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PUAs, a 'round' edition of the routine. (Fromsalto)

The Cube's routine

First of all, let's start with NLP (Neuro-Linguistic Programming)

Linguistics). Ask her to close her eyes and imagine herself in a room.
white and empty. (Note: Originally, one might ask the person to think
imagine being in a desert, the questions are the same, respecting
the possibilities of the imagined place).

From there, ask the questions below:

The Cube (Represents the person's ego)

What is its size?

The size of the cube is relative to the person's self-esteem.
Great – secure and confident, the person values themselves a lot, has self-
high esteem.
Medium - it is a balanced, confident person, but who does not think highly of themselves.
neither superior nor inferior to others.
Small – insecure and timid, she feels insignificant, ignored,
modesta is a simple person.

Is it floating or is it on the ground?

If the cube is floating - the person lives more in imagination than
in reality, it is a creative, dreamy, optimistic, idealistic person,
lives on fanciful and impractical ideas.
On the ground - it is a very realistic person who usually has their
position on a well-defined society.
Sometimes the person says that the cube is on one of the corners, isn't it?
Sure, but it might be a life with unstable goals.

Is it close or far from your sight?

Close – feels comfortable with people's proximity, lives in
present.
Longe - she is protective of her space, independent.

What is its color?

Black - it is elegant, rigorous, mysterious, reserved, contained.
Of course – has a clear mind, is naive, open, realistic, vulnerable,
calm.
Gold – it is valuable, weighted, refined, loyal, true, desirable.
Brown – it is worldly, warm, serious, studious.
Blue - it is serene, spiritual, electric, loyal, distant, sometimes
sad, distant.
Gray – it is conservative, neutral, fair, ambivalent, subtle, bored.
Red - it is passionate, hot-headed, sometimes aggressive,
impatient.
Green – Hopeful, optimistic, healthy, lover of nature.
Yellow - it is cheerful, lively, optimistic.

What material is the cube made of?

It's kind of difficult to interpret when some material comes in a bit
strange. But if the cube is made of gold, for example, the person gives themselves
a lot of value, after all: valuable material, the person values themselves, the opposite
does not value itself.
Glass - it is considered a pure person. A dirty cube represents that
the person hates themselves, for example.

Is it made of solid material?

Solid material - has more achievements/satisfied with herself. It is
a person with high self-esteem and a good personality.
Hollow empty cube - it's waiting to be completed. Represents that
at that moment, the person is incomplete, something important is missing,
or at least she thinks so.

Is it a hard or soft cube?

Tough - has a strong personality, has character.
Mole – is a sensitive person, feels remorse when they make a mistake.

Is the cube matte or transparent?

If it is transparent - (also in the case of being glass or something
it represents purity, is not ashamed of being who it is, does not
uncomfortable showing her personality, as she is, a person who
others can see through it.
A matte cube - represents a person who is tougher and difficult to deal with.
understand what is going on inside.

Can you see the inside of the cube?

Yes - is not ashamed of being who they are, does not mind showing it
your personality, how is it.
No - there is a mysterious side that few people know.

What is the position of the cube in relation to you?

Related to the person's understanding of themselves.
Close to the cube - one understands completely.
Far - it is not understood.
Medium - it's understood more or less.
The Ladder
(Represents friends and the social circle, ambitions, work)

Is it a long staircase with many steps or short with few?

steps?
Tall and with many steps - has many friends, is outgoing and
sociable.
Short and with few steps – has few close friends.

Is it a strong ladder or is it in bad condition?

Strong – is surrounded by strong people and feels safe around them.
of them.
Bad state - feels that the people around you are screwed.

Is she picking up the cube from the ground?

Yes - your friends bring you back to reality.

Is it built on one of the faces of the cube?

Yes - do you have siblings or someone very close to the family.

Is she far from the cube?

Yes - you have friends who live far away, they are not sooooooo
important like that to you.

Is the ladder vertical or horizontal?

Vertical - do you have friends who are independent, do not support each other?
in you, have your respect.
Horizontal - you have friends who are laid-back, casual,
tired.

Is she floating?
Yes - you have friends who are dreamers, philosophers, artists, don't you?
very practical.

What material is the ladder made of?

Represents the value of friends to her.
Strange materials - strange friends.
Valuable materials like gold - valuable friends.
Iron - you have friends who are insensitive, serious, melancholic.
Corda - you have friends who are flexible, have a strong bond
with you.
Old Madeira - you have old friends, family, and comfort.
some older than you.
New Madeira – you have new friends, but they are very close to
you.
Finished wood – do you have friends who are cultured, educated,
healthy, snobbish.
Steel - you have friends who are reliable, practical, simple.
Aluminum - it is a common material that everyone says, I believe that
represents a stability.
Stairs in poor condition - it represents that she thinks that her
friends are in a bad situation.
Burnt ladder - it represents that she thinks her friends are...
harming.
Strong staircase - represents a strong social circle, the person feels
secure within him

Is the ladder (much) bigger than the cube?

Yes - feels small in her social circle.
The opposite if it is small

If the ladder is resting on the cube, it feels that the friends

they depend on her more than she does on her friends.

The degree of proximity of the staircase in relation to the cube is also

important, as it represents the distance that it allows your
friends, come here.

If there is a space between the ladder and the cube, it means that it has
a "protective layer" that only allows friends to get close until
certain point.

The Tempest
represents the possible problems in a person's life

Is the storm approaching or is it far from you?

Soon - your problems haven't arrived yet, but you know that they
they will come in the future.
Far away – your problems don't bother her at the moment, it doesn't matter.
a lot of importance.

Is she well above the cube?

Yes - your problems are already affecting her.

Is it a very big storm or is it small?

She feels that her life has many problems.
Pequena - feels confident about the problems she will face.

Is it a storm that has thunder and lightning?

Yes - there are issues that shocked you, they are revealing

Is the storm actually a tornado?

Yes - your problems are serious, destructive, violent.
Is it just a storm?
Yes - there is a temporary crisis, she is stressed.

Is it a snowstorm, sandstorm, or rainstorm?

Snowstorm - your problems are a mess.
Sandstorm - your problems are annoying, something has changed in
your life.
Rainstorm - going through an emotional crisis, depression,
necessary for maturation.

As Flowers
(represents the children in your life)

How many flowers are there?

(the number of flowers is the number of children she has or wants to have)

Are they close to or far from the cube?

Close – she feels very close to the children she has or wants to have.
Far away – they are not part of your life, they are other people's children.

Are they inside a vase, in a garden, or inside the cube?

Inside a vase - your children are your pride, cherished,
exhibited.
In a garden - your own children, protected, cherished.
Inside the cube - she wants a child, wants it to be dependent and
young.

Are they behind the cube?

Yes - you protect them.

Are they dried flowers?

Yes - they are going through difficulties, growing on their own.

Are they wildflowers?

Yes - they are independent, they are not your responsibility.

The Horse
represents the man she considers to be ideal

Is it a big and strong horse or small and delicate?

Big and strong – the man you consider ideal for you is someone
strong and protector.
Small and delicate – the man who you consider ideal for you is
someone she can dominate.

Is it a white, black, or brown horse?

White - wants someone idealized, idealistic, with high principles.
Black – wants someone romantic, powerful, mysterious, melancholic,
a good lover.
Brown - wants someone very warm, who has their feet on the ground,
unpretentious.

Is it close or far from the cube?

Close – you want him to be devoted to you, near you, loyal,
committed.
Long - you want him to be indifferent, independent, distant,
doesn't want it to be too clingy.

Is he flying?
Yes – wants a new love, idealized, spiritual, magical, supportive.

Is it a wild horse or is it tied up?

Wild - wants someone who is independent, hard to dominate,
a challenge.
Tied – wants someone who is only yours, whom you can dominate.

Is he finding the stairs strange?

No - you don't want him to become estranged from your friends, it's a
conflict that you want to avoid.
Film

It is true, although reduced it is a very large routine.

But it can indeed be used partially, without loss of
effectiveness!

Here is a version of questions used in one of the Style videos:

Imagine a completely white and empty room.

In this room, put a cube.
Do you see the cube?
Is it big or small?
Is it on the ground or is it floating?
-And are you seeing his face, the straight side or the corner?
Is it transparent, can you see through it, or is it solid?
Is it solid - any particular color?

Okay. Now add a ladder to this image.

Are you seeing the stairs?
Where is the ladder in the room?
Is she tall or short?
E... If you want to get on it, is it difficult or easy?

Now, look at some flowers

Do you see the flowers?
Do you see few or many?
Where are they?
Are they all the same type or different?
Describe them a little for me.
E... When you see them, what is your first impression? How do you feel?

And now add a horse to this image.

Do you see him? Where is he?
What is he doing? Is he standing still relaxed?
If you could describe this horse's personality in three words, what would they be?
would they be?

And now finally, add a storm to this image.

Do you see the storm?
Is it violent or gentle? Is it a heavy rain or light?

Fromsalto.

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