HOW TO QUIT THE

CHALLENGE
Many of you will question wether you should quit, and you will
consider quitting multiple times throughout this 90 days. Since I’ve
done this a few times so I know I’ve done this, and I’m assuming you
can look back at your life and see where you tried to challenge
yourself, and where you decided quitting was better than
continuing. So I want to give you the guidelines how to quit. This is a
must read.
There’s a few perspectives I want to give you. Let’s start with
this; If you want to quit, quit. Don’t ght it, accept it. Often times its
the indecision that leaves us paralyzed with what to do, and that
indecision eats at our psyche, our emotions, and we don’t focus on
anything else but wether to stay in, or quit. I’m here to tell you, if
you’re on the fence about quitting, just do yourself the favor and
quit.
This might seem odd to say this - but let me tell you what you’re
going to do, after you decide to quit. You’re going to choose back in
to play again. Often times, it’s not the act of quitting that’s hard, but
the deciding to quit that is. The way I want you to do it is to just quit.
Feel the relief, the weight of your own challenge lift from you.
But, because you are probably in a state of feeling empowered
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from taking this action, when you take it away, there will be what
we call a power vacuum. What that means, is that something else
will take it’s place, and typically it will be the weight of shame, regret
and the pain of regurgitating all of your negative, self limiting beliefs.
That is also going to suck.
The reason I want you to quit, is because I want you to feel
what it feels like. Do you feel good? Or is that feeling temporary?
Does it actually feel good? Or do you actually just feel like you’re
back in your comfort zone? Change is scary, and it’s easier said than
done. The comfort of normality is often more bearable, then the
discomfort of change. But, you must ask yourself, if the pain of
where you are now right now, is worse than the pain of making the
changes that you need to make.
I’d like you to not sit in shame, if you quit. While it can be
motivating, sometimes it’s not. Many of you have quit a job mentally,
and then never left. A lot of you have quit a relationship, or even an
marriage, and never actually left. Sometimes, it’s a good thing you
never actually left, because things did get better. But, I bet quitting,
or deciding to quit, felt really good.
So when the thought comes up that you just want to quit, and
throw in the towel - I’m giving you permission to do so, whenever
you want.
But I'm also going to give you permission to do something else,
too, and that is, join in once again when you’re ready. Maybe you
need to quit for a week, or maybe a day, or maybe for just a
moment. But once you’re done being a quitter, come back in and be
a player. I have another perspective to share for you:.
 There actually is no quitting this. In one of the les you’ve
received, I made a mention that there is no contract to this. However,
your own mind, your own word, your own intention, is in fact, a spell,
and therefore, it’s own sense of a contract to yourself. If you quit,
you’ll know that for however many days left there is, wether it’s 89, 32
or just 4, that the challenge is still going on, that you’re still welcome
to come back. There is no quitting, because you’ll know it’s still going
on, there’s no quitting because you said so. You can’t quit a contract,
wether you like it or not. All you’d be doing is delaying the inevitable.
You’d just be delaying your heart, your sprit and your dreams. You’d
be denying and delaying you. You, actually can’t quit “you.” And no,
not even suicide solves that problem.
So maybe you just need to feel the feeling of quitting. Maybe
the change is so uncomfortable, so hard, that you need your
metaphorical binky of safe space, of a comfortable place, and that’s
right where you are, right now. Do it.
But this is like the Hotel California: “You can check out anytime,
but you can never leave.”

I have one more perspective for you on quitting.

You can quit the challenge, you can quit your word, your
intention, etc. But what if I told you there was something else you
can quit? What if you can quit the circumstances you have now?
After I launched the challenge, and as I’m writing this there are over
1,500 of you, so many of you shared how this is exactly what you
need right now, and that you’re tired of buying your bullshit, and
frankly sick of the life you’re living.
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 What if you can quit that? What if you can quit the quality of
your life you hate? What if you can just quit, and give up on the path
you’ve been stuck on, and choose a better path? What if you can
quit the lies, the excuses, regretting your inaction, and what if you
can quit the life you no longer want? What would that fee like? Let’s
get into a Libra Mode for a second.
On the scales there are 2 things. One scale has the life you have
lived up to this point, the person you have been up to this point, and
the other scale has the new you, the new life. Each are heavy, but let
me ask you, which one is heavier?
Sometimes it needs to get bad enough, and the pain needs to
cut deep enough, to actually make some change. Again, no wonder
Mars does so well in Scorpio.
With the scales analogy, notice that the one that weighs the
most, lifts up the other. This is what balance is. Not 50/50. But the
weight of what you have right now, shows you how much higher,
and how much greater the new you really is. Notice how the “cost”
or the “weight” of the new you is actually lighter than the current
you.
Don’t fool yourself. The way you’re living right now is heavier
then the weight of making the change. It’s just, change is
uncomfortable.
So, why don’t you quit the old way of doing things? When you
signed up, didn’t you feel good to make a decision about quitting
the circumstances your in right now? Remember that feeling,
because I think the feeling of quitting your old life, is going to feel so
much better, than quitting the new one.
So, if you’re going to quit anything, quit the old you.