Atomic Habits
Atomic Habits
Introduction
It is easy to overestimate the importance of one def ining moment Breakthrough moments are of ten the results of many previous actions which build up
and underestimate the value of making improvements on a daily basis in the potential required that unleashes a major change
If a pilot changes course by 1-3 degrees south and his aim was to land in La
he now lands in Washington DC.
Be more concerned with your current trajectory than your current results
What will your f uture be? Look at your tiny wins and losses that you make now
T his is one of the core reasons why it so hard to build good habits
T he big results are always delayed
When nothing seems to help I go and look at the stone cutter hammering away on his rock,
perhaps as much as a 100 times without a crack showing in it. Yet at the 100 and f irst blow it
will split in two and I know it was not the last blow that did it, but all that had come bef ore
Introduction
T hey are the little habits that are part of a large system
Atoms -> building blocks molecule
Atomic habits -> Building blocks remarkable results
Atomic Habits
2 steps:
I want to write a book. what is the type of human who can f inish a book?
2. Prove to yourself with small wins
He is consitent and diciplined -> f ocus on that
Set goals?
But without changing your idenity Behaviour that is incongruent with the selve will not last Focus on the type of human you are becoming not your results.
T he behaviour will not last
3 levels to change;
1. Losing weight
2. Have workout routine
3. I am a healthy person
T he que triggers the brain to initiate the behaviour. T here is an reward (f ood, sex, f ame etc)
T hen it leads to a craving they are the motivation f orce. You do not crave the cigarettes but the state it gives you. Every craving is linked to an desire to change your internal state
Without the first 3 steps a behaviour will not accur,
without the lasts a behaviour will not be repeated (habit loop)
T he response is the actual habit that you perf orm. (Habit or action) whether it is perf ormed depends on f riction and motivation and ability
First 2 steps problem fase, something needs to change
Last 2 steps solution fase includes the response and action
Write down your current CH 3, How to build better habits in 4 simple steps.
habits to become aware of them. 1. T hey satisf y us (craving)
Reward
Use implementation intentions: “I will [BEHAVIOR] at 2. T hey teach us which actions are worth remembering in the f uture. Your brain is a reward detector
[T IME] in [LOCAT ION].”
It is remarkable the fortune you can build if you not stop saving
Use the T wo-Minute Rule. It is remarkable the body you can build if you don not stop training
Small habits don not add up they compound
Automate your habits. Invest in technology and onetime That is the power of atomic habits tiny changes remarkable results
3. Make it easy
purchases that lock in f uture behavior.
Stacking
1. Habits that you do everyday:, get out of bed, take a shower,
Af ter (current habit) I will (new habit) 2 Colloms:
2. All of the things that happens to everyday, the sun rises, you get a text message
Visual ques are theref ore the greatest calistist of our behaviour.
Make it obvious Small change in what you see can lead to a big change in what you do
We are changed by the world around us
If you want to make a habit a part of your lif e, make the que a big part of your environment
T ry to eat healthier?
It is likely that you shop on autopilot at your current grocery store, try a new one
Mantra: one space, one use Don’t mix rooms, if you mix context and habits, the easier ones will usualy win out
Vietnam study heroin users, 20% were addicted, but 9/10 when returned home quite the addiction over night , because the ques and context where gone.
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Compare with addict goes to clinic , than returned home to old environment with ques and then relapses (90%)
You can break a.bad habit, but you are unlikely to f orget it
Writer I have never seen anyone stick to positive habits in a negative environment
Disciplined people aren’t necessarily more disciplined,
but they spend less time in tempting situations
Make habits invisible, that you do not want to do, unplug the ps4 af ter use
and put it in the closet, reverse of law 1, remove hazelnootpasta f rom sight
Stores f eature manikins with exaggerated hips and breasts. Social media delivers more
like and praise in minutes that we could ever get in the of f ice. Advertisements are created with ideal lighting, f otoshop etc.
Society is f illed with highly engineered versions of reality which is more attractive than the world of our ancestors evolved in.
T he trend is f or rewards to become more concentrated and stimulied to become more intensif ying.
is released not only when you experience pleasure but also when you anticipate it
Dopamine
T he dopamine driven f eedback loop (one of the important
neurotransmitters f or habits)
Eating f ood, drinking water, having sex etc
But also learning motivation
T emptation bundeling (strategy) Linking an action you want to do, with an action you need to do (pretax principle)
CH 8. How to make a habit irresistible
Whatever habits are normal in your culture are on of the most attractive to do
Every behavior has a surf ace level craving and a deeper underlying motive sex and reproduce, f ood to survive etc
Look at nearly any product that is habits f orming. It doesn’t create a new motivation, but latches on to the underlying motive of human nature
Change f rom have to to get to Ik mag eerder opstaan voor mijn morning routine
the specific cravings you feel and the habits you perform are really
How to reprogram your brain to enjoy hard habits Focus on the highlights of your habits an attempt to address your fundamental underlying motives
create a motivation ritual by doing something you enjoy immediately bef ore the dif f icult habit
Do not f ocus on the best approach f or then you will not take action
Motion vs action Action: type of behaviour that will deliver an outcome to build a habit you need to practice,
Don't focus on perfection, but making it easy
11. Walk slowly but never backwards
Students who took tons of photo’s improved but students
who theorized did not one in action the other in motion
We are wired to choose the option with the 100 pushups take greats amount of energy
least amount of ef f ort and greatest results But watching tv scrolling on our phone doesn’t
Reduce f riction
Prime your environment, clean the toilet af ter use, af te using the couch organise the pillows
Doing this af ter you use everything it becomes automatic and lazy
Riding your bike or your car putting on workout clothes or sweat pants .
decisive moment:
One will result in workout the other ik binging netf lix
Habits are the entry point not the end the cap Reading every night becomes read 2 pages When you start a new habit it should take less than 2min to do
Standardized bef ore you optimise, you can’t improve a habit that does not exist
automate savings
Automate your lif e as much as possible
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Sometimes success is more about making bad habits hard than good habits easy Commitment device making a choice in the present that controls your actions in the f uture
We are more likely to repeat a behavior when it is satisf ying
T he best way to break a bad habit is to make it impractical to do Increase the f riction until you do not have the option to act
In history we always had immediate responses,
we have the same brain roughly as 200 thousand years ago, Hf 14, how to make good habits innavetable and bad habits impossible
but in the last 500 years it changed f rom immediate satisf action to delayed satisf action
Cardinal rule: What is immediately rewarded is repeated what is immediately punished is avoided
T he last mile is always the least crowded
Add a little bit of pleasure to habits that pay of f in the long run and
Chapter 15 the cardinal rule of behaviour change
a little bit of pain to habits that provide only immediate pleasure
You can train yourself to do actions with delayed gratif ication, After a while the habit becomes part of your identity than your identity sustains the habit
but you need to work with human nature not against it
Use an immediate reward af ter
T he paperclip strategy shif t a hair clip f rom one jar to another if you edit a page of your book
Hf 17,
How an accountability partner can change everything
In summary one of the best ways to make sure your habits remain satisfying
In the beginning of a new activity their should be a period of exploration over the long run is to pick behaviours that align with your personality and skills
Hf 18, the truth about talent
Work 80% of the time on what you know works
And explore with 20% of the other time you have
Exploration and exploitation
Hf 19,
T he Goldilocks rule hoe to stay motivated in lif e and work
the downside of habits is that you get used to do things a certain way and stop paying attention to the layers