X Transformational                                              ISSUE 1         VOLUME 1           2010
Connections………………...1
                XSermon Series:
                “Seek”........................................2           Welcome to the first addition of Group focus, a weekly publication providing
                                                                          encouragement along with the practical for doing life together in groups. You can
                                                                          also find Group focus at www.NCGroupLife.blogspot.com
                                                                        Group
                X News  & Notes for
                   Leaders…………..…………..2
Transformational                                                                                                  focus
Connections                                                                                                               You are a window influencing
                                                                                                                          someone's eternity
                                                                                                                                         ...Carl F. George
We were created by a relational God                        God-ordained gathering of people that is so
with relational needs for significant con-                 strong that even “the gates of hell
nection….                                                  will not overcome it.”
          The kind of connections we
need are more than casual. Casual                                    That is what God has
connections aren’t life-giving. They                       called the church to be about:
can’t provide what Jesus dreams for                        creating environments where
and what He died for. They can’t pro-                      authentic community can take
vide the kind of oneness with God or                       place. Building relational, trans-
oneness with each other that makes                         forming communities where
the world take notice. The kind that                       people are experiencing one-
God uses in the hearts of people. The                      ness with God and oneness
kind that transforms lives. Only the                       with one another. Communities
church in community can display that                       that are so satisfying, so
kind of relational oneness. Only God’s                     unique, and so compelling that
Spirit unleashed through His Body can                      they create thirst in a watching
make that kind of difference.                              world.
          Randy Frazee says it well:                       (Andy Stanley, Creating
                                                           Community p. 44,45)
The development of meaningful relation-
ships where every member carries a                         How can you demonstrate
significant sense of belonging is central to               community in such a way that
what it means to be the church. This is a                  others will become thirsty?
                                                             PRAYER
                                                             Transformational prayer goes beyond praying for physical needs. We should absolutely pray
                                                             for one another and any health concerns someone has — scripture teaches us to do so. And
                                                             then our prayers need to also reach into the health of each of our hearts, minds and attitudes
                                                             as well. We must recognize that none of us have arrived, we all have heart issues and we
                                                             are not meant to fight those battles alone either. Just as we don’t expect our friends to fight
                                                             the physical battle of health issues alone, neither do we expect our friends to fight the battles
                                                             of the heart alone. Prayers that transform the heart require courage. What heart issues are
                                                             you willing to have group members pray for as you seek God? May you be strong and
                                                             courageous in prayer!
                                            Sermon Series—
                                            ”Seek”                                                            B ETTER
                                        The next 40 days are designed to prepare our
                                                                                                         T OGETHER :
                                        hearts for Easter. Don’t miss out on what God             We need each other!
                                        wants to do in your heart and in your group!
Make sure to encour-              In the next several           great to encourage your
age your group to be              weeks, we’ll be:              groups to continue
at New Covenant on
                                  • Seeking HIS Life to         praying through that on
Sunday mornings, as                                             their own!
                                  Revive the Church
we work through our
series Seek. During               • Seeking HIS Light           You guys are the front
these 40 days                     to Awaken the Lost
                                                                lines…the ones
Together, we’re going             • Seeking HIS Glory           influencing, challenging,
to be talking about the           in Evangelizing all           and encouraging
need for us to place a            People                        people!
renewed value on                  • Seeking HIS
prayer. We’ll be                  Righteousness in Our             TRANSFORMING
challenging one                   Community                            LIVES,
another to look for
opportunities to care
                                  • Seeking HIS Peace              TRANSFORMING
                                  among ALL Peoples                  CULTURE!
(maybe in or WITH our
groups), and we’ll be             • Seeking His                                        - Phil
challenging people to             Visitation
share…to share the                These will also be our            Encourage group
good news of Christ in            prayers through our            members to pick up a
people’s lives.                   prayer journal, so it’d be      prayer guide if they
                                                                     haven’t already!
Nuts & Bolts for                                                                                “God has designed us to need each other! For us to
                                                                                                reach our community, much less the world, we will need
                                                                                                every ministry doing its part and every congregation
Group Leaders                                                                                   excitedly doing church as a team.”
                                                                                                              Wayne Cordeiro, Doing Church as a Team
Syllabus                              Play Date                          needs them to be
Make sure you hand out a              Make sure you find some time       in whatever role He calls them
syllabus to your group so             to play together (unless you are   to take.
everyone knows what you are           a play group☺) outside of your
doing when. For some people           normal scheduled group time.       If you haven’t found a coordina-
this takes away some of the           Sharing a meal together, having    tor yet, keep praying that God
fear of the unknown. It also          a game night or going sledding,    will lay someone on your heart
helps people know what’s going        help the group to connect in a     and then make the ask. Give
on if they do have to miss.           different way than just meeting    them opportunities to lead if
                                      in group time. A few hours of      they’re comfortable and inter-
Service Project                       playing can create a new           ested. Sometimes new leaders
All groups are encouraged to          dynamic in your group meeting.     just need a chance.
participate in one service pro-
ject this semester. We will pro-      Coordinator                        Remember, someone once saw
vide a list of possibilities, but     If you have a coordinator, be      the potential in you! Finding
you are not limited to the list.      sure to communicate with them      and developing new leaders
It’s not too early to begin talking   and encourage them. They           is crucial to the future or our
to your group about the kind of       should be able to assist you by    group ministry and you are
project they are interested in—       staying in contact with group      the most important person to
anything from serving others          members through e-mail and         help us identify and train new
through physical labor to writing     sending out reminders. Also        leaders!
notes of encouragement or             invite them to participate in
providing a meal for someone.         leading the group. Pray that
                                      God strengthens them to be-
                                      come the kind of leader He                                                          Hang on!
                                                                                                                    The adventure is just
 And now to Him who is able to do immeasurably more than all we ask or imagine, according to
 His power that is at work within us, to Him be glory in the church and in Christ Jesus throughout                       beginning!
                             all generations, forever and ever! Amen.
                                         Ephesians 3:20,21