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This chapter discusses childhood in Japan, beginning with birth. While boys are considered more important as they can carry on the family name, the birth of daughters also brings joy. Relatives and friends must visit the newborn and bring gifts. Childhood for girls focuses on play and learning household duties to prepare them for their future roles as wives and mothers.

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JapaneseGirlsandWomen 10031984

This chapter discusses childhood in Japan, beginning with birth. While boys are considered more important as they can carry on the family name, the birth of daughters also brings joy. Relatives and friends must visit the newborn and bring gifts. Childhood for girls focuses on play and learning household duties to prepare them for their future roles as wives and mothers.

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PREFACE .

IT see m s n ecessary for a new autho r to


ive some excuse for her bo ldness in o ffer
g
i n g to the p ubl ic another volu me upon a
s ubject already so well writte n up as Japan .

I n a eld occupied by Grii s M orse Greey


, , ,

Lowell and Rein what unexplored corner


, ,

ca n a woma n hope to enter ? T hi s is the


question that will be asked and that ac
,

cord i n g ly the author m ust an swe r .

While Japan as a whole has been closely


studied an d w h ile m uch and varied i nfor
,

mation has been gathered about the cou n


try and its p eople one hal f of the pop u
,

lation has be en left entirely u nnoticed ,

passed over with brie f mention or alto ,

gether m isunderstood It is of this neg


.

l ecte d hal f that I have written in the hope


,

that the whole fabri c of Japa nese social


vi PR EFA CE .

life will be better comprehende d when the


women of the country and so the homes
,

that they make are better known and


,

un d erstood.

The reason why Japanese home l i fe is -

so little understood by foreigners even by


,

those who have lived long in Japan is ,

that the Japan e se u n der an app earance of


,

fran kness and candor hides an impene


,

tra bl e reserve i n regard to all those per


sonal concerns which he believes are not
i n the remotest degree the concerns of his
foreig n guest . O nly li fe in the home itsel f
ca n sho w what a Japan ese home m a y be ;

an d only by intimate association such as


-

no foreign man can ever hOpe to gain


with the Japanese ladies themselves can
much he learn ed of the thoughts and daily
lives of t h e best Japanese women .

I have been peculiarly fortunate in hav


ing enjoyed the privilege of long an d inti
mate frie ndship with a n umber of Japa nese
lad ies who h a ve spoken with me as freely
, ,

an d shown the d etails of their lives to me


PREFA CE . vii

as ope n ly as if boun d by close st ties of k in


,

dred Through them a nd on ly through


.
,

the m I have be en enabled to study li fe


,

fro m t he point of view of the r ened a nd


intelligent Japanese wome n an d have found ,

the study so inte re sti n g and instr uctive


that I have felt i mpelled to offer to oth
e rs some part of what I have received
through the aid of these friends I have .
,

moreover been encouraged in my work


,

by readin g when it was alrea dy more tha n


,

hal f complete d the fol lowin g words fro m


,

G r iis s Mikad o s Empire


The w hole question of t he position of


m
Japanese wo en in hi story social li fe , ,

edu ca tion employments authorship art


, , , ,

marriage concubinage prostitution be ne v


, , ,

olen t labor the ideal s of literature p e pu


, ,

lar supe rstitions etc discloses s uch a , .

wide an d fascinatin g eld of inquiry that

I wonder no one has as yet ente red it .

I n closi ng I shoul d say that this work


,

is by no mea n s entire ly my own It is in .


,

the rst place la rgel y the result of the ih


,
v i ii PREFA CE .

tercha n ge thought through many an d


of

lon g con versation s wi t h Japanese ladies


upon the topics herein treate d It has .

also be en care fully revised and c r iticised ;


a n d m any valuable ad d itions have be en

made to it by M iss Um e Tsuda teacher ,

of English in the Peeresses School i n

T6 ky6 a nd an old and intimate friend


, .

Mi s s Ts uda is at present in this country ,

on a two years leave for purposes of ,

further st udy She has amid her many


.
,

duties as a student at Bryn Mawr Col


lege given m uch time and thought to
,

this work ; and a large part of whatever


value it may pos sess is d ue to her .

I would say too that in the verication


, ,

of dates n ames a n d historical incidents I


, , ,

h ave relie d altogether upon G rifs s


Mi
'


kad o s E mpire

and Rein s J a pan
,

knowing that those two authors represent


the best th a t has been done by foreigners
in the eld of Japanese history .

This work al so owes m uch n ot only to ,

the suggestion s and historical ai d s con


PR EFA CE . ix

ta i nedin the M ikado s E mpire


but to ,

Mr Grii s hi msel f for his careful readin g


.
,

of my m an uscript an d for his criticisms a nd


,

s uggestions No greate r encouragement


.

ca n be give n to an inexperienced author

t han the help ful criticism of one who has


alread y d istinguished him se l f i n the same
eld of labor ; and for j ust such fr iendly
aid m y warmest thanks are due to Mr .

G riis .

A M B
. . .

Hu m m er, VA , Februa ry, 1891


. .
CONTENT S .

I . CH IL DH OO D
II . EDUCAT IO N
MAR RIAG E AN D DI voncE
IV .

V . OLD AG E
VI . COUR T LIFE
VI I . L IF E IN CA S TL E AN D Y A S HI KI

WO M EN
SAM UB AI
I X PEA S ANT WO M EN
.

X L IFE IN T H E CITIES
.

XI Dom EsTI c SER VIC E


.

EPIL O G UE
JAPANESE GI RLS AND WOMEN .

CHA PTER I .

CH I L DH OO D .

TO the Japanese baby the begi n nin g of


l ife is not very different from its begi n ning
to babies i n the Western world Its birth .
,

whether it be girl or boy is the cause of


,

m uch rejoicing As boys alone can carry


.

on the family n ame and in herit titles an d

estates they are considered of more im por


,

tance but many a mot her s heart is m ad e


,

gl ad by the addition of a daughter to the


family circle .

As soon as the event takes pl ace a Spe ,

cial messenger is dispatched to noti fy rel

atives a nd intimate friends while formal ,

lette rs of an nouncement are sent to those


less closely related All person s thus noti
.

ed must m ake an early visit to the ne w


comer in order to wel come it into the
,
2 J APAN ES E GI RL S AN D WOMEN .

world and m us t e ither take wit h them or


,

send be fore the m some present Toys .


,

pieces of co tton silk or crepe for the baby s


, ,

dress are regarded as suitable ; and these


m ust be acco m panied by dried sh or eggs ,

for good luck Where eggs are sent they


.
,

ar e neatly arran ged in a co vered box whic h ,

m a y contain th irty forty or e ven one h un , ,

dred eggs l
The baby especi a lly if it be
.
,

the rst one in a family recei ves many ,

presents i n the rst fe w weeks of its li fe ,

and at a certai n ti me pre per a ck nowl e d g


m ent m ust be made a n d ret urn presents

sent Thi s is usually done w he n the baby


.

is th irty days old .

Both baby and m other have a hard time


of it for the rst fe w weeks of its li fe The .

baby is p a ssed from hand to hand fussed ,

over and talked to so m uch by the visitors


,

that come in that it m ust thi nk this world


,

a trying pl a ce The mother too is denied


.
, ,

the rest and quiet she needs and wears ,

1 Al l p rese nts in Ja p a n m ust b e wra pp e d in white


a e
p p ,r a l th ou h
g , e xc ep t for fun erals , this p a p er m us t
ha ve som e wr iting on d
i t, a nd m ust b e tie w ith a p ecul ia r
re d a nd w hite p a p e r s tr ing , i n which is inse rte th e d
noshi , or d d d dd
h it of r ie sh, a intil y fol e in a p ie ce of col
or e d p ap e r, wh ich is a n indisp ensa bl e accom p a ni m e n t of
e ver y p re se n t.
CHI L H OO D D . 8

hersel f out i n the excite ment of se eing her


friends and the physical exercise of going
,

th rough so far as possible the cerem e


, ,

ni ous bows and saluta tions that etiquette

p rescrib e s .

O n the seventh day the baby receives its


n a me T here is no especial ceremony
1
.


c on necte d wi th this exce pt that t he ch ild s ,

birth is formally registe red together with ,

its name at the district ofce of registra


,

tion and the household keep holiday i n


,

honor of the event A certain kind of rice .


,

cooked with red beans a festival dish ,

denoting good fortune is usually partake n ,

of by the family on this occasion .

The next important event in the baby s


l i fe is the m iya m ar i a ceremony which ,

1 A chil d is rarel y given the na m e of a li ving m em be r


of the fa m il y , or of a ny fr ie nd . The fa th e r
s na m e ,

slig htl y m o die d , is fr e quentl y give n to a son , a nd those


of a nce st ors l ong a go d ea d are som e tim es use d . One
reason b b
for this is p ro a l y the inconve nie nce of sim il a r
na m es in the sam e fa m il y , a nd m i dl e na m es , as a w a y d
of a voi di ng th is di cnl ty , a re unk no wn . The fa th er
usua ll y na m es th e chil d b ut so e
,
m fr ien d or p a tro n of
the fa m il y m ay be as k e d to d o i t . Na m es of be a utif ul
objects in na ture, such as Pl um , Snow , Sunshi n e , Lotos ,
Gol d are , com m onl y use d for girl s , whil e boys of th e
l ower cl asses oft en re j oI ce I n such a p p e l l a ti ons as Ston e ,

Bear , Tige r , etc . To ca l l a ch il d a fte r a p e rs on w oul d


not be consi dered a ny esp ecia l c om p l i m e nt .
4 JAP AN ES E G I RLS AN D WO MEN .

corresponds ro ughly with our ch risten


in g. O n the thirtieth day after birth ,

the baby is tak e n for its rst vi sit to the


te mple . For this visit great prepa ration s
a re m ad e and the baby is dressed in nest
,

sil k or crepe g ayly g ured garments


, ,

made especia lly for the ou U pon i .


y .

the dress appe ars i n vari ous places the


cres t of the family as on all ce remon ial ,

dre sses whether for you n g or ol d for


, ,

every Japanese family has its C T h us f


;

arrayed and accom panied by membe rs of


,

the family the young baby is carried to one


,

of the Shi n to te m ples and there pla ced ,

u nder the prote ction of the patron deity of


the te m ple This god chosen from a great
.
,

n umber of Shinto deities is suppo sed to ,

become the special guardia n of the ch i ld


through li fe Oe ri ng s are made to the
'

g o d an d to the priest and a bles s in g is ,

obtained ; and the baby is thus formally


placed u nder the care of a special deity .

This ce remony over there is u sually a n ,

e ntertain ment o f some kind at the home of

the parents especially if the family be one


,

of h igh rank Friends are in vi ted and if


. ,

there a re any who have not as yet sent


in presents they m ay give them at this
,
om LDH O OD . 5

It is usually on this day that the family


send to their friends some ack nowl ed g
ment of the presents receiv ed This some .

times consists o f the re d bea n rice suc h ,

a s is prepared for the seventh day ce l e

brati on an d som eti mes of cakes of m ochi


, ,

or rice paste A letter of thanks usually


.

accom pani es the retu r n present I f rice .

is sent it is put i n a handsome lacquere d


,

box the box plac ed on a lacquered tray


, ,

a nd the whole cove red wi th a sq uare of

c repe or silk richly decorated The box


, .
,

the tray and the cover are of co urse re


,

t urn ed a nd cur ious to say the box must


, , ,

be returned unwashed as it would be very ,

unlucky to send it back cl ean A pi ece .

of Japanese paper must he slipped i uto the

box after its co ntents have been re mo ved ,

a nd box a n d tray must be given back j ust ,

as they are to the messenger Sometimes


,
.

a box of eggs or a pe culiar kind of dri ed


,

sh call ed ka tsuobus hi is s e nt with thi s


, ,

present when it is desi red to make an es


,

p eci a l ly h a ndsome re turn When as m any .

as fty or one hu ndred re turn presents


of thi s ki nd are to be sent it is no slight ,

tax on the mistre ss of the house to see


that no one is forgotten and that all is ,
6 APAN ES E GI RLS
J AN D WOMEN .

p roperly done As special messenge rs ar e


.

sent a n umber of men a re someti mes ke pt


,

busy for two or three days .

Afte r a l l these festivities a quiet u ndis , ,

tur be d life begins for the baby a li fe ,

which is neither un pl easant nor u n heal th


ful . It is not jolted rocked or trotte d to
, ,

sleep ; it is allowed to cry i f it chooses ,

wi thout anybody s supposing that the

world will co me to an end because of its


crying ; and its d ress is loose and easily put
o n so that very litt le ti m e is spent in t he
,

tiresome process of dressin g and und ress


ing .Under th ese conditions the baby
thrives and gr ows str ong and fa t ; learn s to
take li fe with some philosophy even at a ,

ve ry early age ; and is not subject to ts


of hyster ical or passionate cryin g brought ,

o n by much jolting or trotting or by the ,

wearisome process of pin nin g buttoning , ,

tying of strin gs and thru sting of arms


,

into tight sleeves .

The Japanese baby s d re ss though not


,

as pre tty as that of our babies is i n many ,

ways m uch more sensible It cons ists of .

as many wide sl eeved straight Silk cot ton


-
, , , ,

o r an nel garments as the se aso n o f the

y ear may require all cut


, a fter ex ac tly
8 JAP AN Es E GI RLS AN D W OM EN .

weathers Wh en it is cold the sister s


.
,

-
ha m i or coat serves as a n ext ra coveri n g
, ,

for the baby as well ; and when the sun is


hot the sister s p arasol keeps off its rays
,

from th e bobbin g bald h e ad L ivin g i n .

p ublic as the
, Japanese babies do t hey ,

soon a cquire an inte lligent intereste d look , ,

and seem to enjoy the ga mes of the elder


children upon whose backs they are ca r
,

ried as m uch as the players t hemselves


, .

Babies of the m iddle classes do not live i n


public i n this way but ride about upon the,

backs of their n urses unt il they are old


enough to toddle by themselves and they ,

a re not so o fte n seen in the streets ; a s

fe w b ut the poorest Japanese eve n i n the ,

large cities are unable to have a pleasant


,

bit of ga rde n in wh ich the children ca n


play and take the air The children of the .

richest families the nobility and the i m


, ,

perial family are never carried about in


,

this way The youn g child is borne i n the


.

ar m s Of an attend a nt wit hi n door s an d ,

without ; but a s t his requires the care of


some one con stantly and prevents the ,

n urse fro m doing anythi ng b ut care for the

child only the richest can afford this


,

l ux ury With the b a by tie d to her back a


.
,
CH I L DH OOD . 9
'
woman is able to ca re for a child and yet ,

go on wit h her household labors and baby ,

watches over mother s or nurse s shoulder



,

between naps taken at all hours the pro ,

cesses of drawin g water washin g an d ,

cooking rice and all the varied work of t he


,

house Imperial babies are held in the


.

arms of some one nig ht and day fro m the ,

moment of bi rth until they have learned


to walk a custom whic h seems to render
,

the lot of the hig h born in fant less com


-

for ta bl e in so m e ways t han that of the ple


beian child .

The exibility of the knees which is r e ,

quired for com fort in the Japanese met hod


of sittin g is gained i n very early youth by
,

the habit of settin g a baby down with its


knees bent u nder it inste a d of wit h its
,

l egs out straight be fore it as seem s to us ,

the natural way To t he Japanese the


.
,

normal way for a baby t o sit is with its


knees bent u nder it and so at a very early
, ,

age the m uscles and tendon s of the knees


,

are accustomed to what seems to us a most


1
un natural and uncom fortable posture .

1 Tha t the p osi tion of th e Ja p a nese in sittin g is re a ll y


unna tur al a nd unh yg ie ni c , is sh own b y re ce nt m eas ur e

m ents ta k en b y the surg e ons of the Ja p a nese arm y .


10 J APAN ES E GI RL S AN D WOMEN .


Among the lower classe s wh ere there ,

are few bathin g facilities i n the hous es ,

ba bies of a fe w weeks ol d a re o ften taken


to the public bath house and put i nto the

al ly hea wd to a m pa rature of a h un dre d


to a h undre d a nd th Fahrenheit a .
,

tem per at ure tha t mos t fo reigners visitin g


Japan nd a lmost u nbea rable To a ba by s .

delica te skin the rst ba th or two is usu


,

ally a severe tr ial but it soon becomes ac ,

customed to the high tem pe rature an d ,

takes its bath as it does everythin g else


, ,

plac idly and in publi c Born in to a coun .

try where cow s milk is n ever used the



,

Japanese baby is wholly depe ndent upon

Ja p a m d ue l a rge l y to the the l ower


i
n shor tneu of

b e nt at the k nea rests the d s vel op m en t of tha t pa rt of


the body , an d p ro d uces a n act ua l def orm i ty in the whol e

r
p po e r de vel o p m en t o f the l eg) ; b u t a m on g m e r cha nt ,

li te r a r y m en , a n d oth e rs of se denta ry b
ha its, it is m os t

p l a inl y to be The intr od ucti on of cha irs a nd ta bl es ,


see n.

as a necessa r y a dj unct of Ja p a n ese h om e l if e , w oul d


CH I L H OO D D . 11

its other for milk an d is not weaned


m ,
1

entirely u n til it rea ches the age of three or


four yea rs an d is able to live upon the ordi
,

n ary food of the class to which it belongs .

There is no intermediate stage of brea d


a n d milk oatmea l a n d milk gruel
, or pap , ,

of some kin d ; for the all im portant fa ctor -


milk is absen t from the bill of fare i n ,

a land where there is n either m ilk for



ba nor strong meat for the m that

a re full of age .

In conseque nce part ly of the lack , ,

of p re per n ourish ment after the child is

too old to live wholly upon its mother s

m ilk and partly perhaps because of


, , ,

the poor food that the mot hers even of ,

the higher classes live upon many ba , ,

bies in Japan are aficted with disagree


able skin troubles es pecially of the scalp ,

and face troubles which usually d isa p


,

p ear as soon as t h e child becomes accus


t om e d to the regular food of the adult .

Another con seque nce as I i m agine of the , ,

1 Som et im e s , in th e ol d da y s , r ice wa te r w as g iv e n to
b a bies instea d of m i l k , b ut it was ne a rl y im p os si l e to b
b r ing up a ba b y on thi s a l one . Now both fr esh a nd

con dense d m ilk a re use d , w he re the m oth er s m



ilk is i n
s ui ci ent , b ut onl y in th ose p a r ts of Ja p a n where the
fem ig n inuence is fel t .
12 J APAN ES E G I R LS AN D WOMEN .

l ack of pre per food at the teeth ing period ,

is the early loss of th e child s rst teeth


,

which usually turn black an d d ecay some


ti me be fore the secon d tee th begi n to S how
themselves W ith the exception of these
.

two troubles Japanese ba bies seem healthy


, ,

h earty and happy to an extraordinary de


,

gree an d S how that most of the condi


,

tions of their liv es are wholesome The .

constant out of d oor li fe a nd the health fu l


~ ~

dress serve to m ake up in considerable


measure for the poor food and the Japa ,

nese baby though small a fter the man ner


,

of the race is usually pl um p and of rm


, , ,

hard esh O ne striki n g characteristic of


.

the Japanese baby is that at a very ea rly


,

age it l earns to clin g like a kitten to the


back of whoever carries it so that it is ,

really difcult to d rop it thro ugh careless


n ess for the baby looks out for its own
,

safety like a youn g monkey Th e straps .

that tie it to the back are su fcient for


sa fety ; but the baby from the age o f o ne
,

month is dependent u pon its own e xe r


,

tions to s ecu re a com fortable position a nd ,

-
it soon learn s to ride its bearer wi th con
s id e ra bl e skill inste a d of being merely a
,

bundle tied to the shoulders A ny one .


CHI L DH OOD . 13

who has ever han dled a Japan ese baby ca n


te stify to the amount of inte l li gence shown
i n t his d irecti on at a very early age ; an d
th is cl in gin g with arms and legs is per ,

haps a valu a ble pa rt of the training which


,

gives to the whole nati on the pec ul ia r


qui ckn ess of moti on an d hardness of
muscle that char ac terize them from child
hood . I t is the agility an d muscul ar
quality that belong to w ild animals that ,

we see something of in the I ndi an but to ,

a more marked degree in the Japanese ,

especi ally of the lower classes .


The Japan ese baby s rst lessons in walk
ing are taken under favorable circum
stances With feet com fortably shod i n the
.

b
soft ta i or mitte n like sock babie s ca n
,
-
,

tu mble a bout as they like with no bu m p ,

nor bruise upon the so ft matted oors of


,

the dwel ling houses There is n o fur a i


.

tur e to fal l again st an d nothing about the


,

room to render falli ng a thin g to be fear ed .

After learning the art of walking in the


house the baby s rst atte mpts out of
,

doors a re ham m red by the sa ri or gta ,

a lig ht straw sandal or small wooden clog


attac h ed to the foot by a strap passing be
tween the toes At the very beginn ing the
.
14 J APA N ES E G I R L S AN D WOMEN .


sandal or cl og is tied to the baby s foot by
bits of string faste n ed around the a nk l e ,

but this provision fo r security is soon d is


carded a ud the baby patte rs along like the
,

grown peo ple hold in g on the gta by the


,

somewh at cumbersome and incon venient


foot ge ar m ust cause m any falls at rst ,

b ut ba by s expe rience in the art of b alan


cing u pon pee ple s backs n ow aids in this

new art of balancing upon the little wooden


clogs Babies of two or three trot about
.

qui te co m fortably in gets that seem to give .

m ost in se cure footin g and older children ,

run ju mp hO p on one foot a n d play all


, , ,

man ner of active games upon heavy clogs


that would wrench our ankles and toes out
of all possibility of usefulness This foot .

ge ar while produci n g an awkward shu f


, ,

i ng ga it has certain advanta ge s over our


,

own especi ally for children whose feet a re


,

gro wing rapidly The gate eve n if out


.
,

grown can never cramp the toes nor com


,

press the ankle s I f the foot is too lon g


.

for the clog the heel laps over behind b ut ,

the t oes do not suffer a nd the use of the ,

st en gthens the an kles by


'

g ta r a ordi n g

n o arti cial aid or support a n d giving to ,


16 J APAN ES E G IR LS AN D WOM EN .

dresses are not as eas ily washed as our own


cambric and annel baby cloth es there is ,

a loss amon g the poorer classes in the mat


ter of cleanliness ; a n d the gorge o us soiled
gown s are n ot as attractive as the more
washable w hite garments i n which our
babies are dressed For model clothin g
.

for a baby I would suggest a combination


,

of the Ja panese style with the foreign ,

easily was hed m aterials a combin atio n


,

that I have seen used in their own fam i


l ies by Japanese ladies educa ted abroad ,

an d on e i n which the objecti ons to the Jap


a n e se style of dress are enti re ly obviated .

The Japanese baby be gins to practice the


accom plishment o f talki ng at a very ea r ly
age for its n ative l an gu a ge is sin gularly
,

happy in easy expressions for ch ildren


an d l ittle babies wi l l be heard chatteri n g

away i n so ft easily spoken word s long be


,

fore they are able to venture alone from


the ir perches on their mothers or n urses

backs A fe w sim ple words expres s much


.
,

and cover all wants I ya expre sse s discon


.

te n t o r disl ike of any kind and is al s o use d


,

for no m a m m a mea ns food ; be be is the

d ress ; ta ta is the sock or house shoe etc


, , .

We nd many of the s a me sounds a s in the


D
CHI L H OO D . 17

baby lan gua ge of En glish with mea nin gs


,

tot al ly di ffer ent The ba by is not troubled


.

with di cnl t gram ma tical changes for the ,

Japanese l anguage has fe w inections ; and


it is too young to be puzz l ed wi th the i ntri
cacies of the va rious ex pre ssi ons denoti n g ,
'

d ie re nt degrees of po lite ness which are ,

the snare and the des pair of the fo rei gner


studying Japanese .

As our little girl emerges fr om baby


hood she nds the li fe Open in g before her
a bright a nd happy one but one hedged
,

a bout closely by the proprieti es and o ne ,

in which from babyhood to ol d age she


, ,

must ex pect to be always u nder the control


of one of the stronger sex Her position.

wi ll be an honorable and respecte d one


only as she learn s in her youth the lesson
of cheerful obedi e nce o f pleasing man ners
, ,

an d of per sonal clean l iness and neatness .

Her duties m ust be always either within


the house or if she belon gs to the peasant
, ,

class on the farm T here is no caree r or


, .

vocation open to her : she m ust be depen


d e nt always u pon either father husband , ,

or so n a nd her greatest happiness is to be


,

gai ned not by c ul ti vation of the intellect


, ,

but by the early acquisition of the se l f con -


trol whi ch is expecte d of all Japanese wo
men to a n even gre ater deg ree tha n of the
men This sel f-control must consist n ot
.
,

si mply in the conceal ment of al l the out


ward signs oi any d isagreeable e m otion

whether of grief anger or pai n , , but in ,

the assu mpt ion of a chee rfu l smil e an d


agre eable man ner under even the most
di s tre s s ing of circu mstance s The duty of .

sel f restraint is taught to the littl e girl s of


-

the fam ily from the tenderest y e ars ; i t is


the ir grea t moral lesson and is expatiate d
,

upon at all times by their elders The little .

girl must sink hersel f ent irely must give up ,

always to others m us t never show emotion s


,

except such as wi ll be pl e as in g to those


about her : th is is the secret of tr ue polite
n ess a nd must be m astered if the wo m a n
,

wishes to be well thought of a nd to lead a


happy li fe The e ffect of t his tea ching is
.

se en in the attractive but dign ied man ners


of the Japan e se women and even of the
,

very little gi rls They a re not forward n or


.

pushing neither are they awkwardly bas h


,

ful ; th e re is n o sel f consc iousness n e ither


-
,

is the re any lack of sa voi r fa ire a chi ldlike


simplicity i s un ited wi th a woman ly con
sideration for the com fort of those aroun d
c HI LDH O OD . 19

t hem A Japan ese child seems to be the


.

product of a more pe r fect civilizatio ntha n


our own for it co m es into the world with
,

l ittle of the savagery and barbarian ba d


m an ners that distinguish children in this

cou ntry a nd the rst ten or fte e n years of


,

its li fe do n ot see m to be passed in one lon g


struggle to acquire a coatin g of good man
ners t hat will hel p to render it less obnox
ious in polite society How much of the
.

po liteness of the Japanese is th e result of


tra ining and how m uch is inhe ri te d fro m
,

generations of civilized ancestors it is d ii ,

cult to tell ; but my impression is t hat ,

babi es are born into the world with a good


sta rt in the matter of man ners and th a t the ,

uni for m ly g entle and courteous treatmen t


that they receive from those about them ,

together with the continual verb a l te a ch


ing of the principle of sel f restraint a n d -

thought fulness of others produce with very


,

little di fculty the universally attractive


man ners of the people O ne curiou s thin g
. .

i n a Japanese household is to see the for


m a l itie s that pass bet ween brot hers and

siste rs and the respect paid to age by


,

every m ember of the family The gran d .

father and grandmother come rst of all in


20 J APAN ES E GIRLS AN D WOMEN .

everyt hi n g no one at t ab le m ust b e


,

helped b e fore them in any case ; after t he m


come the father and m other ; a nd lastly ,

the children according to their ages A .

you n ger sister must al ways wait for th e


elder and pay her due respect even i n the ,

matter of walkin g into the room be fore


her The wi s hes and con venie nce of the
.

elder rather than of the younger are to


, ,

b e con sulted in everything a n d this l e s ,

so n must b e learned early by children .

The di fference in years m ay be slight but ,

the elder bor n ha s the rst right in all


-

cases .

O ur little girl s place i n the family is a


pleasant one : she is the pet a nd plaything


of father and elder brothers a n d she is ,

never saluted by any one in the family ex ,

cept her paren ts without the title of r e


,

spect due to her position I f she is the .

e ldest daughter to the servants sh e is 0


,

Jo S a m e literally young lady ; to her own


, ,

brothers and sisters An S a n elder sister


, , .

Should she be one of th e youn ger ones ,

her given na m e preceded by the honor ic


,

0 a nd follow e d by Sa n mea ni n g M is s
, ,

will be the n ame by w hich she will be


called by younger brothers and sisters a nd ,
CH I LDH OO D . 21

by the servan ts A s she pas ses fro m ba by


.

hood to girlhood and fr o m girt


. , to
wom a nhood she is the object of m uch love
,

a n d care and solicitude ; but she does n ot

gro w up irresp o nsible or u ntra ined to m ee t


the duties which woman hoo d w ill su re ly
brin g to her S he must learn all the d a
.

ties that fall upon the wi fe and mother of


a Japanese household as well as obtai n ,

the instruction in books and mathematics


that is coming to be more a nd more a
necessi ty for t he wome n of Japan She .

m ust take a certain responsibility in the

household ; m ust see that tea is m ade for


the guests who may be received by h e r
paren st i n all but the families of highest
,

rank must serve it hersel f Indee d it is


, .
,

quite the custom in families of the higher


classes should a guest whom it is desired
, ,

to receive with especial honor dine at the ,

house to serve the meal n ot with the


, ,

family but separately for the fathe r a nd


,

his visitor ; a nd it is the d uty of t he wi fe


or daughter o ftener th e latter to wait o n
, ,

them This is in honor of the gue st not


.
,

on account of the lack of servants for there ,

may be any nu mber of them within call or ,

even in the back part of the room ready ,


to re cei ve from the hands of the young girl
what she has remov e d She must t here .
,

fore know the pro per etiquett e of the


,

table how to serve care fully and neatly


, ,

a n d above all have the skill to p l y the sa k


, ,

bottle so t hat the h ouse may keep up its


,

r eputation for hospitality Should gues ts .

arrive in the absence of her parents she ,

m ust receive and entertain them until the


master or mistress of the house return s .

She also fe el s a certain care about the be


havi or of the younger membe rs of th e
family especially in the absence of the
,

pare n ts I n these var ious ways she is


.

trained for takin g upon hersel f t he cares


of a household when t he time comes In .

all but the very wealthiest and most aristo


cratic families the daughters of t he house
,

do a large part of the simple housework .

I n a house with n o furn iture no carpets , ,

n o bric a brac n o mirrors picture frames


- -
, ,

or gl a sses to be cared for no stoves or ,

furnaces no windows to was h a large part


, ,

of t h e cooking to be done outside and n o ,

latest styles t o be imitated in clothi ng the ,

a m ount of wo rk to be done by women is


consid erably di m i ni shed but still there r e
,

m a i ns enoug h to take a good d e al of time .


24 JA PAN ES E GI RL S AN D WOMEN .

ing too to be done alth ough neith er wi th


, , ,

hot water n or soap ; and in the place O f


ironin g the cotto n garments which are
, ,

us ually washed without rippin g must be ,

h ung up On a bamboo pole passed through


the armholes a n d pulled smooth an d
,

straight before they dry ; an d the silk ,

always ripped into breadths be fore wash


in g must be smoothed while we t upon a
,

board which is set in the s un until the silk


is dry .

Then there are the every day dish es


which our Japane se m a iden mu st learn to
prepare The p rO per boilin g O f rice is in
.

itsel f a study The construction Of the va


.

r ious soups which form the staple in the

Japane se bill of fare ; the preparation of


m ochi ,
a kind Of rice do ugh which is ,

prepared at the New Year or to sen d to


,

friends on various fe stival occasions : these


a n d many other bra nch es of the culinary

art m ust be maste red be fore the youn g girl


is prepared to as su me the cares Of m arried
li fe.

But though the little girl s li fe is not


without its d uties a n d respon sibilities it is ,

also not at all lackin g in simple and in no


cent pleasures First amo n g the an nua l
.
CH I LDH OO D . 25

festivals , a nd
bri n gi ng with it m uch mirth
an d frolic comes the Feast Of the Ne w
,

Year A t this ti me father mother an d


.
, ,

all Older membe rs Of the family lay aside


their work and their dignity and join i n ,

the fun and sports that are characteristic


Of this season Worr ies and anxieties are
.

set as ide with the close Of the year and the ,

rs t beams Of the New Year s su n bring in

a season Of unlimite d joy for the chil


dren For about two weeks the festival
.

lasts and the festal S pirit remains through


,

the whole month pro m pting to fun and


,

a m usements of all kinds Fro m early .

morn in g until bedtime the children wear


their prettiest clothes i n which they play
,

without rebuke G uests come an d go


.
,

bringin g congratulations to the family ,

and O ften gi fts for all The children s


.

stock of toys is thus g rea tl y incre a sed and


the house overows with the good thin gs


Of the season of which m ochi or cake m ad e
, ,

from rice dough prepared always especiall y


,

for this ti me i s one Of the most i m portant


,

articles .

The chi l dren are taken with their pa


rents to make New Year s visits to their

friends a nd to Offer them congratul a tions ,


26 A A N ES E GIR LS
J P AN D WOM EN .

and much they enjoy this as dressed in , ,

their best they ride from house to house


,

in ji m ikis ha s
.

And then durin g the long happy even


, ,

in gs the w hole family includin g even t he


, ,

o l d grand father and grand mother join in ,

me rry gam es ; the servants too are in vi ted , ,

to joi n the family party and without seem , ,

in g forward or out of place en ter i nto ,

t he games with ze st O ne of the favo rite .

games is Hya ku m m is ha literally The


poem s o f a h undred poets It consis ts o f .

two hundred ca rds on each of wh ich is ,

printed either the rst or last hal f of one


of the hundred fa mous Japan ese poems
which give the na m e to the game The .

poems are well known to all J a pan ese of ,

w hate ver sort or condition Al l Japan ese .

poem s a re short conta inin g only thirty


,

t wo syllabl es and have a n atural division


,

into two parts The one hund red cards


.

contai ning the latter hal f of the poems are


dealt and laid out in ro ws face upward , ,

before the players O ne perso n is a p .

1 Jinr ilcisba m r kurum m a sm a l] , l ig ht ca r ria ge , us ua l l y

The j iar i lctd i a


'

th a b m d m which is d r a wn b y a m a n.

is th e com m ones t o f a ll ve hi cl es no w in use in Ja p a n .

for thc r unner who d ra ws the ca rriag e .


CH I L H OOD D . 27

p ointe d r ea d.e r To h i m are gi ve n the re

m ainin g h u nd re d cards an d he reads the


,

be gin nin gs of the poems i n what e r order


they come fro m the shu fed pack Ski l l .

i n the game consists in reme m berin g


quickly the line followi n g the one re ad ,

and ra pidly fi nding the card on whic h it is


writte n Es pecial l y d oes the player watch
.

his own cards an d i f he nds t here the


,

end of the poe m the begin ning O f whic h


,

has j ust been read he m us t pick it u p be


,

fore a ny one s ees it and l ay it aside If .

so m e one else spies the card rst he se izes


,

it an d gives to the careless player seve ral


card s fr om his own hand Wh oever rst
.

disposes of al l h is cards is the win ner .

The players usually arrange t hemselves in


two li nes dow n the middle of the room a nd ,

the two sides pl ay against each other the ,

game not be ing ended until either one si d e


or the other ha s disposed of all i ts cards .

The game requires great quickness of


thought and of mot ion and is i nv a luab l e
,

in giving to all young people a n educa tion


in the classical poetry of their own n a tion ,

as wel l as bein g a sour ce of great merri

m ent and jollity among you ng and old .

Scattered throughout the y ear a re va


28 JAPANESE GIRLS AN D WOMEN .

r ion s ower festivals when often with h er , ,

w hole fa m ily our little girl visits the


,

famous gardens where the plu m t he ,

cherry the chrysanthem um the iris or


, , ,

the az alea attain their greatest loveliness ,

and spe nds the day out of doors i n aes


thetic e njoyment of the beauties of nature
supp l emented by art An d then there is .

t he feast m ost loved in the whole year the ,

Feast of Dolls when on the third day of t he


,

third month the great r e proof storehouse -

gives forth its treasures Of dolls in a n ,

ol d fami l y m any of them h undreds of years


,

ol d ,
an d for three d ays wit h all their ,

b elon gi n gs of ti ny furnishings i n silver ,

lacquer an d porcel a in they reign supreme


, , ,

arra nged on red covered shelves in the -

nest room of the ho use M ost promi nent .

am on g the d ol l s are the eig ies of the Em


p e r or a n d E mpress in anti que court cos
tu me seated in dign ied calm each on a
, ,

lacquered dais Near them are the gures


.

o f th e ve court musicians in their robes

o f o fce each with his instr ument Be


,
.

s ide these dolls which are always present


,

and form the centra l gures at the feast ,

nu merous others more plebei a n but m ore


, ,

lovable nd p laces on the lower sh elves


, ,
CH I L DH OO D . 29

and t he array of dolls furn ishings which


is brought out on these occasions is so m e


thi n g marvelous I t was my privilege to
.

be present at the Feast of Dolls in the


house of one of the Tokuga wa da i m ias a ,

house i n which the old forms and cere


m onies were strict l y observed and over ,

whic h the wave of foreign i n novation had


p a s se d so sligh tly that even t h e calendar

still remained unchanged and the feast ,

took pl ace upon the third day of the third


m ont h of the Ol d Japa nese year in stead of ,

on the third day of M arch whic h is the ,

usual ti me for it n ow At t his house .


,

where the dol l s had been accumulating for


hundreds of years ve or s ix broad red
, ,

covered shelves perhaps twenty feet long


,

or more were com pletely lled wit h them


,

and with their belongin gs The E mperor .

and Empress appeared again and again as ,

wel l as the ve court m usicia ns a nd the ,

tiny furn ishings and uten sils were wonder


fully costly and beauti ful Be fore each .

Emperor and E mpress were set an elega nt


lacquered table service tra y bowl s cu ps
, , , ,

sa k pots rice buckets etc all c o m plete


, ,
.
, ,

a n d i n eac h utensil was placed t he a p pro

ia variety ood The sa ke us ed on


p r te of f .
thi s occa sion is a sweet whi te liquor , ,

b rewed espec ially for this feas t as di ffere nt ,

fro m the ordinary sa ke a s sweet cider is


from the hard cider u pon which a m a n


may drink h i m self into a state of intoxica
tion Besides the table se rvi ce everythi ng
.
,

that an i mpe rial doll ca n be expec ted to


need or desi re is placed upon the s helves .

L acque r ed nor im ono or pal anquins ; l ac


,

quered bu l lock ca rts d raw n by bow-le gged


,

black bulls these were the con veya nces


,

of the great in O ld Japan and these i n , ,

min ute reproductions a re pl a c ed upon th e ,

red-covered s helves Tiny si l ver an d bra ss


.

hibac hi or re boxes a re the re wit h the ir


, , ,

accompanyin g to ngs a nd charcoa l bas kets ,

whole kitchens with everything re


,

quir ed for cooki n g the nest of J a pa


n ese feas ts as nely made as i f for a ctual
,

use all the nece ssary toilet apparat us


, ,

combs mirrors ute n sils for blackening the


, ,

teeth for s having the eyebro ws for redden


, ,

ing the lips and w hi te n ing the fa ce a ll ,


-

these things are there to delight the soul s


of all the little girls who may have the O p

p ortun ity to be ho l d them For three days .

the i mperial efg ies are served s um ptu


ousl y at e a ch mea l and the little girls of
,
32 JAPANESE GIR LS AN D WOMEN .

sleeved dresses playin g wit h battledoor or


ball The grace ful rhyth m ic motion of
.
,

their bodies the brig ht upturned eyes the


, ,

laughing faces are set off to perfection by


,

the coloring of their owin g drapery ; a n d


their agility on th e ir high lacquered clogs ,

is a con stant source of wonder and a d


m ira tion to any one who has ever m ade

an effort to walk upon the cl um sy things .

There are dolls too that are not relegated


, ,

to the store house w hen the Feast of D ol l s


is ended b ut wh o are the joy an d com fort
,

of their little mothers durin g the who l e

year ; an d at every kwa n kO ba or bazaar - -


, ,

an endless var iety o f games puzzles pic , ,

tures to be cut out and glued toget her and ,

amuse m ents of all kinds m a y be purchased ,

at extremely l ow rates There is no dearth


.

of ga mes for our little girl an d m any ,

pleasant hours ar e spent in the hou sehold


sitting room with games or con undru ms , ,

or stories or the simple girlish chatter


,

that elicits constant laughter from sheer


youth ful m erriment .

As for fairy tales so dear to the hearts


,

of children in every country the Japanese ,

c h ild has her full share O ften she li stens


.
,

hal f asleep while cuddling under the warm


,
CH I L DH OO D . 33

quilted cover of the kota tsu in the cold ,

winter eve n in gs to the drowsy voice of the ,

old grandmother or n urse who car ries her ,

away on the win gs of imagin ation to the


wonderful palace of the sea gods or to the ,

h aunts of the te r rible oni monste rs with ,

red distorted faces a nd fearful h orn s


, .

M om ota r o the Peach Boy wit h his won


, ,

d e rful feats i n the con quest of the am , is


her hero u ntil he is supplante d by the
,

m ore real ones of Japanese history .

There are occasional all day visits to the -

t heatre too where seated on the oor i n


, , ,

a box railed off from those adjoining our


, ,

l ittle girl in company with her mother an d


,

sisters enjoys thoug h with paroxys m s of


, ,

horror and fear the heroic historical plays ,

which are now almost all that is le ft of the


h eroic old Japan Here she catches the .

Spirit of passionate loyalty that be l onged

to th ose days forms her ideals of what a ,

noble Japanese woman should be willin g

to do for parents or husband an d comes ,

away taught as she could be by no other ,

1
Kota tsu , a cha rcoa l r e in a b ra z er i or a sm al l r e
l
p a ce i n th e oor , ove r whi ch a woo den fra m e is se t a n d

the wh ol e cove re d by a quilThe fa m il y sit a b out it in


t .

col d weather wi th the quil t dr a w n up ov e r th e fe e t a nd


k nees .
34 JAP AN ESE G IR LS AN D WOMEN .

te achi ng what the S pi rit was that an i


,

m ated her ancestor s what sp irit mus t


,

an imate her should she wish to be a


,

worthy d escendant of the women of Ol d .

A mon g these su rroundin gs, wi th th ese


duti es a nd a m use me nts our little girl ,

grows to woman hood T he un consc ious .

and be auti ful spirit of her childhood is not


driven away at the d awn of womanhood by
though ts of bea m of coming out in s o
,

cie ty of a bri ef ca ree r of ir tation and co n


,

quest an d at the end as ne a ma rriage


, ,

either for love o r money as her imagina ,

ti on can pictu re She tak es no thought


.

for these things hersel f an d her inter ,

cou rse with young men though free an d ,

uncon strained has about it no grain of


,

i rtation or romantic in te re st When the .

time comes for her to m arry her father ,

will have her m eet some eligible young


m a n and both she a n d the youn g man will
,

know when they are brought together


, ,

what is the end i n view and will m ake u p ,

their minds about t he matter But unti l .

that ti me comes the modest Japanese


,

maiden carries on no i rtatious thinks ,

nothin g O f men except as higher beings to


be de ferred to and waited on a nd p reserves ,
CI H LDH OOD . 35

t he ch ildl ike in nocence of man ner com ,

bi ned with a se rene d ignity under all cir


cum sta nces that is so noticeab l e a tra i t
,

i n the Japane se wo m an fro m c h i l d hood to


old a ge .

The Japanese wo m an is under thi s dis ,

cipl i ne ,a n ished product at the age of


sixte en or eighteen S he is pure sweet ,.
,

a n d amiable w ith g re at power of sel f-c on


,

trol and a knowledge of what to d o upon


,

all occasions The h igher part of her na


.

ture is little developed ; n o great religious


truths have li fted her soul above the worl d
i nto a clearer and higher atmosphere ; but
a s fa r as she goes in regard to all the little
,

thi ngs of daily li fe she is bright industri


, ,

ous sweet tem pered and attractive and


,
-
, ,

prepa red to do well her duty when that ,

duty comes to her as wi fe and mother and


,

m istres s of a household The highest .

principle upon which she is taught to act


is obedience even to the point of violat
,

ing all her nest feminine in stincts at the ,

co m mand of father or hu sband ; and acti ng


under that principle she is c a pable of a n ,

entire sel f abnegation such as fe w wom e n


-

of any race ca n a chieve .

With the close of her childhood the ,


36 J APANESE GIRLS AN D WOMEN .

happiest period in the li fe of a Japanese


woman closes The discipline that sh e
.

has received so fa r repressive a nd constan t


,

as it has often be en has been from kin d ,

and lovin g parents She has freedom to .


,

a certain degree such as is u n k nown to


,

any other cou ntry in A sia I n the hom e .

she is truly loved o ften the pet an d play


,

thin g of the household thoug h n ot r eceiv ,

i n g t h e caresse s and words of ende a r ment


t hat ch ildren i n America expect as a right ,

for love in J a p a n is un d e m on str a ti ve l


But .

just at the ti m e when her mi nd broaden s ,

and the de sire for k n owl e dge and sel f


improve m e nt develops the restraints an d ,

checks upon her become m ore severe H er .

sph ere seems t o grow n arrower di fculties ,

one by one increase and the young girl , ,

wh o sees li fe before her as somethin g


broad and expansive who looks to the ,

future wi th expectant joy becomes in a , ,

fe w years the weary disheartened woman


, , .

1
Kisses a re unk nown , a nd re g a r de d by cons er va t ive

Ja p a ne se as a n a nim a l a nd disgusti ng wa y of exp rem ing


a ffe cti on.
CH A PTER II .

EDUCATI O N .

So fa r we have S poken only of the domes


tic train ing of a Japanese girl That part .

o f her educatio n that she ga ins through


teachers and schools must be the subj ect
o f a separate c hapter . Japan di ffe rs fro m
m ost O riental countries i n the fac t that

her women are considered worthy of a cer


tain amount of the cul ture that comes fro m
the study of books ; a nd although u nti l ,

recently schools for girls w e re unknown i n


,

the empire nevertheless every woman ex


, ,

cept those of the lower classes received i n ,

struction i n t he ordinary writte n la n g uage ,

while some were well versed in the Chinese


classics an d the poetic art These wit h
.
,

some musical accomplish me nt an acquaint ,

ance with etiquette and the art of a rra ng


ing owers of makin g the cere m o nial tea
, ,

a nd in m any c a ses not only of writi ng a

bea uti ful ha nd but of owe r paintin g as


,
-

well i n the old days m a de up t he whole of


,
38 J APAN ES E GI RLS AN D WOM EN .

an ordinary wom an s education Am on g



.

the lower classes especi a l ly the merchant


,

cl ass instructio n was sometimes given i n


,

the various pantomimic dance s which one


sees m ost frequently prese n ted by p r ofes
sioual d a nci n g gi r ls The art of d ancin g
.

is not usu a lly practiced by women of the


higher classes b ut among t h e daugh ters of
,

the merchan ts speci a l dances were learn ed


for exhibition at home or even at the ,

m a ts ur i or religious fe stival a n d t heir per ,

for m a nce was for the a m usem e nt of s pec


ta to r s a n d not e speci a l ly for the pleasure
,

of the d a n c e rs t hem selve s Th ese dan ces .

are mod est and grace ful b ut fro m the fa ct ,

that they a re al ways le a rned for entertain


i n g an a ud ience howev e r smal l and select
, ,

a n d are most frequently per fo r med by pro

fessiona l dan cers of questionable character ,

the more re ned a n d higher class Japa


n e se do not care especially to have their

daughters learn them .

In the old days little girls were not sent


,

to school but goi n g to the house of a


, ,

private tea ch er received the nece ssary in


,

str uct io n in re a din g a nd writing The


,
.

writin g a n d readi n g at the b e gin n in g ar e ,

taught S imultaneousl y the teacher writin g ,


40 J APAN ES E GI RLS AN D WOMEN .

it affords l ittle Opportu n ity for the devel


1
O p m e nt of the reasonin g powers The .

The Ja p a nese wr itten l a ng ua g e is a str a nge com bina


1

tion of Chin ese a n d Ja p a nese , t o re a d whi ch a k nowl e dg e


of th e Chin ese cha ra cte rs is n e ce ss ary . Chinese lite ra ture
writt e n in th e Chin ese i de og r a p hs , whi ch of course g ive
no cl ue t o th e soun d , are d re a b y Ja p a nese wi th the
Ja p a nese ren de r ing of the wo ds r , a nd th e Ja p a ne se or e r d
of wor ds i n th e se nte nce . When the re ha ve not bee n
e xa c t e qui va l e nt Ja p a ne se w or ds , a Chi ne se term ha s
com e in to use , so tha t m uch cor rup t Ch in ese is now well
e ngr a fte d into the Ja p a nese l a n ua ge , g both writte n a nd
sp ok e n . I n the form ing of ne w w or ds a nd te chni cal
te rm s Chin e se wor ds a re use d , as the Gree k a nd La ti n
a re here . bb
Th ere is p ro a l y no si m il a r ity in the or ig in

of the b d from
t w o l a ng ua g e s , b ut th e Ja p a ne se orro we

th e Chine se a bout th e sixth cent ur y A D th ir el e v . . e

e l y p l a nne d b ut m ost com p l e x m eth d of e xp ressing


r o

th oug ht in w iti ng The introducti on of th e Ch inese lit


r .

cr a t u s h a s done m u h fo
r Ja p a n a nd t o m a s te this
c r , r

l a ngua g e is one of th e e ss e n ti a l s in the ed uca ti on of e ve ry

b oy . At l east se ve n or e ig ht th ousa n d cha r a cte rs m ust

b e l ea r ne d for da il y use , a n d there a re se ve r al di e r e nt


st yl es of wr iti ng eac h of th e m . For a sc hol a r , tw ice as

m a ny , or e v e n m ore , m us t be m a ste re d in or der to re a d


th e va r ious work s in tha t r ich l ite ra ture .

The Ja p a ne se l a ng ua g e con t a ins a syl l a ba r y of for ty


e ig ht l e tte rs , a n d i n b ook s a nd n e w sp a p e rs for th e com

m on e
p po l e d
is p rin t e , b y t he s i e of the Chines e cha ra c d
te r , t h e d
re n er ing of it , i n th e l e tt e rs of th e fro m , or

Ja p a nese a l p ha b et.

A Ja p a ne se w om an is n ot e xp ect e d to d o m uch in th e
stu dy of Chines e . She w il l , of course , l e a rn a few of th e
m ost c om m on char a ct ers , s uch as a re us e d in l e tt e r-wr it
ing , a nd for the r e st sh e wil l re a d b y th e h el p of the
ka na .
ED UCA TI O N . 41

years of study that are r equire d for maste r


ing the writte n l a nguag e so as to be a bl e
,

to grasp the thoughts al read y given to the


world leave co mparatively little time for
,

the conductin g of any co ntinuous thought


on one s o wn accou nt an d so we nd i n

Japanes e schola rs whether boys or girls


quickness of app rehension retentive ,

memories industry an d meth od in their


,

study of their lesso ns but not much origi


,

na li ty of thought This res ult co m e s I


.
,

believe from the nature of the writ ten


,

l anguage and the di fcul ties that atte nd


the m a ste ry of it ; as a conseq uence of
wh ich an educate d man or woman he
,

comes si mply a student of other men s

thoughts a nd sayin gs about things in s tead


of bei ng a student of the things themse lves .

M usic i n Japan is an accom plish ment


reserved al mos t e n tirely for women for ,

priests and for blind men


, It se e m s to .

me quite fortunate that the m usical art


is not m ore generally practiced as Japa ,

nese m usic as a rule is fa r from agree


, ,

able to the u ntrained ear of the outside


ba rbm ia n The koto is the pleasantest of
.

the Japa n ese instr uments but probably on ,

account of its large size which makes it ,


42 J APAN ES E G I RL S AN D WOMEN .

in convenien t to k eep in a sm all Japanese


house it is used most amon g the hi gher
,

l
classes from the sa m um i upwards The
,
.

koto is an embryo piano a hori zon tal ,

sound ing board some six feet long u po n


-
, ,

which are stre tched s trings supported by


ivory bridge s It is played by me ans of
.

i vory nge r ti ps tted to the thu mb fore


-
,

nger and middle nge r of eac h han d a nd


, ,

gives forth agreea ble sounds not un l ike ,

those of the harp The player sits be fore .

the i nstrument o n knees and heels in the ,

ordinary Jap a nese attitude and her mo ,

tions are very gr ace ful and pre tty as she


to uches the strin gs o ften supplementing ,

the st rains of the i nstrument with her


voice The te ac hing o f this instrum en t
.

and of the m m isen or Japanese guitar is , ,

al most entirely i n t he hands of blind men ,

who in Japan support t hemselves by the


two p ro fession s o f m usic a nd m as sage ,

al l the bl ind who can not learn the former


, ,

becoming adepts i n the latter pro fe ssio n .

T he a rran gement of owers is taught as


l The sa m erm in the fe u da l tim es were the here dita r y
reta i ne rs of a d a i m id , or fe uda l l ord. The y form ed the

c ha p . viii on Sa m ur a i Wom en .
ED UCA TI ON . 43

a ne a rt and m uch ti m e m ay be spe nt i n


,

lear n in g h ow by cl ipping bendin g an d


, , ,

xi n g i n its pla ce i n t he vase eac h spray ,

a nd t wi g may be made to look as if act u

ally growi ng for ower arranging is not


,

m e rely to sho w the ower itsel f but i n ,

clud e s the p roper ar range m ent of the


branches t wigs and leaves of plants The
, ,
.

o wer p lays only a s m all p ar t and is not ,

used in decoratio n ex cept on the b ranc h


,

and stem as it is in nature a nd t he a rt ,

consists in the preservation of the natura l


ben d and growt h whe n xed in the vase .

I n every ca se eac h branch h as cer tai n


,

curves which m ust be i n harmony w i th the


,

whole . Bra nche s of pine bamboo and the , ,

o wering plu m are m uch us ed .

Teachers spend m uch time i n showing


proper and i mproper combinations of d if
fere nt owers as well as the arrangemen t
,

of them Many di fferen t styles have co m e


.

up originated by the fa mous te achers who


,

have fo unded various schoo l s of the art ,

an art whic h is u niq ue a nd e xceedingly


popular requiring artistic talent a nd a
,

culti vated eye O ne o fte n sees on goin g


.
,

into t he guest roo m of a Japanese house a ,

vase co ntaining grace fully arranged OW o


44 J APAN ES E GI RL S AN D WOMEN .

ers set in the tokm wm a or ra ised alcove of ,

the room under the solitary ka km ono


,
1

t hat forms the ch ie f orn a ment of the


a partment As these two things the vase
.
,

of owers and the han ging S croll are the ,

only adorn ments it is more n ecessary that


,

the owers should be care fully arran ged ,

than i n our crowded rooms where a vase ,

o f owers m ay easily escape the eye per ,

p l e xe d by the multitude of objects whic h


s urrou n d it .

Th e ceremonial tea m ust not be con


fou n ded wit h the ordinary servi n g of tea
for refresh m en t The proper m akin g and
.
,

servi n g and dri nking of the ceremon ial


,

tea is the most form a l of social Observan ces ,

e ach step in which is prescribed by a ri gid


code of etiqu ette The tea instead of .
,

bei n g the w hole leaf such as is used for ,

o rdinary occasio n s i s a n e green powder


, , .

The in fusion i s made not in a small pot , ,

from which i t i s poured out into cups ,

but i n a bowl i nto w hich the hot wate r is


,

poured from a dipper on to the powdered


tea The m ixture is stirred with a bam
.

boo whisk until i t foams then handed with ,

1 Ka km ono , a h a ng ing s crol l , up on which a p i ctur e is

a in te
p d , or som e p oe m or sentim e nt writte n .
ED UCA TI ON . 45

m uch ceremony to the guest who takes it ,

with equal ceremony and dri nks it from


the bowl emptyi n g the receptacle a t three
,

gulps Should there be a n umber of guests


.
,

tea is made for each in turn in the order ,

o f their ran k in the same bowl


, For this .

ceremonial tea a spe cial set of utensils is


,

used a l l of antique and severely S imple


,

style The charcoal used for heating t he


.

water is of a peculiar variety ; and the


roo m in w hich the tea is made and served
is built for that S pecial purpose a n d kept ,

sacred for that use This art whic h is .


,

oft e n p a rt of the ed ucation of women of

th e higher classes is taught by reg ular


,

teachers Oft en by gentlewomen who have


,

fal len i n to distressed ci rcumstances I re .

m ember with great vividness a visit paid

to an Ol d lady living n ear a provincial


city of Japan who ha d for years supported
,

hersel f by givi n g lessons in this politest


of a rts .Her little house of the daintiest ,

and n eatest type seemed lled to over


,

owi n g by three foreigners whom She r e ,

ceive d with the courtliest of welcomes At .

the request of m y friend an American lady ,

engaged i n missionary work i n that part Of


the country she gave us a le sson i n the
,
46 APA N ES E GI RLS
J AN D WOM EN .

etiquet te of th e tea cere m ony Every m o .

tion from the bringing in an d arran gin g


,

of the u tensils to t h e nal rinsin g and

wiping of the tea bowl was a ccording to ,

r ules stric tly l a id down a nd the whole ,

ceremony had more the solemnity of a re


lig ious ritual t han the lightness and gayety
of a social occasion .

E tiq uette of all kin ds is not left i n


Japan to chance to be lea rn e d by observa
,

tion and i m i tation of a ny m odel that may


present itsel f b ut is taught regularly by
,

teachers who make a specialty of it Every .

t hing i n the daily li fe h a s i ts rules and the ,

e tiquette teacher has them al l at her ngers

end s . There have been several famous


te achers of etiquette and they have form ed
,

systems wh ich di ffer in minor points while ,

agreeing i n the principal rules The eti .

q u e tte o f bowing the position


, of the body ,

the arms and the head while saluting the


, ,

methods of s h utting and Ope n in g the door ,

risin g and S itting down on the oor the ,

ma n ner of serving a meal or tea are all , , ,

with the min utest detai ls taught to the ,

y oung girl s who I im a gine nd it rather


, , ,

irksome I k no w two young girls of ne w


.

Japa n who nd no thi ng so weari some as


48 J APAN ES E G I RLS AN D WOMEN .

the best possible preparation for ski ll i n all


other arts This is especially t r ue of the
.

art of paintin g which is S imply the next


,

step after writing h as been learned The


, .

paintin g master when he comes to the


,

house brin gs n o design as a model but


, ,

sits down on the oor be fore the little


desk and on a sheet of paper paints with
,

great rapidity the des ign that he wishes


the pupil to com It m ay be si mply t wo
.

o r three blades of grass u pon which the

pupil makes a begin nin g but she is ex ,

p e cted to make her picture w i th exactly


the same n umber of bold st rokes that the
m aster puts into his Again and again .

she blunders her strokes on to a sh e et of


pape r unti l at last when sh eet afte r sheet
, ,

h as been spoiled she begins to see so me


,

semblan ce of the m aster s com i n her ow n

daub She persever es making copy after


.
,

copy unti l s he is able from memory to put


,

u pon the paper at a moment s notice the


three blad es Of grass to her m aster s sati s

fac tion O nly then can she go on to a


.

new com an d only after m any such d e


,

si gns have been com mitted to memory ,

an d the fr ee dashin g stroke n ecessary for


,

Japanese painting has been acquired is ,


ED UCA TI ON . 49

she allowed to undertake any co m ing fro m


n ature or original designing
,
.

I have dwelt thus fa r only upon the e n


tire ly Japanese ed ucat io n that was per
m i tte d to women under the Ol d r eg i m e .

That it was an effective and re nin g sys


tem a l l can testi fy who h ave m a de the ac
,

q ua intance of any of the charmin g Japa


nese ladies whose schoolin g was n ished
be fore Co m m odore Perry disturbed the re
pose of old Japan As I write the image
.
,

comes before m e of a S weet fa ced brigh t -


,

eyed li ttle gentlewoma n with who m i t was


m y good fortun e to become intimate ly a c

i t d during stay i T k A
'

q ua n e m y n o .

wido w left pen niless with one ch ild to


, ,

support she earned the merest p ittan ce


,

by teachin g sewing at one of the govern


ment schools in TOkyO ; but in a ll the cir
cum sta nces of her li fe n arro w an d busy
,

as it needs m ust be S he proved hersel f a


,

l ady through and through Polite cheer


.
,

ful an intelligent an d cultivated reader


, ,

a thri fty housekeeper a loving and c a re


,

ful mother a true an d help ful fr iend her


, ,

m e m ory is associated with man y of my

p leasantest hours in Japan and Sh e is but ,

one of the many who bear witness to the


50 J APAN ES E G I R LS AN D WOMEN .

culture that might be acq uir ed by women


i n the ol d days .

But the Japan o f ol d is not the Japan


o f t o-d ay and in the school syste m now
,

prevalen t throughout the em p ire girls an d

schools e stabl ished by the various m ission


ary socie ties and then the g over nmen t
,

schools o ered to girls a broad er ed ucation


,

than the ol d inst ruction in Chin ese i n ,

eti quette and in accom plishments Now


, .
,

every mornin g the streets of the citie s an d


,

villages a re alive with boys and girls clat


tering al on g with their books and lunch
,

boxes i n their hand s to the ki ndergar ten


, ,

primary grammar high or n ormal schoo l


, , , .

Every rank in l ife eve ry grad e i n lea rn ing


, ,

may nd its prope r place i n the n ew school


s ystem , a n d the g irls eage rly gr asp their

opportu niti es and S how themselves apt


,

a n d willin g students of the new lea rn ing

By the new syste m at its pre se nt sta ge ,

of development too m uch is expecte d of


,

the Ja pane se boy o r girl The work r e .

quired would be a burden to the quickest


mind The whole of the ol d ed ucation i n
.

Japan ese and Chin e se literature and co m


ED U CA TI ON . 51

position e u educat ion requirin g be st the
years of a boy s li fe i s given a n d grafte d

,

u pon this our com mon sch ool an d high


,
-

school studies of mathematics geography , ,

histo ry an d natural scie n ce I n addition


,

to these at all higher schools one foreign


, ,

lan guage is requi red a n d often two En g , ,

l ish ran king rst i n the popular esti m a


tion Many a head ache do the poor hard
. ,

workin g students have over the puzzli n g


En gl ish lan guage in whi c h they have to
,

begi n at the wron g end of th e hook and


read across th e page fro m le ft to r ig ht i n ,

stea d of from top to bot to m a n d from right ,

to l eft as is n a tural to the m


, But in spite .

of its hard work the ne w school l ife is


,

cheer ful a nd heal th ful and th e chi l d re n ,

enjoy i t It helps them to be re a l ly chil


.

dren and w hile they a r e youn g to be


, , ,

me rry an d playful not dig n ied and formal


,

little lad ies at all ti m e s Upon the youn g .

girl s the inuence of the sc hools is to


,

m a ke them m ore in d ependent sel f reliant ,


-
,

a n d stro n ger women I n the hou ses o f


.

the h igh e r classe s even now m uc h o f the


, ,

ol d t i m e sy stem of repres s ion is s till i n


-

force . Chil d re n are indeed se e n b ut n ot

heard ,
an d from the time wh e n they
52 J APAN ES E GI RL S AN D WOM EN .

learn to walk they must learn to be polite


and d igni ed At school the more pro
.
,

g r e s si ve feeling of t h e times predomin ates


among the a uthorities and the children ,

are encouraged to u nbend and enjoy the m


selves i n games and frolics as true children ,

should do Much is done for the pleasure


.

of the little ones who o ften enjoy schoo l


,

better than home and declare that they do


,

n o t like holi d ay s .

But the yo un g girl who has nished ,

this pl e a sant school li fe with all its a d ,

vanta ges i s n ot as well tted a s u nder


,

the old sy stem for the d uties a nd trials


o f married li fe unless u nder exceptional
,

circu m sta nces where the h usband chosen


,

has ad vanced id eas To those tea chin g th e


.

youn g g irls of Japan to d a y the problem of


-
,

how to educate the m aright is a deep one ,

and with each n ew ly trained girl sent out


go m a ny hope s mi n gled wit h anxieties i n
, ,

regard to the tra ini ng she ha s had as a


prep a ration for t he new li fe She is a bout to
ente r The few the pioneer s wil l have to
.
, ,

su ffe r for the happine ss a nd good of the


m a ny for the problem o f gra ft ing the n e w
,

on to the old is indeed a di fc ult one to be ,

solved only after m a ny experiments .


ED UCA TI ON . 53

There are many d ii c ul ti es which l ie i n


the way of the new school s that must be
met s tudi ed an d overcome O ne of the m
, , .

is the one alr eady re ferred to the proble m ,

of how best to combin e the new a n d the

ol d in the school curriculum That the old .

learn in g an d literatu re the ol d po l iten ess


,

and sweetness of man ner must not be ,

given u p or made little of is evident to ,

every righ t-minded student of the matter .

That the newer and broader culture wit h ,

its higher morality its greate r develop


,

ment of the best powers of the mind m us t ,

play a large part in the Japan of the fu


tur e there is not a sh adow of doubt and
, ,

the women m ust not be le ft behind in the


onwa rd movement of the n ation But how .

to give to the young minds the best pro


ducts of the thought of two such distinct
civi liza tions is a que stion that is as yet n u
answe red an d can not be satis factoril y set
,

tl ed until the e ffect Of the new educati on


has begun to show itse l f i n a generation or
so of graduates from the new schools An .

other d ifcul ty is in the m atter of health .

Most of the new School houses are tted-

with seats and d esks such as are foun d


,

in A me rican schools Many of them are


.
heated by stoves or furna ces The schol ars.

in most cases wea r the Japan ese dres s ,

w hich in w i nter is m ade warm eno ug h to


be worn in rooms havin g no a rticial heat .

Put thi s warm co stu me in to an a rticially


hea te d room an d the result is an over
h eati ng of the body and a subsequent chi ll
,

when the p upil goes with no extra cover


,

i ng i nto the k ee o
,
n ut -o f door air
- From .

t his cause alone arise many col d s and


,

l ung troubl es wh ich can be prevente d


,

wh e n m ore experience has shown how the


co stu mes of the Eas t an d We st can be com
b ined to suit the ne w condi ti ons Another .

part of the health problem lies in the fact


that i n many cases the paren ts do n ot
u nd e rstan d th e p rOpe r care of a growing

girl a m bi tions to excel in her studies I a


,
.

stea d of the regular hours hea lth ful food


, ,

and gentle re straint that a girl needs un der


th ose cir cum stances our l ittle Japanes e
,

maiden is all owed to sit up to any hour O f


t he n i ght or arise at any hour in the
,

morn ing to pre pare her les sons is given


, ,

food Of most ind igestibl e q uality at all


ho u rs of the day between her regular meals ,

an d is frequently u rged to gre ater mental


exertion than her del icate body ca n eu
d ure .
56 J APAN ES E GI RL S AN D WOMEN .

if they could be conducted with the p rOpe r


a d mixture of Eastern and Western learn

in g and man ners do a great deal toward


,

educating that generation The m ission


.

ary schools do much i n this direction but ,

the criticism of the Japanese upo n th e


m an ners of the girls educated in m ission

ary schools is un iversally severe To a .

foreigner wh o has lived al most entirely


a mon g Japanese ladies of pure Japanese

e ducation the man ners of the girls in these


,

sch ools seem brusque an d awkw a rd ; an d

though they are many of them noble


women an d doin g noble work there i s,

r oom for hope that in the future of Japan

th e charm of m an ner which is the distin


g u i sh i n g feature of the Japanese woman
will not be lost by contact with our West
ern S hortness and rough ness A happy
.

mean u ndoubtedly can be reached ; a n d


when it is the women of new Japan will
,

be able to bear a n ot un favorable compari


son wit h the wo m e n of t he old r egi m e .
CHA PT E R I II .

m a m as AN D DI vonC E .

WH EN the Japanese maide n arrives at


the age of si xteen or thereabo uts she is
, ,

expected as a m a tter of course to marry .

She is usually allowed her choice in regard


to whether she will or will not mar ry a
certai n man but sh e is expected to marry
,

some one and not to take too much ti me


,

i n makin g u p her mind The alternative .

of perpetual spinsterhood is never con sid

ered either by h ersel f or her parents


,
.

Marriage is as much a matter of course


in a woman s li fe as death a nd is n o more

,

to be avoided This being the case our


.
,

youn g woman has only as m uch liberty of


choice accorded to her as is likely to pro
vide against a gre a t a m ount of unhap pi
ness in her married li fe I f she positively
.

dislikes the man who is submi tted to her


for inspection she is seldom forced to
,

m a rry h im b ut no more cordial fe el ing


,

than simple toleration is expected of her


be fore ma rriage .
58 J APAN ES E GI RL S AN D WOMEN .

cou rtship is so m e what after the fol


The
lowi n g manner A young man who n ds .
,

himsel f in a position to m arry S pe a ks to ,

some married friend and a sk s h im to be ,

on the lookout for a beauti ful and a c


1

1
The Ja p a nese st a n a rd d of fe m al e bea uty differs in
m a ny res p e cts fr om our own , so tha t it is a l m ost im p os
si bl e for a fore ig ner vis itin g Ja p a n to com p reh e n d th e

j udg m e nts of th e Ja p a nese in re g a r d to th e bea uty of

t h e ir own w om e n , a n d e ve n m ore im p oss i l e for the n ub


d J p n e e to discove
t ra v el e a a s r th e re as ons for a fore ig n
e s j udg m n t up on e ith e Ja a n ese o fore i n b ea uti e s

r e s
p g r r .

To th e Ja p ne se the i de a l fem al e fac e m us t b e l ong a nd


a ,

na r ow ; th e fore h e a d hi g h a nd na rr ow i n t he m iddl e b ut
r ,

wi de ning a nd l owering a t th e si de s conform ing t th e , o

outl ine of th e bel ove d Fuj i th e m oun ta in th a t Ja p a nese ,

a r t l ove s t o p i ctu e The ha ir s houl d b e stra igh t a nd


r .

g l oss y b l a ck a n d a b sol ut,e l y sm ooth Ja p a nese l a di es .

wh o ha ve th e m i s fortun e to ha ve a ny wa ve or rip p l e

th e ir ha ir , as m a ny of the m d o, are a t a s m uch p a i ns to


str a igh ten it in th e dre ssing as Am e r ica n l a dies a re to
sim ul a te a na tur al curl , wh e n Na ture h as de nied th e m
tha t ch a rm . The e ye s sh oul d b e l ong a nd na rrow , sl a nt

i ng d a t the oute co ne ; a n d the e ye brows


up w a r r r rs

s h oul d b e d e l ica te l in e s hig h bove the e ye itsel f The,


a .

distin tl y a quili n e n ose shoul d b e l ow a t the b idg e the


c r ,

c u ve outw a d b eg inni ng
r r u h l ow e r d ow n th a n up on m c

t h e Ca u as ia n fa ce ; a nd th e e ye sock t S h ul d n ot b e out
c - e o

l i n e d a t a ll e ith e b y th b ow th ch e k o b y the
, r e r , e e , r

n seo I t is th is a tne ss of th e fa ce b ut th e e ye s t h a t
. a o

g ives t h e il dn ess of e x p re ss i n t
m l l y oung p e p l e of o o a o

M ng l ia n typ th t i s n ti a bl e
o o e t a it al w y s in
a s o o ce a r a

th eir p h y siog n om y . Th e m outh o f a n a ris to cr a tic Ja p a s

nese la y d m ust be sm a ll , a nd th e l ip s full a nd re d ; the


MARRI A GE AN D DI VOR CE . 59

complished maiden who would be willin g ,

to become his wi fe The friend actin g .


,

neck , a consp icuous fea tur e a l wa ys


wh e n the Ja p a nese
dress is w orn , sh oul d be l ong a nd sl e n e r , a nd g ra ce d
ful l y cur ve d . The com p l e x ion sh oul b e l ig h t , d
a cl ea r

ivory -white , with littl e col or i n t he ch ee k s . The bl oom


ing countr y g irl st yl e of bea uty is not d m a ir e d , a nd e ver y

thing , e ve n t o col or in the chee k s , m us t be sac r ice d to

ga in the deli cacy tha t is the sine qua non of th e Ja p a nese


bea uty . The g ure sh oul d b e d
sl e n e r , th e wa is t l ong ,

b ut not e sp e cia l l y sm a ll , a nd th e hip s na rr ow , to secure

the be st effe ct with the Ja p a nese dress The h ea d a nd .

sh oul ders sh oul d b e ca ie d sl ig htl y fo wa r d a nd the


rr r ,

body sh oul d a l so b be nt fo wa d l ig htl y a t the wa ist to


e r r s ,

se cure th e m os t wom a nl y a nd a ris toc ra ti c ca rr ia g e . In


wal k ing , th e st e p sh oul d be sh or t a nd quic k , with the
toes tur ne d in a nd the foot lifte d so sl ig htl y th t e ith er
, a

cl og or sa ndal w ill scuff with e ve y ste p Th is is ne ces r .

sa r y for m ode st y wi th the n ow skirt of th e Ja p a ne se


, a rr

d ress .

Contr ast with this t yp e the fa ir , curl ing h a ir , th e r oun d


bl ue ey es , th e rosy ch e e k s , the ere ct , sl im - wa is te d ,
l a rg e
d
hip p e g ure s of m a ny fore ig n be a ut ie s , th e ra p i d ,

l ong , cl e a n-s te p p ing wa l k , a nd th e a ir of a l m os t m as c ul ine

stre ng th a nd in d ep e n de n ce , w h ich b e l ongs esp e cia ll y to


Eng l is h a nd Am e rica n w om en, a nd on e ca n se e h ow the
Ja p a nese n d l ittl e th a t th e y re c og n iz e as bea uty a m ong

the m . Bl ue e ye s , se t into d eep sock e ts , a nd w ith th e


b idge
r of t he nos e ris i ng as a ba rr ie r b e t we e n th e m ,

p art ae r ce g r ote s que ness to th e fa ce , th a t th e untr a vel e d


Ja p a ne se se l om a m ir e d d
Th e ve r y a ies w il l sc re a m
. b b
wi th h orror at r s t S ig h t of a bl u d l igh t h
e -e y e ,
- a ir e d
fore ig ner , a nd it is onl y a fte r co n s id a bl f
er il i e am a r it y

with such p ersons th a t th e y ca n b e induce d to h w S o a ny

d
thing b ut t he wil e st frig h t in their p re se nce . Fore ig n
60 J APAN ES E GI RL S AN D WOMEN .

rather as advance agent m a kes a can ,



vas s o f a ll the yo un g m aid e n s of h is a o

quaintance inquiri n g amo n g h is friends ;


,

and nal ly decides that s o and so (M iss - -

Flower let us sa y) wil l be a v e ry good


,

match for his friend Havi n g arri ved at .

t his decision he goes to Mi s s Flower s



,

parents and lays the case of his friend be


fore them Should they a pprove of the
.

s uitor a party is arra nged a t the house


,

of some com m on friend w here the youn g ,

people m a y h a ve a cha nce to m eet each


other a n d decide each upon the other s

m erits S hould t h e yo un g fo l ks nd n o
.

fault with the m atch pre se n ts are ex ,

chan ged a form a l b etrot hal i s en t ered


1
,

into a nd the marri a ge is h ast e ned for


,

ward Al l ar ra n ge m e nts b e t ween the con


.

tracting partie s a re m ad e by go betweens -


,

or seco n d s who hold the m se lve s re sponsi


,

er s wh o h a ve l ive d a g r ea t d e a l a m ong th e Ja p a n e se n d
t h e ir s ta n d d ar s un cons cio us l y ch a ng i ng , a nd se e , t o t h e ir

own s ur
p r ise , t h a t t h e ir c ou n t r y w om e n l ook unga inl y ,

e r ce , a g g re ssiv e , a n d aw k wa r d a m ong th e sm a l l , m il d ,

shr inki ng , a nd g ra c e ful Ja p a nese l a ie s d .

1
Th e p rese n t f r om t h e g r oo m i s u s ua l l y a p i e ce of
ha n ds om e sil k , us e d
for th e obi or gi r l e Th is ta k es th e d .

p l a ce of th e c on v e n tion a l e ng a g e m e n t r ing of Eur op e a nd

Am e ri ca . Fr om th e f a m il y of th e b idr e , sil k , s uch a s is


m a de up i nto m en s

dre ss e s, is se nt .
MARRI A GE AN D DI VORCE . 61

ble for the success of the marriage and ,

must be concern e d i n the divorce procee d


i n gs should divor ce be come desirabl e or
,

n eces sa ry .

The ma rriage cer emony which see ms to ,

be n e ither r el igio us nor l eg a l in its nature ,

takes pl ace at the house of the groom to ,

whi ch the bride is carri e d ac com pan i e d by


,

her go betwee ns a nd if she be of the


, ,

higher cla sse s by her own con de ntial


,

maid who wi l l se rve her as her perso nal


,

atten dant in the new life in her husband s
house The t ro usse au a nd ho usehold goods
.
,

whi ch the bride is expected to bring with


her are sent be fore
, Th e house hold goods
.

req ui red by custom as a pa rt of the outt

of e ve ry bri de a re as fol lows : A bureau ; a


-box
low desk or table for writi ng ; a work ;
two of the la cquer trays or t ables on which
meal s are served together with everythin g
,

requi red for furnishi n g them even to th e ,

chopsti cks ; an d two or m ore complete sets


of han d some bed fu rn ishings The trous .

sca n wi l l co ntain i f the bride be of a well


,

to d o fam ily dre sses for all seas ons an d


-
, ,

handsome sashes without n umber ; for the


unchan ging fashions of Japan together ,

with t he durable q uality of the dress m ate


62 J APAN ES E GI RLS AN D WOMEN .

rial make it possible for a wom an at the


, ,

tim e o f her marriage to e nter her h us ,


~

ba n d s house with a supply of clothing that


may las t her throug h her li fetime The .

pa rents of t he bride in givin g up their ,

d aughte r as they do when she marries


, ,

show the estimation in which they have


held her by the beauty and comple teness
o f the trousseau with wh ich they provide

her This is her very own ; and in the


.

event of a d ivorce she brin gs back with


,

her to her father s house the clothin g and


household goods that she carried away a s


a bride .

W ith the bride and her trous seau are


sent a g reat n um ber of pres e n ts from the
fam ily of the bride to the members of the
groom s household Eac h membe r of the

.

fa m ily from the a ged grand father to the


,

youn gest grandchild receives so me remem ,

brance of the occas ion ; and even the se r


vants and retai ners down to the p n rikishu
,

men a nd the bath? in the stables are not


, ,

forgotten by the bride s relatives Beside


.

this present givin g the friends a nd re la


-
,

t ive s of the b ride and groom as i n this ,

country send gi fts to the youn g couple


, ,

o ften some article for use in the ho usehold ,

or c rep e o r silk fo r dre ss e s .


64 JAPAN ES E G I R Ls AN D WOMEN .

of the bride s family a re invited The youn g



.

couple bring wi th them prese n ts from the


groom s family to the bride s i n retur n for

,

the prese nts sent on the wedding day .

The fest iviti es o ften begin early i n the


aftern oon a nd keep up u ntil late at n ight .

A ne din ner is se rved and m usic and ,

dancin g by pro fessional pe rformers or


, ,

some other entertain ment serve to make ,

the time pass pl easantly The bride a p .

pears as hostess w ith her mother enter ,

taining the company and recei ving their ,

con gratulations an d m ust remain to speed


,

the last departin g guest be fore leavin g ,

the pa ternal roof .

Within the cou rse of two or th ree


months the newly married couple are ex
,

p e c te d to give an entertain ment o r series ,

o f en te rtain ments t o their friends as an


, ,

a n nou ncement of the marriage As the .

wedding ceremony is private a nd no notice ,

is given nor are cards se nt out this is


, ,

sometimes the rst intimation t hat is re


ce ive d of the marriage by many o f the

acqu a intances though the news o f a wed


,

di n g usually travels quickly The ente r .

ta in m e nt may be a dinner party given a t ,

home or at some tea house si milar i n


,
-
,
M ARRI A GE AN D DI VORCE . 65

m any ways to the one given at th e b ride s

home by her pa rents Sometimes it is a.

ga rden party a nd ve ry l ate ly it has be come


,

the fas hion for ofcials and people of high


rank to give a ba ll in foreign style .

Besides the en tertai n men t p resents of ,

red rice or m ochi are sent as a token of


, ,

thanks to all who have remembe red the


youn g couple The se a re arran ge d even
.

more elaborately than the ones sent a fte r


the birth o f a n heir .

The young people ar e not as i n this ,

country expect ed to set up housekeepin g


,

by themselves and establish a new home


, .

Marri ages o fte n take place early i n li fe ,

even be fore the husband has any means of


su pportin g a family ; and as a ma tter of
course a son wi t h his w ife makes his
,

abode with h is pare nts and forms simply ,

a ne w branch of the household .

The only a ct require d to make the mar


ria e legal is the withd rawal of the bride s

g

na me from the l ist of her father s fa mily as
registered by the govern ment and its entry ,

upon the re gister of her h usband s family


.

From that time forward she severs a ll ti es


wi th her father s house save th ose of

,

an d is more closely related by


'

aecti on ,
66 J APAN ES E GI RL S AN D WOMEN .

l aw c ustom to her husban d s relatives


a nd

t han to her own E ve n t h is legal r ecog ni


.

tion of h er marriage is a compara tively


n e w t hing in Japan as is any limitatio n of ,

the right of divorce on the part of t he


husband or extension of that right t o the
,

"
wi fe .

At present i n Japan the marriage rel a


t ion is by no means a permanent one as it ,

is virtually dissoluble at the will of either


party and the condition of public Opinion
,

is such among the l o wer classes that it is


n ot an unknown occ urrence for a m a n to

m arry and divorce severa l wives i n succes

sion ; and for a woman who has been ,

divorced o nce or twice to be willing a nd ,

able to m arry well a second or even a third


time Among the higher classes the
.
,

dread of the scandal and gossip that m ust ,

att a ch the m selves to troubles between m a n


and wi fe serves a s a restraint upon too
,

free use of the power of divorce ; but sti ll ,

1
As ea rl y a s 1 870 an e dict was pu blish e d b y which
o cia l n otice a n d a p p r o ba ti on were m a de ne ce ssa r y p re

l im ina r ie s to e ve r y m a tri m oni a l c ontr a c t . I n th e fol l ow


ing y e a r th e cl a ss -l im ita tions up on f r e e om of d m a rr ia g e

b d
we r e a olish e , a nd tw o yea rs l a te r th e r ig ht of s ui ng f or
a di vorce was conce de d to th e wif e Rein s Jap a n, p

.
M AR RI A GE AN D DI VORC E . 67

divorces among the higher class es are so


co m mo n no w t hat o ne m ee ts nu me rous
r espectab le a nd res pec ted persons w ho
have at some ti me i n their lives gone
through suc h a n e x peri e nce .

O ne pro vis ion of the law whi ch se rves to


,

make most mo thers en d ure any evi l of


married li fe rather tha n sue for a di vorce ,

is the fact that the c hi ldre n belong to the


father ; a nd no ma tter how unt a perso n
he may be to have the care of them the ,

dis posal of them in case of a divorce rests


a b solutely with hi m A divo rced woman
.

retu rns ch ildless to her father s hous e ;

and many women in consequence of th is


,

law or custo m will do t heir best to keep


,

the fami ly together workin g the more


,

str enuously in thi s directi on the more ,

brutal a nd wort hl ess the husband proves


himse lf to be .

The ancestor worsh ip as found in Japan


,

,

the traci n g of rel ati on shi p i n the male


line onl y an d the generally accepte d be
,

lie f that childre n in he rit their qu al iti e s


from the ir father rath e r than from the
mother make them his ch ildren and not
,

hers T hus we ofte n see ch ildren of noble


.

rank on the father s side b ut igno ble on



,
68 J APAN ES E G I RLS AN D WOMEN .

the mother s in herit the ra nk of their



,

father and not permitte d eve n to reco g


,

n ize their mother as i n any way t heir

equal I f she is plebei an the child ren


.
,

a re not re garded as tainted by it .

I n the case of d ivorce even if the law ,

allowed the mother to keep her ch ildren ,

it would be almost an im possibility for her


to do so She has no means of earning
.

her bread and thei rs for fe w occupations


,

are open to women a nd she is force d to


,

become a dependent on her father or some ,

male relative Whatever they may be


.

willing to d o for her it is quite likely that


,

they would begrudge aid to the children of


an other family with whom custom h ardly
,

recognizes any tie The children are the


.

children of the man whose n ame they bear .

I f the woma n is a favorite daughter it m ay ,

happen that her father will take her a nd


her children under his roo f and su pport ,

them all ; but this i s a ra re exception and ,

only possible when the h usband rst gives


up all clai m to the children .

There comes to my mi nd now a case


illustrating this point which I think I may
,

cite without betrayi ng condence It is .

that of a most attractive young woman


MA RRI A GE AN D DI VOR CE . 69

who was mar ried to a worthless husband ,

but lived faith fully wit h him for severa l


years and became the mot her of three
,

children The h usban d who seemed at


.
,

rst merely good for not hing becam e


-
,

worse as the years went by drank him ,

sel f out of situatio n after situatio n p ro


cured for him by pow erful relatives and at ,

last became so violent t hat he even beat


h is wi fe an d t hreatened his children a ,

proceeding mo s t u n u sual on the part of


a Japanese husband and father The poor .

wi fe was at last obliged to ee fro m her


husband s house to her mother s takin g

,

her children with her She sued for a di


.

vorce an d ob tained it and is now married


,

agai n ; her youth good look s a nd high


, ,

connections procuring her a very goo d


catch for he r second venture in matri
mony but her children are lost to her ,

a nd belong wholly to their worthless ,

d runke n fat her .

O f t he lack of permanence i n the m a r


r ia e rel a tion a m on g t he lo wer cla sses the
g ,

d o m estic change s of one of my serv a nts i n


To ky o afford an amu si n g illu stra tion The .

man who m I h a d hired in the doubl e


,

capacity of jinri kisha man a nd betta o r


groom was a stron g faith ful pleasant
, , ,

faced fellow recently come to T o ky o from


,

the cou n try I inquired when I en gaged


.
,

him whether he had a w ife as I wan ted


, ,

some one who could remain i n his room i n


the stable in ca re o f the horse when he
was pullin g me about in the jm r ikis ha He .

replied that he had a wi fe but she was now ,

at Utsunomiya the co untry town fro m ,

which he had come but he would send for ,

her at once an d she would be in To ky o i n


,

the course of a wee k or two Two or th ree .

weeks passed and n o wi fe appea red so I ,

inquired of my cook a nd hea d servant


what had become of Ya sa ku s wi fe He
.

replied with a twinkle in his eye that she


, ,

h a d found work in Utsunomiya and did not


wi sh to come A week more pas se d and
.
,

sti ll n o wi fe an d further inqui ries elicited


,

fro m the cook th e i n forma tion that Y a sa k u


had divorce d her for disobedience and was ,

o n the lookout for a n ew and more docile

hel pmate His rst thought wa s of the


.

maidservant of the Japanese family who


lived in the s a me house with m e a b roa d ,

faced r ed checked country girl of a very


,
-
,

low grade of inte llige nce He gave this .

up however becau s e he thought it would


, ,
The day chose n for the marri a ge was
rainy and though Y a sa k u spe nt all his
, ,

ti me i n goin g to trains n o bridal party


,

appe a red ; a n d he came home at night d is


con solate to smoke his good night pipe
,
-

over his solitary hiba chi He was n o


.
,

doubt an gry as well as discon so late for he


, ,

sat down an d pen n ed a seve re letter to h is


father in whi c h he said that i f the bride
, ,

did not appear o n the ne xt day counted


lucky for a wedding (no Japan e se woul d
be married o n an u nlucky day ) they co ul d ,

send her ba ck to her father s house for he


,

would none of her This let te r did its


.

work for on the next lucky day about te n


, ,

days later the bride appeared and Yasa k u


, ,

was given two days of hol iday o n the agree


ment that he should not be ma rried agai n
while he remain ed in my service O n the .

evening of the second day the bride came ,

i n to pay me her respects and crouch ing , ,

on her hands and knees be fore me liter ,

ally trembled n nd e r the excitement of her


rst introd uction to a foreigner S he was .

a girl of rather unattractive exte rior fa t ,

and heavy and rather older t ha n Y a sa k u


,

had bargained for I i magine ; at any rate


, ,

from the fi rst he seemed dissatis fied with


,
MA RRI A G E AN D DI VORCE . 73

his pig in a poke a nd a ft er a couple of


,

months se nt her home to her pa re nts and ,

was a ll ready to start out aga in in the ho m e


of better luck nex t time .

Here is a nother in stance from the wo ,

man s side Upon one occasi on when I



.
,

was visi ti n g a Japa n ese lady of high rank


who kept a re tin ue of se rvants the we ,

m a n who ca me in wi th the tea bowed and

smiled u pon me as if gr eeti n g me after s


long absence As I w as in and out of the
.

hou se n early every day I was a little sur


,

prised at this demonstration which was ,

qui t e d iffe rent from the formal how that


is given by the servant to her mistress s

guest upon ordin ary occasion s W hen she .

went out my friend said You see 0 Kiku ,



has come back As I did not know that
.

the woman had bee n away the news of ,

her retu rn did not affect me grea tly until


I lea rned the history o f her departure It .

seem ed that about a month be fore she had ,

l eft her m istress s house to be married ;


and the day be fore my visit she had quietly


pre sente d hersel f and announced that she
,

had come back i f they would take her in


,
.

My friend had asked her what had hap


pen ed whether she had fo und her hus
,
74 J P A A N ES E G I R LS AN D WOM EN .

band unkind No her h usband was very


.
,

nice very kind and good but his mother


, ,

was simply unbeara ble ; she made her work


so hard that she actually had no time t o

rest at all S he ha d k nown be fore her


.

m a rriage that her proposed mother in -la w


was a h rd task mist re ss but her h usban d
a -
,

had p romised that h is mother should live


with hi s older bro ther an d they should ,

have the ir housekeeping quite i ndependen t


a n d separate As the mother was then
.

l ivi ng wi th her older son it seemed un ,

l ikely that she wou l d care to move a nd ,

O Kik u San had married o n that supposi


tion But it see med that the wife of the
.

older brother was both lazy and bad te m -

pe red and the ne w wi fe o f the yo unger


,

brother soon proved hersel f industrious


and good natured A s the mothe r s mai n
- .

thought was to go where she would get


the most com fort and waitin g u pon she ,

m oved from the elder son s house to that

o f her younger so n and began leading her ,

new daughte r i n-l a w such a li fe that she


-

soon gave u p the effort to live with her


husband s ued for a divorce obta ined it
, , ,

and was back i n her ol d pl a ce all in a ,

month s time from the date of her m ar


ri ng e .
MARRI A GE AN D DI VORCE . 75

But our readers m ust n ot suppose fro m ,

the vario us incidents given t hat fe w ,

h appy marri a ges ta ke place in Japan or ,

that in every ra nk of l ife divorce is of


, ,

every day occ urrence


- O n the contrary
.
,

t here s eems cause for won d er not t hat ,

there are so many divorce s b ut that there ,

ar e so many happy marriages with wives ,

and h usbands devote d an d fait hful For a .

nobleman i n the olden tim es to divorce his


wi fe wo ul d have ca used suc h a scan da l a n d
talk t hat it rarely occurred I f the w ife .

were disliked he need h ave little or no th


,

ing to do wit h her their rooms t heir , ,

meals and t heir attenda nce being entirely


,

separate b ut he rarely took away fro m her


,

the name of wi fe e m pty as it m ight be


, .

She us ually would be fro m so m e other


noble house and great tro uble wo uld arise
,

betwee n the fa m ilies i f he attempted to


divorce her The sa m ur a i also with t he
.
,

same loyalty which they displayed for their


lords were loyal to their wives a nd many
, ,

a nove l h a s been written or play ac ted , ,

showin g the devotion of h usban d and wi fe .

Th e qu iet undemon stra ti ve love though


, ,

very di fferent fro m the ra vings of a lover


i n t he nineteenth century novel is per hap s ,

truer to li fe .
76 JA PAN ES E G I RLS AN D WOMEN .

Among the me rchants and lower clas ses


there has bee n and is a much lower stand, ,

a rd of mora lity but the fe w years which ,

have passe d since the Re volution of 1 868


a re not a fair sam ple o f what Japan has

been Noblemen sa nm ra i and merc h an ts


. , ,

have had m uch to undergo in the great


changes an d a s is the case i n al l such
, ,

tran sition periods ol d custo ms and re ,

s t ra in ts and ol d standard s of morali ty


, ,

have been broken down and have not bee n


re placed There i s no doubt that men
.

h ave run to excesses of all sorts a nd di ,

vor ce s have bee n much more frequent of

late yea rs .

O ur little Japanese maiden knows when ,

she blacken s her teeth dons her weddin g ,

dress a n d starts on her bridal journ ey to


,

her husband s house that upon her good



,

behavior alone depe nd her chan ce s of a


happy li fe S he is to be hence forth the
.

p roperty of a m a n of whom she proba bly


k nows little and wh o has the power at
, ,

a ny wh im to send her back to her father s



,

house in disgrace deprived of her children , ,

with nothing to live for or h O pe for ex ,

cept that some man will overlook the dis

grace Of her divorce and by marryin g her ,


MARRI AG E AN D DI VORCE . 77

give her the only Opportunity that a Jap


anese woman ca n have of a home other
t ha n that o f a ser vant o r dependent That .

th ese evil s wil l be remedied i n time the re ,

see ms little reas on to do ubt but j ust now


,

the va rious cooks who a re en gage d in bre w


ing the brot h of t he new civi lization a re
d isa greed in rega rd to the con d i ments t e
quired for its pro per avorin g The con .

ser va ti ves wish to avor st rongly with the

subjection an d depe ndence of women be ,

lieving that only by that mean s ca n fem i


nine virtue be preserved The yo unger
.

m en of foreign ed ucation would drop into


, ,

the boil in g pot the avor of culture and


broa d er outlook ; for by this m ean s they
hope to secu re happier homes for a l l and ,

better mothers for their child ren The .

missiona ries an d native Christians be l i e ve


that when the whole mixture is well i m
,

p g
re n a te d with practi cal Christ ianity the ,

desired result will be ac hieved All are .

agreed on this point that a stron g public


,

Opi nion is necessary be fore improved leg


is l a tio n can produce much effect ; and
so for the p re sent legislation remains i n
, ,

the bac k g round until the time shall come


,

whe n it can be used in the right way .


78 J APANESE GI R LS AN D WOMEN .

Letus exam ine the two re medies sug


gested by the re fo r mers a nd see w hat
,

e ffect has been prod uced by each so far ,

an d what m ay be ex pected of them in t he


futu re .Ta king ed ucatio n rst what are ,

the effects prod uced so fa r by ed ucating


women to a point above the ol d Japa n e se
standard ? I n m a ny happy homes to day -
,

we nd husban ds educa ted abroa d a nd ,

kn o win g somet hin g of the home l ife of


foreign lan d s who have so ught out wi ves
,

of broad intellectual culture and who make,

them friends and condante not simply ,

housekeepers and head servants I n such


-
.

homes the wi fe h as freedom not such as ,

is enjoyed by A merica n women perhaps , ,

but equal to that of most Eu ro pean women .

I n such homes love an d equality r ule and ,

th e power of the m other i h -law grows weak


-
.

To her is p a id due res pec t but she se ldom


,

has the despoti c control which o ften mak es


the begin ning of married li fe hard to the
Japa nese wi fe These homes are sending
.

out h e al thy inuences that a re daily hav

in g their e ffect and raising the positio n Of


,

women in Japan .

But for the youn g girl whose mind has


been broadened by the new education an d ,
80 JAPAN ES E G I RLS AN D WOMEN .

p l a in duty al ways lay in the path o f i m


p l ici t obedience to her superiors and who
,

n ever for one moment con sidered obedience

to the di ctates of her own reason and


con science as an obli gation higher than
de fere nce to the wi s hes of husba n d a nd
pa rents Education without further ame
.
,

l iora tion of the ir lot as wives and mothers ,

can but re sult i n making the women dis


contente d a n d unhappy i u many cases
,

inju rin g their health by worry over the


consta nt petty disappointments and ham ed

des ires of their lives .

Thi s to supercial observers wo ul d seem


a step backward rather t ha n forward and ,

it is to this ca use that the present reaction


against fem ale educati on may be t raced .

The rst generation or two of educa ted


women must endure m uch for the sake of
those who come after an d by many this
,

vi carious s ue ri n g is m isunderstood a nd
'

di staste on the part of educated girls for


marriage as it n ow exists in J a pan is t e
, ,

garded as one of the sure signs that ed uca


ti on is a failu re W ithout some chan ge
.

in the positio n: of wi fe and mother this ,

feeling will grow into absol ute re pugn a nce ,

i f women continue to be educated a fter the


Weste rn fash ion .
MA RRI AG E AN D DI VOR CE . 81

The second remedy that is suggested is


Christianity a remedy which is eve n now
,

a t work W herever one nds in Japan a


.

Christian home there one nds the wi fe


,

a n d mother occupyin g the pos ition t hat

s he occu ies all over Christen dom T h


p e .

Christ ian man in choo s ing his wi fe feels


, ,

that it is not an ordinary contract whic h ,

may be dissolved at a ny ti me at the will of


the contrac tin g parties but that it is a
,

union for li fe Consequently in making


.
,

his choice he is more care ful take s more ,

ti m e a nd thinks more of the personal


,

qualities of the woman he is about to


marry Thus the chances are better at
.

the beginnin g for the establishment of a .

happy ho m e a nd such ho m es for m ce ntres


,

of inuence throughout the length and

breadth Of the l a nd t o day Chri stianity


- .

in the future wi l l do much to moul d public


sentiment in t he right way and ca n be ,

truste d as a force that is sure to gro w in


ti m e to be a mighty po wer in the councils
of th e natio n .

O ne more reme dy might be sugge sted ,

as a preli m inary to proper legislation or a ,

necessary accompaniment Of it and that ,

is the Openi ng of new aven ues of employ


,
82 J APA N ES E G I RLS AN D WOMEN .

ment for women a n d espec ially for women


,

of the cultivated classes To -day ma rriage


.
,

no matter how di s taste ful is the only Open


,

ing for a woman ; for she can do nothing for


her own support an d can not require her
,

father to support her after she h as reac hed


a marriageable age As new ways o f se l f
.

support pre sent themselves a nd a woman ,

may look forward to making a single li fe


tolerable by her own labor the intelligent ,

girls of the middle class will no longe r


accept marriage as inevitable but will only ,

marry when the su itor can o ffer a good


home k indness aection an d secu rity i n


, , ,

th e tenure of these blessin gs SO fa r .


,

there is litt le em ployment for women ex ,

ce pt as teachers ; but even this chan ge i n


the conditi on O f thin gs is forming a class ,

as yet small but incr easin g yearly of


, ,

women who enjoy a li fe of indepe ndence ,

though accompanied by much hard work ,

more th a n the pre se nt li fe of a Japanese


m a rried woman I n this class we nd
.

some of the most inte lligent and respe cted


o f the women of new Japa n ; an d the
growth of this class is one of the su rest
sign s that the present state of the laws
an d customs concerning marriage an d
MARRI AGE AN D DI VOR CE . 83

d ivorce is so unsatisfac tory to the women


that it must eventually be remedie d if the ,

educated and intelligent of the m en care


to take for their wives and for the mo
,

t h ers of their children any but the less


,

educated and less intelligent of the wome n


o f t heir own nation
.
CHA PT E R I V

W I FE AN D M OTH ER .

TH E young wi fe when she ente rs her


,

husband s ho m e is not as in our own coun



, ,

try e nter i ug upon a new li fe as mistress of


,

a hou se wi th ab solute co n trol over all Of


,

her littl e d o m a in Should her hu s band s


.

pare nts be livi ng she becomes al most as


,

their ser vant a nd even her husband is un


,

able to d e fe n d her fro m the ex a ctions of


her moth e r i n law should this new relative
- -
,

be inclined to m ake ful l use of the power


give n her by cu stom Happy is the girl .

who se husband h as no parents Her com .

fort i n li fe is m a terially i ncreased by her


h u sband s loss for instead of having to

, ,

s e rve two masters she wi l l then have to


,

serve only one and that one more kind


,

a n d t ho ught ful o f her stren gth a n d com

fort than the mother in l a w - -


.

I n J a pa n the ide a of a wi fe s duty to h e r


h u sba n d includes n o thought of compau


ion s h ip on ter m s of equality The wi fe is .
WH E AN D M O TH ER

. 85

si mply the housekeeper the hea d of the ,

establ ish ment to be honored by the ser


,

vants because she is the one who is nearest


to th e master but not for one moment to
,

be regarded as t he master s equal



She .

govern s and directs the household if it be ,

a l a rge one a nd her position is one of muc h


,

ca re and responsi bility ; but she is not the


i ntimate frien d o f her h usband is i n no ,

sense his condante or adviser except in ,

t rivial affairs Of the household She a p .

pears rarely with h im i n public is ex ,

p ec t e d al ways to wait upo n hi m and save


hi m ste ps a nd m ust bear all t hin gs fro m
,

him with smiling face and agreeable man


ners even to the receivi ng wit h Ope n ar m s
,

into the household some other woman ,

whom she knows to bear the relation of


concubi ne to her own husband .

In return for this she has i f she be of


, ,

the higher classes much respect and honor


,

fro m t hose beneath her She has i n .


,

m a ny cases the real though o ften i ncon

siderate affection of her h usband I f sh e .

be the m other of children she i s doubly ,

honored a nd if she be endowed with a good


,

temper good man ners and tact she ca n


, , ,

render her position not only agreeable to


hersel f but one of great use ful ness to
,

those about her It li es with her alone to


.

make the home a pleasant one or to m ake ,

it unpleasant N oth in g is expected of the


.

h usband in this direction ; he may do as he


like s with his Own an d no one will blame
,

him ; but i f his home is not happy even ,

th rough his own folly or bad tem per the ,

blame will fall upon his wi fe who should ,

by managemen t d o whatever is n ecessary


to supply the deciencies ca u sed by her
hu s band s shortcom ings

I n all thin gs
.

t he husba nd goes rst the wife s e con d


, .

I f the husband d re w his fa n or his h a n d


kerchie f the wi fe picks it up The husb a nd
.

is se rved rst the wi fe a fte rw ar d s an d so


, , ,

on through the cou ntles s m i n ut im of daily

Iife
. It is not the id ea of the strong m an
consi dering the weak woman savin g her ,

exertion guardin g and de ferring to her ;


,

but it is the less im portant waiting upon


the more im portant the serv a nt de ferrin g
,

to her maste r .

But though the present pos ition O f a


Japane se wife is that of a dependent who
owes all she has to her protector and for ,

whom she is bound to do all she can i n


return the dependence is in many cases a
,
88 J APAN ESE S AN D
OB I - WOMEN .

the advantage th a t when her mother-in


,

law dies or retires she becomes the m is


,

tress of the ho use an d the head lady of the


fam ily a position for which her apprentice
,

sh ip to the Old lady has proba bly exception


ally wel l tted her .

Next to her pa rents in law her duty is


- -
,

to her husband S he must hersel f render


.

to him the litt le ser vic es that a Eu rope an


expects of his valet She must not onl y
.

take care of his clothing but must bring it


,

to hi m a nd help him put it on and must ,

put away with care whatever he has taken


Off ; and she o ften takes pride i n doin g

with her own han ds many acts of service


which might be le ft to servan ts and which ,

are n ot actually demanded of her unless ,

she has no one un der her to do them I n .

the poorer families all the washing sew ,

ing a nd mending that is requi red is always


,

done by the wi fe ; and even the E mpress


hersel f is not exem pt from these duties of
personal service but m ust wait u pon her
,

husban d in various ways .

When the earliest be ams of the sun


shine i n at the cracks of the dark wooden
sh utters which surround the house at
n ight the young wi fe in the fam ily softly
,
WI FE AN D MO TH ER . 89

arises pu ts out the feeble light of the


,

Im don
which has burned al l n ight a nd
. , ,

quietly Open i ng one of the sliding doors ,

ad m its enoug h li ght to make her own


toil et She d resses h astily only putti ng a
.
,

fe w touches her e and there to her elaborate


co i ure which she has not taken down fo r

2
her night s rest Next she goe s to a ro use

.

the se rvants if they are not alread y up , ,

an d wi th them prepa re s the modest break


fast Wh en the l ittl e l acq uer tables with
.
,

rice bowls plates a nd chopsticks are ar


, ,

ran ged in place she goes so ftly to see ,

whether her par ents a nd husband are


awake a nd if they have hot water char
, ,

coal re and whatever else they may need


,

for their toilet Then with her own hands .


,

1 The a a d cn is th e sta nd in g Ia m p , incl oee d in a pa p er

ca se , use d as a ni ght la m p in a ll Ja pa nese h ouse s .

Until the introd uction of k m oene l a m m the a a d on waa


th e onl y light in Ja p a neee housee
us e d The li ght is p ro .

da ood by a pi th wic k oa ti ng in a ca n cer of vege t a l e . b

The p il l ow us ed b y l a d ies is m e rel y a wood en rest for


the hea d , tha t s upp or ts the ne c k , l e a ving the el a bora te
hea d d ress un dis tur b e d . The ha ir is d ressed b y a p ro
M ona ] ha ir -d re sser , who com es to the house once in
two or three d a ys I n w m e p a rte of Ja p a m ae in KiOto,
.

where the ha ir is eve n m ore el a b or a t el y d r eesed tha n in


T6ky 6, it is m uc h l ess fr eque ntl y a rrang ed . The p roces s
n ices two houm at l eas t .
90 J APA N ES E GI R LS AN D WOMEN .

or with the help O f the servan ts she slides ,

back the wooden shutters Opening the ,

whole ho use to the fre sh mornin g air a nd


sun li ght It is she also who di re cts the
.
, ,

washin g and wipin g of the poli sh e d oors ,

and the foldin g an d putting away Of the


bedd in g so that a ll is in readiness be fore
,

the morn in g meal .

When breakfas t is over the husban d ,

starts for his place of business an d the li t ,

tle wi fe is i n waiting to send hi m off with


her sweetest sm ile and her low e st how ,

a fter having seen that his foot gear -

,

whether sandal clog or shoe is at the,

door ready for hi m to put on his u mbrella , ,

book or bundle at hand an d his kura m a


, ,

waitin g for him .

Certa inly a Japan ese m a n is lucky in


h aving all the little thing s in his li fe a t
te nded to by h is thoughtful wife a good , ,

considerate care ful body ser vant al ways


,
-
,

o n hand to bear fo r hi m the trii n g wor

ries and care s There is no wonder that


.

there are no bachelors in Japan To some .

degree I am sure the men appreciate


, ,

t hese atte ntions ; for they ofte n become


much in love with their sweet helpful ,

wives though they do not share with them


,
92 J APA N ES E G I RLS AN D WOM EN .

distance and nearly a lways unexpectedly


, ,

whose entertain ment devolves on the w ife .

O win g to the great distances in many of


the cities an d the d i culti es t ha t used to
,

atte nd going fro m place to place it has ,

become a custom not to make frequent


visits but lon g ones at lon g intervals A
,
.

gues t O ften stays se veral hour s re main in g ,

to lunch or dinn er as the case may be and


, , ,

should the di stan ce be grea t may spend ,

the n ight SO rigid a re the requirements


.

of Japanese hospitality that n o guest is

ever al lowed to l eave a house without hav


i ng be en pressed to partake of food if it ,

be only tea and cake Even trad esmen or.

m es se n gers who come to the house m ust

be Offe red tea an d if carpen ters garden


, ,

ers or work men of any ki nd are employed


,

about the hou se tea m ust be se r v ed in the


,

m iddle of the afte rn oon with a light lunch ,

and tea sent o ut to them often during thei r


day s work I f a gu e st arrives in j arr ikisha

.
,

n ot only the guest but the Jrnr ikisha m e n


,

must be su pplied with refresh ments All .

th es e thin gs i n volve much thought a nd


ca re on the part of the lady of the house .

In the homes of rich and inuentia l men


of wide acquaintance there is a gre at deal
,
WI FE AN D MO TH ER . 93

g oing on to make a pleasa nt variety fo r

the ladies of the household even al though ,

the variety i nvolves extra work and re s pon


si bil ity
. The m istress Of such a house
hold se es a nd b ea rs a gre at deal Of li fe ;
a nd her position re quires no little wisdo m

and tac t even whe re the house wi fe has


,

the as sist an ce of good serv a nts capable as , ,

m any are Of sharing not only the work


, ,

but the respon si bili ty as well Clever wiv es .

i n such homes see an d lea rn m uch i n ,

an indirect wa y O f the out side worl d in


,

which the men live ; a nd may becom e if ,

they poss es s the nat ural capabiliti es for


t he work wise advi se r s an d sympath iz ers
,

wit h thei r husbands i n many things fa r


beyond th ei r ordinary eld O f acti on An .

i ntelligent w oman with a str ong will has


, ,

O ft en been unseen and unkn o wn a mighty


, ,

inuence in Japan That her pow er for .

good or bad outside of her in uence as


,

wife an d mother is a recogn ized fact is


, ,

seen i n the circumstance that in novels


and plays women are frequently brought i n

as factors in politi cal plots and organ ized


rebell ions as wel l as i n acts of private re
,

ven ge.

Stil l the li fe Of the average woman is a


quiet with little to interrupt the m o
o ne ,

n oto ny O f her days wi t h their never e nding -

round of duti e s ; and to the most secluded


homes on ly an occasional guest comes to
enliven the d ull hours The pri ncipal oc
.
~

e upa tion of the wife outside of her ho us e


,

ke ep i ng a ud the little duties of pe rson al


serv ice to husband a nd parents is n ee dle ,

work Every Japa nese wom a u (e xcepti n g


.

thos e of the highest rank ) knows how to


sew and makes not only he r own gar
,

ments an d th ose of her chil dren but he r ,

h usba n d s as well Sewi n g is one of the



.

e ssentials in the educa ti on of a J a panese

girl and from childhood the cut tin g and


,

puttin g together of crepe silk an d cotto n


, ,

is a fam ili ar occu patio n to her Thoug h .

Ja p anw e g arments see m very simple cus ,

to m requires that each sti tch and se am be


p l aced in j u st such a way ; an d this way is
something of s taak to lea rn To the nu .

in i tia te d foreigner the general effect of the


,

loose ly wo rn ki m ono is the same whether ,

the garment be well or ill made ; but the


ski l lful seamstres s ca n easi ly discover that
this seam is not turned j ust as it should
be Or that those stitches a re too long or
,

too short or carel es sly o r unevenly set


, .
96 J APAN ES E GI RLS AN D WOMEN .

must be given frequently and as the l eas t ,

dam pness m ight be fatal ea ch lea f in case , ,

o f rainy weather is care fully wiped


, The n .
,

too the di fferent ages o f the worms m ust


,

be considered in pre parin g their food ; as ,

for the youn g worms the leaves sho uld be ,

cut up w hile for the Older ones it is be tter


,

to se rve them whole W hen nal ly the


.
, ,

b uzzing no ise of the crunching leaves has


ceased and the last wor m has put hi m
,

se l f to sleep in h is precious white cocoon ,

the work Of the ladies is ended ; for the


cocoons are sent to women e spec ially
skilled in the work by them to be spu n,

off a nd the thread afterwards woven i nto


,

the desired fabric W hen at last the silk


.
,

woven a nd dyed is returned to the lad ies


,

by whose care the worms were nourished


un til thei r work was done it is shown ,

wi th great pride as the product of the


year s labor and i f given as a pre sent wil l

,

be highly prized by the recipient .

Among the daily tasks of the housewi fe ,

on e ,
and by no means the least Of her
duties is to receive duly acknowledge an d
, , ,

re turn in sui table man ner the presen ts ,

received i n the fam il y Presents a re not .

conned to S peci a l seasons a lthough u pon ,


WH E AN D MO TH ER

. 97

certai n occasions etiquette is rigid in its


require ments i n this matter but they may ,

be given an d rece iv e d at all t i mes for the ,

Japanese are pre eminently a present -giv


ing nati on For every prese nt received
.
,

sooner or later a p roper retu r n must be


,

se nt appropriate to the seas on and to the


,

rank of the receiver a nd neatly arran ged ,

i n the m anner that eti quette pre scribes .

Presents are not n ecessarily elaborate ;


callers brin g fru it of the season cake or , ,

any delicacy a nd a visit to a si ck pe rso n


,

m ust be accompanied by something appro


p r ia te C
.hildren visitin g i n the family are
always given toys an d for this purpose a ,

stock is kept on hand The presen t gi vin g .


-

culminates at the close of the year when ,

all friends and acquaintances exchange


g i f
t s o f more or less value accordin g to ,

their fee l ings and means Should there be .

any one w ho has been especially kind and


to whom return should be made this 18 the ,

time to do so .

Trad esmen send presen ts to their pa


trons scholars to teachers
, patients to ,

the ir physician s an d i n short it is the


, , ,

ti me w hen al l Obli gations and debts are


paid OH in one way or another O n the
, .
98 A
J PAN ES E GI RLS AN D WOMEN .

seventh day of the seventh m onth there is ,

another ge neral interchan ge O f pre se nts ,

although not so univer sal as at the New


Year It can easi ly be imagined that a ll
.

this pre sent givin g enta ils much care es


-
,

p ec ia ll y in families o f inu e nce ; and it


must be atte nded to per sonally by the wife ,

who in the sec ret recesses of her store


,

ro om skill fully m anages to rearran ge the


,

gifts rec eived so that those n ot ne eded in


,

the house may be sent not back to their ,

givers but to some place where a present


,

is due The passin g ou of the presents is


.
-

an economy not of co urse acknowledged ,

but frequently practiced even i n the be st


famili es as it saves m uch of the otherwi se
,

ruinous expense of this custom .

As time pas ses by occasion al visits a re ,

paid by the young wi fe to her own parents


or to other rela tives A t stated ti mes too
.
, ,

she a n d othe rs of the family wi ll vi sit


, ,

the tombs of her husband s an cestors or of


,

her own pare nts i f they a re no longer liv


,

ing to make oeri n gs and prayers at the


'

grav es to place fre sh branches of the


,

sa ka ki before the tomb s an d to see that ,

1
Sa ka ki , the Cl eyera Jap onica , a sacre d pl a nt e m
bl em a ti c of p urity, a nd m uch use d a t fun e ra ls a nd in
the d eco ra ti on of g ra ves .
1 00 J APAN ES E GI R LS AN D WOMEN .

ence is always direct and personal No .

thick walls and long p a ssageways separate


the n ursery from the grown people s apart

men ts but the thin paper partiti ons make


,

it possible for the mother tA) k now a l


ways what her children are doin g an d ,

w hether they are good and gentle with


their n u rses or i rritable and passionate
, .

The children never leave the house nor ,

return to it without going to their I no


,

t her s room and there m aking the little



,

bows and repeat ing the customa ry phrases


us ed upon such occasions I n the same .

way when t he mother goes o ut all the


, ,

servants an d the children e sco rt her to


the door ; and when her atte ndant shouts
0 which is the si g na l of her re
turn children and servants haste n to the
,

gate to greet her and do w hat they can


,

to hel p h er from her conveyance and make


her home-comin g pleasant a nd restful .

The father h a s little to do with the


tra inin g of his child ren which is le ft al
,

most entirely to the mother and except , ,

f or the interference of the mother i a law - -


,

she has her own way in their training ,

until they are lon g past childhood The .

ch ildren are taught to look to the father


WI FE AN D M O TH ER . 1 01

as the head a nd to respect a nd Obey hi m


,

a s the o ne to who m a ll must de fer ; but


.

the mother comes next al most as high in ,

their estimation and if n ot so much feared, ,

and respected certainly enjoys a larger


,

share of thei r love .

The Japanese mother s life is one Of

perfect devotio n to her children ; she is


t heir willing slave Her days are spent .

i n caring for them her evenin gs in watch ,

i ng over them ; an d she spare s nei ther


ti me nor tr ouble in doin g anyth in g for
their comfort and pleasure I n Si ckness 1
.
,

i n health day and n ight the little ones


, ,

are her one thought ; and from the home


of the noble to the hu mble cot o f the

peasant thi s te nder moth er love may be


,
-

seen in al l its di fferent phase s The Japa .

nese woman has so fe w on whom to lavish


'

her a ection so little to live for beside her


,

children and no hopes i n the futu re ex


,
ce pt
th rough them that it is no wonder that
,

Since the introd uction of the fom igu syst em of m edi


cine m d n m uing , the Ja p a ne ee re a l ise so acntel y the l a ck

o f con veniences a nd a
pp l ia nce s f o r nu rsi ng the si ck i n

the ir own hom es , tha t cases of se ve re or eve n serious ill


ness a re usua ll
y se n t hosp ita ls, whe re the in va li ds ca n
to
ha ve the oom for ts tha t eve n the wea l th y Ja p a ne se hom ec
she devotes her li fe to their ca re an d ser
vice deeming the drudgery that custo m
,

require s of her for the m the easiest of


a l l her duties Eve n with plenty of ser
.

van ts the mother performs for her chi l


,

dre n n early all the duties often delegate d


to n urses i n th is country .Mother and
babe are ra rely sepa rated n ight or da y
, ,

durin g the rst fe w years of the baby s

li fe an d the mother denies herse l f any


,

entertain ment or journey from home when


the baby can not accom pany her To g ive .

the husband any share in the baby work -

would be an un heard -of thing and a d is


,

grace to the wi fe ; for in public and in


private the baby is the mother s sole

charge an d the husban d is never asked


,

to si t up al l night with a s ick baby or ,

to mind it in any way at al l Nothin g


.

in all one s study of Japanese l i fe see ms


more beauti ful an d admir able than the


i nuence of the mother over her child ren ,

nu inuence that is gentle and a l l per -

vading bringing out all that is sweete st


,

a n d noblest in the feminine character and ,

affording the one al most un li mited op por


t unity of a Japan ese woman s life The

.

l ot of a childless wi fe in Japan is a sad


1 04 JAPAN ES E GIR LS AN D WOM EN .

usually the w ife becom e s of the h usban d s


.

When there are daughters but no sons i n


a fam ily to in herit the n ame one of three ,

thin gs may happen a son may be adopted


early in li fe and grow u p as heir ; or he .

may be adopte d with the idea of m arryi n g


one of the daughters ; or again no one , ,

m ay ha ve bee n form ally adopte d but on the ,

eldest daughter s com ing to a marriagea ble


age her family a n d friends see k for her a


,

y os hi i that
,
is to say some man ,(usually a
youn ger son ) who i s will ing a nd able to
give up his family name an d by marry , ,

in g the daughter become a member of


,

her family and heir to the name He .

cuts 0 3 all ti es from his own fa mily and ,

becomes a member of hers and the young ,

couple are expected to live with her pa


ren ts In th is case the tables are turn ed
.
,

an d it is he who has to dread the mother


i n law ; it is his tu r n to have to please his
-

new relatives and to do all he can to be


agreeable He too may be sent away an d
.
, ,

divorced by the all powerful parents if he


-
,

does n ot please ; an d such divorces are not


uncom mon O f cou rse i n such marriages
.
, ,

the woman has the grea ter power and the ,

man has to rememb e r wha t he owes her ;


WI FE AN D MO THER . 1 05

and tho ugh the woman yields to him obedi


ently in al l respects it is an obedience not,

demanded by the husband as under other ,

circu mstances .I n such marriages the


children bel ong to the family whose n ame
th ey hea r so that i n case of divo rce they
,

remain in the wi fe s family unle ss some


,

special arrange ment is mad e about them .

It may be wondered why young men


ever care to enter a family as yos hii There .

is only one answer it is the att raction


,

of w ea lth and rank very rar ely that o f the


,

d a ughte r herse l f I n the houses of rich


.

M a id s without sons yos hii a re very com ,

mon a nd there are many youn ger son s o f


,

the nobil ity themselves of high birth but


, ,

without prospects who are glad enough to


,

be come great lord s In feudal times the .


,

n umber of m m m i families was limi ted .

Seve ral sons of o ne fam ily could not estab


l ish di fferent sa m ura i families but al l but ,

the eldes t son if they formed separate


,

h ouses must enroll themselves amon g the


,

ranks of the com mon pe ople Hence the .

youn ger sons were o ften adopted in to other


sam dra i fam ilies as yos hi i whe re it was d e ,

si re d to secure a su ccession to a name that

m ust otherwise die out Since the Res to .


1 06 JAPAN ES E G rRL s AN D WOMEN .

ration and the breakin g down of the old


,

clas s di stincti ons young men care more


,

for independence tha n for their rank as


sa m ura i ; and it is now quite d i cul t to

nd yos hn to enter sa m ura i families un less ,

it be because of the attrac tiveness an d


beauty of the youn g lad y he rsel f Many a .

young girl who could easily make a good


m arri a ge with some suitable husband co ul d ,

she enter his family is now obliged to take


,

some in ferior m a n as y os hii because fe w ,

m e n in these days are willing to ch a n ge

thei r names give u p their indepe ndence


, ,

and t ake upon the mse lves the support of


aged parents-i n law ; for th is also is ex
-

p e cte d o f the yo s hi i u nless the


,
family that
he enters is a wealthy one .

From this custom of yosl m and its e ffect ,

u pon the wi fe s positi on we see that i n



, ,

cer tain cases Japan e se women are treated


,

as equal with men It is not because o f


.

their sex that they a re looked down upo n


and held i n subjection but it is becau se of
,

their al most un iversal dependence of posi


tion T he men have the right of i n he ri
.

tan ce the educ t on


,
a i h a bits o f sel f relia nce
-
,

and are the bread Wi nners Wherever the


-
.

tabl es are turn ed an d the m e n are depen


,
1 08 J APAN ES E G I R LS AN D WOMEN .

littl e farther above his wi fe The peasant


.

and his w ife work side by side in the el d ,

put their shoulders to the same wheel ea t ,

to gether in the same room at the same ,

time an d whichever of them happens to


,

be the st ronger in character governs the


house without regard to se x There is no
, .

great gul f xed between the m and there ,

is frequently a co n sideration for the wi fe


shown by husbands of the lower class that ,

is not unlike what we see in our own coun


try. I remember the ca se of a ym rikis ha
man employed by a friend of m ine in T6
ky o who was m uc h laughed at by h is
,

friends because he actual ly used to spend


some of hi s leisure moments in drawing
the water requi red for his hou sehold from
a well some d istan ce away and carryin g ,

the heavy bucket s to the hou se in order ,

to save the strength of h is little delicate ,

wi fe That cases o f such devotion are rare


is no doubt t r ue but that they occur
,

shows that there is here and there a recog


n iti on of the claims that femin ine weak

ness has u pon masculine stre n gth .

A frequent sight i n the morning i n ,

T6 ky6 is a cart heavily laden with wood


, ,

charcoa l or some other country pro duce


, ,
M E AN D M O THER . 1 09

crea kin g slowly alon g the streets p ro ,

pelled by a farmer an d his family Some .

times o ne will see an ol d man his son a nd , ,

his son s wi fe with a baby on her ba ck a l l



,

pushin g or pullin g wi th m ight an d m a in ;


the wom an wi th tuck ed up skirts and tight
-

tting blue tr ouse rs a blue towel envelop


i ng h er head only to be distin guished
,

from the m e n by her smaller si ze and the


baby ti ed to her back But when even
.

ing co mes and the load of produce has


,

bee n dispose d of the woman an d baby are


,

seen seated u pon the cart w hile the two


,

men pull it back to their home in som e


n eighborin g vi l lage Here again is the
.
, ,

recognition of the law that governs the


posi tion of woman i n th is country the ,

theo ry not of i n ferior pos ition but of


, ,

inferior stren gth ; an d the sight of the


women riding back i n the em pty carts at
n ight, drawn by their husbands is the ,

thing that strikes a student of Japan ese


domestic life a s neares t to the customs of
our own civi lization i n rega rd to the rela

tions of husbands and wiv es .

Throughout the country d istricts where ,

the women ha ve a large share i n the labor


that is direct ly pr od uctive of w eal th where ,
1 10 APA N ES E GI RLS
J AN D WOMEN .

they not only work i n the rice elds pick ,

the tea crop s gather the harve sts and


, ,

help draw them to market but where they ,

have their own productive industries such ,

a s caring for the si l kworms and spin,

n ing an d weaving both silk and cotton


, ,

we nd the conventional distance between


the sexes much di m inished by the i m por
t a nt chara cter of feminine labor ; but in
the cities and amo ng the classes who are
,

largely either indirect producers or non


producers the only la bor of the women i s
,

t hat personal service which we account as


menial It is for this reason perhaps that
.
, ,

the gap widens as we go upward in so


ci e ty and between the sa m e social levels
,

as we go cityward .

The wi fe of the countryman though she ,

may work hard e r a nd grow old e a rlier i s ,

more free and i ndependent t ha n her city


si st er ; an d the wi fe of the peasant push ,

i ng her prod uce to market is in so m e ways


,

ha ppi e r a n d more co nsidered than the wi fe


of t he noble who m ust spend her li fe
,

a m ong her l a dies i n waiting in th e secl u


- -
,

sion of h er great house with its beauti ful


gard e n the plaything of her hu sband in
,

h is l e isure hours b ut n ever h is e qual or


, ,

the S har er of his c a re s or of his thou g hts .


1 12 J APAN ES E GI RLS AN D WOMEN .

from ever introduci ng a rival u nder the


same roo f I n this way the prac tice is
.

made better than the theo ry .

N ot so with the more helpless wi fe of


the nobleman for wealth and leis u re make
,

temptation greater for the husband She .

submits unquesti on in gly to the c usto m re


quiri n g that the wife treat these women
with all civi l ity Their chi ldren she may
.

ev e n have to ad m it as he r own The lot of .

the m lra ke herse l f is rendered the les s e n


'

du rable from the American poi nt of view


, ,

by the fact that should the father of her


,

child decide to make it his heir the mother ,

is thence forth no more to it than any other


o f the servants o f the house hold For i n .

stan ce suppose a hitherto childless noble is


,

presente d with a son by one of his concu


bines a nd he dec id es by legal ad option to
,

make that son his heir : the ch ild at its b irth ,

o r as soon a fte rwards as is practica ble is ,

taken from its mother and placed in other


hands a nd the mother never sees her own
,

child unti l on the thirtieth day a fter its


,

birth she goes wi t h the other servan ts of


,

the house hold to pa y her respects to her


youn g m a ste r I f it were not fo r the habit
.

o f abject obedi en ce to parents which Japa


WI PE AN D M O TH ER . 1 13

nese custo m has exalte d into the one femi


nine virtue fe w women could be foun d of
,

respectable famil ies who would take a posi


tion so devoid of either honor or satisfac
ti on of any kin d as that of m ka k That .

th ese positi ons are not sought after m ust be


said to the hon or of Japanese woman hood
, .

A n obleman may obtai n sa m ura i women


for hi s 0 m ka k ( li terally honorable
,

concubines) but they are never respected


,

by their own class for tak in g such positions .

In the same way the m ka k of sa m m a i '

are usually from the him in No woma n .

who has any chance of a better lot will ever


take the u nen viable pos ition of m ka k .

A law which has rece ntly been prom ul


ga ted strikes a t the root of this evil and if , ,

en fo rced will in course of ti me go far to


,

ward exti rpating it Hen ceforth in Japan


.
,

no chi ld of a concubine or of adoption fro m


,

a ny so urce can in herit a noble ti tle


, The .

hei r to the throne mu st herea fter be the


son not only of the E mperor but of the
, ,

Empress or the succession passe s to some


,

collateral bra nch of the family This law .

does not apply to Prince Haru the present ,

heir to the throne as although he is not


, ,

the son of the E mpress he was legally


,
1 14 A A
J P N ES E GI RLS AN D WOMEN .

adopte d be fore the promulgation of the


law ; but should he d ie it will apply to a ll ,

future heirs .

That public opinion is movin g in the


right direction is shown by the fac t th at
the young men of the higher c lasses do
not care to marry the daughters of m lca k
'

be they ever so legally adopted by their


own fat hers When the girls born of s uch
.

u nions become a drug i n the ma tri mon ial


market and the boys a re unable to k eep
,

up the succession the m ka k wi l l go out


of fashion an d the r eal wi fe will once more


,

as sume her proper i mportance l


.

Upon th e 1 1 th day of February 1 889 , ,

the day on which the E mperor by hi s own ,

not i n giving a con sti tution to the people ,

li mi ted his own power for the sake of p ut


ting his nation upon a level with the m ost
civili zed nations of the earth he at the ,

l I t in w or th whil e to m e ntion in this connecti ou the


noteworth y 9 6 0 1 m ad e b y the Wom
an s Christian Tem
p em ce Union of Ja pa n in cnlling the a tt entiou of the
b
p u lic to this custom , and in am us ing p u bli c sentim ent

in fa vor of l eg isl a tion ag a im t not onl y thi s system , b ut


a gainst the lice nse d houses of p rosti tuti on . Thoug h
there ha s not y t
e bee n a ny p m tica l resul t, m uch disens
sio n has e nsue d i n t he ne wsp a p e rs a nd m a g a z ines, l ee
t ures ha ve be en given , a nd m uc h stro ng feeling a rous e .d
1 16 J APA N ES E GI RLS AN D WOMEN .

i n her practices in this matter is gre atly


to her credit ; but that she is fa r behin d
the ci vili z ed nations of E urope and A mer
ica not only in prac tice but i n theory is a
, ,

fact that is incontesta ble and a fact tha t , ,

u nless ch an ged m ust sooner or later be a ,

i
stumbl ng block in the path of her progress
-

toward the high est civilization of which she


1
is capable T he E uropean practice can not
.

be g rafted upon the Asiatic theory but the ,

change i n the home m us t be a radical one ,

to secure permanent good re sults As lon g .

as the wife has n o rights which the b us


ban d is bouud to respect no great advan ce ,

l Ma ny of the th ink ing m en of


Ja pa n, thongh full y
reoog nin ng the inj usti ce of the p res e nt p ositio n of wom a n
'

in societ y , a nd the necessity of reform in the m a rr inge


a nd d i vorce l nws , re fuse to see the im p orta nce of a ny

m ove m e nt to cha n ge them . Their exc use is , tha t s uch

p o wer in the ha nds o f the h us ba nd over h is wife m ight be


a bused , b ut tha t in fa ct it is not . Wrongs a nd in j us tice
a re ra re, th e y ar gue , a nd k ind tau trnent , a ffect i on, a nd

eve n res p e ct for the wife is th e g e neral r ul e ; a nd tha t


the k ee pin g of the p ower in the ha n s of th e h us a n is d b d
bette r tha n g iving too m uch free d m t o wom en who a re o

wi thout e d uca ti on These m e n wish to wa it until ever y


.

wom a n is e d uca te d be fo e a c ting in a ref rm m vem ent


,
r o o ,

wh il e m a ny conse r va tives opp ose the ne w s ys tem of ed u

ca tio n for girl s as m a kin g them un wom a nl y .B etwee n


th ese tw o p a rt ies , the few who rea ll y wish for a cha nge
ar e ut terl y una l e to act b .
WI FE AN D M O TH ER . 1 17

can be made for hu man nature is too


,

m ean an d selsh t o give in all cases to

those who are entirely un protected by law ,

an d entirely u n able to protect themselves ,

those things w hi c h the m oral n ature de


clares to be their due I n the old sl a ve
.

times in the South many of the negroes


,

w e r e better fe d b etter c a red for a nd hap


, ,

pier th a n they are to day but they were


-

n everth e le s s a t the mercy of men wh o

too o ften th oug h t o nly of themselve s a nd ,

n ot of t he h um a n bodi e s a nd souls over

which th ey ha d unli m ite d po wer It was a .

con d ition of th i ng s th a t c ould n ot be pre


ve n ted b v ed uca ti n g th e m a ste rs so a s to
ind uce t h e m to be ki nd to their slav e s ; it
wa s a cond iti o n th a t wa s wrong i n theory ,

and so could n ot be righted i n practice I n .

the sa m e way the po s ition of the Japanese


wi fe i s wro ng i n th e ory and ca n never be
,

righted u n til l egi sl a tion has given t o her


right s whi ch it still denies Education wil l .

but a ggr a vat e the trouble to a point beyon d


end ura nce The gi vi n g to the wi fe power
.

to obtai n a divorce wi l l not hel p m uch but ,

simply t en d to we a ken still further the


m arriage ti e . N ot hing ca n h e l p surely
an d perm a nently but the growth of a soun d
1 18 J APAN ES E GI RL S AN D WOMEN .

public Opinion in regard to the position of


,

the wi fe that will sooner or later have


, , ,

its eect upon the laws of the country


'

Legislation once effected all the rest will


,

come and the wife sec ure in her home an d


, ,

her children will be at the point where


,

her ne w ed ucation can be of use to her


i n the administration of her domestic a f
fairs an d the training of her children ;
an d where she will nally become the
friend and compa nion of her hu sband in ,

stead of his mere waitress seamstress an d


, ,

housekeeper the plaything of his leisure


,

moments too ofte n the victi m of his cu


,

p r ices .
1 2 0 JAPAN ES E GI RLS AN D WOMEN .

youn ger than her real age or hesitates to


,

tell with entire frankness the n umber of


years that have pas sed over her head .

The reaso n for this lies at least in part


, ,

in the fact that every woman looks forward


to the period O f Ol d age as the time when
she will attain freedom from her li fe long -

service to those abo ut her will be in the


,

position of a dviser Of her sons and directo r


,

of her daughters i n law


- - will be a person
of m uch consideration i n the fam ily privi ,

l eg e d to amuse h e rsel f in va r ious ways to ,

spe a k her own m i nd on most subject s and ,

to he waited upon a n d cared for by chil


dren an d gran dchildren in return for her
,

long years Of faith ful service in the house


hold Sho uld h er sight and other bodily
.

powers remain good she w ill doubtless


,

perform many light tasks for the general


good will seldom sit idle by hersel f but
, ,

will help about th e sewin g and men ding ,

the m a rk e ti ng shoppi n g housework an d


, , ,

care of th e b a bies tell stories to her gran d


,

ch ildre n after their lesson s are learned ,

give the be net of her ye a rs of experience


to the young people who are still bearing
the heat and burden of the day a n d by her , ,

prayers and visits to the temple at stated


O LD A GE. 12 1

s easo n s w ill secure the favor of the gods


,

for the whole family as wel l as make her ,

own pre parations for entry into the great


u nknown toward w hich she is rapidly dri ft
in g. Is there wonder that the young
wi fe steering her course with di fculty
,

among the many shoa ls and whirlpools of


early marri ed l i fe looks forward with eu
,

ti ci pa tion to the period of comparative rest


and security that comes at the end of th e
voyage P As she bears all thin gs endures
7
,

al l things suffers lon g and is kind as she


, , ,

serv es her mother in -law manages her -


,

h us band s household ca re s for her babies



, ,

the thought that cheers and encourages


her i n her busy a nd n ot too happy li fe is
the thought of the su n ny ca l m of ol d age ,

w hen she ca n lay her burdens and ca res


on youn ger shoulders and bask in the ,

warmth and sun shi ne which this Ind ian


Su m mer of her l i fe will b ring to her .

I n the code of morals of the Japanese ,

obedience to father h usband or son is ex


, ,

alted into the chie f womanly virtue but ,

the Obed ience an d re spe ct of children bot h ,

male and female to their paren ts also oc


, ,

cupic a a p ro m inent position in their ethical


system Hence i n this latter st age of a
.
,
12 2 JA PAN ES E O w LS AN D WOMEN .

woman s career the obedien ce expected of



,

her is ofte n onl y nom inal an d in any case ,

is not so absolute an d unques ti onin g as


that of the early period ; a nd the consid
cration and respect that a son is bound to
s how to h is mother n ecessitates a care of
her com fort and a consultation of her
,

wis hes that rend ers her positi on one of


,

m uch grea ter fr eedo m than can be oh


ta ined by any wom a n earlier in life She .

has besides reached an age when she is


, ,

n ot expecte d to re m ain at home and she ,

m ay go out in to the streets to the thea tr e , ,

or other shows w ithout the leas t res trai nt


,

or fear of losi ng her dign ity .

A Japanese woman loses her bea uty early .

At thirty ve her fre sh color is usually e n


-

ti re ly gone her eyes have begu n to sink a


,
'
l ittle in th eir sockets her youth ful round ,

ne ss and sy mmetry of g ure have given

place to a n a bsolute lean ness her abundan t ,

blac k hair has gro wn thin and much care ,

and an xiety have gi ven her face a pathetic


expression of quiet endurance O ne scl .

d om sees a face that indicates a so ure d


tem per or a c ross disposition but the li n e s ,

that show themselves as the years go by


are lin es that i n di cate su fferin g an d dis
124 J APAN ES E GI R LS AN D WOMEN .

relatives nd in ol d age a pl easa nter l ot


,

than that of youth Many such Ol d ladies


.

I have met whose short h a ir or shaven


,

heads proclai m to a l l who see them that


the so rrow Of widowhood has taken fro m
them the joy that falls to other women ,

but whose cheerful wri nkled faces an d


,

happy childl ike ways have given one a feel


,

ing of pleasure that the sorrow is past an d ,

peace an d rest have come to their declin


ing years Fullli n g what little house
.

hold ta sks they can respe cted and sel f ,

re specti ng members of the household the ,

0 Eu Sun or Au nty is not fa r removed i n


'

, ,

the honor and affection of the ch ildre n


fr om the 0 D6 Sun or G rand ma but both
, ,

alike nd a peace fu l shelter in the homes


of those nearest and deares t to them .

O ne of the happiest Old lad ies I have


ever seen was one who had had a rough
and stormy li fe The mother o f m a ny
.

children most of whom had died i n i n


,

fancy she was a t last le ft childless and a


,

widow I n her ch ildre n s death the last


.

tie that bo und her to her husband s fam ily

was br oken and rather than be a burden


, ,

to them she made her home for many


,

years with her own you nger brother tak ,


OLD AG E . 12 5

ing up a gai n the many ca res and duties of


a mother s li fe i n sharin g wi th the mother

the bri n gin g up of a large family of chil


dren O ne by one from the old est to the
.
,

younge s t eac h has l e arned to love the old


,

aunty to be lulled asl eep on her back an d


, ,

to g o to her i n tro uble when mother s

h a nd s we re too fu l l o f work
. Many the .

cares s received the drives and wal ks en


,

joyed in her com pa ny the toys and can ,

dies th a t came out un expecte d ly from the


depths of mysterio us d rawers to com fort ,

m a ny an hour of ch ildi sh grie f That wa s .

years a go and the ol d aunty s hard ti mes


,

are n early over Hale an d hearty at three


.

score years and ten she has seen these


,

children grow up one by one unti l now ,

some have gone to new homes of thei r


own . H er bent form a nd wri nkled face
are ever welcome to her ch ildren her s ,

by the right of y ears Of pati ent care an d


toil for them They now i n their turn
.
, ,

enjoy giving her pleasure and return to ,

her al l the love she has lavished u po n


them It is a joy to see her childlike
.

pride and conden ce i n the m all and to ,

know that they have lled the plac e le ft


vaca nt by the dead with whom had died
al l her ho r
n s of earthl y happiness .
The Old women of Japan how th ei r,

wi there d face s bent frames an d shrun ken


, , ,

yell ow hands a bide i n one s memory O ne


seldom sees among them what we woul d


cal l bea uty fo r the al most un iversal shr ink
,

in g with age that takes place am on g the


Japanese covers the face with m ul titud i
n ous wrinkles and produces the e ffect of a
,

withered r usset apple ; for the skin wh ich ,

i n y outh is usu ally brighten ed by red


cheeks an d glossy black hai r i n ol d age , ,

when color leaves cheek and h air has a ,

curiously yellow and parchment- like look .

But with all their wrinkles and ugli ness ,

there is a peculi ar charm about the Old


women of Japan .

I n Tkyo when the grass grows lon g


,

u pon your lawn an d you se nd to the gar


,

d e ue r to come an d cut it no boy with ,

pate nt lawn -mower nor stalwart country


,

m a n with scyt he a n d sickle answers your ,

su m mons but some morn in g you awake to


,

nd your lawn covered with Old wo m en .

The m uch washed cotton garm ents are


-

fad ed to a light blue the exact match of


,

the light blue cotton tow els in which their


hea ds are swath ed an d on hands an d
,

k n ees each armed with an enormous pa ir


,
1 28 JA PANESE Ow L S AN D WOMEN .

from ho us e to hous e gain ing a mise rable ,

pitta nce by thei r weird m u s ic they seem ,

the embodiment of all that is hope le s s an d


broken hea rted W hat they are or whence
- .

they come I kn o w not but they always re


, ,

m in d me of the grasshoppe r i n the fa bl e ,

who danced an d san g through the brie f


s u m mer to come wailing and wretched
, , ,

seeking aid fro m h er thri ftier neighbor


when at last the winter clo sed in upon her .

As o ne rides about the streets one o ften ,

see s a li ttle white-haired old woman trot


,

tin g about with a yoke over her shoulders


from which are suspended two s winging
bas kets lled wi t h fresh vege tables The
, .

fact that her ha ir is sti l l grow in g to its


n atural len gth shows that she is still a wife

and not a widow ; her worn and patch ed


blue cotton clothes bl eac hed light fro m ,

much washing show that extreme poverty,

is her lot in l i fe ; and as she hobbles along


with the gait peculiar to those who carry a
yoke my thoughts are busy with her home
, ,

which though poor and small is doubtless


, ,

cl ean a nd com fortable but my eye fol lows ,

her th roug h the city s crowd where la



,

borer soldier st udent and high o cia l


, , ,

jostle each other by the way Suddenly I


.
OLD AG E . 12 9

see her pa u se be fore the gate way of a tem


ple She sets her b urden down a nd there
.
,

in the m idst o f the bustl i ng th ron g wi t h ,

bowed he a d folded hands and moving lips


, , ,

she invokes her g od snatchin g this m o


,

ment fro m her busy li fe to se ek a bless ing


for herse l f a nd her dear ones The thron g .

moves busily on maki ng a little eddy


,

around the burde n she has laid down but ,

p ayin g no lace d to the de vout little gure


standing there ; then in a m oment the
prayer is nish ed ; she stoops picks u p her ,

yoke balances it on her should e rs an d


, ,

moves on with the crowd to do her share,

while her stren gth l a sts and to be cared


,

for te nderly I do ubt n ot by children and


, ,

children s child ren when her work is done



.

Another picture comes to me too a pic , ,

tur e of one wh ose memory is an inspiring


thought to the many who have the honor

to call her mother A stately ol d lad y
.
,

le ft a widow many years a go be fore the ,

recent ch a n ges had wro ught havoc prepar


a tory to further pro gr ess she seemed a l
,

ways to me the model o f a mother of the


ol d school . Hersel f a woman of thorough
clas sical education he r exam ple and tea ch
,

i ng were to both sons and daughters a con


stan t inspiration ; and in her old age she
found herse lf the honored head of a fa mily
well kn own in the arts of war and peace ,

a goodly company of son s an d daughte rs ,

every o ne of them he irs of her S p irit and


of h er intellect Though con servative her
.

self an d always cl i n ging to the old cus


,

to ms she put n o block in the path of her


,

child ren s progress and her ne charac ter



, ,

heroic spirit and stanch loyal ty to what


,

she believed were worth mo re to her c hil


d ren than anyt hing else could have been .

Tried by war by siege, by banish ment by


, ,

dan ger and s ufferi n gs of al l kinds to her


,

was given at las t an ol d age of prosperity


among chi ldren of whom she might w e ll
be proud Kee ping her physical vigor to
.

the end and dying a t last after an ill ness


, ,

of only two days her spirit passed out into


,

the great unknown ready to meet its d an


,

gers as bravely as she had met those of


e arth o r to enjoy its rest a s swee tly and
,

apprec iatively as she had enjoyed that of


her ol d age in the hou se of her oldest so n .

My acquaintan ce with her was limi te d by


our lac k of com mon lan gu age but was a
,

most ad miring a nd apprec iative one on my


side ; an d I es tee m it one of the chief
13 2 J APAN ES E GI RLS AN D WOMEN .

bier then bowing agai n retired to their


, , ,

places Slowly and solemnly from the tal l


.
,

soldier son his hair already stre a ked with


,

gray to the two year old gran dchild a ll


,
- -
,

paid this last token of re spect to a noble


spirit ; a nd after the relatives the guests ,

each in the order of rank or nearness to


the deceased stepped forward an d per
,

formed the same ceremony before leavin g


the roo m W h a t the mean ing of the ri te
.

was I did n ot know whether a worship of


, ,

stran ge gods or no ; but to m e as I per ,

form e d the act it only sign ied the honor


,

in which I held t he memory of a heroic


woman wh o had done well her part in the
world accordi n g to the light that G od had
given her .

Japa nese art loves to picture th e old wo


m a n with her kindly wrinkled face leavi n g
, ,

out n o wrinkle of the m all but givin g with ,

equal truth fu l n e ss the charm of expression


that one nds in them L ong l ife is de .

s ire d by all as pas sion a te l y as b ancient


y
H e bre w poet a n d ps a lmi st a n d with good ,

re a so n for o nly by long li fe ca n a woman a t


,

t a in the gr e a te st ho n or a nd ha p pine s s W e .

o fte n excl a i m in imp a ti e n ce a t the thought


of t he weak n ess and dependence of old
OLD A GE . 1 33

age and pray that we may die i n the full


,

n ess of our powers be fore the decay of ad


,

va nci ng ye a r s has made us a burden upo n

o ur frie n d s But in Japan depende nce is


.
,

the lot of wo m a n a nd the dependence of


,

old age is that w hic h is most respected


a n d considered An a ged parent is never
.

a b urd e n is tre at ed by all wit h the greatest


,

l ov e and ten derne ss ; an d if ti m es are hard ,

a nd food a nd ot h er co m forts are scarce the ,

children a s a matter of course deprive


, ,

them sel ves a nd their child re n to give un


grudg ingly to their old fa the r a nd mother .

Faults t here are m a ny in th e Japa nese


social sy stem b ut ingra titude to parents
, ,

or di s respect to the aged mus t not be ,

named a m o ng the m ; a nd Young Am erica


m a y l e ar n a salut a ry lesso n by the study of

the place that old people occupy in the


home .

It is not o nly for the women of Japan ,

but for the m e n as well that old age is a ,

time of p e a ce an d h a ppiness W hen a man .

re a che s the age of fty or thereabouts ,

ofte n whil e app a re ntly i n the heig ht of his


vigor he give s up his work or bu siness an d
,

retire s l e aving all the property an d income


,

to the care of his eldest son upon who m ,


1 34 APAN ES E G I RL S
J AN D WOMEN .

he becom e s enti rely depen dent for his sup


port This support is never begrud ge d
1
.

hi m for the ca re o f parents by the ir chil


,

dren is as m uch a matter o f course i n


Japan as the care of children by those who
give them birth A man thus rarely m a kes
.

provi si on for the future and looks wit h ,

scorn on fore i g n customs whi ch see m to


betoken a fear le st in ol d age un grateful , ,

child ren may n eglect their parents an d


cast them aside The fee ling so stron g in
.
,

Ame rica that dependen ce is of itsel f i rk


,

some and a thin g to be dread ed is a l ,

togeth e r s tran ge to the Japa ne se m ind .

The married so n doe s not ca re to take his


wi fe to a new and i n depe ndent home of his
o wn and to support her and her children by
,

h is own labor or on his own in come but he ,

tak es her to his fa ther s h ouse a nd th inks


,

it no shame that his fam ily l ive u pon h is


pare nts But in retu rn when the parents
.
,

wish to retire fro m active li fe th e son takes ,

upon him sel f ung rudgingly the bu rden of


1 I t is this of
cus tom g o ing into ea r l y r e ti re m e nt tha t
m a de
it p oss i l e for b b
the no les in ol d ti m e s to k ee p the
Em peror a l wa ys a chil d . The r ul ing Em p er or w oul d be
ind uce d to r eti re fr om th e thr one at the a g e o f sixte eu or

twe nty ; th us m a k ing room for som e ba by , w ho woul d be


in hin tum tho p npp e t of hiu a m bi tio us oo ur tiem .
1 36 JAPAN ES E G m t s AN D WOMEN .

1
ble worker The go ia kyo of J a pa n is glad
.

enough to lay down early i n li fe the cares


o f the world to have a few ye a rs of cal m
,

a nd peac e u ndisturbed by responsibilities


,

or cares for outside matters I f he be a n .

artist o r a poet he may u ninterrupted , , ,

S pend hi s days with hi s beloved art I f he .

is fond of the ceremonial tea he has whole ,

aft ern oons that he may devote to t hi s $ 8


t hetic re pe at ; and even if he has none of

these higher tastes he wil l always have ,

congenial friends who are ready to share


the s ak bottle to join in a quiet smoke o ver
,

the hiba chi or to play the deep-engro ssing


,

game of go or s hogi the Japane se ches s


, , .

To the Japanese m ind to be in the co m ,

pan y of a fe w kindred souls to spend the ,

l ong hours of a su m mer s aft ernoon at the


ce remon ial tea pa rty sippin g tea and con ,

versing in a leisurely m an ner on va rious


subjects is an enjoyment second to none
,
.

A cultivated Japane se of the old times must


re ceive an education tting him especially
G o I nkyo S a m e is th e ti tl e be l ong ing t i
o a r e t re d ol d

g e n tl e m a n or old la d y . I nkyo is the na m e of the h o use or

s uite of f or h th e ti tl e
, a nd
room s eet a pa rt sn c a e rson
p
i tsel f is m a de up of this w or d with the Chi nese h onor ic
go a nd the t itl e S a m e, the sa m e a s S a n, ul e d in ad dress
ing al l p erl onl oxoep t inf er iors .
O LD AG E
. 137

for such pursuits At these meetings of


.

friends artistically o r poetically inclin ed


, ,

the ti me is spe nt in m akin g poems and ex


chan ging wit tily turned sentiments to be ,

read com mented on and res ponded to ; or


, ,

i n the maki ng of drawin gs with a fe w bold ,

strokes of the brush in illustration of some ,

subj ect give n out S uch enjoyments as


.

these the Japan ese believe can not be a p


, ,

p re c ia te d or even understood by the p ra c

tical rush ahead A merican the prod uct of


,
-
,

the wonderful but m ate rial ci viliz a tio n of


the West .

Thus amid enjoy men ts an d easy labors


,

sui te d to their closing years the elder ,

cou ple spen d their days wi th the youn g


people cared for an d protected by them
, .

Sometimes there wi ll be a separa te suite


of rooms provided fo r the m ; someti mes a

little house away fro m the il oi of the

household and sepa rate d from the m ai n


,

building by a well-kept little gard en I n .

any case as lon g as they live they wil l


,

S pend their days i n quiet and peace a n d it

is to this haven the ia kyo that all Japa


, ,

n ese look forward as to the ti me when ,

they may carry out their own inclinations


and tas tes with an i ncome provided for the
rest o f their days .
CH A PT E R VI .

TH E co urt of the E mperor was in the ,

ea rly ages of Jap a n th e centre of whatev er


,

culture an d re nement the country coul d


boast and the em pe rors themselves took
,

an active part i n the promo tio n of civiliz a


ti on The earliest history of Japan is so
.

wrapped in the m ist s of legen d and tra di


ti on that only he re and there do we get
gli mps es of heroic gures lead e rs in ,

those early days De migods they seem ch il


.
,

d ren of H e aven receiving from H eaven by


,

specia l reve l ation the wis do m or stren gth


by means of which they conquered t he ir
enemi es or gave to their subjects new arts
,

and be tter laws The tradi t ional empe rors


.
,

the early descendants of the great Jim m u


Tenno see m to have been merely conquer
l
,

The a a neee cl a i m for the ir pr es ent Em p e ror dire ct


desce nt from Jim m u Te nno , th e Son of the Gods ; a nd
i t in for thin re ason tha t th e Em p e ra is s up p oee d to
-
be
divine , end the re presenta ti ve of th e gode on the ea r th.
1 40 APA N ES E GIR LS
J AN D WOMEN .

of Corea, who alone am ong the nine female


,

rulers of Japan has made an era in the


,

n ational history S he see ms to have been


.

from the begin nin g like Jea n ne D Arc a



, ,

b ea re r of divine voi ces ; and thr ough h er


was conveyed to her un beli evin g husban d
a divi ne com mand to take shi p an d s a il
,

westward to the conquest of an un k nown


land Her h usband questioned the a uthe n
.

tic ity of the mes sage took the earthly an d


,

practical vi ew that as there was no land


,

to be seen in the westward there coul d be ,

no land there an d re fused to organ i ze any


,

expedition in fulll ment of the com mand ;


but for his unbelief wa s ste m ly told that he
should n ever see the land but that h is wi fe
,

should conquer it for the son whom she


should bear after the father s death This
.

message from the gods was fullled The .

E m peror died i n battle shortly after and ,

the E mpre ss afte r suppres sing the rebel


,

lion in which her hu sband had been killed ,

proceeded to organ i ze an expedi tion for the


conquest of the un kn own lan d beyon d the
western sea By a s m any signs as those
.

required by G ideon to ass ure h imsel f of his


divine mission the Empress tested the cal l
,

that had come to her but at las t sa tised


, ,
C O UR T LI FE . 14 1

that the voi ces were from H ea ven she gave ,

he r orders for the collecti on of ows a nd


the building of a navy I quote from G riis
.

the i nspirin g words wi th which she a d



dressed her gen eral s The sa fety or de
st ructi on of our count ry de pends upon this
en terpri se I intrust the details to you
. . .

It wi l l be yo ur fault i f they are not carried


out. I am a woman a n d yo u ng I shall .

d isguise myself as a m an a nd u nd e rtake ,

this ga llant expedition trusti n g to the ,

gods an d to my tr0 0 ps and capta ins We .

sh al l acquire a wealthy country The gl ory .

i s you rs if we succeed ; i f we fail the guilt


, ,


an d disgrac e shall be m ine What won .

der tha t her captains respond ed to suc h a n


appeal an d that the work of recruit in g an d
,

shipbuilding began with a w ill ! It was a


long preparation that was re quired so me
ti mes to the impatient woman it seem ed nu
, ,

n ece ssarily slow but by con tin ual prayer


and o fferings she appealed to the gods for
aid ; and at last all was re ady an d the brave ,

array of shi ps se t sail for the unk nown


shore the E mpress fe eling within her the
,

n e w inspira tion o f hO pe for her babe as yet

un born Hea ven sm i led upo n them fro m


.

the start The clearest of skies the most


. ,
142 J APA N ES E GIR L S AN D WOMEN .

favoring breezes the smoothes t o f sea s


of , ,

favo red the god sent ex pedition ; a nd t rad i


-

ti o n say s that even t he shes s warm ed in


shoals about their he e l s and carri e d the m ,

o n to th e ir des r ed haven The eet


i ra n .

safely ac ross to southern Cores but instead ,

o f nding battl e s and struggles awaitin g

them the king of the country met them on


,

the be ach to receive an d tender allegian ce to


the inv aders whose u nexpec ted appe arance
,

from the unexplo red East had l ed the na


ti ve s to beli e ve that their gods had for
s aken them The ex pedition return ed lade n
.

with vast wealth no t the spoil of battle


, ,

but the pea ce ful tribute of a blood less vic


tory ; and from that ti me forward Japan ,

th ro ugh Corea and late r by direct contact


,

with China its el f bega n to rece ive and as


,

sim ilate the civilization arts and religion s, ,

of Chi na . Thus th rough a woman Japan


received the start alon g the line of prog
ress which made her what she is tod ay ,

fo r the se quel of Jin g u Kogti s Corea n ex



pediti on was the i ntroduction of al most


eve rythin g which we re gard as peculiar
to civilized countries Wi th chara cte ri s tic
.

belittling of the woman an d exalting o f


the man the whole m a rti al care e r of the
,
al on g which the savages still mad e raids
i nto the territory w hich the Japa ne s e had
wres ted fro m them and which it required
,

a stron g a r m and a quick hand to guard


for the de fense of the people But the
.

E m pe ror gradual ly gave up the personal


leadership in war and passe d the duty of
,

de fending the nation into the ha nd s of one


or another o f the great noble families .The
nobles were not by any means slow tc sec
'

the advan tage to be gained for themselves


by the possession of t he m ilitary power in
an age when m ight made right even more
,

than it does to-day an d when force used


, ,

judiciously and with proper de ference to


the prejudices of the people could be made
,

to give to its possesso r po wer even o ver


the Em peror hi msel f A nd so g ra dual ly
.
,

i n the pursuit of the new culture an d the


ne w religion the em perors withdrew th e m
,

selves more and more into se clusion and ,

the cou rt became a little world in i tsel f ,

a cen tre o f culture and renement into

which fe w excitements of war or politics


ever came While the great nobl e s wr an
.

gled for the posse ssion of the po wer ,

schemed and fought an d turned the nation


u ps ide down ; while the heroes of the coun
CO U RT LI FE . 14 5

try rose lived fought a nd died


, ,
the E m
, ,

pe t or amid his ladies and his courtiers his


, ,

priests and h is literary men spe nt his li fe ,

in a world of his own ; thinking more of


this pair of bright eyes that new an d ,

charming poem the other witty sayi ng


,

o f those about hi m than of the king


,

d o m that he ruled by divi ne right ; and


re ti ring after ten years or so of puppet
,

kinghood from the seclusion of his court


,

to the deepe r secl us ion of some B ud d his t


monastery .

Within the sac red precincts of the court ,

m uch time was given to such g ames an d


pasti mes as were not too rude or n oisy
for the renement that the new culture
brought wi th it Polo football huntin g
.
, ,

with falcons archery etc were exercises


, , .
,

not u nworthy of even the most rened of


gentlemen and certain noble families wer e
,

trained h e reditarily i n the execution of cer


tain stately antique dances many of the m
, ,

of Chines e or Corean origin The l a dies .


,

in trailin g garments and with o wing hair ,

reachin g often below the knees played a ,

n ot inconspicuous part not only because o f,

t heir beau ty an d grace but for their quick


,

ness of wit their learning in the c l assics


, ,
146 J APAN ES E ow LS AN D WOMEN .

their skil l i n repartee an d thei r quai nt ,

fa ncies which they embodied in p oetic


,

form l
.

Much atte ntion was gi ven to that har


m ony of art with nature that the Japa nese
tas te m a k es the sine qua non o f a ll true
artistic e ort The gorgeou sly e m b roid

ered gowns must cha n ge wi th the chau


ging season so that the che rry succeeds
,

the plu m the wista ria the cherry and so on


, ,

th rough the whole calendar of owers u pon ,

the silken robes of the court as regularly ,

as i n the garden that gra ces the palace


grounds A nd so with the con fecti onery
.
,

which in Japa n is ma de in dainty imita


tion of owe rs and fruits The chrysa n .

the m um blo oms in sugar no earli er tha n

h m dm m wm m e l m g civ wm d m e

Mid d l e AM m uch a t te n o n w as given b y b oth m e n a nd

w om en to p oet r y, a nd m a n y O f the cl nm ice of Ja pa nese


l ite ra ture a re th e work s of wom en . Am ong thes e dis
ting uis h ed wr it ers ca n b e m e nti on e d Murasa ki Shik i bu,
Se is h b Na g o n, a nd Iaeno Ta iy u, a ll cour t l a ies in the
'

d
tim e of th e Em p e ror I c hijii (a o ut 1000 A b The court .

a t tha t ti m e was the ce ntre of l ea r ni ng, a nd m uch e ncour

a gem en t wa s give n b y the Em pe ror to literar y pursuits ,


th e cul tiva ti on of p oe tr y , a nd m us i c The Em p er or ga th
.

e re d a round him ta l e nte d m e n a nd w om en, b ut th e grea t


wor ks tha t re m a in ar e, ch a ng e to any , m os t l y theoe o f
1 48 JAPANESE C I RL S AN D WOMEN .

al most out of exi sten ce by the i n trod uction


of Chin ese lea rn ing through Ch in e se let

ters the women of Japan n ot only in their


, ,

homes and con versation but in the poetry ,

an d l ighter literature of the country pre ,

served a stra in of pu re and grace ful Jap


ane se and produced some of the standard
,

works of a distinctly n ational literatu re .

Favor at court M ay as in the olden ,

times is the reward not of mere rank


, , ,

beauty and g race of person but must be


, ,

obtained through the same in te ll ectual e n


dowments polished by years of ed uca tion
, ,

that made so many women famous in the


m e d iaaval his to ry of Japan Many co urt .

lad ies have read m uch of th eir national


lite rat ure so that they are able to a pp re
,

ciate the bonm ots which contain allus ions


i n many cases to ol d poems or plays on ,

words ; and are able to write and pres ent


to others at ttin g ti mes those grace ful
, ,

but u ntranslatable turns o f phrase which


form the bulk of Japan ese poetry 1
Even

The cour t l a dies in im m e dia t conta c t with the Em


e

p e ro r a nd Em p ress a re se l ec te d f th da ughters f
rom e o

the no bl es . Onl y in the p r es ent reig n ha ve a few sa m u


ra i wom en rise n to h igh p ositi ons a t cour t on account of
C O U T LI FER . 14 9

in this busy era of M ij i the Empe ror and ,


l

hi s co urt keep up the old ti me cu s to ms


-
,

an d strive to promote a love of the beauti


ful poetry of Japa n At ea ch New Yea r
.

some subj ect appropriate to the ti me is


chosen an d publi cly anno un ced Ifoe m s .

may be writte n upon th is subject by any


one i n the whole r eal m and may be se nt ,

to the palace be fore a ce rtain date x e d as


the time for closing the list of com petitors .

All th e poe ms th us sent a re examined by


com petent judges w ho se l ect the best ve
,

a nd se nd them to the E mperor an honor ,

more d e sire d by the write rs than the most


favorable of reviews or the largest of s mol
um e n ts are desired by American poets .

Ma ny of the other poems are published in


the news papers It is interesting to note
.

that many of the pro minent men and wo


men of the cou ntry are known as com
p e tito rs
, an d that m any of the court ladies
join i n the contest .

There a re also at the pa lace frequent


, ,

m eetin gs of the poets a nd lovers of poetry


1 Maj ; (Enligh te ned Rul e ) is the nam e of the era tha t
began with th e p rese nt M paror s accession to the throne

.

The -
you A . D . 1890 is the twe nty -thir d year of hi eiji , a nd
15 0 A A
J P N ES E G IR LS AN D WOMEN .

con necte d with the court At these meet .

in gs poems are composed for the enter


ta i nm e nt of the Em peror and E mpress as ,

well as for the amuse ment of the poets


themselve s .

I n the sch ool recently establ is he d for the


dau ghters of the nobles u nder the charge ,

of the i mperia l house hold m uch attentio n ,

is gi ve n to the work of thoroughly ground


in g th e schola rs in the J a pa ne sc lan guage
and literature and also to mak in g them
,

ski l l ful i n the art of com posing poet ry At


the head of the sch ool in t he highe st posi


,

tion held by any woman i n the employ of


the govern men t is a former court lady
, ,

who is second to n one i n the k in gd om not ,

only in her knowl edge of a l l that belon gs


to court eti quette but in her study of the
,

history and literature of her own people ,

and in her skill in th e composition of thes e


dai n ty poem s A year or two ago when
.
,

o ne of the scholars i n the school died after

a br ie f declin e her sch ool mates teachers


, , ,

a n d school friends wr ote poem s upon her

death which they sent to the bere aved


,

parents .

It is di fcult for any Japanese much ,

mo re so for a forei gner to pen e trate into


,
1 52 J APAN ES E GIR LS AN D WOMEN .

qui si te there is little i n this simplicity


,

to denote the abode of royalty


. It seems .

that t heir majesties t houg h outwardly con


,

forming to many European customs an d ,

to th e European m an ner of dress prefer ,

to live in Japanese ways on matted not , ,

carpeted oors r eposing on them rather


,

than on chairs a nd beds .

Their apartments are not large ; each


'

s uite co n s isting of three rooms Open ing

out of each other the Em p ress s room s


,

being slightly smaller tha n the Emper


or s an d those of the young Prince Haru

, ,

the heir apparent again a little smaller


, .

The young prince has a residence of his


o wn an d it is onl y on his visits that he
,

occupies his apartments i n his father s

pal a ce There are also room s for the Em


.

press d owager to occupy on her occasional


visits Al l of these apartments are quite
.

close together in one part of the pal ace ,

and a r e con n ected by hal ls ; but the pri


vate rooms of the court l a dies are in an
entirely separate place q uite re m oved a nd
, ,

only con nected with the m a in buildin g


by a long n a rro w p a ssa ge wa y r un n ing
, ,

through the garden Th e re i n the rooms


.
,

assigned to them each one ha s her own


,
C O UR T LE E . 1 53

private establish ment where she stays


,

when she is not on d uty in attendance o n


the E mperor an d E m press Eac h lady has
.

her own servants and sometimes a youn ger


,

sister or a dependent may be li ving there


with her thoug h they a re entirely sepa
,

rate from the court and the li fe there and ,

must never be seen in any of the other


parts of the buildin g In th ese rooms
.
,

which are like little homes in themselves ,

cookin g and housekeepin g are done e u ,

tir el y i n depen dent of the other parts of


th e great palace ; a nd the tradesmen nd
their way through some back gate to these
little es tablish men ts supplyin g them with
,

all the n ecessari es of li fe as well as the


,

lux uries .

A court lady is a person age of distin o


ti on and lives in comparative ease and
,

luxury with plenty of servants to do al l


,

the necessary work Besi des her salary


.
,

which of course varies with the rank and


the duti es performed but is always liberal
,

enough to cover the necessary ex penses of


dre ss the court lady re ceives many presents
,

from the Em peror and Empress which ,

ma ke her pos ition o ne of much luxu ry .

The etiquette of the im perial house hold


is very com plicated a nd very strict th ough ,

many of the formal ities of the olden ti m es


have bee n given up The court lad ie s are
.

model s of conse rvatism I n order to be .

trained for the life there an d its d uti es ,

they usually ente r the court w hile m ere


childre n of ten or eleven a nd serve a p ,

prenticeship to th e older members In .

the rigid secl usion of the palace they are


strictly al m ost seve rely brought up a nd
, , ,

trained in all the details of court etiquette .

Cut off from a ll outs ide inuenc e s whi l e


young the li ttle court m aidens a re ta ught
,

to go thro ugh an en d l e ss roun d of fa n


m a l itie s wh ich they a r e made to think
indispensa ble T hese detail s of etiquette
.

extend not only to al l that concerns the


i m perial household but to c urious cus,

to m s among themselves an d in regard to ,

their own habi ts Many of these id eas


.

have co me down from one generation to


another within the narrow limits of the
,

court so that the li fe t here is a curious


,

world in itse l f a n d v e ry unlike that in


,

ordi nary Japanese homes .

But am on g all the l a dies of Japan to


day ,
charming in tellectu a l re ned a nd
, , ,

l ovely as m any of them are the re is no ,


1 56 J APAN ES E GI RLS AN D WOMEN .

p e ror ctual power an d the leading part


to a

i n the govern me nt Reared amid the deep .

a n d s chol arly seclusion of th e old court at

Kyoto the you n g Empre ss foun d hersel f


,

occupyin g a position very di fferent from


that for which she had been educated a ,

position the duties and respo n sibilities of


which grow more m ulti farious as the years
go by Instead of a li fe of rigid secl usion
.
,

unseeing an d unseen the E mpress has had ,

to go forth into the world n d ing there ,

the pl easures a s wel l a s the d uties of actual


leade r ship W ith the removal of the court
.

to Tokyo a n d th e reappearance of the E m


,

p e r or i n ,bodi l y form be fore his people , ,

there cam e n e w Opportunities for the E m


press and n obly has she u sed them From
,
.

the ti me when in 1 8 7 1 she gave audience, ,

to the ve little girls of the s a murai class


who were just setti n g forth on a journey
to America there to study a nd t them
,

sel ve s to play a part in the J a pan of th e


future on through t wenty ye a r s of ch a nge
,

p re ss th e fore ign ers wh e n Com m o d ore Pe rr y was n eg o

ti nting i n re g a r d to t r e a ti e s . Th e Sh og un h el d th e d a im i os
i n for ce d su bj e ction , a su bj e c ti on th a t w as sh a k e n in
1 8 62 , a nd b l a st in th e y e a r 1 8 68 , wh e n , b y th e
ro k e n a t

fa l l of th e Sh og una te , the Em p e r or was re store t o d ir e ct d


p ower over his p eop l e .
CO UR T LI FE . 157

and progress the E mpres s Haru Xc has


,

done all that lay within h e r power to a d


vance the women of her country M any .

stories are a oat which show the lovable


ch aracter of the woman an d which have ,
'

given her a n abidin g p l ace i n the aec


tions of the people .

Some years a go w hen the castle i n


,

To ky o was burned an d the E mperor and


,

E mpress were obliged to take refuge in an


old dai mi o s house a place entirely l ac k in g

in l uxuries and consi derably out of repair ,

some one expressed to her the grie f that


a l l her people felt that she should have to
,

put u p with so many i ncon veniences Her .

respon se was a grace ful little poem in ,

whi ch she said th a t it mattered little how


she was situated as lon g as she was sure
,

of a home in the hearts of her people .

That home which re can never con sume


, ,

she has undoubtedl y m ade for herself .

Upon another occasion when Pri nce Iwa ,

k ura one of the leaders of Japan in the


,

ea rly days of the crisis through which the


country is still pa ssin g lay dyin g at his
, ,

home the E mpress sent hi m word that


,

she was coming to visit hi m T he prince .


,

afraid that he cou ld not do honor to such


1 58 APAN ES E GI RLS
J AN D WOMEN .

a guest sent her word back that he wa s


,

very ill a nd unable to make proper prepa


,

r ation to entertai n an Empress To t hi s .

the E mpress replied that he need m ake no


preparations for her for she was coming
, ,

n ot as a n Empress but as the daughter of


,

Ichij o his old frien d and colleag ue a nd as


, ,

s uch he could receive her And then set .


,

ting aside imperial state a nd etiquette she ,

vi s ited the dying statesman and bright ,

ened his last hours wit h the thought of


how lovely a woman stood as an exampl e
before the women of his be loved co untry .

Many of the charities and schools of ne w


Japa n are un der the Empress s specia l

patronage ; an d this does not mean simply


that she allows her name to be used i n
con nection with them b ut it me a ns that ,

she thinks of them studies them as ks


, ,

questions about the m and even practices


,

little economies that she may have the


mo re money to give to them There is a .

charity hospital in Toky o havin g i n con nec ,

tio n wit h it a training school for nurses ,

that is one of the special objects of her


care L ast year she gave to it at the
.
,

end of the ye a r the savi ngs fro m her own


,

p riva t e a llowance and conc


, e r ning this act
1 60 J APAN ES E GI RLS AN D W OMEN .

Majesty s be nevolence is however m ore



, ,

than usually strikin g Since the foundin g


.

of the T6 ky6 Charity Hospital where so ,

m any poor wome n and children are trea ted ,

the Empress has watc hed the institution


closely has be st owed on it patronage of the
,

m ost active and help ful chara cte r and h as ,

contributed handsomely to its funds Littl e .

by little the hospita l grew exte ndin g its ,

S ph e re of action and enlarging its minis

tr a tions until the n eed of more cap a ciou s


,

premises a need familiar to such under


taki n gs be gan to be stron gly felt The .

E mpress k nowing this cast ab out for som e


, ,

means of assisting this project To prac .

tice st rict economy in her own person al


expenses an d to devote whatever money
,

might thus be saved from her yearly in


come to the aid of the hospital appears ,

to have suggested i tsel f to her Majesty


as the most feas ible method of procedure .

The re s ult is that a s um of


, yen 90 ,

sen and 8 rin has j ust been h a nded over


,

to D r Ta kagi the chi e f pro m oter and


.
,

m ai n stay of the hospital by Vi scount ,

K a g a wa on e of h e r M aje sty s cha m ber


,

lai n s. There is s om ethi n g picture sq ue


about these sen and rin They represent .
C O UR T LI FE . 161

an ac count mi nutely and faith fully kept


between her M ajesty s unavoidable expenses

a nd the benevolent im p ulse that constantly

urged her to curtail them S uch gracio us


.

acts of sterl ing effort com ma n d admiratio n



a nd l ove .

Not very long ago on one of her visi t s to


,

the hospital the E mpress visited the chil


,

dren s ward an d took with her toys w h ich



, ,

she gave with her own hand to eac h child


there W hen we consider t hat this hos
.

pital is free to the poorest and lowest per


son i h T6 ky6 and that t wenty years ago the

persons of the Em peror a nd E mpress were


so sacred in the eyes of the people that no
one b ut the highest nobles and the near

ofcials of t he co urt co uld come i nto their


presence that eve n these high n obles
,

were received at co urt by the E m peror at


a distance of many feet and his fa ce even ,

the n could not be seen whe n we th ink of


,

all th is we can begin to appreciate what


,

the E mpress Haru Ko has done i n br id g


ing the distance between hersel f and her
people so that the poorest child of a beg
gar may receive a gi ft from her hand I n .

the co untry pl aces to this day there a re ,

p e asa nts who ye t b e lieve t hat no one c a n


1 62 JAPAN ES E GI RLS AN D WOMEN .

l ook on the sacred face of the E mperor


an d live .

The school for the daughte rs of the


nobles to which I have be fore re ferred i s
, ,

an institution whose wel fare the E mpress


has very closely at heart for she sees the ,

n eed of rightly combin ing the new a nd the

old in the education of the young girls


who will so soon be lling places in the
co urt At the Open ing of the school the
.

E mpress was present and hersel f made a ,

speech to the scholars ; and her visits at ,

intervals of one or two months S ho w her ,

contin ued int e re st in the work that she

h a s beg un Upon all st a te occasions the


.
,

scholars standin g with bo wed heads as if


,

in prayer sing a little son g written for


,

them by the E mpress her sel f ; and at the


gra d uati ng exercises the speeches an d a d
,

d resse s are listened to by her with the pro


found e st int e rest The best specimens of
.

poetry pai n ti ng and compo sition done by


, ,

the sch ol a rs a r e se nt to the pal ace for her


in s pection and som e of these are kept by
,

her i n her own private room s W h e n she .

vi sits the class rooms she doe s not sim ply


-
,

pass i n and pa ss out a gai n a s i f doing a ,

formal d uty but sits for h a l f a n h our or so


,
1 64 APAN ES E GI RLS
J AN D WOMEN .

al ways end with some choice toy or gi ft ,

which the child takes h ome and keeps


a mong her most val ued treasures in r e

m e m b r a nce of her i mperial hostess In .

this way the Em press relieves the l onel i


ness of the great palace where the sou n d ,

of childish voices is seldom heard for th e ,

Empe ror s childre n are brought up in sep


arate establish ments and only pay occa ,

sioual visits to the palace until they hav e ,

passed early ch ildhood l .

The present li fe of the Empress is not


very di fferent from that of E uropean roy
al ty Her carriage and escort are fre
.

quently met with in the streets of Toky o

as she goes or return s on one of her n u


m e r ous visits of c e remony or b e ne ce nce .

Policemen keep back the crowds of peo


ple who always gather to see the imperial
carriage an d stand respect fully but with
, ,

o ut de m on stration while the horse men ,

carrying the imperi a l insign ia followed ,

1 The Em p eror s ch il dr e n a re p l ac e d , from bir th , in


the care of som e n obl e or hi g h of cia l , wh o becom es the

g ua rdia n f th e chil d C t in p n a e pp inte d as


o . er a e rso s r a o

a ttend n ts a nd th e ch il d wi th i ts e ti n ue l iv es i n th e e s
a , r

t bl i h en t f the g ua d i n wh is upp se d to ex e cise


a s m o r a , o s o r

h is j udg nt a n d
m e xp e ie nce i n th e p h ysica l a nd m e ntal
e r

tra ini ng of th e chil d .


C O UR T LI FE . 1 65

closely by the ca rr ia ges of the Empress


a n d her atte ndan ts pa ss by The ofcia l
,
.

G azette an noun ce s al most da i l v vis it s by


the E m peror Em pre s s or ot her mem bers
, ,

of the i m pe ria l fa m il y t o d ie re nt place s of


'

inte rest sometime s to va r ious


,
pa la ce s
in di fferent pa rts o f Tk G a t other times ,

to schools char ita ble in s tituti o n s or er b i


,

bitions as we l l as occa sional vis i ts to the


,

homes of high o fc ial s or noble s for whic h ,

great prepara ti o n s are mad e by those who


have the honor of enterta in ing their Ma
je s ties .

Amon g the am usements w ithin t h e pal


ace ground s one l a te ly i ntrod uced a nd at
, ,

present in h igh favor is that of horse bac k ,

ridin g an ex e rcise h ithe rto un k nown to


,

the ladies of Japan The Empress a nd her .

ladies are sa id to be very fon d of this ac


tive ex e rci se an amu semen t forming a
,

str iking co ntras t to the quiet of former


years .

The groun d s about the pal aces in T6ky6


are m ost bea uti fully laid out and c ul tivated ,

but not i n th a t artici a l man n e r with reg ,

ular o we r bed s and trees at certai n equal


distanc e s which is seen so o ften in the
,

highly cultivated gr oun ds of the rich i n


l 66 JAPANESE G I RL S A N D WOMEN .

this country The landscape gardening of


.

J a pan keeps u nch an ged the wildne ss a nd


beauty of nature and i m itates it closely
, .

The fam ous owers ho wever are in the


, , ,

imperi a l g a rde n s chan ged by art an d cul


,

ti va te d to their h i ghest per fection bloo m ,

ing each se ason for the enjoyment of the


m embers of the court E specially is atten
.

tion given to the cultiv a tion of the impe


rial ower of Japan the chrysanthemu m ;
,

a nd some d ay in November when this ,

o we r is in its perfection th e ga tes of the,

Aka sa k a pa l a ce a r e thro wn o pen to in vited


gu e st s who a re re ceiv e d in person by the
,

Em p e ror a nd Em press Here the rarest


.

S peci e s of this favorite ower a n d the odd ,

est colors and sh apes the results of much


,

care and c ultivation a re exhi bited in spa-


,
i

cions beds s h a ded by temporary roo fs of


,

bamboo twigs and decorated with the i m


perial a gs This is the great ch rysanth s
.

m um party of the E mperor and another ,

of s i m i l ar ch a r a cter is give n i n the sprin g

u nder the owe r l aden bo ughs of the cherry


-

trees .

In these various ways the Em pre ss shows


hersel f to h e r p e opl e a ,g r a ci ou s an d

l ovely g ure th o ugh d i st a n t a s she needs


, ,
1 68 APAN ES E Ow Ls
J AN D WOMEN .

E ach marks the begin n ing of a new e ra ,

the rst of the era of civi lizatio n an d


,

morality fo un d ed upon the teachin gs of


Buddha a nd Con fucius ; the second of the
,

civiliza tion and morality that have sprung


from the teach i n gs of Christ . B uddhis m
and Con fucianism were elevating and civ
il iz ing b ut failed to place the women of
,

Japan upon even as high a plane as they


had occupied in the old ba rb a ric ti mes To
.

Ch ristian ity they m ust look for t he security


and h a ppiness which it has never failed to
give to the wives an d mothers of all Chri s
tian nations .
CHAP TE R VI I .

LI FE I N CAS T L E AN D Y AS H I KI 1 .

TH Eseclusion of the Emperors an d t he


gathering of the reins of govern ment into
the ha nds of S ho gun s was a grad u a l pro
'

ce ss begin n i ng not lo ng after the intro


,

duction of Chi n e se ci viliz a tion and con ,

tin ni n g to grow until I yya sii the founder ,

of the Tokugawa dy n a sty t hrough his code ,

of laws took from the E m peror the las t


,

ve stige of real po wer and per fected th e ,

feudal system wh ich m a i n tained t h e swa y

1 Ya shiki , or sp r e a d out- h ouse , was the na m e g iven to


d u d
s city re si de nce a nd

the p a l a ce g a nd a i i o ro n fs o a m ,

a l so t o th e b a k s occ up ie d b y h is re ta ine
a rr c both i n rs ,

city a n d unt y
co I n th e city th e ba rr ack s of the s m u a i
r . a r

were b uil t as a h l l w squa re in th e ce ntre of which stood


o o ,

the p l a ce n d g oun ds f the i l d a nd th is w h ol e p l ace


a a r o r or ,

l t owns the d a im i s

w as th e d a im i6

s y a shi ci . I n th e ca s tl e

p a l a ce a nd g a r d e ns s too d w ithin th e cas tl e incl osure , sur

roun d d by
e a t wh il
a m o th e y hilci s f th sa m u i we re
, e as o e ra

p l a c e d w ith ut t h
o e m a t T h y i n tu n w e
o s e
.
p a a te d e r re r

f m th e b usi ss p a rt f t h e vill a g e
ro ne e tim s by a
o so m e

se cond o thi d m oa t
r rBy li f in ca s tl e a nd y hiki we
. e as

m ean th e l ife of th e d a im i o, whe th er in city or countr y.


1 70 JA PA N ES E GIR LS AN D WOMEN .

of h is house for two hu ndred a n d fty years


of peace .

The E mperor s court with its l iterary



,

and azsthetic quiet its si mplicity of li fe an d


,

com plexity of etiquette was the centre of ,

the culture and art of Japan but never ,

the centre of luxury After the growth of .

the Tokugawa po wer had secured for that


h ouse and its retainers great hereditary
possessions the E mperor s co urt was a
,

m ere shadow in the presence of the m a g

n ice nce i n which the Tokugawas and th e

daimi o s chose to live The wealth of the


country was in the h ands of those who


h eld the real po wer an d th e Em peror ,

was dependent for his su pport u pon his


great vassal who held the land collected
, ,

the taxes made the laws and gave to his


, ,

m aster whatever seemed necessary for his

maintenance in the si m ple style of the old


days keeping for hi msel f and for his re
,

t a i ne r s enough to make Yedo the Tok u ,

gawa capital the centre of a luxury far


,

surpassing anything e ver seen at the E m


p e r or s own court

W hi l e the k u g .the ,

old i mperial nobility form erly the govern ,

or s of the province s under the Emperors ,

lived in resp ectable but o fte n ex treme pov


1 72 J APAN ES E GI RLS AN D WOMEN .

l ived alon g the roads by which they m ust


travel The time and style of each jo urney
.

for each daimi o were rigidly pre scribed in


the laws of I ym itsii a s well as the be ,

havior of the country people who m igh t


m eet the procession movin g towards Yedo ,

or r eturni n g therefrom W hen some nob l e .


,

or any member of his family was to pass ,

t hrough a certain section of the country ,

great preparation s were made beforehan d .

Not only was trafc stopped along the


r oute but every door and windo w had to
,

b e closed By no m eans was any one to


.

sh ow hi msel f or to look in any way upon


,

the pas sing procession To do so was to .

comm it a profane deed p un ishable by a ,

ne . A mon g ot h er thin gs no cooking was ,

allowed on that day All the food m ust be .

prepared the day before as the air was ,

supposed to become polluted by the smoke


from th e res Thus thro ugh c rowded
.

cities full an d busy with li fe the dai m i o


, ,

i n h i s curtai ned pala n quin with n umerous ,

reti n ue wo uld pass by ; but wh e rever he


,

approached the place would be as de serted


,

a n d silent as if pl ague stricke n It is -


.

hard l y n eces sary to add that these jo ur


n eys attended with so m uch ceremony an d
,
LI FE I N CA S TL E AN D YA S HI KI . 1 73

i ncon venience to the people were not as ,

frequent as the trips now taken at a mo ,

ment s notice from one city to another



, ,

by these very sa me m en .

O ne sto ry current in To ky o shows the


n a rrowi n g ee ct of such seclusion A
'

noble who had traveled into Yedo across ,

o ne of the large bridges b uilt over the


Snm id a River remarked one day to hi s
,

companions that he was gre atl y d isa p


pointed ou seeing that bridge Fr om the .


pictures he said
,
wh ich I have seen the
, ,

bridge see med al ive with people the centre ,

of li fe and activity but the artists must ex


,

aggerate for not a soul was on the bridge


,

when I passed by .

The cast le of the Sh o gun in Yedo wit h


'

its moats a nd forti cations a nd its ne ,

house and great hum was re prod uced on a


,

small scale I n the ca stles scattered throug h


the country ; and as in Yedo the yas hikis
of the daimios stood next to the i nner

m oat of the castle that th e retainers m ight


,

be ready to de fend their lord at his earlie st


ba l l so i n the provinces the yas hi kis of the
,

s amu rai occu pied a si milar position about

the daimi o s castle



.

It is curious to see that as the ShOg un ,


1 74 JA PAN ES E GI RLS AN D WOM EN .

took away the military and tem poral power


of the Emperor making of hi m only a ,

g ure head wit h out real power so to a


-
, ,

certain degree t he dai mi 6 gave up little by


, ,

little the personal control of his own prov


,

i nce the power falling into the hands of


,

ambitio ns sam urai who became the coun ,

cil ors of their lord The samurai were .

t he learned class and the m ilitary class ;


t hey were and are the li fe of Japan ; an d
it is no wonder that the nobles protec ted ,

and shielded from the world an d growing ,

up without m uch education sho uld have ,

chan ged in the course of cent uries fro m


strong brave warriors into the delicate ef
, ,

feminate lux ury l oving nobles of the pres


,
-

ent day Upon the loyalty and wisdom of


.

the sa m ura i often upon some one man of


,

undoubted ability res ted the greatness of ,

the province an d the prospe rity of the mas


ter s h o use

.

The li fe of the ladies in these daim i o s

hou ses is still a livin g memory to many of


the older women of Japan ; but it is a mem
ory only a nd has given pl ace to a di fferent
,

state of thi n gs The Emperor occupies .

the castl e of the S ho g un to day a nd every -


,

daimi o s castle th roug h out the co untry is



176 J APAN ES E G I RLS AN D WOMEN .

nu merous atte ndants they Slowly wal k e d


,

through the bamboo groves or u nder the


bloom laden boughs of the plum or cherry
-

trees forming their views of l i fe its pleas


, ,

ure s its re sponsibilities and its m ean ing


, , ,

within the n arrow limits of the daimi o s

yash i ki .

The ir mornin gs were passed in the


adornin g of their own pers ons an d i n the ,

elaborate d ressin g of their l uxuriant hair ;


the aftern oons were spen t in the tea cere
in writi ng poetry or the execution
'

I n on
y , ,

of a sort of S ilk mosaic that is a favorite

variety of fancy work still amon g the ladies


of Japan .

A story is told of one of the Toku gawa


prin cesse s that illustrate s the amusemen ts
of the Sh o gun s daughters and the pai ns

,

that were taken to grati fy their wishes ,

however u nreas on able The cherry - trees .

of the castle garden s of Tokya are noted

for thei r beauty when in bloom during the


m onth of April It is said that once a
.

daughter of t he Tokugawa hou se express ed


a wi sh to give a garden party amid th e
blossoming cherry trees in the month-

of D ecember a nd ,
nothin g would do but
that her wishes m ust be carried out Her .
L I FE I N C A S TLE AN D Y A sm m . 1 77

retainers accordingly sum moned to their


aid skill ful a rtice rs w ho from pink an d
,

white tissue paper produced myriads of


cherry blossoms so natural that they could
,

hardly be distin g ui sh e d from the re al ones .

These they fastened u pon the trees in j ust


such places as the real owers wo uld have
chosen to occupy and the happy princess
,

gave her garden party in December under


the pink mist of cherry blooms .

The chil d ren of a d a im i s wi fe occupied


her attention but little They were placed.

i n the charge of care ful atten dants an d the ,

mother though allowed to see them w hen


,

she wish ed was depriv ed of the pl ea sure of


,

constant intercou rse with them a nd had ,

none of the mother s cares which form so


large a part of li fe to an ordinary Japanese


woman .

W hen we know that the ave rage Japa


ne se girl is brought u p strictly by her own
mother and tho roughly drilled in obedi
,

ence a nd in al l that is prOpe r as regards


etiquette and the duties of woman we can ,

im agi ne the n arrowness of the ed ucation


o f the daimi o s poor little daughter sur

,

rounded fro m early chi ldhood with n u


, ,

m ero us attendants of the strictest sort to ,


178 J P A A N ES E GI RLS AN D WOMEN .

teach her all t ha t is proper accordin g to


the highest and se verest standards So m e .

times by the w hi m or the indulge nce of


,

parents or th rou gh exceptional circu m


,

stances iu her surroundin gs a sam urai s


,

daughter became more independen t more ,

sel f rel iant or better educate d than oth


-
, ,

ers of her ran k ; but such opportun ities


n ever came to the more ca re fully reare d

noble s daughter

.

From her earliest childhood she was ,

addressed in the politest and most formal


wa y so that she could not help acqui r
,

ing polite man ners and speech She was .

ta ught etiquette above all thin gs so that ,

no rude acti on or speech would disgrace


her ran k ; and that she should give due
reverence to her superiors courte sy to
,

equals and poli te condescension to in feri


,

ors S he was taught especially to S how


.

kindness to the fam ilies under the rule of


her father and was early told of the n oble s
,

duty to protect and love his retainers as ,

a father loves and prote cts his child ren .

From childhood presents were mad e i n


,

her name to those aro und her ofte n wi th,

out her previous k nowl edge o r per m i ssion ,

and from them she would recei ve pro fuse


1 80 JAPAN ES E GI RLS AN D WOMEN .

co n versing S ipping tea and partaking of


, ,

sweetmeats until th eir noble pupil was


,

r eady to rec eive them Hospitality t e


.

quired that the teacher be o ffered a meal


after the lesson and th is meal etiquette
,

would not permit hi m to re fuse so that ,

both teacher and pupil m ust spen d much


ti me waiti n g for e ach ot her and for t he
lesson .

P ursued in this leisurely way the edu ,

cation of the n oble s daughter could not


a dvance very rapidly and it us ually e nded


,

with an extrem ely early marriage an d the


girl wi fe would sometimes p l ay with her
doll in the new home until the living baby
took its place to the you n g mother .

The sam urai women who in one position


,

or an other were close atten d ants on these


n oble ladies ,
performi n g for them every
act of service were o ften women of more
,

than averag e i ntelligence and educatio n .

From ch ildh ood to old a g e the noble lad ies ,

w e r e n ever wi th out on e or more of the se


m ai d s of ho n or cl ose at h a n d to help or
,

advi se Some entered the service in the


.

lower po sitions for on l y a s hort period ,

le a ving sooner or later to be married ; for


continued service i n a daimi o s h o u seho l d
m m t a n gle life Ma ny of th em re
si .

m a in e d i n the pa l ac e a ll their da ys l ea d in
, g
l ives of de voti on to t heir m istress ; the
com fort a n d ea se of w h ich hard ly com pen

sa te d for th e e n d l e ss for m a li ti es a n d the

m onoto nous se clusion .

Even the less res ponsible a nd mo re m e


n ia l po siti on s we re n ot look ed down upon ,

a n d the higher o fces i n the house h o l d

were excee d ingly honora ble Wh en once


'
.
,

in a long while a day s leave of abse nce


,

was grante d to one of these gent l ewome n ,

and load ed with presents sent by the d a i


,

mi o s l a dy she went on her visit to her


home she was receiv ed as a g reatly hon


,

ored membe r of her own family The re .

spect which was paid to he r knowledge of


etiquette and dress was never les se n ed
because of the menial services she m ight
have performed for those of n oble blood .

The lady who was the head attendan t,


a n d those in the higher positions had a ,

grea t de a l of pow e r and in ue nce i n mat


te rs th a t c onc e rned th eir m i stress a n d t he
h ouse hol d ; ju st a s the m a l e re t a in e rs de
cid e d for th e pri nc e a n d i n their own
,

way m any of the affairs of the province


,
.

The few conservative old ladies the last ,


1 82 J APAN ES E GI RLS AN D WOMEN .

relics of the n umerous retai ners th a t once


ll ed the castle w ho still remai n fa ith ful
,

i n attendance in the homes now deprived


of the gr andeur of the olden tim es look ,

with horror upon the in novati ons of the


prese nt day and sigh for the glory of ol d
,

Japan It is on ly upo n compulsi on that


.

they give up many of the now useless for


m a l ities a nd resign th e
,
mselves to seein g
their on ce so honored lor ds jostle elbow to
elbow wi th the com mon citizen .

I shall never forget the ho rro r of one


old lad y attendant on a noble s daughter

o f high rank just enterin g the peere ss


,

school when it was told her tha t each stu


,

dent must carry in her own bundle of books


a nd arran ge them hers el f an d that the a t
,

te nd a nts were n ot al lowed in the class


room The poor ol d lady was doubtless
.

in di gnant at the thou ght that her nobl e


born m istr es s should have to perform even
so slight a task as the arran ging of her

own desk unaided .

I n the d a i m is hou ses there was l ittle


of the culture or wit that graced the more

aristocratic secl usion of Ky o to and none ,

of the d uties and responsibilities that be

l onged to the samurai women so that the ,


three centu ries of training They are lac k
.

ing in force in ambition in cl earness of


, ,

thought among a n ation abou nding in


,

those qualities ; but the n ation al charac


te rist ics of digni ty charmin g man ners
, ,

a quick se n se of honor and indomi table


,

pride of race and nation co mb in ed with


,

a personal mod esty al most deprecati ng in


i ts hu mility th e se are foun d among the
,

daughters of the n obl es developed to their


highest extent With the qualities of gen
.

tl e ne s s and delicacy possessed by these la


dies w hich make them Shrink from rough
,

con tact with the outer world there are ,

m in gled the stronger qual ities of bravery


a nd physical coura ge A daimi o s wi fe
.
,

as be tted the wi fe of a warrior an d the


daughter of lon g generations of brave men ,

never shra nk from facin g dan ger a nd death


when necessary ; an d considered the tak ing
of her own li fe an honorable a n d eas y e s

cape from being captured by her enemy .

Two or three little ripples from the past


broke into my li fe i n T6ky6 giv in g a little
,

insight into those old fe ud a l times and the ,

customs that were com mon then but that ,

are now gone forever A story was told


.

me in Japan by a lad y who had hersel f as ,


LI FE I N A S TLE
C AN D Y AS R I RI . 1 85

a child witnessed the events narrate d It


, .

ill ust rates the respon sib ility felt by the re


ta ine rs for their lord and his house A .

daimi 6 fell into disgrace with the Sh6gun ,

and was banished to his own capital ,

a castle town several days jou rney from


Yedo , as a pun ish ment for some o ffen se .

The ca stle gate s we re closed a n d no co m ,

m un ica tion with the outer world allowed .

D uri ng this period of disgrac e i t happened ,

that the n oble fell ill and di ed q uite sud


,

d e nl y be fore his pu nish ment was ended .

H is death u nder such circu mstan ces was


the most terrible th i n g that could be fall
either hi mse l f or his fam ily as his funera l
,

m ust be without the o rdinary tokens of re


spect and his tombstone in stead of bear,

in g tribute to his virtu es and the favor in


,

w hich he had been held by his lord must ,

be si mply the monument of his dis grace .

This being the case the ret ainers felt that


,

thes e evils must be averted at any cost .

Knowin g that the S hag un s an ger was

probably not so grea t as to make hi m wish


to brin g etern al disgrace to their dead
lord they at once decid e d to sen d a mes
,

sen ger to the Sh o gu n beggin g for pard on


,

on the plea of desperate illne ss and ask ,


1 86 J APA N ES E G m LS AN D WOMEN .

i ng the re storation of his favor be fore the


approach of death The death was no t
.

an nounced but the oor of the room i n


,

which the man had died was li fted up an d ,

the body let down to the gro und beneath ;


and throug h all the town it was an nounced
that the d a i m ifi was hopelessly il l Forty
.

days pa sse d before the Sh o gu n sent to the


retainers the token that the disgrace was
removed and durin g all tho se fo rty days
, ,

in castle and ba rrac k a nd vil l age the c


,

tion of the d ai m ic s illn e ss was kept u p



.

A s soon as the messe n gers return ed the ,

body was drawn up again thro ugh the oor


a nd placed on the bed ; a nd all the re

ta ine rs from the leas t unto the grea test


, ,

were sum mon ed into the room to congra tu


late their master u po n his rest oration to
favor . O ne by one they ente red the dar k
e ned room prostrated themselves be fo re
,

the corpse an d uttered the formal words


,

o f con gra tul ation Then when all even to


.
,

the littl e girl who grown to woman hood


, ,

told m e the story had bee n through the


,

horrible ceremony it was annou nced that


,

the m a ste r wa s dead that he had died


,

i m mediate ly afte r the return of the mes


se nge r with the goo d tidi ngs of pardon .
n ese lady who kn ew the i nte rest th at I
,

took in seein g an d procurin g the ol d -fash


ioned embroidere d ki m onos which are n ow ,

enti rely out of style i n Japan a nd which ,

can only be obtained at second hand c l oth -

i ng store s or at private sale My frien d


,
.

said that she had j ust been sh ow n an as


sortment of ol d garments which were of
fe re d at private sale by the heirs of a lady ,

recently d ece a sed wh o h ad on ce been a


,

maid of honor in a dai mi o s house The


.

cl othes were still i n the ho use and were ,

brought in in a great basket for my ia


, ,

specti on. Very beauti ful garments the y


were of si l k crepe an d linen embroidered
, , , ,

elabor ately and in ext remely good ord er


, .

Many of them see med not to have bee n


worn at all but had bee n kept folded a w
,
ay
for years and only brought out when a t
,

tin g occasion came round at the pro per


seaso n of the year As we turned ov er the
.

beauti ful fabrics a black b roM cl oth gar


,

m ent at the botto m o f the basket aroused

my curiosi ty and I pulled it out and held


,

it up for closer inspe cti on A curious gar .

ment it was bound with white and with a


, ,

great white cres t app lique on the m iddle of


the back Curious whi te stripe s gave the
.
c oat a military look a n d it seemed appro
,

p ri a te rather to t he ward r obe of some two


sworded warrior tha n to that of a gentle
woman of the ol d type To th e question
.
,

H ow did such a coat come to be in such a


place ? the older lady of the com pany
one to whom the old days were sti ll the

natural o rder a nd the new custo m s an ex



oti c growth explai ned that the garment
right fully belon ged i n the wardrobe of any
lad y in waiti ng in a dai mi o s house for it
- -

,

was made to w ear i n case of re or attack


when the men we re away and the wome n
,

wer e expected to gua r d the premises . Fur


ther search amon g the relics of the pa st
brought to light the rest of the co stume :
silk ha ka m a or full kil ted trousers ; a sti ff
, ,

m anlike black silk ca p bound with a white


ba nd ; an d a spear cover of broadcloth with ,

a grea t white m e at upon it li ke the one on


,

the broa dcloth coat These m ade up the


.

un iform which m ust be don ned in tim e of


n eed by the l a dies of the palace or the
castle for the de fense of their lord s pro p
,

e rty
. They had been folded away for twenty
y ears amon g the embroidered robes to ,

come to light at last for the purpose of


s howi ng to a forei gner a phas e of the ol d
li fe tha t wa s so m uc h a m a tta of course to

to t he m eve n to m en tion it to a stra nger .

The e ld e r la dy of t he ho use wa s wond er


fully a muse d a t my interes t in t hes e mute

pre hend why I was willin g to e xp end the


sum of one doll a r for the sa ke of ga inin g
p oss es sio n of a se t of ga rm e n ts fo r whi c h I
could ha ve n o possi ble use The unifor m .

had p r oba bly neve r been worn i n actua l


warfa re but it s own er had been trai ne d
,

in the use of the lo ng ha ndle d spea r the


-
,

cover of whic h she had kept store d away


all thes e years ; an d had re ga rde d her se l f
as l iable to be call e d into ac tion at any

time as one of the ho me guard wh e n the ,

m ale re taine rs of h er lord were in the eld .

There a re in the shops of To ky o to day -

h undreds of col ored prints ill ust rating the


S plendor of the Sh6 gun a te ; for the ne

clothes the pagean ts the show and diaplay


, ,

that end ed with the fall of the hou se of


Toku gawa are still dear to the popular
,

m ind I n these on e S ees reprod uced in


.
,

more than their ori gin al bril l iancy of color


ing the daimi o s with thei r tr ain s of un i
, ,

form ed re taine rs proce ed ing in sta tely pa


,
table and m ixi n g m ed icines to secure the
,

health a nd strength of both mother an d

The fal l of the S h o gunate a nd the abo,

liti on of castle an d y ashiki have made a


,

r adical chan ge in the fashions o f d re ss in

Japa n O ne see s no lon ger the beautifu l


.

em broi dered robes except upon the stage


, ,

for the abolition of the great l e is u re cl as s


has put the owere d kim ono out of fas hion .

There are n o courts s m al l and great, scat


,

to red all through the country where the ,

l ad i es m ust be dre ssed in chan gin g styles


for the chan gi n g seasons an d w here the
,

embroideri es that i mita te most clos ely the


natu ral owers are sur e of a market .

When one asks as every foreigner is l ikely


,

to as k the Japan ese ladi es of one s ac



,


quaintance Why have you given up t he
,

beauti ful embroideries and gorge ous col



ors that you us ed to wear ? the answer

always is There are n o dai mi o s houses
,

now And this is regarded as a s u ci en t


ex planation of the chan ge .

I have in my possession to day two dainty


-

bits of the sil k mos aic work be fore men


tioned the work of the si xteen -year-ol d
,

wife of one of the p roudest and mos t cou


se rva tive the pre sent generation of no
of

bles A dainty little creat ure she was


.
'

with a face upon w h ich her two years of


wi fehood a nd one year of motherhood had
le ft no tra ce of care L iving am id her
.

host of ladies and women servants most of ,

them older and wi ser than herself ; having


no care a nd n o amusements save the eas y
task of keepin g hersel f pretty a nd wel l
d ressed and the am use ment of watching
,

her baby grow and hearin g the chance


,

rumors tha t might co me to her from the


great new world into w hich her h usband
daily went but with which she hersel f
,

never mingled her days were one pleas


,

ant monotonous round unawakening ali ke


, ,

either to soul or in te llec t Into this li fe of


.

remoteness from all that belon gs to the


new era i magine the excitemen t prod uced
,

by the advent of a foreign lad y with an ,

ed ucated dog whose wonder fu l in telligence


,

had been already related to her by one of


her own ladies iu-waiting I shall always
- .

believe that my in vitation i nto that e xclu


sive house was d ue largely to the reports
of my d o g carried to its pm pr ietors by one
,

of the lady servitors w ho had see n hi m per

form upon one occasion Ce rtain it is that


.
the rst words of the litt le lady of the
h ouse to me wer e a qu estion a bout the dog ;
and her last act of polite ness to our party
was a warm embrace of the ha ndsom e
co ll ie who had given un impeachable evi
,

dence that he u nderstood a grea t deal of


E nglish , a tongue which the d a i mi o h im
sel f was pd ufull y lea rn in g The dainty .

child w
- i fe with both arms b uried i n the
'

h eavy ru of the ast on ished dog is a pic


ture that comes to me o ften and t hat ,

brin gs up most pa theti cally the monotony


of an exis te nce into which so s m all a thin g

ca n bring so m uch The l ifelike blac k an d


.

whi te sil k puppy the creeping baby do l l


,

fro m Ky o to the sil k mosaic box a n d chop


,

stick case ,the work of my lady s del i

cate n gers are most agreeabl e rem ind


,

ers of the kin dness an d sweetnes s of the


li ttl e wife whose sixteen summers have
,

been spent amon g the surroundin gs of


thirty years a go and who l ives like the
, ,

enchanted prin cess of the fairy tales ,

wr appe d about by a spel l which sepa rate s


f
her rom the bustlin g world of to day The .

prod uct of the past the daugh ter of the


,

l ast of the Sh o gun s she dwell s in her


,

e nchanted house among the re lics of a


,
CH APTE R VI II .

SAM URAI W OM EN .

SAM UR AI was the name g iven to the


military class among the Japanese a ,

class intermediate between the Emperor


an d his nob les and the great m ass of the
com mon people who were engaged in a gri
culture mechanical arts or trade Upon
, ,
.

the samurai rested the defen se of the


cou ntry fro m enemies at ho m e or a broad ,

as well as the preservation of literature


and learnin g an d the condu ct of all oi
,

cia l b us i n e s s
. At th e ti me of the fal l of
feudal i s m t h ere were amon g the thirty
, ,

four m il lions o f Japanese ab out two mil ,

l ion s amurai ; a n d in this class in the ,

bro a de st sen se of the word must be in ,

c l u d e d the d a i m io s a s well as their two


,

s wor d e d ret a i n ers


. But a s the greater
a m o n g the s a m ur a i w e re di stin guished by

sp e ci a l cl a ss n a m e s th e word a s com m only


,

us ed a nd a s u sed throughout th is work


, ,
SAM UR AI Wou N . 1 97

applies to the m ilitary cl a ss who served ,

the Shd gun and the dai mi o s an d w ho ,

were supported by yearly allowance s from


the treasuries of their lords T hese form .

a distin ct class actuated by motives q ui te


,

different fr om those of the lower classes ,

and lli n g a gr eat pl ac e in the history of


the country As the nobility th rough long
.
,

i n heritance of power and wealth beca me ,

w eak in body and m ind t he samurai gre w ,

to be more and more not on ly the sword


, , ,

but the b rain of Japan ; a nd to-day the


great work of bringing the country out of
the middle ages into the n ineteent h cen
tury is being pe rform ed by the samu rai
more tha n by any ot her cl ass .

What it may be ask ed a re the traits of


, ,

the sam urai whic h d istinguish them an d ,

m ake the m such honored types of the per

fee t Japan e se gentleman so that to li ve an d,

die worthy the nam e of sam urai wa s the


highest ambiti on of the soldier ? The se

m urai s duty may be expressed in one word ,


loya l ty loyalty to his lord and master and
, ,

loyalty to his country loyalty so tr ue and


,

d eep that for it all h um a n ties , hopes an d ,


'

a ec tions wi fe , chil d ren and home must


, , ,

be sa criced if nec essa ry Those who have .


1 98 J P A AN ES E Ow LS AN D WOMEN .

l
read the tale of The Loyal Bo nin a

a story which has been so wel l told by M it


ford D ickens an d G res y tha t many read
, ,

ers m ust be already familiar with it will


remember that the head councilor and
reta iner O ishi in his deep desi re for t e
, ,

ven ge for hi s lord s unj ust death divorces



,

his wi fe an d se n d s off his children that they ,

m a y n ot distract hi s thoughts from hi s

plans ; and performs his famous act of re


ven ge without once seein g h is wi fe only ,

lettin g her k now at his dea th his faith ful


ness to her and the true ca use of his see m
i ng cruelty And the wi fe fa r from feel
.
,

in g wronged by such an act only glories in ,

the loyalty of her husband who th re w aside ,

everything to fulll his one grea t duty ,

even though she herself was his unhappy


victim .

T he true sam urai is always brave never ,


'

fearing death or s ue r ing in any form .

L i fe and d e ath are alike to him if no dis ,


~

gr ace is attac hed to his name .

An incident comes in to my mind which


3 Rdnin was the term a pp li e d to a sa m ur a i wh o ha d
l os t his m a s te r , a nd o we d no fe u da l a ll eg ia nce to a ny

d a im i . The e xa ct m ea ni ng of th e wor d is wa ve-m a n,


signifying one w h o wa n ders to a nd fr o without p ur p ose ,
l ik e a wa ve driven by the wind .
2 00 JAPAN ES E GIR LS AN D WOMEN .

that they m u st surrender for the forces a re,

to o strong for them He seemingly con


.

se nts to this an d led down to the wate r s


, ,

edge he sees across the moat his wi fe a nd


,

child who gr eet hi m wit h demonstration s


,

of joy To her he waves his han d ; then


.
,

bravely and loudly so that it m ay be hea rd


,

by friend a nd foe he shouts out the true


,

tidin gs W ait for rein forcement at a ny


,

cost for the besiegers are we a k and will


,


soon have to give up At these word s
.

h is en raged enemies seize h i m and put


him to a death of horrible tort ure but he ,

smiles in their fa ces a s he tells them the


s weetness Of such a sacri ce for his mas

ter. Japanese history abou nds with heroic


d eeds of blood di splayin g the indomitabl e
courage of the samurai In the reading of .

the m we are Often remi n ded of the Spar


,

ta n spirit O f warfare a n d s a m urai women


,

are in some w a y s very like those S partan


m others wh o wo uld r a ther die than see

their sons b ra n d e d a s cow a rds .

The i m pli cit ob ed ience w hich sam u rai


ga ve their lord s whe n c on i cti n g with
,

fe elings of loy a lty to th e ir c oun tr y O fte n ,

prod uced two Opp osi n g fo rce s w h i ch h a d


to be overcome When the dai m i o gave
.
S AM UBAI WOMEN .
201

orders that the k eener-si ghted reta iner felt


would not be for the good of the house ,

he had e ither to dis obey his lord or ac t ,

against his fee ling of loyalty Divided be .

twee n the two duties the samurai would ,

usually do as he thought right for his


country or h is lord di s obeying his m as ,

ter s o rders ; write a con fes si on of his real


moti ves ; and save h is name from disgrace


by co m m itti n g suicide By this not he .

woul d ato ne for his di sobed ien ce a nd his ,

loyalty would never be question ed .

The now abolis hed custom of ha r a ki r i -


,

or the vol untary takin g of one s li fe to

avoid disgrace an d blot out entirely o r ,

partially the stain on an honorable name ,

is a curious custom which has come down


from Old times The ancient heroes stabbed .

themselves as cal mly as they di d the ir ene


m ics and women a s well as men knew
,

how to use the short sword wor n always


1

l
The sa m ura i a l wa ys wom t wo swor ds , a long one for
g hting on l y, a u d a short one for d e fense whe n p om ihl e ,
for ha m kin

b ut, aa s l a st resort , -
The sword is the em
.

bl e m of the sa m ura i sp ir it , a n d as such is resp ecte d an d


honore d . A sa m urai to ok pr id e in k e ep ing his sword s as

aha r p a nd sh ining aa m p os si b l e . He was ue ver see n

wit hout the tw o s w or ds , b ut the l onge r one he re m ove d


a ud l e ft at the frout d oor whe n he e nter ed the h ous e of a

frie n d . To use a swor d b ad l y , to ha r m or injure it , or to


st ep over it , was consi dere d a n insul t to the owner .
at the side of the sam u rai his last a nd ,

e asy escape from shame fu l death .

The young men of this class as well as ,

their masters the d a imi o s were early i n


, ,

structed i n the method of this sel f-stab


bing so that it might be cleanly and eas
,

il y done for a bloody and unseemly death


,

would not re dound to the honor Of the


suicide The fatal cut was not instants
.

'

neous i n its e e ct and there was al ways ,

opportunity for that display of coura ge


- that show of disregard for dea th or
pain which was ex pected of the brave
m an .

The ha m kir i was of cou rse a las t resort


-
,

but it was an honorable death The vulga r .

criminal m ust be put to d eath by the hands


of others but the nobler samurai who
, ,

never cares to su rvive disgrace was con ,

d e m ned to ho ra kir i i f found guilty of ac


-

ti ons worthy Of death Not to be allowe d .

to d o this but to be executed in the com


,

m on way was a d ouble disgrace to a samu


,

rai Even to this day when c rimes such


.
,

as the as sass ination of a minister O f state


are committed in the mistaken belief that,

the act is for the good O f the country the ,

idea on the part of the as sassin is never to


is ooded with s m al l ofc ial s and yet the ,

samurai now is obliged to lay down his


sword and devote his time to the once
d es pised trades and to learn how i mpor
,

tant are the arts of peace co mpa red wit h


those of war .

The dislike of anything sugges tive Of


trade or barter o f services and action s

sprin gin g not fro m duty and fro m the


,

heart but from the desire f gai n


,
o h as
strongly ti nted many little cus toms of the
day o ften m is unde rstood and misconstru ed
,

by foreigners I n ol d Japan ex perience


.
,

and knowled ge could n ot be boug ht and


sold P hysicians did not charge for thei r
.

se rvices but on the contra ry would dec l ine


,

to name or even receive a co mpensatio n


from those in their own cl an Patients .
,

on their side w ere too proud to ac cept


,

se rvices free and would send to the phy


,

s ic ia n s not as pay exactly but more as


, ,

a gi ft or a token of gratitude a su m ,

O f m o ney wh ich va r ied ac cording to the

means of the giver as well as to the ,

amount of service received D ai mi o s did .

n ot send to as k a teac h e r how m uch an

hour his ti me was worth and then ar ran ge,

the lessons accordi n gly ; the te acher was


SAM UR AI WOMEN . 205

not i nsulte d by being expected to ba rter


his kn owl edge for so much lthy lucre ,

but was m e rel y asked whether his time


and convenience would allow of his taking
extr a teachin g The request was made
.
,

not as a matte r of give an d take but a ,

favor to be granted D ue com pen sation


.
,

however would never fail to be m ade


, of ,

th is the teacher could be sure but no ,

agreement was ever consi d ered neces sary .

Wi t h th is feeling yet rema in ing in Ja


pan
, this dis like of contracts and exac t ,

charges for pro fe ssi o nal services we ca n ,

i magine the inward disgust of the samurai


at the busi n ess-l ike habits of the foreign
ers with whom he h as to deal O n the .

other hand his fee l in gs are not appreciated


,

by the fore igner an d his action s clash with


,

the E uropean and A merican ideas of in


depe ndence and sel f-respect I n Japan a .

present of money is more honorable tha n


pay w hereas in A merica pa y is much more
,

honorable than a present .

The samurai of to-day is rapidly im bib


in g new ideas and is learnin g to see the
,

world fro m a Western point of vie w ; but


his thoughts an d acti on s are still moulded
on the ideas of ol d Japan and it wi ll be a
,
2 06 J APAN ES E G IR LS AN D WOMEN .

long time be fore the loyal faith ful but, ,

proud spirit of the sam urai will die out .

The pride of clan is now chan ged to pride


of race loyalty to feudal chie f has become
loyalty to the E m peror as sov ereign ; a nd
the ol d t ra its of character exist under the
European costumes of to day as unde r-
,

the owing robes of the two sworded t e -

ta i ne r .

It is this same spirit of loyalty that


has made it hard for Christian ity to get a
foothold i n Jap a n T he E mpe ror was the
repre sentative of the gods of Japan To .

embrace a new religion seemed a deserti on


o f hi m a n d the following of the strange
,

go ds of the foreigner The work of the


.

Catholic missionari es which ended so d is


a st rousl y i n 1 63 7 has le ft the i mp ression

that a Chri stian is bound to offer alle


g ia ne e to the P ope in much the sa m e
way as the E mperor now receives it from
his people ; and the bittern ess of suc h
a thought has made m any re fuse to h ear
what Christianity really is S uch words as
.

King and Lord they have understood


as referring to te m poral things and it ,

has taken years to u ndo this prejudice ; a


feeling in no way surprising when we
2 08 APAN ES E
J AN D WOMEN .

m a n s rst duty in a l l ranks of soci ety is


obedience ; hut sacri ce of se lf i n howe ver ,

horrible a way was a duty most cheerfully


,

an d willi ngly perfor m ed when by such sac ,

r ice father husba nd or s on might be


, ,

the better able to full l his duty tow a rd s


h is feudal superior T he women in the .

d a i m ias castles who were taught fenc ing



,

drilled and uni formed a nd rel ie d upo n ,

to de fend the castle i n ca s e of n ee d were ,

women of this class women whose hus


,

bands a nd father s were soldiers and in ,

whose veins ra n the blood of generation s


of ghti ng ancesto rs G entle fe m in in e
.
, ,

delicate as they were there was a possibil ,

ity of martial p rowess about them when


the n eed for it came ; and the long ed u
cation in obed ien ce and loyalty did not
fail to prod uce the de sired results Death .
,

and ignominy worse tha n death could be ,

met bravely but disgrace in volving loss of


,

honor to husband or feudal lord was the


o n e thin g that m ust be avoided at all haz
ards It was my good fortune many years
.
,

a g o to make the acquaintance of a little


,

Japa nese girl who had lived in the m idst


of the si ege o f Wakamatsu the city i n ,

which the S h o gun s forces made their last



M UM WOMEN . 209

s tand for their lord an d the system tha t


he represented As the Em peror s forces
.

march ed u pon the ca stle town moat after ,

m ea t was taken un ti l at l a st men women


, , ,

and children took refuge within the ci ta del


itse lf to defe nd it until the l ast gasp The .

bombs of the besiege rs fel l cras hing i nto


the cas tle precincts killing the wo m en as
,

they worked at whate ver they could do in


aid of the d efenders ; an d even the little
girls ran back an d forth , amid the rai n of
bu ll e ts and bal ls ca rrying cartridges which
, ,

the women w e re m ak i n g within the castle ,

to the men who were defending the walls .

Were n t you afraid P we asked the del i


ca te c hild when she to ld us of her own shar e


,

in the defense . No was the answer A
, .

s m all but dan gerous sword of the nest ,

Japa nese stee l was shown us as the sword


,

that she wore in her belt d urin g all those


days of war an d tum ult Why did you
.


wear the sword ? we asked So that I
.

would have it if I was taken prisoner .

What would you have done with it P was


the next question for we could not believe
,

that a child of e ight would und e rtake to


defend h erself against armed soldiers with
that little sword I would have ki ll ed
.
2 10 J APAN ES E G I R LS AN D WOMEN .

myse l f was the an swer with a ash of


, ,

the eye that showed her quite capa ble of


com m i tti ng the act i n case of need .

I n the olden times when the spirit of


,

warfare was strong and j ustice but sca nti ly


ad m in istered reven ge for personal insul t
, ,

or fo r the death of father or lord fell upon ,

the children or the re tainers Someti mes


, .

the bloody deed h as fallen to the l ot of a


woman to some weak and feeble girl who
, , ,

in m a ny a tale has braved al l the d ifcul


,

ties that beset a woman s path devoted her


,

li fe to an act of ven geance and with the , ,

courage of a man has o ften succes s fully


,

consu m mated her revenge .

O ne of the tales of old J a pan an d a fa ,

vor ite subject of theatrical repre se ntation ,

is the death and revenge of a l ad y in a d ai


m i o s palace O noy a daughter of the

.
,

peo ple child of a merchant has by chance


, ,

risen to the position of lady -in waiting to a -

dai mi o s wi fe

a thing so uncom mon that
,

it has roused the jealousy of the other


ladies who are of the samurai class I wa
, .

fuji one of the highest a nd p roudes t ladies


,

at the court takes pa ins on every occa


,

sion to in sult and torment the poor unof ,

fending C a oy e whom she can not bear to


,
21 2 JAPAN Es E GI RLS AN D WOMEN .

whil e listening to the talk of her servan t ,

ha s mad e up her m ind that only o ne th in g


can blot out her disgra ce and that is to ,

com mit suicide S he hastily pen s a fare


.

wel l to her family for the deed must not ,

be delay ed an d sen ds wi th the letter the


,

token of her disgra ce I wa fuji s sa ndal ,



,

which she has kept 0 Ba r n is se nt on .

this errand an d unconsci ous of the i ll


, ,

news she is bea r in g she sta rts out O n , .

the way the ominous croak of the raven s


, ,


who are makin g a dis mal n ois e , a p re

sage of ill luck


- frightens the observan t
,

0 Ba rn A little further on the strap


.
,

of her clog breaks a sti l l more alarm,

i ng sign Thoro ughly frightened 0 Ba rn


.
,

turn s bac k an d re ac hes her mistress room


,

i n ti me to nd that the fatal deed is done ,

and her mistress is dying 0 Ba rn is .

heart broken learn s the whole truth an d


-
, ,

vows ven geance on the en emy of her loved


m istress .

0 Ba r n unlike C a oye is thoroughly


, ,

trained in fencing An occasion arises .

when she retur ns to I wa fuji in public the


malicious blow and with the same sandal
, ,

which she has kept as a sign of her re


ven ge . She then challenges I wa fuji in ,
s AM UEAI WOMEN . 13

behalf of the dead to a trial in fe ncing


, .

The haughty I wa fuj i is forced to accept ,

a nd is t ho ro ughly de feated a nd shamed

be fore the spe c ta tors The whole trut h is


.

now m a de kn o wn a nd t he d a im ib who ad

, ,

mires an d appreciates the spirit of 0 Ba r n ,

se nds for her a nd raises her fro m her low


,

po s i tion to l l the pos t of her dead mis


tress .

These stories show the spirit of the


samurai wo m en ; they can s uffe r deat h
bravely even joy fully at their own h a nds
, ,

or the han ds of husband or father to avoid ,

or wipe out any disgrace which they re


gard as a loss of hon or ; but they will as
b ravely and patiently subject themselves to
a li fe of shame and ignominy worse than ,

death for t he sake of gaining for husband


,

o r father the means o f carrying out a feudal

obligation There is a pathetic sce ne i n


.
,

o ne of the most famo us of the Japan ese h is

tor ica l d ramas i n which one seems to get


,

the moral perspective o f the ideal Japanes e


woman a s o ne can not get it in any other
,

way The play is found ed o n the s tory of


.


The Loyal Rani ns re ferred to in the be
,

gin ning of this chapter The loyal r o nin s .

are plotting to aven ge the d e at h o f the ir


ma ster upon the dai mi o wh ose cupid ity
and inj ustice have brought it about As .

there is dan ger of disloyalty even in their


own ranks O ishi, the leader of the dead
,

d a i m iO s reta iners displ a ys great caution



,

in the sel e ction f his fellow con spirators


o -
,

and practices every arti ce to secure a h


solute secrecy for his plans O ne youn g .

man who was in disgrace with h is lord at


,

the ti me of his death applies to be ad ,

m itte d w ithin the circle of conspirators ;

but as it is suspected that he may not be


tr ue to the cause a payment in money is
,

exac ted from hi m as a pled ge of hi s honor


able intentions I t is thus m ade his rst
.

d uty to redeem h is honor from all suspicion


by the payment o f the money in order ,

that he may perform his feudal obligation


o f aven gi ng the death of his lord But the .

young m a n is poor ; he has married a poor


girl and has ag reed to support not only his
,

wi fe but her old pare n ts as well and the


, ,

payment is im possible for hi m I n this .

emerge ncy his wife at the suggestion o f


, ,

her parents proposes as the only way to


, , ,

sell hersel f for a t erm of two yea rs to


, ,

the proprietor of a house of pleasure that ,

she may by th is v ile servitude enable he r


2 16 J APA N ES E G I RLS AN D WOMEN .

her husband The Japanese both m en


.
,

and women knowi ng this story and m any


,

others si milar in charac ter can see as we , ,

can not from our point of view t hat even if , ,

the body be d e led there is no d e l e m en t


,

of the so ul for the woman is ful lling h er


,

high est duty in sacricing all even her ,

dearest possession for the honor of her


,

husba nd It is a climax of sel f abnegation


.
-

that brings nothing but honor to the so ul


of her who r e a ches it Japan ese women
.

who read this story feel profound pity for


the poor wi fe an d a horror of a sacrice
,

that binds her to a li fe whi ch outwardly ,

to the Japanes e mind even is the lowest ,

depth a woman ever reach es But they do .

not despise her for the ac t ; nor would they

re fuse to receive her even were she to a p


pear ia l i vi ng form to day in any Japanese
-

home wher e thanks to happier fortun es


, , ,

such sac rices a re not demanded Just .

at this point is the di ffe rence of moral


perspective that foreign ers visitin g Japan
nd so hard to understand a nd that leads ,

many who have lived in the count ry the


,

longest to beli eve that there is no modesty


,

and pu rity a mon g Japanese women It is .

this tha t makes it possible fo r the viles t


S AM UEAI WOMEN . 21 7

of stories and those that have the leas t


,

foundation i n fact to nd easy belief among


,

foreign ers even if they be told a bout the


,

pure st most high mi nded and mo st honor


,
-
,

able of Japa nese women O ur maidens as .


,

they grow to woman hood are taught that ,

anythin g is better than pe rsonal dishonor ,

and their maidenly in stincts side with the


teaching With us a virtuo us woman does
.
,

not m ean a brave a h eroic an unselsh or


, , ,

sel f sacri ci ng woman but mean s simply


-
,

o ne who k e eps hersel f from personal di s

honor Chastity is the supreme v i rtue for


.

a woman all other vi rtues are se condary


com pared wi th it Th is is our poin t of
.

vi ew and the whole perspecti ve is arran ged


,

with that virtue i n the foreground D is .

m is s this for a moment and consider the ,

m oral trainin g Of the Japanese m a iden .

Fro m earliest youth u ntil she reach e s ma


t urity she is constantly taught that o bed i
,

en ce and loyalty a re the supreme vi rtu es ,

which must be preserved even at the sacri


ce of all other a nd le sser virt ues S he is .

told that for the g ood of father or husband


she must be willing to m eet any dan ge r ,

endure any dishonor perpetra te any cri me , ,

gi ve u p any treasure S he mu st consider .


that nothing be lon gin g solely to hersel f is
of a n y im porta nce com pa re d with the go od

of her m as ter her family or her coun try


, , .

P lace t his thought o f obedi ence a n d loyalty ,

to the po i nt o f absolu te sel f-abnegation in ,

the fore ground an d your pe rspective is a l


,

ter ed the other vi rtues occ upying places of


,

varyi n g importan ce Because a Japan e se


.

woman will someti mes sac rice her pe rson al


v irtue for the sake of father or husband ,

does it fo l low that all Japan ese women a re


un chaste and impure ? In many cases th is
sacrice is the nobl est that she believes
pos sible and she goes to it as she would
, ,

g o to death in any d re a d ful form for those ,

w hom she loves an d to whom she o wes the


,

du ty of obedience The Japanese m ai den


.

grows to woman hood no less pu re a nd


modest than our own girls but our girls ,

are never call e d upon to sacrice their mod


e sty for the sake of t hose whom they love

be st ; nor is it expe cted of any woman in


this country that she exis t solely for the
good of some one el se in whatever way he ,

chooses to use her d uri n g all the years of


,

her li fe Let us take this d ifference i nto


.

o ur thought i n form in g our j udgment and ,

let us ra ther seek the causes that u nderlie


2 20 JAP AN Es E GIRLS AN D WOMEN .

such n o timidity or m orti ca tion or fear


, , ,

o f ridicule will prevent the performan c e

of it . A case comes to my mind now o f


a youn g girl of sixteen w ho m ade public ,

co n fes sion be fore her schoo lmates of short


com in gs of which none of them k new fo r ,

the sake of easing her troubled con scien ce


and warnin g her schoolmates against si m i
lar errors The circu mstances were as fol
.

lows : The young girl had recently lost her


grandmother a mo st loving an d affec ti on
,

ate ol d lady who h ad taken the pl ac e o f


,

a mother to the child from her earliest


infan cy I n a somewhat un happy home
.
,

the love of the ol d grandmother was th e


on e bright spot ; a n d when she was taken

away the poor lon ely child s memory re


, ,

called all of her own shortcomin gs to this


beloved friend ; a nd too late to make amend
,

ment to the ol d l ady hersel f she dwelt ,

o n her own u nduti fulness and decided that ,

she m ust by some m eans do pe nance or ,

make atonement for her fault She might .


,

i f she m a de a con fession be fore her school


mates warn them against similar mistakes ;
,

and accordin gly she prepared for the lite r ,

ary society in which the girls took what


part they chose a l ong con fession written
, ,
sA M UEA1 WOMEN . 22 1

in poeti ca l style an d read it be fore her


,

schoolmate s an d teachers It was a te r .

rible ordeal as one could see by the blush


,

ing M e and breaking voice Often choked ,

with sobs and when at the conclusion she


urg ed her friends to behave in such a way
to thei r dear ones that they n eed never
s ue r what she had had to end ure since
'

her grand mother s death there was not a



,

dry eye in the room a nd many of the girls


,

were sobbin g aloud It was a curious ex


.

piation a nd a touchin g one but one not i n ,

the least excepti onal or u ncharacteristic of


the S pirit of duty that actuate s the best
women of the sam urai class .

Here is another i nst a n ce which ill us


t rates this sense of duty a nd desire of ,

atoning for p a st m istakes or si ns At the .

ti me of the overthro w of the feudal sys


te m,
the samurai bred to loyalty to their
,

o wn feudal superiors as their highest duty ,

fou nd themselves ran ged on di ffe rent si des


in the struggle accord ing to the position s
,

i n which their lord s pl aced the mse lves At .

the end of the st r uggle those who had ,

followed their dai m io s to the eld i n de ,

fe a se of the S h o gun ate found that they


,

had been ghting against the Em peror the ,


2 22 JAPAN E s E GI RLS AN D WOMEN .

So n of Heaven h imself who had at l ast ,

emerged from the se cl us ion of cen tur ies to


gover n his own em p ire Th us the sup .

porters of the Sh o gunate w hile absolutely ,

loy a l to thei r d a i m icis had been disloya l to


'

the h igher power of the E m pero r ; a nd


had put themselves in the po sition of trai
tors to the ir country There wa s a co ni ct
.

o f pri ncipl e s there somewhat sim ilar to


that w hich took place i n our Civil War ,

w hen in the South he who was true to hi s


, ,

S tate became a traitor to h is coun try an d ,

he who was true to his country became


a traitor to his State Two l ad i e s of the
.

nest samurai type had with absolute loy ,

alty to a lost cause aided by every me an s


,

i n th e ir power in the de fense of the city of


Wakamatsu a gainst the victo rious forces
of the Em peror . They had held on to the
bitter end an d had been ban ished wi th
, ,

others of their family and cl a n to a remote ,

province for some years after the en d of


,

the war I n 1 8 77 eleven years a fter the


.
,

close of the Wa r of the Rest oration 9 re ,


.

bel l ion broke out i n the so uth which re


quired a considerable expenditure of blood
and money for its suppression W hen the .

n ew war began these two ladies pre sented


,
2 24 JAPAN Es E G LRLs AN D WOMEN .

ladies ia waiti ng at the court of th e d a i


- -

mi 6 or the S hOg un they cultivated the art s ,

and ac complish ments required for t h eir


position and veiled the martial S pirit t h at
,

d welt within the m u nder an exte rior as


fem inine as g r ac ious as cultivated a n d
, ,

charming as that of any lad ie s of E uro pe


,

or A meric a TO d a y i n the new Japan -


,

w here the samurai ha ve no lon ger thei r


yearly a llowan ce from their lords an d their
feudal duties but scatte red th rough th e
, ,

whole nation are en gaged in all the arts


,

an d trades and are in fusin g the ol d spirit


,

into the new li fe what are the women ,

doing ? A s the govern ment of the land


to day lies in the hands of the samurai
-

men u nder the E mperor so the progr ess ,

of the women the new id eas of work for


,

women are i n the hands of the samu rai


,

women led by the Em press W herever


,
.

there is progress among the women wh er ,

ever they are lookin g about for new op por


tun iti e s entering n e w occupation s e l e va t
, ,

ing the home Openin g hospitals ind us , ,

t rial schools asylu ms there you will nd


, ,

the lead ing spi rits always of the samurai


class I n the re cent chan ges some of this
.
,

class have risen above their former sta te


S AM UE A1 WOMEN . 225

an d joined the ranks of the nob ility ; a nd


th e re the prese nc e o f the sam urai sp irit i n
fu ses new li fe into the aristocra cy So too .
, ,

the chan ges that have raised some have


lower ed others and the samurai is now to
,

be found i n the formerly despise d occ a


ti on s of trad e and industry among the ,

me rchants the farmers the shermen the


, , ,

artisans and the domestic servants But


,
.

wherever his lot is ca st the old train ing , ,

the old ideals the ol d pride of family still


, ,

keep him separate from his prese nt rank ,

and i nstead of pulli n g hi m down to the


,

leve l of those abou t hi m te nd to raise tha t


,

level by the example of honor and i nte l l i


g en c e that he se ts The chan
. ged fo rtunes
were not met without a murmur M ost of .

the outrage s the reactionary movemen ts


, ,

the riots and i nam matory speeches and


writin gs that characte rized the long period
,

of disquiet followi n g the Restoration came ,

from men o f this class who saw their sup


,

port taken from them leavin g them nu ,

able to dig and asham e d to beg But the .

greater part of them went sturdily to work ,

i n govern ment pos iti on s if they could ge t


them in the army on the police force on
, , ,

the farm in the shop at trades at service


, , , ,
2 26 A A
J P N ES E OLELs AN D WOM EN .

even to the hu mble work of wheelin g a


J m kis ha if other
, ho nes t occ upation coul d

not be found ; and the women shared


pa

tie ntly and bravely the ch an ged fortunes of


the men do in g whatever they cou l d towar d
,

be ttering them Th e samu rai w omen to .

day are eager ly working into the position s


of te achers interpreters t rain e d n urse s
, , ,

an d whatever other place s there are whic h


may be honorably occu pied by women Th e .


girls sch ools both govern ment and pr i
,

vate nd many of their pupils amon g th e


,

samurai class ; an d their de ference an d


obedience to their teachers and superi ors ,

their ambiti on and k een sen se of honor i n


th e school room sh ow the inue n ce of the
-
,

samurai feeling over new Japan To the .

samurai women belon gs the task a nd

they have already begu n to perform it


of establis h ing u pon a b roader an d s u re r

foundation the position of women in their


o wn country They a s the m ost intel
.
,

l ig e nt will be the rst to perceive the


,

remedy for present evil s and wi ll i f I , ,

mistake not move heaven and earth at


, ,

some time in the n ear future to have th a t ,

remedy appli e d to their own case M ost of .

them read the literature of the day som e ,


CHA PT E R I X .

PEASANT W OM EN .

TH E
great he rmin class incl ud es n ot
on l y the peasants of Japan but al s o th e ,

arti s ans and merchants ; artisans r anki n g


be low farmers a n d merchants below art i ,

san s iu the social structure It i nclud e s


, .

the w hole of the com mon people except ,

such as were i n former times altogethe r


be low the level of respecta bility the em ,

and Ma in 1
outc as t s who lived by beg
,

g ing slaughtering
,
an imals caring for dea d ,

bodies ta n n ing skins a n d other employ


, ,

ments whic h rendered them u nclea n a c


cording to the old n otion s From very .

earl y times the a gricultural cl ass has been


sharpl y divided from the samurai or mil i
1
Th e l a ws a ga inst th e ta a nd hinin, m a k ing of th em
a di s tin ct , un cl e a n cl a ss , a n d b dding
fo r i th e ir in te rm at

r ia g e w it h a ny of th e h ig h e r cl as se s , h a ve re ce ntl y be en
a b ol is he d . Th e re is no w no ra n k di sti nction of a ny

p ra c tical val ue , e xce p t th a t b e t we e n bl e a nd


no c om m o n

p e op l e . H eim in a nd sam ur a i a r e n ow indi sc im r in a te l y


m ing l e d .
PE J S J N T WOMEN . 22 9

tary Here and there one from the peas


.

a ut ry mounts by force of his pe rsonal quali


ties into the high er ra nk s for there is no
,

cas te system that prevents the pas sing


fro m one cla ss into another only a clas s
,

prej udice that serves very nearly th e same


p ur pose in kee ping sa m urai and h eimin in
,

th e ir places that the race prej udice i n this


,

co untry serves in con n in g the negroes ,

North an d South to certain po sition s an d


,

occupations The rst divi sion o f the m ili


.

tary from the pe a sa nt rv occurred in the


eighth century and since then the pe cul iar
,

circumstance s of eac h class have ten ded to


produce quite di fferent characteristics in
persons o riginal ly of the same stock To .

the soldier class have fallen learn ing skill ,

in a rms and horsemansh ip Opportun ities ,

to rise to places of honor a nd power l ives ,

free from sord id care i n re gard to the


daily rice and in wh ic h noble id e as of duty
,

and loyal ty can spri ng up and bear fruit in


heroic deed s To the pe as ant til l ing his
.
,

litt le ri ce e l d year a fte r year have come


-
,

t he heavy burdens o f taxation ; the grind


i ng toil for a mere pittance of food for
himse l f and his family the patient bearing
of all things impo sed by his superiors with ,
2 80 APAN ES E GI RLS
J AN D WOMEN .

little hOpe of gain for h imsel f w h ate v er ,

chan ge the fortunes of war may brin g to


tho se above hi m in the social sca l e I s .

there won d er that as the years have g o n e


,

by his w its h a ve grown heavy under h i s


,

daily drudgery ; t hat he k nows little a n d


u nderstands le ss of the cha n g es that a r e

taking place in h is native land that h e i s


easily moved by o nly one thing and th a t ,

the failure of his crops or the shorte n i n g


,

of his returns fro m his land by heavie r


tax a tion ? Thi s is tr ue of the him iu as a
class : they a r e conservative fearin g th a t
,

c ha n ge will but tend to m a ke harder a l ot


tha t is none too easy ; and though pea ce
able and gentl e u su a lly th ey may be moved
,

to blind acts of riot and blood s hed by any


political chan ge that seems likely to pro
duce heavie r taxation or even by a failu re
,

o f t h eir crops when they see themselves


,

and their families starvin g while the mili


ta ry and ofcia l cl asses have enough an d
to S p a re But though a s a class the far m
.
, ,

ers are ignora nt a n d he a v y t hey a r e sel


d om entire ly illit e ra te ; a n d ev e ryw here ,

th roughou t the cou ntry on e nd s m e n be


,

lo n g i ng to this cl a ss wh o a r e well e d ucated


a n d h a v e ri s e n to po sition s o f m u ch r e
23 2 J A PAN ES E G IRLS AN D WOMEN .

t he n turns to the vassals of the Sh o gu n ,

and charges them with being tyran n ica l ,



rapacious a nd l ow-minded
, Sa m u ra i .
,

he conti nues samu rai a re n el y at ti re d


, ,

but how contem pti ble they look in the ey e s


o f thos e peasants who know h ow to be con

ten ted wi th what they have l


Further on in the same memorial h e ,

poin ts out what he re gards as a grave m is


take i n the policy of the 8 h o gun A de .

cre e had j ust bee n issued prohibi ting t he


peasantry from exercis in g them se lves w ith
sword play and fro m wearing swords Of
-
, .

this he says : Perh a ps this decr ee m ay


have be e n issued on the supposi tion tha t
Japan is natu rally i mpregn able and de
fended ou all sides But when she receives .

i nsult from a fo reign country it may be ,


.

come ne cessa ry to call on the militia An d .

who knows th a t men o f extraordinary m ili


l
tary gen ius like Toyotom i wi ll not a gain
, ,

appear among the lower classes P


Toyotom i Hideyoshi , a p ea sa n t b oy , rose from th e

p oeit ion of a g ro om t o b e tb e ae t ua l r ul er o f Ja pa n d n r
ing the Middl e Age s . H e it w a s who in 1 587 im ue d a

decree of ba nishm e nt a g a inst the Chr ist ia n m issiona rie s


in Ja p a n . He is ca l l e d Fa xiba m the writi ngs of th ese

m issiona r ies , a nd m Ja p a n he to freq ue ntl y sp o ke n of a s


Taik o Sa m e, a t itl e no t a na m e ; b e t a ti tl e M
. ce d
in

a l on e , re fe rs a l wa ys to him . For furth e r accou nt of his


PEA S AN T WOM EN . 2 33

He en ds h is memorial with thi s warn


in
S ho d the Sh o gun s court and the

g : ul ,

military class i n ge neral pe rsist in the ,

present oppressive way of govern ment H ea ,

ven will visit this l and with still greater


calamities . I f this ci rcumstance is not
clearly kept i n view the con sequen ce may
,

be civil disturbance I there fore beseech


.
, ,

that the i nstructions of the glorious foun


der of the dynasty be acted upon ; that
simplicity and frugality be made the guid
in g principle of admin istration ; a nd that
a general amnesty be proclai med thereby ,

complyin g with the will of Heaven and pla


catin g the people Should these h umble
.

sugges tion s of mine be acted upon pro ,

spe ctive calamities will y be fore the light

of virtue . W hether th e country is to be


sa fe or not depends upo n whether the ad
m inistration is carried o n with mercy or

n ot
. Wh at I pray for is that the co un try ,

may enjoy peace and tranquillity that the ,

h a rvest may be plenti ful and that the peo ,



ple may be happy and prosperous .

O ne is able to see by this rather t e


,

m arkable document th at the peasant s of


,

Ja pan though frequently al most crushed


,

by the heavy burdens of ta xatio n do not , ,


2 34 JA PAN Es E G IR LS AN D WOMEN .

even in the m ost gri ndi n g pov e rty l ose ,

enti rely that indepe ndence of thought a nd


of action whic h is characte ri s ti c of th ei r

n ation They d o not consider thems elve s


.

as a servile class nor their mil itary ru l ers


,

as beyond cr i ti cis m or reproach but are ,

ready to speak boldly for their rights wh en ~

ever an Op portun ity occ urs The re is a .


patheti c story told in Mitford s Tales of
,

O ld Japan of a peasan t the head m an of


, ,
-

his village who goes to Yedo to prese n t


,

to the Sh o gun a compl aint on behal f of ,

his fellow villagers of the exto r tio n s a n d


-
,

exactions of his daimi o He is u nable to .

g e t any o ne to pre sent his memorial to th e

Sh og un so at l ast he stOp s the great lo rd s


,

pa lanquin in the street a n act in it se lf


,

pu nishable with dea th and thrus ts th e


,

pa per forci bly into his hand The pe ti tio n .

is read and his fellow -vi llagers saved fro m


,

further Oppression but the head man for ,


-
,

his daring is condemned by his own da i


,

mi o to s uffer death by crucixio n a fate ,

which he m eets with the same heroi sm


with which he dared everyth ing to save his
fe llows from su fferi ng .

The pe asant though ignorant and op


,

p r es s e d,has n ot los t his m a nhood ; has n o t


2 36 J APAN ES E o w ns AN D Wom .

beauty in form and color are stil l in sti n ct


with li fe The Japan ese arti san wo rk s
.

with pati ent to il a nd with the ski l l a n d


,

ori ginality of the artist to produce so m e


,

thing that shall be individual and his own ;


n ot simply to make after a pattern
, so m e ,

utensil or ornament for which he care s


noth ing so long a s a purc haser can be
,

found for it or an em ployer ca n be ind uce d


,

to pay him money for maki ng it It seem s .

a s eas y for the Japanese to make thin g s

pre tty and in good taste even when t hey


,

are chea p an d on ly u sed by the poore r


people as it is fo r American mill s an d
,

workers to turn out endless varieties of a t


te mpts a t decoration all so hideous that
,

a poor person must be content either to be ,

surrounded by the worst possible taste or ,

to purchase only such furn ishings a nd


utensil s as are entirely without decorati on

of any ki nd Chea p and


. n asty have
come to be almost synonymous words with
us for the reaso n that taste in decoration
,

is so rare that it com mands a monopoly


price a nd ca n onl y be proc ur ed by the
,

wealthy In J a pan this is not the case


.
,

for the cheapest of thin gs may be found in


grace ful and a rtisti c designs ind eed can
,
P EAS AN T WOMEN . 23 7

hard ly be found in any designs that are n ot


grac e ful a nd artistic ; an d th e poorest a nd
com monest of the people may have about
them the little thin gs that go to cultivate
the aestheti c part of hu man nature It .

was n ot the costly art of Japan that inter


ested me the most although t hat is of
, ,

course the most won derful p roo f of the


,

capac ity and patien ce of indivi duals among


thi s h ei min class : but it was the com mon ,

cheap every-d ay art that mee ts one at


,

every turn ; the love for the be aut iful in ,

both n ature an d art that belong s to the


,

com mon coolie as well as to the nobleman .

The cheap prints the bl ue an d white tow


,

els the com mon tea cu ps a nd pots the


, ,

great iron kettles i n use over the re i n


the fa r mhouse k tchen
i all these a re
,

thin gs as pretty and ta ste ful in their way


as the rich crepes the silver in ce n se burn
,

er s the delicate porcelain and the elegant


, ,

lacquer that ll the sto rehou se of the d a i


mi 6 a nd they show much more conclu
,

s ive l y than these costlier things the un i ,

versal sen se of beauty among the people .

The artisan works at his home helped ,

less ofte n by hired laborers than by his


own ch il d r en who learn the tra de of their
,
238 APAN ES E G I RLS
J AN D WOMEN .

father ; a nd his hou se though small 18


, ,

clean a nd taste ful with its so ft mats i ts


, ,

dainty tea s er vice its li ttle ha nging scro l l


,

upon the walls an d its vase of grace ful ly


,

arran ged owers i n the corner ; for ow


ers even i n wi n ter an d in the great city o f
,

To ky o are so cheap that they are neve r


,

beyond the rea c h of the poorest I n hom es .

that seem to the fo reign mind u tte r ly


lacking in the co m forts and even the ne
ces s itie s o f life one nds the few furn ish
,

i ngs and utensils beauti ful in sha pe a nd


decoration ; and the money t hat in th is
country must be spent in beds tables and , ,

chairs can be use d for the purchase of


ka km m ws owers and vases a n d for va
, , ,

rio ns gra tica tions of the aesthe tic ta ste .

Hence it is that t he Japanese labo rer who ,

lives o n a daily wa ge which would reduce


a n American or Eu ropean to the verge of

starvation nds both ti me and money for


,

t he culti vation of that se nse of beauty


which is too o fte n crushed completely out
o f the lower class es by the b urdens of th is

n inetee nth century civilization which t hey


bear u pon their shoulders To the Ja p
.


anese the li fe is more tha n me at it is
, ,

beauty as well ; a nd this lo ve of beauty ha s


they wi l l be pe r fectly i ndependent an d a sk ,

no m a n for their daily rati ons .

Although th e re is much poverty the re ,

a re fe w or n o beggars i n Japan for bot h ,

strong and weak nd each some occu pa

tion that brin gs the li tt le pittan ce require d


to keep soul and body toge ther and giv e s ,

to all enough to make them light-hearted ,

ch eerful an d even happy From the ric h


, .

farmer whose many a cres yield enough to


,

provide for a home of l uxury quite as ne


as the city homes to the poor li ttle ven de r
,

of sticks of can dy around whose store th e


,

children ock like bees with their rin an d


se n all seem independent con tente d an d
, , ,

satised with their l ot in life .

The religious belie fs of ol d Japan are


stro n ger to-day among the country peopl e
than among the dwellers in cities And .

they are still willing to give of their sub


st ance for the aid of the dyi ng faiths to
which they cling and to unde rtake to il
,

some pilgri mages to obtain some longed

for blessing from the gods whom they


serve . A great Buddhist temple is bein g
buil t in Ky o to to d a y from the lo fty ceil
'

-
,

ing of which han gs a striking proo f of the


devotion of some of the pe asa nt women
P EASAN T WOM EN . 241

to the Buddhist faith The whole tem


.

ple with its i m mense curved roo f its vast


, ,

proportions a nd i ts ma rvelous wood carv


,

in gs has bee n built by o fferi n gs of labor


, ,

money and materials m ade by the faith ful


, .

The great timbers were given a nd brought


to the spot by the cou ntry men ; and the
women wishing to have so me part i n the
,

s ac r ed work cut off their abundant hair


, ,

a beauty perhaps more prized by the Ja p


anese women tha n by those of ot her cou n
tries and from the material th us obtai ne d
,

th e y twisted im men se cables to be used i n ,

i l ra wi n g the timbers fro m the mo un tain s


to the si te of the te mple The gr eat blac k
.

cables hang i n the u n nished temple to


day a S ign of the devoti on of the women
,

who spa red not their ch ie f ornament in the


service of the gods in whom they still be
li eve A nd a close scrutiny of these touch
.

ing offerin gs shows that the glossy blac k


locks of the young women a re mingled
with the w hite hai rs of those who by this ,

sacrice hO pe to make sure of a quick and


,

e asy depart ure from a li fe alread y near its

close .

Al l alon g the Taka i d a the great road


,

from To ky o to Ky o to in the neighborhood


,
of some holy place or in the d istrict arou nd
,

the gre at and sa c red Fuji the moun ta i n so


,

much be loved and honore d in Ja pa nese ar t ,

will be see n bands of pilgri ms slowly walk


in g alon g the road their worn a nd soiled
,

wh ite garme n ts te l ling of m any d ays weary

m arch The ir la rge hats shield t hem fro m


.

the s un an d the rain and the pieces of ,

mattin g slun g ov e r t heir backs serve them


for beds to sleep on when they take shelter
,

for the n ight in rude h uts The way up t he


.

great mountai n of F uji is lined with th es e


pilgri ms ; for to attai n its su m mit an d ,

worshi p there the risin g sun is believed ,

to be the means of obtaining some special


bl essi n g A mong the se religious devotees
.
,

in costumes not unlike th ose of the me n ,

und er the same large hat a nd coarse m a t


ting ol d women o ften are seen their age d
, ,

faces belyin g their a pparent vigor o f body ,

as they walk along th rough m iles and mil e s


of country jingling their bells and holdin g
,

their rosaries u ntil they reach the shrine ,

where they may a sk some spe cial blessing


for their homes or fulll some vow al ready
,

ma de .

Journeying throu gh rural Japan one is ,

i mpres se d by the i m portant part played by


24 4 JAP AN ES E G un s AN D WOMEN .

women they are showing no evid ence of


,

the shrinking away wi th the ad van ce of


o l d age that is ch aracteristi c of most of

their countrywomen W ith thei r t u ck ed


.

up kim onos an d bl ue cotto n tro users they ,

st ride up a nd down the mountai n carryi ng ,

the heavi est and m os t un wieldy of burd e n s


as li ghtly a nd easily as the ordinary wom an
carri es her baby My rst a cquai n ta nc e
.

with them was durin g a camping e xpe di


tion u pon the sacre d mounta in I myse l f.

was carri ed up the ascent by two small ,

nearly naked nely tattooed an d m om


, .

scarred men ; but my baggage co nsisti ng ,

of two closely packed ham pe rs as large as

ordin a ry steamer t r u nks wa s li fted lightly


,

to the heads of these feminine porte rs and , ,

po ised on little straw pads carried easily


,

u p the narrow trail made doubly d iic ul t


,

by l ow-hanging branches to the camp a


, , ,

distance of th ree or four mi les From .

among these women of Yas e o n account ,

o f their remarkable physical development ,

have been chosen frequently the n urses for


the im pe rial in fan ts ; an honor which the
Y a s vill a gers d uly appreciate and whic h
,

makes them bear themselves proudly amon g


their l e ss favored neigh bors .
PEAS AN T wow . 245

I n other parts of the co untry in the ,

n e igh borhood of Nikk i for in stance the , ,

care of the horses mild little pack mares


,
-

that do much of the burden bearing in -

th ose m ountains is mainly in the hands of


,

the women At Nikk o when we woul d hire


.
,

ponies for a two days expedition to Y u

moto a l ittle elderly woman was the pe r


, ,

son wi th whom o ur bargains were made ;

and a close bargainer she proved to be tak ,

in g every advantage that lay in her power .

W hen the ca ravan was rea dy to start we ,

found that though eac h saddle-horse h ad


,

a male g roo m in attendance the pack ,

ponies on which our bagga ge was carried


were led by pretty little country girls o f
twelve or fou rte en their bright black eyes
,

a n d red ch eeks contrasting pleas a ntly with

the blue handkerchie fs that adorned their


h e ads ; the ir slender li mbs encase d i n blue
c otton and only their red sashes giving any
,

hint of the fact that they belonged to the


we aker sex As we jo urneyed u p the rough
.

moun tai n road s the little girls kept alon g


,

easily wi th the rest of the pa rty ; leading


their mee k shock head ed beasts u p the s li p
,
-

pery l og steps and passing an occasional


,

greeting with so me returnin g pack t rain .


,
in which the soft black eyes and bits of
red abo ut the costu me of the littl e groom s
showed th a t they too were moun ta in m ai d
, ,

ens returning fresh an d happy after a two


,

days tramp t hrough the rocky pa sses



.

I n the d istri cts where the si lkworm is


raised and the silk spun and woven the
, ,

women play a most i mporta nt part i n t hi s


productive i nd ust ry The care of the .

worms a nd of the cocoons falls en tire ly


u pon the women as well as the spin n in g
,

of the si lk and the weaving of the clot h .

It is al most sa fe to say that th is larges t


and m ost producti ve industry of Japan is
in the hands of the women ; and it is to
their care and s kill that the silk prod uct
of the isl ands is due In the silk dis tric ts
.

o ne nds the woman on te rms of equality

with the man for she is an im portan t fact o r


,

i n the wealth producing power of the fa m


-

il y and is thus able to m ake hersel f fel t


,

as she can not when her work is in fer ior to


that of the men As a farmer as a groom
.
, ,

o r as a porter a woman is and must remai n


,

an in ferior but i n the care of the sil k


,

worms and all the tas ks that belong to s il k


,

culture sh e is the equal of the stron ger


,

sex .
24 8 JA PAN ES E G I R LS AN D WOMEN .

we had te l e graph ed for rooms was already


ll ed to overowing by a daimi 6 and his
s uite . N ot a roo m could be obtained an d ,

we were at last oblige d to walk some dis


tance for we h ad dismissed o ur tired jin
,

r ikis ha men to a h otel i n the vill a ge o f


, ,

which we knew nothin g What wit h fa .

ti gue and di sappoint m ent we were not p re


,

p ared to vi ew the un known hotel in a very


rosy light ; a nd w hen our guide pointed to
a small gate leadin g into a minute dam p ,

courtyard we were quite convince d th a t


,

the hard ships of travel in Japan were n ow


about to be gin ; but disappointment gav e
way to hope when we were met at the
,

door by a buxom landlad y whose smil e ,

was in itsel f a re freshment Although we .

had little i n the way of lan guage in co m


m on ,
she made us feel at home at on ce ,

to ok us to her best room sent her bloom ,

in g and prettil y dressed daughters to brin g


us tea and whatever other refresh ments

the mysterious appetite of a forei gner


m ight require and altogether behav ed to
,

ward us in such motherly fashion th a t fa ~

tigue and gloom departe d forth with leav ,

in g us re freshed and cheer ful Soon we .

be ga n to feel rested an d our kind friend


, ,
P EAS A N T WO MEN . 24 9

seei ng this took us upon a to ur around the


,

h ouse in which room after room spotless


, , ,

empty wi th shining woodwork and so ftest


,

of mats showed the good housekeeping of


,

o ur hos tess A li ttle garden i n the ce ntre


.

of the house with dwar f trees,


moss-cov ,

e red stones an d r un n ing water gave it an


, ,

air of 0 0 0 1a on t he bot July day that wa s


al most deceptive ; and the spotless wash
room with its great stone sink its polished
, ,

brass basins its stone well c urb hal f in


,
-
,

a nd hal f out of the house was cool and ,

clean and re freshin g merely to look at A .

two days stay i n this hotel showed that the


landlady was the maste r of the house Her .

husband was abo ut the house constantly as ,

were one or two other men but they all ,

worked under the direction of the energetic


head of affai rs She it was who man aged
.

everything from the c ooki ng of the meals


,

i n the kitchen to the ll ing an d heating of


the great bath tub into which the guests
-

were in vited to enter every afternoon one ,

a fter the other in the o rder of their ran k


, .

O n the second night of my stay at a late ,

hour when I supposed that the whole


,

house had retired to rest I crept so ftly out


,

of my room to try to soothe the plaintive


25 0 J APAN ES E G I RL S AN D WOMEN .

wails my d og who was compla i nin g bit


of ,

te r l y that he was made to slee p in the


wood cellar instead of in his mis tre ss s
-

room as his habit h ad always been As I


, .

stole q uietly alon g fearing lest I should


,

arouse the sleepin g house I heard the i a ,

quirin g voice of my l andlady sound fro m


the bath room the door of which stood
-
,

wide Open Afraid that she would think


.

me in m ischie f if I did not show mysel f I ,

went to the door to nd her a fte r h e r


, ,

family was s a fely st owed away for the n ight ,

tak ing her ca se i n the gre at tub of hot


wa te r and so preparin g hersel f for a sou nd
, ,

i f short night s sleep
, She accepted my
.

m urm ured I na (dog) as an excuse an d ,

graciously dismissed me with a smile an d ,

I re tur ned to my room feeling safe under


the vigilant care that seemed to guard
the house bv night as well as by day I .

have seen many Japanese hotels an d many


care ful landladies since but no one amon g ,

the m all has made such an i mpre ssion as


my pleasant hostess at Nara .

Not only hotels but little tea houses a ll


,
-

th rough Japan form Openings for the bu s i


,

n ess abilities o f wom e n both in cm t ,

and city Where ver you go no matter how


.
,
25 2 A A
J P N ES E G I RLS AN D WOMEN .

resting places a fe w cents for eac h perso n


-
,

is s u fcien t to leave o n the waiter with the


em pty cu ps o f te a for which l e a d and grate
,

ful thanks will he shouted o ut to the t e


ti ri ng pa rty .

I n the reg ular inn the cha da i amoun ts


1
,
.

to se ve ra l do l lars, for a party rema in i ng


any ti me an d it is su pposed to pay for al l
,

the extra services a nd a ttent ion bes towed


o n gues ts by the poli te host a n d hostes s

a nd the servants in attendance The cha .

da i done up n eatly i n pa per with the word s


, ,

On cha rio t w ritten on it is given with a s ,

m uch formality as a ny prese nt i n Japa n .

T he guest claps his hands to sum mon th e


m aid When it is heard for the thin pa
.
,
.

p e r walls o f a Jap a n ese house let through


every noise voices from all sides will s hoo t
,
"
o ut He or Hui which means that you
,

h ave been heard an d u nderstood , Pres .

ently a maid will so ft ly Open your door ,

a nd with h e ad l ow down will ask w h a t

you wish You tell her to su m mon the


.


Ci a d a i ig li te r a ll y, m one y for tea, a nd is eqniva p

l m nt to our po to the v a ite rs a nd p or te u a t hote h The .

chad a i va rlu wi th the wea l t h a nd u nk of tho g nm mo


d ura tion of the st ay a nd the a tt en tion wh ich ha s b een
.

besto wed . On io the hooor ic p l aced hef m tho word in


P EAS AN T WOMEN . 253

lan dlord I n a few mo m e nts he appears


.
,

and you push the cha d a i to him mak ,

ing some conventional sel f depre ciatin g -

speech as ,
You have done a great deal
,

for our co m fort and we wish to give you ,



this chad a i though it is only a trie
, .

The landlord with eve ry ex pre ssi on of sur


,

prise will bow dow n to the gro und wi th


,

thanks raisin g the small pa kage to his


,
c

head in token of accep tance and gratitude ,

a nd wi l l m urmur in l o w tones how l ittle

he ha s done for the com fort of his guests ;


and then the sel f-depre c iation and formal
,

words o f t hanks on his s ide bei ng ended ,

he will nally go dow n stairs to see ho w


m uch he has gotten But whether more .
,

or l ess than he had ex pected nothing but ,

extreme gratitude a n d politeness appears


o n his face as he pre sents a fa n co nfec ,

t ione ry or some trie as a return for t he


, ,

cha da i a nd speeds the parti ng guests with


,

h is lowes t bo w and kindliest smile a ft e r ,

havin g see n to every want that could be


at tend ed to .

O nce at Nikk a I starte d with a friend


, ,

for a morn ing walk to a place d e scri be d in


the guide book The day was hot and the
- .

g uide-book hazy and we lost the road to ,


the place for whic h we had set out but ,

found ours e lves at l a st in a beau tiful gar


den with a pre tty l a ke in its centre a li t
, ,

tl e red lacquered shri ne re e cted i n the


-

l ake a nd a tea house hospitably Open at


,
-

one side The teakettle was boiling over


.

the little charcoal re ; melons eggs an d , ,

vario us unknown comestibles were on the


li ttle cou nter ; but no voice bade a s wel
come as we approac hed and when we sat
,

down on the edge o f the piaz z a we could ,

see no o ne within the house W e waite d


.
,

however for the day was hot an d time is


, ,

not worth m uch in rural Japan P retty .

soon a small wizened gure made its a p


,

p ea ra nce i n the distance hurryin


, g and
talkin g excitedly as it came n ear enou g h
to se e two foreign lad ies seated upon the
piazza Many bows and pro fuse apologies
.

were m ade by the little old woman who ,

see med to be the solita ry occ upant of the


pretty gard en and who had for the mo
,

ment deserted her post to do the day s mar

keting in the neigh boring village The .

apologi es having bee n smilingly received ,

the ol d lady set herse l f to the tas k of


mak ing her guests com fo rtable Firs t she .

brought two tu mblers of water cold as ice , ,


256 APAN ES E
J OLRL S AN D WOMEN .

pears of her to have given the col ic to a n


ele phant O ne day after her visit to me
.
, ,

as I was s itting upon the matted and roo fe d

square that served me for a room my eye ,

wandered idly toward the bathing beac h ,

a nd ,
under the slight shel ter wh ere the
bathers were i n the habit of d e positi n g
their sandals an d towels I spied the well ,

known yoke and fruit ba skets as well as a ,

small heap of blue cotton garments that I


knew to be the clothing of the littl e fru it
vender She ha d evid e ntly taken a mo
.

ment when trade was sl a ck to enjoy a dip


in the soft blue su m mer sea Hardly ha d
, , .

I made up m y m in d as to the meaning of


the fru it baskets a nd the clo thi n g when ,

our little friend hersel f emerged from the


sea and S itting dow n on a bench pro
, ,

cee d ed to rub hersel f off with the smal l

b ut art istic a lly d e corated blue towel that


every peasa nt in Japan has always with
hi m however lacking he may be i n a l l
,

other appurtenances of the toilet A s she .

s a t there placidly rubbing away a friend


, ,

of the Opposite sex made his appearance

on the scene I watched to see what she


.

wo uld do for t h e J a p a ne se code of eti


,

q u e t te is quite di ffe r e n t fro m ours in such


P EA S AN T WOMEN . 25 7

a predicament She contin ued her em


.

ployment unt il he was quite close sho wi ng ,

no un seemly haste but contin uing h er pol


,

is hing off in the same le is ure ly man ner in


which she had begun it ; then at the proper
moment she rose fro m her seat bowed ,

profoundly and smilingly exchanged the


,

g reetin gs pre per fo r the occasion both ,

pa rties apparently unconscious of any lack


i n the toilet of the lad y The male frien d
.

then passed on about his business ; the lit


tle woman completed her toilet wi thout
further i nte rrupti ons shouldered her yoke
, ,

a n d jogge d ch eerfully on to her home i n

the little village a coupl e of miles away


, .

As one travels through ru ral Japan i n


sum mer and sees the hal f naked men we-
,

men and children that po ur out from every


,

village on one s route and surround the


kur um a at every stoppin g place one some ,

ti mes wonders whether there is in the


country any real ci vi lizati on whether th ese
,

hal f-naked pe ople are not more savage than


civi li zed ; but when one nds everywhere
good hotels scrupulo us clea n liness i n al l
,

the appointments of to il et an d ta ble polite ,

and careful service honest and willing per


,

form a nce of labor bargained for together ,


25 8 A
J PAN ES E G I RLS AN D WOMEN

with the gen tl e st and pl easante st of m a n


ners even o n the part o f the gap in g crowd
,

th a t shut o ut light an d air from th e trav


eling foreigner who re sts for a m o m en t at
the village inn on e is fo rced to re consi de r
,

a j udgment formed only upon one pe culi p

a ri ty o f the nati onal life and to co nclude ,

that there is certa inly a high type of c ivi li


z a tio n i n Japan though di ffering in m any
,

i mpor tant particulars from our o wn A .

care ful study o f the Japan ese ideas of de


ce ncy and fr equent conv er satio n wi th r e
,

ned and i nte ll ige nt Japanes e ladies up on


this subject has led me to the followin g
,

conclusion Accordin g to the Japan ese


.

standard any exposure of the person that


,

is merely incidental to health clean li nes s , ,

o r convenience in doi ng necessary work ,

is per fectly m odes t an d allowable ; but a n


ex posure no matter how slight that is
, ,

sim ply for S how is in the high e st de gre e


,

indelicate I n illu stratio n of the rst part


.

of this concl usion I would re fer to the


,

ope n bath houses the n ak ed labo rers the


-
, ,

exposure of the lower li mbs in wet wea the r


by the turning u p of the ki m m w the e n ,

t ir el y n ude condition o f the country chi] .

dren in sum mer and the very slight cloth


,
26 0 J APAN ES E GI R LS AN D WOMEN .

plain e d and we ca n d o ju stice to our Jap


,

anese sister in a matter in re gard to w hic h


she is too o ften cruelly m isj udged .

There seems no doubt at all that amon g


the peasantry of Japa n one nds the we
m e n who have the most fr e edom and i nde

p e nd e n ce A mon g this
. class a l l through ,

the country the women though hard


, ,

worked a nd possessing few com forts lead ,

lives of intelligent independent labor a nd


, ,

have in the family positions as respected


and honored as those held by women i n
A merica Their lives are fuller an d hap
.

pier than those of the women of the higher


classes for they are themsel ves bread win
,
-

n ers , contributing a n im porta nt part of


the family reven ue and they a re obeyed ,

an d respected accordingly The Ja pan e se .

lady at her marriage lays aside her i a


, ,

dependent exi stence to become the subor


d i na te and servant o f her husband an d
pare nts ia law and her face as the years
- -
, ,

g o by shows
, how m uch she has given u p ,

how com plete ly she h as sac riced hersel f


to those about her The Japanc as peasant
.

wom a n when she marries works side by


, ,

side with her husband nds li fe full of ,

interest outs ide of the si mple household


PEA S AN T WOMEN . 261

work , a nd ,as the years go by her face


,

s hows more individuality m ore pleasure in


,

li fe l ess su ffering an d disappointment than


, ,

that of her wealthier and l ess hard workin g -

s iste r
.
CHA PTE R X .

u r n I N T H E CI T I ES .

TH E great cities of Japan a ord remark


able Opportun iti e s for seein g the l ife of the


com mon peo ple for the little houses an d
,

sh e ps with their Open fronts reveal the


, ,

n e tra l ia i n a way n ot known in our more


p e

secl uded homes The employment of the


.

m er chant bein g formerly the lowes t of re

specta bl e callin gs o ne does not nd even


,

yet i n Japan many great stores or a very


high standard of bu siness morality for the ,

busin ess of the country was le ft i n the


hands of those who were too stu pid or too
u nambitious to raise themselves above that
social class Hence English and Ameri
.

can merchants who only see Japan from


,

the business side continually spe ak of the


,

Japanese as dishones t tricky and a lto


, ,

gether u n reliable and greatly pre fer to


,

dea l with the Chin ese who have much of


,

the business virtue that is chara cteristic


of the English as a n ation O nly wit hi n a
.
2 64 J APAN ES E G I R LS AN D WOMEN .

them trad e is a warfa re between buyer


,

an d seller in which every man m ust take


,

all possi ble advantage for himsel f and it ,

is the lookout of the other p a rty if he is


cheated .

In To ky o the grea te st and most mod ern


,

iz ed of the cities of the empire the sh e ps ,

are not the large city s tores that one sees


in European and A merican cities but little ,

Open fronted rooms on the ed ge o f which


-
,

one sits to make one s purchases w hile the



,

proprietor smiles a nd bows and dickers ;


settin g his price by the style of his cus
to m e r s d re ss o r her apparent ign oran ce

,

o f the val ue of the desired article Some .

fe w l arge dry goods stores there a re whe re


-
,

price s are set an d dickerin g is n a n cees


sary and in the k wa ukoba or bazaars one , ,

m ay buy al most anything nee ded by Japa

nese of al l classes from house furn ishings,

to fore ign hats at prices plainly marked


,

u pon them and from which there is no


,

variation But one s im pression o f the


.

state of trade in Japan is that it is stil l ,

in a very primitive and u ndeveloped condi


tion an d is surprisi ngly behin d the other
,

parts of Japanese civilization .

The shopping of the ladies of the large


M E I N TH E CI TI ES . 2 65

yus hikis and wealthy families is done


of

mostly i n t he home for all the stores are


willing at any ti me on receiving a n order
, ,

to send up a clerk wit h a ba le of c repes ,

si l ks and cottons tied to his back a nd fro


, ,

quently tower ing high above his head as


he walks making hi m look l ike the pro
,

ve rbia l ant with a grai n of wheat He .

se ts his grea t b undl e care fully down on


the oor O pens the enormo us fa r cwhiki or
, ,

bundle handkerchie f i n whic h it is envel


,

oped and takes out ro l l after rol l of s ilk or


,

chi ntz neatly done up in paper or ye l low


,

cotto n With inni te pati ence he waits


.
,

while the merits of ea ch piece are ex


a m ined and discussed and if none of his
,
.

stock proves satis factory he is wi l ling to


,

come again with a new set of wares k now ,

ing that in the end purchases wil l be mad e


s um cie nt to co ver a ll his trouble .

The l ess aristocratic people are content


to go to the stores themselves ; a nd the
busines s str ee ts of a Japanese city such as ,

the G inza in To ky o are full of women


, ,

youn g and old as well as merry child ren


, ,

who enjoy the li fe a nd bustle of the stores .

L ike all things else i n Japan shoppin g ,

takes plenty of time At M itsui s the


'

.
,
266 A A
J P N ES E GI RL S AN D W OM EN .

si l k in Tokya will

l arges t store one see

cro wds of cle rks si tt ing upon the ma tted


oors ea ch with his com bos or addi ng
, ,

m a chi ne by his si d e ; and in n um era bl e


,

sm a ll boy s who r ush to a nd fro carryi n g


, ,
'

arm ful s of fa brics to the d ie re nt cle rks ,

or pick in g up the sa m e fa b ric s after t he


cust om e r who has ca lled for them has d e
pa rted The sto re appe ars to the foreign
.
,

eye to be simply a roofed and matte d pl a t


,

form u pon w hich both c l erks and cus to m e rs


si t . T h is plat form is screen ed from the
street by dark blue cotto n curta i ns or awn .

ings hung from the l ow projecti n g ca ves


of the hea vy roof A s the c usto mers .

take their se ats eith er on the ed ge of the


,

plat form or if they have come on an ex


, ,

te nde d shopp ing bout u pon the st raw m a t ,

of the platform i ts e l f a small boy appears ,

with tea for the party ; an obsequious cl e rk


gree ts them with the customary sa luta
tions of welcome p ushes the charcoal bra ,
~

z i cr to wa rd them th at they may smoke , ,

o r warm their hands be fore procee ding to ,

bus iness and then waits e xpectantly for


,

the n ame of the goods that h is custom e rs


desire to see When this is given the
.
,

work be gins ; the littl e boys are su m moned ,


268 JAPAN ES E G I RLS AN D WOMEN .

loud shouts from the whole sta ff of clerks


and small boys outcries so sudden so
, ,

si m ultaneous and so stentorian that she


, ,

can not rid hersel f of the idea that so me


th in g terrible is happening every ti me that
they occur She soon lea rns however that
.
, ,

these man ife stations of energy are but


the way in which the Japan ese merch a n t
speeds the departin g purchaser and that ,

the apparently inarticulate shouts are but


the formal ph rase Thanks for your co n
,

tinned favors which is repeated in a loud
,

tone by every employee in the store when


ever a customer departs W hen she her .

sel f is a t last ready to leave a chorus of ,

yells arises this time for her benet ; and a s


,

sh e skips into the j in r ikisha a nd is whirled

aw a y she hears conti nued the busy hu m


,

of voices ,
the cl utte r ing of aerobam the ,

thumping of the ba re feet of the heavily


l aden boys and the loud shouts of than ks
,

with which departin g guest s are honored .

There is less pomp an d circumstance


about the smaller store s for all the goods
,

are within easy reac h a nd the shops for


,

household utensils and chinaware seem to


have n early the whole stock in trade pil ed
up in front or even in the street itse lf
,
.
LI FE I N TH E CI TI ES . 269

Many such littl e plac es are the homes of


the peo ple who keep them A nd at the .

back a re rooms which se rve for dwelling


,

rooms Ope ning upon well k e pt garden s


,
- .

The whole work of the store is o ft en a t


tended to by the proprietor as sisted by his
,

wi fe a nd fami ly and perhaps o ne or two


,

apprentices Each of the workers in turn


.
, ,

takes an occasional holiday for there is ,

n o day in the Japanese calendar when the


shops a re a l l closed ; and even New Year s

Day the great festi val of the year n ds


, ,

most of the store s Ope n Yet the dwellers


.

in th ese little hom es livin g almost in the


,

street and in the midst of the hust le and


,

crowd a nd dust of T o ky o have still time


,

to enjoy their holidays and their little g ar


dens and have more pleasure an d less hard
,

work than thos e u nder si milar circu m


stances i n our own country .

The stran ger visiting any of the great


Japanese cities is surprised by the lack of
larg e stores and man u factori es an d o ften
,

wonders where the beauti ful lacquer work


and porcelains are m a de an d where t he
,

gay silks and crepes are woven There .

are no large establish ments where such


thin gs are turn ed out by wh olesale The .
27 0 J APAN ES E G I RLS AN D WOMEN .

delicate vases the bronzes a n d the sil ks


, ,

are often made i n hu mblest hom es the ,

work of one or two laborers with rud es t


tools . T here are n o grea t m an u facto ri es
to be seen an d the bane o f so m any cities
, ,

the pol lu tin g factory smoke never ris e s ,

over the citi es of Japan The hard co n .


,

n ing factory life with its never-cea sin g


,

roar of m achinery bewildering the minds


,

and intellects of the men who come u nder


its deadening i nuen ces until they beco me
'

scarce ly more tha n machines themselves ,

is a thi ng as yet al most unknown in Japan .

The l ife of the jinr ikisha m a n even hard ,

an d com fortl ess as it may see m to run a l l


day l ike a horse through the crowded city
stree ts is one that keeps hi m in the fresh
,

air un der the Open sky a nd quickens his


, ,

powers both of body an d mind To the .

poor in Japan e se cities is never den ied the


fresh air and sun shine green trees and,

grass ; a n d the beauti ful parks and garden s


are found everywhere for the enjoyment of
,

even the meanest and l o west .

O n certain days in the month in d iffer ,

e nt se cti ons of the city are held night fes


,

ti va l s near te mples and many shopkee p rs


,
e

take the opportunity to erect temporary


27 2 APA N ES E G I RLS
J AN D wm IEN .

again ; but as the evening passes pric es go ,

lower a nd lower fo r the d i stances that t he


,

plants have bee n brought a r e gre at a nd ,

the la bor of loading up and ca rry ing bac k


the hea vy pots is a w ea ry one an d when ,

the last custo mer has depa rted the m er


chan ts must work late into the ni ght to
g e t their ware s sa fely home agai n .

But beside the ower sho ws there are ,

l on g rows of booths which with the m a ny


, ,

visitors who t hrong the stre ets make a gay ,

a nd lively scene 8 0 dense is the c rowd


.

that it is with di fculty o ne can push


through on foot or i n p nr ikisha The .

darkness is illumin ated by torches wh ose ,

wei rd ames are and s moke in the wi nd ,

and shine down upon the little sheds whi ch


line both sides of the road a nd conta i n ,

so temptin g a display of cheap toys an d

trinkets that not only the child re n but ,

their elders a re att racted by them So m e


,
.

of the booths are devoted to dolls ; other s

to toys of various kind s ; s till oth ers to


birds in cage s goldsh i u globes queer
, ,

ch irpin g insects in wicker ba s kets pretty ,

ornaments for the hair fa ns candi es a nd


, , ,

cakes of all sorts roas ted bean s an d pea


,

n uts and other things too n umerous to


,
LI FE Ev TH E CI TI ES . 2 73

mention The long line of stalls ends with


.

booths or tents in which shows of dan


, ,

ci ng j ugglery educated animals and mon


, , ,

s t ros itie s natural o r articial


,
may be seen ,

for the moderate ad mis s ion fee of two


sen. Each of th ese shows is well ad ve r
t ise d by the beatin g of dr ums by the shout ,

ing of doorkeepers by wonder ful pictu re s ,

on the outside to entice the passer by or -


,

even by an occasional brie f li fting o f the


curtains which veil the scen e from the
crowd without j ust lon g enough to a f ,

ford a tantalizing glim pse of the wonders


within G re at is the fascination to the
.

children i n all these th ings a nd the little ,

feet are never weary until the last booth


is passed and the quiet of neighborin g
,

stree ts lighte d only by wandering lan


,

terns strikes the home re turn ing party by


,
-

its contrast with the light and noise of the


festi val The suppos ed obj ect of the expe
.

dition the visit to the temple has occupied


, ,

but a sm a ll share o f time and attention ,

and the little hands are lled with the


amusin g toys an d t r ie s bought and the ,

little minds with the merry sights seen .

Nor are those who remain at home forgot


ten but the pleasure seekers who vi sit the
,
-
2 74 J APAN ES E G I R LS AN D WOMEN .

fair carry away with them little gifts for


e ach member Of the fam ily a n d the 0 m i ,

age or present given o n the return is a


'

, ,

regular inst itution O f Japanese home li fe 1


.

By ten o clock when the crowds have



,

dispers ed and the purchasers have all gon e


home and gone to be d the busy booth k eep ,
-

ers take down thei r stalls pa ck up their ,

ware s and disappear leavi ng no trace of the


, ,

n igh t s gayeties to greet the morn ing sun



.

Beside these evening shows which oc ,

cur monthly O r o ftener there are a lso great ,

festivals o f the va r ious gods some cele ,

b ra te d an nually others at i ntervals o f some


,

years These m a tsu r i las t for several days


.
,

and during that ti me the quarter of the


city in wh ich they occur see ms entirely
given over to festivity The streets a re .

gayly de corate d with a gs and bright Ia n ,


t rns all alike in design and color are
e .

hu ng in rows from the low caves of the


ho uses Young bamboo-trees set along the
.

street and decorate d with bits of bri ght


,
-

colore d ti s sue paper are a frequent a nd e f ,

O m ia gbe giv e n, not onl y on the re turn from


m ust

a n e ve ni ng of p l ea s ure b ut al s o o n the re t ur n fr om a ou r j
ne y or pl ea s ure tr ip of a n y k in d
As a rul e , the l onger.

th e a bse n ce , the ne r a nd m ore costl y m us t b e the pr e


2 76 A A
J P N ES E G I RLS AN D WOMEN .

dancing girls are hire d to march in t he


-

m o ts ur i procession o r to da n ce upon th e
,

lo fty da shi At th e time O f the festivi ti es


.

w hich accompan ied the prom ulgation of


the Co n st itution th ree days of jol l ica ti on
,

were held in To ky o days of s uch un iversal


,

fun and frolic that it will be known a mon g


the com mon people to all succ ee ding ge n
,

e ra tio ns as the Em peror s big


,

Every quarter of the city vied with every


other in the production Of go rgeous da shi ,

an d the st reets were gay with every con


ce i va bl e variety of deco ration from the lit ,

tle r ed -an d white pape r lantern s that even


-
,

the poorest hun g be fore their houses to ,

the gre at evergreen arches set with elec ,

tric lights with wh ich the great business


,

stree ts were spann ed thickly from end to


end A n evening walk through one Of
.

these thorough fares was a sight to be r e


membered for a li fetime The m agnice nt
.

das hi represented all manner of quaint


conceits . A great bivalve d rawn by y ell

.

ing cro ds which halted occas ionally


w
0 pen ed and displayed betw ee n its shells

a group of beauti fully dressed girls who ,

danced one of the pan tomi mic dances of


the country accom panied by the twan ging
,
LI FE IN TH E CI TI ES . 2 77

melodies of the sa m isen Then slowly th e .

great s hell closed once more the shout ,

ing crowds seized hold of the straining


ropes and th e great bivalve with its fai r
,

freight was d r a wn s lowly alon g through the


gayly illu minated streets Ji m m u Ten n o .

and other heroes of Japane se legend or his


to ry e ach upo n its lo fty platfor m a white
, ,

e lephant and countless other subjects were


,

repre sented i n the festival cars sent forth


by a l l the districts of the city to celebrate
the great event .

Upon such festival occasions the shOp


keeper does not put up his shutte rs a nd
leave his pl ac e of busine ss but the Ope n ,

shop fro nts add much to the gay appea r


-

ance of the street There are n o signs of .

bu sine ss about but the oor of the shop is


,

covered wit h bright red blankets ; m a g ni -

cent gilded screens form an i m posing back


ground to the little room ; a nd sea ted on
the oor are the sho pkeeper his family , ,

and guests eati n g d rinking tea a nd sm ok


, , ,

i ng as cosily as if all the world and his


,

w i fe were not gazing upon the gay and


h o m e like interior Someti m es compan ies
.

o f d a ncers or other entertain men t s fur


,

n is h e d by the wea lthier shopkeepers w ill ,


2 7 8 JAPA N ES E G I RLS AN D WOMEN .

att ract gapin g crowds wh o watch and block


,

the street unti l the advance guard o f so m e


approaching do shi scatters them for a mo
me nt.

I n Japan as i n other parts of the world


, ,

the country pe ople a re rather looked do wn


upon by the dwellers i n the city for thei r
slowness of in tellect dowdiness of dre ss
, ,

and boorish nes s of man ners ; while the


country people make fun of the fads an d
fash ions O f the city and rejoice th a t they
,

are not them s elves the slaves of novel ty ,

and espe cially o f the foreign innovations


that play so prominent a part in Japanese

ci ty li fe to day
-
. The frog in the well

knows not the g reat ocean is the sn ub ,

with which the Japan es e cock ney sets down


Farmer Rice-Field s expression s Of Opinion

while the conservative countryman laughs


at the foreign a ecta t ions of the To ky o man
'

and returns to his villa ge with tales of the


cookery of the capital : so extravagant is
i t that sugar is used in everything ; it is
even ru mored that the Toki te s p ut suga r
'

in their tea .

But while the cou nt ry laughs and won


ders at the city nevertheless in Japan as
, ,

elsewhere there is a constant crowding o f


,
dres ser may make a handsome livi n g ; i n
deed she does so well that it is proverbia l
,

among the Japanese that a hair dress er s -


husband has nothin g to do Though pro .

fess ional tai l o rs are most ly m e n many wo ,

m e n earn a small pittance in takin g i n


se wing and in gi vin g sewin g lessons ; an d
as instructors in the ceremonial tea eti ,

q ue tte ,
music pai
,
nting and ower
, ar
rangement many wo men of the Old sch ool
,

a re able to ea rn an independen ce though ,

n one of the se occu pati ons are con n ed to


the women alone .

The busi n ess of hote l keeping we have


-

referred to in a previous chapte r an d it ,

is a well known fact that un l ess a hotel


-

kee per has a capable wi fe his busines s wil l


,

not succee d A t present all over Toky o


.
, ,

small restaurants where food is se rved in


,

the foreign style a re sprin gin g up and


, ,

these are usu a lly conducted by a m a n an d


his wi fe who have at some time se rved as
cook and waitre ss i n a fo reign family an d ,

who conduct the business cooperatively and


o n te rms of good fello wship and equality
- .

I n these little eating hou ses where a well


-
,

cook ed fore i g n din ner of from thre e to six


courses is served for the moderate su m of
LI FE I N TH E CI TI ES . 281

thi rty or forty cents the man usually does


,

the cooki ng the woman the serving a nd


,

handlin g of the money u ntil the time ar ,

rives when the pro ts of the business are


sufcient to j usti fy the hiring of more help .

When this time co mes the labor is re ,

di stributed the woman frequently takin g


,

u pon hersel f the recepti on of the guests


and the keeping of the accounts while the ,

hired help waits on the tables .

O ne i mportant calling i n the eyes of ,

many persons espec ially those of the lower


,

cl asses is that O f fortu ne te lling ; and


,
-

these guides in all matters of l ife both ,

great and small are to be found i n every


,

section o f the city They are consulted on


.

every i m porta nt step by believin g ones of


all clas ses An impending marriage a n
.
,

illness the l oss of any valuable article a



, ,

journey about to be takeu these are all ,

subjec ts for the fortu ne teller He tells the


-
.

ri ght day o f marriage an d says whether


,

the fates of the two parties will combin e


well ; gives clues to the cau ses of sudden
illness and in formation as to what h as
,

become of lost arti cles and whether they


,

will be recove red or not Warned thus by .

the fortun e teller against evils that may


ha ppe n , m a ny in ge nious e xp e die n ts a re

m one d tm to u oid the ill fo reto l d .

A nn a a nd hi s fa m ily we re a bout to
m o ve om
'
t he ir resid e n ce to a not he r pa r t
of the city . The y se n t to know if thc
fa tes were p ro pitious to the cha uge for a ll

the fa m ily . The da y m d yw of bi rth of

hunte d up the va rious sig ns and sen t word ,

t ha t the dire ct ion of the new ho me was


e xce l le n t for the good l uc k of t he fa m i l y

as a whol e , a nd the m ove a ood one foa


g
'

ea c h m em ber of it e xce pt one of the sons ;


the next yea r the sam e m ove would be ba d
for the fa ther As the family could not
.

wa it two ye ars before m oving it was d e ,

ci ded tha t the ch an ge of resi d e nce shou l d

be m d e a t once but tha t the 8 0 m should


,

l ive wi th his un cle un til the n ext yea r .

The uncle s ho me was howe v er inc oa



, ,

ve n ie ntl y remote a n d so the youn g m an


,

stayed as a vi s itor at his fath er s house for

the re mai n ing m on ths of the yea r a fte r ,

which he became on ce more a mem ber of


the house hold Th us the inconvenien ce
.

a n d the evi l were both a voided .

A nother sto ry com es to my mi nd no w of


a dear o ld lady the Go I nkyo Same of a
,
The other was the spirit of a horse th a t
h a d once belonged in the family a nd that,

a fte r death reve n ged i t sel f u pon its forme r

m aste rs for the hard service wherewith

it h ad been made to serve Th e only wa y


i n which these two powers could be a p
p e a se d wo u ld be by nding the well a n,d
re moving the obstructions that choked it ,

a n d by erectin g an image of th e horse and

o e r in g to it cakes and other m ea t offer


'
-

i ngs . The fortune teller hinte d moreover


-
, ,

t hat for a con siderati on he might be able


to a fford m ate rial aid i n the search for the
well .

A t this in form a tion Go I nk yo Sama was


m uch pe rturbe d ,
for fu rther aid for her
a ficte d family seemed to require the use

of m oney ,
and of that com mod ity she had
very little be in g m ainly dependent upon
,

h e r brother for support . She returned to


h er h ome a nd consulted the servants u pon
th e matte r ; but though they quite agreed
with her th at somethin g should be done ,

they had little capi tal to i nvest in the en


te r pr i se s s uggeste d by the fortune teller
- .

At last the old l a dy we n t to her brother


, ,

but h e o nly laug hed at h e r well m e an t a t


-

tempts to h e lp h is family a nd re fused to


,
LIFE uv TH E czr w s . 285

give her money for such a purpose She .

retired disco uraged but urged by the ser


, ,

vants she d ecided to make a last appeal


, ,

this ti me to her siste r-in-law who must ,

surely be moved by the evil that was threat


cuing hers el f and her child ren Taking .

some of the head servants with her she ,

went to her sister and presented the case .

Th is was her last resort and she clung to


,

her forlorn hOpe longer than many would


have done the servants adding their argu
,

m ents to her i mpassioned appe als only to ,

nd out a fte r all that the stead fast sister


could not be moved an d that she w
, ould
not propitiate the horse s sp irit or allow

,

m oney to be used for such a purpose S he .

gave it up then and sat down to await the


,

fate of her doomed hou se doubtless won ,

deri ng much an d sigh ing o ften over the


foolis h skeptic is m of her near relatives ,

and wish in g that the rationalistic tenden


cies of the time would take a less dange r
ous form than the negl e ctin g of the plainest

pre cautions for li fe an d health The fate .

h as not yet come and now at last G o I n


,

k yo Sama seems to have re sign ed herself


to the belie f that it has been av e rted from
the heads of the dear on e s by a power nu
k nown to the fortune te ller - .
286 J APA N ES E GI RLS AN D WOMEN .

B side these ca ll in gs there a re o th er


e
,

employments which are not regarded as


wholly respectable by either J a pa nese or
foreigners The gisha ya or es tabli sh
.
,

ments where dan c in g girls are train ed an d -


,

let out by the day or evening to tea houses -

or priv a te parties a re usually m anag ed by


,

women . At th ese es tablish m e nts l ittle


gir ls a re taken sometimes by con tract with
,

the ir parents sometimes adopted by the


,

propri etors of the ho use a nd fro m very ,

early youth a re trained not only in the ar t


of dancing but are taught s in ging an d
,

sunrise w pl ayi ng all the etiquette of serv


,

ing and enterta in in g guests an d whatever ,

el se goe s to make a girl charming to the


opposite se x When tho roughly taught ,

they form a val ua ble investment and well ,

repay the labor s pent upon t hem for a ,

popu lar geisha com mands a good price


everywhe re and has her ti me over crowded
,

w ith en gagements A Japanese enterta in .

ment is hardl y regarded as compl ete wi th


o ut g is ha s in attendance and their dan ,

cing mu sic and graceful service at supper


, ,

fo rm a ch a rming addition to an eveni ng


o m e ut at a tea house It is th e se
of e n d y - .

g e is hns t o
,
o, who at m a ts ur i ar e hired to
288 J APA N ES E G I RLS AN D wow .

the supper room and ply their tem po rary


-

employers with the sa ke bottle laughin g ,

and jesting the while unti l the re is litt l e


,

wonder if the youn g men at the ente rta in


ment d rink more than is good fo r them ,

and leave the tea house at last tho roughly


-

tipsy and enslaved by the brig ht eyes an d


,

merry wits of some of the Hebes who have


beguiled them th rough the eveni n g .

Th e geishas un fortunately t hough fa ir , ,

are fra il I n their syste m of education


.
,

man ners stan d higher than morals an d ,

m any a geisha gladly leaves the dancing in

the te a houses to become the concubine of


some wea lthy Japanese or fore igner th ink ,

i ng n one the worse of hersel f for such a


bus iness arran ge ment a nd going chee r
,

fully back to her regular work sh outd ,

her contract be un expectedly ended The .

geisha is not necessarily bad but there is ,

i n her li fe m uch temptation to evil an d ,

little stimulus to do right so that where , ,

one lives blameless many go wrong a nd


, ,

d rop below the margin of respectability a l


together Yet so fas cinati ng bright and
.
, ,

l ively are these geishas that many of the m


have been taken by men of good posi
tion as wives and are now the h eads of
,
LI FE I N TH E CI TI ES . 28 9

the mo st re spectable homes Without .

true educa tion or morals but trained ,

thoroughly i n a ll the arts and accomplish


m ents that pl ease witty quick at re pa r
, ,

tee p retty and always well dre ssed


, ,
the ,

geisha has prov ed a formidable ri val for


the demure quiet m aiden of good family
, ,

who can only give her husband a n nus nl


lied name silent obedience and faith ful
, ,

service all her li fe The fre edom of the


.

present a ge as shown in the chapter on


,

Marriage an d D ivorce an d as seen in ,

the choice of s uch w ives h as pre sented ,

this great problem to the thinking women


of Japan . I f the wiv e s of the leaders i n
Japan are to come from among such a
class of women somethin g m ust be done
, ,

and done quickly for the sake of the future


,

of Japan ; either to raise the standard s of

the men in regard to women or to chan ge ,

the old syste m of ed ucation for girls A .

liberal educati on an d more freedom in


,

early li fe for women has been sugges ted , ,

and is now bein g t ried but the pro blem of ,

the geisha an d her fascination is a deep


o ne in Japan .

Below the geisha in respectability stands


the j o ro or lice nsed prostitute Every
,
.
city in J a pan has i ts disreputa ble quarter ,

whe re the va rious j ar a ya or lice n sed h ous es


'

of pro stitution are si t uated ,


The s a pe rvi .

sio n that the gov e rn ment exerci ses ov e r


t h es e places is extre mely rigid ; the effort
is made by licensin g and re gulating the m
, ,

to minimize the e vi ls that m ust o w fro m


th e m The proprietors of the jr oya do
'

e v e rything i n thei r power to make their


hou se s gro unds an d em ployees attracti ve
, , ,

and to the un sus pecting forei g ner this


, ,

portion of the city seems o ften the ple a s


untes t and mo s t res pectable A j ars n ee d .

n e ver be tak e n for a respectable woman ,

for her d re ss is d istinctive and a stay of ,

a short ti me i n Japan is l ong enough to


teac h e ven the most obt use that the obi or ,

sa s h ti ed in fro nt i nste ad o f behi nd is one


, ,

o f the bad ge : of shame But though the .

occupa tion of the j o ro is altogether isre p


d
'

n tabl e though the pros titute quarter is


,

the s pot to which the police tu r n for i n


lh r nm tion in re ga rd to cri mi nals an d law
l noa ke rs a sort of a trap in to whic h soone r

, ,

or l a te r the o ffender a gainst the law is


,

s ure to fall Japanese pu bl ic opinion


, ,

though re cog nizin g the ev il a s a great o ne ,

doe s no t look u pon the pro fessional pros ti


2 92 APA N ES E GI RLS
J AN D WOMEN .

tion m ust nd its m ate rials where it ca n .

These j r ya give employment to tho u


' '

sands of women throughout t he country ,

but in few ca ses do the women seek th a t


e mployment and more Openin gs in reS pec
,

table directions together with a chan ge i n


,

public Opinion securin g to every woman


the right to her own person would ten d to ,

di mi ni s h the nu mbe r of victi ms that these


in stitutions yearly draw in to their devour
ing current .

I n nocent a nd reputable am usements are


m any and v a ried in the cities We have .

already m entioned incidentally the thea


tre as one of the favorite diversions of the
people ; and though it has never been t e
garded as a very rened amusement it has ,

d one a n d is doing m uch for the educa


tion of the lo wer classe s i n the hi story an d
S pirit of former times Re gular pl a ys were
.

n e ver per fo r m ed in the pre sence of th e

E m peror a nd h i s court or th e Sh o gun a n d


,

h is nobl e s but the N o d an c e wa s the only


,

d ra m a tic amu sem e n t of the nobility This .

N O i s an a ncient Japan e se th ea trical per


for m a nce more perha p s li k e the G re ek
, , ,

dra m a than a nythi n g i n o ur m od e rn li fe .

Al l th e moveme nts of the a c tor s are meas


LI FE I N TH E CI TI ES . 2 93

ured and conventionalized spe ech is a poet ,

ical recitative the costum es are sti an d


'

antiq ue m asks a re m uch used and a chorus


, ,

seated upon the stage chants audible co m


men ts upon the various situations This .

alone the most ancient and cl as sical of


,

Japanese theat rical performance s is con ,

sid ere d worthy of the attentio n of the E m

p ero r and the nobility an d takes the place


,

with them of the more vulgar an d realistic


plays whic h delight co m mon people .

The regular theatre preserves in m any


ways the li fe an d costumes of Ol d Japan ,

an d the details of d ress and scener y are


most care fully studied The actors a re usu.

ally men though the re are women t h ea


,

tres in which all the parts are pe rformed


by women I n n o case are the rd l es taken
.

by both sexes upon one stage As the per .

form a nces last all day fro m te n or el eve n,

i n the forenoon u nti l eight or n in e in the


even in g going to the theatre mea ns mu ch
,

more than a fe w hours of entertain ment


after the day s work is over A lunch an d

.

din ner with inn umerable light edibles be


,

tween go to make up the usual bill of fare


,

for a d ay at the play and tea houses in the


-
,

n eighborhood of the theatr e provide the


n ece ss ary meal s a room to take th e m i n a
, ,
'

resti ng place betwee n the a cts and w hat


-
,

ever te a cak es and ot her re fresh m en ts


, ,

may be ordered These latter eatabl e s a re


.

ser ved by the atten dan ts f the tea house


o -

i n the thea tre boxes while the play is in


progress an d the p l aygoers eat and smoke
,

all day l ong th rough roa rin g farce or gori


es t tr aged y .

S imilar to the th eatre i n m any ways a re


the public halls where profes sional sto ry
,

te llers the ha na sln lm n ight afte r n ight


'

, , ,

relate lon g stories to crowded audiences as ,

powerfully and vi vidly as the bes t train ed


elocutionist Each gesture and each mod
.
,

ul a tio n of the voice is studi ed as ca re


,

fully as are those of the actors Many charm .

in g tales are told of old J a pan and ev e n ,

Weste rn stories have found their way to


these assemblies A lon g story is O ften
.

continued from n igh t to night u ntil n


i ehed Un fortunately the cl a ss of people
.
,

who patronize these places is l ow and the ,

moral tone of some of the stori es is pitch ed


accordingly ; but the best of the sto ry -tell
ers those who have talent and reputa
tion are o ften i n vite d to come to ente r
tain ments given at private houses to amuse ,
qui ck sa l e for fr uit con fecti on ery a nd lig h t , ,

l un ches S a kc is ofte n too free ly imbi be d


by t he m e m m a k e rs whose ushed fa ce s ,

sh ow whe n re t ur ning homew a rd how th e i r


, ,

d a y was spen t There is m uch qui et e n .

of the l ovely bl osso m s h


jyo m e n t too , ,
t e ,

b roa d ca lm river and the ga yly dress ed


, ,

c rowds H undreds a nd thou sands of vi si t


.

or s crowd to the subur ba n places ab ou t


Tok yo to Uy eno P ark f or its cherry a n d
,

a h blossom s Kam eido l o r the plum a n d


p e c ,

wist a ria Oji for its famous maple tre es


,
-
,

a nd many others e a ch n ote d for some spe ,

cia l beauty D ango ! aka h as its own pe


.

cul ia r attraction the famous chrysa nth e ,

m um dolls Th ese ingenious gures a re


.

arranged so as to form tableaux sce n es ,

fro m hi story or ction well k n ow n to all


the people T hey are Of li fe size and the
.
,

fa ces hands and feet are made of some


, ,

com position and closely resemble l i fe in


,

ev e ry d e tail But the curious thi n g in


.

th e se ta blea ux is that the scenery whether ,

it be th e representation of a waterfall rocks , ,

or b us h e s the anim a ls an d the dresse s of


, ,

the g ure s a re m a d e e ntire ly of chry s s a


the m n m t wi g s l e a v e s a n d ow e r s not c ut
, , ,

a nd wo ve n i n a s at t he r st gl a nce t hey ,
LI FE I N THE CI TI ES . 297

seem to be ,
so closely a re the leaves and

owers bound toget her to make the a t


sur ace of d ifferent objects
f but al ive an d ,

growing on the pl a n ts It is imposs ible .

to tell where the roots a nd ste ms are hid


den for nothing is vi sible but (for ex
,

am p le ) the w hite spray an d gre en ish shad


ows of a waterfal l or the pa rti co lored g
,
-

ures in a young gir l s d ress But sho uld



.
,

it be the visitor s good fortune to watc h the


repai ring of one of these lifelike images he ,

will nd that the entire body is a frame


woven of split ba mboo within whi ch the ,

plants are placed their roots packed i n


,

damp earth an d bound about with straw ,

while their leaves and owers are pulled


th rough the basket fra me and woven into
whatsoever pattern the arti stic eye and
ski ll ful n ge rs of the ga rdener m a y select .

A roo f of matting shields each g rou p fro m


the s un by day and a slight spri nkling
,

every night serv es to kee p the plan ts fresh


for nearly a month and the owers co n
,

tin ue their blooming d uring that time as ,

cal mly as if in perfectly natu ral positions .

Each of the gardeners of the neighborhood


h a s his own little show containin g several
,

tableaux the entrance to which is guarded


,
by an gate kee per who shouts out
otli c io us -
,

the merits o f his pa rticular groups of g


ures and forces h is show b ills u pon the
,
-

passer-by i n the hOpe of securing the two


,

sen admi ssion fee which is required for


e ach exhibit .

A nd so am id the shopping the fes ti vals


, , ,

the amuse ments of the great cities the ,

women n d the ir l ives varied in many ways .

Their holidays from home duties are S pent


amid these enjoyments ; and if they have
not the out-O f door employments the lon g
-
,

walks up the mo un tain s the days spent in


,

te a picking in harv estin g in all the v a ried


-
, ,

work that comes to the country wo m an ,

the dwelle rs in the city have n o l a ck of


sights and sounds to am use an d inter est
them and would not often care to exchange
,

thei r lot for the fr eer and hardier l ife of


Am erica n hou sewi fe who has bee n accu s
,

to m e d i n her o w n co untry to be t he head


of every deta il of household work leavi n g ,

to her servan ts only the mechanical labo r


of the hands S he begins by showing her
.

O riental help the work to be done and ,

just the way in which she is accustom ed to


ha ving it done at home and the chanc es ,

are about one in a hund red th a t he r serva nt


wi ll carry out her instructions I n the .

n inety n ine other cases h e wi ll accom pli sh


-
,

the desir ed result but by means totally dif


,

fe re nt from those to which the American


housek eeper is accustomed I f the house .

wi fe is one of the worryi ng kind who ca res ,

a s much abo ut the way in which the thing

is do ne as about the accom plished result ,

the chances are th at she wil l wea r herself


out in a fruitless endeavor to m ake h er

servants do th in gs in her own way a nd ,

wi ll when she re turn s to A merica assure


, ,

o u that Japan ese servants are the m ost


y
idle stu pid an d alto geth er worthless lo t
, ,

that it was ever her ba d fortun e to have


to do with . But o n the other hand if t he ,

lady of the house is one who is wi lling to


give general o rders a nd then sit down and
,

wait until the work is done be fore criticis


DOMES TI C s s a VI CE . 3 01

i ng it she wi ll nd that by some mea ns or


,

other the work will be accomplished and


her desi re wil l be carried out provided on ly ,

that her se rvants see a reason for getting


the th ing do ne And as she nds that
.

her dom estics wi ll take respons i bility upon


the m selves a nd will work not only with
, ,

thei r ha nd s but with the will and intellect


,

in her service she soon yields to thei r p ro


,

teeting an d thought ful care for hersel f a nd


h er interests and w hen she return s to
, ,

A merica is loud i n her praises of the com


,

p e te n ce a n d devotion o f her Japanese ser


vants Even in the treaty ports where
.
,

contact with forei gne rs has given to the


Japane se attendants the silent an d t e
pressed air that we regard as the standard
man ner for a se rvant they have n ot re ,

sign e d the ir right of pri vate j udgment but , ,

if faithful and hones t se ek the best good,

of their employer even if h is best good


,

in volv es di sobed ience of his o rders This .

characte ristic of the Japanese se rvant is


aggravated when he is i n the employment
of foreigners for the si m ple reason that he
,

is apt to regard the fore igner as a species


of imbe cil e who m ust be car ed for tenderly
,

b ec au se he is quite inco m pete nt to care for


h im se l f,but wh ose fa ncies m ust n ot be
too m uch regarded Of the re l a ti o ns of
.

fore ig n employe rs an d Japa nes e se r va n ts


muc h mig ht be said but our business is
,

wit h the position of the se rva n ts in a Ja p


a n ese hou sehold .

Un der the old feudal syste m the ser va n ts


,

of every family were its heredi ta ry re ta i n

ers and fro m generation to ge ne r ation d e


,

sired no higher lot tha n personal se r vi ce

in the family to whi c h they belonged The .

principle of l oyalty to the family interes ts


wa s t he leadi n g pri n ciple in the lives of th e
servan ts just as loyalty to the d ai m i was
,

the highest duty of the sa m urai L on g .

and intimate knowledge of the fam ily his


tory and traits of chara cter rendered it p os
s ible for the retainer to w o rk in telligently

for his master an d do i n d e pe nd e ntly for


,

h im many things without orders The ser .

vant in many cases kne w his master an d


his master s interes ts as well as the master

him sel f or even better and m ust a ct by


, ,

the l ight of h is own knowledge in case s


where his master wa s ignorant or misin
for m ed O ne ca n e a sily see h ow ties of
.

good fellow ship a nd sy m p a thy wo uld arise


-

between masters an d serva nts how a com ,


3 04 J P A A N ES E G IRLS AN D WOMEN .

pendent merchant or artisa n As the for .

mer feud al syste m is yet withi n the mem


ory of many of the pre sent ge nerati on ,

a nd its feelin gs still al ive in J a pan m uch ,

of the old sentiment remains ev e n wit h ,

the merely hire d d omesti cs i n a househo l d


of the present day T he servant by h is
.
,

own m aster is a ddre sse d by name with no


, ,

title of res pect, is tr eated as an in ferior ,

a nd spoken to in the lan guage used towar d

in feriors ; but to al l others he is a pe rsou


to be t reated with res pect to be bowe d ,

to pro fou ndly addressed by the title Sa n,


,

and spoken to in the politest of langu a ge .

Y ou make a call upon a Japanese house


hold and the se rvant who admits you wil l
,

expect to exchan ge the formal sa lutati ou s


with you When you are ushered into
.

the reception room should the lady of the


-
,

house be absen t the head se rvants will no t


,

o nl y serve you with tea and re freshme nts

and oe r you hospital ities in their mistress s


'

n ame but m a y i f n o one else be there sit


, , ,

with you in the parlor entertainin g you ,

with con versation u n til the return of the


hoste ss The se rvants of the house hold are
.

by no mean s ignored socially as they are ,

wi th us but are al ways recognized an d sa


,
D OMES TI C S ER VI C E
. 805

l uted by visitors as they pass in to and out


of the room , and are fr ee to join in the con
versation of thei r ba tte rs should they see ,

any place where it is poss ible that they may


sh ed light on the subj ect discussed But .

though given th is l iberty of speech treated ,

with much considerati on and havin g some ,

ti mes muc h res pon sibility serva nts do n ot


,

forget the ir plac es i n the house hold and ,

do not see m to be bold or out of place I n .

deed the man n ers of some of them would


,

seem to any one but a J a pan ese to denote


, ,

a lack of pre per sel f res pect


- a n exce ss of ,
'

h um ility or an a ecta ti on of it
, .

I n expla ining to my scholars who were ,

readin g L itt le Lord Fau ntl eroy i n En g


lish a passage where a footman is s pok e n
,

o f as havi ng nearly disgrace d himsel f by

laughing at some qu a int saying of the young


lord my l ittle peeresses were amazed be yond
,

measure to learn that in Euro pe a n d A mer


ica a servant is expected never to show any
interest in or knowledge of the conversa
, ,

tio n of his bette rs never to speak unless


,

addressed an d never to smile under any


,

circu mstan ce s D oubtl ess in their shr ewd


.
,

little brai ns they formed their Opinion of


,

a ci vil ization i mpos in g such ba rbarous t e


stra ints upon one class of persons .
806 JA PAN ES E C I ELs AN D WOMEN .

The women servants in a family a re i n


p ositio n more like the sel f respect i n g ol-
d ,

fashioned Ne w En gland hel p than th ey



a re like the modern girl They d o no t
.

work all day while the mistress sits i n th e


parlor doing nothin g a nd then when their
, ,

day s work is d one go out an xio us to for



, ,

get ia the soci ety of their friends th e


, ,

drudgery wh ich only the n ecessity for self .

support and the high wages to he earn e d


re nder tolerable As has be en expl a ined
.

i n a previous chapter the mistre ss of th e


,

h o se
u b e she princ e ss or peasant is
hersel f the head se rvant and only gives u p ,

to her hel pers the part o f the labor which


she has not the time or stren gth to per
form .Ce rtain men ial duties tow a rd h er
h usba nd and child ren every Japan ese wi fe
,

and mother must do hersel f and would ,

scorn to delegate to any other woman ex


ce pt in case of absolute n ece ssity Thu s .

there is not that gap be tween m ist ress a nd


m a id that exists i n o ur days among the

women of this country The servants work .

with the ir m istress hel ping h er in every


,

possible way and are trea ted as re sponsi ble


,

m embers of the hou sehold if not of the ,

fam ily itsel f .


or skill in any a rt or profession are hel d i n
great deman d am ong the Japanese a n d a
prominent poet scholar physician or p ro
, , ,

fessiona l m a n of any kin d is often asked by


a nxio us parents to take their so ns u n de r

his own roo f so that they may be un d e r


,

his inuence and receive the benets of


,

stay in such an honora ble house The pa .

rents who thus send their ch ildren m a y


n ot be of low rank at all but ar e u s ually ,

n ot su fciently well to do to spend m uch


- -

m oney in the education of their chil dre n .

T he position th at such boys occupy i n


the household is a curious one They a r e .

cal led S ho sei meanin g stude nts and st u


-
, ,

de nts they usually are S pending all thei r ,

leisure moments and their even i ngs i n


study They a re n ever treated as in fe
.

riors except i n a g e and experience ; they


,

may or may not eat with the family a nd ,

are always ad d ressed wi t h respect On .

the other hand they always feel the m


,

selves to be depen den ts a n d m ust be will ,

ing without wages to work in any c a pa city


about the h ouse for th e sake of picki ng up
,

what crumb s of knowle d ge may fa ll to th e m


from their master s ta ble Service is not

.

absolutely demanded of the m but they a r e ,


DOM ES TI C S ER VI CE . 3 09

expected to do what will pay for thei r


board a nd do not regard men ial work as
,

belo w them performing cheerfu l ly a l l tha t


,

the master m a y req uire of them .

I n this way a m a n of moderate mean s


,

ca n h elp alon g many poor young men in

whom he may feel interested a nd in re ,

turn be save d expen s e about his h ousehold


wo rk ; and the s tuden ts w hile always con
,

s id era te l y tre a te d a r e able withou t grea t


,

expense to study o fte n even to p repa re


,

for college or get a start in one O f t he


,

pro fessions for they have many lei s ure


,

moments to devote to their books M a ny .

prominent men of the present day h a ve


been students of thi s clas s a nd are n o w i n
,

t heir turn helping th e younger genera ti o n .

The boys that one sees in shops or wit h , ,

work men of all kinds helpin g in m a ny ,

little ways are not hirelings but a ppre n


, ,

tice s who hope some day to hold j ust a s


,

good positions as their maste rs and expect ,

to k no w as m uc h if not a gre a t d ea l m ore


, .

At the sh o p or in the h o me they n ot only ,

h e l p i n the trades or occupations they a re


lear n in g but are willing to do any kind o f
,

m enial work for their mas ter or his fa m

ily in return for w ha t they receive fro m


h im ; th ey do not pay for th ei r board
for
nor for what they are taught E ven whe n
.

the age of ed ucation is already p a st grown ,

men and women are willing to leave qui te


i ndependent pos itions to shine with t e
ect ed glory as se rvan ts of persons of h igh

ra nk or distinction The servant is n ot
.

grea ter than his master in Japan ; but i f


the master is great the servant is consid
,

era bly greater than the m a n without a


mast er .

I n a country like Japan where one ,

nds but fe w we a l thy pe ople there may be


,

c a u se for wo nd e r at the large h ouseholds ,

where th e re are s o many se rvan ts Ther e .

will he o fte n a s many as te n or m ore ser


vants in a h o me where i n other ways lux
, ,

ury and w ea lth are not displayed In the .

a im,
or the part o f the ho use where the

lad y of the house sta y s are foun d h e r own


,

maid and women who help in the work


,

about the house sew i n their leisu re m o


,

ments an d are the higher servants of th e


,

fa mily ; there a re a l s o the childre n s a t


te nd a nts oft e n o ne fo r each child as wel l


, ,

as the waiting wom e n for the G o I nky o


Sam a . In the kitchen are the cooks an d
t heir ass ist ants the lower servants a nd usu
, ,
greater pay The family too in many cases
.
, ,

a re used t o having pl enty o f hands to do

the work ; the ladies are much less in d e


pendent and li fe has more form alities an d
,

r ed tape i n Japan than in America A .

grea t deal of the shopping is done by ser


vants who are sent out on errands a n d
,

o ften do i m portant bu si n ess Maid s ac .

com pany th e ir m is tresses to ma ke vi s its


servants g o with parties to the theatr e to ,

picnics or o n jo urneys and th e se expedi


, ,

tions are as heartily enjoyed by them as by


their masters I t is expected especial ly o f
.
,

ladies and persons of high ran k that the ,

detai l s of the journ ey the bargai ning wi th


,

coolies the hirin g of vehicles a nd payi ng


, ,

of bill s be l e ft in charge of some manser


,

vant who is entirely responsible an d who


, ,

makes all the bargains arran ge s the j ou r


,

ney for his em ployer and tak e s charge of


,

everyt h ing even to the amount of fees


,

give n along the way .

Perhaps the highest positi ons of servi ce


no w position s honorable an ywh ere in
Japan a re held by those who remain of

the ol d re tainers of dai mi o s a n d who ,

r egulate the hou seholds of the nob les .

S uch m e n must have good educa tion an d ,


D OMES TI C S EE VI C E
. 31 3

good judgment ; for m uch is le ft in their


hands and they are usually gentlemen
, ,

who would be known as such anywhere .

They are the ste wards of the household ,

the secretaries of their mas te rs ; keep al l


accounts for which they are res ponsible
, ,

and attend to the minor affairs of etiquette ,

the latter no triin g duty in a noble s

home It is they who accompany the no


.

bl es o their journ eys


n regulate ad vise
, , ,

and attend to the litt le a a irs of l ife of


which the mast er m ay be ign orant an d


cares not to l earn Th ey are the l ast of
.

the crowds of feudal reta iners who once ,

lled castle an d ya shiki and are now scat


,

te red t hroughout the length and brea dth


o f the kingdom .

The higher servants in the house hold


m ust be always more or less trained in eti

q u e tte , and are expected to look n e a t a nd


tidy ; to serve guests with tea and refre sh
'

ments without any orders to that ee ct ;


,

and to use their judgment in little house


hold a a irs and thus help the lady of the
'

house They are usually clever with thei r


.

n ge rs and can sew n eatly W hen their


,
.

m istre s s goes out they assist her to d ress ,

a nd only a fe w words from her will be


3 14 JAP N ES E A GI RLS AN D WOMEN .

n ecessary for th em to have everythin g i n


readiness fro m ,
her sash and dress to a l l
the little belongings of a l ady s costu m e
.

Many a bright quick servant is found wh o


,

will un der stand and guess her mistres s s


wants without be in g told eac h de tail a nd ,

t hese n ot only serve with their hands b ut ,

think for their employers .

Much less is expected of the lower ser


va n ts who belong to the kitchen and have
, ,

l es s to do with the family in general a n d ,

little or n o personal contact wit h thei r


m as te rs . T hey perform their round of d u
ties with little re s ponsibility and are re ,

g a r d ed as much lower in the socia l scal e

of serva nts of which we have seen there


,

are many degrees .

T he little gozew ta ki or rice cook wh o


-
, ,

works a l l day in t he kitchen may be a fa t , ,

re d c h ecked frowsy haired country girl


-
,
-
,

p a t i e nt
,
h a rd -working an d humble -minded
, ,

wi ll ing to pother about a ll day with her


ket tl es a nd pa ns a nd S it up h al f the night
,

ove r her own sewing or the study of the ,

oll e n un f am ili a r a rt of reading a n d writ

i ng ; b ut e n ti re ly nna cqua i uted with the


d e ta il s o f e ti qu ette a k nowl e dge of which
,

is a n eces s i ty to the higher servants ,


816 JAPAN ES E GIRLS AN D WOM EN .

to her for the gift and also askin g h e r to


,

thank the g iver This of course is a l


.
, ,

ways done for a g i ft to a servant i s a s


,

m uch of a favor to the m istress as a pres

e nt to a child is to its mother .

When a servant wi shes to leave a fam ily ,

sh e ra re ly goe s to her mistress and sta te s

that s he is d issatised with her positio n ,

a nd th a t so me be tte r chance has be en o f

fe red her Such a natural excuse never


.

occu rs to the Japanese servant unless h e ,

be a j in n lns ha man or betto who may n ot


kn ow how to d o be tter ; for it is a very


r ud e wa v o f lea vi n g service The high .

m ind ed m aid will proceed ve ry differentl y .

A fe w d nvs l ea ve of absence to v i sit hom e


will be a s k ed a nd usually grante d for Ja p ,

a ne se s e r va nts ne ve r have any settle d ti m e

to ta k e h o li d ay At the end o f the give n


.

ti m e t he mi s t res s will be g in to wonder


wha t ha s beco me o f the gi rl who has failed ,

to r tn r n ; a nd the lady will m ake u p her


o

m i nd s he will not let her go ag a i n so read

i ly
. Just whe n s he has a s harp reproo f
rem l v a m es s e ng e r or l e tter w ill a rrive
. ,

with s o m e g o od e x c u se co uc h e d in m o s t
,

li t a nd h um bl e t er m s S ome t ime s it
p o o .

wil l be th a t s he ha s fou nd hersel f too w eak


D OMES TI C S ER VI CE . 3 17

for se rvice or that work at h ome or the


, ,

illness of some member of the family d e ,

tains her so th at s he is not able to come


,

back at present The excuse is under


.

stood and accepte d as nal and another ,

servant is sought for a n d obtained After .

several weeks h a ve passed v ery likely afte r ,

enterin g a new place the ol d servant will ,

t urn up some day express her thanks for


,

all past kindnesses an d regrets at not r e


turning in time wil l take her pay an d her
,

bu ndles and d isappear forever


, .

Even when servants come on trial for a


fe w days they often go a way nominally to
,

fetch their belon gi n gs or m ake arran ge ,

m en ts to return but the lady of the house


,

does not kno w w h eth er the woman is sat


i s e d or not I f sh e is n ot her refusal is
.
,

always brought by a third person I f the .

mistress on her side doe s not wish to hire


, ,

th e girl sh e will n ot tell h er so to her


,

face but will send word at this ti me to pre


,

ve nt her comi ng S uch is th e etiquette i n


.

these matters of mistress and maid .

O nly by a m ultiplicity of details is it


possible to give m uch idea of th e positio n
of servants i n a Japanese house and even ,

then the result arrived a t is that the posi


tions of what we would cal l do m estic se r
vants vary so grea tly in honor and r esp on

s i bility t hat it is al m ost i m possible to dr a w

a ny ge neral conclusions upon this subje c t .

We ha ve see n that there is no d isti n c t


se rvile cl a ss in Japan a nd that a perso n s

,

soci a l s ta tus is not al te red by the fa ct t h a t

he serves i n a meni a l capac ity provid e d ,

t hat se rvice be of one above him in rank


a nd not be lo w hi m This is l a rgely th e
.

res ul t of the gra ding of socie ty upon oth e r

l ines t h a n th ose on which our soci al d is


t inctious a re found ed a nd p a rtly the resul t
,

of the fa ct t h at women of whatever clas s , ,

a r se rv a nts so fa r a s person s of the O ppo


e

s ite se x in th eir own class are conce r n ed .

The wom e of a pn J a n to d a y form the great


-

se r vi le cl a ss a nd,
as they are also th e
,

wive s a nd m oth e rs of those whom they


se rve the v a re tr ea ted
,
of course , wi th a
,

ce rtai n conside ra t io n a nd respect never

i v n to a m e re servant ; a nd th rough
g e

t he m a l l d om esti c se rvice is elevated


, .

There a r two e mp l oy m ents which I


e

hm e m e nti oned a mong t hose of do m estic


s e rm nts bee a nse th ey wo ul d be so classed

b y us b ut whi c h i n J a pa n rank a m ong


,

the trad es . The j inr ikis ha man and the


3 20 JAPAN ES E G I R LS AN D WOMEN .

passen ger u p the steepest an d most slip


pery o f bills and never to h eed hi m if he
,

expresses a de s ire to walk in order to sa ve


his man I have h ad my ha m m a gu stoutly
.

'

re fuse again an d agai n my oers to walk


, ,

up a steep hill even when th e sn ow was


,

so so ft and slippery u nder his bare feet

that he fell three ti mes in m aki n g the


ascent
. Da i jobu (sa fe ) would be h is

smilin g respon se to all my protestati on s ;


-
and once in a jim ikisha the pa sse n ge r is
, ,

en tirely at the mercy of his man in all


matte rs of ge tting into and out of the ve
hicl e . But though the jinrikisha m a n is ,

for the ti me bein g the autocrat an d con ,

tro lling power over his pas senge r a nd ,

though he will n ot obey the be hes ts of h is


em ployer except so fa r as they seem rea
,

son able and i n accordance with the best


interes ts of all concerned he constit utes ,

him sel f the protec tor an d assistant the ,

advi ser a n d coun selor of h im whom he ,

ser ves and gives his best thought a n d i a


,

tel l ige nce as wel l as his speed an d stren gth


, ,

to the service i n which he is en g aged I f .

he thinks it safe he will tear like an n u


,

broken colt through the business porti on s


o f the city knockin g bundles out of the
,
D OMES TI C S EE VI CE . 321

hands of foot passengers or even hit ting ,

the way farers the m selve s in a erce das h


through their midst laughi ng gayly at ,

their prote sts and at threats of wrat h to


,

come fro m his helpless passenger ; but


should hint of insul t or inj ury against ku
m m a,
passenger or passenge r s dog fal l
,

upon h is ears he wi l l dro p the jinr ikis ha


,

shafts and administe r condign punish m e nt


,

to the offe nder unchecked by thoug hts of


,

the ever-present police or by a ny terrors ,

that his e m ploy e r m ay hold over his head .

I n no o ther country i n the world perh a ps , ,

ca n a lady pl a ce more entire con dence i n

the honor an d loyal ty of her servant than


she can in Japan in her Icum m a ya whet her ,

he be he r priva te serva nt or o ne fro m a ,

respectable s tand He m ay not do what.

she bids h im but that is q ui te a secondary


,

m atter He will st udy her interests ; wi l l


.

remember he r likes a nd dislikes ; will tak e


a me ntal in ventory of t he va rious accesso:
ries or bundles th a t she carries with h e r ,

and will never p e r m i t her to l o se or forget


o ne of t he m ; wi ll r un his legs off i n her

service and de fend her a nd her property


,

vali a nt ly i n case of need O f course as .


,

in all clas se s t here a r e diffe re nt grades ,


322 J PAN ES E C I ELS AN D
A WOM EN .

there are ym n kis ha men who seem u


so

have sunk so low i n their callin g that th e y


have lost al l feeling of loyalty to their e m ~

ployer and onl y care selshly for the pit


,

tance they gain Such men are oft e n


.

fou n d i n the treaty ports eage rly see kin g ,

for the rich foreigner fro m whom th ey ,

can get an extra fee and whom they r e


,

g ard a s outside o f their code o f m ora l s ,

and hence as their n atural prey Trav .

clers an d even residents of Japan ha ve


, ,

o ften complained of such treatm e nt ; an d


it is on ly after long stay in Japa n amon g ,

the Japanes e themsel v es that one ca n tel l,

what a jinr ikis ha man is capable of .

I f you employ o ne ka m wa ya for any


length of time you come to have a rea l
,

affecti on for h im on account of his loyal ,

faith ful cheerfu l service such as we se l


, ,

dom nd in this cou ntry except when ia


spired by personal feel ing Wh en you have .

hi dden m iles and m iles by n ight and by,

day th rough rain and sleet an d hottest


,

sunshine behind a m a n who has used


,

every power of body and mind in your se r


vice you can not but h ave a stron g feelin g
,

of affection toward him and of pride i n,

him as well It is so mething the feelin g


.
3 24 J APAN ES E GI RLS AN D WOMEN .

more and more boldly from the fadi ng


background both the gures of fai thful
, ,

se rvants O ne Y us aku the kum m a y a a


.
, , ,

very Herc ules who could k eep close to a ,

pair of coach horses through m iles of city


s treets and who never sue red mortal jive
'

r ikisha man to pass him My champion .

i n all times of dan ger an d al arm but a ,

very au toc rat in all minor m atters hi s ,

cheery face his broad sho ulders wi th t heir


,

blue draperi es his jolly boyis h voice a n d , , ,

his d ainty delicate hands come be fore me


,

as I write and I won der to what fo rtunate


,

person he is now givi ng the intel l igent ser


vice that he once gave so whol e heartedly
to me The other 0 Kaio my maid h er
.
, , ,

plain little face wit h its u pturned eyes , ,

growing as the days went by absolute ly


, ,

beauti ful i n the l ight of pu re goodness


that beamed from it A Japanese Chri s .

tian with al l the Christian vi rtues Well d e


,

ve l o pe d she became to me not only a good


,

se rvant d o ing her work with con scientious


,

d e lity but a sym pathetic fri e nd to whom


, ,

I turned for help in ti me of n eed ; a n d


whom I le ft when I returne d to America
, ,

with a sincere sorrow i n m y heart at part


in g wi th o ne who had grown to ll so l arge
D OMES TI C S EE VI CE . 325

a p l ac e i n my though t s Her lit


. t le hal f ,

shy hal f motherly ways toward her big for


,
-

ei gn mistress had a charm all their own .

Her pride and delight over my progress in


the language ; her patient eorts to make
'

me understand new words or to under ,

stand my uncouth foreign idioms ; her joy ,

whe n at l a st I reached the point where a


story told by her lips could be compre

h end ed a nd enjoyed gave a conti nual e u


,

coura g e m e n t in a ta sk too o ften comple tely

d i sheartening .

D u ring the last su m mer of my stay in


Japan cutting loose fro m all forei gn ers
,

a nd foreign associations I traveled alone


,

with her through the heart of the country ,

stopping only at Japanese hotels and car ,

ryi n g with me no supplies to eke out the

s imple Japanese fare Through oods and


.

typ hoon s we journeyed Long days of


.

scorching heat or dri vin g rain in no way

ab ated her cheerfulness or lessened her d e


,

s ire to do all th a t she could for my aid and

com fort . N ot one sad look nor impatient


word sho wed a a w in her perfec t m m per ;
a nd if she privately m ade up her mind

that I was crazy she never by word or look


,

g a ve a hint o f her thought J i n r iki


.sh a
men grumbl ed and ga ve out ; hote l-kee pers
res en ted the presen ce of my dog or p re ,

good te mper and tac t never failed her ,

Diicul ties w ere sm ooth ed away bill s were


compro m ised an d r ed uced ; the dog slept
secure ly by m y si de on a m d blanket in th e
best rooms of the best hotels ; a nd O Kaio
smil ed told her qua int stories amused m e
, ,

and m inistered to m e, as if I were her on e

ow ect i n l ife, though husband and chiL


dren were far away in di stant Tkyo a nd
,

her m oth er s
h ea r t yearned for her l ittl e
3 30 HVDEX .

Dancing, 38 , 287 , 288 Fancy work , 3

W
. .

Da nc girl s Bee Geinha P " rel a tion to chil d re n,


'

. .

0 ak a , 296 .

Festi val s d oll s , 28 ; of o w


: of

pr oces sions, 27 5 -278 e rs, 27 . 99, 295 -297 ; of t h e


J
.

Decen cy a pa nese st and ard of, D0 year , 25 ; tem p l e , 27 0


;
,

2 55 2 30 . 27
Feud a l syatem , 169 .

Divorce , am ong l owe r cl a sses, 66, 192 ; st ories of, 184 -187
g g
.

69, 73 ; a on h i he r cl au se,
m
66, 68 ; ri h t of, gr ante d t o g
w om en , 66 ; ri h t t o ch ild ren g
in case of, 67 , 105
f
.

Doll s, ea st of, 28-3 1


bb
.

Dre ss , a y , 6, 15 ; m 145 , Fortune -t ell ing , 281- 285


g
.

146 ; i rl s , 15 ; h i

53
Fuji ,
h ouse s, 187 , 192 ; m il itary , of Fi m eral n r vice .

sam ur a i wom e n , 188 ; of


cl asses , 1 26, of p il

osi,
Ed uca tion gi l of r s , 37 -56 ; d im

Geish a ,
ul ti
c i ce w n ne sy ste m , 52 56
f ul t i J p
a n a a none syst em 39
i n ol d ti p 37 m es
,
wh ere gei h s as m ay be hire d ,
Ed u ti high bf
.

ca on , e r, d ou t ul
3
h l p 7 9 ; ff t
e e ec on h om e l i e , f G ta , ood an cl og 13, 14
77 p du i g
, .

ro c n repugna nce t o
m a rria ge , 80
Ed ucation of da im i b s d a u h ter,

g Haor i , a coat of cotton, sk , or
177 180 -
p worn ovem
'
the kim ono,
gr
a e,
b
.

Et oid e red as, 146 , 188,


pg
ro es,
i Ha rap k iri , suicid e by sta bbing in
E p
m e r or , -1 53 , th e abd om en ,
155 H u X 155
ar 168 c
E p ft H m Pi
.

m e r ors, a int rod uct i on of


er ar 1 13r n ce , 15 2
Hei i th l
.
,
C hin ese ci vil i z at ion , 143 -145 ; ass of

m ag
m n,
ng
e
c hil d ren of, 1 64 ; d a u h te rs g ti
ar sans, a m erc
,

of, 155 , ea rl y r e t irem e nt of, 228 , 229 .

13 4 ; i n ear l t im e s , 138 se

H im in , cl ass characteristics of,
e l us ion of, 43 -145 , 155 , 1 56 ,
Hi b hi b i f bu ing
ac a raz er or rn
Em p
,
re ss , 140 , 150- 168 c h l 30 7 2 136 307
a rcoa
Em p Hid ey hi S T y t i
.
, , , , .

re ss d owa ge r , 152 os ee o o om
p Hi i f p up
. . .

w e, th e i az z a tha t l
n n , a c a ss o 228 a ers,
Jp
.

nt a a a n e se h ouse , 23 Hiy i ! 243 an ,


E H l id y 269
. .

t ique tte , cou rt 1 53 ; in d a im i oe



o a s,
H t l 24 7 250
, .

h ouses , 177 - 1 79 ; in t h e h om e , o e s, -

HtlR p
.

19, 20 ; inst ruction in , 46 , 4 7 ; o e - ee e rs ,


of l ea vi n g se r vi ce , 3 16, 3 17 H h l d d uti t i i g f
2u
o se o es, ra n n or ,
t owa rd s se r va nts , 304 , 305
By k u i i h u P
.


a n n f s oe m s o a
y hu d d p t
,

Fa ir ta l es , 32 n re th f oe s, e nam e o a
g g
.

Fam il y , or a niz ation of, 13 9 . 26


am e , .
3 32 HVDEX .

Eoshh a bit of d r ied sh , usuall y


f ol d e d

2
g th k bi th
21 $
.

N ursin e sic 101 a r 2 , 5 ; of eggs ,


g
.
, ,

m one y , 4, 5 on re turn i n .

0 h onoric use d e ore m a ny


an bf f
rom a j on t he
b b
,

n ouns , a nd efore m ost nam es thirti e t h d a y a te r irt h , 5 ; to


of wom e n , 20 ser va n ts, 3 1 1 , 3 15
g P J
. .

0 Ba Sa n, ra nd m oth er , 124 . r ost itutes See 5 r5 . .

0 BKSa n a unt , 124 Prost ituti on, hous es of, 1 14, 214,
g
.

Obi , a i rd le or sa sh , 60
p b
.

Occ u a t ions of t he l ind , 42 ; of 216


t he court , 143 166 ;

of t he d annie s l a d i es , 175
180 of the m ress , 156 E 166 ; p Ret i rem ent rom b us ineu , 13 3f
p p
.

of old p eo l e , 1 36 , 1 20 - 122
, Re ti re m e nt of em erors, 13 4 .

124 - 128 ; of old sa m ura i wo Re ve nge , 198 , 2 10-2 14 .

m en , 22 3, 22 4 ; of se r v a nts , Re vol ut ion of 1868 , 76, 221 .

299, 304, 306 , 30 8 - 3 15 , 3 18 ; of Rice , red been , 3 , 5 , 65


Rm , one te nth of a sen, or about
.

wom e n , 108 - 110 , 85 - 103 , 2 42


256, 279 292, 306, 3 18 ; of il l , m o

on e m .

rl s , 21-34 , 3 8 4 7 R5 nin , a wh o h a s l ost


sam ura i
2
.

0 a re , 1 1 2 13 . his m aste r a nd owes no a ll e


O is h i , 198 , 2 14 .
gia nce to a ny d a im i5 ,
O ji, 296
J
.

S oung l ad y , 20 Sa Cl ey e r a
gs
0 J '
i ki ,
x th e

o a m a a p om ca ,
o a p ri , k n ora b l e r e t ur n , a

g re e ting s h oute d t h e a t te n

by Sa k e, w ine m ad e f rom rice , 22,
d a nt , upo n t h e m a st e r s or w hite , 29
p
.

m istre ss s re t urn to th e h ouse ,



S
Sa m a , or a n , a n h onoric l aced
100 , 3 15 a te rf nam e s , equiva l e nt to
O Ka io , 3 24
.

326 Mr , Mr s , or Miss ,
k
. . .

0 Ki u s m a rr iag e a nd d ivorce ,

7 3 , 74 Sa m is e n , a m us ica l instr um en t ,
p
.

O l d age , ri vi l e g es of, 1 20 , 122 , 4 2 , 127 , 277 , 286


p y
.

123 ; r ovis ion for , 134 . Sa m ura i , th e m il it ar cl a ss, 42 ,


Ol d m e n , 133 , 136 7 5 , 7 6, 105 , 169 , 17 4 , 175 , 1 80
p
.

O m is ge , a re se nt gi ve n on re 196 - 227 , 23 2 , 2 63 , 302 , 303 , 307


t ur ni ng r om a f
journey or 3 19 ; cha rac te r of, 197- 2 07
p
l e as ure e x cur s ion , 274 s pi r it of, 199 , 205
b
. .

O n i , a d e vil o r go l i n, 33 Sa m ura i g1rl s in sch ool , 226


y
. .

Oue e, 2 10 2 13 Sam ura i w om en , cha rac te r of,


p k
.

20 7 - 223 re se nt w or of, 223


Pa l ac e , ne w , 15 1 - 153
P p b ll i
.

a r e nt s d ut ie s to , 134 ; re s e ct Sa ts um a re e on , th e , 222
y
.

fo r , 1 3 3 Sch ool s ste m th e , 50


iii Pee re ss 8
. .
,

P l w , 84 , 87
a re n t s - - a
Sc h ool , t h e

,
.

Pe a s a n t w om e n , 10 8 , 240 26 1 .

l
e us zm try , 2 23 -240 c h oe l e, m is s iona l
p gp gi l
.
,
Ph y s io ia n s fee s , 20 4
e l f- osse ss ion of a a nese r s,
i i
.

P l g r m s , 24 1, 2 4 2 47
Se l f-sac r i ce , 2 14
. .

Pil l o w , 8 9 2 19
p
. .

Pl e a s ur e e xc urs ion s , 99 Se n , on e h und re d th a rt of a


P p b
.

oe m s o f a h und r e d oe ts , 26 y e n , va l ue a out one ce nt , 2 40,


Poe t
.

ry , 2 6, 14 8 - 150 . 27 3 , 2 98 .
HVDEX 3 33

Serv ants, characte risti cs of, 299 T oy otom i H id y oshi ,


302 -3 15 ; in Tra in in g
-sch ool for n urse s, 158
em p
uti e s
f
l oy of or e igne rs, 299 302 ;
of,
.

n um b
e r em p
l oy ed , 3 10 , 3 11 ; Utsun om i ya , 70 , 71
g Uy en o Pa r , 296 k
.

os ti on of, 302-3 10 wa es of,


gi

.

8 awm g , 23 , 94 . Virtue , J p nd W t n
a a nese a es er
Shin to, id eas o , f 215 2 19
Jp ft i g
.

Sh ogi , a a nese ch ess , 136 Visi ts , a e r m arr a e , 63 ; in


Ty bi t h 1 2 ; N w
.

Sh 5g un , th e coon , th e Vice h on or o a r f e
p 25 ; t p
, ,

r oy , or se -ca l l ed te m ora l r ul er Y ea r s , o a r en s, t 98 ; t o
of Jp
a a n und e r t h e e ud al sy s f b
t om s of a nce stors , 98 .

te m , 155 , 1 69 ,
191 , 1 94, 224 , Wa ka m a ts u, 208 , 222
W ed ding Se e Marria ge
.

23 1 234 , 292 ; d a ughte r of, . .

17 6 1 94 W id ows , ch il dl e ss , 123
f
. .

Sh 5gunate , 155 , 222 W i e , ch ild l ess , 102 ; d utie s of,


g
.

Sh oji , sl idi n g wind ows covered 85 - 99 ; in r e a t h ouse s , 92 ;


pp
with a e r , 23 , 7 1 re l a ti on t o h us an d , 84 ; re b
pp
Sh o in g , 264
.

268 l a tion t o par e nt s-in-l a w, 84 ;


i
.

Sh o-sei , a stud ent , 308 soci a l r el a t on s , 91


k T p
. .

Sil -m osa ic , 95 , 192 W om a n s Ch r istia n e m erance


k
.

Sil w orm s , Uni on , 114


b b y
.

Sor o a n, a n a a cus , 266-268 Wom en , in th e cit , 279-298


p
.

S um id a Rive r , 173 , 295 oc c u a ti ons of, 85 103 , 108


p
.

1 10 , 24 2 256 , 306, 3 18 osi tion


of, 17 - 22 , 35 , 36 , 57 , 65 -68 , 7 6
bb
Ta ta, a a y s word for sock or
88 , 90 , 91 , 93 , 99-1 18, 1 20 124 ,
b
ta i , 16 13 2 , 133 , 139 , 143 , 145 , 14 6 , 14 8,
T k T
.

a i o Sa m a See oy otom i 168 , 189 , 190 , 208 , 2 1 6-2 19 , 223


T 227 , 24 2
. .

9 l 92 ; cere m oni al , 44 , 136, 247 , 260 , 261 , 279 , 292 ,


f
e
76 13 , 306, 3 18 ; ur ity of, 216 p
Tea-gard ens, 24 7 313
pp
.

Tea -h ouse s , 250 - 255 W om e n , ol d , a e a ra n ce of, 1 19 ,


T p
.

each e r s p a y , 204

122 , 124 , 1 26 ; e xam l e s of,
T Jp
.

e ac hin g Se e I nst ruction 1 24 , 126- 129 ; in a a ne se p ic


T b k f g
. .

ee th , l ac e ned a t er m a rri a e , tur es, 13 2 .

63
T p
.

em le, 4, Y a m a to Dak , 2 15
g
.

Th e a tre , 33 , 99, 292- 294 Y asa k u, 32 4 ; m arria e and di


T f
.

itl es use d 1n am i l ie s, 20 vorce


T p
.

oe s, re h e n sil e , 1 5 Y ase, 24 3 , 244


T pp k
Y ash i i , a d a im i 5 s m a nsion and
. .


oil e t a a ra t us , 30 .

T5 k a i d 5 , 24 1 un d s , 169 , 1 7 1 , 1 73 , 3 1 1 ,
Tk g
.

o on om a , t h e r ai se d al cove in
aJp a a n ese r oom , 44 Y ed o Se e T5h y 5
Tk p
. . .

o ug a w a , 29 , 1 5 1 , 155 , 23 1 Y oshii , an ad o te d 104



. son , .

T5 k y 5 , 4 9 , 69 7 1 , 108 , 115 . Y um ot o, 245 .

T5h y 5 M a il , 23 1

b
.

Tom s , visi ts to, 98 . ! ori, a stra w sand a l , 13.


Th e En gl ish a nd Fo re i gn Ph ilo sop hi ca l
Libra ry Each .8 vc , gi l t top T h e fo l vol um e .

lowing vol um es a re d e vote d to Eas tern th ough t :

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