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thank you. I do not check my messages daily as I do not want to be on social media
unless I have something that I wish to share - so I am not a very good "friend" in
getting back to people right away. Perhaps I will give you my email address as that
is the way I connect with most friends and family - and that I do check every
morning - otherwise I would not have my own life - social media can take up so much
of your time that you miss what is really happening around you. I have opted out
of "being connected" at everyone's whim - life is too full with simply showing up
and attempting to be fully present at all times -Am I making any sense with this
rambling?

I'm so sorry for infringing on your privacy,but i must say this, it is said that a
picture is worth a thousand words,but when i saw yours it was more than word could
explain.i like the comment.... I tried to send you a friend request but couldn't
send please can you add me up or sent me a message if you don't mind

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Hi, I am sorry for the infringement on your privacy. I like the contents you share
on your timeline. I sent you a friend request but it didn't work. If you don't
mind, can you please send me a friend request? I'd like to correspond further with
you and hopefully get to know each other better as friends.

Glad to have you here, how is your day going?

What are your good and bad experience on the internet?

I have no bad experience on the internet I barely use social media

Tell me about your parents, are they still alive? do you have siblings?

I'm the only child of my parents, I lost my parents when I was just 8 years old. A
german priest who is my dad friend took me to the US to study and he later died at
the age of 79

I am very pleased to meet you and I have a feeling that destiny brought us together
for a reason. As time passes by we'll find out if we're compatible with each other.

Tell me about your past relationship if you don't mind sharing it with me. How was
it and what have you learn from it? I'm so sorry please forgive me for asking about
your past.

Well, relationship between me and my wife pretty good, we both loved and cherished
each other so much, we were honest, lovely and caring to each other, when one does
anything wrong we ask forgiveness, we don't keep secret from each other, I never
cheated on her before and likewise her, we both live happily as one big family
until death came to take her away from me, it really pains me so much.
I want someone to love and beloved, I'm a man who is honest and expect the same in
return. I would like to spend time with a special person enjoying each others
company as friends first... getting to know each other. I assure you that we will
be best of friends, all we need to do is to be sincere in our communication as good
friends... Okay.?

You seem so interesting and I will like to know you more want to get close to you
it's not how long you've known me that really matters but how the chemistry between
both of us clicks

Don't you feel lonely sometimes?I mean loneliness of not having a man next to you?

Being single has really affected me a lot...You know as humans we all need someone
to lay on in hard times and someone to talk to and share those cheerful moments
with.. I need a woman who would accept me and my son and make us happy and I will
be so happy if she gives me the chance to do the same for her as I will love her
and lay a good foundation for her kid if any

Does life look good to you right now Describe your current emotional health?

Life looks very good to me right now. I have been blessed with a good job, good
health, and a great church. All that is missing is someone to share my life with.

Do you like to cook?

I'm a very good cook

What's your favorite foods & drinks?

I like all kinds of seafood, Pizza, Steaks, Hamburgers, Sandwiches, Egg Salad and
all kinds of fruit, Coke, Ice Tea, juices mostly Rice, soft beans with fish and
vegetable

Do you smoke Cigarette,drink alcoholic beverages, love to go to night clubs or go

to Movies?

I don't smoke or do any drugs, I take some little wine but not often and I also
love to go to the Movies when am not really in good mood but I don't go to the
Clubs unless with the right woman. I am not into bars and night Club scenes.

My friend if you don't mind, can I ask you for few of your photos. I hope you don't
mind sending me few of your photos?

wow, you are beautiful and charming. now I believe angels truly dwells on earth.
you are indeed an angel in disguise

What types of music or movies or TV Shows do you like?

I like to listen to Gospel Music, Jazz, Hip Hop, Old Blues in the '90s, Cools, Rock
& Roll, R&B. My favorite movies are romantic movies, adventure movies, scary
movies, and comedian movies that will make me laugh till my tears drop off. For TV
shows, I like CSI, American Idol, Animal Planet, and also Local Movies.

Do you believe in love at first sight?

I don't know...maybe? because sometimes things just happen, maybe you meet someone
by accident and that person turns out to be your soulmate that sure is possible.

I am not growing younger, so I wish to set up a happy home with a woman to love and
beloved, a woman I can spend the rest of my life with. I love writing poetry and
very funny. One thing I am sure of, love can be found anywhere only if there's
sincerity for both parties to meet.

What do you like to do for fun?

I enjoy slow or fast dancing, walking in the woods holding hands, traveling,
shopping and watching movies, and playing romantic piano for that special person. I
love snuggling and sharing passionate kisses with that special person. I enjoy
romantic candlelight dinners watching movies cuddling with the one I love and love
spending time with my son and just being with the one I love and doing whatever it
is they want to do

Do you believe in distance relationship ?

Yes I do believe in distance relationship, because I do have the faith I will meet
the woman whom will love and cherish me as I do.

What are you looking for in a relationship partner?

Being honest, open, caring, faithful, easy-going with a great sense of humor..also
being able to help others out no matter what the need to be there with a helping
hand. well, it takes more than love in a relationship!

If I may ask, are you romantic?

I like the way you express yourself. As for me, I'm a romantic man, I know how to
make my woman contented with my love and If I eventually love you or you finally
become my wife, I will love you with all my heart respect you, care for you,
cherish you so much and treat you like a Queen because I'll be ready to take
sacrifices in order to make you happy and be there for you.

As for you, how would you treat me if I eventually become your husband?

It's really becoming interesting as we get to know more about each other. What are
your favorite colors?

My favorite colors are Blue and White, Blue is for the beautiful sky we all see and
white is for the cloud and it always stand for peace.

Dear friend, I have to leave now and I hope we'll chat again tomorrow?

I really hope that our first encounter and chatting today is a day i will never
forget ..I felt great and very special when I was with you. I truly and really want
to give our friendship a chance to grow into something special.

Take care of yourself, bye for now.

.......................SECOND DAY........................

Good morning to you my dear friend, how are you doing today and how was your night?
I hope it was great.

What are your plans for today?

How is the weather over there?

It's good here today

How tall are you?

I'm 5ft tall and 173 Cm

When is your birthday?

My birthday is February 14 1962

Can you dance?

Am a good dancer will dance with you if only you will not step on my toes hahaha

Do you like travelling? If yes where have you travelled?

I like travelling a lot. I have travelled to over 17 countries in the world which
are Canada, Brazil, China, Isreal, Libya, Germany, Iraq, United kingdom, Greece,
Hong Kong, Philippines, Guyana, Belize, Pakistan, Poland, Greece, Denmark.

How many hours do you work and what do you do at work?

I attend press conference, Interviews, Meetings with top contractors and supervisor
and with the Norway officials. Speech to my workers, paper works. I work from 9am
to 5pm.

Do you live in your own house over there or in a rented apartment?

I have a 3 bedroom bungalow there In Napa, California and I also have another
Duplex with 4 bedrooms in a confined space of 4 plots of land including a swimming
pool in it, and that’s located at San Jose, California

Do you drive?

I do drive. I have a black BMW and a Merceds Benz, I employed a registered nanny in
my house who took care of everything

I hope my questions are not harsh to you?

Ok, tell me, do you have any health challenges?

As for me, I'm healthy and fit. am really glad that I met you, I am not here for
endless online conversations because I will like to meet you as soon as I am out of
here. Won't you like us to meet each other?

So tell me what will be your idea if you and I come to fall in love with each
other?

I will make you some delicious food, we will also have some nice wine.. When it
gets dark, I will light up my candles and will want to talk and gaze at you in the
flickering lights. I will want to gradually rub and caress you.Yes, you and I to
make that passion ignite where two of our spirit soar and collide throughout the
horizon and universe together,where two souls shall become one.. We will also go
out to the movies and go to night beach where we can have some real fun and enjoy
the breeze as well

If we meet, What is the first thing you would like to do?

If I meet you the first thing I will have to do is give you a big hug and thank GOD
for getting me to you safely..

Do you consider yourself the jealous type?

Well i think i should tell the truth, i get jealous when i see my woman around men
most times, lol, i'm the one-woman type, games are meant for kids and i well know
you and I are both matured adults, I stick to my partners so i expect to be treated
same way..lol

Well, ever since we started talking from the first day your thought as been
something i couldn't take off my mind because you seem to be very honest, truthful
and kind.

What is your ideal night out with your man?

My ideal night out with my woman would have to be a romantic candle light dinner
followed with some slow dancing and a walk in the moon light on a private beach or
in a nice park

What is your favorite pet?

My favorite pet is Dog

What do you think the 6 stepping stones in a relationship are?

The 6 stepping stones to any relationship to my way of thinking would have to be

love,communication,honesty,faith, understanding and Trust

Well, I just want us to be certain of what we actually want. At this stage of my

life, I have achieved almost everything I wanted except a united family and it
hurts me. My priority is to have a happy and harmonious family. what about you, do
you wish for a happy family too?

That's good to know and I pray for the both of our dreams to come to pass. I hope
you will be able to make out time for us to be together when I arrive?

Well, my lovely friend. I have to leave now. we will talk again tomorrow. Don't
forget that you are always in my heart. Hugs, Bye.

....................THIRD DAY......................

How are you doing today? I hope you're doing good and also having a pleasant time.

I had to write you as soon as I could to express just how much I enjoyed being with
you yesterday. I really had a great time! To be honest, I have never felt as happy,
as content or as excited about being with someone as I was with you. The whole day
was a joy to experience. Truthfully, darling, you are a class act. Even though I
met you only recently, I feel as though I've known you for a long time.

I have been thinking so much about all we have been texting to each other. Your
words and all that we have wrote to each other. I know we met few days ago, but to
me it seems we have known each other for a whole lots of years

What is the first thing you noticed about me?

Well, I noticed you're smart, intelligent, caring, always thoughtful and

considerate, loving and i know you'd make a good mom and partner

Are you willing to relocate if you find your soul mate ?

To me it depends on my soul mate,if she willing wants me to relocate to her house

of living its ok with me, but if she wants to relocate to any of my house its ok
with me also, or if she wants us both to relocate to a new location, that again
will be ok with me

It's really a painful story of how I lost my wife in 2019 I was having a contract
in China as at 2018 when I got the sudden news that my wife is seriously sick of
endometriosis, after a months time, she requested a vacation for me to leave the
sea and then I hurry up to leave from China to California but before I got there,
the condition of my wife was too critical that the doctor could not even save her
life and she died right in my presence at the hospital

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I have no hope, no option left then to take care of my son Alex, 3 years later
after the death of my wife, I received a transferred issued letter to leave from
California to Stavanger, Norway

................................................................... I hope God will

give me a nice caring woman who can deserve my heart, care for my son as her
biological child, and be my wife forever.

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Tears are running out from my eyes, I feel deep pain

Well, I'm just having a little rest with the thought of you on my mind. So i
decided to write you by all means although I don't know how to start this letter,
because I'm afraid it might be the end of our good acquaintance, or if I'm lucky,
the realization of my dreams, which is for you to have feelings for me the way i do
for you. I told myself I might as well take the risks because it's the only remedy
I know that could unburden this feeling I've been keeping ever since the day I met
you. Because it's now I understand the fact that we are far apart, but I did not
measure the distance to a good relationship or friendship that I will be with you,
in fact, the relationship makes you stronger...And I believe that we together can
start a relationship and I really have no jokes ... I do not play games with
people,their feelings or heart, because I am very fragile and I will like not to be
trifled with as the Bible says: "Do unto others what you want them to do unto
you."I like being totally up front and honest with a woman from the start. I
believe in being so because when two people are honest about who they are and what
things they like and dislike then they can know if they are compatible in a very
short period thus not wasting each others time if they are not. I am very ambitious
and intelligent, I also have a bright prospect for life.

I know we haven't been talking that long, but I want you to know that I love you
from the bottom of my heart. From the moment I first met you, I knew that I wanted
you in my life, whether as a friend of something a little more. Baby, I prayed for
a long time to find someone like you but now God has brough us together

I look into the future with hope and would like to create a relationship based on
respect, understanding, trust and love with you. Seeking a relationship with
longevity and not just something will end in just a blink of an eye. I have a great
sense of humor and can dish it out to make a sad day enjoyable. Honestly I've all
that it takes to be a man, I don't really need anything from my partner. maybe in
terms of circumstances there might some kind of help from each other, helping to
make things right. It's not all that easy meeting that rightful woman with all
those qualities which I'm dreaming off,But with you I believe I find her.

You have been on my mind and thoughts all this while my dear and my feelings for
you seems to be stronger as i just cannot stop thinking of you and being together
with you..I think we have told each other more about ourselves and its been such a
great pleasure to share a lot with you this way , I really appreciate it. It seems
like we have a lot in common and looking for the same in a relationship... You're
such a great and a nice woman and I really admire that.

Actually, if we build a strong relationship with each other, I will travel directly
from here to meet you so that we can be together and make some plans towards our
future what do you think?

If I don't love you I will not be here telling you all this now' i truly want to
come to you so that we can get married, I'm a positive-thinking man and I happen to
be the type of man that goes straight to the point because I see no reason to hide
anything as long as I can express my feelings.

I will not disappoint you if you give your heart to me, and I hope you won't
disapoint me if I give my heart to you?

I believe that the most important 'key' to a successful relationship would have to
be trust

We need care, understanding and mutual feelings to make our relationship/marriage

stronger and everlasting.

I know there is a risk in trusting someone, but when you finally find that 'right'
person, it makes all the past experiences and lessons learned very much worth the
risk. All of life's little lessons do not have to be painful... even when they seem
so at the time.You just have to chalk it up to experience and move on. Nothing is
worth closing your heart. Nothing is worth living in a world of fearing what bad
'may' come to you. Without trust, you close your heart to the happiness and joy
that true love brings.

I want you to know that I have trust you with my heart even though we have not met
once, I believe we will meet soon. I just hope you will trust me the same way I
have trusted you with no fear of heart break

All that should matter to us is to really understand each other and have a great
plan for our future as destiny has brought us together..

I'm very comfortable with you because I frequently feel you inside of me. It would
be my pleasure to always make you happy and satisfied with my love because I feel
you deserve it.

I promise to always make you happy and contented with my love, My desire is to high
to be with you and take care of you

All I need from you is your prayers and best wishes for me while I'm still here in
the middle of the sea

I want you to know that nothing can come in between us because the bond that we
share is strong and I'm giving you my word that I will always love, cherish,
respect and protect you.

Meeting you was fate, becoming your friend was a choice, but falling in love with
you was beyond my control.

You may not love me like I love you, you may not care for me like I care for you
but if you ever need me, I will always be around for you.

I'll be the man that will love you and cherish you forever, I'll be the man that
will bring joy into your life, I'll be the man that will wipe away your tears and
sorrow from your life and show you the beauty about life, I'll be the man to love
you till end of time.

I just want our bodies to come together and feel together the warmth of love. I
want the beat of our hearts to keep us together and that your love never leaves my
heart.

Darling. I really do not want to leave now but I need to have some rest. I will
talk to you later. Be safe. Kisses

LATER ON, CHAT HER FOR A WHILE AND DISCHARGER HER.........

........................FOURTH DAY......................

Good morning to you my dearest .I have to wake up this early just to pour out my
feelings on how i feel about you, and is indeed a great pleasure writing you this
lovely message from the depth of my heart, i really most say you are all over my
mind and sense of thinking i can't think straight without thinking of you, you are
the light that shine in my dark, i was so happy all night thinking about you before
going to bed and i found a great pleasure doing that. I really must say ever since
you became my friend, i have known nothing but felt the light of joy and gladness
of the heart. I really need your full attention in my life as to the way i
abandoned everything just to have a word with the woman that has brought beauty to
my heart., I really can't place my mind in any other woman except you my dear, You
are all i need to erase the loneliness and sadness i have been passing through ever
since i lost my wife, i want to share my heart and everything i worked for with you
and our child Alex, i want to take good care of you and everything around you that
makes you happy, because i don't want to know anyone else in this world except you
and our child. i will protect you, give you security, attention, and give you all
the finest things you want as long as you will be faithful, honest, caring and
loving as that perfect soul mate which i desire. I want to make every of your
impossible to be possible and i promise to be that perfect match that your heart
truly desires, no matter what it cost me, i will always bring happiness, joy, smile
to your face and also comfort to your heart and soul. I want to be there for you
always and treat you like a queen that you are, show you so much care and affection
that you have never been given before. I will be waiting anxiously to read from the
depth of your heart as well. with so much love in my heart and kisses to you.

...............IF SHE DON REPLY BACK.................

My heart is very pleased because you are now a part of it.

I'm always thinking of you and you are always in my heart.

How are you today, I hope everything all is well with you honey?

What is your mood today?

I'm happy to hear that. You deserve to be happy no matter the circumstance. I was
thinking of you while on duty today

I guess you're at home now, am I right?

It's such a good feeling to realize that I have you in my life and I'm pleased as
we chat with each other again.

How are your children?

My reagards to them.
Honey I wrote to my son yesterday night about you and I got a reply from him today
expressing how happy he was to hear from me that I have finally found a nice and
wonderful woman who is ready to love me and care for him and also accept him as
hers. and i hope you will love him as much as you love me

I believe my son is fine because everything he needs is being provided for him. Mr
Richard Wilson the school teacher is a very good man.

Alex is so smart, friendly and humble. he wants to become a lawyer

I have been thinking about you since yesterday, we are like a miracle to each other
and I must confess that I really enjoyed our mutual correspondence yesterday and
the way you expressed yourself to me.

I understand all that you have told me about yourself and I promise not to go
against your views about life, I have found so much joy in our mutual
correspondence.

I am really glad that I met you, I am not here for endless online conversations
because I will like to meet you as soon as I am out of here.

I still don't forget your beautiful face since I saw your photos. Your photo is in
my head.

I want to tell you that the love I have for you is undying. It is a love that is
strong and enduring and will stand the test of time. I truly feel blessed that you
have become a part of my life and I cannot wait for the day that we can join our
lives together. I want to lie next to you at night and fall asleep in your arms,
only to wake to your beautiful smile. I want to share in your joys and sorrows. I
want to be your everything because You are everything to me.

I don't think that anything will ever stop me from coming to meet you, I closed my
eyes to sleep yesterday night and I really wished you were beside me, words can't
fully express my feelings for you but I'm old enough to realize that it's a
fantastic feeling of wanting to be with you forever.

As much as we want to be together, all i need from you is your prayers and good
wishes for me while I'm here in the camp.

I want you to know this that I did not come into your life to cause you pain, but
to bring you joy, I did not come into your life to bring you tears, but to bring
you happiness, I did not come into your life to be a burden to you, but to carry
your burdens, I did not come to curse you, but to always pray for you at all times,
I did not come to stay for a little while and then run away, but to stay and grow
old and grey with you. I have kept my heart protected and never put it out there
because i was waiting for someone special. Then you
came along and from one day to the other, I find you even more attractive and I
kept on falling for you. You are the Love of my life
I want us to grow old together in sickness and in health, for richer and for
poorer, until death do us part. We have truly spoken each other's mind and heart
desires and from the way you sound from thestart, I knew that you were the woman
that I have been looking for and searching for. You are a great woman of
substances, rich in thoughts and kind with words. I want neither, Gold, Diamonds,
Silver, Money,nor the treasures of this world. All I need is the treasures of your
heart, your true feelings, your love, your kindness and care that you have to offer
me and that is what I have to offer you in return. I don't care about material
things all I want is "TRUE LOVE" and "HAPPINESS"

I really would love to call you on webcam but we are not allowed here to use webcam
due to security reasons, It's against the Company Rules and Regulation for any
Engineer to use webcam in the sea because it is highly inflammable

THE LINK TO SEE THE STORY OF THE DEAD CAPTAIN BECAUSE OF

WEBCAM......................

https://www.npr.org/sections/thetwo-way/2012/05/07/152182608/what-killed-soldier-
in-afghanistan-who-died-while-skyping-with-his-wife

Thank you for your understanding sweetie

Are you free at the moment? I would love to share some love stories with you

CLICK THE LINK FOR LOVE STORIES TO SEND HER............

https://www.momjunction.com/articles/bedtime-stories-for-girlfriend_00755146/

https://medium.com/@pluzoo1/17-cute-short-love-stories-that-will-make-you-smile-
33de2a66e387

Honey do you know that if we do not trust one another, we are already defeated?

Whether it's friendship or relationship, all bonds are built on trust. Without it,
you have nothing

When I fell in love with you, I trusted you with all my heart, soul, and body, and
I need you to trust me as I will never do anything to hurt you.

Do you trust me with all your heart?

I trust you wholeheartedly, love cannot live where there is no trust

Trust and faith bring joy to life and help relationships grow to their maximum
potential

No matter what honey we should always trust ourselves and make the bond more strong
because trust is one of the most important things in a relationship. It won't work
if you don't trust each other