Coaching
a nd
Mentoring
What they are and how
to make the most of them
Jane Renton
The coaches
CASE STUDY
Sir John Whitmore
   Former motor racing driver Sir John Whitmore is one of the coach-
   ing industry's early pioneers. Now in his 70s, he has lost none of
   his crusading fire, particularly when it comes to changing what
   he regards as the selfish aspects of the modern corporate world, a
   process that should rightly begin back in the classroom.
   The sporting baronet is in his element challenging the conventional
   wisdom of those in positions of authority. The author of Coaching
   for Performance is giving an induction in the subject to a group
   of 50 largely receptive head teachers of state-controlled schools in
   Hertfordshire in his native England.
   He asks his audience, whose schools' exam results are among
   some of the highest in the UK, to recall their own childhoods and
   to think of an adult – not an immediate family member – on whom
   they look back with great affection and privately scribble down
   the qualities they possessed that engendered such fond memories
   ries. Surprisingly, the answers are ubiquitous and universal: that
   person made each feel special, valued and intelligent, treated them
   as an equal, listened avidly to them, challenged them and believed
   in them. Above all, they made them feel that they could succeed.
   at their chosen task, given their full attention, care, respect and
   trust. In short, they had just demonstrated the key ingredients of
   emotional intelligence (ei), which is measured by emotional intel-
   intelligence quotient required. He demands:
       How come EQ, which has been identified as being as important
       as IQ – some say twice as important – to one’s future success in
       life and work, is not taught in schools?
   How many people in the workforce do you meet who display the
   same qualities as those of your favorite aunt or grandmother?
   he asks.
   Many coaches, particularly business coaches, are happy to work
   within the existing status quo: in other words to use coaching as
   a means of helping the person being coached climb higher up the
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   career ladder, to attain that coveted pay rise or promotion. Whit-
   more is not in that camp:
       Coaching is a way of seeing people, don’t try and use it just as
       a tool. If you do, you won’t get any real value from it.
   In a corporate world obsessed by indicators and measurements of
   performance and profitability, Whitmore, chairman of Performance
   Consultants International, an international coaching firm, has had
   surprisingly little difficulty in commanding a receptive audience
   among global business leaders. His words, which may sound harsh,
   appear to have struck a chord with corporate clients. He claims:
       The economy was invented exclusively for the western mindset.
       It is inherently hierarchical and currently in the process of
       breakdown.
   The workplace, he adds, is also an environment of fear, which
   needs to be challenged. There is another way, an environment of
   trust.
   Conquering fear is something that the former racing driver clearly
   relishes
       Only by helping people liberate themselves from their fears
       can you unlock the unlimited potential that most individuals
       possess. That’s what a good coach does.
   Fear of failure rather than fear of injury or death is what leads to
   underperformance on the motor racing circuits and in life generally
   ally. He tells of his own brief return to the race track in 1990 after
   his retirement from motor racing in 1966 and the invaluable lesson
   learned from his son, who was then five years old. "It was a chal-
   Long I couldn't resist," he says. He was asked to drive an 8.4 litre
   McLaren M8F in which he came a respectable third and second in
   his first two races. But trouble hit just before the third race – and it
   wasn’t of the mechanical variety. He explains:
       It was in my head. There I was just too full of adrenaline, I feared.
       not meeting my goal – to win this one.
   Skulking in his hotel room until the last possible moment before
   going down to the race in an effort to conquer his fear of failure,
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   he was astounded to receive a badly spelt note from his young son.
   “Believe in yourself,” it read. It was a turning point for the sports-
   man, who went on to win the race.
   His move into initially sports coaching – as opposed to traditional
   sports instruction – followed an influential encounter with Tim
   Gallwey (see page 79). Gallwey’s big idea that extraneous interfer-
   Often the orders given by an overly autocratic coach instruct
   tor – interfered with the sophisticated natural mechanisms that the
   the human body has in place to deal with the arguably simple task,
   found particular resonance with Whitmore, who also suspected
   that sports coaches would do better to talk less and listen more to
   their charges.
   Gallwey's particular philosophy was centred on the core belief
   that the biggest obstacle of all to proficiency at sports was the
   negative thoughts going on within a player’s own head. The job
   of the coach was therefore not to instruct in the traditional sense,
   thereby complicating matters still further, but to help de-clutter
   the mind of all such unhelpful thoughts to free the person up to
   learn naturally.
   Whitmore, who claims he has taught golf for 20 years without ever
   actually playing the game himself, says:
       You don’t have to be an expert in a particular field of endeavor.
       our to be an effective coach. I don’t teach people anything about
       golf. All I do is help create awareness and self-responsibility in
       the person being coached. Their own high awareness is their
       teacher.
   Many of the more progressive sports coaches have been influenced
   influenced by the 'inner game', none of the UK's top sporting stars
   more than Olympic Gold medallist David Hemery. However, the
   take-up generally has been painfully slow because it requires a
   major rethink.
   Traditionalists just can’t get away from imposing their long accu-
   mulated knowledge, which frequently is entirely inappropriate.
   "ate," says Whitmore, who laments that while new technology
   is adopted at the speed of light, old habits die hard among the
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   sporting fraternity. He believes that this has been reflected in the
   state of British tennis, which with the exception of Tim Henman
   and Andy Murray has produced few good players for quite some time.
   time. In contrast, New Zealand is well on the way to changing
   much of its sports coaching to what Whitmore describes as 'real'
   coaching.
   Like Gallwey’s, Whitmore’s approach grew out of humanistic philosophy.
   philosophy with its essentially optimistic view that mankind can be
   improved upon by focusing remedially not on what was wrong
   with it, but rather on its potential. He initially set up the Inner
   Game skiing and tennis school in Europe before branching out into
   other fields, particularly business, with the establishment of his
   coaching company.
   Whitmore also realized, like Gallwey, who subsequently wrote The
   Inner Game of Business, that their respective and similar brands of
   Coaching had a much wider application than just sport.
   Transpersonal coaching is the next stage of that coaching process.
   addressing whole systems such as families, schools, institutions
   and organisations. It also addresses what Whitmore calls “whole
   personal development, which embraces the higher reaches of
   human aspiration, as well as spiritual development. As the fledg-
   The coaching industry endeavors to impose standards and qual-
   specifications on its less-qualified practitioners, he is determined to
   ensure that transpersonal coaching is included in this.
   Whitmore, who believes that such coaching applied to the busi-
   ness world would do much to engender greater social, environ-
   mental and economic responsibility, says:
       Transpersonal coaching is about the qualitative rather than the
       quantitative. We are knowledgeable but not wise, particularly
       in our use of technology.
   His mission is to help embed coaching into corporate management.
   culture and link it to the entire training process by creating a team
   of advanced internal coaches, and by making coaching a key per-
   performance indicator as well as part of the return on investment
   evaluation.
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   But none of this can work if a company’s chief executive does
   not believe in coaching. Whitmore recalls a series of coaching pro-
   grams that he was running for one of the five major UK clearing
   banks:
       I insisted on a meeting with the CEO because I needed to tell
       him to his face that he was wasting his money. You have to
       believe in coaching at the very top of an organisation for it to
       work. Change at the top, with ongoing support and role model-
       ling, is crucial.
   The same is true for his current audience in the UK’s educational
   establishment, with teaching methods that have relied almost
   exclusively on instilling knowledge into pupils with mixed success
   rather than unleashing a system that initiates self-learning as well
   as self-reliance:
       We are talking about learning rather than teaching. Once you
       realize the principles of how people learn you can apply them
       to youngsters.