
my head down. I barely see
you anyway and now you’re in
a relationship (I’m happy for
you) but I feel as though I’ll
really not see you. At the
moment, actions speak louder
than words for me. And it’s not
just you, it’s everyone. I wasn’t
going to make anyone
uncomfortable tomorrow night.
I can hide it well. But I’m glad
you reached out.
423 Cindy Roseen: Feb 13, 2021 Thank you for responding and,
+16032448055 12:03 AM so promptly. Everything you
said means a lot to me. Thank
you for being open with me
about your feelings. I know
you’re hurting and dealing with
a lot and I feel so much for
you. Zach has been
concerned about me because
he knows how much I care
about you and he has been
worried he has interfered with
our relationship. Zach wants
us to have “just you and I
time,” and I told him last night,
when we continued our pursuit
in applying for apartments,
that I slept on your floor when I
moved here (we were filling
out landlord information and I
have only my current). I could
sense how this genuine and
honest disclosure affected
Zach, and he, again, strongly
encouraged me to reach out to
you tonight to check-in on you
because he also sensed that
us not talking lately has been
wearing on me. That said,
again, thank you so much for
your response tonight. You
mean so much to me. I want to
talk more if you want to, but I
am so tired right now. I had
frustrating and long day. I was
just concerned about you and I
felt so sad, but I’m happy we
were able to connect prior to
tomorrow. Please let me know
how I can help and what I can
do for you. We are really
looking forward to seeing you
tomorrow. I’m still thinking
about what you said and will
respond more later. Goodnight

424 Cindy Roseen: Feb 14, 2021 Hey, are you ok?
+16032448055 08:31 AM

425 Cindy Roseen: Feb 14, 2021 I’m at work now but wanted to
+16032448055 08:31 AM check in. I won’t be able to
respond in a little bit.

426 Cindy Roseen: Feb 14, 2021 Hi, I don’t feel great but I’m ok.
+16032448055 09:09 AM Thanks for checking in. I’m
embarrassed and
disappointed.

427 Cindy Roseen: Feb 14, 2021 Don’t be.

+16032448055 10:24 AM

428 Cindy Roseen: Feb 14, 2021 Yeah. Thanks. How are you?
+16032448055 12:27 PM
429 Cindy Roseen: Feb 14, 2021 I’m glad you’re ok. I hope
+16032448055 03:26 PM you’re feeling better by now
too. I’m surprisingly good. I’ll
crash hard tonight but
otherwise feel good.

430 Cindy Roseen: Feb 14, 2021 Thank you, and I’m glad to
+16032448055 08:49 PM hear that

431 Cindy Roseen: Feb 14, 2021 Can Zach and I take the Prius
+16032448055 08:59 PM to Bridger tomorrow?

432 Cindy Roseen: Feb 14, 2021 Sure.

+16032448055 09:00 PM

433 Cindy Roseen: Feb 15, 2021 Thanks

+16032448055 08:07 AM

434 Cindy Roseen: Feb 19, 2021 Thank you for your response
+16032448055 10:53 PM today. It clarified some things.

435 Cindy Roseen: Feb 23, 2021 Hi. Thanks for your email.
+16032448055 07:33 PM Want to get a beer at 317 one
of these nights?

436 Cindy Roseen: Feb 23, 2021 That sounds good. What’s a
+16032448055 08:46 PM good day for you?

437 Cindy Roseen: Feb 23, 2021 Thursday night

+16032448055 09:30 PM

438 Cindy Roseen: Feb 23, 2021 Ok, but I need you to respond
+16032448055 11:31 PM to my email tomorrow, so that I
have enough time to think. If
that is not enough time for
you, then let’s reschedule.
Good night.

439 Cindy Roseen: Feb 24, 2021 Ok. Then we need to

+16032448055 07:50 AM reschedule.

440 Cindy Roseen: Feb 24, 2021 Ok keep me posted

+16032448055 12:48 PM

441 Cindy Roseen: Mar 05, 2021 Good luck tomorrow!

+16032448055 10:11 PM

442 Cindy Roseen: Mar 05, 2021 Thank you

+16032448055 10:18 PM

443 Cindy Roseen: Mar 15, 2021 Zach and I broke up. Do what
+16032448055 12:14 PM you need to do, but he will
need time to clean out the car.
Be careful with your language.
I’m about to call Shari. I’m
available to talk.

444 Cindy Roseen: Mar 15, 2021 What?!?

+16032448055 12:15 PM

445 Cindy Roseen: Mar 15, 2021 Yes, I know it is alarming. We

+16032448055 12:16 PM can deal with it tonight but I
want to let you know now.

446 Cindy Roseen: Mar 15, 2021 I can talk now if you want to.
+16032448055 12:17 PM
447 Cindy Roseen: Mar 15, 2021 I’m home. I have this week off.
+16032448055 12:17 PM

448 Cindy Roseen: Mar 15, 2021 Ok I’ll call

+16032448055 12:18 PM

449 Cindy Roseen: Mar 15, 2021 Can I come over?

+16032448055 01:33 PM

450 Cindy Roseen: Mar 15, 2021 Shawn and I are headed to
+16032448055 01:34 PM Cashman’s soon. Do you want
to come?

451 Cindy Roseen: Mar 15, 2021 Yes

+16032448055 01:34 PM

452 Cindy Roseen: Mar 15, 2021 Come on over.

+16032448055 01:34 PM

453 Cindy Roseen: Mar 15, 2021 On the way

+16032448055 01:34 PM

454 Cindy Roseen: Mar 15, 2021 Zach, please return the Prius
+16032448055 03:14 PM no later than 5:00pm on next
Monday March22nd, and do
not leave Bozeman and
Belgrade city limits with the
Prius. I will return the prorated
insurance payment when you
have returned it.

455 Cindy Roseen: Mar 15, 2021

+16032448055 05:30 PM

456 Cindy Roseen: Mar 15, 2021 I haven’t responded yet.

+16032448055 05:33 PM

457 Cindy Roseen: Mar 15, 2021 It’s ok. You don’t need to now.
+16032448055 05:38 PM Thanks for sending that.

458 Cindy Roseen: Mar 15, 2021 Ok

+16032448055 05:39 PM

459 Cindy Roseen: Mar 15, 2021 Come stay the night with me.
+16032448055 06:14 PM

460 Cindy Roseen: Mar 15, 2021 We’ll eat a bunch of good
+16032448055 06:14 PM food.

461 Cindy Roseen: Mar 15, 2021 Thank you, Cindy. That
+16032448055 06:42 PM sounds nice, but I need to be
alone tonight. There is no
need to be concerned.

462 Cindy Roseen: Mar 15, 2021 About my safety

+16032448055 06:42 PM

463 Cindy Roseen: Mar 15, 2021 I’m coming over. You can
+16032448055 06:56 PM order pakezza if you want to
get that going.

464 Cindy Roseen: Mar 15, 2021 Ok

+16032448055 06:57 PM
465 Cindy Roseen: Mar 16, 2021 Would you be willing to take
+16032448055 04:24 PM some of Zach’s items he left
here and somehow give them
to Shari? If so I will bring them
over now

466 Cindy Roseen: Mar 16, 2021 It’s ok We can figure that out
+16032448055 04:34 PM later

467 Cindy Roseen: Mar 16, 2021 I’ll have to send you the gfc
+16032448055 04:50 PM thing when I get home from
my run.

468 Cindy Roseen: Mar 16, 2021 Ok have fun

+16032448055 04:55 PM

469 Cindy Roseen: Mar 16, 2021

+16032448055 08:41 PM

470 Cindy Roseen: Mar 17, 2021 Thanks for sharing this. I think
+16032448055 07:31 AM it’s a good start, if anything
precipitates from this. Send it.

471 Cindy Roseen: Mar 17, 2021

+16032448055 07:32 AM

472 Cindy Roseen: Mar 17, 2021 Are you ok this morning?
+16032448055 07:32 AM

473 Cindy Roseen: Mar 17, 2021 Yes. I’m working on some
+16032448055 07:34 AM things, and will to work later
this morning. Thanks for
checking in.

474 Cindy Roseen: Mar 17, 2021 How are you?

+16032448055 07:34 AM

475 Cindy Roseen: Mar 17, 2021 Ok good. I’m ok. I’m helping
+16032448055 07:36 AM Marie get her car to the
mechanics, then I’m going
back to bed.

476 Cindy Roseen: Mar 17, 2021 Good

+16032448055 07:37 AM

477 Cindy Roseen: Mar 18, 2021 Are people talking about Zach
+16032448055 04:10 PM at gfc? That could be
detrimental

478 Cindy Roseen: Mar 18, 2021 Have a minute to talk? Sorry
+16032448055 04:48 PM I'm just anxious. I think it will
be fine

479 Cindy Roseen: Mar 18, 2021 From my manger Ben.

+16032448055 06:00 PM

480 Cindy Roseen: Mar 18, 2021 Between Wiley calling me and
+16032448055 06:02 PM Ben getting in touch with me
today, that’s it. So no, I don’t
think so but I’m just protecting
myself.
495 Cindy Roseen: Mar 29, 2021 Wow. That’s a lot. Hopefully
+16032448055 03:19 PM short-lived though. I don’t have
ideas for birthday yet. Maybe
this coming weekend.

496 Cindy Roseen: Mar 29, 2021 We are delivering the Prius
+16032448055 03:20 PM now to your place, and I’ll put
the keys inside

497 Cindy Roseen: Mar 29, 2021 Thanks. Can you give me an
+16032448055 03:22 PM update of what’s been going
on please?

498 Cindy Roseen: Mar 29, 2021 Zach and I are working
+16032448055 03:52 PM through our challenges, and
we are doing well.

499 Cindy Roseen: Mar 31, 2021 Hi, I just tried calling you but
+16032448055 08:05 PM my phone died. It’s having
hardware issues recently I
think. I’ll try again in a bit

500 Cindy Roseen: Mar 31, 2021 I’m at work and honestly
+16032448055 08:06 PM shouldn’t talk with you right
now. I’m too upset.

501 Cindy Roseen: Mar 31, 2021 I understand

+16032448055 08:16 PM

502 Cindy Roseen: Apr 02, 2021 How are you?

+16032448055 12:31 PM

503 Cindy Roseen: Apr 06, 2021 To answer your question, I’m
+16032448055 07:59 PM exhausted, extremely upset
and Mary doesn’t speak for
me. I’m removing myself from
the entire situation. I did my
part. I have nothing but mean
things to say and I feel if I see
you in person, I will make a
scene. Zach burned all the
bridges. The one between us
is on fire. I do not trust you.
That being said, anything sent
via text or email is only meant
for you but at this point I don’t
trust it so that’s all I’m going to
say. How can you trust him?
Enjoy living with a dog that
bites and a master
manipulator. Good luck.

504 Cindy Roseen: Apr 06, 2021 “Master manipulator” = your

+16032448055 08:00 PM words.
 F]RST DISTR]CT - CACHE
CACHE COUNTY, STATE OF UTAH

ZACHARY ROSS ERWIN RUSK : NOTICE OF

PeLiLioner, : CIVIL STALKING IN'JUNCTION

:
VS. : Case No: 170100154 SK
STEVEN SAMUEL RUSK : 'Judge: ERIAN CANNELL
Respondent . : Date: '-lune 8, 20L7

CIVIL STALKING IN'JUNCTION is scheduled'

Date: o61za/zott
Time: l-0:30 a"m.
Location: CourLroom 6
First Judicial District
135 N 100 W

Logan, UT 8432L
Bef ore 'Judge: BRIAN CANNELL
The reason for the change is reprint noLice

* The court will provide an interpreter upon requesL. If you

need an inLerpreLer, please notify t.he court at 435-750-l-300
five days hefore the hearing.

* El- Lribunal proveerd un int6rprete si 1o solicita " Si usted

necesiEa un inl6rprete, POr favor notifique al Lribunal Jlamando
al nrimero 435-750-1300 cinco dias antes de la audiencia'

indiviCual.s needing special accommodaLions (including auxilj-aty

communical-ive aids and services) should cal-1 the court at 435-
750-1300 three days prior to Lhe hearing. For TTY service, cal-I
Utah Relay at. 800*346-4728.
Case No: L?0L00t54 Date: .yune ogr 201?

CER:rI.FICATE OF NOTIFIEA?ION

rcerttf,ythataCop}rof,t'heatEacheddocumenlwasgenLEeLhe
folLowinil people fsl- caee 1?0100154 hy the the
meLhod and on
date *peei.fied.

MAIL; EACEAR.Y ROSS ERWIN RUSK *grrivate* *prtvaLe*, *"Privaee*

*prrivate*

EltAl.L: KEV N ,J FIFE kjfooh-pe,com

Datel 0glo,Pl,a017 ,. . , - /p{, MYBA DFRI{AN" . ",, ,

Clerk/Clerk of Court
 l,{AY 3 0 2017

CI)l6tl trict: Irl

Temporary Civit Stalking lnjunction case Number:
.t10l
Ex Pafte order :r"r'#l; :ffi
state' ut"t'

Petitioner (person who asked for the stalking injunction):

Zachary Ross -
Mlddle
Erwin Rusk
Nane
Flrst lasl

Other people protected by thls order:

Address and phone # (to

r'Y 'rYYr
keep private, leave Name Age Relationship to
Petitioner
blank):

aW-5717t-rt

Phona *
Petitioner's attorney (lf any):, Phone #

Respondent Describe ResPondent

(person who must obey thls statging lnJunction): Sex Race Date of Height Weight
Birth

Steven Samuel Rusk M C/VV 9-18-50 *6',1" -195

l'/ame
Firsl Middle Lasl

Othor Names Used Eye Hair Social SecuritY Number

C6tor Color (last four digits only)
c B 9639

Address Distlnguishing features (like scars, tattoos, limp,

2918 Daybreaker Drlve etc,)
SIroe,

Drlver's license issued by

Park Clty Utah 84098 (State); UT ExPires
cw-stote -zlp

I ol ! ApProv¤d by Board ol Dislrict Courl Judg6e, Juno 2013

Revised December 2014
 WarningtLlWeaPoninvolved(Boxtobainitiatedby.Court,ilapplicable)
lnJunction, and finds that:
The Court has revlewed the Petitionli's Reguest for
Stai,tXing
""';:"iil
FindinEs:
dorrt h;i jurlsdlctlon over the parties and this case'
U. fneti is reason to betieve stalking has occurred' and
c, the ResPondent ls the stalker.
i" ii" nripono"ni-trar-tnilighito a hearlng, if he or she asks tot,'lo, coda sect76-$106.s, sect77-sa-101.)

To: (Respondenf's name): Steven Sanruel Rusk

Obey all orders initialed by the lq9ge.. .

punishable by up to one year in jail and a fine' A
Violatlon of these orders is a ciiminai Class A Misdemeanor,
penaltles'
.EconO oitrUt"quent vloiation can result in more severe

0 ,&fi Personal Conduct Order

Do not stalk the petitioner, This means that you must not
petiifbireiin c"us,
do things s.u.ch as follow, threaten,
a reas6nable oerson to suffer
annoy, or harass tne a waytnaf wouid 'another person' For a
emoilonat distress or to be afraid for the personi*iJr"tf oiuglafety-of
iil;i;;n;iilori see utan Coob sections 76'5'1 06.5 and 77 -3a-101'
"iit"rrii^s,

0g No Contact Order
Do not contact, phone, text, mail, e-mail, or communicate
any person llsted on page 1 of this order **eif Ji any
in any.way with the Petitioner and
person'listeiJ below, either directly or
indirectly.
Mares, Manaela Mares'
Other peOple yOU must nOt COntact: Juau Mares, Dlonna Mares, Pablo
Alonso Mures, Colton Chrlsteusen, Dana Chrlstenseu, Cottin
Christensen, CoruPr Christensen'

Gg Stay Away Order

Stay away from:
premises
t-t a. The Petitioner's current or future: t-t Vehicle t-t Job t-t School idi'Home'
and property (list cunent addresses below)
Home address: l0t0 N /00 W Newton Utoh 84327
tt
Wetttxd
ffDttoisdbted)

School address: N/A

Describe vehicle: Subant Forester 2014' Black

(Juan Mares lives
u b" other (specify):Jtrun Mares anr! Dianna Mares tqork and residence
Sandy Utah attd Diqnila
rltrottghottt tlte week cutcl works at Motttrtuitt Anterica Cretlit IJniotr in
Mares lives nearby in Newtort Utah)

4r I Child Custody & Parent-time Orders

2 of 3 Approved by Board of Dlgtrict Courl Judges, Juns 2013
Revlsad Decernber 2014
 The Petltioner will have temporary custody of the minor children listed
below' lf you do not
may ask for the court's help
obev the custody and parent-time orders tisteO here, the Petitioner
lsuih as an ord6r to show oause for contempt):

You wlll have parent-time as follows:

you can only communlcate with the Petitioner about parent-time through the following person:

The custody and parent-time orders are effective until modified by this court or superseded by
another court order.

,C Other Orders (List below): Other than your o\)n legal counsel, therapist, lax accounlantl
allorney and spouse, cease and desist any and all atlemPls to lnterferc or contmunfcale with
any partles any pasl, presenl andfyltn'e matters regarding or Peflaining to (in any way shape
orfortn) and thrcugh any vonue olher thqn direct comnttnication where appropriale,
reasonable and absolutely necessary fif even at all) tvith the afore noted individuals:

United States Supreme Courl:

Rusk v. State of Utah l6-7 I 54

Rrrs,t v. University of Utah Healthcure l6-8462

Ruskv. Kass Har$ad Stringberg and Scholnick l*w Firm l6'8749

U.S. Court oJ Federul Claints

Rns& v, USA l:16-cv-01640-VJW (28 U.S,C. SS 1346,2671)

lilth Circuit Cases:

16-cv-04155 Rrrs* v. State of Utah

l7-4044 Ras& v. Maglstrate Juclge Paul Warner

{JS, District Court for the District of Utah: 2:15-cv-00853 Rusk v Fidelity Brokerage Services

2:16-cv-00976 rtrrs,t v. Magistrute ludge PaullYarner

2:16-cv-00332 Ruskv. Utah ODAR Ofice et al

3orl Approved by Board of Disltlcl Couri Judges. June 201 3
Revised December 2014
Utah Supreurc Court:

20170t2t-SC Rtts,t v" Kass Harstad, Stringberg and Scholnick Law Firtn

20t70021-SC Rrrs,t v. Deborah Bilder, lJniversiq' of Utah Healtltcare

Utah District Court:

tZ0900426 Rusk v,Jared Allebest I Attebest Larv Group I tJtah Legal Sentice s; LatraLee Gilespi I Disabilin'
Law Cenler

Warnlngs to the Respondent:

' Ateniion: Thls ls ,n'omiiat court order. No one except the court can change it. lf you disobey-this.order,
ine court may find 1lou in coniempt You may also bearrested and prosecuted for the crime of stalking
and any other cdmb you may have committ6d in disobeying this order.
' ff ybu io not agree wttn tfris brder, you can ask for a heirlnig lo tellyour side. Your request qusl.b9. 1n
wilting, and mrist Ue nted at the c6urt listed below withln 10-days of the date you were se.rved with this
orOer.-'tt you do not aii ioi a hearing within 10 days, thls ordei will last for 3 yq3r! after it is served. You
can still aik for a heiringifter 10 diys, but then ybJ must persuade the court that the injunction is not
needed.
' Courtaddresstoaskforahearing: I?5 N' t@ W l-Q<fnn,uT .t't{311 , you go to
,

' This order ls valid in all U"S. statis and territorbs, tire Oistrici of Cdlumbia, and tribal lands. lf
another U.S. state teiritory or tribal land to violate this order, a federaljudge can send you to prison.

It may be a federal crime for you to have, pcissess, transport, ship, or receive any firearm or ammunition,
induding hunting weapons, white this civil stalking inJunction is in effect.

o"t , i/s 4.,,. ,-J1il",;),,0J,_:,

1/g?//' .Time: I/

Disability and lnterpreter Servlces

Assistive listening sfstems, sign language and oral language interpreter seryices are available at no
charge in stalkinj pioceedingJ. Conlact the clerk's office at least 5 days before your hearing.

.lof3 Approved by Board of Di8trict Corlrl Judges, June 2013

Revised Oec¤mber2014
-Print'Receipt
Merchant Simple Receiptl customer Simp,.
l""19l 5r.l*:.:*)

heriffs:Office
Civil
Cache County Sherifif s Office
Records Department
1225 West Valley View 200, Logan, UT 84321
(43s) 7s5-1000

lncident Number 1 7-C4633

Name Zachary &sk

Amount: 57.00 ltem Subtotal: S7.00

lncident Report
Photos
Testing Fee
Criminal Background Check
Notary
Sex Offender Registry
Other
Total: S7.00

lnformation:
lPersonal
I Zach Rusk

Payment lnformation:
Account: Visa '6348

-Submission Receipt:
Subtotal: $7.00
Processing Fee: s1.s0
Total: $8.s0
Processing Date: 30 May 2017 B:05 am MDT
Payment processed successfully.
Confirmation #: 592d8083-SlP-53d83

Thank-you,

,f
To selup t'our busi,tcss to occtpl online crcdit card and echtck pur-nenll.."
call 8A0-764 .ad{1 or Ciick I lere!

-, SIP Program & Data @ 2006-2017 lnstant Pavmenls All rhhts reserued,
- Terms & Cond;lions - P.ivacv Policv - Contact Us -
Version 2.11: API:2.4

StCUttU;r ,1
Edcs$ -{
I

r',;i
a i'
ii i a
l
tlE'"1, $L s*Ih 1
n
/\
Jl.a

6E G)
1<t'
-N
o-* ffiill
E;
o) r a
n (\
aa
o
LO F=

sE
f,o
3E
tr-m

JI lc
fi a
q!

) J
x.
-r

(t, F 'g E.
E r
L

o o
Eo)
IL

otr;; o;
*'o
F(J
a-
+r +-t=
a7
irz
 i"- o)
r'-i
F)
C) 0)
I

o)
o r\
r
r\
o) (o
r
LO LO

E -)l
o U
(U
-y m
o
o r' '),
$
m ;!"-.. -

n- (J

lc ll
a
a
'6 g.
= x.
=

C C
E o l- o
0.) q)
O
C;
:a lc o
#)
o C CU ,u)
0)

V A o_
a
 0)
t1 F'
0)
o
I

ru
r\
r- o
ic o)
C r
o
LO

o lc
U
o
v m
ru
o
Itr a;
1-
(U
C*
,,.J]
O
(:_-\
''
,:-t
lc \./
J

a -r U)=Lu -*/

Jr-
o
x.
= X.r
-
'\-'
C C}J
E
o
o O.r !-
O 0)
U o) O )r
i: tT O ll
#t F) ;i
o a O rU
0)

{ A ao_
( Blocked Edit

Steven Rusk
May 22,2417 al 5:21:35 PM

message FaceTime home

home
1 (435) 901 -03 30

FaceTime It \

home
sruskpc@msn.com

Send Message

=4= A [}\
ooo
ooo nn
 IN THE UTAH DISTRICT COURT

Case No.

ZACHARY RUSK

Petitioner;
DECLARATION OF JUAN MARES
vs,

STEVEN RUsK,

Respondant.

I, Juan Marcs, pursuant to 28 U.S.C. $ 1746, based on my pErsonal knowledge, make the

following declaratior: without duress or coercion:

l. I am a natural person residing in the Urrited States of Anrerica and have an address at l0l0 N

100 W Newton Utah 84327.

?, I have witnessed Zach's emotional distress from the several lawsuits he has been through and

have been present as a fieind to eonsole and support Zach iu the ways I and. my family are

most able. I can account for Zach having the upmost integrity, patience, ethics, as well as

mental and physical strength given what he is going through at this time. I can attest that I

have seen written testimony of many others recently sqying so as well, including April

Stevenson and Ben Hess whom Zach has known forseveral years.

3. After reviewing the evidence and facts of the numerous cases, I told Zach again today that I

believe that the May 2016 order of U.S. Judge Paul Warner is defamatory, not just antagonis-

tic for bringing forth strong claims of ADA and Title VII violations against his former em.

Page 1 of 2
 ployer, Fidelity Brokerage Services. with whom it is clear to me also egregiously and cal-

lously defamed Zach,in discrimination and retaliation.

4. After I saw the records on Zach's phone in which Zach's father, Steve Rusk, on two or more

recent occasions, has continned to contact, call and leave voicemails onZach'a phone after

Zach has sent numerous (around three or more overall) documented cease and disists to

Steve Rusk, which l also saw. I told Zach that I think his father is trying to get him upset,

cause distress, disturbance and attempt to express his control over Zach, as well as interfere

with his cases. After these continued occurances, I also saw Zach's hands shaking and as any

reasonable and empathetic person should, I asked him if he is ok" I heard Zach say that he

feels it is due to PTSD fronr these issues still unresolved and that he feels alarmed, antago'

nized, bullied and harassed by these continued occurances. Also, with all I've learned of the

conduct of Zach's father from a number of others, I in fact have told Zach a number of tirnes

that I worry his father will continue to try and do things to hurt him further. Furthermore. I

have also told Zach that based on the forgoing, I worry that Zach's father will eventually try

and do something to hurt my family and I as well. For these reasons, among others, I write

this declaration in support of Zach applying to the Court for a Stalking injunction against his

father, Steve Rusk.

{ I declare under penalty of perjury that the foregoing is true and correct.

6. Executed on May 29th,2017. (-\ lA r

Yl \l
v

/s/ Signature of Juan Pablo Mares

Page 2ot 2
l,Zachary Rusk, was asked to write this statement for the deputy of the Logan Police
Department as it relates to Steven Rusk of Park City Utah 2918 Daybreaker Drive 84098
43 5.658.2462 43 5.90 1.03 30.

Zach Rusk has received around or over thirty emails and rnany voicemails in tlre Iast several
years frorn Steve Rusk (including from (sruskpc@msn.com and srusk@moog.com and
435.901 .0330 and 435,658.2462).

For one example, on Sat, Jan 17, 2015 at 2:54 PM Steve Rusk (sruskpc@msn.com) emailed
Zach Rusk (zach.rusk@gnrail.com).

On November 28, 2015 at ll:28:03 AM MST Steven Rusk (frorn 435.901.0330) texted Zach
Rusk (to 435-901-8064).

On February 28, 2016 at 2:24:41 PM MST zach.rusk@grnail.cortr wrote to

sruskpc@msn.com & srusk@moog.com

Mr. Steven Samuel Rusk, For some time, Zachary R. E. Rusk has been receiving unsolicited text
messages, imessages, telephone calls, voicernails, as well as entails from you which cause me
annoyance and alarm, and it is considered harassment.
According to the State Penal Code $240.30:

"A person is guilty of aggravated harassment in the second degree when, with intent to harass,
annoy, threaten or alann another person, he or she
L Either (a) communicates with a person, anonymously or otherwise, by telephone, by telegraph,
or by mail, or by transmitting or delivering any other form of r.vritten communication, in a
manner likely to cause annoyance or alarm; or

(b) causes a communication to be initiated by rnechanical or electronic means or

otherwise
with a person, anonymously or otherwise, by telephone, by telegraph, or by mail, or by
transmitting or delivering any other form of written communication, in a manner likely to
cause annoyance or alarm ,"

This email is your final notice to cease all cornrnunications with Mr. Zachary R" E. Rusk.

Your communications to Mr. Rusk are harassrnent; they are norv filtered to be sent directly to
trash. Should you send another email to him, or attempt to communicate rvith him again, I will
file a conrplaint with the local police, request charges be filed for violation of $240,30, and seek
an order olprotection.

Do not contact Mr, Zachary R. E. Rusk again.

Sincerely,

Page 1 of 3 Statement of Zach Rusk Logan Police

Zachary R. E" Rusk
This e-mail is confidential and should not be redistributed or forwarded by the recipient. It is not
intended for transmission to, or receipt by, any unauthorized persons.

On May l6th 2017 at 4:06pm Steve Rusk left Zach Rusk a voicemail of one minute and twenfy
six seconds inclusive of telling Zach "that they stopped Zach's forwarding of his mail" . Zach
put in an address forwarding change with the USPS for an 'individual'as the evidence can shorv
(can be supplied upon request) in or around April 201 7 from 291 8 Daybreak Drive to I 0l 0 N
100 W Newton Utah 84327 and/or 10655 S 2100 W South Jordan Utah 84095"

Tue, May 16,,2017 at 7z16 PM Zach Rusk wrote frorrr zach.rusk@gmail.com to

sruskpc@rnsn.som an eniail entitled Cease and disist any and all comnrunications with Zach
Rusk with the body of the email stating "steven Rusk, You are hereby put on notice that this is
yet another cease and disist I have to issue you to stop communicating to me. Your
communications come across as harassing, abusive, coercive, quite possibly further unlawful,
and are alanning and cause rne disturbance and alarm. You need contact rne again and in fact this
is a demand for you to cease and disist frorn every contacting again in any way shape or form.
You are to stay away from me and anywhere I nray be you are to stay over 300 yards away from
me, my car, etc. If you violate this demand, I will have no choice but to seek legal action against
you. This is your very last and final waming."

On Monday May 22nd 2017 at 5:21pm Steve Rusk left Zach Rusk (at 801 .244.1798) a 47
second voicemail telling Zach Rusk, the owner and policy holder of a penn mutual insurance
policy, essentially to not take a loan on the policy or else.

In addition to the above, Steve Rusk has trespassed to Zach's apartment complex in or around
201512016, as well.

Begin forwarded message: <srusk@moog.com> rvrote:

Colton,

We do not have an answer as yet. I have had an extensive travel schedule and norv we have
the holidays. Please bear with us as we find a rvay to rvork through this again.

steve

From: Colton Christensen< colton.christensen@yahoo.com>

To: " sjjznrusk @ aOl "cOm " < Sjj znrusk @ aol,com>, " srusk@ moog.Com " <srusk@ moog.corn>
Date: l2l16120l I 07:14 AM
Subject: Zach Rusk and Colton Christensen

Page 2 of 3 Statement of Zach Rusk Logan Police

Dear Mr. & Mrs. Rusk,

I have been emailing and contacting Zach again even while he had the SLC police
department call me and they infonned me that Zach doesn't want any further contact from
me.I belisve that was back in September. Please get back to me either by email or calling
my cell 801-477-7474.1 look forward to yCIur advice/recommendations.

Sincerely,,

Colton Christensen

Page 3 of 3 Statement of Zach Rusk Logan Police

 C'I
r0
a. r-e(u
sd P*
E
(n
aJ L-Uo
bE
o- .oot)
bulc
o
cJ
t .s9 -t-
W
o i.E, l/t
o
.o
E-, E- E rI
E
E oq.,
; EE
:l I-
(]
5 E B.E =rE
fi 9 -v' x:)
fn
q PS
TJ

CJ
ul
ro
Alh C
ftI
EE
L'T
ru
h
o
'tc cn rc
CJ
rlt
=
o o
F- >\
*8,
LJ
L9
.r c=
t"t
c o ulD h
o
ul
tU(Il rt
g rgU
P..F
-o
o o
{-J
\n
=
-=
5B
tsro
(J
tJ
th
0,
EF
c0i
-r l*
t/t-
r
-- U
o
o
rq
G,
9E
0J r-
U
E
o
.CI
! E8 mt
-u
t/t
B.E E .C
o_
q-!'E
A e E
!Pu'rq'J -IE
eh r/l
rc
-cr ? EE
3 ; i Bfi =
o
:ro i o E
> 3I ;
tr o
o
fo'L-ao--c

g -
E;
\,E
E
E
o
c,
*t
cn.cqo-trrtr C
9 P -,.-,,
h E
!,
q.' .cE
.tr C t/l
:
=
EUC(UC
EE
E E t ri- z.= 5
s E E f,E \o
U]
r.i
¤ s ¤: =
.-t- r.i \ fi
:
c{i 3
¤E
cd
E
r.!
o.o='-.ocn o
)-
rll \s, t4
ctrEcuvuicY
orvBcr=E=OlB
e
CJ
v¤ b v e *E EE
m
EB;Er;'iLt't' C
qJ
EE E i.E f ?
:5 EE :2s EE
tn
.E
+-,
.tr,
:E
rE
-t- U
tr
o
*g;*E
= og
ta *6
¤3 6e 3
0,
o
.l-,
nE * Ys Usy= o
C
J LJ
E
tr.+=tsF'.=ctrE
il gH EE 9E
E
PE
u:-frt.l.YrCutLO
ra
ro
VI
o
l-
rJ-
Lfl T1 am TI
rD -l
o CO
o g:f o
*= h' I-?
m =
n r=')
C o
es o o
o_ r+ A) -r fr
(U o O- .Tl o
:s o =
T1 n C:r n
rD :, --J
(t
*i
-- LN
=.
a
11 N t*
C rD c) o
rU rJ

a a w tn
rD --J m
-.J
C) :l r\, =
(}
0'l
q
Lg
tr, JJ
p
o
(.f,.}

1l
K
am Tr a Ln
co
gf o
<-.:-4
rD ir
a 3 r-tq tnF3 3
39 (_ PH ro
nf AqE -! t-
o-
fqil o
5 )
T.t
o
oa= ; r
J
(r iodo (/f
=
col-t *s.).c
LX Or :l or rD
f,
G=-a vl
OOolJ rD
:l:(ro f
-6 LO
rv {cN
r_to
q UJ
(^J

,09
=Jrrr
9.om
rfi(, -l
(.rl
UJ :o.
T'
3=
rD5
o,
-l
la
g
o
fi'
f
@
{
tn
t+
o
)f
g
 o O.}
c'r
E ,3 =rn'?
v) 5 '-...rF
c -o
:) ti
J
o
r'il
m Fd -{
o I
Y
U d o o ECtr frL
'Y
!n q, E J'IJ
Or/t-E
=
o
|!
E
C.,
>\ Eo
,. l
tJ o
C
(!
ro
E
f\.tv
5E
I ; U Evr:
l-rEu
; Aclcl
E 5 otl vl a\
o-
o-
()
tr
'a e
Jr<b1
:9
ql >. ro vz,-
G - o- 6
a. O.J\Ofrr
c-=1
u'r
q g
r.j:lYr
>t q,
(s
1}
rg
']C o
(J
(\I -o
o i6 >H
o (J o fo rc ]J i
iSro;
e\
;
'13
PAi
tll rJ"t Ln
qJ q) o, O L
3 o
o tn --r
H
qJ
t'(/ E
ql L
c0., o ftqJ
v
LY
oJ
I
Lll Ut a =;
c o
EE E¤:
t
c
q,
C
(L,
tr o
gl q) ul
t/l o L.'/rUl
.g
:9 EE:
r/t l/)
'= "= l,
J U 5(J
C
.c
.g
LJ
E
: gE : Z,
EE
i
tr
o o
o (U-t Eo
o
g E E E.i
=
o
U LTi ,Y uo ,qEl
I
L,A\J0Jl
E EE ro
E
E E"E,:
o Vll-.r
o 0J
o
l-L =g
-y l! v1 lt- E
 Summit County Sheriffs Office
Deputy Report for Incident 01-L08506

Nature: Domestic Violen Address: 2918 W Daybreaker Dr

Location: JR Park City UT

Offense Codes: ASIM

Received By: Crittenden M How Received: T Agency: SCSO
Responding Officers: Melton J P, Carter, Jess
Responsible Officer: Melton J P Disposition: cNA 08i22/01
When Reported: 15:37:4208/22101 OccurredBetween: 15:37:42 08122101 and 1537 :42 08/22/01

Assigned To: Detail: Date Assigned' 1'x/*"/*{'

Status: Status Date. {.*/*:r,/** Due Date: **l**l*x

Complainant: 84302
Last: Rusk First: Zachary Mid: R
DoB: olizo&e Dr Lic: 171351158 Address; 2918 W Daybreaker Dr
Race: Sex: M Phone: (435)658-2462 CitY: Park City, UT 84098

Offense Codes
Reported: ASIM Assault, Simple Observed:
Additional Offense: ASIM Assault, Simple

Circumstances
Responding Officers: Unit :

Melton J P RT41
Carter, Jess XXK33

Responsible Officer: Melton J P Agency: SCSO

Received By: Crittenden M Last Radio Log: **.**.** **/**l*x
How Received: T Telephone Clearance: No code
When Reported: 15:37:42 08/22101 Disposition: CNA Date: 08122101
Judicial Status: Occurred between: 75:37:42 08/22101
Misc Entry: 75:31:42 08/22101

Modus Operandi: Description : Method:

Involvements
Date Type Description Relationship

07120116
 SALT LAKE POLICE DEPARTMENT
GENERAL OFFENSE HARDCOPY
RELEASE TO PRIVATE ENTITY - INDIVIDUAL
GO# SL 2013-4869 UNFOUNDED 3899.9 FAM OFF-VIOLA PROTECTIVE ORDER

Related Text Page(s)

Document: INITIAL RiO
Author: M04 - Choate, Jennifer
Related dateitime: Jan-10-2013 (Thu.) 1407
I responded to 315 E. 200 S. on an unknown problem. f met with Zachary
(Zach) Rusk who wanted to reporL he bel-ieved his ex-partner, ColLon
Christensen provided false information approximately 2 years ago in order
to obtaj-n a temporary stalking injunction. Zach also wanLed to report
Colton had violated that stalking injunction while iL was still in place.
Zach said it has been approximately 5 months Lo a year since Col-ton has
contacted him - Zach said he has been working with an attorney and
contacted the district attorney's office regarding Lhis maLter several
times over a period of time and has yet to receive a resolution. Zach
i-ndicaLed the district attorney's office referred him to the police
department to file a report so they could pursue the matter'
If possible Zach would like criminal charges filed against Colton for
violating the temporary stalking injuncLion back in 2010. He also would
would like it documenLed the informat,ion Colton may have provided in
regards to how fearful he was of Zach was not accuraLe due to the fact
Co]ton continued Lo contact him after he had filed for Lhe stalking
injunction, asking Zadn to reconcile with him.
f was unable to find any information in relations Lo the stalking
injunction Zach was speaking of. Zach al-so did not have any currenL
informatj-on regarding Coltonrs where about.s or how Lo conLact him. Zach
indicated he has since deleted all- the emails and Colton's contacL
information.
nfd/ lcc

For: 58J Printed On: Jul-20-2016 (Wed.) Page 5 of8

 SALT LAKE POLICE DEPARTMENT
GENERAL OFFENSE HARDCOPY
RELEASE TO PRIVATE ENTITY - INDIVIDUAL
GO# SL 2010-6854 EXCEPTIONALLY 1316-2 ASLT-INTIl\,I/THREATS/PHYSI CAL
CLEARED

Related Event(s)
cP sL2010-6854
GO SL2013-4869

Complaint Information
Incident location
Address: 640 W NORTH TEMPLE ST Apartment:223
District: I Beat: 111 Grid: STF
General information
Case type: THREATS Priority: 4
Dispathed time:22:59:15 En Route time: At scene time: Cleared time: 02:37:34
How call was received: TELEPHONE
Unit IDs: C136
Complainant information
Name: RUSK ZACH
Sex: DOB:
Home telephone : (a35) 901-8064
Business telephone : (801)
Remarks: STM...HAS EVID
Clearance information
Final case type: ASSAULT - INTIMIDATION/THREATS/PHYSICAL

- Sauers, Peter F
Reporting officer 2: O03 - Hansen, Thadus

Related Person(s)
1. Victim # f - RUSK, ZACHARY R
(Case Specific Information)
Sex: MALE
Race: Unknown
Date of birth: Jul-20-1986
Address: 641 W NORTH TEMPLE ST 223
Municipality: SALT LAKE CITY, Utah 84101-
Phone Numbers
Home: (435) 901-5061
Particulars
Language(s) spoken: English

For: 58J Printed On: Jul-20-2016 (Wed.) Page 2 ofll

 SALT LAKE POLICE DEPARTMENT
GENERAL OFFENSE HARDCOPY
RELEASE TO PRIVATE ENTITY - INDIVIDUAL
GO# SL 20I0-6854 EXCEPTIONALLY 731 6.2 ASLT-INTIM/THREATS/PHYSICAL
CLEARED

Master Name Index Reference

Name: RUSK, ZACHARY ROSS-ERWIN
Sex: MALE
Race: Caucasian/White
Date of birth: Jul-20-1986
Ethnicity: Not of Hispanic Origin
Address: 50 S 500 W Apartment: 402
Municipality: SALT LAKE CITY, Utah 84098-
Phone numbers
Home: (435) 658-2462
Home: (801) 244-'1798
Linkage factors
Resident status : Resident
Age range :22-29 Years
Victim of :
1316. 2 ASLT-INTIM/THREATS/PHYSICAL - COMPLETED
5309- O PUB PEACE-HARASSING COMMUNICAT - COMPLETED

Victim's Relationship to Offender : Victim Was Acquaintance

Person's role : Off/Suspect #1
Person's name : CHRISTENSBN, COLTON Cf
2. Off/Suspect # 1 - CHRISTENSEN, COLTON CHASE
(Case Specifi c Information)
Sex: MALE
Race: Caucasian/White
Date of birth,I
Address: 225 S 300 E 312
Municipality: SALT LAKE CITY, Utah 84010-
Phone Numbers
Home: (801) 918-3849
Particulars
Language(s) spoken: English
Height: 6'4 Weight: 135lbs.
Eye color: Brorvn
Hair coior: Blond/Strawberry
Master Name Index Reference
Name: CHRISTENSEN, COLTON CHASE
Sex: MALE
Race: Caucasian/White
Date of birth'I
Address: 883 E MILL ST
Municipality: BOUNTIFUL , Utah 84010-

For: 58J Printed On: Jul-20-2016 (Wed.) Page 3 of11

 SALT LAKE POLICE DEPARTMENT
GENERAL OFFENSE HARDCOPY
RELEASE TO PRIVATE ENTITY - INDIVIDUAL
GO# SL 2010-6854 EXCEPTIONALLY 13I 6-2 ASLT-INTIM/THREATS/PHYSICAL
CLEARED

Related Text Page(s)

Document: INITIAL R/O
Author: O03 - Hansen, Thadus
Related dateitime: Jan-12-2010 (Tue.) 2357
I responded to a threats invesLigation. Victim Zachary Rusk met me
outside the 1og address and directed me to his aparLment.
Zadnary sLated that on Wednesday, December 6th approx. 2100hrs, suspect
Colton Christensen came to his apartment and issued verbal threats.
Zac};,ary stated t.hat Colton started yelling and telling Zachary that he was
going to "beat him up". Zacltary also stated that Colton said he wanted to
',fuck himrr.
Zachary stated that this is a secure aparLment and did not. buzz Co1ton
into the building. Zadnary doesn't know how Colton got into the building.
There were afso threating emails sent by Cofton to Zachary approx. a
month ago. Zadnary stated that he had saved the emails, buL could noL
prlnt them aL this time because his printer was low on ink.
Zajhary stated that he and Colton had dated, but were no longer seeing
each.other. Zachary has not had contact with Colton since December 6th,
but did admit he sent ColLon an email tonighL saying he no longer wanted
contacL and thaL Lhe Lhreats were not appropriate.
Zachary was given the case number and told noL to have any cont.act with
CoILon. Zac}rary was also to that if Colton returned, noL to open the door
and call poli-ce.

For: 58J Printed On: Jul-20-2016 (Wed.) Page 5 of 1l

 SALT LAKE POLICE DEPARTMEI\T
GENERAL OFFENSE HARDCOPY
RELEASE TO PRIVATE ENTITY. INDIVIDUAL
GO# SL 2010-6854 EXCEPTIONALLY I3I 6.2 ASLT-INTIM/THREATS/PHYSICAL
CLEARED

Related Text Pase(s

Document: VICTIM AIIVOCATE
Author: l44Y - Petersen, JofD
Subject:Rusk, Zachary
Related date/time: Jan-30-2010 (Sat.)
The number listed in Lhis report for Zach has been disconnected. I was
abl-e to find Lhe number (435) 901-8064 in the dispatch 1og. This number
rang to a voice-mail identifying the phone as belonging t.o Zach so t left a
detailed message explaining who I am and why f am trying to reach him.
Zach reLurned my call he said he has filed for a Stalking Injunction but
was declined because he didn't have enough evidence Lo show this is an
ongoing problem. f Lal-ked with him about re-petitioning pro se and
continuing to document any harassing or Lhreatening behavior. I also
talked wit.h him about safety planning. I am going Lo mail- him some more
information about. this.

For: 58J Printed On: Jul-20-2016 (Wed.) Page 6 of ll