PREFACE .
IT see m s n ecessary for a new autho r to
ive some excuse for her bo ldness in o ffer
g
i n g to the p ubl ic another volu me upon a
s ubject already so well writte n up as Japan .
I n a eld occupied by Grii s M orse Greey
, , ,
Lowell and Rein what unexplored corner
, ,
ca n a woma n hope to enter ? T hi s is the
question that will be asked and that ac
,
cord i n g ly the author m ust an swe r .
While Japan as a whole has been closely
studied an d w h ile m uch and varied i nfor
,
mation has been gathered about the cou n
try and its p eople one hal f of the pop u
,
lation has be en left entirely u nnoticed ,
passed over with brie f mention or alto ,
gether m isunderstood It is of this neg
.
l ecte d hal f that I have written in the hope
,
that the whole fabri c of Japa nese social
vi PR EFA CE .
life will be better comprehende d when the
women of the country and so the homes
,
that they make are better known and
,
un d erstood.
The reason why Japanese home l i fe is -
so little understood by foreigners even by
,
those who have lived long in Japan is ,
that the Japan e se u n der an app earance of
,
fran kness and candor hides an impene
,
tra bl e reserve i n regard to all those per
sonal concerns which he believes are not
i n the remotest degree the concerns of his
foreig n guest . O nly li fe in the home itsel f
ca n sho w what a Japan ese home m a y be ;
an d only by intimate association such as
-
no foreign man can ever hOpe to gain
with the Japanese ladies themselves can
much he learn ed of the thoughts and daily
lives of t h e best Japanese women .
I have been peculiarly fortunate in hav
ing enjoyed the privilege of long an d inti
mate frie ndship with a n umber of Japa nese
lad ies who h a ve spoken with me as freely
, ,
an d shown the d etails of their lives to me
PREFA CE . vii
as ope n ly as if boun d by close st ties of k in
,
dred Through them a nd on ly through
.
,
the m I have be en enabled to study li fe
,
fro m t he point of view of the r ened a nd
intelligent Japanese wome n an d have found ,
the study so inte re sti n g and instr uctive
that I have felt i mpelled to offer to oth
e rs some part of what I have received
through the aid of these friends I have .
,
moreover been encouraged in my work
,
by readin g when it was alrea dy more tha n
,
hal f complete d the fol lowin g words fro m
,
G r iis s Mikad o s Empire
The w hole question of t he position of
m
Japanese wo en in hi story social li fe , ,
edu ca tion employments authorship art
, , , ,
marriage concubinage prostitution be ne v
, , ,
olen t labor the ideal s of literature p e pu
, ,
lar supe rstitions etc discloses s uch a , .
wide an d fascinatin g eld of inquiry that
I wonder no one has as yet ente red it .
I n closi ng I shoul d say that this work
,
is by no mea n s entire ly my own It is in .
,
the rst place la rgel y the result of the ih
,
v i ii PREFA CE .
tercha n ge thought through many an d
of
lon g con versation s wi t h Japanese ladies
upon the topics herein treate d It has .
also be en care fully revised and c r iticised ;
a n d m any valuable ad d itions have be en
made to it by M iss Um e Tsuda teacher ,
of English in the Peeresses School i n
T6 ky6 a nd an old and intimate friend
, .
Mi s s Ts uda is at present in this country ,
on a two years leave for purposes of ,
further st udy She has amid her many
.
,
duties as a student at Bryn Mawr Col
lege given m uch time and thought to
,
this work ; and a large part of whatever
value it may pos sess is d ue to her .
I would say too that in the verication
, ,
of dates n ames a n d historical incidents I
, , ,
h ave relie d altogether upon G rifs s
Mi
'
kad o s E mpire
and Rein s J a pan
,
knowing that those two authors represent
the best th a t has been done by foreigners
in the eld of Japanese history .
This work al so owes m uch n ot only to ,
the suggestion s and historical ai d s con
PR EFA CE . ix
ta i nedin the M ikado s E mpire
but to ,
Mr Grii s hi msel f for his careful readin g
.
,
of my m an uscript an d for his criticisms a nd
,
s uggestions No greate r encouragement
.
ca n be give n to an inexperienced author
t han the help ful criticism of one who has
alread y d istinguished him se l f i n the same
eld of labor ; and for j ust such fr iendly
aid m y warmest thanks are due to Mr .
G riis .
A M B
. . .
Hu m m er, VA , Februa ry, 1891
. .
CONTENT S .
I . CH IL DH OO D
II . EDUCAT IO N
MAR RIAG E AN D DI voncE
IV .
V . OLD AG E
VI . COUR T LIFE
VI I . L IF E IN CA S TL E AN D Y A S HI KI
WO M EN
SAM UB AI
I X PEA S ANT WO M EN
.
X L IFE IN T H E CITIES
.
XI Dom EsTI c SER VIC E
.
EPIL O G UE
JAPANESE GI RLS AND WOMEN .
CHA PTER I .
CH I L DH OO D .
TO the Japanese baby the begi n nin g of
l ife is not very different from its begi n ning
to babies i n the Western world Its birth .
,
whether it be girl or boy is the cause of
,
m uch rejoicing As boys alone can carry
.
on the family n ame and in herit titles an d
estates they are considered of more im por
,
tance but many a mot her s heart is m ad e
,
gl ad by the addition of a daughter to the
family circle .
As soon as the event takes pl ace a Spe ,
cial messenger is dispatched to noti fy rel
atives a nd intimate friends while formal ,
lette rs of an nouncement are sent to those
less closely related All person s thus noti
.
ed must m ake an early visit to the ne w
comer in order to wel come it into the
,
2 J APAN ES E GI RL S AN D WOMEN .
world and m us t e ither take wit h them or
,
send be fore the m some present Toys .
,
pieces of co tton silk or crepe for the baby s
, ,
dress are regarded as suitable ; and these
m ust be acco m panied by dried sh or eggs ,
for good luck Where eggs are sent they
.
,
ar e neatly arran ged in a co vered box whic h ,
m a y contain th irty forty or e ven one h un , ,
dred eggs l
The baby especi a lly if it be
.
,
the rst one in a family recei ves many ,
presents i n the rst fe w weeks of its li fe ,
and at a certai n ti me pre per a ck nowl e d g
m ent m ust be made a n d ret urn presents
sent Thi s is usually done w he n the baby
.
is th irty days old .
Both baby and m other have a hard time
of it for the rst fe w weeks of its li fe The .
baby is p a ssed from hand to hand fussed ,
over and talked to so m uch by the visitors
,
that come in that it m ust thi nk this world
,
a trying pl a ce The mother too is denied
.
, ,
the rest and quiet she needs and wears ,
1 Al l p rese nts in Ja p a n m ust b e wra pp e d in white
a e
p p ,r a l th ou h
g , e xc ep t for fun erals , this p a p er m us t
ha ve som e wr iting on d
i t, a nd m ust b e tie w ith a p ecul ia r
re d a nd w hite p a p e r s tr ing , i n which is inse rte th e d
noshi , or d d d dd
h it of r ie sh, a intil y fol e in a p ie ce of col
or e d p ap e r, wh ich is a n indisp ensa bl e accom p a ni m e n t of
e ver y p re se n t.
CHI L H OO D D . 8
hersel f out i n the excite ment of se eing her
friends and the physical exercise of going
,
th rough so far as possible the cerem e
, ,
ni ous bows and saluta tions that etiquette
p rescrib e s .
O n the seventh day the baby receives its
n a me T here is no especial ceremony
1
.
c on necte d wi th this exce pt that t he ch ild s ,
birth is formally registe red together with ,
its name at the district ofce of registra
,
tion and the household keep holiday i n
,
honor of the event A certain kind of rice .
,
cooked with red beans a festival dish ,
denoting good fortune is usually partake n ,
of by the family on this occasion .
The next important event in the baby s
l i fe is the m iya m ar i a ceremony which ,
1 A chil d is rarel y given the na m e of a li ving m em be r
of the fa m il y , or of a ny fr ie nd . The fa th e r
s na m e ,
slig htl y m o die d , is fr e quentl y give n to a son , a nd those
of a nce st ors l ong a go d ea d are som e tim es use d . One
reason b b
for this is p ro a l y the inconve nie nce of sim il a r
na m es in the sam e fa m il y , a nd m i dl e na m es , as a w a y d
of a voi di ng th is di cnl ty , a re unk no wn . The fa th er
usua ll y na m es th e chil d b ut so e
,
m fr ien d or p a tro n of
the fa m il y m ay be as k e d to d o i t . Na m es of be a utif ul
objects in na ture, such as Pl um , Snow , Sunshi n e , Lotos ,
Gol d are , com m onl y use d for girl s , whil e boys of th e
l ower cl asses oft en re j oI ce I n such a p p e l l a ti ons as Ston e ,
Bear , Tige r , etc . To ca l l a ch il d a fte r a p e rs on w oul d
not be consi dered a ny esp ecia l c om p l i m e nt .
4 JAP AN ES E G I RLS AN D WO MEN .
corresponds ro ughly with our ch risten
in g. O n the thirtieth day after birth ,
the baby is tak e n for its rst vi sit to the
te mple . For this visit great prepa ration s
a re m ad e and the baby is dressed in nest
,
sil k or crepe g ayly g ured garments
, ,
made especia lly for the ou U pon i .
y .
the dress appe ars i n vari ous places the
cres t of the family as on all ce remon ial ,
dre sses whether for you n g or ol d for
, ,
every Japanese family has its C T h us f
;
arrayed and accom panied by membe rs of
,
the family the young baby is carried to one
,
of the Shi n to te m ples and there pla ced ,
u nder the prote ction of the patron deity of
the te m ple This god chosen from a great
.
,
n umber of Shinto deities is suppo sed to ,
become the special guardia n of the ch i ld
through li fe Oe ri ng s are made to the
'
g o d an d to the priest and a bles s in g is ,
obtained ; and the baby is thus formally
placed u nder the care of a special deity .
This ce remony over there is u sually a n ,
e ntertain ment o f some kind at the home of
the parents especially if the family be one
,
of h igh rank Friends are in vi ted and if
. ,
there a re any who have not as yet sent
in presents they m ay give them at this
,
om LDH O OD . 5
It is usually on this day that the family
send to their friends some ack nowl ed g
ment of the presents receiv ed This some .
times consists o f the re d bea n rice suc h ,
a s is prepared for the seventh day ce l e
brati on an d som eti mes of cakes of m ochi
, ,
or rice paste A letter of thanks usually
.
accom pani es the retu r n present I f rice .
is sent it is put i n a handsome lacquere d
,
box the box plac ed on a lacquered tray
, ,
a nd the whole cove red wi th a sq uare of
c repe or silk richly decorated The box
, .
,
the tray and the cover are of co urse re
,
t urn ed a nd cur ious to say the box must
, , ,
be returned unwashed as it would be very ,
unlucky to send it back cl ean A pi ece .
of Japanese paper must he slipped i uto the
box after its co ntents have been re mo ved ,
a nd box a n d tray must be given back j ust ,
as they are to the messenger Sometimes
,
.
a box of eggs or a pe culiar kind of dri ed
,
sh call ed ka tsuobus hi is s e nt with thi s
, ,
present when it is desi red to make an es
,
p eci a l ly h a ndsome re turn When as m any .
as fty or one hu ndred re turn presents
of thi s ki nd are to be sent it is no slight ,
tax on the mistre ss of the house to see
that no one is forgotten and that all is ,
6 APAN ES E GI RLS
J AN D WOMEN .
p roperly done As special messenge rs ar e
.
sent a n umber of men a re someti mes ke pt
,
busy for two or three days .
Afte r a l l these festivities a quiet u ndis , ,
tur be d life begins for the baby a li fe ,
which is neither un pl easant nor u n heal th
ful . It is not jolted rocked or trotte d to
, ,
sleep ; it is allowed to cry i f it chooses ,
wi thout anybody s supposing that the
world will co me to an end because of its
crying ; and its d ress is loose and easily put
o n so that very litt le ti m e is spent in t he
,
tiresome process of dressin g and und ress
ing .Under th ese conditions the baby
thrives and gr ows str ong and fa t ; learn s to
take li fe with some philosophy even at a ,
ve ry early age ; and is not subject to ts
of hyster ical or passionate cryin g brought ,
o n by much jolting or trotting or by the ,
wearisome process of pin nin g buttoning , ,
tying of strin gs and thru sting of arms
,
into tight sleeves .
The Japanese baby s d re ss though not
,
as pre tty as that of our babies is i n many ,
ways m uch more sensible It cons ists of .
as many wide sl eeved straight Silk cot ton
-
, , , ,
o r an nel garments as the se aso n o f the
y ear may require all cut
, a fter ex ac tly
8 JAP AN Es E GI RLS AN D W OM EN .
weathers Wh en it is cold the sister s
.
,
-
ha m i or coat serves as a n ext ra coveri n g
, ,
for the baby as well ; and when the sun is
hot the sister s p arasol keeps off its rays
,
from th e bobbin g bald h e ad L ivin g i n .
p ublic as the
, Japanese babies do t hey ,
soon a cquire an inte lligent intereste d look , ,
and seem to enjoy the ga mes of the elder
children upon whose backs they are ca r
,
ried as m uch as the players t hemselves
, .
Babies of the m iddle classes do not live i n
public i n this way but ride about upon the,
backs of their n urses unt il they are old
enough to toddle by themselves and they ,
a re not so o fte n seen in the streets ; a s
fe w b ut the poorest Japanese eve n i n the ,
large cities are unable to have a pleasant
,
bit of ga rde n in wh ich the children ca n
play and take the air The children of the .
richest families the nobility and the i m
, ,
perial family are never carried about in
,
this way The youn g child is borne i n the
.
ar m s Of an attend a nt wit hi n door s an d ,
without ; but a s t his requires the care of
some one con stantly and prevents the ,
n urse fro m doing anythi ng b ut care for the
child only the richest can afford this
,
l ux ury With the b a by tie d to her back a
.
,
CH I L DH OOD . 9
'
woman is able to ca re for a child and yet ,
go on wit h her household labors and baby ,
watches over mother s or nurse s shoulder
,
between naps taken at all hours the pro ,
cesses of drawin g water washin g an d ,
cooking rice and all the varied work of t he
,
house Imperial babies are held in the
.
arms of some one nig ht and day fro m the ,
moment of bi rth until they have learned
to walk a custom whic h seems to render
,
the lot of the hig h born in fant less com
-
for ta bl e in so m e ways t han that of the ple
beian child .
The exibility of the knees which is r e ,
quired for com fort in the Japanese met hod
of sittin g is gained i n very early youth by
,
the habit of settin g a baby down with its
knees bent u nder it inste a d of wit h its
,
l egs out straight be fore it as seem s to us ,
the natural way To t he Japanese the
.
,
normal way for a baby t o sit is with its
knees bent u nder it and so at a very early
, ,
age the m uscles and tendon s of the knees
,
are accustomed to what seems to us a most
1
un natural and uncom fortable posture .
1 Tha t the p osi tion of th e Ja p a nese in sittin g is re a ll y
unna tur al a nd unh yg ie ni c , is sh own b y re ce nt m eas ur e
m ents ta k en b y the surg e ons of the Ja p a nese arm y .
10 J APAN ES E GI RL S AN D WOMEN .
Among the lower classe s wh ere there ,
are few bathin g facilities i n the hous es ,
ba bies of a fe w weeks ol d a re o ften taken
to the public bath house and put i nto the
al ly hea wd to a m pa rature of a h un dre d
to a h undre d a nd th Fahrenheit a .
,
tem per at ure tha t mos t fo reigners visitin g
Japan nd a lmost u nbea rable To a ba by s .
delica te skin the rst ba th or two is usu
,
ally a severe tr ial but it soon becomes ac ,
customed to the high tem pe rature an d ,
takes its bath as it does everythin g else
, ,
plac idly and in publi c Born in to a coun .
try where cow s milk is n ever used the
,
Japanese baby is wholly depe ndent upon
Ja p a m d ue l a rge l y to the the l ower
i
n shor tneu of
b e nt at the k nea rests the d s vel op m en t of tha t pa rt of
the body , an d p ro d uces a n act ua l def orm i ty in the whol e
r
p po e r de vel o p m en t o f the l eg) ; b u t a m on g m e r cha nt ,
li te r a r y m en , a n d oth e rs of se denta ry b
ha its, it is m os t
p l a inl y to be The intr od ucti on of cha irs a nd ta bl es ,
see n.
as a necessa r y a dj unct of Ja p a n ese h om e l if e , w oul d
CH I L H OO D D . 11
its other for milk an d is not weaned
m ,
1
entirely u n til it rea ches the age of three or
four yea rs an d is able to live upon the ordi
,
n ary food of the class to which it belongs .
There is no intermediate stage of brea d
a n d milk oatmea l a n d milk gruel
, or pap , ,
of some kin d ; for the all im portant fa ctor -
milk is absen t from the bill of fare i n ,
a land where there is n either m ilk for
ba nor strong meat for the m that
a re full of age .
In conseque nce part ly of the lack , ,
of p re per n ourish ment after the child is
too old to live wholly upon its mother s
m ilk and partly perhaps because of
, , ,
the poor food that the mot hers even of ,
the higher classes live upon many ba , ,
bies in Japan are aficted with disagree
able skin troubles es pecially of the scalp ,
and face troubles which usually d isa p
,
p ear as soon as t h e child becomes accus
t om e d to the regular food of the adult .
Another con seque nce as I i m agine of the , ,
1 Som et im e s , in th e ol d da y s , r ice wa te r w as g iv e n to
b a bies instea d of m i l k , b ut it was ne a rl y im p os si l e to b
b r ing up a ba b y on thi s a l one . Now both fr esh a nd
con dense d m ilk a re use d , w he re the m oth er s m
ilk is i n
s ui ci ent , b ut onl y in th ose p a r ts of Ja p a n where the
fem ig n inuence is fel t .
12 J APAN ES E G I R LS AN D WOMEN .
l ack of pre per food at the teeth ing period ,
is the early loss of th e child s rst teeth
,
which usually turn black an d d ecay some
ti me be fore the secon d tee th begi n to S how
themselves W ith the exception of these
.
two troubles Japanese ba bies seem healthy
, ,
h earty and happy to an extraordinary de
,
gree an d S how that most of the condi
,
tions of their liv es are wholesome The .
constant out of d oor li fe a nd the health fu l
~ ~
dress serve to m ake up in considerable
measure for the poor food and the Japa ,
nese baby though small a fter the man ner
,
of the race is usually pl um p and of rm
, , ,
hard esh O ne striki n g characteristic of
.
the Japanese baby is that at a very ea rly
,
age it l earns to clin g like a kitten to the
back of whoever carries it so that it is ,
really difcult to d rop it thro ugh careless
n ess for the baby looks out for its own
,
safety like a youn g monkey Th e straps .
that tie it to the back are su fcient for
sa fety ; but the baby from the age o f o ne
,
month is dependent u pon its own e xe r
,
tions to s ecu re a com fortable position a nd ,
-
it soon learn s to ride its bearer wi th con
s id e ra bl e skill inste a d of being merely a
,
bundle tied to the shoulders A ny one .
CHI L DH OOD . 13
who has ever han dled a Japan ese baby ca n
te stify to the amount of inte l li gence shown
i n t his d irecti on at a very early age ; an d
th is cl in gin g with arms and legs is per ,
haps a valu a ble pa rt of the training which
,
gives to the whole nati on the pec ul ia r
qui ckn ess of moti on an d hardness of
muscle that char ac terize them from child
hood . I t is the agility an d muscul ar
quality that belong to w ild animals that ,
we see something of in the I ndi an but to ,
a more marked degree in the Japanese ,
especi ally of the lower classes .
The Japan ese baby s rst lessons in walk
ing are taken under favorable circum
stances With feet com fortably shod i n the
.
b
soft ta i or mitte n like sock babie s ca n
,
-
,
tu mble a bout as they like with no bu m p ,
nor bruise upon the so ft matted oors of
,
the dwel ling houses There is n o fur a i
.
tur e to fal l again st an d nothing about the
,
room to render falli ng a thin g to be fear ed .
After learning the art of walking in the
house the baby s rst atte mpts out of
,
doors a re ham m red by the sa ri or gta ,
a lig ht straw sandal or small wooden clog
attac h ed to the foot by a strap passing be
tween the toes At the very beginn ing the
.
14 J APA N ES E G I R L S AN D WOMEN .
sandal or cl og is tied to the baby s foot by
bits of string faste n ed around the a nk l e ,
but this provision fo r security is soon d is
carded a ud the baby patte rs along like the
,
grown peo ple hold in g on the gta by the
,
somewh at cumbersome and incon venient
foot ge ar m ust cause m any falls at rst ,
b ut ba by s expe rience in the art of b alan
cing u pon pee ple s backs n ow aids in this
new art of balancing upon the little wooden
clogs Babies of two or three trot about
.
qui te co m fortably in gets that seem to give .
m ost in se cure footin g and older children ,
run ju mp hO p on one foot a n d play all
, , ,
man ner of active games upon heavy clogs
that would wrench our ankles and toes out
of all possibility of usefulness This foot .
ge ar while produci n g an awkward shu f
, ,
i ng ga it has certain advanta ge s over our
,
own especi ally for children whose feet a re
,
gro wing rapidly The gate eve n if out
.
,
grown can never cramp the toes nor com
,
press the ankle s I f the foot is too lon g
.
for the clog the heel laps over behind b ut ,
the t oes do not suffer a nd the use of the ,
st en gthens the an kles by
'
g ta r a ordi n g
n o arti cial aid or support a n d giving to ,
16 J APAN ES E G IR LS AN D WOM EN .
dresses are not as eas ily washed as our own
cambric and annel baby cloth es there is ,
a loss amon g the poorer classes in the mat
ter of cleanliness ; a n d the gorge o us soiled
gown s are n ot as attractive as the more
washable w hite garments i n which our
babies are dressed For model clothin g
.
for a baby I would suggest a combination
,
of the Ja panese style with the foreign ,
easily was hed m aterials a combin atio n
,
that I have seen used in their own fam i
l ies by Japanese ladies educa ted abroad ,
an d on e i n which the objecti ons to the Jap
a n e se style of dress are enti re ly obviated .
The Japanese baby be gins to practice the
accom plishment o f talki ng at a very ea r ly
age for its n ative l an gu a ge is sin gularly
,
happy in easy expressions for ch ildren
an d l ittle babies wi l l be heard chatteri n g
away i n so ft easily spoken word s long be
,
fore they are able to venture alone from
the ir perches on their mothers or n urses
backs A fe w sim ple words expres s much
.
,
and cover all wants I ya expre sse s discon
.
te n t o r disl ike of any kind and is al s o use d
,
for no m a m m a mea ns food ; be be is the
d ress ; ta ta is the sock or house shoe etc
, , .
We nd many of the s a me sounds a s in the
D
CHI L H OO D . 17
baby lan gua ge of En glish with mea nin gs
,
tot al ly di ffer ent The ba by is not troubled
.
with di cnl t gram ma tical changes for the ,
Japanese l anguage has fe w inections ; and
it is too young to be puzz l ed wi th the i ntri
cacies of the va rious ex pre ssi ons denoti n g ,
'
d ie re nt degrees of po lite ness which are ,
the snare and the des pair of the fo rei gner
studying Japanese .
As our little girl emerges fr om baby
hood she nds the li fe Open in g before her
a bright a nd happy one but one hedged
,
a bout closely by the proprieti es and o ne ,
in which from babyhood to ol d age she
, ,
must ex pect to be always u nder the control
of one of the stronger sex Her position.
wi ll be an honorable and respecte d one
only as she learn s in her youth the lesson
of cheerful obedi e nce o f pleasing man ners
, ,
an d of per sonal clean l iness and neatness .
Her duties m ust be always either within
the house or if she belon gs to the peasant
, ,
class on the farm T here is no caree r or
, .
vocation open to her : she m ust be depen
d e nt always u pon either father husband , ,
or so n a nd her greatest happiness is to be
,
gai ned not by c ul ti vation of the intellect
, ,
but by the early acquisition of the se l f con -
trol whi ch is expecte d of all Japanese wo
men to a n even gre ater deg ree tha n of the
men This sel f-control must consist n ot
.
,
si mply in the conceal ment of al l the out
ward signs oi any d isagreeable e m otion
whether of grief anger or pai n , , but in ,
the assu mpt ion of a chee rfu l smil e an d
agre eable man ner under even the most
di s tre s s ing of circu mstance s The duty of .
sel f restraint is taught to the littl e girl s of
-
the fam ily from the tenderest y e ars ; i t is
the ir grea t moral lesson and is expatiate d
,
upon at all times by their elders The little .
girl must sink hersel f ent irely must give up ,
always to others m us t never show emotion s
,
except such as wi ll be pl e as in g to those
about her : th is is the secret of tr ue polite
n ess a nd must be m astered if the wo m a n
,
wishes to be well thought of a nd to lead a
happy li fe The e ffect of t his tea ching is
.
se en in the attractive but dign ied man ners
of the Japan e se women and even of the
,
very little gi rls They a re not forward n or
.
pushing neither are they awkwardly bas h
,
ful ; th e re is n o sel f consc iousness n e ither
-
,
is the re any lack of sa voi r fa ire a chi ldlike
simplicity i s un ited wi th a woman ly con
sideration for the com fort of those aroun d
c HI LDH O OD . 19
t hem A Japan ese child seems to be the
.
product of a more pe r fect civilizatio ntha n
our own for it co m es into the world with
,
l ittle of the savagery and barbarian ba d
m an ners that distinguish children in this
cou ntry a nd the rst ten or fte e n years of
,
its li fe do n ot see m to be passed in one lon g
struggle to acquire a coatin g of good man
ners t hat will hel p to render it less obnox
ious in polite society How much of the
.
po liteness of the Japanese is th e result of
tra ining and how m uch is inhe ri te d fro m
,
generations of civilized ancestors it is d ii ,
cult to tell ; but my impression is t hat ,
babi es are born into the world with a good
sta rt in the matter of man ners and th a t the ,
uni for m ly g entle and courteous treatmen t
that they receive from those about them ,
together with the continual verb a l te a ch
ing of the principle of sel f restraint a n d -
thought fulness of others produce with very
,
little di fculty the universally attractive
man ners of the people O ne curiou s thin g
. .
i n a Japanese household is to see the for
m a l itie s that pass bet ween brot hers and
siste rs and the respect paid to age by
,
every m ember of the family The gran d .
father and grandmother come rst of all in
20 J APAN ES E GIRLS AN D WOMEN .
everyt hi n g no one at t ab le m ust b e
,
helped b e fore them in any case ; after t he m
come the father and m other ; a nd lastly ,
the children according to their ages A .
you n ger sister must al ways wait for th e
elder and pay her due respect even i n the ,
matter of walkin g into the room be fore
her The wi s hes and con venie nce of the
.
elder rather than of the younger are to
, ,
b e con sulted in everything a n d this l e s ,
so n must b e learned early by children .
The di fference in years m ay be slight but ,
the elder bor n ha s the rst right in all
-
cases .
O ur little girl s place i n the family is a
pleasant one : she is the pet a nd plaything
of father and elder brothers a n d she is ,
never saluted by any one in the family ex ,
cept her paren ts without the title of r e
,
spect due to her position I f she is the .
e ldest daughter to the servants sh e is 0
,
Jo S a m e literally young lady ; to her own
, ,
brothers and sisters An S a n elder sister
, , .
Should she be one of th e youn ger ones ,
her given na m e preceded by the honor ic
,
0 a nd follow e d by Sa n mea ni n g M is s
, ,
will be the n ame by w hich she will be
called by younger brothers and sisters a nd ,
CH I LDH OO D . 21
by the servan ts A s she pas ses fro m ba by
.
hood to girlhood and fr o m girt
. , to
wom a nhood she is the object of m uch love
,
a n d care and solicitude ; but she does n ot
gro w up irresp o nsible or u ntra ined to m ee t
the duties which woman hoo d w ill su re ly
brin g to her S he must learn all the d a
.
ties that fall upon the wi fe and mother of
a Japanese household as well as obtai n ,
the instruction in books and mathematics
that is coming to be more a nd more a
necessi ty for t he wome n of Japan She .
m ust take a certain responsibility in the
household ; m ust see that tea is m ade for
the guests who may be received by h e r
paren st i n all but the families of highest
,
rank must serve it hersel f Indee d it is
, .
,
quite the custom in families of the higher
classes should a guest whom it is desired
, ,
to receive with especial honor dine at the ,
house to serve the meal n ot with the
, ,
family but separately for the fathe r a nd
,
his visitor ; a nd it is the d uty of t he wi fe
or daughter o ftener th e latter to wait o n
, ,
them This is in honor of the gue st not
.
,
on account of the lack of servants for there ,
may be any nu mber of them within call or ,
even in the back part of the room ready ,
to re cei ve from the hands of the young girl
what she has remov e d She must t here .
,
fore know the pro per etiquett e of the
,
table how to serve care fully and neatly
, ,
a n d above all have the skill to p l y the sa k
, ,
bottle so t hat the h ouse may keep up its
,
r eputation for hospitality Should gues ts .
arrive in the absence of her parents she ,
m ust receive and entertain them until the
master or mistress of the house return s .
She also fe el s a certain care about the be
havi or of the younger membe rs of th e
family especially in the absence of the
,
pare n ts I n these var ious ways she is
.
trained for takin g upon hersel f t he cares
of a household when t he time comes In .
all but the very wealthiest and most aristo
cratic families the daughters of t he house
,
do a large part of the simple housework .
I n a house with n o furn iture no carpets , ,
n o bric a brac n o mirrors picture frames
- -
, ,
or gl a sses to be cared for no stoves or ,
furnaces no windows to was h a large part
, ,
of t h e cooking to be done outside and n o ,
latest styles t o be imitated in clothi ng the ,
a m ount of wo rk to be done by women is
consid erably di m i ni shed but still there r e
,
m a i ns enoug h to take a good d e al of time .
24 JA PAN ES E GI RL S AN D WOMEN .
ing too to be done alth ough neith er wi th
, , ,
hot water n or soap ; and in the place O f
ironin g the cotto n garments which are
, ,
us ually washed without rippin g must be ,
h ung up On a bamboo pole passed through
the armholes a n d pulled smooth an d
,
straight before they dry ; an d the silk ,
always ripped into breadths be fore wash
in g must be smoothed while we t upon a
,
board which is set in the s un until the silk
is dry .
Then there are the every day dish es
which our Japane se m a iden mu st learn to
prepare The p rO per boilin g O f rice is in
.
itsel f a study The construction Of the va
.
r ious soups which form the staple in the
Japane se bill of fare ; the preparation of
m ochi ,
a kind Of rice do ugh which is ,
prepared at the New Year or to sen d to
,
friends on various fe stival occasions : these
a n d many other bra nch es of the culinary
art m ust be maste red be fore the youn g girl
is prepared to as su me the cares Of m arried
li fe.
But though the little girl s li fe is not
without its d uties a n d respon sibilities it is ,
also not at all lackin g in simple and in no
cent pleasures First amo n g the an nua l
.
CH I LDH OO D . 25
festivals , a nd
bri n gi ng with it m uch mirth
an d frolic comes the Feast Of the Ne w
,
Year A t this ti me father mother an d
.
, ,
all Older membe rs Of the family lay aside
their work and their dignity and join i n ,
the fun and sports that are characteristic
Of this season Worr ies and anxieties are
.
set as ide with the close Of the year and the ,
rs t beams Of the New Year s su n bring in
a season Of unlimite d joy for the chil
dren For about two weeks the festival
.
lasts and the festal S pirit remains through
,
the whole month pro m pting to fun and
,
a m usements of all kinds Fro m early .
morn in g until bedtime the children wear
their prettiest clothes i n which they play
,
without rebuke G uests come an d go
.
,
bringin g congratulations to the family ,
and O ften gi fts for all The children s
.
stock of toys is thus g rea tl y incre a sed and
the house overows with the good thin gs
Of the season of which m ochi or cake m ad e
, ,
from rice dough prepared always especiall y
,
for this ti me i s one Of the most i m portant
,
articles .
The chi l dren are taken with their pa
rents to make New Year s visits to their
friends a nd to Offer them congratul a tions ,
26 A A N ES E GIR LS
J P AN D WOM EN .
and much they enjoy this as dressed in , ,
their best they ride from house to house
,
in ji m ikis ha s
.
And then durin g the long happy even
, ,
in gs the w hole family includin g even t he
, ,
o l d grand father and grand mother join in ,
me rry gam es ; the servants too are in vi ted , ,
to joi n the family party and without seem , ,
in g forward or out of place en ter i nto ,
t he games with ze st O ne of the favo rite .
games is Hya ku m m is ha literally The
poem s o f a h undred poets It consis ts o f .
two hundred ca rds on each of wh ich is ,
printed either the rst or last hal f of one
of the hundred fa mous Japan ese poems
which give the na m e to the game The .
poems are well known to all J a pan ese of ,
w hate ver sort or condition Al l Japan ese .
poem s a re short conta inin g only thirty
,
t wo syllabl es and have a n atural division
,
into two parts The one hund red cards
.
contai ning the latter hal f of the poems are
dealt and laid out in ro ws face upward , ,
before the players O ne perso n is a p .
1 Jinr ilcisba m r kurum m a sm a l] , l ig ht ca r ria ge , us ua l l y
The j iar i lctd i a
'
th a b m d m which is d r a wn b y a m a n.
is th e com m ones t o f a ll ve hi cl es no w in use in Ja p a n .
for thc r unner who d ra ws the ca rriag e .
CH I L H OOD D . 27
p ointe d r ea d.e r To h i m are gi ve n the re
m ainin g h u nd re d cards an d he reads the
,
be gin nin gs of the poems i n what e r order
they come fro m the shu fed pack Ski l l .
i n the game consists in reme m berin g
quickly the line followi n g the one re ad ,
and ra pidly fi nding the card on whic h it is
writte n Es pecial l y d oes the player watch
.
his own cards an d i f he nds t here the
,
end of the poe m the begin ning O f whic h
,
has j ust been read he m us t pick it u p be
,
fore a ny one s ees it and l ay it aside If .
so m e one else spies the card rst he se izes
,
it an d gives to the careless player seve ral
card s fr om his own hand Wh oever rst
.
disposes of al l h is cards is the win ner .
The players usually arrange t hemselves in
two li nes dow n the middle of the room a nd ,
the two sides pl ay against each other the ,
game not be ing ended until either one si d e
or the other ha s disposed of all i ts cards .
The game requires great quickness of
thought and of mot ion and is i nv a luab l e
,
in giving to all young people a n educa tion
in the classical poetry of their own n a tion ,
as wel l as bein g a sour ce of great merri
m ent and jollity among you ng and old .
Scattered throughout the y ear a re va
28 JAPANESE GIRLS AN D WOMEN .
r ion s ower festivals when often with h er , ,
w hole fa m ily our little girl visits the
,
famous gardens where the plu m t he ,
cherry the chrysanthem um the iris or
, , ,
the az alea attain their greatest loveliness ,
and spe nds the day out of doors i n aes
thetic e njoyment of the beauties of nature
supp l emented by art An d then there is .
t he feast m ost loved in the whole year the ,
Feast of Dolls when on the third day of t he
,
third month the great r e proof storehouse -
gives forth its treasures Of dolls in a n ,
ol d fami l y m any of them h undreds of years
,
ol d ,
an d for three d ays wit h all their ,
b elon gi n gs of ti ny furnishings i n silver ,
lacquer an d porcel a in they reign supreme
, , ,
arra nged on red covered shelves in the -
nest room of the ho use M ost promi nent .
am on g the d ol l s are the eig ies of the Em
p e r or a n d E mpress in anti que court cos
tu me seated in dign ied calm each on a
, ,
lacquered dais Near them are the gures
.
o f th e ve court musicians in their robes
o f o fce each with his instr ument Be
,
.
s ide these dolls which are always present
,
and form the centra l gures at the feast ,
nu merous others more plebei a n but m ore
, ,
lovable nd p laces on the lower sh elves
, ,
CH I L DH OO D . 29
and t he array of dolls furn ishings which
is brought out on these occasions is so m e
thi n g marvelous I t was my privilege to
.
be present at the Feast of Dolls in the
house of one of the Tokuga wa da i m ias a ,
house i n which the old forms and cere
m onies were strict l y observed and over ,
whic h the wave of foreign i n novation had
p a s se d so sligh tly that even t h e calendar
still remained unchanged and the feast ,
took pl ace upon the third day of the third
m ont h of the Ol d Japa nese year in stead of ,
on the third day of M arch whic h is the ,
usual ti me for it n ow At t his house .
,
where the dol l s had been accumulating for
hundreds of years ve or s ix broad red
, ,
covered shelves perhaps twenty feet long
,
or more were com pletely lled wit h them
,
and with their belongin gs The E mperor .
and Empress appeared again and again as ,
wel l as the ve court m usicia ns a nd the ,
tiny furn ishings and uten sils were wonder
fully costly and beauti ful Be fore each .
Emperor and E mpress were set an elega nt
lacquered table service tra y bowl s cu ps
, , , ,
sa k pots rice buckets etc all c o m plete
, ,
.
, ,
a n d i n eac h utensil was placed t he a p pro
ia variety ood The sa ke us ed on
p r te of f .
thi s occa sion is a sweet whi te liquor , ,
b rewed espec ially for this feas t as di ffere nt ,
fro m the ordinary sa ke a s sweet cider is
from the hard cider u pon which a m a n
may drink h i m self into a state of intoxica
tion Besides the table se rvi ce everythi ng
.
,
that an i mpe rial doll ca n be expec ted to
need or desi re is placed upon the s helves .
L acque r ed nor im ono or pal anquins ; l ac
,
quered bu l lock ca rts d raw n by bow-le gged
,
black bulls these were the con veya nces
,
of the great in O ld Japan and these i n , ,
min ute reproductions a re pl a c ed upon th e ,
red-covered s helves Tiny si l ver an d bra ss
.
hibac hi or re boxes a re the re wit h the ir
, , ,
accompanyin g to ngs a nd charcoa l bas kets ,
whole kitchens with everything re
,
quir ed for cooki n g the nest of J a pa
n ese feas ts as nely made as i f for a ctual
,
use all the nece ssary toilet apparat us
, ,
combs mirrors ute n sils for blackening the
, ,
teeth for s having the eyebro ws for redden
, ,
ing the lips and w hi te n ing the fa ce a ll ,
-
these things are there to delight the soul s
of all the little girls who may have the O p
p ortun ity to be ho l d them For three days .
the i mperial efg ies are served s um ptu
ousl y at e a ch mea l and the little girls of
,
32 JAPANESE GIR LS AN D WOMEN .
sleeved dresses playin g wit h battledoor or
ball The grace ful rhyth m ic motion of
.
,
their bodies the brig ht upturned eyes the
, ,
laughing faces are set off to perfection by
,
the coloring of their owin g drapery ; a n d
their agility on th e ir high lacquered clogs ,
is a con stant source of wonder and a d
m ira tion to any one who has ever m ade
an effort to walk upon the cl um sy things .
There are dolls too that are not relegated
, ,
to the store house w hen the Feast of D ol l s
is ended b ut wh o are the joy an d com fort
,
of their little mothers durin g the who l e
year ; an d at every kwa n kO ba or bazaar - -
, ,
an endless var iety o f games puzzles pic , ,
tures to be cut out and glued toget her and ,
amuse m ents of all kinds m a y be purchased ,
at extremely l ow rates There is no dearth
.
of ga mes for our little girl an d m any ,
pleasant hours ar e spent in the hou sehold
sitting room with games or con undru ms , ,
or stories or the simple girlish chatter
,
that elicits constant laughter from sheer
youth ful m erriment .
As for fairy tales so dear to the hearts
,
of children in every country the Japanese ,
c h ild has her full share O ften she li stens
.
,
hal f asleep while cuddling under the warm
,
CH I L DH OO D . 33
quilted cover of the kota tsu in the cold ,
winter eve n in gs to the drowsy voice of the ,
old grandmother or n urse who car ries her ,
away on the win gs of imagin ation to the
wonderful palace of the sea gods or to the ,
h aunts of the te r rible oni monste rs with ,
red distorted faces a nd fearful h orn s
, .
M om ota r o the Peach Boy wit h his won
, ,
d e rful feats i n the con quest of the am , is
her hero u ntil he is supplante d by the
,
m ore real ones of Japanese history .
There are occasional all day visits to the -
t heatre too where seated on the oor i n
, , ,
a box railed off from those adjoining our
, ,
l ittle girl in company with her mother an d
,
sisters enjoys thoug h with paroxys m s of
, ,
horror and fear the heroic historical plays ,
which are now almost all that is le ft of the
h eroic old Japan Here she catches the .
Spirit of passionate loyalty that be l onged
to th ose days forms her ideals of what a ,
noble Japanese woman should be willin g
to do for parents or husband an d comes ,
away taught as she could be by no other ,
1
Kota tsu , a cha rcoa l r e in a b ra z er i or a sm al l r e
l
p a ce i n th e oor , ove r whi ch a woo den fra m e is se t a n d
the wh ol e cove re d by a quilThe fa m il y sit a b out it in
t .
col d weather wi th the quil t dr a w n up ov e r th e fe e t a nd
k nees .
34 JAP AN ESE G IR LS AN D WOMEN .
te achi ng what the S pi rit was that an i
,
m ated her ancestor s what sp irit mus t
,
an imate her should she wish to be a
,
worthy d escendant of the women of Ol d .
A mon g these su rroundin gs, wi th th ese
duti es a nd a m use me nts our little girl ,
grows to woman hood T he un consc ious .
and be auti ful spirit of her childhood is not
driven away at the d awn of womanhood by
though ts of bea m of coming out in s o
,
cie ty of a bri ef ca ree r of ir tation and co n
,
quest an d at the end as ne a ma rriage
, ,
either for love o r money as her imagina ,
ti on can pictu re She tak es no thought
.
for these things hersel f an d her inter ,
cou rse with young men though free an d ,
uncon strained has about it no grain of
,
i rtation or romantic in te re st When the .
time comes for her to m arry her father ,
will have her m eet some eligible young
m a n and both she a n d the youn g man will
,
know when they are brought together
, ,
what is the end i n view and will m ake u p ,
their minds about t he matter But unti l .
that ti me comes the modest Japanese
,
maiden carries on no i rtatious thinks ,
nothin g O f men except as higher beings to
be de ferred to and waited on a nd p reserves ,
CI H LDH OOD . 35
t he ch ildl ike in nocence of man ner com ,
bi ned with a se rene d ignity under all cir
cum sta nces that is so noticeab l e a tra i t
,
i n the Japane se wo m an fro m c h i l d hood to
old a ge .
The Japanese wo m an is under thi s dis ,
cipl i ne ,a n ished product at the age of
sixte en or eighteen S he is pure sweet ,.
,
a n d amiable w ith g re at power of sel f-c on
,
trol and a knowledge of what to d o upon
,
all occasions The h igher part of her na
.
ture is little developed ; n o great religious
truths have li fted her soul above the worl d
i nto a clearer and higher atmosphere ; but
a s fa r as she goes in regard to all the little
,
thi ngs of daily li fe she is bright industri
, ,
ous sweet tem pered and attractive and
,
-
, ,
prepa red to do well her duty when that ,
duty comes to her as wi fe and mother and
,
m istres s of a household The highest .
principle upon which she is taught to act
is obedience even to the point of violat
,
ing all her nest feminine in stincts at the ,
co m mand of father or hu sband ; and acti ng
under that principle she is c a pable of a n ,
entire sel f abnegation such as fe w wom e n
-
of any race ca n a chieve .
With the close of her childhood the ,
36 J APANESE GIRLS AN D WOMEN .
happiest period in the li fe of a Japanese
woman closes The discipline that sh e
.
has received so fa r repressive a nd constan t
,
as it has often be en has been from kin d ,
and lovin g parents She has freedom to .
,
a certain degree such as is u n k nown to
,
any other cou ntry in A sia I n the hom e .
she is truly loved o ften the pet an d play
,
thin g of the household thoug h n ot r eceiv ,
i n g t h e caresse s and words of ende a r ment
t hat ch ildren i n America expect as a right ,
for love in J a p a n is un d e m on str a ti ve l
But .
just at the ti m e when her mi nd broaden s ,
and the de sire for k n owl e dge and sel f
improve m e nt develops the restraints an d ,
checks upon her become m ore severe H er .
sph ere seems t o grow n arrower di fculties ,
one by one increase and the young girl , ,
wh o sees li fe before her as somethin g
broad and expansive who looks to the ,
future wi th expectant joy becomes in a , ,
fe w years the weary disheartened woman
, , .
1
Kisses a re unk nown , a nd re g a r de d by cons er va t ive
Ja p a ne se as a n a nim a l a nd disgusti ng wa y of exp rem ing
a ffe cti on.
CH A PTER II .
EDUCATI O N .
So fa r we have S poken only of the domes
tic train ing of a Japanese girl That part .
o f her educatio n that she ga ins through
teachers and schools must be the subj ect
o f a separate c hapter . Japan di ffe rs fro m
m ost O riental countries i n the fac t that
her women are considered worthy of a cer
tain amount of the cul ture that comes fro m
the study of books ; a nd although u nti l ,
recently schools for girls w e re unknown i n
,
the empire nevertheless every woman ex
, ,
cept those of the lower classes received i n ,
struction i n t he ordinary writte n la n g uage ,
while some were well versed in the Chinese
classics an d the poetic art These wit h
.
,
some musical accomplish me nt an acquaint ,
ance with etiquette and the art of a rra ng
ing owers of makin g the cere m o nial tea
, ,
a nd in m any c a ses not only of writi ng a
bea uti ful ha nd but of owe r paintin g as
,
-
well i n the old days m a de up t he whole of
,
38 J APAN ES E GI RLS AN D WOM EN .
an ordinary wom an s education Am on g
.
the lower classes especi a l ly the merchant
,
cl ass instructio n was sometimes given i n
,
the various pantomimic dance s which one
sees m ost frequently prese n ted by p r ofes
sioual d a nci n g gi r ls The art of d ancin g
.
is not usu a lly practiced by women of the
higher classes b ut among t h e daugh ters of
,
the merchan ts speci a l dances were learn ed
for exhibition at home or even at the ,
m a ts ur i or religious fe stival a n d t heir per ,
for m a nce was for the a m usem e nt of s pec
ta to r s a n d not e speci a l ly for the pleasure
,
of the d a n c e rs t hem selve s Th ese dan ces .
are mod est and grace ful b ut fro m the fa ct ,
that they a re al ways le a rned for entertain
i n g an a ud ience howev e r smal l and select
, ,
a n d are most frequently per fo r med by pro
fessiona l dan cers of questionable character ,
the more re ned a n d higher class Japa
n e se do not care especially to have their
daughters learn them .
In the old days little girls were not sent
,
to school but goi n g to the house of a
, ,
private tea ch er received the nece ssary in
,
str uct io n in re a din g a nd writing The
,
.
writin g a n d readi n g at the b e gin n in g ar e ,
taught S imultaneousl y the teacher writin g ,
40 J APAN ES E GI RLS AN D WOMEN .
it affords l ittle Opportu n ity for the devel
1
O p m e nt of the reasonin g powers The .
The Ja p a nese wr itten l a ng ua g e is a str a nge com bina
1
tion of Chin ese a n d Ja p a nese , t o re a d whi ch a k nowl e dg e
of th e Chin ese cha ra cte rs is n e ce ss ary . Chinese lite ra ture
writt e n in th e Chin ese i de og r a p hs , whi ch of course g ive
no cl ue t o th e soun d , are d re a b y Ja p a nese wi th the
Ja p a nese ren de r ing of the wo ds r , a nd th e Ja p a ne se or e r d
of wor ds i n th e se nte nce . When the re ha ve not bee n
e xa c t e qui va l e nt Ja p a ne se w or ds , a Chi ne se term ha s
com e in to use , so tha t m uch cor rup t Ch in ese is now well
e ngr a fte d into the Ja p a nese l a n ua ge , g both writte n a nd
sp ok e n . I n the form ing of ne w w or ds a nd te chni cal
te rm s Chin e se wor ds a re use d , as the Gree k a nd La ti n
a re here . bb
Th ere is p ro a l y no si m il a r ity in the or ig in
of the b d from
t w o l a ng ua g e s , b ut th e Ja p a ne se orro we
th e Chine se a bout th e sixth cent ur y A D th ir el e v . . e
e l y p l a nne d b ut m ost com p l e x m eth d of e xp ressing
r o
th oug ht in w iti ng The introducti on of th e Ch inese lit
r .
cr a t u s h a s done m u h fo
r Ja p a n a nd t o m a s te this
c r , r
l a ngua g e is one of th e e ss e n ti a l s in the ed uca ti on of e ve ry
b oy . At l east se ve n or e ig ht th ousa n d cha r a cte rs m ust
b e l ea r ne d for da il y use , a n d there a re se ve r al di e r e nt
st yl es of wr iti ng eac h of th e m . For a sc hol a r , tw ice as
m a ny , or e v e n m ore , m us t be m a ste re d in or der to re a d
th e va r ious work s in tha t r ich l ite ra ture .
The Ja p a ne se l a ng ua g e con t a ins a syl l a ba r y of for ty
e ig ht l e tte rs , a n d i n b ook s a nd n e w sp a p e rs for th e com
m on e
p po l e d
is p rin t e , b y t he s i e of the Chines e cha ra c d
te r , t h e d
re n er ing of it , i n th e l e tt e rs of th e fro m , or
Ja p a nese a l p ha b et.
A Ja p a ne se w om an is n ot e xp ect e d to d o m uch in th e
stu dy of Chines e . She w il l , of course , l e a rn a few of th e
m ost c om m on char a ct ers , s uch as a re us e d in l e tt e r-wr it
ing , a nd for the r e st sh e wil l re a d b y th e h el p of the
ka na .
ED UCA TI O N . 41
years of study that are r equire d for maste r
ing the writte n l a nguag e so as to be a bl e
,
to grasp the thoughts al read y given to the
world leave co mparatively little time for
,
the conductin g of any co ntinuous thought
on one s o wn accou nt an d so we nd i n
Japanes e schola rs whether boys or girls
quickness of app rehension retentive ,
memories industry an d meth od in their
,
study of their lesso ns but not much origi
,
na li ty of thought This res ult co m e s I
.
,
believe from the nature of the writ ten
,
l anguage and the di fcul ties that atte nd
the m a ste ry of it ; as a conseq uence of
wh ich an educate d man or woman he
,
comes si mply a student of other men s
thoughts a nd sayin gs about things in s tead
of bei ng a student of the things themse lves .
M usic i n Japan is an accom plish ment
reserved al mos t e n tirely for women for ,
priests and for blind men
, It se e m s to .
me quite fortunate that the m usical art
is not m ore generally practiced as Japa ,
nese m usic as a rule is fa r from agree
, ,
able to the u ntrained ear of the outside
ba rbm ia n The koto is the pleasantest of
.
the Japa n ese instr uments but probably on ,
account of its large size which makes it ,
42 J APAN ES E G I RL S AN D WOMEN .
in convenien t to k eep in a sm all Japanese
house it is used most amon g the hi gher
,
l
classes from the sa m um i upwards The
,
.
koto is an embryo piano a hori zon tal ,
sound ing board some six feet long u po n
-
, ,
which are stre tched s trings supported by
ivory bridge s It is played by me ans of
.
i vory nge r ti ps tted to the thu mb fore
-
,
nger and middle nge r of eac h han d a nd
, ,
gives forth agreea ble sounds not un l ike ,
those of the harp The player sits be fore .
the i nstrument o n knees and heels in the ,
ordinary Jap a nese attitude and her mo ,
tions are very gr ace ful and pre tty as she
to uches the strin gs o ften supplementing ,
the st rains of the i nstrument with her
voice The te ac hing o f this instrum en t
.
and of the m m isen or Japanese guitar is , ,
al most entirely i n t he hands of blind men ,
who in Japan support t hemselves by the
two p ro fession s o f m usic a nd m as sage ,
al l the bl ind who can not learn the former
, ,
becoming adepts i n the latter pro fe ssio n .
T he a rran gement of owers is taught as
l The sa m erm in the fe u da l tim es were the here dita r y
reta i ne rs of a d a i m id , or fe uda l l ord. The y form ed the
c ha p . viii on Sa m ur a i Wom en .
ED UCA TI ON . 43
a ne a rt and m uch ti m e m ay be spe nt i n
,
lear n in g h ow by cl ipping bendin g an d
, , ,
xi n g i n its pla ce i n t he vase eac h spray ,
a nd t wi g may be made to look as if act u
ally growi ng for ower arranging is not
,
m e rely to sho w the ower itsel f but i n ,
clud e s the p roper ar range m ent of the
branches t wigs and leaves of plants The
, ,
.
o wer p lays only a s m all p ar t and is not ,
used in decoratio n ex cept on the b ranc h
,
and stem as it is in nature a nd t he a rt ,
consists in the preservation of the natura l
ben d and growt h whe n xed in the vase .
I n every ca se eac h branch h as cer tai n
,
curves which m ust be i n harmony w i th the
,
whole . Bra nche s of pine bamboo and the , ,
o wering plu m are m uch us ed .
Teachers spend m uch time i n showing
proper and i mproper combinations of d if
fere nt owers as well as the arrangemen t
,
of them Many di fferen t styles have co m e
.
up originated by the fa mous te achers who
,
have fo unded various schoo l s of the art ,
an art whic h is u niq ue a nd e xceedingly
popular requiring artistic talent a nd a
,
culti vated eye O ne o fte n sees on goin g
.
,
into t he guest roo m of a Japanese house a ,
vase co ntaining grace fully arranged OW o
44 J APAN ES E GI RL S AN D WOMEN .
ers set in the tokm wm a or ra ised alcove of ,
the room under the solitary ka km ono
,
1
t hat forms the ch ie f orn a ment of the
a partment As these two things the vase
.
,
of owers and the han ging S croll are the ,
only adorn ments it is more n ecessary that
,
the owers should be care fully arran ged ,
than i n our crowded rooms where a vase ,
o f owers m ay easily escape the eye per ,
p l e xe d by the multitude of objects whic h
s urrou n d it .
Th e ceremonial tea m ust not be con
fou n ded wit h the ordinary servi n g of tea
for refresh m en t The proper m akin g and
.
,
servi n g and dri nking of the ceremon ial
,
tea is the most form a l of social Observan ces ,
e ach step in which is prescribed by a ri gid
code of etiqu ette The tea instead of .
,
bei n g the w hole leaf such as is used for ,
o rdinary occasio n s i s a n e green powder
, , .
The in fusion i s made not in a small pot , ,
from which i t i s poured out into cups ,
but i n a bowl i nto w hich the hot wate r is
,
poured from a dipper on to the powdered
tea The m ixture is stirred with a bam
.
boo whisk until i t foams then handed with ,
1 Ka km ono , a h a ng ing s crol l , up on which a p i ctur e is
a in te
p d , or som e p oe m or sentim e nt writte n .
ED UCA TI ON . 45
m uch ceremony to the guest who takes it ,
with equal ceremony and dri nks it from
the bowl emptyi n g the receptacle a t three
,
gulps Should there be a n umber of guests
.
,
tea is made for each in turn in the order ,
o f their ran k in the same bowl
, For this .
ceremonial tea a spe cial set of utensils is
,
used a l l of antique and severely S imple
,
style The charcoal used for heating t he
.
water is of a peculiar variety ; and the
roo m in w hich the tea is made and served
is built for that S pecial purpose a n d kept ,
sacred for that use This art whic h is .
,
oft e n p a rt of the ed ucation of women of
th e higher classes is taught by reg ular
,
teachers Oft en by gentlewomen who have
,
fal len i n to distressed ci rcumstances I re .
m ember with great vividness a visit paid
to an Ol d lady living n ear a provincial
city of Japan who ha d for years supported
,
hersel f by givi n g lessons in this politest
of a rts .Her little house of the daintiest ,
and n eatest type seemed lled to over
,
owi n g by three foreigners whom She r e ,
ceive d with the courtliest of welcomes At .
the request of m y friend an American lady ,
engaged i n missionary work i n that part Of
the country she gave us a le sson i n the
,
46 APA N ES E GI RLS
J AN D WOM EN .
etiquet te of th e tea cere m ony Every m o .
tion from the bringing in an d arran gin g
,
of the u tensils to t h e nal rinsin g and
wiping of the tea bowl was a ccording to ,
r ules stric tly l a id down a nd the whole ,
ceremony had more the solemnity of a re
lig ious ritual t han the lightness and gayety
of a social occasion .
E tiq uette of all kin ds is not left i n
Japan to chance to be lea rn e d by observa
,
tion and i m i tation of a ny m odel that may
present itsel f b ut is taught regularly by
,
teachers who make a specialty of it Every .
t hing i n the daily li fe h a s i ts rules and the ,
e tiquette teacher has them al l at her ngers
end s . There have been several famous
te achers of etiquette and they have form ed
,
systems wh ich di ffer in minor points while ,
agreeing i n the principal rules The eti .
q u e tte o f bowing the position
, of the body ,
the arms and the head while saluting the
, ,
methods of s h utting and Ope n in g the door ,
risin g and S itting down on the oor the ,
ma n ner of serving a meal or tea are all , , ,
with the min utest detai ls taught to the ,
y oung girl s who I im a gine nd it rather
, , ,
irksome I k no w two young girls of ne w
.
Japa n who nd no thi ng so weari some as
48 J APAN ES E G I RLS AN D WOMEN .
the best possible preparation for ski ll i n all
other arts This is especially t r ue of the
.
art of paintin g which is S imply the next
,
step after writing h as been learned The
, .
paintin g master when he comes to the
,
house brin gs n o design as a model but
, ,
sits down on the oor be fore the little
desk and on a sheet of paper paints with
,
great rapidity the des ign that he wishes
the pupil to com It m ay be si mply t wo
.
o r three blades of grass u pon which the
pupil makes a begin nin g but she is ex ,
p e cted to make her picture w i th exactly
the same n umber of bold st rokes that the
m aster puts into his Again and again .
she blunders her strokes on to a sh e et of
pape r unti l at last when sh eet afte r sheet
, ,
h as been spoiled she begins to see so me
,
semblan ce of the m aster s com i n her ow n
daub She persever es making copy after
.
,
copy unti l s he is able from memory to put
,
u pon the paper at a moment s notice the
three blad es Of grass to her m aster s sati s
fac tion O nly then can she go on to a
.
new com an d only after m any such d e
,
si gns have been com mitted to memory ,
an d the fr ee dashin g stroke n ecessary for
,
Japanese painting has been acquired is ,
ED UCA TI ON . 49
she allowed to undertake any co m ing fro m
n ature or original designing
,
.
I have dwelt thus fa r only upon the e n
tire ly Japanese ed ucat io n that was per
m i tte d to women under the Ol d r eg i m e .
That it was an effective and re nin g sys
tem a l l can testi fy who h ave m a de the ac
,
q ua intance of any of the charmin g Japa
nese ladies whose schoolin g was n ished
be fore Co m m odore Perry disturbed the re
pose of old Japan As I write the image
.
,
comes before m e of a S weet fa ced brigh t -
,
eyed li ttle gentlewoma n with who m i t was
m y good fortun e to become intimate ly a c
i t d during stay i T k A
'
q ua n e m y n o .
wido w left pen niless with one ch ild to
, ,
support she earned the merest p ittan ce
,
by teachin g sewing at one of the govern
ment schools in TOkyO ; but in a ll the cir
cum sta nces of her li fe n arro w an d busy
,
as it needs m ust be S he proved hersel f a
,
l ady through and through Polite cheer
.
,
ful an intelligent an d cultivated reader
, ,
a thri fty housekeeper a loving and c a re
,
ful mother a true an d help ful fr iend her
, ,
m e m ory is associated with man y of my
p leasantest hours in Japan and Sh e is but ,
one of the many who bear witness to the
50 J APAN ES E G I R LS AN D WOMEN .
culture that might be acq uir ed by women
i n the ol d days .
But the Japan o f ol d is not the Japan
o f t o-d ay and in the school syste m now
,
prevalen t throughout the em p ire girls an d
schools e stabl ished by the various m ission
ary socie ties and then the g over nmen t
,
schools o ered to girls a broad er ed ucation
,
than the ol d inst ruction in Chin ese i n ,
eti quette and in accom plishments Now
, .
,
every mornin g the streets of the citie s an d
,
villages a re alive with boys and girls clat
tering al on g with their books and lunch
,
boxes i n their hand s to the ki ndergar ten
, ,
primary grammar high or n ormal schoo l
, , , .
Every rank in l ife eve ry grad e i n lea rn ing
, ,
may nd its prope r place i n the n ew school
s ystem , a n d the g irls eage rly gr asp their
opportu niti es and S how themselves apt
,
a n d willin g students of the new lea rn ing
By the new syste m at its pre se nt sta ge ,
of development too m uch is expecte d of
,
the Ja pane se boy o r girl The work r e .
quired would be a burden to the quickest
mind The whole of the ol d ed ucation i n
.
Japan ese and Chin e se literature and co m
ED U CA TI ON . 51
position e u educat ion requirin g be st the
years of a boy s li fe i s given a n d grafte d
,
u pon this our com mon sch ool an d high
,
-
school studies of mathematics geography , ,
histo ry an d natural scie n ce I n addition
,
to these at all higher schools one foreign
, ,
lan guage is requi red a n d often two En g , ,
l ish ran king rst i n the popular esti m a
tion Many a head ache do the poor hard
. ,
workin g students have over the puzzli n g
En gl ish lan guage in whi c h they have to
,
begi n at the wron g end of th e hook and
read across th e page fro m le ft to r ig ht i n ,
stea d of from top to bot to m a n d from right ,
to l eft as is n a tural to the m
, But in spite .
of its hard work the ne w school l ife is
,
cheer ful a nd heal th ful and th e chi l d re n ,
enjoy i t It helps them to be re a l ly chil
.
dren and w hile they a r e youn g to be
, , ,
me rry an d playful not dig n ied and formal
,
little lad ies at all ti m e s Upon the youn g .
girl s the inuence of the sc hools is to
,
m a ke them m ore in d ependent sel f reliant ,
-
,
a n d stro n ger women I n the hou ses o f
.
the h igh e r classe s even now m uc h o f the
, ,
ol d t i m e sy stem of repres s ion is s till i n
-
force . Chil d re n are indeed se e n b ut n ot
heard ,
an d from the time wh e n they
52 J APAN ES E GI RL S AN D WOM EN .
learn to walk they must learn to be polite
and d igni ed At school the more pro
.
,
g r e s si ve feeling of t h e times predomin ates
among the a uthorities and the children ,
are encouraged to u nbend and enjoy the m
selves i n games and frolics as true children ,
should do Much is done for the pleasure
.
of the little ones who o ften enjoy schoo l
,
better than home and declare that they do
,
n o t like holi d ay s .
But the yo un g girl who has nished ,
this pl e a sant school li fe with all its a d ,
vanta ges i s n ot as well tted a s u nder
,
the old sy stem for the d uties a nd trials
o f married li fe unless u nder exceptional
,
circu m sta nces where the h usband chosen
,
has ad vanced id eas To those tea chin g th e
.
youn g g irls of Japan to d a y the problem of
-
,
how to educate the m aright is a deep one ,
and with each n ew ly trained girl sent out
go m a ny hope s mi n gled wit h anxieties i n
, ,
regard to the tra ini ng she ha s had as a
prep a ration for t he new li fe She is a bout to
ente r The few the pioneer s wil l have to
.
, ,
su ffe r for the happine ss a nd good of the
m a ny for the problem o f gra ft ing the n e w
,
on to the old is indeed a di fc ult one to be ,
solved only after m a ny experiments .
ED UCA TI ON . 53
There are many d ii c ul ti es which l ie i n
the way of the new school s that must be
met s tudi ed an d overcome O ne of the m
, , .
is the one alr eady re ferred to the proble m ,
of how best to combin e the new a n d the
ol d in the school curriculum That the old .
learn in g an d literatu re the ol d po l iten ess
,
and sweetness of man ner must not be ,
given u p or made little of is evident to ,
every righ t-minded student of the matter .
That the newer and broader culture wit h ,
its higher morality its greate r develop
,
ment of the best powers of the mind m us t ,
play a large part in the Japan of the fu
tur e there is not a sh adow of doubt and
, ,
the women m ust not be le ft behind in the
onwa rd movement of the n ation But how .
to give to the young minds the best pro
ducts of the thought of two such distinct
civi liza tions is a que stion that is as yet n u
answe red an d can not be satis factoril y set
,
tl ed until the e ffect Of the new educati on
has begun to show itse l f i n a generation or
so of graduates from the new schools An .
other d ifcul ty is in the m atter of health .
Most of the new School houses are tted-
with seats and d esks such as are foun d
,
in A me rican schools Many of them are
.
heated by stoves or furna ces The schol ars.
in most cases wea r the Japan ese dres s ,
w hich in w i nter is m ade warm eno ug h to
be worn in rooms havin g no a rticial heat .
Put thi s warm co stu me in to an a rticially
hea te d room an d the result is an over
h eati ng of the body and a subsequent chi ll
,
when the p upil goes with no extra cover
,
i ng i nto the k ee o
,
n ut -o f door air
- From .
t his cause alone arise many col d s and
,
l ung troubl es wh ich can be prevente d
,
wh e n m ore experience has shown how the
co stu mes of the Eas t an d We st can be com
b ined to suit the ne w condi ti ons Another .
part of the health problem lies in the fact
that i n many cases the paren ts do n ot
u nd e rstan d th e p rOpe r care of a growing
girl a m bi tions to excel in her studies I a
,
.
stea d of the regular hours hea lth ful food
, ,
and gentle re straint that a girl needs un der
th ose cir cum stances our l ittle Japanes e
,
maiden is all owed to sit up to any hour O f
t he n i ght or arise at any hour in the
,
morn ing to pre pare her les sons is given
, ,
food Of most ind igestibl e q uality at all
ho u rs of the day between her regular meals ,
an d is frequently u rged to gre ater mental
exertion than her del icate body ca n eu
d ure .
56 J APAN ES E GI RL S AN D WOMEN .
if they could be conducted with the p rOpe r
a d mixture of Eastern and Western learn
in g and man ners do a great deal toward
,
educating that generation The m ission
.
ary schools do much i n this direction but ,
the criticism of the Japanese upo n th e
m an ners of the girls educated in m ission
ary schools is un iversally severe To a .
foreigner wh o has lived al most entirely
a mon g Japanese ladies of pure Japanese
e ducation the man ners of the girls in these
,
sch ools seem brusque an d awkw a rd ; an d
though they are many of them noble
women an d doin g noble work there i s,
r oom for hope that in the future of Japan
th e charm of m an ner which is the distin
g u i sh i n g feature of the Japanese woman
will not be lost by contact with our West
ern S hortness and rough ness A happy
.
mean u ndoubtedly can be reached ; a n d
when it is the women of new Japan will
,
be able to bear a n ot un favorable compari
son wit h the wo m e n of t he old r egi m e .
CHA PT E R I II .
m a m as AN D DI vonC E .
WH EN the Japanese maide n arrives at
the age of si xteen or thereabo uts she is
, ,
expected as a m a tter of course to marry .
She is usually allowed her choice in regard
to whether she will or will not mar ry a
certai n man but sh e is expected to marry
,
some one and not to take too much ti me
,
i n makin g u p her mind The alternative .
of perpetual spinsterhood is never con sid
ered either by h ersel f or her parents
,
.
Marriage is as much a matter of course
in a woman s li fe as death a nd is n o more
,
to be avoided This being the case our
.
,
youn g woman has only as m uch liberty of
choice accorded to her as is likely to pro
vide against a gre a t a m ount of unhap pi
ness in her married li fe I f she positively
.
dislikes the man who is submi tted to her
for inspection she is seldom forced to
,
m a rry h im b ut no more cordial fe el ing
,
than simple toleration is expected of her
be fore ma rriage .
58 J APAN ES E GI RL S AN D WOMEN .
cou rtship is so m e what after the fol
The
lowi n g manner A young man who n ds .
,
himsel f in a position to m arry S pe a ks to ,
some married friend and a sk s h im to be ,
on the lookout for a beauti ful and a c
1
1
The Ja p a nese st a n a rd d of fe m al e bea uty differs in
m a ny res p e cts fr om our own , so tha t it is a l m ost im p os
si bl e for a fore ig ner vis itin g Ja p a n to com p reh e n d th e
j udg m e nts of th e Ja p a nese in re g a r d to th e bea uty of
t h e ir own w om e n , a n d e ve n m ore im p oss i l e for the n ub
d J p n e e to discove
t ra v el e a a s r th e re as ons for a fore ig n
e s j udg m n t up on e ith e Ja a n ese o fore i n b ea uti e s
r e s
p g r r .
To th e Ja p ne se the i de a l fem al e fac e m us t b e l ong a nd
a ,
na r ow ; th e fore h e a d hi g h a nd na rr ow i n t he m iddl e b ut
r ,
wi de ning a nd l owering a t th e si de s conform ing t th e , o
outl ine of th e bel ove d Fuj i th e m oun ta in th a t Ja p a nese ,
a r t l ove s t o p i ctu e The ha ir s houl d b e stra igh t a nd
r .
g l oss y b l a ck a n d a b sol ut,e l y sm ooth Ja p a nese l a di es .
wh o ha ve th e m i s fortun e to ha ve a ny wa ve or rip p l e
th e ir ha ir , as m a ny of the m d o, are a t a s m uch p a i ns to
str a igh ten it in th e dre ssing as Am e r ica n l a dies a re to
sim ul a te a na tur al curl , wh e n Na ture h as de nied th e m
tha t ch a rm . The e ye s sh oul d b e l ong a nd na rrow , sl a nt
i ng d a t the oute co ne ; a n d the e ye brows
up w a r r r rs
s h oul d b e d e l ica te l in e s hig h bove the e ye itsel f The,
a .
distin tl y a quili n e n ose shoul d b e l ow a t the b idg e the
c r ,
c u ve outw a d b eg inni ng
r r u h l ow e r d ow n th a n up on m c
t h e Ca u as ia n fa ce ; a nd th e e ye sock t S h ul d n ot b e out
c - e o
l i n e d a t a ll e ith e b y th b ow th ch e k o b y the
, r e r , e e , r
n seo I t is th is a tne ss of th e fa ce b ut th e e ye s t h a t
. a o
g ives t h e il dn ess of e x p re ss i n t
m l l y oung p e p l e of o o a o
M ng l ia n typ th t i s n ti a bl e
o o e t a it al w y s in
a s o o ce a r a
th eir p h y siog n om y . Th e m outh o f a n a ris to cr a tic Ja p a s
nese la y d m ust be sm a ll , a nd th e l ip s full a nd re d ; the
MARRI A GE AN D DI VOR CE . 59
complished maiden who would be willin g ,
to become his wi fe The friend actin g .
,
neck , a consp icuous fea tur e a l wa ys
wh e n the Ja p a nese
dress is w orn , sh oul d be l ong a nd sl e n e r , a nd g ra ce d
ful l y cur ve d . The com p l e x ion sh oul b e l ig h t , d
a cl ea r
ivory -white , with littl e col or i n t he ch ee k s . The bl oom
ing countr y g irl st yl e of bea uty is not d m a ir e d , a nd e ver y
thing , e ve n t o col or in the chee k s , m us t be sac r ice d to
ga in the deli cacy tha t is the sine qua non of th e Ja p a nese
bea uty . The g ure sh oul d b e d
sl e n e r , th e wa is t l ong ,
b ut not e sp e cia l l y sm a ll , a nd th e hip s na rr ow , to secure
the be st effe ct with the Ja p a nese dress The h ea d a nd .
sh oul ders sh oul d b e ca ie d sl ig htl y fo wa r d a nd the
rr r ,
body sh oul d a l so b be nt fo wa d l ig htl y a t the wa ist to
e r r s ,
se cure th e m os t wom a nl y a nd a ris toc ra ti c ca rr ia g e . In
wal k ing , th e st e p sh oul d be sh or t a nd quic k , with the
toes tur ne d in a nd the foot lifte d so sl ig htl y th t e ith er
, a
cl og or sa ndal w ill scuff with e ve y ste p Th is is ne ces r .
sa r y for m ode st y wi th the n ow skirt of th e Ja p a ne se
, a rr
d ress .
Contr ast with this t yp e the fa ir , curl ing h a ir , th e r oun d
bl ue ey es , th e rosy ch e e k s , the ere ct , sl im - wa is te d ,
l a rg e
d
hip p e g ure s of m a ny fore ig n be a ut ie s , th e ra p i d ,
l ong , cl e a n-s te p p ing wa l k , a nd th e a ir of a l m os t m as c ul ine
stre ng th a nd in d ep e n de n ce , w h ich b e l ongs esp e cia ll y to
Eng l is h a nd Am e rica n w om en, a nd on e ca n se e h ow the
Ja p a nese n d l ittl e th a t th e y re c og n iz e as bea uty a m ong
the m . Bl ue e ye s , se t into d eep sock e ts , a nd w ith th e
b idge
r of t he nos e ris i ng as a ba rr ie r b e t we e n th e m ,
p art ae r ce g r ote s que ness to th e fa ce , th a t th e untr a vel e d
Ja p a ne se se l om a m ir e d d
Th e ve r y a ies w il l sc re a m
. b b
wi th h orror at r s t S ig h t of a bl u d l igh t h
e -e y e ,
- a ir e d
fore ig ner , a nd it is onl y a fte r co n s id a bl f
er il i e am a r it y
with such p ersons th a t th e y ca n b e induce d to h w S o a ny
d
thing b ut t he wil e st frig h t in their p re se nce . Fore ig n
60 J APAN ES E GI RL S AN D WOMEN .
rather as advance agent m a kes a can ,
vas s o f a ll the yo un g m aid e n s of h is a o
quaintance inquiri n g amo n g h is friends ;
,
and nal ly decides that s o and so (M iss - -
Flower let us sa y) wil l be a v e ry good
,
match for his friend Havi n g arri ved at .
t his decision he goes to Mi s s Flower s
,
parents and lays the case of his friend be
fore them Should they a pprove of the
.
s uitor a party is arra nged a t the house
,
of some com m on friend w here the youn g ,
people m a y h a ve a cha nce to m eet each
other a n d decide each upon the other s
m erits S hould t h e yo un g fo l ks nd n o
.
fault with the m atch pre se n ts are ex ,
chan ged a form a l b etrot hal i s en t ered
1
,
into a nd the marri a ge is h ast e ned for
,
ward Al l ar ra n ge m e nts b e t ween the con
.
tracting partie s a re m ad e by go betweens -
,
or seco n d s who hold the m se lve s re sponsi
,
er s wh o h a ve l ive d a g r ea t d e a l a m ong th e Ja p a n e se n d
t h e ir s ta n d d ar s un cons cio us l y ch a ng i ng , a nd se e , t o t h e ir
own s ur
p r ise , t h a t t h e ir c ou n t r y w om e n l ook unga inl y ,
e r ce , a g g re ssiv e , a n d aw k wa r d a m ong th e sm a l l , m il d ,
shr inki ng , a nd g ra c e ful Ja p a nese l a ie s d .
1
Th e p rese n t f r om t h e g r oo m i s u s ua l l y a p i e ce of
ha n ds om e sil k , us e d
for th e obi or gi r l e Th is ta k es th e d .
p l a ce of th e c on v e n tion a l e ng a g e m e n t r ing of Eur op e a nd
Am e ri ca . Fr om th e f a m il y of th e b idr e , sil k , s uch a s is
m a de up i nto m en s
dre ss e s, is se nt .
MARRI A GE AN D DI VORCE . 61
ble for the success of the marriage and ,
must be concern e d i n the divorce procee d
i n gs should divor ce be come desirabl e or
,
n eces sa ry .
The ma rriage cer emony which see ms to ,
be n e ither r el igio us nor l eg a l in its nature ,
takes pl ace at the house of the groom to ,
whi ch the bride is carri e d ac com pan i e d by
,
her go betwee ns a nd if she be of the
, ,
higher cla sse s by her own con de ntial
,
maid who wi l l se rve her as her perso nal
,
atten dant in the new life in her husband s
house The t ro usse au a nd ho usehold goods
.
,
whi ch the bride is expected to bring with
her are sent be fore
, Th e house hold goods
.
req ui red by custom as a pa rt of the outt
of e ve ry bri de a re as fol lows : A bureau ; a
-box
low desk or table for writi ng ; a work ;
two of the la cquer trays or t ables on which
meal s are served together with everythin g
,
requi red for furnishi n g them even to th e ,
chopsti cks ; an d two or m ore complete sets
of han d some bed fu rn ishings The trous .
sca n wi l l co ntain i f the bride be of a well
,
to d o fam ily dre sses for all seas ons an d
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, ,
handsome sashes without n umber ; for the
unchan ging fashions of Japan together ,
with t he durable q uality of the dress m ate
62 J APAN ES E GI RLS AN D WOMEN .
rial make it possible for a wom an at the
, ,
tim e o f her marriage to e nter her h us ,
~
ba n d s house with a supply of clothing that
may las t her throug h her li fetime The .
pa rents of t he bride in givin g up their ,
d aughte r as they do when she marries
, ,
show the estimation in which they have
held her by the beauty and comple teness
o f the trousseau with wh ich they provide
her This is her very own ; and in the
.
event of a d ivorce she brin gs back with
,
her to her father s house the clothin g and
household goods that she carried away a s
a bride .
W ith the bride and her trous seau are
sent a g reat n um ber of pres e n ts from the
fam ily of the bride to the members of the
groom s household Eac h membe r of the
.
fa m ily from the a ged grand father to the
,
youn gest grandchild receives so me remem ,
brance of the occas ion ; and even the se r
vants and retai ners down to the p n rikishu
,
men a nd the bath? in the stables are not
, ,
forgotten by the bride s relatives Beside
.
this present givin g the friends a nd re la
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,
t ive s of the b ride and groom as i n this ,
country send gi fts to the youn g couple
, ,
o ften some article for use in the ho usehold ,
or c rep e o r silk fo r dre ss e s .
64 JAPAN ES E G I R Ls AN D WOMEN .
of the bride s family a re invited The youn g
.
couple bring wi th them prese n ts from the
groom s family to the bride s i n retur n for
,
the prese nts sent on the wedding day .
The fest iviti es o ften begin early i n the
aftern oon a nd keep up u ntil late at n ight .
A ne din ner is se rved and m usic and ,
dancin g by pro fessional pe rformers or
, ,
some other entertain ment serve to make ,
the time pass pl easantly The bride a p .
pears as hostess w ith her mother enter ,
taining the company and recei ving their ,
con gratulations an d m ust remain to speed
,
the last departin g guest be fore leavin g ,
the pa ternal roof .
Within the cou rse of two or th ree
months the newly married couple are ex
,
p e c te d to give an entertain ment o r series ,
o f en te rtain ments t o their friends as an
, ,
a n nou ncement of the marriage As the .
wedding ceremony is private a nd no notice ,
is given nor are cards se nt out this is
, ,
sometimes the rst intimation t hat is re
ce ive d of the marriage by many o f the
acqu a intances though the news o f a wed
,
di n g usually travels quickly The ente r .
ta in m e nt may be a dinner party given a t ,
home or at some tea house si milar i n
,
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,
M ARRI A GE AN D DI VORCE . 65
m any ways to the one given at th e b ride s
home by her pa rents Sometimes it is a.
ga rden party a nd ve ry l ate ly it has be come
,
the fas hion for ofcials and people of high
rank to give a ba ll in foreign style .
Besides the en tertai n men t p resents of ,
red rice or m ochi are sent as a token of
, ,
thanks to all who have remembe red the
youn g couple The se a re arran ge d even
.
more elaborately than the ones sent a fte r
the birth o f a n heir .
The young people ar e not as i n this ,
country expect ed to set up housekeepin g
,
by themselves and establish a new home
, .
Marri ages o fte n take place early i n li fe ,
even be fore the husband has any means of
su pportin g a family ; and as a ma tter of
course a son wi t h his w ife makes his
,
abode with h is pare nts and forms simply ,
a ne w branch of the household .
The only a ct require d to make the mar
ria e legal is the withd rawal of the bride s
g
na me from the l ist of her father s fa mily as
registered by the govern ment and its entry ,
upon the re gister of her h usband s family
.
From that time forward she severs a ll ti es
wi th her father s house save th ose of
,
an d is more closely related by
'
aecti on ,
66 J APAN ES E GI RL S AN D WOMEN .
l aw c ustom to her husban d s relatives
a nd
t han to her own E ve n t h is legal r ecog ni
.
tion of h er marriage is a compara tively
n e w t hing in Japan as is any limitatio n of ,
the right of divorce on the part of t he
husband or extension of that right t o the
,
"
wi fe .
At present i n Japan the marriage rel a
t ion is by no means a permanent one as it ,
is virtually dissoluble at the will of either
party and the condition of public Opinion
,
is such among the l o wer classes that it is
n ot an unknown occ urrence for a m a n to
m arry and divorce severa l wives i n succes
sion ; and for a woman who has been ,
divorced o nce or twice to be willing a nd ,
able to m arry well a second or even a third
time Among the higher classes the
.
,
dread of the scandal and gossip that m ust ,
att a ch the m selves to troubles between m a n
and wi fe serves a s a restraint upon too
,
free use of the power of divorce ; but sti ll ,
1
As ea rl y a s 1 870 an e dict was pu blish e d b y which
o cia l n otice a n d a p p r o ba ti on were m a de ne ce ssa r y p re
l im ina r ie s to e ve r y m a tri m oni a l c ontr a c t . I n th e fol l ow
ing y e a r th e cl a ss -l im ita tions up on f r e e om of d m a rr ia g e
b d
we r e a olish e , a nd tw o yea rs l a te r th e r ig ht of s ui ng f or
a di vorce was conce de d to th e wif e Rein s Jap a n, p
.
M AR RI A GE AN D DI VORC E . 67
divorces among the higher class es are so
co m mo n no w t hat o ne m ee ts nu me rous
r espectab le a nd res pec ted persons w ho
have at some ti me i n their lives gone
through suc h a n e x peri e nce .
O ne pro vis ion of the law whi ch se rves to
,
make most mo thers en d ure any evi l of
married li fe rather tha n sue for a di vorce ,
is the fact that the c hi ldre n belong to the
father ; a nd no ma tter how unt a perso n
he may be to have the care of them the ,
dis posal of them in case of a divorce rests
a b solutely with hi m A divo rced woman
.
retu rns ch ildless to her father s hous e ;
and many women in consequence of th is
,
law or custo m will do t heir best to keep
,
the fami ly together workin g the more
,
str enuously in thi s directi on the more ,
brutal a nd wort hl ess the husband proves
himse lf to be .
The ancestor worsh ip as found in Japan
,
,
the traci n g of rel ati on shi p i n the male
line onl y an d the generally accepte d be
,
lie f that childre n in he rit their qu al iti e s
from the ir father rath e r than from the
mother make them his ch ildren and not
,
hers T hus we ofte n see ch ildren of noble
.
rank on the father s side b ut igno ble on
,
68 J APAN ES E G I RLS AN D WOMEN .
the mother s in herit the ra nk of their
,
father and not permitte d eve n to reco g
,
n ize their mother as i n any way t heir
equal I f she is plebei an the child ren
.
,
a re not re garded as tainted by it .
I n the case of d ivorce even if the law ,
allowed the mother to keep her ch ildren ,
it would be almost an im possibility for her
to do so She has no means of earning
.
her bread and thei rs for fe w occupations
,
are open to women a nd she is force d to
,
become a dependent on her father or some ,
male relative Whatever they may be
.
willing to d o for her it is quite likely that
,
they would begrudge aid to the children of
an other family with whom custom h ardly
,
recognizes any tie The children are the
.
children of the man whose n ame they bear .
I f the woma n is a favorite daughter it m ay ,
happen that her father will take her a nd
her children under his roo f and su pport ,
them all ; but this i s a ra re exception and ,
only possible when the h usband rst gives
up all clai m to the children .
There comes to my mi nd now a case
illustrating this point which I think I may
,
cite without betrayi ng condence It is .
that of a most attractive young woman
MA RRI A GE AN D DI VOR CE . 69
who was mar ried to a worthless husband ,
but lived faith fully wit h him for severa l
years and became the mot her of three
,
children The h usban d who seemed at
.
,
rst merely good for not hing becam e
-
,
worse as the years went by drank him ,
sel f out of situatio n after situatio n p ro
cured for him by pow erful relatives and at ,
last became so violent t hat he even beat
h is wi fe an d t hreatened his children a ,
proceeding mo s t u n u sual on the part of
a Japanese husband and father The poor .
wi fe was at last obliged to ee fro m her
husband s house to her mother s takin g
,
her children with her She sued for a di
.
vorce an d ob tained it and is now married
,
agai n ; her youth good look s a nd high
, ,
connections procuring her a very goo d
catch for he r second venture in matri
mony but her children are lost to her ,
a nd belong wholly to their worthless ,
d runke n fat her .
O f t he lack of permanence i n the m a r
r ia e rel a tion a m on g t he lo wer cla sses the
g ,
d o m estic change s of one of my serv a nts i n
To ky o afford an amu si n g illu stra tion The .
man who m I h a d hired in the doubl e
,
capacity of jinri kisha man a nd betta o r
groom was a stron g faith ful pleasant
, , ,
faced fellow recently come to T o ky o from
,
the cou n try I inquired when I en gaged
.
,
him whether he had a w ife as I wan ted
, ,
some one who could remain i n his room i n
the stable in ca re o f the horse when he
was pullin g me about in the jm r ikis ha He .
replied that he had a wi fe but she was now ,
at Utsunomiya the co untry town fro m ,
which he had come but he would send for ,
her at once an d she would be in To ky o i n
,
the course of a wee k or two Two or th ree .
weeks passed and n o wi fe appea red so I ,
inquired of my cook a nd hea d servant
what had become of Ya sa ku s wi fe He
.
replied with a twinkle in his eye that she
, ,
h a d found work in Utsunomiya and did not
wi sh to come A week more pas se d and
.
,
sti ll n o wi fe an d further inqui ries elicited
,
fro m the cook th e i n forma tion that Y a sa k u
had divorce d her for disobedience and was ,
o n the lookout for a n ew and more docile
hel pmate His rst thought wa s of the
.
maidservant of the Japanese family who
lived in the s a me house with m e a b roa d ,
faced r ed checked country girl of a very
,
-
,
low grade of inte llige nce He gave this .
up however becau s e he thought it would
, ,
The day chose n for the marri a ge was
rainy and though Y a sa k u spe nt all his
, ,
ti me i n goin g to trains n o bridal party
,
appe a red ; a n d he came home at night d is
con solate to smoke his good night pipe
,
-
over his solitary hiba chi He was n o
.
,
doubt an gry as well as discon so late for he
, ,
sat down an d pen n ed a seve re letter to h is
father in whi c h he said that i f the bride
, ,
did not appear o n the ne xt day counted
lucky for a wedding (no Japan e se woul d
be married o n an u nlucky day ) they co ul d ,
send her ba ck to her father s house for he
,
would none of her This let te r did its
.
work for on the next lucky day about te n
, ,
days later the bride appeared and Yasa k u
, ,
was given two days of hol iday o n the agree
ment that he should not be ma rried agai n
while he remain ed in my service O n the .
evening of the second day the bride came ,
i n to pay me her respects and crouch ing , ,
on her hands and knees be fore me liter ,
ally trembled n nd e r the excitement of her
rst introd uction to a foreigner S he was .
a girl of rather unattractive exte rior fa t ,
and heavy and rather older t ha n Y a sa k u
,
had bargained for I i magine ; at any rate
, ,
from the fi rst he seemed dissatis fied with
,
MA RRI A G E AN D DI VORCE . 73
his pig in a poke a nd a ft er a couple of
,
months se nt her home to her pa re nts and ,
was a ll ready to start out aga in in the ho m e
of better luck nex t time .
Here is a nother in stance from the wo ,
man s side Upon one occasi on when I
.
,
was visi ti n g a Japa n ese lady of high rank
who kept a re tin ue of se rvants the we ,
m a n who ca me in wi th the tea bowed and
smiled u pon me as if gr eeti n g me after s
long absence As I w as in and out of the
.
hou se n early every day I was a little sur
,
prised at this demonstration which was ,
qui t e d iffe rent from the formal how that
is given by the servant to her mistress s
guest upon ordin ary occasion s W hen she .
went out my friend said You see 0 Kiku ,
has come back As I did not know that
.
the woman had bee n away the news of ,
her retu rn did not affect me grea tly until
I lea rned the history o f her departure It .
seem ed that about a month be fore she had ,
l eft her m istress s house to be married ;
and the day be fore my visit she had quietly
pre sente d hersel f and announced that she
,
had come back i f they would take her in
,
.
My friend had asked her what had hap
pen ed whether she had fo und her hus
,
74 J P A A N ES E G I R LS AN D WOM EN .
band unkind No her h usband was very
.
,
nice very kind and good but his mother
, ,
was simply unbeara ble ; she made her work
so hard that she actually had no time t o
rest at all S he ha d k nown be fore her
.
m a rriage that her proposed mother in -la w
was a h rd task mist re ss but her h usban d
a -
,
had p romised that h is mother should live
with hi s older bro ther an d they should ,
have the ir housekeeping quite i ndependen t
a n d separate As the mother was then
.
l ivi ng wi th her older son it seemed un ,
l ikely that she wou l d care to move a nd ,
O Kik u San had married o n that supposi
tion But it see med that the wife of the
.
older brother was both lazy and bad te m -
pe red and the ne w wi fe o f the yo unger
,
brother soon proved hersel f industrious
and good natured A s the mothe r s mai n
- .
thought was to go where she would get
the most com fort and waitin g u pon she ,
m oved from the elder son s house to that
o f her younger so n and began leading her ,
new daughte r i n-l a w such a li fe that she
-
soon gave u p the effort to live with her
husband s ued for a divorce obta ined it
, , ,
and was back i n her ol d pl a ce all in a ,
month s time from the date of her m ar
ri ng e .
MARRI A GE AN D DI VORCE . 75
But our readers m ust n ot suppose fro m ,
the vario us incidents given t hat fe w ,
h appy marri a ges ta ke place in Japan or ,
that in every ra nk of l ife divorce is of
, ,
every day occ urrence
- O n the contrary
.
,
t here s eems cause for won d er not t hat ,
there are so many divorce s b ut that there ,
ar e so many happy marriages with wives ,
and h usbands devote d an d fait hful For a .
nobleman i n the olden tim es to divorce his
wi fe wo ul d have ca used suc h a scan da l a n d
talk t hat it rarely occurred I f the w ife .
were disliked he need h ave little or no th
,
ing to do wit h her their rooms t heir , ,
meals and t heir attenda nce being entirely
,
separate b ut he rarely took away fro m her
,
the name of wi fe e m pty as it m ight be
, .
She us ually would be fro m so m e other
noble house and great tro uble wo uld arise
,
betwee n the fa m ilies i f he attempted to
divorce her The sa m ur a i also with t he
.
,
same loyalty which they displayed for their
lords were loyal to their wives a nd many
, ,
a nove l h a s been written or play ac ted , ,
showin g the devotion of h usban d and wi fe .
Th e qu iet undemon stra ti ve love though
, ,
very di fferent fro m the ra vings of a lover
i n t he nineteenth century novel is per hap s ,
truer to li fe .
76 JA PAN ES E G I RLS AN D WOMEN .
Among the me rchants and lower clas ses
there has bee n and is a much lower stand, ,
a rd of mora lity but the fe w years which ,
have passe d since the Re volution of 1 868
a re not a fair sam ple o f what Japan has
been Noblemen sa nm ra i and merc h an ts
. , ,
have had m uch to undergo in the great
changes an d a s is the case i n al l such
, ,
tran sition periods ol d custo ms and re ,
s t ra in ts and ol d standard s of morali ty
, ,
have been broken down and have not bee n
re placed There i s no doubt that men
.
h ave run to excesses of all sorts a nd di ,
vor ce s have bee n much more frequent of
late yea rs .
O ur little Japanese maiden knows when ,
she blacken s her teeth dons her weddin g ,
dress a n d starts on her bridal journ ey to
,
her husband s house that upon her good
,
behavior alone depe nd her chan ce s of a
happy li fe S he is to be hence forth the
.
p roperty of a m a n of whom she proba bly
k nows little and wh o has the power at
, ,
a ny wh im to send her back to her father s
,
house in disgrace deprived of her children , ,
with nothing to live for or h O pe for ex ,
cept that some man will overlook the dis
grace Of her divorce and by marryin g her ,
MARRI AG E AN D DI VORCE . 77
give her the only Opportunity that a Jap
anese woman ca n have of a home other
t ha n that o f a ser vant o r dependent That .
th ese evil s wil l be remedied i n time the re ,
see ms little reas on to do ubt but j ust now
,
the va rious cooks who a re en gage d in bre w
ing the brot h of t he new civi lization a re
d isa greed in rega rd to the con d i ments t e
quired for its pro per avorin g The con .
ser va ti ves wish to avor st rongly with the
subjection an d depe ndence of women be ,
lieving that only by that mean s ca n fem i
nine virtue be preserved The yo unger
.
m en of foreign ed ucation would drop into
, ,
the boil in g pot the avor of culture and
broa d er outlook ; for by this m ean s they
hope to secu re happier homes for a l l and ,
better mothers for their child ren The .
missiona ries an d native Christians be l i e ve
that when the whole mixture is well i m
,
p g
re n a te d with practi cal Christ ianity the ,
desired result will be ac hieved All are .
agreed on this point that a stron g public
,
Opi nion is necessary be fore improved leg
is l a tio n can produce much effect ; and
so for the p re sent legislation remains i n
, ,
the bac k g round until the time shall come
,
whe n it can be used in the right way .
78 J APANESE GI R LS AN D WOMEN .
Letus exam ine the two re medies sug
gested by the re fo r mers a nd see w hat
,
e ffect has been prod uced by each so far ,
an d what m ay be ex pected of them in t he
futu re .Ta king ed ucatio n rst what are ,
the effects prod uced so fa r by ed ucating
women to a point above the ol d Japa n e se
standard ? I n m a ny happy homes to day -
,
we nd husban ds educa ted abroa d a nd ,
kn o win g somet hin g of the home l ife of
foreign lan d s who have so ught out wi ves
,
of broad intellectual culture and who make,
them friends and condante not simply ,
housekeepers and head servants I n such
-
.
homes the wi fe h as freedom not such as ,
is enjoyed by A merica n women perhaps , ,
but equal to that of most Eu ro pean women .
I n such homes love an d equality r ule and ,
th e power of the m other i h -law grows weak
-
.
To her is p a id due res pec t but she se ldom
,
has the despoti c control which o ften mak es
the begin ning of married li fe hard to the
Japa nese wi fe These homes are sending
.
out h e al thy inuences that a re daily hav
in g their e ffect and raising the positio n Of
,
women in Japan .
But for the youn g girl whose mind has
been broadened by the new education an d ,
80 JAPAN ES E G I RLS AN D WOMEN .
p l a in duty al ways lay in the path o f i m
p l ici t obedience to her superiors and who
,
n ever for one moment con sidered obedience
to the di ctates of her own reason and
con science as an obli gation higher than
de fere nce to the wi s hes of husba n d a nd
pa rents Education without further ame
.
,
l iora tion of the ir lot as wives and mothers ,
can but re sult i n making the women dis
contente d a n d unhappy i u many cases
,
inju rin g their health by worry over the
consta nt petty disappointments and ham ed
des ires of their lives .
Thi s to supercial observers wo ul d seem
a step backward rather t ha n forward and ,
it is to this ca use that the present reaction
against fem ale educati on may be t raced .
The rst generation or two of educa ted
women must endure m uch for the sake of
those who come after an d by many this
,
vi carious s ue ri n g is m isunderstood a nd
'
di staste on the part of educated girls for
marriage as it n ow exists in J a pan is t e
, ,
garded as one of the sure signs that ed uca
ti on is a failu re W ithout some chan ge
.
in the positio n: of wi fe and mother this ,
feeling will grow into absol ute re pugn a nce ,
i f women continue to be educated a fter the
Weste rn fash ion .
MA RRI AG E AN D DI VOR CE . 81
The second remedy that is suggested is
Christianity a remedy which is eve n now
,
a t work W herever one nds in Japan a
.
Christian home there one nds the wi fe
,
a n d mother occupyin g the pos ition t hat
s he occu ies all over Christen dom T h
p e .
Christ ian man in choo s ing his wi fe feels
, ,
that it is not an ordinary contract whic h ,
may be dissolved at a ny ti me at the will of
the contrac tin g parties but that it is a
,
union for li fe Consequently in making
.
,
his choice he is more care ful take s more ,
ti m e a nd thinks more of the personal
,
qualities of the woman he is about to
marry Thus the chances are better at
.
the beginnin g for the establishment of a .
happy ho m e a nd such ho m es for m ce ntres
,
of inuence throughout the length and
breadth Of the l a nd t o day Chri stianity
- .
in the future wi l l do much to moul d public
sentiment in t he right way and ca n be ,
truste d as a force that is sure to gro w in
ti m e to be a mighty po wer in the councils
of th e natio n .
O ne more reme dy might be sugge sted ,
as a preli m inary to proper legislation or a ,
necessary accompaniment Of it and that ,
is the Openi ng of new aven ues of employ
,
82 J APA N ES E G I RLS AN D WOMEN .
ment for women a n d espec ially for women
,
of the cultivated classes To -day ma rriage
.
,
no matter how di s taste ful is the only Open
,
ing for a woman ; for she can do nothing for
her own support an d can not require her
,
father to support her after she h as reac hed
a marriageable age As new ways o f se l f
.
support pre sent themselves a nd a woman ,
may look forward to making a single li fe
tolerable by her own labor the intelligent ,
girls of the middle class will no longe r
accept marriage as inevitable but will only ,
marry when the su itor can o ffer a good
home k indness aection an d secu rity i n
, , ,
th e tenure of these blessin gs SO fa r .
,
there is litt le em ployment for women ex ,
ce pt as teachers ; but even this chan ge i n
the conditi on O f thin gs is forming a class ,
as yet small but incr easin g yearly of
, ,
women who enjoy a li fe of indepe ndence ,
though accompanied by much hard work ,
more th a n the pre se nt li fe of a Japanese
m a rried woman I n this class we nd
.
some of the most inte lligent and respe cted
o f the women of new Japa n ; an d the
growth of this class is one of the su rest
sign s that the present state of the laws
an d customs concerning marriage an d
MARRI AGE AN D DI VOR CE . 83
d ivorce is so unsatisfac tory to the women
that it must eventually be remedie d if the ,
educated and intelligent of the m en care
to take for their wives and for the mo
,
t h ers of their children any but the less
,
educated and less intelligent of the wome n
o f t heir own nation
.
CHA PT E R I V
W I FE AN D M OTH ER .
TH E young wi fe when she ente rs her
,
husband s ho m e is not as in our own coun
, ,
try e nter i ug upon a new li fe as mistress of
,
a hou se wi th ab solute co n trol over all Of
,
her littl e d o m a in Should her hu s band s
.
pare nts be livi ng she becomes al most as
,
their ser vant a nd even her husband is un
,
able to d e fe n d her fro m the ex a ctions of
her moth e r i n law should this new relative
- -
,
be inclined to m ake ful l use of the power
give n her by cu stom Happy is the girl .
who se husband h as no parents Her com .
fort i n li fe is m a terially i ncreased by her
h u sband s loss for instead of having to
, ,
s e rve two masters she wi l l then have to
,
serve only one and that one more kind
,
a n d t ho ught ful o f her stren gth a n d com
fort than the mother in l a w - -
.
I n J a pa n the ide a of a wi fe s duty to h e r
h u sba n d includes n o thought of compau
ion s h ip on ter m s of equality The wi fe is .
WH E AN D M O TH ER
. 85
si mply the housekeeper the hea d of the ,
establ ish ment to be honored by the ser
,
vants because she is the one who is nearest
to th e master but not for one moment to
,
be regarded as t he master s equal
She .
govern s and directs the household if it be ,
a l a rge one a nd her position is one of muc h
,
ca re and responsi bility ; but she is not the
i ntimate frien d o f her h usband is i n no ,
sense his condante or adviser except in ,
t rivial affairs Of the household She a p .
pears rarely with h im i n public is ex ,
p ec t e d al ways to wait upo n hi m and save
hi m ste ps a nd m ust bear all t hin gs fro m
,
him with smiling face and agreeable man
ners even to the receivi ng wit h Ope n ar m s
,
into the household some other woman ,
whom she knows to bear the relation of
concubi ne to her own husband .
In return for this she has i f she be of
, ,
the higher classes much respect and honor
,
fro m t hose beneath her She has i n .
,
m a ny cases the real though o ften i ncon
siderate affection of her h usband I f sh e .
be the m other of children she i s doubly ,
honored a nd if she be endowed with a good
,
temper good man ners and tact she ca n
, , ,
render her position not only agreeable to
hersel f but one of great use ful ness to
,
those about her It li es with her alone to
.
make the home a pleasant one or to m ake ,
it unpleasant N oth in g is expected of the
.
h usband in this direction ; he may do as he
like s with his Own an d no one will blame
,
him ; but i f his home is not happy even ,
th rough his own folly or bad tem per the ,
blame will fall upon his wi fe who should ,
by managemen t d o whatever is n ecessary
to supply the deciencies ca u sed by her
hu s band s shortcom ings
I n all thin gs
.
t he husba nd goes rst the wife s e con d
, .
I f the husband d re w his fa n or his h a n d
kerchie f the wi fe picks it up The husb a nd
.
is se rved rst the wi fe a fte rw ar d s an d so
, , ,
on through the cou ntles s m i n ut im of daily
Iife
. It is not the id ea of the strong m an
consi dering the weak woman savin g her ,
exertion guardin g and de ferring to her ;
,
but it is the less im portant waiting upon
the more im portant the serv a nt de ferrin g
,
to her maste r .
But though the present pos ition O f a
Japane se wife is that of a dependent who
owes all she has to her protector and for ,
whom she is bound to do all she can i n
return the dependence is in many cases a
,
88 J APAN ESE S AN D
OB I - WOMEN .
the advantage th a t when her mother-in
,
law dies or retires she becomes the m is
,
tress of the ho use an d the head lady of the
fam ily a position for which her apprentice
,
sh ip to the Old lady has proba bly exception
ally wel l tted her .
Next to her pa rents in law her duty is
- -
,
to her husband S he must hersel f render
.
to him the litt le ser vic es that a Eu rope an
expects of his valet She must not onl y
.
take care of his clothing but must bring it
,
to hi m a nd help him put it on and must ,
put away with care whatever he has taken
Off ; and she o ften takes pride i n doin g
with her own han ds many acts of service
which might be le ft to servan ts and which ,
are n ot actually demanded of her unless ,
she has no one un der her to do them I n .
the poorer families all the washing sew ,
ing a nd mending that is requi red is always
,
done by the wi fe ; and even the E mpress
hersel f is not exem pt from these duties of
personal service but m ust wait u pon her
,
husban d in various ways .
When the earliest be ams of the sun
shine i n at the cracks of the dark wooden
sh utters which surround the house at
n ight the young wi fe in the fam ily softly
,
WI FE AN D MO TH ER . 89
arises pu ts out the feeble light of the
,
Im don
which has burned al l n ight a nd
. , ,
quietly Open i ng one of the sliding doors ,
ad m its enoug h li ght to make her own
toil et She d resses h astily only putti ng a
.
,
fe w touches her e and there to her elaborate
co i ure which she has not taken down fo r
2
her night s rest Next she goe s to a ro use
.
the se rvants if they are not alread y up , ,
an d wi th them prepa re s the modest break
fast Wh en the l ittl e l acq uer tables with
.
,
rice bowls plates a nd chopsticks are ar
, ,
ran ged in place she goes so ftly to see ,
whether her par ents a nd husband are
awake a nd if they have hot water char
, ,
coal re and whatever else they may need
,
for their toilet Then with her own hands .
,
1 The a a d cn is th e sta nd in g Ia m p , incl oee d in a pa p er
ca se , use d as a ni ght la m p in a ll Ja pa nese h ouse s .
Until the introd uction of k m oene l a m m the a a d on waa
th e onl y light in Ja p a neee housee
us e d The li ght is p ro .
da ood by a pi th wic k oa ti ng in a ca n cer of vege t a l e . b
The p il l ow us ed b y l a d ies is m e rel y a wood en rest for
the hea d , tha t s upp or ts the ne c k , l e a ving the el a bora te
hea d d ress un dis tur b e d . The ha ir is d ressed b y a p ro
M ona ] ha ir -d re sser , who com es to the house once in
two or three d a ys I n w m e p a rte of Ja p a m ae in KiOto,
.
where the ha ir is eve n m ore el a b or a t el y d r eesed tha n in
T6ky 6, it is m uc h l ess fr eque ntl y a rrang ed . The p roces s
n ices two houm at l eas t .
90 J APA N ES E GI R LS AN D WOMEN .
or with the help O f the servan ts she slides ,
back the wooden shutters Opening the ,
whole ho use to the fre sh mornin g air a nd
sun li ght It is she also who di re cts the
.
, ,
washin g and wipin g of the poli sh e d oors ,
and the foldin g an d putting away Of the
bedd in g so that a ll is in readiness be fore
,
the morn in g meal .
When breakfas t is over the husban d ,
starts for his place of business an d the li t ,
tle wi fe is i n waiting to send hi m off with
her sweetest sm ile and her low e st how ,
a fter having seen that his foot gear -
,
whether sandal clog or shoe is at the,
door ready for hi m to put on his u mbrella , ,
book or bundle at hand an d his kura m a
, ,
waitin g for him .
Certa inly a Japan ese m a n is lucky in
h aving all the little thing s in his li fe a t
te nded to by h is thoughtful wife a good , ,
considerate care ful body ser vant al ways
,
-
,
o n hand to bear fo r hi m the trii n g wor
ries and care s There is no wonder that
.
there are no bachelors in Japan To some .
degree I am sure the men appreciate
, ,
t hese atte ntions ; for they ofte n become
much in love with their sweet helpful ,
wives though they do not share with them
,
92 J APA N ES E G I RLS AN D WOM EN .
distance and nearly a lways unexpectedly
, ,
whose entertain ment devolves on the w ife .
O win g to the great distances in many of
the cities an d the d i culti es t ha t used to
,
atte nd going fro m place to place it has ,
become a custom not to make frequent
visits but lon g ones at lon g intervals A
,
.
gues t O ften stays se veral hour s re main in g ,
to lunch or dinn er as the case may be and
, , ,
should the di stan ce be grea t may spend ,
the n ight SO rigid a re the requirements
.
of Japanese hospitality that n o guest is
ever al lowed to l eave a house without hav
i ng be en pressed to partake of food if it ,
be only tea and cake Even trad esmen or.
m es se n gers who come to the house m ust
be Offe red tea an d if carpen ters garden
, ,
ers or work men of any ki nd are employed
,
about the hou se tea m ust be se r v ed in the
,
m iddle of the afte rn oon with a light lunch ,
and tea sent o ut to them often during thei r
day s work I f a gu e st arrives in j arr ikisha
.
,
n ot only the guest but the Jrnr ikisha m e n
,
must be su pplied with refresh ments All .
th es e thin gs i n volve much thought a nd
ca re on the part of the lady of the house .
In the homes of rich and inuentia l men
of wide acquaintance there is a gre at deal
,
WI FE AN D MO TH ER . 93
g oing on to make a pleasa nt variety fo r
the ladies of the household even al though ,
the variety i nvolves extra work and re s pon
si bil ity
. The m istress Of such a house
hold se es a nd b ea rs a gre at deal Of li fe ;
a nd her position re quires no little wisdo m
and tac t even whe re the house wi fe has
,
the as sist an ce of good serv a nts capable as , ,
m any are Of sharing not only the work
, ,
but the respon si bili ty as well Clever wiv es .
i n such homes see an d lea rn m uch i n ,
an indirect wa y O f the out side worl d in
,
which the men live ; a nd may becom e if ,
they poss es s the nat ural capabiliti es for
t he work wise advi se r s an d sympath iz ers
,
wit h thei r husbands i n many things fa r
beyond th ei r ordinary eld O f acti on An .
i ntelligent w oman with a str ong will has
, ,
O ft en been unseen and unkn o wn a mighty
, ,
inuence in Japan That her pow er for .
good or bad outside of her in uence as
,
wife an d mother is a recogn ized fact is
, ,
seen i n the circumstance that in novels
and plays women are frequently brought i n
as factors in politi cal plots and organ ized
rebell ions as wel l as i n acts of private re
,
ven ge.
Stil l the li fe Of the average woman is a
quiet with little to interrupt the m o
o ne ,
n oto ny O f her days wi t h their never e nding -
round of duti e s ; and to the most secluded
homes on ly an occasional guest comes to
enliven the d ull hours The pri ncipal oc
.
~
e upa tion of the wife outside of her ho us e
,
ke ep i ng a ud the little duties of pe rson al
serv ice to husband a nd parents is n ee dle ,
work Every Japa nese wom a u (e xcepti n g
.
thos e of the highest rank ) knows how to
sew and makes not only he r own gar
,
ments an d th ose of her chil dren but he r ,
h usba n d s as well Sewi n g is one of the
.
e ssentials in the educa ti on of a J a panese
girl and from childhood the cut tin g and
,
puttin g together of crepe silk an d cotto n
, ,
is a fam ili ar occu patio n to her Thoug h .
Ja p anw e g arments see m very simple cus ,
to m requires that each sti tch and se am be
p l aced in j u st such a way ; an d this way is
something of s taak to lea rn To the nu .
in i tia te d foreigner the general effect of the
,
loose ly wo rn ki m ono is the same whether ,
the garment be well or ill made ; but the
ski l lful seamstres s ca n easi ly discover that
this seam is not turned j ust as it should
be Or that those stitches a re too long or
,
too short or carel es sly o r unevenly set
, .
96 J APAN ES E GI RLS AN D WOMEN .
must be given frequently and as the l eas t ,
dam pness m ight be fatal ea ch lea f in case , ,
o f rainy weather is care fully wiped
, The n .
,
too the di fferent ages o f the worms m ust
,
be considered in pre parin g their food ; as ,
for the youn g worms the leaves sho uld be ,
cut up w hile for the Older ones it is be tter
,
to se rve them whole W hen nal ly the
.
, ,
b uzzing no ise of the crunching leaves has
ceased and the last wor m has put hi m
,
se l f to sleep in h is precious white cocoon ,
the work Of the ladies is ended ; for the
cocoons are sent to women e spec ially
skilled in the work by them to be spu n,
off a nd the thread afterwards woven i nto
,
the desired fabric W hen at last the silk
.
,
woven a nd dyed is returned to the lad ies
,
by whose care the worms were nourished
un til thei r work was done it is shown ,
wi th great pride as the product of the
year s labor and i f given as a pre sent wil l
,
be highly prized by the recipient .
Among the daily tasks of the housewi fe ,
on e ,
and by no means the least Of her
duties is to receive duly acknowledge an d
, , ,
re turn in sui table man ner the presen ts ,
received i n the fam il y Presents a re not .
conned to S peci a l seasons a lthough u pon ,
WH E AN D MO TH ER
. 97
certai n occasions etiquette is rigid in its
require ments i n this matter but they may ,
be given an d rece iv e d at all t i mes for the ,
Japanese are pre eminently a present -giv
ing nati on For every prese nt received
.
,
sooner or later a p roper retu r n must be
,
se nt appropriate to the seas on and to the
,
rank of the receiver a nd neatly arran ged ,
i n the m anner that eti quette pre scribes .
Presents are not n ecessarily elaborate ;
callers brin g fru it of the season cake or , ,
any delicacy a nd a visit to a si ck pe rso n
,
m ust be accompanied by something appro
p r ia te C
.hildren visitin g i n the family are
always given toys an d for this purpose a ,
stock is kept on hand The presen t gi vin g .
-
culminates at the close of the year when ,
all friends and acquaintances exchange
g i f
t s o f more or less value accordin g to ,
their fee l ings and means Should there be .
any one w ho has been especially kind and
to whom return should be made this 18 the ,
time to do so .
Trad esmen send presen ts to their pa
trons scholars to teachers
, patients to ,
the ir physician s an d i n short it is the
, , ,
ti me w hen al l Obli gations and debts are
paid OH in one way or another O n the
, .
98 A
J PAN ES E GI RLS AN D WOMEN .
seventh day of the seventh m onth there is ,
another ge neral interchan ge O f pre se nts ,
although not so univer sal as at the New
Year It can easi ly be imagined that a ll
.
this pre sent givin g enta ils much care es
-
,
p ec ia ll y in families o f inu e nce ; and it
must be atte nded to per sonally by the wife ,
who in the sec ret recesses of her store
,
ro om skill fully m anages to rearran ge the
,
gifts rec eived so that those n ot ne eded in
,
the house may be sent not back to their ,
givers but to some place where a present
,
is due The passin g ou of the presents is
.
-
an economy not of co urse acknowledged ,
but frequently practiced even i n the be st
famili es as it saves m uch of the otherwi se
,
ruinous expense of this custom .
As time pas ses by occasion al visits a re ,
paid by the young wi fe to her own parents
or to other rela tives A t stated ti mes too
.
, ,
she a n d othe rs of the family wi ll vi sit
, ,
the tombs of her husband s an cestors or of
,
her own pare nts i f they a re no longer liv
,
ing to make oeri n gs and prayers at the
'
grav es to place fre sh branches of the
,
sa ka ki before the tomb s an d to see that ,
1
Sa ka ki , the Cl eyera Jap onica , a sacre d pl a nt e m
bl em a ti c of p urity, a nd m uch use d a t fun e ra ls a nd in
the d eco ra ti on of g ra ves .
1 00 J APAN ES E GI R LS AN D WOMEN .
ence is always direct and personal No .
thick walls and long p a ssageways separate
the n ursery from the grown people s apart
men ts but the thin paper partiti ons make
,
it possible for the mother tA) k now a l
ways what her children are doin g an d ,
w hether they are good and gentle with
their n u rses or i rritable and passionate
, .
The children never leave the house nor ,
return to it without going to their I no
,
t her s room and there m aking the little
,
bows and repeat ing the customa ry phrases
us ed upon such occasions I n the same .
way when t he mother goes o ut all the
, ,
servants an d the children e sco rt her to
the door ; and when her atte ndant shouts
0 which is the si g na l of her re
turn children and servants haste n to the
,
gate to greet her and do w hat they can
,
to hel p h er from her conveyance and make
her home-comin g pleasant a nd restful .
The father h a s little to do with the
tra inin g of his child ren which is le ft al
,
most entirely to the mother and except , ,
f or the interference of the mother i a law - -
,
she has her own way in their training ,
until they are lon g past childhood The .
ch ildren are taught to look to the father
WI FE AN D M O TH ER . 1 01
as the head a nd to respect a nd Obey hi m
,
a s the o ne to who m a ll must de fer ; but
.
the mother comes next al most as high in ,
their estimation and if n ot so much feared, ,
and respected certainly enjoys a larger
,
share of thei r love .
The Japanese mother s life is one Of
perfect devotio n to her children ; she is
t heir willing slave Her days are spent .
i n caring for them her evenin gs in watch ,
i ng over them ; an d she spare s nei ther
ti me nor tr ouble in doin g anyth in g for
their comfort and pleasure I n Si ckness 1
.
,
i n health day and n ight the little ones
, ,
are her one thought ; and from the home
of the noble to the hu mble cot o f the
peasant thi s te nder moth er love may be
,
-
seen in al l its di fferent phase s The Japa .
nese woman has so fe w on whom to lavish
'
her a ection so little to live for beside her
,
children and no hopes i n the futu re ex
,
ce pt
th rough them that it is no wonder that
,
Since the introd uction of the fom igu syst em of m edi
cine m d n m uing , the Ja p a ne ee re a l ise so acntel y the l a ck
o f con veniences a nd a
pp l ia nce s f o r nu rsi ng the si ck i n
the ir own hom es , tha t cases of se ve re or eve n serious ill
ness a re usua ll
y se n t hosp ita ls, whe re the in va li ds ca n
to
ha ve the oom for ts tha t eve n the wea l th y Ja p a ne se hom ec
she devotes her li fe to their ca re an d ser
vice deeming the drudgery that custo m
,
require s of her for the m the easiest of
a l l her duties Eve n with plenty of ser
.
van ts the mother performs for her chi l
,
dre n n early all the duties often delegate d
to n urses i n th is country .Mother and
babe are ra rely sepa rated n ight or da y
, ,
durin g the rst fe w years of the baby s
li fe an d the mother denies herse l f any
,
entertain ment or journey from home when
the baby can not accom pany her To g ive .
the husband any share in the baby work -
would be an un heard -of thing and a d is
,
grace to the wi fe ; for in public and in
private the baby is the mother s sole
charge an d the husban d is never asked
,
to si t up al l night with a s ick baby or ,
to mind it in any way at al l Nothin g
.
in all one s study of Japanese l i fe see ms
more beauti ful an d admir able than the
i nuence of the mother over her child ren ,
nu inuence that is gentle and a l l per -
vading bringing out all that is sweete st
,
a n d noblest in the feminine character and ,
affording the one al most un li mited op por
t unity of a Japan ese woman s life The
.
l ot of a childless wi fe in Japan is a sad
1 04 JAPAN ES E GIR LS AN D WOM EN .
usually the w ife becom e s of the h usban d s
.
When there are daughters but no sons i n
a fam ily to in herit the n ame one of three ,
thin gs may happen a son may be adopted
early in li fe and grow u p as heir ; or he .
may be adopte d with the idea of m arryi n g
one of the daughters ; or again no one , ,
m ay ha ve bee n form ally adopte d but on the ,
eldest daughter s com ing to a marriagea ble
age her family a n d friends see k for her a
,
y os hi i that
,
is to say some man ,(usually a
youn ger son ) who i s will ing a nd able to
give up his family name an d by marry , ,
in g the daughter become a member of
,
her family and heir to the name He .
cuts 0 3 all ti es from his own fa mily and ,
becomes a member of hers and the young ,
couple are expected to live with her pa
ren ts In th is case the tables are turn ed
.
,
an d it is he who has to dread the mother
i n law ; it is his tu r n to have to please his
-
new relatives and to do all he can to be
agreeable He too may be sent away an d
.
, ,
divorced by the all powerful parents if he
-
,
does n ot please ; an d such divorces are not
uncom mon O f cou rse i n such marriages
.
, ,
the woman has the grea ter power and the ,
man has to rememb e r wha t he owes her ;
WI FE AN D MO THER . 1 05
and tho ugh the woman yields to him obedi
ently in al l respects it is an obedience not,
demanded by the husband as under other ,
circu mstances .I n such marriages the
children bel ong to the family whose n ame
th ey hea r so that i n case of divo rce they
,
remain in the wi fe s family unle ss some
,
special arrange ment is mad e about them .
It may be wondered why young men
ever care to enter a family as yos hii There .
is only one answer it is the att raction
,
of w ea lth and rank very rar ely that o f the
,
d a ughte r herse l f I n the houses of rich
.
M a id s without sons yos hii a re very com ,
mon a nd there are many youn ger son s o f
,
the nobil ity themselves of high birth but
, ,
without prospects who are glad enough to
,
be come great lord s In feudal times the .
,
n umber of m m m i families was limi ted .
Seve ral sons of o ne fam ily could not estab
l ish di fferent sa m ura i families but al l but ,
the eldes t son if they formed separate
,
h ouses must enroll themselves amon g the
,
ranks of the com mon pe ople Hence the .
youn ger sons were o ften adopted in to other
sam dra i fam ilies as yos hi i whe re it was d e ,
si re d to secure a su ccession to a name that
m ust otherwise die out Since the Res to .
1 06 JAPAN ES E G rRL s AN D WOMEN .
ration and the breakin g down of the old
,
clas s di stincti ons young men care more
,
for independence tha n for their rank as
sa m ura i ; and it is now quite d i cul t to
nd yos hn to enter sa m ura i families un less ,
it be because of the attrac tiveness an d
beauty of the youn g lad y he rsel f Many a .
young girl who could easily make a good
m arri a ge with some suitable husband co ul d ,
she enter his family is now obliged to take
,
some in ferior m a n as y os hii because fe w ,
m e n in these days are willing to ch a n ge
thei r names give u p their indepe ndence
, ,
and t ake upon the mse lves the support of
aged parents-i n law ; for th is also is ex
-
p e cte d o f the yo s hi i u nless the
,
family that
he enters is a wealthy one .
From this custom of yosl m and its e ffect ,
u pon the wi fe s positi on we see that i n
, ,
cer tain cases Japan e se women are treated
,
as equal with men It is not because o f
.
their sex that they a re looked down upo n
and held i n subjection but it is becau se of
,
their al most un iversal dependence of posi
tion T he men have the right of i n he ri
.
tan ce the educ t on
,
a i h a bits o f sel f relia nce
-
,
and are the bread Wi nners Wherever the
-
.
tabl es are turn ed an d the m e n are depen
,
1 08 J APAN ES E G I R LS AN D WOMEN .
littl e farther above his wi fe The peasant
.
and his w ife work side by side in the el d ,
put their shoulders to the same wheel ea t ,
to gether in the same room at the same ,
time an d whichever of them happens to
,
be the st ronger in character governs the
house without regard to se x There is no
, .
great gul f xed between the m and there ,
is frequently a co n sideration for the wi fe
shown by husbands of the lower class that ,
is not unlike what we see in our own coun
try. I remember the ca se of a ym rikis ha
man employed by a friend of m ine in T6
ky o who was m uc h laughed at by h is
,
friends because he actual ly used to spend
some of hi s leisure moments in drawing
the water requi red for his hou sehold from
a well some d istan ce away and carryin g ,
the heavy bucket s to the hou se in order ,
to save the strength of h is little delicate ,
wi fe That cases o f such devotion are rare
is no doubt t r ue but that they occur
,
shows that there is here and there a recog
n iti on of the claims that femin ine weak
ness has u pon masculine stre n gth .
A frequent sight i n the morning i n ,
T6 ky6 is a cart heavily laden with wood
, ,
charcoa l or some other country pro duce
, ,
M E AN D M O THER . 1 09
crea kin g slowly alon g the streets p ro ,
pelled by a farmer an d his family Some .
times o ne will see an ol d man his son a nd , ,
his son s wi fe with a baby on her ba ck a l l
,
pushin g or pullin g wi th m ight an d m a in ;
the wom an wi th tuck ed up skirts and tight
-
tting blue tr ouse rs a blue towel envelop
i ng h er head only to be distin guished
,
from the m e n by her smaller si ze and the
baby ti ed to her back But when even
.
ing co mes and the load of produce has
,
bee n dispose d of the woman an d baby are
,
seen seated u pon the cart w hile the two
,
men pull it back to their home in som e
n eighborin g vi l lage Here again is the
.
, ,
recognition of the law that governs the
posi tion of woman i n th is country the ,
theo ry not of i n ferior pos ition but of
, ,
inferior stren gth ; an d the sight of the
women riding back i n the em pty carts at
n ight, drawn by their husbands is the ,
thing that strikes a student of Japan ese
domestic life a s neares t to the customs of
our own civi lization i n rega rd to the rela
tions of husbands and wiv es .
Throughout the country d istricts where ,
the women ha ve a large share i n the labor
that is direct ly pr od uctive of w eal th where ,
1 10 APA N ES E GI RLS
J AN D WOMEN .
they not only work i n the rice elds pick ,
the tea crop s gather the harve sts and
, ,
help draw them to market but where they ,
have their own productive industries such ,
a s caring for the si l kworms and spin,
n ing an d weaving both silk and cotton
, ,
we nd the conventional distance between
the sexes much di m inished by the i m por
t a nt chara cter of feminine labor ; but in
the cities and amo ng the classes who are
,
largely either indirect producers or non
producers the only la bor of the women i s
,
t hat personal service which we account as
menial It is for this reason perhaps that
.
, ,
the gap widens as we go upward in so
ci e ty and between the sa m e social levels
,
as we go cityward .
The wi fe of the countryman though she ,
may work hard e r a nd grow old e a rlier i s ,
more free and i ndependent t ha n her city
si st er ; an d the wi fe of the peasant push ,
i ng her prod uce to market is in so m e ways
,
ha ppi e r a n d more co nsidered than the wi fe
of t he noble who m ust spend her li fe
,
a m ong her l a dies i n waiting in th e secl u
- -
,
sion of h er great house with its beauti ful
gard e n the plaything of her hu sband in
,
h is l e isure hours b ut n ever h is e qual or
, ,
the S har er of his c a re s or of his thou g hts .
1 12 J APAN ES E GI RLS AN D WOMEN .
from ever introduci ng a rival u nder the
same roo f I n this way the prac tice is
.
made better than the theo ry .
N ot so with the more helpless wi fe of
the nobleman for wealth and leis u re make
,
temptation greater for the husband She .
submits unquesti on in gly to the c usto m re
quiri n g that the wife treat these women
with all civi l ity Their chi ldren she may
.
ev e n have to ad m it as he r own The lot of .
the m lra ke herse l f is rendered the les s e n
'
du rable from the American poi nt of view
, ,
by the fact that should the father of her
,
child decide to make it his heir the mother ,
is thence forth no more to it than any other
o f the servants o f the house hold For i n .
stan ce suppose a hitherto childless noble is
,
presente d with a son by one of his concu
bines a nd he dec id es by legal ad option to
,
make that son his heir : the ch ild at its b irth ,
o r as soon a fte rwards as is practica ble is ,
taken from its mother and placed in other
hands a nd the mother never sees her own
,
child unti l on the thirtieth day a fter its
,
birth she goes wi t h the other servan ts of
,
the house hold to pa y her respects to her
youn g m a ste r I f it were not fo r the habit
.
o f abject obedi en ce to parents which Japa
WI PE AN D M O TH ER . 1 13
nese custo m has exalte d into the one femi
nine virtue fe w women could be foun d of
,
respectable famil ies who would take a posi
tion so devoid of either honor or satisfac
ti on of any kin d as that of m ka k That .
th ese positi ons are not sought after m ust be
said to the hon or of Japanese woman hood
, .
A n obleman may obtai n sa m ura i women
for hi s 0 m ka k ( li terally honorable
,
concubines) but they are never respected
,
by their own class for tak in g such positions .
In the same way the m ka k of sa m m a i '
are usually from the him in No woma n .
who has any chance of a better lot will ever
take the u nen viable pos ition of m ka k .
A law which has rece ntly been prom ul
ga ted strikes a t the root of this evil and if , ,
en fo rced will in course of ti me go far to
,
ward exti rpating it Hen ceforth in Japan
.
,
no chi ld of a concubine or of adoption fro m
,
a ny so urce can in herit a noble ti tle
, The .
hei r to the throne mu st herea fter be the
son not only of the E mperor but of the
, ,
Empress or the succession passe s to some
,
collateral bra nch of the family This law .
does not apply to Prince Haru the present ,
heir to the throne as although he is not
, ,
the son of the E mpress he was legally
,
1 14 A A
J P N ES E GI RLS AN D WOMEN .
adopte d be fore the promulgation of the
law ; but should he d ie it will apply to a ll ,
future heirs .
That public opinion is movin g in the
right direction is shown by the fac t th at
the young men of the higher c lasses do
not care to marry the daughters of m lca k
'
be they ever so legally adopted by their
own fat hers When the girls born of s uch
.
u nions become a drug i n the ma tri mon ial
market and the boys a re unable to k eep
,
up the succession the m ka k wi l l go out
of fashion an d the r eal wi fe will once more
,
as sume her proper i mportance l
.
Upon th e 1 1 th day of February 1 889 , ,
the day on which the E mperor by hi s own ,
not i n giving a con sti tution to the people ,
li mi ted his own power for the sake of p ut
ting his nation upon a level with the m ost
civili zed nations of the earth he at the ,
l I t in w or th whil e to m e ntion in this connecti ou the
noteworth y 9 6 0 1 m ad e b y the Wom
an s Christian Tem
p em ce Union of Ja pa n in cnlling the a tt entiou of the
b
p u lic to this custom , and in am us ing p u bli c sentim ent
in fa vor of l eg isl a tion ag a im t not onl y thi s system , b ut
a gainst the lice nse d houses of p rosti tuti on . Thoug h
there ha s not y t
e bee n a ny p m tica l resul t, m uch disens
sio n has e nsue d i n t he ne wsp a p e rs a nd m a g a z ines, l ee
t ures ha ve be en given , a nd m uc h stro ng feeling a rous e .d
1 16 J APA N ES E GI RLS AN D WOMEN .
i n her practices in this matter is gre atly
to her credit ; but that she is fa r behin d
the ci vili z ed nations of E urope and A mer
ica not only in prac tice but i n theory is a
, ,
fact that is incontesta ble and a fact tha t , ,
u nless ch an ged m ust sooner or later be a ,
i
stumbl ng block in the path of her progress
-
toward the high est civilization of which she
1
is capable T he E uropean practice can not
.
be g rafted upon the Asiatic theory but the ,
change i n the home m us t be a radical one ,
to secure permanent good re sults As lon g .
as the wife has n o rights which the b us
ban d is bouud to respect no great advan ce ,
l Ma ny of the th ink ing m en of
Ja pa n, thongh full y
reoog nin ng the inj usti ce of the p res e nt p ositio n of wom a n
'
in societ y , a nd the necessity of reform in the m a rr inge
a nd d i vorce l nws , re fuse to see the im p orta nce of a ny
m ove m e nt to cha n ge them . Their exc use is , tha t s uch
p o wer in the ha nds o f the h us ba nd over h is wife m ight be
a bused , b ut tha t in fa ct it is not . Wrongs a nd in j us tice
a re ra re, th e y ar gue , a nd k ind tau trnent , a ffect i on, a nd
eve n res p e ct for the wife is th e g e neral r ul e ; a nd tha t
the k ee pin g of the p ower in the ha n s of th e h us a n is d b d
bette r tha n g iving too m uch free d m t o wom en who a re o
wi thout e d uca ti on These m e n wish to wa it until ever y
.
wom a n is e d uca te d be fo e a c ting in a ref rm m vem ent
,
r o o ,
wh il e m a ny conse r va tives opp ose the ne w s ys tem of ed u
ca tio n for girl s as m a kin g them un wom a nl y .B etwee n
th ese tw o p a rt ies , the few who rea ll y wish for a cha nge
ar e ut terl y una l e to act b .
WI FE AN D M O TH ER . 1 17
can be made for hu man nature is too
,
m ean an d selsh t o give in all cases to
those who are entirely un protected by law ,
an d entirely u n able to protect themselves ,
those things w hi c h the m oral n ature de
clares to be their due I n the old sl a ve
.
times in the South many of the negroes
,
w e r e better fe d b etter c a red for a nd hap
, ,
pier th a n they are to day but they were
-
n everth e le s s a t the mercy of men wh o
too o ften th oug h t o nly of themselve s a nd ,
n ot of t he h um a n bodi e s a nd souls over
which th ey ha d unli m ite d po wer It was a .
con d ition of th i ng s th a t c ould n ot be pre
ve n ted b v ed uca ti n g th e m a ste rs so a s to
ind uce t h e m to be ki nd to their slav e s ; it
wa s a cond iti o n th a t wa s wrong i n theory ,
and so could n ot be righted i n practice I n .
the sa m e way the po s ition of the Japanese
wi fe i s wro ng i n th e ory and ca n never be
,
righted u n til l egi sl a tion has given t o her
right s whi ch it still denies Education wil l .
but a ggr a vat e the trouble to a point beyon d
end ura nce The gi vi n g to the wi fe power
.
to obtai n a divorce wi l l not hel p m uch but ,
simply t en d to we a ken still further the
m arriage ti e . N ot hing ca n h e l p surely
an d perm a nently but the growth of a soun d
1 18 J APAN ES E GI RL S AN D WOMEN .
public Opinion in regard to the position of
,
the wi fe that will sooner or later have
, , ,
its eect upon the laws of the country
'
Legislation once effected all the rest will
,
come and the wife sec ure in her home an d
, ,
her children will be at the point where
,
her ne w ed ucation can be of use to her
i n the administration of her domestic a f
fairs an d the training of her children ;
an d where she will nally become the
friend and compa nion of her hu sband in ,
stead of his mere waitress seamstress an d
, ,
housekeeper the plaything of his leisure
,
moments too ofte n the victi m of his cu
,
p r ices .
1 2 0 JAPAN ES E GI RLS AN D WOMEN .
youn ger than her real age or hesitates to
,
tell with entire frankness the n umber of
years that have pas sed over her head .
The reaso n for this lies at least in part
, ,
in the fact that every woman looks forward
to the period O f Ol d age as the time when
she will attain freedom from her li fe long -
service to those abo ut her will be in the
,
position of a dviser Of her sons and directo r
,
of her daughters i n law
- - will be a person
of m uch consideration i n the fam ily privi ,
l eg e d to amuse h e rsel f in va r ious ways to ,
spe a k her own m i nd on most subject s and ,
to he waited upon a n d cared for by chil
dren an d gran dchildren in return for her
,
long years Of faith ful service in the house
hold Sho uld h er sight and other bodily
.
powers remain good she w ill doubtless
,
perform many light tasks for the general
good will seldom sit idle by hersel f but
, ,
will help about th e sewin g and men ding ,
the m a rk e ti ng shoppi n g housework an d
, , ,
care of th e b a bies tell stories to her gran d
,
ch ildre n after their lesson s are learned ,
give the be net of her ye a rs of experience
to the young people who are still bearing
the heat and burden of the day a n d by her , ,
prayers and visits to the temple at stated
O LD A GE. 12 1
s easo n s w ill secure the favor of the gods
,
for the whole family as wel l as make her ,
own pre parations for entry into the great
u nknown toward w hich she is rapidly dri ft
in g. Is there wonder that the young
wi fe steering her course with di fculty
,
among the many shoa ls and whirlpools of
early marri ed l i fe looks forward with eu
,
ti ci pa tion to the period of comparative rest
and security that comes at the end of th e
voyage P As she bears all thin gs endures
7
,
al l things suffers lon g and is kind as she
, , ,
serv es her mother in -law manages her -
,
h us band s household ca re s for her babies
, ,
the thought that cheers and encourages
her i n her busy a nd n ot too happy li fe is
the thought of the su n ny ca l m of ol d age ,
w hen she ca n lay her burdens and ca res
on youn ger shoulders and bask in the ,
warmth and sun shi ne which this Ind ian
Su m mer of her l i fe will b ring to her .
I n the code of morals of the Japanese ,
obedience to father h usband or son is ex
, ,
alted into the chie f womanly virtue but ,
the Obed ience an d re spe ct of children bot h ,
male and female to their paren ts also oc
, ,
cupic a a p ro m inent position in their ethical
system Hence i n this latter st age of a
.
,
12 2 JA PAN ES E O w LS AN D WOMEN .
woman s career the obedien ce expected of
,
her is ofte n onl y nom inal an d in any case ,
is not so absolute an d unques ti onin g as
that of the early period ; a nd the consid
cration and respect that a son is bound to
s how to h is mother n ecessitates a care of
her com fort and a consultation of her
,
wis hes that rend ers her positi on one of
,
m uch grea ter fr eedo m than can be oh
ta ined by any wom a n earlier in life She .
has besides reached an age when she is
, ,
n ot expecte d to re m ain at home and she ,
m ay go out in to the streets to the thea tr e , ,
or other shows w ithout the leas t res trai nt
,
or fear of losi ng her dign ity .
A Japanese woman loses her bea uty early .
At thirty ve her fre sh color is usually e n
-
ti re ly gone her eyes have begu n to sink a
,
'
l ittle in th eir sockets her youth ful round ,
ne ss and sy mmetry of g ure have given
place to a n a bsolute lean ness her abundan t ,
blac k hair has gro wn thin and much care ,
and an xiety have gi ven her face a pathetic
expression of quiet endurance O ne scl .
d om sees a face that indicates a so ure d
tem per or a c ross disposition but the li n e s ,
that show themselves as the years go by
are lin es that i n di cate su fferin g an d dis
124 J APAN ES E GI R LS AN D WOMEN .
relatives nd in ol d age a pl easa nter l ot
,
than that of youth Many such Ol d ladies
.
I have met whose short h a ir or shaven
,
heads proclai m to a l l who see them that
the so rrow Of widowhood has taken fro m
them the joy that falls to other women ,
but whose cheerful wri nkled faces an d
,
happy childl ike ways have given one a feel
,
ing of pleasure that the sorrow is past an d ,
peace an d rest have come to their declin
ing years Fullli n g what little house
.
hold ta sks they can respe cted and sel f ,
re specti ng members of the household the ,
0 Eu Sun or Au nty is not fa r removed i n
'
, ,
the honor and affection of the ch ildre n
fr om the 0 D6 Sun or G rand ma but both
, ,
alike nd a peace fu l shelter in the homes
of those nearest and deares t to them .
O ne of the happiest Old lad ies I have
ever seen was one who had had a rough
and stormy li fe The mother o f m a ny
.
children most of whom had died i n i n
,
fancy she was a t last le ft childless and a
,
widow I n her ch ildre n s death the last
.
tie that bo und her to her husband s fam ily
was br oken and rather than be a burden
, ,
to them she made her home for many
,
years with her own you nger brother tak ,
OLD AG E . 12 5
ing up a gai n the many ca res and duties of
a mother s li fe i n sharin g wi th the mother
the bri n gin g up of a large family of chil
dren O ne by one from the old est to the
.
,
younge s t eac h has l e arned to love the old
,
aunty to be lulled asl eep on her back an d
, ,
to g o to her i n tro uble when mother s
h a nd s we re too fu l l o f work
. Many the .
cares s received the drives and wal ks en
,
joyed in her com pa ny the toys and can ,
dies th a t came out un expecte d ly from the
depths of mysterio us d rawers to com fort ,
m a ny an hour of ch ildi sh grie f That wa s .
years a go and the ol d aunty s hard ti mes
,
are n early over Hale an d hearty at three
.
score years and ten she has seen these
,
children grow up one by one unti l now ,
some have gone to new homes of thei r
own . H er bent form a nd wri nkled face
are ever welcome to her ch ildren her s ,
by the right of y ears Of pati ent care an d
toil for them They now i n their turn
.
, ,
enjoy giving her pleasure and return to ,
her al l the love she has lavished u po n
them It is a joy to see her childlike
.
pride and conden ce i n the m all and to ,
know that they have lled the plac e le ft
vaca nt by the dead with whom had died
al l her ho r
n s of earthl y happiness .
The Old women of Japan how th ei r,
wi there d face s bent frames an d shrun ken
, , ,
yell ow hands a bide i n one s memory O ne
seldom sees among them what we woul d
cal l bea uty fo r the al most un iversal shr ink
,
in g with age that takes place am on g the
Japanese covers the face with m ul titud i
n ous wrinkles and produces the e ffect of a
,
withered r usset apple ; for the skin wh ich ,
i n y outh is usu ally brighten ed by red
cheeks an d glossy black hai r i n ol d age , ,
when color leaves cheek and h air has a ,
curiously yellow and parchment- like look .
But with all their wrinkles and ugli ness ,
there is a peculi ar charm about the Old
women of Japan .
I n Tkyo when the grass grows lon g
,
u pon your lawn an d you se nd to the gar
,
d e ue r to come an d cut it no boy with ,
pate nt lawn -mower nor stalwart country
,
m a n with scyt he a n d sickle answers your ,
su m mons but some morn in g you awake to
,
nd your lawn covered with Old wo m en .
The m uch washed cotton garm ents are
-
fad ed to a light blue the exact match of
,
the light blue cotton tow els in which their
hea ds are swath ed an d on hands an d
,
k n ees each armed with an enormous pa ir
,
1 28 JA PANESE Ow L S AN D WOMEN .
from ho us e to hous e gain ing a mise rable ,
pitta nce by thei r weird m u s ic they seem ,
the embodiment of all that is hope le s s an d
broken hea rted W hat they are or whence
- .
they come I kn o w not but they always re
, ,
m in d me of the grasshoppe r i n the fa bl e ,
who danced an d san g through the brie f
s u m mer to come wailing and wretched
, , ,
seeking aid fro m h er thri ftier neighbor
when at last the winter clo sed in upon her .
As o ne rides about the streets one o ften ,
see s a li ttle white-haired old woman trot
,
tin g about with a yoke over her shoulders
from which are suspended two s winging
bas kets lled wi t h fresh vege tables The
, .
fact that her ha ir is sti l l grow in g to its
n atural len gth shows that she is still a wife
and not a widow ; her worn and patch ed
blue cotton clothes bl eac hed light fro m ,
much washing show that extreme poverty,
is her lot in l i fe ; and as she hobbles along
with the gait peculiar to those who carry a
yoke my thoughts are busy with her home
, ,
which though poor and small is doubtless
, ,
cl ean a nd com fortable but my eye fol lows ,
her th roug h the city s crowd where la
,
borer soldier st udent and high o cia l
, , ,
jostle each other by the way Suddenly I
.
OLD AG E . 12 9
see her pa u se be fore the gate way of a tem
ple She sets her b urden down a nd there
.
,
in the m idst o f the bustl i ng th ron g wi t h ,
bowed he a d folded hands and moving lips
, , ,
she invokes her g od snatchin g this m o
,
ment fro m her busy li fe to se ek a bless ing
for herse l f a nd her dear ones The thron g .
moves busily on maki ng a little eddy
,
around the burde n she has laid down but ,
p ayin g no lace d to the de vout little gure
standing there ; then in a m oment the
prayer is nish ed ; she stoops picks u p her ,
yoke balances it on her should e rs an d
, ,
moves on with the crowd to do her share,
while her stren gth l a sts and to be cared
,
for te nderly I do ubt n ot by children and
, ,
children s child ren when her work is done
.
Another picture comes to me too a pic , ,
tur e of one wh ose memory is an inspiring
thought to the many who have the honor
to call her mother A stately ol d lad y
.
,
le ft a widow many years a go be fore the ,
recent ch a n ges had wro ught havoc prepar
a tory to further pro gr ess she seemed a l
,
ways to me the model o f a mother of the
ol d school . Hersel f a woman of thorough
clas sical education he r exam ple and tea ch
,
i ng were to both sons and daughters a con
stan t inspiration ; and in her old age she
found herse lf the honored head of a fa mily
well kn own in the arts of war and peace ,
a goodly company of son s an d daughte rs ,
every o ne of them he irs of her S p irit and
of h er intellect Though con servative her
.
self an d always cl i n ging to the old cus
,
to ms she put n o block in the path of her
,
child ren s progress and her ne charac ter
, ,
heroic spirit and stanch loyal ty to what
,
she believed were worth mo re to her c hil
d ren than anyt hing else could have been .
Tried by war by siege, by banish ment by
, ,
dan ger and s ufferi n gs of al l kinds to her
,
was given at las t an ol d age of prosperity
among chi ldren of whom she might w e ll
be proud Kee ping her physical vigor to
.
the end and dying a t last after an ill ness
, ,
of only two days her spirit passed out into
,
the great unknown ready to meet its d an
,
gers as bravely as she had met those of
e arth o r to enjoy its rest a s swee tly and
,
apprec iatively as she had enjoyed that of
her ol d age in the hou se of her oldest so n .
My acquaintan ce with her was limi te d by
our lac k of com mon lan gu age but was a
,
most ad miring a nd apprec iative one on my
side ; an d I es tee m it one of the chief
13 2 J APAN ES E GI RLS AN D WOMEN .
bier then bowing agai n retired to their
, , ,
places Slowly and solemnly from the tal l
.
,
soldier son his hair already stre a ked with
,
gray to the two year old gran dchild a ll
,
- -
,
paid this last token of re spect to a noble
spirit ; a nd after the relatives the guests ,
each in the order of rank or nearness to
the deceased stepped forward an d per
,
formed the same ceremony before leavin g
the roo m W h a t the mean ing of the ri te
.
was I did n ot know whether a worship of
, ,
stran ge gods or no ; but to m e as I per ,
form e d the act it only sign ied the honor
,
in which I held t he memory of a heroic
woman wh o had done well her part in the
world accordi n g to the light that G od had
given her .
Japa nese art loves to picture th e old wo
m a n with her kindly wrinkled face leavi n g
, ,
out n o wrinkle of the m all but givin g with ,
equal truth fu l n e ss the charm of expression
that one nds in them L ong l ife is de .
s ire d by all as pas sion a te l y as b ancient
y
H e bre w poet a n d ps a lmi st a n d with good ,
re a so n for o nly by long li fe ca n a woman a t
,
t a in the gr e a te st ho n or a nd ha p pine s s W e .
o fte n excl a i m in imp a ti e n ce a t the thought
of t he weak n ess and dependence of old
OLD A GE . 1 33
age and pray that we may die i n the full
,
n ess of our powers be fore the decay of ad
,
va nci ng ye a r s has made us a burden upo n
o ur frie n d s But in Japan depende nce is
.
,
the lot of wo m a n a nd the dependence of
,
old age is that w hic h is most respected
a n d considered An a ged parent is never
.
a b urd e n is tre at ed by all wit h the greatest
,
l ov e and ten derne ss ; an d if ti m es are hard ,
a nd food a nd ot h er co m forts are scarce the ,
children a s a matter of course deprive
, ,
them sel ves a nd their child re n to give un
grudg ingly to their old fa the r a nd mother .
Faults t here are m a ny in th e Japa nese
social sy stem b ut ingra titude to parents
, ,
or di s respect to the aged mus t not be ,
named a m o ng the m ; a nd Young Am erica
m a y l e ar n a salut a ry lesso n by the study of
the place that old people occupy in the
home .
It is not o nly for the women of Japan ,
but for the m e n as well that old age is a ,
time of p e a ce an d h a ppiness W hen a man .
re a che s the age of fty or thereabouts ,
ofte n whil e app a re ntly i n the heig ht of his
vigor he give s up his work or bu siness an d
,
retire s l e aving all the property an d income
,
to the care of his eldest son upon who m ,
1 34 APAN ES E G I RL S
J AN D WOMEN .
he becom e s enti rely depen dent for his sup
port This support is never begrud ge d
1
.
hi m for the ca re o f parents by the ir chil
,
dren is as m uch a matter o f course i n
Japan as the care of children by those who
give them birth A man thus rarely m a kes
.
provi si on for the future and looks wit h ,
scorn on fore i g n customs whi ch see m to
betoken a fear le st in ol d age un grateful , ,
child ren may n eglect their parents an d
cast them aside The fee ling so stron g in
.
,
Ame rica that dependen ce is of itsel f i rk
,
some and a thin g to be dread ed is a l ,
togeth e r s tran ge to the Japa ne se m ind .
The married so n doe s not ca re to take his
wi fe to a new and i n depe ndent home of his
o wn and to support her and her children by
,
h is own labor or on his own in come but he ,
tak es her to his fa ther s h ouse a nd th inks
,
it no shame that his fam ily l ive u pon h is
pare nts But in retu rn when the parents
.
,
wish to retire fro m active li fe th e son takes ,
upon him sel f ung rudgingly the bu rden of
1 I t is this of
cus tom g o ing into ea r l y r e ti re m e nt tha t
m a de
it p oss i l e for b b
the no les in ol d ti m e s to k ee p the
Em peror a l wa ys a chil d . The r ul ing Em p er or w oul d be
ind uce d to r eti re fr om th e thr one at the a g e o f sixte eu or
twe nty ; th us m a k ing room for som e ba by , w ho woul d be
in hin tum tho p npp e t of hiu a m bi tio us oo ur tiem .
1 36 JAPAN ES E G m t s AN D WOMEN .
1
ble worker The go ia kyo of J a pa n is glad
.
enough to lay down early i n li fe the cares
o f the world to have a few ye a rs of cal m
,
a nd peac e u ndisturbed by responsibilities
,
or cares for outside matters I f he be a n .
artist o r a poet he may u ninterrupted , , ,
S pend hi s days with hi s beloved art I f he .
is fond of the ceremonial tea he has whole ,
aft ern oons that he may devote to t hi s $ 8
t hetic re pe at ; and even if he has none of
these higher tastes he wil l always have ,
congenial friends who are ready to share
the s ak bottle to join in a quiet smoke o ver
,
the hiba chi or to play the deep-engro ssing
,
game of go or s hogi the Japane se ches s
, , .
To the Japanese m ind to be in the co m ,
pan y of a fe w kindred souls to spend the ,
l ong hours of a su m mer s aft ernoon at the
ce remon ial tea pa rty sippin g tea and con ,
versing in a leisurely m an ner on va rious
subjects is an enjoyment second to none
,
.
A cultivated Japane se of the old times must
re ceive an education tting him especially
G o I nkyo S a m e is th e ti tl e be l ong ing t i
o a r e t re d ol d
g e n tl e m a n or old la d y . I nkyo is the na m e of the h o use or
s uite of f or h th e ti tl e
, a nd
room s eet a pa rt sn c a e rson
p
i tsel f is m a de up of this w or d with the Chi nese h onor ic
go a nd the t itl e S a m e, the sa m e a s S a n, ul e d in ad dress
ing al l p erl onl oxoep t inf er iors .
O LD AG E
. 137
for such pursuits At these meetings of
.
friends artistically o r poetically inclin ed
, ,
the ti me is spe nt in m akin g poems and ex
chan ging wit tily turned sentiments to be ,
read com mented on and res ponded to ; or
, ,
i n the maki ng of drawin gs with a fe w bold ,
strokes of the brush in illustration of some ,
subj ect give n out S uch enjoyments as
.
these the Japan ese believe can not be a p
, ,
p re c ia te d or even understood by the p ra c
tical rush ahead A merican the prod uct of
,
-
,
the wonderful but m ate rial ci viliz a tio n of
the West .
Thus amid enjoy men ts an d easy labors
,
sui te d to their closing years the elder ,
cou ple spen d their days wi th the youn g
people cared for an d protected by them
, .
Sometimes there wi ll be a separa te suite
of rooms provided fo r the m ; someti mes a
little house away fro m the il oi of the
household and sepa rate d from the m ai n
,
building by a well-kept little gard en I n .
any case as lon g as they live they wil l
,
S pend their days i n quiet and peace a n d it
is to this haven the ia kyo that all Japa
, ,
n ese look forward as to the ti me when ,
they may carry out their own inclinations
and tas tes with an i ncome provided for the
rest o f their days .
CH A PT E R VI .
TH E co urt of the E mperor was in the ,
ea rly ages of Jap a n th e centre of whatev er
,
culture an d re nement the country coul d
boast and the em pe rors themselves took
,
an active part i n the promo tio n of civiliz a
ti on The earliest history of Japan is so
.
wrapped in the m ist s of legen d and tra di
ti on that only he re and there do we get
gli mps es of heroic gures lead e rs in ,
those early days De migods they seem ch il
.
,
d ren of H e aven receiving from H eaven by
,
specia l reve l ation the wis do m or stren gth
by means of which they conquered t he ir
enemi es or gave to their subjects new arts
,
and be tter laws The tradi t ional empe rors
.
,
the early descendants of the great Jim m u
Tenno see m to have been merely conquer
l
,
The a a neee cl a i m for the ir pr es ent Em p e ror dire ct
desce nt from Jim m u Te nno , th e Son of the Gods ; a nd
i t in for thin re ason tha t th e Em p e ra is s up p oee d to
-
be
divine , end the re presenta ti ve of th e gode on the ea r th.
1 40 APA N ES E GIR LS
J AN D WOMEN .
of Corea, who alone am ong the nine female
,
rulers of Japan has made an era in the
,
n ational history S he see ms to have been
.
from the begin nin g like Jea n ne D Arc a
, ,
b ea re r of divine voi ces ; and thr ough h er
was conveyed to her un beli evin g husban d
a divi ne com mand to take shi p an d s a il
,
westward to the conquest of an un k nown
land Her h usband questioned the a uthe n
.
tic ity of the mes sage took the earthly an d
,
practical vi ew that as there was no land
,
to be seen in the westward there coul d be ,
no land there an d re fused to organ i ze any
,
expedition in fulll ment of the com mand ;
but for his unbelief wa s ste m ly told that he
should n ever see the land but that h is wi fe
,
should conquer it for the son whom she
should bear after the father s death This
.
message from the gods was fullled The .
E m peror died i n battle shortly after and ,
the E mpre ss afte r suppres sing the rebel
,
lion in which her hu sband had been killed ,
proceeded to organ i ze an expedi tion for the
conquest of the un kn own lan d beyon d the
western sea By a s m any signs as those
.
required by G ideon to ass ure h imsel f of his
divine mission the Empress tested the cal l
,
that had come to her but at las t sa tised
, ,
C O UR T LI FE . 14 1
that the voi ces were from H ea ven she gave ,
he r orders for the collecti on of ows a nd
the building of a navy I quote from G riis
.
the i nspirin g words wi th which she a d
dressed her gen eral s The sa fety or de
st ructi on of our count ry de pends upon this
en terpri se I intrust the details to you
. . .
It wi l l be yo ur fault i f they are not carried
out. I am a woman a n d yo u ng I shall .
d isguise myself as a m an a nd u nd e rtake ,
this ga llant expedition trusti n g to the ,
gods an d to my tr0 0 ps and capta ins We .
sh al l acquire a wealthy country The gl ory .
i s you rs if we succeed ; i f we fail the guilt
, ,
an d disgrac e shall be m ine What won .
der tha t her captains respond ed to suc h a n
appeal an d that the work of recruit in g an d
,
shipbuilding began with a w ill ! It was a
long preparation that was re quired so me
ti mes to the impatient woman it seem ed nu
, ,
n ece ssarily slow but by con tin ual prayer
and o fferings she appealed to the gods for
aid ; and at last all was re ady an d the brave ,
array of shi ps se t sail for the unk nown
shore the E mpress fe eling within her the
,
n e w inspira tion o f hO pe for her babe as yet
un born Hea ven sm i led upo n them fro m
.
the start The clearest of skies the most
. ,
142 J APA N ES E GIR L S AN D WOMEN .
favoring breezes the smoothes t o f sea s
of , ,
favo red the god sent ex pedition ; a nd t rad i
-
ti o n say s that even t he shes s warm ed in
shoals about their he e l s and carri e d the m ,
o n to th e ir des r ed haven The eet
i ra n .
safely ac ross to southern Cores but instead ,
o f nding battl e s and struggles awaitin g
them the king of the country met them on
,
the be ach to receive an d tender allegian ce to
the inv aders whose u nexpec ted appe arance
,
from the unexplo red East had l ed the na
ti ve s to beli e ve that their gods had for
s aken them The ex pedition return ed lade n
.
with vast wealth no t the spoil of battle
, ,
but the pea ce ful tribute of a blood less vic
tory ; and from that ti me forward Japan ,
th ro ugh Corea and late r by direct contact
,
with China its el f bega n to rece ive and as
,
sim ilate the civilization arts and religion s, ,
of Chi na . Thus th rough a woman Japan
received the start alon g the line of prog
ress which made her what she is tod ay ,
fo r the se quel of Jin g u Kogti s Corea n ex
pediti on was the i ntroduction of al most
eve rythin g which we re gard as peculiar
to civilized countries Wi th chara cte ri s tic
.
belittling of the woman an d exalting o f
the man the whole m a rti al care e r of the
,
al on g which the savages still mad e raids
i nto the territory w hich the Japa ne s e had
wres ted fro m them and which it required
,
a stron g a r m and a quick hand to guard
for the de fense of the people But the
.
E m pe ror gradual ly gave up the personal
leadership in war and passe d the duty of
,
de fending the nation into the ha nd s of one
or another o f the great noble families .The
nobles were not by any means slow tc sec
'
the advan tage to be gained for themselves
by the possession of t he m ilitary power in
an age when m ight made right even more
,
than it does to-day an d when force used
, ,
judiciously and with proper de ference to
the prejudices of the people could be made
,
to give to its possesso r po wer even o ver
the Em peror hi msel f A nd so g ra dual ly
.
,
i n the pursuit of the new culture an d the
ne w religion the em perors withdrew th e m
,
selves more and more into se clusion and ,
the cou rt became a little world in i tsel f ,
a cen tre o f culture and renement into
which fe w excitements of war or politics
ever came While the great nobl e s wr an
.
gled for the posse ssion of the po wer ,
schemed and fought an d turned the nation
u ps ide down ; while the heroes of the coun
CO U RT LI FE . 14 5
try rose lived fought a nd died
, ,
the E m
, ,
pe t or amid his ladies and his courtiers his
, ,
priests and h is literary men spe nt his li fe ,
in a world of his own ; thinking more of
this pair of bright eyes that new an d ,
charming poem the other witty sayi ng
,
o f those about hi m than of the king
,
d o m that he ruled by divi ne right ; and
re ti ring after ten years or so of puppet
,
kinghood from the seclusion of his court
,
to the deepe r secl us ion of some B ud d his t
monastery .
Within the sac red precincts of the court ,
m uch time was given to such g ames an d
pasti mes as were not too rude or n oisy
for the renement that the new culture
brought wi th it Polo football huntin g
.
, ,
with falcons archery etc were exercises
, , .
,
not u nworthy of even the most rened of
gentlemen and certain noble families wer e
,
trained h e reditarily i n the execution of cer
tain stately antique dances many of the m
, ,
of Chines e or Corean origin The l a dies .
,
in trailin g garments and with o wing hair ,
reachin g often below the knees played a ,
n ot inconspicuous part not only because o f,
t heir beau ty an d grace but for their quick
,
ness of wit their learning in the c l assics
, ,
146 J APAN ES E ow LS AN D WOMEN .
their skil l i n repartee an d thei r quai nt ,
fa ncies which they embodied in p oetic
,
form l
.
Much atte ntion was gi ven to that har
m ony of art with nature that the Japa nese
tas te m a k es the sine qua non o f a ll true
artistic e ort The gorgeou sly e m b roid
ered gowns must cha n ge wi th the chau
ging season so that the che rry succeeds
,
the plu m the wista ria the cherry and so on
, ,
th rough the whole calendar of owers u pon ,
the silken robes of the court as regularly ,
as i n the garden that gra ces the palace
grounds A nd so with the con fecti onery
.
,
which in Japa n is ma de in dainty imita
tion of owe rs and fruits The chrysa n .
the m um blo oms in sugar no earli er tha n
h m dm m wm m e l m g civ wm d m e
Mid d l e AM m uch a t te n o n w as given b y b oth m e n a nd
w om en to p oet r y, a nd m a n y O f the cl nm ice of Ja pa nese
l ite ra ture a re th e work s of wom en . Am ong thes e dis
ting uis h ed wr it ers ca n b e m e nti on e d Murasa ki Shik i bu,
Se is h b Na g o n, a nd Iaeno Ta iy u, a ll cour t l a ies in the
'
d
tim e of th e Em p e ror I c hijii (a o ut 1000 A b The court .
a t tha t ti m e was the ce ntre of l ea r ni ng, a nd m uch e ncour
a gem en t wa s give n b y the Em pe ror to literar y pursuits ,
th e cul tiva ti on of p oe tr y , a nd m us i c The Em p er or ga th
.
e re d a round him ta l e nte d m e n a nd w om en, b ut th e grea t
wor ks tha t re m a in ar e, ch a ng e to any , m os t l y theoe o f
1 48 JAPANESE C I RL S AN D WOMEN .
al most out of exi sten ce by the i n trod uction
of Chin ese lea rn ing through Ch in e se let
ters the women of Japan n ot only in their
, ,
homes and con versation but in the poetry ,
an d l ighter literature of the country pre ,
served a stra in of pu re and grace ful Jap
ane se and produced some of the standard
,
works of a distinctly n ational literatu re .
Favor at court M ay as in the olden ,
times is the reward not of mere rank
, , ,
beauty and g race of person but must be
, ,
obtained through the same in te ll ectual e n
dowments polished by years of ed uca tion
, ,
that made so many women famous in the
m e d iaaval his to ry of Japan Many co urt .
lad ies have read m uch of th eir national
lite rat ure so that they are able to a pp re
,
ciate the bonm ots which contain allus ions
i n many cases to ol d poems or plays on ,
words ; and are able to write and pres ent
to others at ttin g ti mes those grace ful
, ,
but u ntranslatable turns o f phrase which
form the bulk of Japan ese poetry 1
Even
The cour t l a dies in im m e dia t conta c t with the Em
e
p e ro r a nd Em p ress a re se l ec te d f th da ughters f
rom e o
the no bl es . Onl y in the p r es ent reig n ha ve a few sa m u
ra i wom en rise n to h igh p ositi ons a t cour t on account of
C O U T LI FER . 14 9
in this busy era of M ij i the Empe ror and ,
l
hi s co urt keep up the old ti me cu s to ms
-
,
an d strive to promote a love of the beauti
ful poetry of Japa n At ea ch New Yea r
.
some subj ect appropriate to the ti me is
chosen an d publi cly anno un ced Ifoe m s .
may be writte n upon th is subject by any
one i n the whole r eal m and may be se nt ,
to the palace be fore a ce rtain date x e d as
the time for closing the list of com petitors .
All th e poe ms th us sent a re examined by
com petent judges w ho se l ect the best ve
,
a nd se nd them to the E mperor an honor ,
more d e sire d by the write rs than the most
favorable of reviews or the largest of s mol
um e n ts are desired by American poets .
Ma ny of the other poems are published in
the news papers It is interesting to note
.
that many of the pro minent men and wo
men of the cou ntry are known as com
p e tito rs
, an d that m any of the court ladies
join i n the contest .
There a re also at the pa lace frequent
, ,
m eetin gs of the poets a nd lovers of poetry
1 Maj ; (Enligh te ned Rul e ) is the nam e of the era tha t
began with th e p rese nt M paror s accession to the throne
.
The -
you A . D . 1890 is the twe nty -thir d year of hi eiji , a nd
15 0 A A
J P N ES E G IR LS AN D WOMEN .
con necte d with the court At these meet .
in gs poems are composed for the enter
ta i nm e nt of the Em peror and E mpress as ,
well as for the amuse ment of the poets
themselve s .
I n the sch ool recently establ is he d for the
dau ghters of the nobles u nder the charge ,
of the i mperia l house hold m uch attentio n ,
is gi ve n to the work of thoroughly ground
in g th e schola rs in the J a pa ne sc lan guage
and literature and also to mak in g them
,
ski l l ful i n the art of com posing poet ry At
the head of the sch ool in t he highe st posi
,
tion held by any woman i n the employ of
the govern men t is a former court lady
, ,
who is second to n one i n the k in gd om not ,
only in her knowl edge of a l l that belon gs
to court eti quette but in her study of the
,
history and literature of her own people ,
and in her skill in th e composition of thes e
dai n ty poem s A year or two ago when
.
,
o ne of the scholars i n the school died after
a br ie f declin e her sch ool mates teachers
, , ,
a n d school friends wr ote poem s upon her
death which they sent to the bere aved
,
parents .
It is di fcult for any Japanese much ,
mo re so for a forei gner to pen e trate into
,
1 52 J APAN ES E GIR LS AN D WOMEN .
qui si te there is little i n this simplicity
,
to denote the abode of royalty
. It seems .
that t heir majesties t houg h outwardly con
,
forming to many European customs an d ,
to th e European m an ner of dress prefer ,
to live in Japanese ways on matted not , ,
carpeted oors r eposing on them rather
,
than on chairs a nd beds .
Their apartments are not large ; each
'
s uite co n s isting of three rooms Open ing
out of each other the Em p ress s room s
,
being slightly smaller tha n the Emper
or s an d those of the young Prince Haru
, ,
the heir apparent again a little smaller
, .
The young prince has a residence of his
o wn an d it is onl y on his visits that he
,
occupies his apartments i n his father s
pal a ce There are also room s for the Em
.
press d owager to occupy on her occasional
visits Al l of these apartments are quite
.
close together in one part of the pal ace ,
and a r e con n ected by hal ls ; but the pri
vate rooms of the court l a dies are in an
entirely separate place q uite re m oved a nd
, ,
only con nected with the m a in buildin g
by a long n a rro w p a ssa ge wa y r un n ing
, ,
through the garden Th e re i n the rooms
.
,
assigned to them each one ha s her own
,
C O UR T LE E . 1 53
private establish ment where she stays
,
when she is not on d uty in attendance o n
the E mperor an d E m press Eac h lady has
.
her own servants and sometimes a youn ger
,
sister or a dependent may be li ving there
with her thoug h they a re entirely sepa
,
rate from the court and the li fe there and ,
must never be seen in any of the other
parts of the buildin g In th ese rooms
.
,
which are like little homes in themselves ,
cookin g and housekeepin g are done e u ,
tir el y i n depen dent of the other parts of
th e great palace ; a nd the tradesmen nd
their way through some back gate to these
little es tablish men ts supplyin g them with
,
all the n ecessari es of li fe as well as the
,
lux uries .
A court lady is a person age of distin o
ti on and lives in comparative ease and
,
luxury with plenty of servants to do al l
,
the necessary work Besi des her salary
.
,
which of course varies with the rank and
the duti es performed but is always liberal
,
enough to cover the necessary ex penses of
dre ss the court lady re ceives many presents
,
from the Em peror and Empress which ,
ma ke her pos ition o ne of much luxu ry .
The etiquette of the im perial house hold
is very com plicated a nd very strict th ough ,
many of the formal ities of the olden ti m es
have bee n given up The court lad ie s are
.
model s of conse rvatism I n order to be .
trained for the life there an d its d uti es ,
they usually ente r the court w hile m ere
childre n of ten or eleven a nd serve a p ,
prenticeship to th e older members In .
the rigid secl usion of the palace they are
strictly al m ost seve rely brought up a nd
, , ,
trained in all the details of court etiquette .
Cut off from a ll outs ide inuenc e s whi l e
young the li ttle court m aidens a re ta ught
,
to go thro ugh an en d l e ss roun d of fa n
m a l itie s wh ich they a r e made to think
indispensa ble T hese detail s of etiquette
.
extend not only to al l that concerns the
i m perial household but to c urious cus,
to m s among themselves an d in regard to ,
their own habi ts Many of these id eas
.
have co me down from one generation to
another within the narrow limits of the
,
court so that the li fe t here is a curious
,
world in itse l f a n d v e ry unlike that in
,
ordi nary Japanese homes .
But am on g all the l a dies of Japan to
day ,
charming in tellectu a l re ned a nd
, , ,
l ovely as m any of them are the re is no ,
1 56 J APAN ES E GI RLS AN D WOMEN .
p e ror ctual power an d the leading part
to a
i n the govern me nt Reared amid the deep .
a n d s chol arly seclusion of th e old court at
Kyoto the you n g Empre ss foun d hersel f
,
occupyin g a position very di fferent from
that for which she had been educated a ,
position the duties and respo n sibilities of
which grow more m ulti farious as the years
go by Instead of a li fe of rigid secl usion
.
,
unseeing an d unseen the E mpress has had ,
to go forth into the world n d ing there ,
the pl easures a s wel l a s the d uties of actual
leade r ship W ith the removal of the court
.
to Tokyo a n d th e reappearance of the E m
,
p e r or i n ,bodi l y form be fore his people , ,
there cam e n e w Opportunities for the E m
press and n obly has she u sed them From
,
.
the ti me when in 1 8 7 1 she gave audience, ,
to the ve little girls of the s a murai class
who were just setti n g forth on a journey
to America there to study a nd t them
,
sel ve s to play a part in the J a pan of th e
future on through t wenty ye a r s of ch a nge
,
p re ss th e fore ign ers wh e n Com m o d ore Pe rr y was n eg o
ti nting i n re g a r d to t r e a ti e s . Th e Sh og un h el d th e d a im i os
i n for ce d su bj e ction , a su bj e c ti on th a t w as sh a k e n in
1 8 62 , a nd b l a st in th e y e a r 1 8 68 , wh e n , b y th e
ro k e n a t
fa l l of th e Sh og una te , the Em p e r or was re store t o d ir e ct d
p ower over his p eop l e .
CO UR T LI FE . 157
and progress the E mpres s Haru Xc has
,
done all that lay within h e r power to a d
vance the women of her country M any .
stories are a oat which show the lovable
ch aracter of the woman an d which have ,
'
given her a n abidin g p l ace i n the aec
tions of the people .
Some years a go w hen the castle i n
,
To ky o was burned an d the E mperor and
,
E mpress were obliged to take refuge in an
old dai mi o s house a place entirely l ac k in g
in l uxuries and consi derably out of repair ,
some one expressed to her the grie f that
a l l her people felt that she should have to
,
put u p with so many i ncon veniences Her .
respon se was a grace ful little poem in ,
whi ch she said th a t it mattered little how
she was situated as lon g as she was sure
,
of a home in the hearts of her people .
That home which re can never con sume
, ,
she has undoubtedl y m ade for herself .
Upon another occasion when Pri nce Iwa ,
k ura one of the leaders of Japan in the
,
ea rly days of the crisis through which the
country is still pa ssin g lay dyin g at his
, ,
home the E mpress sent hi m word that
,
she was coming to visit hi m T he prince .
,
afraid that he cou ld not do honor to such
1 58 APAN ES E GI RLS
J AN D WOMEN .
a guest sent her word back that he wa s
,
very ill a nd unable to make proper prepa
,
r ation to entertai n an Empress To t hi s .
the E mpress replied that he need m ake no
preparations for her for she was coming
, ,
n ot as a n Empress but as the daughter of
,
Ichij o his old frien d and colleag ue a nd as
, ,
s uch he could receive her And then set .
,
ting aside imperial state a nd etiquette she ,
vi s ited the dying statesman and bright ,
ened his last hours wit h the thought of
how lovely a woman stood as an exampl e
before the women of his be loved co untry .
Many of the charities and schools of ne w
Japa n are un der the Empress s specia l
patronage ; an d this does not mean simply
that she allows her name to be used i n
con nection with them b ut it me a ns that ,
she thinks of them studies them as ks
, ,
questions about the m and even practices
,
little economies that she may have the
mo re money to give to them There is a .
charity hospital in Toky o havin g i n con nec ,
tio n wit h it a training school for nurses ,
that is one of the special objects of her
care L ast year she gave to it at the
.
,
end of the ye a r the savi ngs fro m her own
,
p riva t e a llowance and conc
, e r ning this act
1 60 J APAN ES E GI RLS AN D W OMEN .
Majesty s be nevolence is however m ore
, ,
than usually strikin g Since the foundin g
.
of the T6 ky6 Charity Hospital where so ,
m any poor wome n and children are trea ted ,
the Empress has watc hed the institution
closely has be st owed on it patronage of the
,
m ost active and help ful chara cte r and h as ,
contributed handsomely to its funds Littl e .
by little the hospita l grew exte ndin g its ,
S ph e re of action and enlarging its minis
tr a tions until the n eed of more cap a ciou s
,
premises a need familiar to such under
taki n gs be gan to be stron gly felt The .
E mpress k nowing this cast ab out for som e
, ,
means of assisting this project To prac .
tice st rict economy in her own person al
expenses an d to devote whatever money
,
might thus be saved from her yearly in
come to the aid of the hospital appears ,
to have suggested i tsel f to her Majesty
as the most feas ible method of procedure .
The re s ult is that a s um of
, yen 90 ,
sen and 8 rin has j ust been h a nded over
,
to D r Ta kagi the chi e f pro m oter and
.
,
m ai n stay of the hospital by Vi scount ,
K a g a wa on e of h e r M aje sty s cha m ber
,
lai n s. There is s om ethi n g picture sq ue
about these sen and rin They represent .
C O UR T LI FE . 161
an ac count mi nutely and faith fully kept
between her M ajesty s unavoidable expenses
a nd the benevolent im p ulse that constantly
urged her to curtail them S uch gracio us
.
acts of sterl ing effort com ma n d admiratio n
a nd l ove .
Not very long ago on one of her visi t s to
,
the hospital the E mpress visited the chil
,
dren s ward an d took with her toys w h ich
, ,
she gave with her own hand to eac h child
there W hen we consider t hat this hos
.
pital is free to the poorest and lowest per
son i h T6 ky6 and that t wenty years ago the
persons of the Em peror a nd E mpress were
so sacred in the eyes of the people that no
one b ut the highest nobles and the near
ofcials of t he co urt co uld come i nto their
presence that eve n these high n obles
,
were received at co urt by the E m peror at
a distance of many feet and his fa ce even ,
the n could not be seen whe n we th ink of
,
all th is we can begin to appreciate what
,
the E mpress Haru Ko has done i n br id g
ing the distance between hersel f and her
people so that the poorest child of a beg
gar may receive a gi ft from her hand I n .
the co untry pl aces to this day there a re ,
p e asa nts who ye t b e lieve t hat no one c a n
1 62 JAPAN ES E GI RLS AN D WOMEN .
l ook on the sacred face of the E mperor
an d live .
The school for the daughte rs of the
nobles to which I have be fore re ferred i s
, ,
an institution whose wel fare the E mpress
has very closely at heart for she sees the ,
n eed of rightly combin ing the new a nd the
old in the education of the young girls
who will so soon be lling places in the
co urt At the Open ing of the school the
.
E mpress was present and hersel f made a ,
speech to the scholars ; and her visits at ,
intervals of one or two months S ho w her ,
contin ued int e re st in the work that she
h a s beg un Upon all st a te occasions the
.
,
scholars standin g with bo wed heads as if
,
in prayer sing a little son g written for
,
them by the E mpress her sel f ; and at the
gra d uati ng exercises the speeches an d a d
,
d resse s are listened to by her with the pro
found e st int e rest The best specimens of
.
poetry pai n ti ng and compo sition done by
, ,
the sch ol a rs a r e se nt to the pal ace for her
in s pection and som e of these are kept by
,
her i n her own private room s W h e n she .
vi sits the class rooms she doe s not sim ply
-
,
pass i n and pa ss out a gai n a s i f doing a ,
formal d uty but sits for h a l f a n h our or so
,
1 64 APAN ES E GI RLS
J AN D WOMEN .
al ways end with some choice toy or gi ft ,
which the child takes h ome and keeps
a mong her most val ued treasures in r e
m e m b r a nce of her i mperial hostess In .
this way the Em press relieves the l onel i
ness of the great palace where the sou n d ,
of childish voices is seldom heard for th e ,
Empe ror s childre n are brought up in sep
arate establish ments and only pay occa ,
sioual visits to the palace until they hav e ,
passed early ch ildhood l .
The present li fe of the Empress is not
very di fferent from that of E uropean roy
al ty Her carriage and escort are fre
.
quently met with in the streets of Toky o
as she goes or return s on one of her n u
m e r ous visits of c e remony or b e ne ce nce .
Policemen keep back the crowds of peo
ple who always gather to see the imperial
carriage an d stand respect fully but with
, ,
o ut de m on stration while the horse men ,
carrying the imperi a l insign ia followed ,
1 The Em p eror s ch il dr e n a re p l ac e d , from bir th , in
the care of som e n obl e or hi g h of cia l , wh o becom es the
g ua rdia n f th e chil d C t in p n a e pp inte d as
o . er a e rso s r a o
a ttend n ts a nd th e ch il d wi th i ts e ti n ue l iv es i n th e e s
a , r
t bl i h en t f the g ua d i n wh is upp se d to ex e cise
a s m o r a , o s o r
h is j udg nt a n d
m e xp e ie nce i n th e p h ysica l a nd m e ntal
e r
tra ini ng of th e chil d .
C O UR T LI FE . 1 65
closely by the ca rr ia ges of the Empress
a n d her atte ndan ts pa ss by The ofcia l
,
.
G azette an noun ce s al most da i l v vis it s by
the E m peror Em pre s s or ot her mem bers
, ,
of the i m pe ria l fa m il y t o d ie re nt place s of
'
inte rest sometime s to va r ious
,
pa la ce s
in di fferent pa rts o f Tk G a t other times ,
to schools char ita ble in s tituti o n s or er b i
,
bitions as we l l as occa sional vis i ts to the
,
homes of high o fc ial s or noble s for whic h ,
great prepara ti o n s are mad e by those who
have the honor of enterta in ing their Ma
je s ties .
Amon g the am usements w ithin t h e pal
ace ground s one l a te ly i ntrod uced a nd at
, ,
present in h igh favor is that of horse bac k ,
ridin g an ex e rcise h ithe rto un k nown to
,
the ladies of Japan The Empress a nd her .
ladies are sa id to be very fon d of this ac
tive ex e rci se an amu semen t forming a
,
str iking co ntras t to the quiet of former
years .
The groun d s about the pal aces in T6ky6
are m ost bea uti fully laid out and c ul tivated ,
but not i n th a t artici a l man n e r with reg ,
ular o we r bed s and trees at certai n equal
distanc e s which is seen so o ften in the
,
highly cultivated gr oun ds of the rich i n
l 66 JAPANESE G I RL S A N D WOMEN .
this country The landscape gardening of
.
J a pan keeps u nch an ged the wildne ss a nd
beauty of nature and i m itates it closely
, .
The fam ous owers ho wever are in the
, , ,
imperi a l g a rde n s chan ged by art an d cul
,
ti va te d to their h i ghest per fection bloo m ,
ing each se ason for the enjoyment of the
m embers of the court E specially is atten
.
tion given to the cultiv a tion of the impe
rial ower of Japan the chrysanthemu m ;
,
a nd some d ay in November when this ,
o we r is in its perfection th e ga tes of the,
Aka sa k a pa l a ce a r e thro wn o pen to in vited
gu e st s who a re re ceiv e d in person by the
,
Em p e ror a nd Em press Here the rarest
.
S peci e s of this favorite ower a n d the odd ,
est colors and sh apes the results of much
,
care and c ultivation a re exhi bited in spa-
,
i
cions beds s h a ded by temporary roo fs of
,
bamboo twigs and decorated with the i m
perial a gs This is the great ch rysanth s
.
m um party of the E mperor and another ,
of s i m i l ar ch a r a cter is give n i n the sprin g
u nder the owe r l aden bo ughs of the cherry
-
trees .
In these various ways the Em pre ss shows
hersel f to h e r p e opl e a ,g r a ci ou s an d
l ovely g ure th o ugh d i st a n t a s she needs
, ,
1 68 APAN ES E Ow Ls
J AN D WOMEN .
E ach marks the begin n ing of a new e ra ,
the rst of the era of civi lizatio n an d
,
morality fo un d ed upon the teachin gs of
Buddha a nd Con fucius ; the second of the
,
civiliza tion and morality that have sprung
from the teach i n gs of Christ . B uddhis m
and Con fucianism were elevating and civ
il iz ing b ut failed to place the women of
,
Japan upon even as high a plane as they
had occupied in the old ba rb a ric ti mes To
.
Ch ristian ity they m ust look for t he security
and h a ppiness which it has never failed to
give to the wives an d mothers of all Chri s
tian nations .
CHAP TE R VI I .
LI FE I N CAS T L E AN D Y AS H I KI 1 .
TH Eseclusion of the Emperors an d t he
gathering of the reins of govern ment into
the ha nds of S ho gun s was a grad u a l pro
'
ce ss begin n i ng not lo ng after the intro
,
duction of Chi n e se ci viliz a tion and con ,
tin ni n g to grow until I yya sii the founder ,
of the Tokugawa dy n a sty t hrough his code ,
of laws took from the E m peror the las t
,
ve stige of real po wer and per fected th e ,
feudal system wh ich m a i n tained t h e swa y
1 Ya shiki , or sp r e a d out- h ouse , was the na m e g iven to
d u d
s city re si de nce a nd
the p a l a ce g a nd a i i o ro n fs o a m ,
a l so t o th e b a k s occ up ie d b y h is re ta ine
a rr c both i n rs ,
city a n d unt y
co I n th e city th e ba rr ack s of the s m u a i
r . a r
were b uil t as a h l l w squa re in th e ce ntre of which stood
o o ,
the p l a ce n d g oun ds f the i l d a nd th is w h ol e p l ace
a a r o r or ,
l t owns the d a im i s
w as th e d a im i6
s y a shi ci . I n th e ca s tl e
p a l a ce a nd g a r d e ns s too d w ithin th e cas tl e incl osure , sur
roun d d by
e a t wh il
a m o th e y hilci s f th sa m u i we re
, e as o e ra
p l a c e d w ith ut t h
o e m a t T h y i n tu n w e
o s e
.
p a a te d e r re r
f m th e b usi ss p a rt f t h e vill a g e
ro ne e tim s by a
o so m e
se cond o thi d m oa t
r rBy li f in ca s tl e a nd y hiki we
. e as
m ean th e l ife of th e d a im i o, whe th er in city or countr y.
1 70 JA PA N ES E GIR LS AN D WOMEN .
of h is house for two hu ndred a n d fty years
of peace .
The E mperor s court with its l iterary
,
and azsthetic quiet its si mplicity of li fe an d
,
com plexity of etiquette was the centre of ,
the culture and art of Japan but never ,
the centre of luxury After the growth of .
the Tokugawa po wer had secured for that
h ouse and its retainers great hereditary
possessions the E mperor s co urt was a
,
m ere shadow in the presence of the m a g
n ice nce i n which the Tokugawas and th e
daimi o s chose to live The wealth of the
country was in the h ands of those who
h eld the real po wer an d th e Em peror ,
was dependent for his su pport u pon his
great vassal who held the land collected
, ,
the taxes made the laws and gave to his
, ,
m aster whatever seemed necessary for his
maintenance in the si m ple style of the old
days keeping for hi msel f and for his re
,
t a i ne r s enough to make Yedo the Tok u ,
gawa capital the centre of a luxury far
,
surpassing anything e ver seen at the E m
p e r or s own court
W hi l e the k u g .the ,
old i mperial nobility form erly the govern ,
or s of the province s under the Emperors ,
lived in resp ectable but o fte n ex treme pov
1 72 J APAN ES E GI RLS AN D WOMEN .
l ived alon g the roads by which they m ust
travel The time and style of each jo urney
.
for each daimi o were rigidly pre scribed in
the laws of I ym itsii a s well as the be ,
havior of the country people who m igh t
m eet the procession movin g towards Yedo ,
or r eturni n g therefrom W hen some nob l e .
,
or any member of his family was to pass ,
t hrough a certain section of the country ,
great preparation s were made beforehan d .
Not only was trafc stopped along the
r oute but every door and windo w had to
,
b e closed By no m eans was any one to
.
sh ow hi msel f or to look in any way upon
,
the pas sing procession To do so was to .
comm it a profane deed p un ishable by a ,
ne . A mon g ot h er thin gs no cooking was ,
allowed on that day All the food m ust be .
prepared the day before as the air was ,
supposed to become polluted by the smoke
from th e res Thus thro ugh c rowded
.
cities full an d busy with li fe the dai m i o
, ,
i n h i s curtai ned pala n quin with n umerous ,
reti n ue wo uld pass by ; but wh e rever he
,
approached the place would be as de serted
,
a n d silent as if pl ague stricke n It is -
.
hard l y n eces sary to add that these jo ur
n eys attended with so m uch ceremony an d
,
LI FE I N CA S TL E AN D YA S HI KI . 1 73
i ncon venience to the people were not as ,
frequent as the trips now taken at a mo ,
ment s notice from one city to another
, ,
by these very sa me m en .
O ne sto ry current in To ky o shows the
n a rrowi n g ee ct of such seclusion A
'
noble who had traveled into Yedo across ,
o ne of the large bridges b uilt over the
Snm id a River remarked one day to hi s
,
companions that he was gre atl y d isa p
pointed ou seeing that bridge Fr om the .
pictures he said
,
wh ich I have seen the
, ,
bridge see med al ive with people the centre ,
of li fe and activity but the artists must ex
,
aggerate for not a soul was on the bridge
,
when I passed by .
The cast le of the Sh o gun in Yedo wit h
'
its moats a nd forti cations a nd its ne ,
house and great hum was re prod uced on a
,
small scale I n the ca stles scattered throug h
the country ; and as in Yedo the yas hikis
of the daimios stood next to the i nner
m oat of the castle that th e retainers m ight
,
be ready to de fend their lord at his earlie st
ba l l so i n the provinces the yas hi kis of the
,
s amu rai occu pied a si milar position about
the daimi o s castle
.
It is curious to see that as the ShOg un ,
1 74 JA PAN ES E GI RLS AN D WOM EN .
took away the military and tem poral power
of the Emperor making of hi m only a ,
g ure head wit h out real power so to a
-
, ,
certain degree t he dai mi 6 gave up little by
, ,
little the personal control of his own prov
,
i nce the power falling into the hands of
,
ambitio ns sam urai who became the coun ,
cil ors of their lord The samurai were .
t he learned class and the m ilitary class ;
t hey were and are the li fe of Japan ; an d
it is no wonder that the nobles protec ted ,
and shielded from the world an d growing ,
up without m uch education sho uld have ,
chan ged in the course of cent uries fro m
strong brave warriors into the delicate ef
, ,
feminate lux ury l oving nobles of the pres
,
-
ent day Upon the loyalty and wisdom of
.
the sa m ura i often upon some one man of
,
undoubted ability res ted the greatness of ,
the province an d the prospe rity of the mas
ter s h o use
.
The li fe of the ladies in these daim i o s
hou ses is still a livin g memory to many of
the older women of Japan ; but it is a mem
ory only a nd has given pl ace to a di fferent
,
state of thi n gs The Emperor occupies .
the castl e of the S ho g un to day a nd every -
,
daimi o s castle th roug h out the co untry is
176 J APAN ES E G I RLS AN D WOMEN .
nu merous atte ndants they Slowly wal k e d
,
through the bamboo groves or u nder the
bloom laden boughs of the plum or cherry
-
trees forming their views of l i fe its pleas
, ,
ure s its re sponsibilities and its m ean ing
, , ,
within the n arrow limits of the daimi o s
yash i ki .
The ir mornin gs were passed in the
adornin g of their own pers ons an d i n the ,
elaborate d ressin g of their l uxuriant hair ;
the aftern oons were spen t in the tea cere
in writi ng poetry or the execution
'
I n on
y , ,
of a sort of S ilk mosaic that is a favorite
variety of fancy work still amon g the ladies
of Japan .
A story is told of one of the Toku gawa
prin cesse s that illustrate s the amusemen ts
of the Sh o gun s daughters and the pai ns
,
that were taken to grati fy their wishes ,
however u nreas on able The cherry - trees .
of the castle garden s of Tokya are noted
for thei r beauty when in bloom during the
m onth of April It is said that once a
.
daughter of t he Tokugawa hou se express ed
a wi sh to give a garden party amid th e
blossoming cherry trees in the month-
of D ecember a nd ,
nothin g would do but
that her wishes m ust be carried out Her .
L I FE I N C A S TLE AN D Y A sm m . 1 77
retainers accordingly sum moned to their
aid skill ful a rtice rs w ho from pink an d
,
white tissue paper produced myriads of
cherry blossoms so natural that they could
,
hardly be distin g ui sh e d from the re al ones .
These they fastened u pon the trees in j ust
such places as the real owers wo uld have
chosen to occupy and the happy princess
,
gave her garden party in December under
the pink mist of cherry blooms .
The chil d ren of a d a im i s wi fe occupied
her attention but little They were placed.
i n the charge of care ful atten dants an d the ,
mother though allowed to see them w hen
,
she wish ed was depriv ed of the pl ea sure of
,
constant intercou rse with them a nd had ,
none of the mother s cares which form so
large a part of li fe to an ordinary Japanese
woman .
W hen we know that the ave rage Japa
ne se girl is brought u p strictly by her own
mother and tho roughly drilled in obedi
,
ence a nd in al l that is prOpe r as regards
etiquette and the duties of woman we can ,
im agi ne the n arrowness of the ed ucation
o f the daimi o s poor little daughter sur
,
rounded fro m early chi ldhood with n u
, ,
m ero us attendants of the strictest sort to ,
178 J P A A N ES E GI RLS AN D WOMEN .
teach her all t ha t is proper accordin g to
the highest and se verest standards So m e .
times by the w hi m or the indulge nce of
,
parents or th rou gh exceptional circu m
,
stances iu her surroundin gs a sam urai s
,
daughter became more independen t more ,
sel f rel iant or better educate d than oth
-
, ,
ers of her ran k ; but such opportun ities
n ever came to the more ca re fully reare d
noble s daughter
.
From her earliest childhood she was ,
addressed in the politest and most formal
wa y so that she could not help acqui r
,
ing polite man ners and speech She was .
ta ught etiquette above all thin gs so that ,
no rude acti on or speech would disgrace
her ran k ; and that she should give due
reverence to her superiors courte sy to
,
equals and poli te condescension to in feri
,
ors S he was taught especially to S how
.
kindness to the fam ilies under the rule of
her father and was early told of the n oble s
,
duty to protect and love his retainers as ,
a father loves and prote cts his child ren .
From childhood presents were mad e i n
,
her name to those aro und her ofte n wi th,
out her previous k nowl edge o r per m i ssion ,
and from them she would recei ve pro fuse
1 80 JAPAN ES E GI RLS AN D WOMEN .
co n versing S ipping tea and partaking of
, ,
sweetmeats until th eir noble pupil was
,
r eady to rec eive them Hospitality t e
.
quired that the teacher be o ffered a meal
after the lesson and th is meal etiquette
,
would not permit hi m to re fuse so that ,
both teacher and pupil m ust spen d much
ti me waiti n g for e ach ot her and for t he
lesson .
P ursued in this leisurely way the edu ,
cation of the n oble s daughter could not
a dvance very rapidly and it us ually e nded
,
with an extrem ely early marriage an d the
girl wi fe would sometimes p l ay with her
doll in the new home until the living baby
took its place to the you n g mother .
The sam urai women who in one position
,
or an other were close atten d ants on these
n oble ladies ,
performi n g for them every
act of service were o ften women of more
,
than averag e i ntelligence and educatio n .
From ch ildh ood to old a g e the noble lad ies ,
w e r e n ever wi th out on e or more of the se
m ai d s of ho n or cl ose at h a n d to help or
,
advi se Some entered the service in the
.
lower po sitions for on l y a s hort period ,
le a ving sooner or later to be married ; for
continued service i n a daimi o s h o u seho l d
m m t a n gle life Ma ny of th em re
si .
m a in e d i n the pa l ac e a ll their da ys l ea d in
, g
l ives of de voti on to t heir m istress ; the
com fort a n d ea se of w h ich hard ly com pen
sa te d for th e e n d l e ss for m a li ti es a n d the
m onoto nous se clusion .
Even the less res ponsible a nd mo re m e
n ia l po siti on s we re n ot look ed down upon ,
a n d the higher o fces i n the house h o l d
were excee d ingly honora ble Wh en once
'
.
,
in a long while a day s leave of abse nce
,
was grante d to one of these gent l ewome n ,
and load ed with presents sent by the d a i
,
mi o s l a dy she went on her visit to her
home she was receiv ed as a g reatly hon
,
ored membe r of her own family The re .
spect which was paid to he r knowledge of
etiquette and dress was never les se n ed
because of the menial services she m ight
have performed for those of n oble blood .
The lady who was the head attendan t,
a n d those in the higher positions had a ,
grea t de a l of pow e r and in ue nce i n mat
te rs th a t c onc e rned th eir m i stress a n d t he
h ouse hol d ; ju st a s the m a l e re t a in e rs de
cid e d for th e pri nc e a n d i n their own
,
way m any of the affairs of the province
,
.
The few conservative old ladies the last ,
1 82 J APAN ES E GI RLS AN D WOMEN .
relics of the n umerous retai ners th a t once
ll ed the castle w ho still remai n fa ith ful
,
i n attendance in the homes now deprived
of the gr andeur of the olden tim es look ,
with horror upon the in novati ons of the
prese nt day and sigh for the glory of ol d
,
Japan It is on ly upo n compulsi on that
.
they give up many of the now useless for
m a l ities a nd resign th e
,
mselves to seein g
their on ce so honored lor ds jostle elbow to
elbow wi th the com mon citizen .
I shall never forget the ho rro r of one
old lad y attendant on a noble s daughter
o f high rank just enterin g the peere ss
,
school when it was told her tha t each stu
,
dent must carry in her own bundle of books
a nd arran ge them hers el f an d that the a t
,
te nd a nts were n ot al lowed in the class
room The poor ol d lady was doubtless
.
in di gnant at the thou ght that her nobl e
born m istr es s should have to perform even
so slight a task as the arran ging of her
own desk unaided .
I n the d a i m is hou ses there was l ittle
of the culture or wit that graced the more
aristocratic secl usion of Ky o to and none ,
of the d uties and responsibilities that be
l onged to the samurai women so that the ,
three centu ries of training They are lac k
.
ing in force in ambition in cl earness of
, ,
thought among a n ation abou nding in
,
those qualities ; but the n ation al charac
te rist ics of digni ty charmin g man ners
, ,
a quick se n se of honor and indomi table
,
pride of race and nation co mb in ed with
,
a personal mod esty al most deprecati ng in
i ts hu mility th e se are foun d among the
,
daughters of the n obl es developed to their
highest extent With the qualities of gen
.
tl e ne s s and delicacy possessed by these la
dies w hich make them Shrink from rough
,
con tact with the outer world there are ,
m in gled the stronger qual ities of bravery
a nd physical coura ge A daimi o s wi fe
.
,
as be tted the wi fe of a warrior an d the
daughter of lon g generations of brave men ,
never shra nk from facin g dan ger a nd death
when necessary ; an d considered the tak ing
of her own li fe an honorable a n d eas y e s
cape from being captured by her enemy .
Two or three little ripples from the past
broke into my li fe i n T6ky6 giv in g a little
,
insight into those old fe ud a l times and the ,
customs that were com mon then but that ,
are now gone forever A story was told
.
me in Japan by a lad y who had hersel f as ,
LI FE I N A S TLE
C AN D Y AS R I RI . 1 85
a child witnessed the events narrate d It
, .
ill ust rates the respon sib ility felt by the re
ta ine rs for their lord and his house A .
daimi 6 fell into disgrace with the Sh6gun ,
and was banished to his own capital ,
a castle town several days jou rney from
Yedo , as a pun ish ment for some o ffen se .
The ca stle gate s we re closed a n d no co m ,
m un ica tion with the outer world allowed .
D uri ng this period of disgrac e i t happened ,
that the n oble fell ill and di ed q uite sud
,
d e nl y be fore his pu nish ment was ended .
H is death u nder such circu mstan ces was
the most terrible th i n g that could be fall
either hi mse l f or his fam ily as his funera l
,
m ust be without the o rdinary tokens of re
spect and his tombstone in stead of bear,
in g tribute to his virtu es and the favor in
,
w hich he had been held by his lord must ,
be si mply the monument of his dis grace .
This being the case the ret ainers felt that
,
thes e evils must be averted at any cost .
Knowin g that the S hag un s an ger was
probably not so grea t as to make hi m wish
to brin g etern al disgrace to their dead
lord they at once decid e d to sen d a mes
,
sen ger to the Sh o gu n beggin g for pard on
,
on the plea of desperate illne ss and ask ,
1 86 J APA N ES E G m LS AN D WOMEN .
i ng the re storation of his favor be fore the
approach of death The death was no t
.
an nounced but the oor of the room i n
,
which the man had died was li fted up an d ,
the body let down to the gro und beneath ;
and throug h all the town it was an nounced
that the d a i m ifi was hopelessly il l Forty
.
days pa sse d before the Sh o gu n sent to the
retainers the token that the disgrace was
removed and durin g all tho se fo rty days
, ,
in castle and ba rrac k a nd vil l age the c
,
tion of the d ai m ic s illn e ss was kept u p
.
A s soon as the messe n gers return ed the ,
body was drawn up again thro ugh the oor
a nd placed on the bed ; a nd all the re
ta ine rs from the leas t unto the grea test
, ,
were sum mon ed into the room to congra tu
late their master u po n his rest oration to
favor . O ne by one they ente red the dar k
e ned room prostrated themselves be fo re
,
the corpse an d uttered the formal words
,
o f con gra tul ation Then when all even to
.
,
the littl e girl who grown to woman hood
, ,
told m e the story had bee n through the
,
horrible ceremony it was annou nced that
,
the m a ste r wa s dead that he had died
,
i m mediate ly afte r the return of the mes
se nge r with the goo d tidi ngs of pardon .
n ese lady who kn ew the i nte rest th at I
,
took in seein g an d procurin g the ol d -fash
ioned embroidere d ki m onos which are n ow ,
enti rely out of style i n Japan a nd which ,
can only be obtained at second hand c l oth -
i ng store s or at private sale My frien d
,
.
said that she had j ust been sh ow n an as
sortment of ol d garments which were of
fe re d at private sale by the heirs of a lady ,
recently d ece a sed wh o h ad on ce been a
,
maid of honor in a dai mi o s house The
.
cl othes were still i n the ho use and were ,
brought in in a great basket for my ia
, ,
specti on. Very beauti ful garments the y
were of si l k crepe an d linen embroidered
, , , ,
elabor ately and in ext remely good ord er
, .
Many of them see med not to have bee n
worn at all but had bee n kept folded a w
,
ay
for years and only brought out when a t
,
tin g occasion came round at the pro per
seaso n of the year As we turned ov er the
.
beauti ful fabrics a black b roM cl oth gar
,
m ent at the botto m o f the basket aroused
my curiosi ty and I pulled it out and held
,
it up for closer inspe cti on A curious gar .
ment it was bound with white and with a
, ,
great white cres t app lique on the m iddle of
the back Curious whi te stripe s gave the
.
c oat a military look a n d it seemed appro
,
p ri a te rather to t he ward r obe of some two
sworded warrior tha n to that of a gentle
woman of the ol d type To th e question
.
,
H ow did such a coat come to be in such a
place ? the older lady of the com pany
one to whom the old days were sti ll the
natural o rder a nd the new custo m s an ex
oti c growth explai ned that the garment
right fully belon ged i n the wardrobe of any
lad y in waiti ng in a dai mi o s house for it
- -
,
was made to w ear i n case of re or attack
when the men we re away and the wome n
,
wer e expected to gua r d the premises . Fur
ther search amon g the relics of the pa st
brought to light the rest of the co stume :
silk ha ka m a or full kil ted trousers ; a sti ff
, ,
m anlike black silk ca p bound with a white
ba nd ; an d a spear cover of broadcloth with ,
a grea t white m e at upon it li ke the one on
,
the broa dcloth coat These m ade up the
.
un iform which m ust be don ned in tim e of
n eed by the l a dies of the palace or the
castle for the de fense of their lord s pro p
,
e rty
. They had been folded away for twenty
y ears amon g the embroidered robes to ,
come to light at last for the purpose of
s howi ng to a forei gner a phas e of the ol d
li fe tha t wa s so m uc h a m a tta of course to
to t he m eve n to m en tion it to a stra nger .
The e ld e r la dy of t he ho use wa s wond er
fully a muse d a t my interes t in t hes e mute
pre hend why I was willin g to e xp end the
sum of one doll a r for the sa ke of ga inin g
p oss es sio n of a se t of ga rm e n ts fo r whi c h I
could ha ve n o possi ble use The unifor m .
had p r oba bly neve r been worn i n actua l
warfa re but it s own er had been trai ne d
,
in the use of the lo ng ha ndle d spea r the
-
,
cover of whic h she had kept store d away
all thes e years ; an d had re ga rde d her se l f
as l iable to be call e d into ac tion at any
time as one of the ho me guard wh e n the ,
m ale re taine rs of h er lord were in the eld .
There a re in the shops of To ky o to day -
h undreds of col ored prints ill ust rating the
S plendor of the Sh6 gun a te ; for the ne
clothes the pagean ts the show and diaplay
, ,
that end ed with the fall of the hou se of
Toku gawa are still dear to the popular
,
m ind I n these on e S ees reprod uced in
.
,
more than their ori gin al bril l iancy of color
ing the daimi o s with thei r tr ain s of un i
, ,
form ed re taine rs proce ed ing in sta tely pa
,
table and m ixi n g m ed icines to secure the
,
health a nd strength of both mother an d
The fal l of the S h o gunate a nd the abo,
liti on of castle an d y ashiki have made a
,
r adical chan ge in the fashions o f d re ss in
Japa n O ne see s no lon ger the beautifu l
.
em broi dered robes except upon the stage
, ,
for the abolition of the great l e is u re cl as s
has put the owere d kim ono out of fas hion .
There are n o courts s m al l and great, scat
,
to red all through the country where the ,
l ad i es m ust be dre ssed in chan gin g styles
for the chan gi n g seasons an d w here the
,
embroideri es that i mita te most clos ely the
natu ral owers are sur e of a market .
When one asks as every foreigner is l ikely
,
to as k the Japan ese ladi es of one s ac
,
quaintance Why have you given up t he
,
beauti ful embroideries and gorge ous col
ors that you us ed to wear ? the answer
always is There are n o dai mi o s houses
,
now And this is regarded as a s u ci en t
ex planation of the chan ge .
I have in my possession to day two dainty
-
bits of the sil k mos aic work be fore men
tioned the work of the si xteen -year-ol d
,
wife of one of the p roudest and mos t cou
se rva tive the pre sent generation of no
of
bles A dainty little creat ure she was
.
'
with a face upon w h ich her two years of
wi fehood a nd one year of motherhood had
le ft no tra ce of care L iving am id her
.
host of ladies and women servants most of ,
them older and wi ser than herself ; having
no care a nd n o amusements save the eas y
task of keepin g hersel f pretty a nd wel l
d ressed and the am use ment of watching
,
her baby grow and hearin g the chance
,
rumors tha t might co me to her from the
great new world into w hich her h usband
daily went but with which she hersel f
,
never mingled her days were one pleas
,
ant monotonous round unawakening ali ke
, ,
either to soul or in te llec t Into this li fe of
.
remoteness from all that belon gs to the
new era i magine the excitemen t prod uced
,
by the advent of a foreign lad y with an ,
ed ucated dog whose wonder fu l in telligence
,
had been already related to her by one of
her own ladies iu-waiting I shall always
- .
believe that my in vitation i nto that e xclu
sive house was d ue largely to the reports
of my d o g carried to its pm pr ietors by one
,
of the lady servitors w ho had see n hi m per
form upon one occasion Ce rtain it is that
.
the rst words of the litt le lady of the
h ouse to me wer e a qu estion a bout the dog ;
and her last act of polite ness to our party
was a warm embrace of the ha ndsom e
co ll ie who had given un impeachable evi
,
dence that he u nderstood a grea t deal of
E nglish , a tongue which the d a i mi o h im
sel f was pd ufull y lea rn in g The dainty .
child w
- i fe with both arms b uried i n the
'
h eavy ru of the ast on ished dog is a pic
ture that comes to me o ften and t hat ,
brin gs up most pa theti cally the monotony
of an exis te nce into which so s m all a thin g
ca n bring so m uch The l ifelike blac k an d
.
whi te sil k puppy the creeping baby do l l
,
fro m Ky o to the sil k mosaic box a n d chop
,
stick case ,the work of my lady s del i
cate n gers are most agreeabl e rem ind
,
ers of the kin dness an d sweetnes s of the
li ttl e wife whose sixteen summers have
,
been spent amon g the surroundin gs of
thirty years a go and who l ives like the
, ,
enchanted prin cess of the fairy tales ,
wr appe d about by a spel l which sepa rate s
f
her rom the bustlin g world of to day The .
prod uct of the past the daugh ter of the
,
l ast of the Sh o gun s she dwell s in her
,
e nchanted house among the re lics of a
,
CH APTE R VI II .
SAM URAI W OM EN .
SAM UR AI was the name g iven to the
military class among the Japanese a ,
class intermediate between the Emperor
an d his nob les and the great m ass of the
com mon people who were engaged in a gri
culture mechanical arts or trade Upon
, ,
.
the samurai rested the defen se of the
cou ntry fro m enemies at ho m e or a broad ,
as well as the preservation of literature
and learnin g an d the condu ct of all oi
,
cia l b us i n e s s
. At th e ti me of the fal l of
feudal i s m t h ere were amon g the thirty
, ,
four m il lions o f Japanese ab out two mil ,
l ion s amurai ; a n d in this class in the ,
bro a de st sen se of the word must be in ,
c l u d e d the d a i m io s a s well as their two
,
s wor d e d ret a i n ers
. But a s the greater
a m o n g the s a m ur a i w e re di stin guished by
sp e ci a l cl a ss n a m e s th e word a s com m only
,
us ed a nd a s u sed throughout th is work
, ,
SAM UR AI Wou N . 1 97
applies to the m ilitary cl a ss who served ,
the Shd gun and the dai mi o s an d w ho ,
were supported by yearly allowance s from
the treasuries of their lords T hese form .
a distin ct class actuated by motives q ui te
,
different fr om those of the lower classes ,
and lli n g a gr eat pl ac e in the history of
the country As the nobility th rough long
.
,
i n heritance of power and wealth beca me ,
w eak in body and m ind t he samurai gre w ,
to be more and more not on ly the sword
, , ,
but the b rain of Japan ; a nd to-day the
great work of bringing the country out of
the middle ages into the n ineteent h cen
tury is being pe rform ed by the samu rai
more tha n by any ot her cl ass .
What it may be ask ed a re the traits of
, ,
the sam urai whic h d istinguish them an d ,
m ake the m such honored types of the per
fee t Japan e se gentleman so that to li ve an d,
die worthy the nam e of sam urai wa s the
highest ambiti on of the soldier ? The se
m urai s duty may be expressed in one word ,
loya l ty loyalty to his lord and master and
, ,
loyalty to his country loyalty so tr ue and
,
d eep that for it all h um a n ties , hopes an d ,
'
a ec tions wi fe , chil d ren and home must
, , ,
be sa criced if nec essa ry Those who have .
1 98 J P A AN ES E Ow LS AN D WOMEN .
l
read the tale of The Loyal Bo nin a
a story which has been so wel l told by M it
ford D ickens an d G res y tha t many read
, ,
ers m ust be already familiar with it will
remember that the head councilor and
reta iner O ishi in his deep desi re for t e
, ,
ven ge for hi s lord s unj ust death divorces
,
his wi fe an d se n d s off his children that they ,
m a y n ot distract hi s thoughts from hi s
plans ; and performs his famous act of re
ven ge without once seein g h is wi fe only ,
lettin g her k now at his dea th his faith ful
ness to her and the true ca use of his see m
i ng cruelty And the wi fe fa r from feel
.
,
in g wronged by such an act only glories in ,
the loyalty of her husband who th re w aside ,
everything to fulll his one grea t duty ,
even though she herself was his unhappy
victim .
T he true sam urai is always brave never ,
'
fearing death or s ue r ing in any form .
L i fe and d e ath are alike to him if no dis ,
~
gr ace is attac hed to his name .
An incident comes in to my mind which
3 Rdnin was the term a pp li e d to a sa m ur a i wh o ha d
l os t his m a s te r , a nd o we d no fe u da l a ll eg ia nce to a ny
d a im i . The e xa ct m ea ni ng of th e wor d is wa ve-m a n,
signifying one w h o wa n ders to a nd fr o without p ur p ose ,
l ik e a wa ve driven by the wind .
2 00 JAPAN ES E GIR LS AN D WOMEN .
that they m u st surrender for the forces a re,
to o strong for them He seemingly con
.
se nts to this an d led down to the wate r s
, ,
edge he sees across the moat his wi fe a nd
,
child who gr eet hi m wit h demonstration s
,
of joy To her he waves his han d ; then
.
,
bravely and loudly so that it m ay be hea rd
,
by friend a nd foe he shouts out the true
,
tidin gs W ait for rein forcement at a ny
,
cost for the besiegers are we a k and will
,
soon have to give up At these word s
.
h is en raged enemies seize h i m and put
him to a death of horrible tort ure but he ,
smiles in their fa ces a s he tells them the
s weetness Of such a sacri ce for his mas
ter. Japanese history abou nds with heroic
d eeds of blood di splayin g the indomitabl e
courage of the samurai In the reading of .
the m we are Often remi n ded of the Spar
,
ta n spirit O f warfare a n d s a m urai women
,
are in some w a y s very like those S partan
m others wh o wo uld r a ther die than see
their sons b ra n d e d a s cow a rds .
The i m pli cit ob ed ience w hich sam u rai
ga ve their lord s whe n c on i cti n g with
,
fe elings of loy a lty to th e ir c oun tr y O fte n ,
prod uced two Opp osi n g fo rce s w h i ch h a d
to be overcome When the dai m i o gave
.
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201
orders that the k eener-si ghted reta iner felt
would not be for the good of the house ,
he had e ither to dis obey his lord or ac t ,
against his fee ling of loyalty Divided be .
twee n the two duties the samurai would ,
usually do as he thought right for his
country or h is lord di s obeying his m as ,
ter s o rders ; write a con fes si on of his real
moti ves ; and save h is name from disgrace
by co m m itti n g suicide By this not he .
woul d ato ne for his di sobed ien ce a nd his ,
loyalty would never be question ed .
The now abolis hed custom of ha r a ki r i -
,
or the vol untary takin g of one s li fe to
avoid disgrace an d blot out entirely o r ,
partially the stain on an honorable name ,
is a curious custom which has come down
from Old times The ancient heroes stabbed .
themselves as cal mly as they di d the ir ene
m ics and women a s well as men knew
,
how to use the short sword wor n always
1
l
The sa m ura i a l wa ys wom t wo swor ds , a long one for
g hting on l y, a u d a short one for d e fense whe n p om ihl e ,
for ha m kin
b ut, aa s l a st resort , -
The sword is the em
.
bl e m of the sa m ura i sp ir it , a n d as such is resp ecte d an d
honore d . A sa m urai to ok pr id e in k e ep ing his sword s as
aha r p a nd sh ining aa m p os si b l e . He was ue ver see n
wit hout the tw o s w or ds , b ut the l onge r one he re m ove d
a ud l e ft at the frout d oor whe n he e nter ed the h ous e of a
frie n d . To use a swor d b ad l y , to ha r m or injure it , or to
st ep over it , was consi dere d a n insul t to the owner .
at the side of the sam u rai his last a nd ,
e asy escape from shame fu l death .
The young men of this class as well as ,
their masters the d a imi o s were early i n
, ,
structed i n the method of this sel f-stab
bing so that it might be cleanly and eas
,
il y done for a bloody and unseemly death
,
would not re dound to the honor Of the
suicide The fatal cut was not instants
.
'
neous i n its e e ct and there was al ways ,
opportunity for that display of coura ge
- that show of disregard for dea th or
pain which was ex pected of the brave
m an .
The ha m kir i was of cou rse a las t resort
-
,
but it was an honorable death The vulga r .
criminal m ust be put to d eath by the hands
of others but the nobler samurai who
, ,
never cares to su rvive disgrace was con ,
d e m ned to ho ra kir i i f found guilty of ac
-
ti ons worthy Of death Not to be allowe d .
to d o this but to be executed in the com
,
m on way was a d ouble disgrace to a samu
,
rai Even to this day when c rimes such
.
,
as the as sass ination of a minister O f state
are committed in the mistaken belief that,
the act is for the good O f the country the ,
idea on the part of the as sassin is never to
is ooded with s m al l ofc ial s and yet the ,
samurai now is obliged to lay down his
sword and devote his time to the once
d es pised trades and to learn how i mpor
,
tant are the arts of peace co mpa red wit h
those of war .
The dislike of anything sugges tive Of
trade or barter o f services and action s
sprin gin g not fro m duty and fro m the
,
heart but from the desire f gai n
,
o h as
strongly ti nted many little cus toms of the
day o ften m is unde rstood and misconstru ed
,
by foreigners I n ol d Japan ex perience
.
,
and knowled ge could n ot be boug ht and
sold P hysicians did not charge for thei r
.
se rvices but on the contra ry would dec l ine
,
to name or even receive a co mpensatio n
from those in their own cl an Patients .
,
on their side w ere too proud to ac cept
,
se rvices free and would send to the phy
,
s ic ia n s not as pay exactly but more as
, ,
a gi ft or a token of gratitude a su m ,
O f m o ney wh ich va r ied ac cording to the
means of the giver as well as to the ,
amount of service received D ai mi o s did .
n ot send to as k a teac h e r how m uch an
hour his ti me was worth and then ar ran ge,
the lessons accordi n gly ; the te acher was
SAM UR AI WOMEN . 205
not i nsulte d by being expected to ba rter
his kn owl edge for so much lthy lucre ,
but was m e rel y asked whether his time
and convenience would allow of his taking
extr a teachin g The request was made
.
,
not as a matte r of give an d take but a ,
favor to be granted D ue com pen sation
.
,
however would never fail to be m ade
, of ,
th is the teacher could be sure but no ,
agreement was ever consi d ered neces sary .
Wi t h th is feeling yet rema in ing in Ja
pan
, this dis like of contracts and exac t ,
charges for pro fe ssi o nal services we ca n ,
i magine the inward disgust of the samurai
at the busi n ess-l ike habits of the foreign
ers with whom he h as to deal O n the .
other hand his fee l in gs are not appreciated
,
by the fore igner an d his action s clash with
,
the E uropean and A merican ideas of in
depe ndence and sel f-respect I n Japan a .
present of money is more honorable tha n
pay w hereas in A merica pa y is much more
,
honorable than a present .
The samurai of to-day is rapidly im bib
in g new ideas and is learnin g to see the
,
world fro m a Western point of vie w ; but
his thoughts an d acti on s are still moulded
on the ideas of ol d Japan and it wi ll be a
,
2 06 J APAN ES E G IR LS AN D WOMEN .
long time be fore the loyal faith ful but, ,
proud spirit of the sam urai will die out .
The pride of clan is now chan ged to pride
of race loyalty to feudal chie f has become
loyalty to the E m peror as sov ereign ; a nd
the ol d t ra its of character exist under the
European costumes of to day as unde r-
,
the owing robes of the two sworded t e -
ta i ne r .
It is this same spirit of loyalty that
has made it hard for Christian ity to get a
foothold i n Jap a n T he E mpe ror was the
repre sentative of the gods of Japan To .
embrace a new religion seemed a deserti on
o f hi m a n d the following of the strange
,
go ds of the foreigner The work of the
.
Catholic missionari es which ended so d is
a st rousl y i n 1 63 7 has le ft the i mp ression
that a Chri stian is bound to offer alle
g ia ne e to the P ope in much the sa m e
way as the E mperor now receives it from
his people ; and the bittern ess of suc h
a thought has made m any re fuse to h ear
what Christianity really is S uch words as
.
King and Lord they have understood
as referring to te m poral things and it ,
has taken years to u ndo this prejudice ; a
feeling in no way surprising when we
2 08 APAN ES E
J AN D WOMEN .
m a n s rst duty in a l l ranks of soci ety is
obedience ; hut sacri ce of se lf i n howe ver ,
horrible a way was a duty most cheerfully
,
an d willi ngly perfor m ed when by such sac ,
r ice father husba nd or s on might be
, ,
the better able to full l his duty tow a rd s
h is feudal superior T he women in the .
d a i m ias castles who were taught fenc ing
,
drilled and uni formed a nd rel ie d upo n ,
to de fend the castle i n ca s e of n ee d were ,
women of this class women whose hus
,
bands a nd father s were soldiers and in ,
whose veins ra n the blood of generation s
of ghti ng ancesto rs G entle fe m in in e
.
, ,
delicate as they were there was a possibil ,
ity of martial p rowess about them when
the n eed for it came ; and the long ed u
cation in obed ien ce and loyalty did not
fail to prod uce the de sired results Death .
,
and ignominy worse tha n death could be ,
met bravely but disgrace in volving loss of
,
honor to husband or feudal lord was the
o n e thin g that m ust be avoided at all haz
ards It was my good fortune many years
.
,
a g o to make the acquaintance of a little
,
Japa nese girl who had lived in the m idst
of the si ege o f Wakamatsu the city i n ,
which the S h o gun s forces made their last
M UM WOMEN . 209
s tand for their lord an d the system tha t
he represented As the Em peror s forces
.
march ed u pon the ca stle town moat after ,
m ea t was taken un ti l at l a st men women
, , ,
and children took refuge within the ci ta del
itse lf to defe nd it until the l ast gasp The .
bombs of the besiege rs fel l cras hing i nto
the cas tle precincts killing the wo m en as
,
they worked at whate ver they could do in
aid of the d efenders ; an d even the little
girls ran back an d forth , amid the rai n of
bu ll e ts and bal ls ca rrying cartridges which
, ,
the women w e re m ak i n g within the castle ,
to the men who were defending the walls .
Were n t you afraid P we asked the del i
ca te c hild when she to ld us of her own shar e
,
in the defense . No was the answer A
, .
s m all but dan gerous sword of the nest ,
Japa nese stee l was shown us as the sword
,
that she wore in her belt d urin g all those
days of war an d tum ult Why did you
.
wear the sword ? we asked So that I
.
would have it if I was taken prisoner .
What would you have done with it P was
the next question for we could not believe
,
that a child of e ight would und e rtake to
defend h erself against armed soldiers with
that little sword I would have ki ll ed
.
2 10 J APAN ES E G I R LS AN D WOMEN .
myse l f was the an swer with a ash of
, ,
the eye that showed her quite capa ble of
com m i tti ng the act i n case of need .
I n the olden times when the spirit of
,
warfare was strong and j ustice but sca nti ly
ad m in istered reven ge for personal insul t
, ,
or fo r the death of father or lord fell upon ,
the children or the re tainers Someti mes
, .
the bloody deed h as fallen to the l ot of a
woman to some weak and feeble girl who
, , ,
in m a ny a tale has braved al l the d ifcul
,
ties that beset a woman s path devoted her
,
li fe to an act of ven geance and with the , ,
courage of a man has o ften succes s fully
,
consu m mated her revenge .
O ne of the tales of old J a pan an d a fa ,
vor ite subject of theatrical repre se ntation ,
is the death and revenge of a l ad y in a d ai
m i o s palace O noy a daughter of the
.
,
peo ple child of a merchant has by chance
, ,
risen to the position of lady -in waiting to a -
dai mi o s wi fe
a thing so uncom mon that
,
it has roused the jealousy of the other
ladies who are of the samurai class I wa
, .
fuji one of the highest a nd p roudes t ladies
,
at the court takes pa ins on every occa
,
sion to in sult and torment the poor unof ,
fending C a oy e whom she can not bear to
,
21 2 JAPAN Es E GI RLS AN D WOMEN .
whil e listening to the talk of her servan t ,
ha s mad e up her m ind that only o ne th in g
can blot out her disgra ce and that is to ,
com mit suicide S he hastily pen s a fare
.
wel l to her family for the deed must not ,
be delay ed an d sen ds wi th the letter the
,
token of her disgra ce I wa fuji s sa ndal ,
,
which she has kept 0 Ba r n is se nt on .
this errand an d unconsci ous of the i ll
, ,
news she is bea r in g she sta rts out O n , .
the way the ominous croak of the raven s
, ,
who are makin g a dis mal n ois e , a p re
sage of ill luck
- frightens the observan t
,
0 Ba rn A little further on the strap
.
,
of her clog breaks a sti l l more alarm,
i ng sign Thoro ughly frightened 0 Ba rn
.
,
turn s bac k an d re ac hes her mistress room
,
i n ti me to nd that the fatal deed is done ,
and her mistress is dying 0 Ba rn is .
heart broken learn s the whole truth an d
-
, ,
vows ven geance on the en emy of her loved
m istress .
0 Ba r n unlike C a oye is thoroughly
, ,
trained in fencing An occasion arises .
when she retur ns to I wa fuji in public the
malicious blow and with the same sandal
, ,
which she has kept as a sign of her re
ven ge . She then challenges I wa fuji in ,
s AM UEAI WOMEN . 13
behalf of the dead to a trial in fe ncing
, .
The haughty I wa fuj i is forced to accept ,
a nd is t ho ro ughly de feated a nd shamed
be fore the spe c ta tors The whole trut h is
.
now m a de kn o wn a nd t he d a im ib who ad
, ,
mires an d appreciates the spirit of 0 Ba r n ,
se nds for her a nd raises her fro m her low
,
po s i tion to l l the pos t of her dead mis
tress .
These stories show the spirit of the
samurai wo m en ; they can s uffe r deat h
bravely even joy fully at their own h a nds
, ,
or the han ds of husband or father to avoid ,
or wipe out any disgrace which they re
gard as a loss of hon or ; but they will as
b ravely and patiently subject themselves to
a li fe of shame and ignominy worse than ,
death for t he sake of gaining for husband
,
o r father the means o f carrying out a feudal
obligation There is a pathetic sce ne i n
.
,
o ne of the most famo us of the Japan ese h is
tor ica l d ramas i n which one seems to get
,
the moral perspective o f the ideal Japanes e
woman a s o ne can not get it in any other
,
way The play is found ed o n the s tory of
.
The Loyal Rani ns re ferred to in the be
,
gin ning of this chapter The loyal r o nin s .
are plotting to aven ge the d e at h o f the ir
ma ster upon the dai mi o wh ose cupid ity
and inj ustice have brought it about As .
there is dan ger of disloyalty even in their
own ranks O ishi, the leader of the dead
,
d a i m iO s reta iners displ a ys great caution
,
in the sel e ction f his fellow con spirators
o -
,
and practices every arti ce to secure a h
solute secrecy for his plans O ne youn g .
man who was in disgrace with h is lord at
,
the ti me of his death applies to be ad ,
m itte d w ithin the circle of conspirators ;
but as it is suspected that he may not be
tr ue to the cause a payment in money is
,
exac ted from hi m as a pled ge of hi s honor
able intentions I t is thus m ade his rst
.
d uty to redeem h is honor from all suspicion
by the payment o f the money in order ,
that he may perform his feudal obligation
o f aven gi ng the death of his lord But the .
young m a n is poor ; he has married a poor
girl and has ag reed to support not only his
,
wi fe but her old pare n ts as well and the
, ,
payment is im possible for hi m I n this .
emerge ncy his wife at the suggestion o f
, ,
her parents proposes as the only way to
, , ,
sell hersel f for a t erm of two yea rs to
, ,
the proprietor of a house of pleasure that ,
she may by th is v ile servitude enable he r
2 16 J APA N ES E G I RLS AN D WOMEN .
her husband The Japanese both m en
.
,
and women knowi ng this story and m any
,
others si milar in charac ter can see as we , ,
can not from our point of view t hat even if , ,
the body be d e led there is no d e l e m en t
,
of the so ul for the woman is ful lling h er
,
high est duty in sacricing all even her ,
dearest possession for the honor of her
,
husba nd It is a climax of sel f abnegation
.
-
that brings nothing but honor to the so ul
of her who r e a ches it Japan ese women
.
who read this story feel profound pity for
the poor wi fe an d a horror of a sacrice
,
that binds her to a li fe whi ch outwardly ,
to the Japanes e mind even is the lowest ,
depth a woman ever reach es But they do .
not despise her for the ac t ; nor would they
re fuse to receive her even were she to a p
pear ia l i vi ng form to day in any Japanese
-
home wher e thanks to happier fortun es
, , ,
such sac rices a re not demanded Just .
at this point is the di ffe rence of moral
perspective that foreign ers visitin g Japan
nd so hard to understand a nd that leads ,
many who have lived in the count ry the
,
longest to beli eve that there is no modesty
,
and pu rity a mon g Japanese women It is .
this tha t makes it possible fo r the viles t
S AM UEAI WOMEN . 21 7
of stories and those that have the leas t
,
foundation i n fact to nd easy belief among
,
foreign ers even if they be told a bout the
,
pure st most high mi nded and mo st honor
,
-
,
able of Japa nese women O ur maidens as .
,
they grow to woman hood are taught that ,
anythin g is better than pe rsonal dishonor ,
and their maidenly in stincts side with the
teaching With us a virtuo us woman does
.
,
not m ean a brave a h eroic an unselsh or
, , ,
sel f sacri ci ng woman but mean s simply
-
,
o ne who k e eps hersel f from personal di s
honor Chastity is the supreme v i rtue for
.
a woman all other vi rtues are se condary
com pared wi th it Th is is our poin t of
.
vi ew and the whole perspecti ve is arran ged
,
with that virtue i n the foreground D is .
m is s this for a moment and consider the ,
m oral trainin g Of the Japanese m a iden .
Fro m earliest youth u ntil she reach e s ma
t urity she is constantly taught that o bed i
,
en ce and loyalty a re the supreme vi rtu es ,
which must be preserved even at the sacri
ce of all other a nd le sser virt ues S he is .
told that for the g ood of father or husband
she must be willing to m eet any dan ge r ,
endure any dishonor perpetra te any cri me , ,
gi ve u p any treasure S he mu st consider .
that nothing be lon gin g solely to hersel f is
of a n y im porta nce com pa re d with the go od
of her m as ter her family or her coun try
, , .
P lace t his thought o f obedi ence a n d loyalty ,
to the po i nt o f absolu te sel f-abnegation in ,
the fore ground an d your pe rspective is a l
,
ter ed the other vi rtues occ upying places of
,
varyi n g importan ce Because a Japan e se
.
woman will someti mes sac rice her pe rson al
v irtue for the sake of father or husband ,
does it fo l low that all Japan ese women a re
un chaste and impure ? In many cases th is
sacrice is the nobl est that she believes
pos sible and she goes to it as she would
, ,
g o to death in any d re a d ful form for those ,
w hom she loves an d to whom she o wes the
,
du ty of obedience The Japanese m ai den
.
grows to woman hood no less pu re a nd
modest than our own girls but our girls ,
are never call e d upon to sacrice their mod
e sty for the sake of t hose whom they love
be st ; nor is it expe cted of any woman in
this country that she exis t solely for the
good of some one el se in whatever way he ,
chooses to use her d uri n g all the years of
,
her li fe Let us take this d ifference i nto
.
o ur thought i n form in g our j udgment and ,
let us ra ther seek the causes that u nderlie
2 20 JAP AN Es E GIRLS AN D WOMEN .
such n o timidity or m orti ca tion or fear
, , ,
o f ridicule will prevent the performan c e
of it . A case comes to my mind now o f
a youn g girl of sixteen w ho m ade public ,
co n fes sion be fore her schoo lmates of short
com in gs of which none of them k new fo r ,
the sake of easing her troubled con scien ce
and warnin g her schoolmates against si m i
lar errors The circu mstances were as fol
.
lows : The young girl had recently lost her
grandmother a mo st loving an d affec ti on
,
ate ol d lady who h ad taken the pl ac e o f
,
a mother to the child from her earliest
infan cy I n a somewhat un happy home
.
,
the love of the ol d grandmother was th e
on e bright spot ; a n d when she was taken
away the poor lon ely child s memory re
, ,
called all of her own shortcomin gs to this
beloved friend ; a nd too late to make amend
,
ment to the ol d l ady hersel f she dwelt ,
o n her own u nduti fulness and decided that ,
she m ust by some m eans do pe nance or ,
make atonement for her fault She might .
,
i f she m a de a con fession be fore her school
mates warn them against similar mistakes ;
,
and accordin gly she prepared for the lite r ,
ary society in which the girls took what
part they chose a l ong con fession written
, ,
sA M UEA1 WOMEN . 22 1
in poeti ca l style an d read it be fore her
,
schoolmate s an d teachers It was a te r .
rible ordeal as one could see by the blush
,
ing M e and breaking voice Often choked ,
with sobs and when at the conclusion she
urg ed her friends to behave in such a way
to thei r dear ones that they n eed never
s ue r what she had had to end ure since
'
her grand mother s death there was not a
,
dry eye in the room a nd many of the girls
,
were sobbin g aloud It was a curious ex
.
piation a nd a touchin g one but one not i n ,
the least excepti onal or u ncharacteristic of
the S pirit of duty that actuate s the best
women of the sam urai class .
Here is another i nst a n ce which ill us
t rates this sense of duty a nd desire of ,
atoning for p a st m istakes or si ns At the .
ti me of the overthro w of the feudal sys
te m,
the samurai bred to loyalty to their
,
o wn feudal superiors as their highest duty ,
fou nd themselves ran ged on di ffe rent si des
in the struggle accord ing to the position s
,
i n which their lord s pl aced the mse lves At .
the end of the st r uggle those who had ,
followed their dai m io s to the eld i n de ,
fe a se of the S h o gun ate found that they
,
had been ghting against the Em peror the ,
2 22 JAPAN E s E GI RLS AN D WOMEN .
So n of Heaven h imself who had at l ast ,
emerged from the se cl us ion of cen tur ies to
gover n his own em p ire Th us the sup .
porters of the Sh o gunate w hile absolutely ,
loy a l to thei r d a i m icis had been disloya l to
'
the h igher power of the E m pero r ; a nd
had put themselves in the po sition of trai
tors to the ir country There wa s a co ni ct
.
o f pri ncipl e s there somewhat sim ilar to
that w hich took place i n our Civil War ,
w hen in the South he who was true to hi s
, ,
S tate became a traitor to h is coun try an d ,
he who was true to his country became
a traitor to his State Two l ad i e s of the
.
nest samurai type had with absolute loy ,
alty to a lost cause aided by every me an s
,
i n th e ir power in the de fense of the city of
Wakamatsu a gainst the victo rious forces
of the Em peror . They had held on to the
bitter end an d had been ban ished wi th
, ,
others of their family and cl a n to a remote ,
province for some years after the en d of
,
the war I n 1 8 77 eleven years a fter the
.
,
close of the Wa r of the Rest oration 9 re ,
.
bel l ion broke out i n the so uth which re
quired a considerable expenditure of blood
and money for its suppression W hen the .
n ew war began these two ladies pre sented
,
2 24 JAPAN Es E G LRLs AN D WOMEN .
ladies ia waiti ng at the court of th e d a i
- -
mi 6 or the S hOg un they cultivated the art s ,
and ac complish ments required for t h eir
position and veiled the martial S pirit t h at
,
d welt within the m u nder an exte rior as
fem inine as g r ac ious as cultivated a n d
, ,
charming as that of any lad ie s of E uro pe
,
or A meric a TO d a y i n the new Japan -
,
w here the samurai ha ve no lon ger thei r
yearly a llowan ce from their lords an d their
feudal duties but scatte red th rough th e
, ,
whole nation are en gaged in all the arts
,
an d trades and are in fusin g the ol d spirit
,
into the new li fe what are the women ,
doing ? A s the govern ment of the land
to day lies in the hands of the samurai
-
men u nder the E mperor so the progr ess ,
of the women the new id eas of work for
,
women are i n the hands of the samu rai
,
women led by the Em press W herever
,
.
there is progress among the women wh er ,
ever they are lookin g about for new op por
tun iti e s entering n e w occupation s e l e va t
, ,
ing the home Openin g hospitals ind us , ,
t rial schools asylu ms there you will nd
, ,
the lead ing spi rits always of the samurai
class I n the re cent chan ges some of this
.
,
class have risen above their former sta te
S AM UE A1 WOMEN . 225
an d joined the ranks of the nob ility ; a nd
th e re the prese nc e o f the sam urai sp irit i n
fu ses new li fe into the aristocra cy So too .
, ,
the chan ges that have raised some have
lower ed others and the samurai is now to
,
be found i n the formerly despise d occ a
ti on s of trad e and industry among the ,
me rchants the farmers the shermen the
, , ,
artisans and the domestic servants But
,
.
wherever his lot is ca st the old train ing , ,
the old ideals the ol d pride of family still
, ,
keep him separate from his prese nt rank ,
and i nstead of pulli n g hi m down to the
,
leve l of those abou t hi m te nd to raise tha t
,
level by the example of honor and i nte l l i
g en c e that he se ts The chan
. ged fo rtunes
were not met without a murmur M ost of .
the outrage s the reactionary movemen ts
, ,
the riots and i nam matory speeches and
writin gs that characte rized the long period
,
of disquiet followi n g the Restoration came ,
from men o f this class who saw their sup
,
port taken from them leavin g them nu ,
able to dig and asham e d to beg But the .
greater part of them went sturdily to work ,
i n govern ment pos iti on s if they could ge t
them in the army on the police force on
, , ,
the farm in the shop at trades at service
, , , ,
2 26 A A
J P N ES E OLELs AN D WOM EN .
even to the hu mble work of wheelin g a
J m kis ha if other
, ho nes t occ upation coul d
not be found ; and the women shared
pa
tie ntly and bravely the ch an ged fortunes of
the men do in g whatever they cou l d towar d
,
be ttering them Th e samu rai w omen to .
day are eager ly working into the position s
of te achers interpreters t rain e d n urse s
, , ,
an d whatever other place s there are whic h
may be honorably occu pied by women Th e .
girls sch ools both govern ment and pr i
,
vate nd many of their pupils amon g th e
,
samurai class ; an d their de ference an d
obedience to their teachers and superi ors ,
their ambiti on and k een sen se of honor i n
th e school room sh ow the inue n ce of the
-
,
samurai feeling over new Japan To the .
samurai women belon gs the task a nd
they have already begu n to perform it
of establis h ing u pon a b roader an d s u re r
foundation the position of women in their
o wn country They a s the m ost intel
.
,
l ig e nt will be the rst to perceive the
,
remedy for present evil s and wi ll i f I , ,
mistake not move heaven and earth at
, ,
some time in the n ear future to have th a t ,
remedy appli e d to their own case M ost of .
them read the literature of the day som e ,
CHA PT E R I X .
PEASANT W OM EN .
TH E
great he rmin class incl ud es n ot
on l y the peasants of Japan but al s o th e ,
arti s ans and merchants ; artisans r anki n g
be low farmers a n d merchants below art i ,
san s iu the social structure It i nclud e s
, .
the w hole of the com mon people except ,
such as were i n former times altogethe r
be low the level of respecta bility the em ,
and Ma in 1
outc as t s who lived by beg
,
g ing slaughtering
,
an imals caring for dea d ,
bodies ta n n ing skins a n d other employ
, ,
ments whic h rendered them u nclea n a c
cording to the old n otion s From very .
earl y times the a gricultural cl ass has been
sharpl y divided from the samurai or mil i
1
Th e l a ws a ga inst th e ta a nd hinin, m a k ing of th em
a di s tin ct , un cl e a n cl a ss , a n d b dding
fo r i th e ir in te rm at
r ia g e w it h a ny of th e h ig h e r cl as se s , h a ve re ce ntl y be en
a b ol is he d . Th e re is no w no ra n k di sti nction of a ny
p ra c tical val ue , e xce p t th a t b e t we e n bl e a nd
no c om m o n
p e op l e . H eim in a nd sam ur a i a r e n ow indi sc im r in a te l y
m ing l e d .
PE J S J N T WOMEN . 22 9
tary Here and there one from the peas
.
a ut ry mounts by force of his pe rsonal quali
ties into the high er ra nk s for there is no
,
cas te system that prevents the pas sing
fro m one cla ss into another only a clas s
,
prej udice that serves very nearly th e same
p ur pose in kee ping sa m urai and h eimin in
,
th e ir places that the race prej udice i n this
,
co untry serves in con n in g the negroes ,
North an d South to certain po sition s an d
,
occupations The rst divi sion o f the m ili
.
tary from the pe a sa nt rv occurred in the
eighth century and since then the pe cul iar
,
circumstance s of eac h class have ten ded to
produce quite di fferent characteristics in
persons o riginal ly of the same stock To .
the soldier class have fallen learn ing skill ,
in a rms and horsemansh ip Opportun ities ,
to rise to places of honor a nd power l ives ,
free from sord id care i n re gard to the
daily rice and in wh ic h noble id e as of duty
,
and loyal ty can spri ng up and bear fruit in
heroic deed s To the pe as ant til l ing his
.
,
litt le ri ce e l d year a fte r year have come
-
,
t he heavy burdens o f taxation ; the grind
i ng toil for a mere pittance of food for
himse l f and his family the patient bearing
of all things impo sed by his superiors with ,
2 80 APAN ES E GI RLS
J AN D WOMEN .
little hOpe of gain for h imsel f w h ate v er ,
chan ge the fortunes of war may brin g to
tho se above hi m in the social sca l e I s .
there won d er that as the years have g o n e
,
by his w its h a ve grown heavy under h i s
,
daily drudgery ; t hat he k nows little a n d
u nderstands le ss of the cha n g es that a r e
taking place in h is native land that h e i s
easily moved by o nly one thing and th a t ,
the failure of his crops or the shorte n i n g
,
of his returns fro m his land by heavie r
tax a tion ? Thi s is tr ue of the him iu as a
class : they a r e conservative fearin g th a t
,
c ha n ge will but tend to m a ke harder a l ot
tha t is none too easy ; and though pea ce
able and gentl e u su a lly th ey may be moved
,
to blind acts of riot and blood s hed by any
political chan ge that seems likely to pro
duce heavie r taxation or even by a failu re
,
o f t h eir crops when they see themselves
,
and their families starvin g while the mili
ta ry and ofcia l cl asses have enough an d
to S p a re But though a s a class the far m
.
, ,
ers are ignora nt a n d he a v y t hey a r e sel
d om entire ly illit e ra te ; a n d ev e ryw here ,
th roughou t the cou ntry on e nd s m e n be
,
lo n g i ng to this cl a ss wh o a r e well e d ucated
a n d h a v e ri s e n to po sition s o f m u ch r e
23 2 J A PAN ES E G IRLS AN D WOMEN .
t he n turns to the vassals of the Sh o gu n ,
and charges them with being tyran n ica l ,
rapacious a nd l ow-minded
, Sa m u ra i .
,
he conti nues samu rai a re n el y at ti re d
, ,
but how contem pti ble they look in the ey e s
o f thos e peasants who know h ow to be con
ten ted wi th what they have l
Further on in the same memorial h e ,
poin ts out what he re gards as a grave m is
take i n the policy of the 8 h o gun A de .
cre e had j ust bee n issued prohibi ting t he
peasantry from exercis in g them se lves w ith
sword play and fro m wearing swords Of
-
, .
this he says : Perh a ps this decr ee m ay
have be e n issued on the supposi tion tha t
Japan is natu rally i mpregn able and de
fended ou all sides But when she receives .
i nsult from a fo reign country it may be ,
.
come ne cessa ry to call on the militia An d .
who knows th a t men o f extraordinary m ili
l
tary gen ius like Toyotom i wi ll not a gain
, ,
appear among the lower classes P
Toyotom i Hideyoshi , a p ea sa n t b oy , rose from th e
p oeit ion of a g ro om t o b e tb e ae t ua l r ul er o f Ja pa n d n r
ing the Middl e Age s . H e it w a s who in 1 587 im ue d a
decree of ba nishm e nt a g a inst the Chr ist ia n m issiona rie s
in Ja p a n . He is ca l l e d Fa xiba m the writi ngs of th ese
m issiona r ies , a nd m Ja p a n he to freq ue ntl y sp o ke n of a s
Taik o Sa m e, a t itl e no t a na m e ; b e t a ti tl e M
. ce d
in
a l on e , re fe rs a l wa ys to him . For furth e r accou nt of his
PEA S AN T WOM EN . 2 33
He en ds h is memorial with thi s warn
in
S ho d the Sh o gun s court and the
g : ul ,
military class i n ge neral pe rsist in the ,
present oppressive way of govern ment H ea ,
ven will visit this l and with still greater
calamities . I f this ci rcumstance is not
clearly kept i n view the con sequen ce may
,
be civil disturbance I there fore beseech
.
, ,
that the i nstructions of the glorious foun
der of the dynasty be acted upon ; that
simplicity and frugality be made the guid
in g principle of admin istration ; a nd that
a general amnesty be proclai med thereby ,
complyin g with the will of Heaven and pla
catin g the people Should these h umble
.
sugges tion s of mine be acted upon pro ,
spe ctive calamities will y be fore the light
of virtue . W hether th e country is to be
sa fe or not depends upo n whether the ad
m inistration is carried o n with mercy or
n ot
. Wh at I pray for is that the co un try ,
may enjoy peace and tranquillity that the ,
h a rvest may be plenti ful and that the peo ,
ple may be happy and prosperous .
O ne is able to see by this rather t e
,
m arkable document th at the peasant s of
,
Ja pan though frequently al most crushed
,
by the heavy burdens of ta xatio n do not , ,
2 34 JA PAN Es E G IR LS AN D WOMEN .
even in the m ost gri ndi n g pov e rty l ose ,
enti rely that indepe ndence of thought a nd
of action whic h is characte ri s ti c of th ei r
n ation They d o not consider thems elve s
.
as a servile class nor their mil itary ru l ers
,
as beyond cr i ti cis m or reproach but are ,
ready to speak boldly for their rights wh en ~
ever an Op portun ity occ urs The re is a .
patheti c story told in Mitford s Tales of
,
O ld Japan of a peasan t the head m an of
, ,
-
his village who goes to Yedo to prese n t
,
to the Sh o gun a compl aint on behal f of ,
his fellow villagers of the exto r tio n s a n d
-
,
exactions of his daimi o He is u nable to .
g e t any o ne to pre sent his memorial to th e
Sh og un so at l ast he stOp s the great lo rd s
,
pa lanquin in the street a n act in it se lf
,
pu nishable with dea th and thrus ts th e
,
pa per forci bly into his hand The pe ti tio n .
is read and his fellow -vi llagers saved fro m
,
further Oppression but the head man for ,
-
,
his daring is condemned by his own da i
,
mi o to s uffer death by crucixio n a fate ,
which he m eets with the same heroi sm
with which he dared everyth ing to save his
fe llows from su fferi ng .
The pe asant though ignorant and op
,
p r es s e d,has n ot los t his m a nhood ; has n o t
2 36 J APAN ES E o w ns AN D Wom .
beauty in form and color are stil l in sti n ct
with li fe The Japan ese arti san wo rk s
.
with pati ent to il a nd with the ski l l a n d
,
ori ginality of the artist to produce so m e
,
thing that shall be individual and his own ;
n ot simply to make after a pattern
, so m e ,
utensil or ornament for which he care s
noth ing so long a s a purc haser can be
,
found for it or an em ployer ca n be ind uce d
,
to pay him money for maki ng it It seem s .
a s eas y for the Japanese to make thin g s
pre tty and in good taste even when t hey
,
are chea p an d on ly u sed by the poore r
people as it is fo r American mill s an d
,
workers to turn out endless varieties of a t
te mpts a t decoration all so hideous that
,
a poor person must be content either to be ,
surrounded by the worst possible taste or ,
to purchase only such furn ishings a nd
utensil s as are entirely without decorati on
of any ki nd Chea p and
. n asty have
come to be almost synonymous words with
us for the reaso n that taste in decoration
,
is so rare that it com mands a monopoly
price a nd ca n onl y be proc ur ed by the
,
wealthy In J a pan this is not the case
.
,
for the cheapest of thin gs may be found in
grace ful and a rtisti c designs ind eed can
,
P EAS AN T WOMEN . 23 7
hard ly be found in any designs that are n ot
grac e ful a nd artistic ; an d th e poorest a nd
com monest of the people may have about
them the little thin gs that go to cultivate
the aestheti c part of hu man nature It .
was n ot the costly art of Japan that inter
ested me the most although t hat is of
, ,
course the most won derful p roo f of the
,
capac ity and patien ce of indivi duals among
thi s h ei min class : but it was the com mon ,
cheap every-d ay art that mee ts one at
,
every turn ; the love for the be aut iful in ,
both n ature an d art that belong s to the
,
com mon coolie as well as to the nobleman .
The cheap prints the bl ue an d white tow
,
els the com mon tea cu ps a nd pots the
, ,
great iron kettles i n use over the re i n
the fa r mhouse k tchen
i all these a re
,
thin gs as pretty and ta ste ful in their way
as the rich crepes the silver in ce n se burn
,
er s the delicate porcelain and the elegant
, ,
lacquer that ll the sto rehou se of the d a i
mi 6 a nd they show much more conclu
,
s ive l y than these costlier things the un i ,
versal sen se of beauty among the people .
The artisan works at his home helped ,
less ofte n by hired laborers than by his
own ch il d r en who learn the tra de of their
,
238 APAN ES E G I RLS
J AN D WOMEN .
father ; a nd his hou se though small 18
, ,
clean a nd taste ful with its so ft mats i ts
, ,
dainty tea s er vice its li ttle ha nging scro l l
,
upon the walls an d its vase of grace ful ly
,
arran ged owers i n the corner ; for ow
ers even i n wi n ter an d in the great city o f
,
To ky o are so cheap that they are neve r
,
beyond the rea c h of the poorest I n hom es .
that seem to the fo reign mind u tte r ly
lacking in the co m forts and even the ne
ces s itie s o f life one nds the few furn ish
,
i ngs and utensils beauti ful in sha pe a nd
decoration ; and the money t hat in th is
country must be spent in beds tables and , ,
chairs can be use d for the purchase of
ka km m ws owers and vases a n d for va
, , ,
rio ns gra tica tions of the aesthe tic ta ste .
Hence it is that t he Japanese labo rer who ,
lives o n a daily wa ge which would reduce
a n American or Eu ropean to the verge of
starvation nds both ti me and money for
,
t he culti vation of that se nse of beauty
which is too o fte n crushed completely out
o f the lower class es by the b urdens of th is
n inetee nth century civilization which t hey
bear u pon their shoulders To the Ja p
.
anese the li fe is more tha n me at it is
, ,
beauty as well ; a nd this lo ve of beauty ha s
they wi l l be pe r fectly i ndependent an d a sk ,
no m a n for their daily rati ons .
Although th e re is much poverty the re ,
a re fe w or n o beggars i n Japan for bot h ,
strong and weak nd each some occu pa
tion that brin gs the li tt le pittan ce require d
to keep soul and body toge ther and giv e s ,
to all enough to make them light-hearted ,
ch eerful an d even happy From the ric h
, .
farmer whose many a cres yield enough to
,
provide for a home of l uxury quite as ne
as the city homes to the poor li ttle ven de r
,
of sticks of can dy around whose store th e
,
children ock like bees with their rin an d
se n all seem independent con tente d an d
, , ,
satised with their l ot in life .
The religious belie fs of ol d Japan are
stro n ger to-day among the country peopl e
than among the dwellers in cities And .
they are still willing to give of their sub
st ance for the aid of the dyi ng faiths to
which they cling and to unde rtake to il
,
some pilgri mages to obtain some longed
for blessing from the gods whom they
serve . A great Buddhist temple is bein g
buil t in Ky o to to d a y from the lo fty ceil
'
-
,
ing of which han gs a striking proo f of the
devotion of some of the pe asa nt women
P EASAN T WOM EN . 241
to the Buddhist faith The whole tem
.
ple with its i m mense curved roo f its vast
, ,
proportions a nd i ts ma rvelous wood carv
,
in gs has bee n built by o fferi n gs of labor
, ,
money and materials m ade by the faith ful
, .
The great timbers were given a nd brought
to the spot by the cou ntry men ; and the
women wishing to have so me part i n the
,
s ac r ed work cut off their abundant hair
, ,
a beauty perhaps more prized by the Ja p
anese women tha n by those of ot her cou n
tries and from the material th us obtai ne d
,
th e y twisted im men se cables to be used i n ,
i l ra wi n g the timbers fro m the mo un tain s
to the si te of the te mple The gr eat blac k
.
cables hang i n the u n nished temple to
day a S ign of the devoti on of the women
,
who spa red not their ch ie f ornament in the
service of the gods in whom they still be
li eve A nd a close scrutiny of these touch
.
ing offerin gs shows that the glossy blac k
locks of the young women a re mingled
with the w hite hai rs of those who by this ,
sacrice hO pe to make sure of a quick and
,
e asy depart ure from a li fe alread y near its
close .
Al l alon g the Taka i d a the great road
,
from To ky o to Ky o to in the neighborhood
,
of some holy place or in the d istrict arou nd
,
the gre at and sa c red Fuji the moun ta i n so
,
much be loved and honore d in Ja pa nese ar t ,
will be see n bands of pilgri ms slowly walk
in g alon g the road their worn a nd soiled
,
wh ite garme n ts te l ling of m any d ays weary
m arch The ir la rge hats shield t hem fro m
.
the s un an d the rain and the pieces of ,
mattin g slun g ov e r t heir backs serve them
for beds to sleep on when they take shelter
,
for the n ight in rude h uts The way up t he
.
great mountai n of F uji is lined with th es e
pilgri ms ; for to attai n its su m mit an d ,
worshi p there the risin g sun is believed ,
to be the means of obtaining some special
bl essi n g A mong the se religious devotees
.
,
in costumes not unlike th ose of the me n ,
und er the same large hat a nd coarse m a t
ting ol d women o ften are seen their age d
, ,
faces belyin g their a pparent vigor o f body ,
as they walk along th rough m iles and mil e s
of country jingling their bells and holdin g
,
their rosaries u ntil they reach the shrine ,
where they may a sk some spe cial blessing
for their homes or fulll some vow al ready
,
ma de .
Journeying throu gh rural Japan one is ,
i mpres se d by the i m portant part played by
24 4 JAP AN ES E G un s AN D WOMEN .
women they are showing no evid ence of
,
the shrinking away wi th the ad van ce of
o l d age that is ch aracteristi c of most of
their countrywomen W ith thei r t u ck ed
.
up kim onos an d bl ue cotto n tro users they ,
st ride up a nd down the mountai n carryi ng ,
the heavi est and m os t un wieldy of burd e n s
as li ghtly a nd easily as the ordinary wom an
carri es her baby My rst a cquai n ta nc e
.
with them was durin g a camping e xpe di
tion u pon the sacre d mounta in I myse l f.
was carri ed up the ascent by two small ,
nearly naked nely tattooed an d m om
, .
scarred men ; but my baggage co nsisti ng ,
of two closely packed ham pe rs as large as
ordin a ry steamer t r u nks wa s li fted lightly
,
to the heads of these feminine porte rs and , ,
po ised on little straw pads carried easily
,
u p the narrow trail made doubly d iic ul t
,
by l ow-hanging branches to the camp a
, , ,
distance of th ree or four mi les From .
among these women of Yas e o n account ,
o f their remarkable physical development ,
have been chosen frequently the n urses for
the im pe rial in fan ts ; an honor which the
Y a s vill a gers d uly appreciate and whic h
,
makes them bear themselves proudly amon g
their l e ss favored neigh bors .
PEAS AN T wow . 245
I n other parts of the co untry in the ,
n e igh borhood of Nikk i for in stance the , ,
care of the horses mild little pack mares
,
-
that do much of the burden bearing in -
th ose m ountains is mainly in the hands of
,
the women At Nikk o when we woul d hire
.
,
ponies for a two days expedition to Y u
moto a l ittle elderly woman was the pe r
, ,
son wi th whom o ur bargains were made ;
and a close bargainer she proved to be tak ,
in g every advantage that lay in her power .
W hen the ca ravan was rea dy to start we ,
found that though eac h saddle-horse h ad
,
a male g roo m in attendance the pack ,
ponies on which our bagga ge was carried
were led by pretty little country girls o f
twelve or fou rte en their bright black eyes
,
a n d red ch eeks contrasting pleas a ntly with
the blue handkerchie fs that adorned their
h e ads ; the ir slender li mbs encase d i n blue
c otton and only their red sashes giving any
,
hint of the fact that they belonged to the
we aker sex As we jo urneyed u p the rough
.
moun tai n road s the little girls kept alon g
,
easily wi th the rest of the pa rty ; leading
their mee k shock head ed beasts u p the s li p
,
-
pery l og steps and passing an occasional
,
greeting with so me returnin g pack t rain .
,
in which the soft black eyes and bits of
red abo ut the costu me of the littl e groom s
showed th a t they too were moun ta in m ai d
, ,
ens returning fresh an d happy after a two
,
days tramp t hrough the rocky pa sses
.
I n the d istri cts where the si lkworm is
raised and the silk spun and woven the
, ,
women play a most i mporta nt part i n t hi s
productive i nd ust ry The care of the .
worms a nd of the cocoons falls en tire ly
u pon the women as well as the spin n in g
,
of the si lk and the weaving of the clot h .
It is al most sa fe to say that th is larges t
and m ost producti ve industry of Japan is
in the hands of the women ; and it is to
their care and s kill that the silk prod uct
of the isl ands is due In the silk dis tric ts
.
o ne nds the woman on te rms of equality
with the man for she is an im portan t fact o r
,
i n the wealth producing power of the fa m
-
il y and is thus able to m ake hersel f fel t
,
as she can not when her work is in fer ior to
that of the men As a farmer as a groom
.
, ,
o r as a porter a woman is and must remai n
,
an in ferior but i n the care of the sil k
,
worms and all the tas ks that belong to s il k
,
culture sh e is the equal of the stron ger
,
sex .
24 8 JA PAN ES E G I R LS AN D WOMEN .
we had te l e graph ed for rooms was already
ll ed to overowing by a daimi 6 and his
s uite . N ot a roo m could be obtained an d ,
we were at last oblige d to walk some dis
tance for we h ad dismissed o ur tired jin
,
r ikis ha men to a h otel i n the vill a ge o f
, ,
which we knew nothin g What wit h fa .
ti gue and di sappoint m ent we were not p re
,
p ared to vi ew the un known hotel in a very
rosy light ; a nd w hen our guide pointed to
a small gate leadin g into a minute dam p ,
courtyard we were quite convince d th a t
,
the hard ships of travel in Japan were n ow
about to be gin ; but disappointment gav e
way to hope when we were met at the
,
door by a buxom landlad y whose smil e ,
was in itsel f a re freshment Although we .
had little i n the way of lan guage in co m
m on ,
she made us feel at home at on ce ,
to ok us to her best room sent her bloom ,
in g and prettil y dressed daughters to brin g
us tea and whatever other refresh ments
the mysterious appetite of a forei gner
m ight require and altogether behav ed to
,
ward us in such motherly fashion th a t fa ~
tigue and gloom departe d forth with leav ,
in g us re freshed and cheer ful Soon we .
be ga n to feel rested an d our kind friend
, ,
P EAS A N T WO MEN . 24 9
seei ng this took us upon a to ur around the
,
h ouse in which room after room spotless
, , ,
empty wi th shining woodwork and so ftest
,
of mats showed the good housekeeping of
,
o ur hos tess A li ttle garden i n the ce ntre
.
of the house with dwar f trees,
moss-cov ,
e red stones an d r un n ing water gave it an
, ,
air of 0 0 0 1a on t he bot July day that wa s
al most deceptive ; and the spotless wash
room with its great stone sink its polished
, ,
brass basins its stone well c urb hal f in
,
-
,
a nd hal f out of the house was cool and ,
clean and re freshin g merely to look at A .
two days stay i n this hotel showed that the
landlady was the maste r of the house Her .
husband was abo ut the house constantly as ,
were one or two other men but they all ,
worked under the direction of the energetic
head of affai rs She it was who man aged
.
everything from the c ooki ng of the meals
,
i n the kitchen to the ll ing an d heating of
the great bath tub into which the guests
-
were in vited to enter every afternoon one ,
a fter the other in the o rder of their ran k
, .
O n the second night of my stay at a late ,
hour when I supposed that the whole
,
house had retired to rest I crept so ftly out
,
of my room to try to soothe the plaintive
25 0 J APAN ES E G I RL S AN D WOMEN .
wails my d og who was compla i nin g bit
of ,
te r l y that he was made to slee p in the
wood cellar instead of in his mis tre ss s
-
room as his habit h ad always been As I
, .
stole q uietly alon g fearing lest I should
,
arouse the sleepin g house I heard the i a ,
quirin g voice of my l andlady sound fro m
the bath room the door of which stood
-
,
wide Open Afraid that she would think
.
me in m ischie f if I did not show mysel f I ,
went to the door to nd her a fte r h e r
, ,
family was s a fely st owed away for the n ight ,
tak ing her ca se i n the gre at tub of hot
wa te r and so preparin g hersel f for a sou nd
, ,
i f short night s sleep
, She accepted my
.
m urm ured I na (dog) as an excuse an d ,
graciously dismissed me with a smile an d ,
I re tur ned to my room feeling safe under
the vigilant care that seemed to guard
the house bv night as well as by day I .
have seen many Japanese hotels an d many
care ful landladies since but no one amon g ,
the m all has made such an i mpre ssion as
my pleasant hostess at Nara .
Not only hotels but little tea houses a ll
,
-
th rough Japan form Openings for the bu s i
,
n ess abilities o f wom e n both in cm t ,
and city Where ver you go no matter how
.
,
25 2 A A
J P N ES E G I RLS AN D WOMEN .
resting places a fe w cents for eac h perso n
-
,
is s u fcien t to leave o n the waiter with the
em pty cu ps o f te a for which l e a d and grate
,
ful thanks will he shouted o ut to the t e
ti ri ng pa rty .
I n the reg ular inn the cha da i amoun ts
1
,
.
to se ve ra l do l lars, for a party rema in i ng
any ti me an d it is su pposed to pay for al l
,
the extra services a nd a ttent ion bes towed
o n gues ts by the poli te host a n d hostes s
a nd the servants in attendance The cha .
da i done up n eatly i n pa per with the word s
, ,
On cha rio t w ritten on it is given with a s ,
m uch formality as a ny prese nt i n Japa n .
T he guest claps his hands to sum mon th e
m aid When it is heard for the thin pa
.
,
.
p e r walls o f a Jap a n ese house let through
every noise voices from all sides will s hoo t
,
"
o ut He or Hui which means that you
,
h ave been heard an d u nderstood , Pres .
ently a maid will so ft ly Open your door ,
a nd with h e ad l ow down will ask w h a t
you wish You tell her to su m mon the
.
Ci a d a i ig li te r a ll y, m one y for tea, a nd is eqniva p
l m nt to our po to the v a ite rs a nd p or te u a t hote h The .
chad a i va rlu wi th the wea l t h a nd u nk of tho g nm mo
d ura tion of the st ay a nd the a tt en tion wh ich ha s b een
.
besto wed . On io the hooor ic p l aced hef m tho word in
P EAS AN T WOMEN . 253
lan dlord I n a few mo m e nts he appears
.
,
and you push the cha d a i to him mak ,
ing some conventional sel f depre ciatin g -
speech as ,
You have done a great deal
,
for our co m fort and we wish to give you ,
this chad a i though it is only a trie
, .
The landlord with eve ry ex pre ssi on of sur
,
prise will bow dow n to the gro und wi th
,
thanks raisin g the small pa kage to his
,
c
head in token of accep tance and gratitude ,
a nd wi l l m urmur in l o w tones how l ittle
he ha s done for the com fort of his guests ;
and then the sel f-depre c iation and formal
,
words o f t hanks on his s ide bei ng ended ,
he will nally go dow n stairs to see ho w
m uch he has gotten But whether more .
,
or l ess than he had ex pected nothing but ,
extreme gratitude a n d politeness appears
o n his face as he pre sents a fa n co nfec ,
t ione ry or some trie as a return for t he
, ,
cha da i a nd speeds the parti ng guests with
,
h is lowes t bo w and kindliest smile a ft e r ,
havin g see n to every want that could be
at tend ed to .
O nce at Nikk a I starte d with a friend
, ,
for a morn ing walk to a place d e scri be d in
the guide book The day was hot and the
- .
g uide-book hazy and we lost the road to ,
the place for whic h we had set out but ,
found ours e lves at l a st in a beau tiful gar
den with a pre tty l a ke in its centre a li t
, ,
tl e red lacquered shri ne re e cted i n the
-
l ake a nd a tea house hospitably Open at
,
-
one side The teakettle was boiling over
.
the little charcoal re ; melons eggs an d , ,
vario us unknown comestibles were on the
li ttle cou nter ; but no voice bade a s wel
come as we approac hed and when we sat
,
down on the edge o f the piaz z a we could ,
see no o ne within the house W e waite d
.
,
however for the day was hot an d time is
, ,
not worth m uch in rural Japan P retty .
soon a small wizened gure made its a p
,
p ea ra nce i n the distance hurryin
, g and
talkin g excitedly as it came n ear enou g h
to se e two foreign lad ies seated upon the
piazza Many bows and pro fuse apologies
.
were m ade by the little old woman who ,
see med to be the solita ry occ upant of the
pretty gard en and who had for the mo
,
ment deserted her post to do the day s mar
keting in the neigh boring village The .
apologi es having bee n smilingly received ,
the ol d lady set herse l f to the tas k of
mak ing her guests com fo rtable Firs t she .
brought two tu mblers of water cold as ice , ,
256 APAN ES E
J OLRL S AN D WOMEN .
pears of her to have given the col ic to a n
ele phant O ne day after her visit to me
.
, ,
as I was s itting upon the matted and roo fe d
square that served me for a room my eye ,
wandered idly toward the bathing beac h ,
a nd ,
under the slight shel ter wh ere the
bathers were i n the habit of d e positi n g
their sandals an d towels I spied the well ,
known yoke and fruit ba skets as well as a ,
small heap of blue cotton garments that I
knew to be the clothing of the littl e fru it
vender She ha d evid e ntly taken a mo
.
ment when trade was sl a ck to enjoy a dip
in the soft blue su m mer sea Hardly ha d
, , .
I made up m y m in d as to the meaning of
the fru it baskets a nd the clo thi n g when ,
our little friend hersel f emerged from the
sea and S itting dow n on a bench pro
, ,
cee d ed to rub hersel f off with the smal l
b ut art istic a lly d e corated blue towel that
every peasa nt in Japan has always with
hi m however lacking he may be i n a l l
,
other appurtenances of the toilet A s she .
s a t there placidly rubbing away a friend
, ,
of the Opposite sex made his appearance
on the scene I watched to see what she
.
wo uld do for t h e J a p a ne se code of eti
,
q u e t te is quite di ffe r e n t fro m ours in such
P EA S AN T WOMEN . 25 7
a predicament She contin ued her em
.
ployment unt il he was quite close sho wi ng ,
no un seemly haste but contin uing h er pol
,
is hing off in the same le is ure ly man ner in
which she had begun it ; then at the proper
moment she rose fro m her seat bowed ,
profoundly and smilingly exchanged the
,
g reetin gs pre per fo r the occasion both ,
pa rties apparently unconscious of any lack
i n the toilet of the lad y The male frien d
.
then passed on about his business ; the lit
tle woman completed her toilet wi thout
further i nte rrupti ons shouldered her yoke
, ,
a n d jogge d ch eerfully on to her home i n
the little village a coupl e of miles away
, .
As one travels through ru ral Japan i n
sum mer and sees the hal f naked men we-
,
men and children that po ur out from every
,
village on one s route and surround the
kur um a at every stoppin g place one some ,
ti mes wonders whether there is in the
country any real ci vi lizati on whether th ese
,
hal f-naked pe ople are not more savage than
civi li zed ; but when one nds everywhere
good hotels scrupulo us clea n liness i n al l
,
the appointments of to il et an d ta ble polite ,
and careful service honest and willing per
,
form a nce of labor bargained for together ,
25 8 A
J PAN ES E G I RLS AN D WOMEN
with the gen tl e st and pl easante st of m a n
ners even o n the part o f the gap in g crowd
,
th a t shut o ut light an d air from th e trav
eling foreigner who re sts for a m o m en t at
the village inn on e is fo rced to re consi de r
,
a j udgment formed only upon one pe culi p
a ri ty o f the nati onal life and to co nclude ,
that there is certa inly a high type of c ivi li
z a tio n i n Japan though di ffering in m any
,
i mpor tant particulars from our o wn A .
care ful study o f the Japan ese ideas of de
ce ncy and fr equent conv er satio n wi th r e
,
ned and i nte ll ige nt Japanes e ladies up on
this subject has led me to the followin g
,
conclusion Accordin g to the Japan ese
.
standard any exposure of the person that
,
is merely incidental to health clean li nes s , ,
o r convenience in doi ng necessary work ,
is per fectly m odes t an d allowable ; but a n
ex posure no matter how slight that is
, ,
sim ply for S how is in the high e st de gre e
,
indelicate I n illu stratio n of the rst part
.
of this concl usion I would re fer to the
,
ope n bath houses the n ak ed labo rers the
-
, ,
exposure of the lower li mbs in wet wea the r
by the turning u p of the ki m m w the e n ,
t ir el y n ude condition o f the country chi] .
dren in sum mer and the very slight cloth
,
26 0 J APAN ES E GI R LS AN D WOMEN .
plain e d and we ca n d o ju stice to our Jap
,
anese sister in a matter in re gard to w hic h
she is too o ften cruelly m isj udged .
There seems no doubt at all that amon g
the peasantry of Japa n one nds the we
m e n who have the most fr e edom and i nde
p e nd e n ce A mon g this
. class a l l through ,
the country the women though hard
, ,
worked a nd possessing few com forts lead ,
lives of intelligent independent labor a nd
, ,
have in the family positions as respected
and honored as those held by women i n
A merica Their lives are fuller an d hap
.
pier than those of the women of the higher
classes for they are themsel ves bread win
,
-
n ers , contributing a n im porta nt part of
the family reven ue and they a re obeyed ,
an d respected accordingly The Ja pan e se .
lady at her marriage lays aside her i a
, ,
dependent exi stence to become the subor
d i na te and servant o f her husband an d
pare nts ia law and her face as the years
- -
, ,
g o by shows
, how m uch she has given u p ,
how com plete ly she h as sac riced hersel f
to those about her The Japanc as peasant
.
wom a n when she marries works side by
, ,
side with her husband nds li fe full of ,
interest outs ide of the si mple household
PEA S AN T WOMEN . 261
work , a nd ,as the years go by her face
,
s hows more individuality m ore pleasure in
,
li fe l ess su ffering an d disappointment than
, ,
that of her wealthier and l ess hard workin g -
s iste r
.
CHA PTE R X .
u r n I N T H E CI T I ES .
TH E great cities of Japan a ord remark
able Opportun iti e s for seein g the l ife of the
com mon peo ple for the little houses an d
,
sh e ps with their Open fronts reveal the
, ,
n e tra l ia i n a way n ot known in our more
p e
secl uded homes The employment of the
.
m er chant bein g formerly the lowes t of re
specta bl e callin gs o ne does not nd even
,
yet i n Japan many great stores or a very
high standard of bu siness morality for the ,
busin ess of the country was le ft i n the
hands of those who were too stu pid or too
u nambitious to raise themselves above that
social class Hence English and Ameri
.
can merchants who only see Japan from
,
the business side continually spe ak of the
,
Japanese as dishones t tricky and a lto
, ,
gether u n reliable and greatly pre fer to
,
dea l with the Chin ese who have much of
,
the business virtue that is chara cteristic
of the English as a n ation O nly wit hi n a
.
2 64 J APAN ES E G I R LS AN D WOMEN .
them trad e is a warfa re between buyer
,
an d seller in which every man m ust take
,
all possi ble advantage for himsel f and it ,
is the lookout of the other p a rty if he is
cheated .
In To ky o the grea te st and most mod ern
,
iz ed of the cities of the empire the sh e ps ,
are not the large city s tores that one sees
in European and A merican cities but little ,
Open fronted rooms on the ed ge o f which
-
,
one sits to make one s purchases w hile the
,
proprietor smiles a nd bows and dickers ;
settin g his price by the style of his cus
to m e r s d re ss o r her apparent ign oran ce
,
o f the val ue of the desired article Some .
fe w l arge dry goods stores there a re whe re
-
,
price s are set an d dickerin g is n a n cees
sary and in the k wa ukoba or bazaars one , ,
m ay buy al most anything nee ded by Japa
nese of al l classes from house furn ishings,
to fore ign hats at prices plainly marked
,
u pon them and from which there is no
,
variation But one s im pression o f the
.
state of trade in Japan is that it is stil l ,
in a very primitive and u ndeveloped condi
tion an d is surprisi ngly behin d the other
,
parts of Japanese civilization .
The shopping of the ladies of the large
M E I N TH E CI TI ES . 2 65
yus hikis and wealthy families is done
of
mostly i n t he home for all the stores are
willing at any ti me on receiving a n order
, ,
to send up a clerk wit h a ba le of c repes ,
si l ks and cottons tied to his back a nd fro
, ,
quently tower ing high above his head as
he walks making hi m look l ike the pro
,
ve rbia l ant with a grai n of wheat He .
se ts his grea t b undl e care fully down on
the oor O pens the enormo us fa r cwhiki or
, ,
bundle handkerchie f i n whic h it is envel
,
oped and takes out ro l l after rol l of s ilk or
,
chi ntz neatly done up in paper or ye l low
,
cotto n With inni te pati ence he waits
.
,
while the merits of ea ch piece are ex
a m ined and discussed and if none of his
,
.
stock proves satis factory he is wi l ling to
,
come again with a new set of wares k now ,
ing that in the end purchases wil l be mad e
s um cie nt to co ver a ll his trouble .
The l ess aristocratic people are content
to go to the stores themselves ; a nd the
busines s str ee ts of a Japanese city such as ,
the G inza in To ky o are full of women
, ,
youn g and old as well as merry child ren
, ,
who enjoy the li fe a nd bustle of the stores .
L ike all things else i n Japan shoppin g ,
takes plenty of time At M itsui s the
'
.
,
266 A A
J P N ES E GI RL S AN D W OM EN .
si l k in Tokya will
l arges t store one see
cro wds of cle rks si tt ing upon the ma tted
oors ea ch with his com bos or addi ng
, ,
m a chi ne by his si d e ; and in n um era bl e
,
sm a ll boy s who r ush to a nd fro carryi n g
, ,
'
arm ful s of fa brics to the d ie re nt cle rks ,
or pick in g up the sa m e fa b ric s after t he
cust om e r who has ca lled for them has d e
pa rted The sto re appe ars to the foreign
.
,
eye to be simply a roofed and matte d pl a t
,
form u pon w hich both c l erks and cus to m e rs
si t . T h is plat form is screen ed from the
street by dark blue cotto n curta i ns or awn .
ings hung from the l ow projecti n g ca ves
of the hea vy roof A s the c usto mers .
take their se ats eith er on the ed ge of the
,
plat form or if they have come on an ex
, ,
te nde d shopp ing bout u pon the st raw m a t ,
of the platform i ts e l f a small boy appears ,
with tea for the party ; an obsequious cl e rk
gree ts them with the customary sa luta
tions of welcome p ushes the charcoal bra ,
~
z i cr to wa rd them th at they may smoke , ,
o r warm their hands be fore procee ding to ,
bus iness and then waits e xpectantly for
,
the n ame of the goods that h is custom e rs
desire to see When this is given the
.
,
work be gins ; the littl e boys are su m moned ,
268 JAPAN ES E G I RLS AN D WOMEN .
loud shouts from the whole sta ff of clerks
and small boys outcries so sudden so
, ,
si m ultaneous and so stentorian that she
, ,
can not rid hersel f of the idea that so me
th in g terrible is happening every ti me that
they occur She soon lea rns however that
.
, ,
these man ife stations of energy are but
the way in which the Japan ese merch a n t
speeds the departin g purchaser and that ,
the apparently inarticulate shouts are but
the formal ph rase Thanks for your co n
,
tinned favors which is repeated in a loud
,
tone by every employee in the store when
ever a customer departs W hen she her .
sel f is a t last ready to leave a chorus of ,
yells arises this time for her benet ; and a s
,
sh e skips into the j in r ikisha a nd is whirled
aw a y she hears conti nued the busy hu m
,
of voices ,
the cl utte r ing of aerobam the ,
thumping of the ba re feet of the heavily
l aden boys and the loud shouts of than ks
,
with which departin g guest s are honored .
There is less pomp an d circumstance
about the smaller store s for all the goods
,
are within easy reac h a nd the shops for
,
household utensils and chinaware seem to
have n early the whole stock in trade pil ed
up in front or even in the street itse lf
,
.
LI FE I N TH E CI TI ES . 269
Many such littl e plac es are the homes of
the peo ple who keep them A nd at the .
back a re rooms which se rve for dwelling
,
rooms Ope ning upon well k e pt garden s
,
- .
The whole work of the store is o ft en a t
tended to by the proprietor as sisted by his
,
wi fe a nd fami ly and perhaps o ne or two
,
apprentices Each of the workers in turn
.
, ,
takes an occasional holiday for there is ,
n o day in the Japanese calendar when the
shops a re a l l closed ; and even New Year s
Day the great festi val of the year n ds
, ,
most of the store s Ope n Yet the dwellers
.
in th ese little hom es livin g almost in the
,
street and in the midst of the hust le and
,
crowd a nd dust of T o ky o have still time
,
to enjoy their holidays and their little g ar
dens and have more pleasure an d less hard
,
work than thos e u nder si milar circu m
stances i n our own country .
The stran ger visiting any of the great
Japanese cities is surprised by the lack of
larg e stores and man u factori es an d o ften
,
wonders where the beauti ful lacquer work
and porcelains are m a de an d where t he
,
gay silks and crepes are woven There .
are no large establish ments where such
thin gs are turn ed out by wh olesale The .
27 0 J APAN ES E G I RLS AN D WOMEN .
delicate vases the bronzes a n d the sil ks
, ,
are often made i n hu mblest hom es the ,
work of one or two laborers with rud es t
tools . T here are n o grea t m an u facto ri es
to be seen an d the bane o f so m any cities
, ,
the pol lu tin g factory smoke never ris e s ,
over the citi es of Japan The hard co n .
,
n ing factory life with its never-cea sin g
,
roar of m achinery bewildering the minds
,
and intellects of the men who come u nder
its deadening i nuen ces until they beco me
'
scarce ly more tha n machines themselves ,
is a thi ng as yet al most unknown in Japan .
The l ife of the jinr ikisha m a n even hard ,
an d com fortl ess as it may see m to run a l l
day l ike a horse through the crowded city
stree ts is one that keeps hi m in the fresh
,
air un der the Open sky a nd quickens his
, ,
powers both of body an d mind To the .
poor in Japan e se cities is never den ied the
fresh air and sun shine green trees and,
grass ; a n d the beauti ful parks and garden s
are found everywhere for the enjoyment of
,
even the meanest and l o west .
O n certain days in the month in d iffer ,
e nt se cti ons of the city are held night fes
,
ti va l s near te mples and many shopkee p rs
,
e
take the opportunity to erect temporary
27 2 APA N ES E G I RLS
J AN D wm IEN .
again ; but as the evening passes pric es go ,
lower a nd lower fo r the d i stances that t he
,
plants have bee n brought a r e gre at a nd ,
the la bor of loading up and ca rry ing bac k
the hea vy pots is a w ea ry one an d when ,
the last custo mer has depa rted the m er
chan ts must work late into the ni ght to
g e t their ware s sa fely home agai n .
But beside the ower sho ws there are ,
l on g rows of booths which with the m a ny
, ,
visitors who t hrong the stre ets make a gay ,
a nd lively scene 8 0 dense is the c rowd
.
that it is with di fculty o ne can push
through on foot or i n p nr ikisha The .
darkness is illumin ated by torches wh ose ,
wei rd ames are and s moke in the wi nd ,
and shine down upon the little sheds whi ch
line both sides of the road a nd conta i n ,
so temptin g a display of cheap toys an d
trinkets that not only the child re n but ,
their elders a re att racted by them So m e
,
.
of the booths are devoted to dolls ; other s
to toys of various kind s ; s till oth ers to
birds in cage s goldsh i u globes queer
, ,
ch irpin g insects in wicker ba s kets pretty ,
ornaments for the hair fa ns candi es a nd
, , ,
cakes of all sorts roas ted bean s an d pea
,
n uts and other things too n umerous to
,
LI FE Ev TH E CI TI ES . 2 73
mention The long line of stalls ends with
.
booths or tents in which shows of dan
, ,
ci ng j ugglery educated animals and mon
, , ,
s t ros itie s natural o r articial
,
may be seen ,
for the moderate ad mis s ion fee of two
sen. Each of th ese shows is well ad ve r
t ise d by the beatin g of dr ums by the shout ,
ing of doorkeepers by wonder ful pictu re s ,
on the outside to entice the passer by or -
,
even by an occasional brie f li fting o f the
curtains which veil the scen e from the
crowd without j ust lon g enough to a f ,
ford a tantalizing glim pse of the wonders
within G re at is the fascination to the
.
children i n all these th ings a nd the little ,
feet are never weary until the last booth
is passed and the quiet of neighborin g
,
stree ts lighte d only by wandering lan
,
terns strikes the home re turn ing party by
,
-
its contrast with the light and noise of the
festi val The suppos ed obj ect of the expe
.
dition the visit to the temple has occupied
, ,
but a sm a ll share o f time and attention ,
and the little hands are lled with the
amusin g toys an d t r ie s bought and the ,
little minds with the merry sights seen .
Nor are those who remain at home forgot
ten but the pleasure seekers who vi sit the
,
-
2 74 J APAN ES E G I R LS AN D WOMEN .
fair carry away with them little gifts for
e ach member Of the fam ily a n d the 0 m i ,
age or present given o n the return is a
'
, ,
regular inst itution O f Japanese home li fe 1
.
By ten o clock when the crowds have
,
dispers ed and the purchasers have all gon e
home and gone to be d the busy booth k eep ,
-
ers take down thei r stalls pa ck up their ,
ware s and disappear leavi ng no trace of the
, ,
n igh t s gayeties to greet the morn ing sun
.
Beside these evening shows which oc ,
cur monthly O r o ftener there are a lso great ,
festivals o f the va r ious gods some cele ,
b ra te d an nually others at i ntervals o f some
,
years These m a tsu r i las t for several days
.
,
and during that ti me the quarter of the
city in wh ich they occur see ms entirely
given over to festivity The streets a re .
gayly de corate d with a gs and bright Ia n ,
t rns all alike in design and color are
e .
hu ng in rows from the low caves of the
ho uses Young bamboo-trees set along the
.
street and decorate d with bits of bri ght
,
-
colore d ti s sue paper are a frequent a nd e f ,
O m ia gbe giv e n, not onl y on the re turn from
m ust
a n e ve ni ng of p l ea s ure b ut al s o o n the re t ur n fr om a ou r j
ne y or pl ea s ure tr ip of a n y k in d
As a rul e , the l onger.
th e a bse n ce , the ne r a nd m ore costl y m us t b e the pr e
2 76 A A
J P N ES E G I RLS AN D WOMEN .
dancing girls are hire d to march in t he
-
m o ts ur i procession o r to da n ce upon th e
,
lo fty da shi At th e time O f the festivi ti es
.
w hich accompan ied the prom ulgation of
the Co n st itution th ree days of jol l ica ti on
,
were held in To ky o days of s uch un iversal
,
fun and frolic that it will be known a mon g
the com mon people to all succ ee ding ge n
,
e ra tio ns as the Em peror s big
,
Every quarter of the city vied with every
other in the production Of go rgeous da shi ,
an d the st reets were gay with every con
ce i va bl e variety of deco ration from the lit ,
tle r ed -an d white pape r lantern s that even
-
,
the poorest hun g be fore their houses to ,
the gre at evergreen arches set with elec ,
tric lights with wh ich the great business
,
stree ts were spann ed thickly from end to
end A n evening walk through one Of
.
these thorough fares was a sight to be r e
membered for a li fetime The m agnice nt
.
das hi represented all manner of quaint
conceits . A great bivalve d rawn by y ell
.
ing cro ds which halted occas ionally
w
0 pen ed and displayed betw ee n its shells
a group of beauti fully dressed girls who ,
danced one of the pan tomi mic dances of
the country accom panied by the twan ging
,
LI FE IN TH E CI TI ES . 2 77
melodies of the sa m isen Then slowly th e .
great s hell closed once more the shout ,
ing crowds seized hold of the straining
ropes and th e great bivalve with its fai r
,
freight was d r a wn s lowly alon g through the
gayly illu minated streets Ji m m u Ten n o .
and other heroes of Japane se legend or his
to ry e ach upo n its lo fty platfor m a white
, ,
e lephant and countless other subjects were
,
repre sented i n the festival cars sent forth
by a l l the districts of the city to celebrate
the great event .
Upon such festival occasions the shOp
keeper does not put up his shutte rs a nd
leave his pl ac e of busine ss but the Ope n ,
shop fro nts add much to the gay appea r
-
ance of the street There are n o signs of .
bu sine ss about but the oor of the shop is
,
covered wit h bright red blankets ; m a g ni -
cent gilded screens form an i m posing back
ground to the little room ; a nd sea ted on
the oor are the sho pkeeper his family , ,
and guests eati n g d rinking tea a nd sm ok
, , ,
i ng as cosily as if all the world and his
,
w i fe were not gazing upon the gay and
h o m e like interior Someti m es compan ies
.
o f d a ncers or other entertain men t s fur
,
n is h e d by the wea lthier shopkeepers w ill ,
2 7 8 JAPA N ES E G I RLS AN D WOMEN .
att ract gapin g crowds wh o watch and block
,
the street unti l the advance guard o f so m e
approaching do shi scatters them for a mo
me nt.
I n Japan as i n other parts of the world
, ,
the country pe ople a re rather looked do wn
upon by the dwellers i n the city for thei r
slowness of in tellect dowdiness of dre ss
, ,
and boorish nes s of man ners ; while the
country people make fun of the fads an d
fash ions O f the city and rejoice th a t they
,
are not them s elves the slaves of novel ty ,
and espe cially o f the foreign innovations
that play so prominent a part in Japanese
ci ty li fe to day
-
. The frog in the well
knows not the g reat ocean is the sn ub ,
with which the Japan es e cock ney sets down
Farmer Rice-Field s expression s Of Opinion
while the conservative countryman laughs
at the foreign a ecta t ions of the To ky o man
'
and returns to his villa ge with tales of the
cookery of the capital : so extravagant is
i t that sugar is used in everything ; it is
even ru mored that the Toki te s p ut suga r
'
in their tea .
But while the cou nt ry laughs and won
ders at the city nevertheless in Japan as
, ,
elsewhere there is a constant crowding o f
,
dres ser may make a handsome livi n g ; i n
deed she does so well that it is proverbia l
,
among the Japanese that a hair dress er s -
husband has nothin g to do Though pro .
fess ional tai l o rs are most ly m e n many wo ,
m e n earn a small pittance in takin g i n
se wing and in gi vin g sewin g lessons ; an d
as instructors in the ceremonial tea eti ,
q ue tte ,
music pai
,
nting and ower
, ar
rangement many wo men of the Old sch ool
,
a re able to ea rn an independen ce though ,
n one of the se occu pati ons are con n ed to
the women alone .
The busi n ess of hote l keeping we have
-
referred to in a previous chapte r an d it ,
is a well known fact that un l ess a hotel
-
kee per has a capable wi fe his busines s wil l
,
not succee d A t present all over Toky o
.
, ,
small restaurants where food is se rved in
,
the foreign style a re sprin gin g up and
, ,
these are usu a lly conducted by a m a n an d
his wi fe who have at some time se rved as
cook and waitre ss i n a fo reign family an d ,
who conduct the business cooperatively and
o n te rms of good fello wship and equality
- .
I n these little eating hou ses where a well
-
,
cook ed fore i g n din ner of from thre e to six
courses is served for the moderate su m of
LI FE I N TH E CI TI ES . 281
thi rty or forty cents the man usually does
,
the cooki ng the woman the serving a nd
,
handlin g of the money u ntil the time ar ,
rives when the pro ts of the business are
sufcient to j usti fy the hiring of more help .
When this time co mes the labor is re ,
di stributed the woman frequently takin g
,
u pon hersel f the recepti on of the guests
and the keeping of the accounts while the ,
hired help waits on the tables .
O ne i mportant calling i n the eyes of ,
many persons espec ially those of the lower
,
cl asses is that O f fortu ne te lling ; and
,
-
these guides in all matters of l ife both ,
great and small are to be found i n every
,
section o f the city They are consulted on
.
every i m porta nt step by believin g ones of
all clas ses An impending marriage a n
.
,
illness the l oss of any valuable article a
, ,
journey about to be takeu these are all ,
subjec ts for the fortu ne teller He tells the
-
.
ri ght day o f marriage an d says whether
,
the fates of the two parties will combin e
well ; gives clues to the cau ses of sudden
illness and in formation as to what h as
,
become of lost arti cles and whether they
,
will be recove red or not Warned thus by .
the fortun e teller against evils that may
ha ppe n , m a ny in ge nious e xp e die n ts a re
m one d tm to u oid the ill fo reto l d .
A nn a a nd hi s fa m ily we re a bout to
m o ve om
'
t he ir resid e n ce to a not he r pa r t
of the city . The y se n t to know if thc
fa tes were p ro pitious to the cha uge for a ll
the fa m ily . The da y m d yw of bi rth of
hunte d up the va rious sig ns and sen t word ,
t ha t the dire ct ion of the new ho me was
e xce l le n t for the good l uc k of t he fa m i l y
as a whol e , a nd the m ove a ood one foa
g
'
ea c h m em ber of it e xce pt one of the sons ;
the next yea r the sam e m ove would be ba d
for the fa ther As the family could not
.
wa it two ye ars before m oving it was d e ,
ci ded tha t the ch an ge of resi d e nce shou l d
be m d e a t once but tha t the 8 0 m should
,
l ive wi th his un cle un til the n ext yea r .
The uncle s ho me was howe v er inc oa
, ,
ve n ie ntl y remote a n d so the youn g m an
,
stayed as a vi s itor at his fath er s house for
the re mai n ing m on ths of the yea r a fte r ,
which he became on ce more a mem ber of
the house hold Th us the inconvenien ce
.
a n d the evi l were both a voided .
A nother sto ry com es to my mi nd no w of
a dear o ld lady the Go I nkyo Same of a
,
The other was the spirit of a horse th a t
h a d once belonged in the family a nd that,
a fte r death reve n ged i t sel f u pon its forme r
m aste rs for the hard service wherewith
it h ad been made to serve Th e only wa y
i n which these two powers could be a p
p e a se d wo u ld be by nding the well a n,d
re moving the obstructions that choked it ,
a n d by erectin g an image of th e horse and
o e r in g to it cakes and other m ea t offer
'
-
i ngs . The fortune teller hinte d moreover
-
, ,
t hat for a con siderati on he might be able
to a fford m ate rial aid i n the search for the
well .
A t this in form a tion Go I nk yo Sama was
m uch pe rturbe d ,
for fu rther aid for her
a ficte d family seemed to require the use
of m oney ,
and of that com mod ity she had
very little be in g m ainly dependent upon
,
h e r brother for support . She returned to
h er h ome a nd consulted the servants u pon
th e matte r ; but though they quite agreed
with her th at somethin g should be done ,
they had little capi tal to i nvest in the en
te r pr i se s s uggeste d by the fortune teller
- .
At last the old l a dy we n t to her brother
, ,
but h e o nly laug hed at h e r well m e an t a t
-
tempts to h e lp h is family a nd re fused to
,
LIFE uv TH E czr w s . 285
give her money for such a purpose She .
retired disco uraged but urged by the ser
, ,
vants she d ecided to make a last appeal
, ,
this ti me to her siste r-in-law who must ,
surely be moved by the evil that was threat
cuing hers el f and her child ren Taking .
some of the head servants with her she ,
went to her sister and presented the case .
Th is was her last resort and she clung to
,
her forlorn hOpe longer than many would
have done the servants adding their argu
,
m ents to her i mpassioned appe als only to ,
nd out a fte r all that the stead fast sister
could not be moved an d that she w
, ould
not propitiate the horse s sp irit or allow
,
m oney to be used for such a purpose S he .
gave it up then and sat down to await the
,
fate of her doomed hou se doubtless won ,
deri ng much an d sigh ing o ften over the
foolis h skeptic is m of her near relatives ,
and wish in g that the rationalistic tenden
cies of the time would take a less dange r
ous form than the negl e ctin g of the plainest
pre cautions for li fe an d health The fate .
h as not yet come and now at last G o I n
,
k yo Sama seems to have re sign ed herself
to the belie f that it has been av e rted from
the heads of the dear on e s by a power nu
k nown to the fortune te ller - .
286 J APA N ES E GI RLS AN D WOMEN .
B side these ca ll in gs there a re o th er
e
,
employments which are not regarded as
wholly respectable by either J a pa nese or
foreigners The gisha ya or es tabli sh
.
,
ments where dan c in g girls are train ed an d -
,
let out by the day or evening to tea houses -
or priv a te parties a re usually m anag ed by
,
women . At th ese es tablish m e nts l ittle
gir ls a re taken sometimes by con tract with
,
the ir parents sometimes adopted by the
,
propri etors of the ho use a nd fro m very ,
early youth a re trained not only in the ar t
of dancing but are taught s in ging an d
,
sunrise w pl ayi ng all the etiquette of serv
,
ing and enterta in in g guests an d whatever ,
el se goe s to make a girl charming to the
opposite se x When tho roughly taught ,
they form a val ua ble investment and well ,
repay the labor s pent upon t hem for a ,
popu lar geisha com mands a good price
everywhe re and has her ti me over crowded
,
w ith en gagements A Japanese enterta in .
ment is hardl y regarded as compl ete wi th
o ut g is ha s in attendance and their dan ,
cing mu sic and graceful service at supper
, ,
fo rm a ch a rming addition to an eveni ng
o m e ut at a tea house It is th e se
of e n d y - .
g e is hns t o
,
o, who at m a ts ur i ar e hired to
288 J APA N ES E G I RLS AN D wow .
the supper room and ply their tem po rary
-
employers with the sa ke bottle laughin g ,
and jesting the while unti l the re is litt l e
,
wonder if the youn g men at the ente rta in
ment d rink more than is good fo r them ,
and leave the tea house at last tho roughly
-
tipsy and enslaved by the brig ht eyes an d
,
merry wits of some of the Hebes who have
beguiled them th rough the eveni n g .
Th e geishas un fortunately t hough fa ir , ,
are fra il I n their syste m of education
.
,
man ners stan d higher than morals an d ,
m any a geisha gladly leaves the dancing in
the te a houses to become the concubine of
some wea lthy Japanese or fore igner th ink ,
i ng n one the worse of hersel f for such a
bus iness arran ge ment a nd going chee r
,
fully back to her regular work sh outd ,
her contract be un expectedly ended The .
geisha is not necessarily bad but there is ,
i n her li fe m uch temptation to evil an d ,
little stimulus to do right so that where , ,
one lives blameless many go wrong a nd
, ,
d rop below the margin of respectability a l
together Yet so fas cinati ng bright and
.
, ,
l ively are these geishas that many of the m
have been taken by men of good posi
tion as wives and are now the h eads of
,
LI FE I N TH E CI TI ES . 28 9
the mo st re spectable homes Without .
true educa tion or morals but trained ,
thoroughly i n a ll the arts and accomplish
m ents that pl ease witty quick at re pa r
, ,
tee p retty and always well dre ssed
, ,
the ,
geisha has prov ed a formidable ri val for
the demure quiet m aiden of good family
, ,
who can only give her husband a n nus nl
lied name silent obedience and faith ful
, ,
service all her li fe The fre edom of the
.
present a ge as shown in the chapter on
,
Marriage an d D ivorce an d as seen in ,
the choice of s uch w ives h as pre sented ,
this great problem to the thinking women
of Japan . I f the wiv e s of the leaders i n
Japan are to come from among such a
class of women somethin g m ust be done
, ,
and done quickly for the sake of the future
,
of Japan ; either to raise the standard s of
the men in regard to women or to chan ge ,
the old syste m of ed ucation for girls A .
liberal educati on an d more freedom in
,
early li fe for women has been sugges ted , ,
and is now bein g t ried but the pro blem of ,
the geisha an d her fascination is a deep
o ne in Japan .
Below the geisha in respectability stands
the j o ro or lice nsed prostitute Every
,
.
city in J a pan has i ts disreputa ble quarter ,
whe re the va rious j ar a ya or lice n sed h ous es
'
of pro stitution are si t uated ,
The s a pe rvi .
sio n that the gov e rn ment exerci ses ov e r
t h es e places is extre mely rigid ; the effort
is made by licensin g and re gulating the m
, ,
to minimize the e vi ls that m ust o w fro m
th e m The proprietors of the jr oya do
'
e v e rything i n thei r power to make their
hou se s gro unds an d em ployees attracti ve
, , ,
and to the un sus pecting forei g ner this
, ,
portion of the city seems o ften the ple a s
untes t and mo s t res pectable A j ars n ee d .
n e ver be tak e n for a respectable woman ,
for her d re ss is d istinctive and a stay of ,
a short ti me i n Japan is l ong enough to
teac h e ven the most obt use that the obi or ,
sa s h ti ed in fro nt i nste ad o f behi nd is one
, ,
o f the bad ge : of shame But though the .
occupa tion of the j o ro is altogether isre p
d
'
n tabl e though the pros titute quarter is
,
the s pot to which the police tu r n for i n
lh r nm tion in re ga rd to cri mi nals an d law
l noa ke rs a sort of a trap in to whic h soone r
, ,
or l a te r the o ffender a gainst the law is
,
s ure to fall Japanese pu bl ic opinion
, ,
though re cog nizin g the ev il a s a great o ne ,
doe s no t look u pon the pro fessional pros ti
2 92 APA N ES E GI RLS
J AN D WOMEN .
tion m ust nd its m ate rials where it ca n .
These j r ya give employment to tho u
' '
sands of women throughout t he country ,
but in few ca ses do the women seek th a t
e mployment and more Openin gs in reS pec
,
table directions together with a chan ge i n
,
public Opinion securin g to every woman
the right to her own person would ten d to ,
di mi ni s h the nu mbe r of victi ms that these
in stitutions yearly draw in to their devour
ing current .
I n nocent a nd reputable am usements are
m any and v a ried in the cities We have .
already m entioned incidentally the thea
tre as one of the favorite diversions of the
people ; and though it has never been t e
garded as a very rened amusement it has ,
d one a n d is doing m uch for the educa
tion of the lo wer classe s i n the hi story an d
S pirit of former times Re gular pl a ys were
.
n e ver per fo r m ed in the pre sence of th e
E m peror a nd h i s court or th e Sh o gun a n d
,
h is nobl e s but the N o d an c e wa s the only
,
d ra m a tic amu sem e n t of the nobility This .
N O i s an a ncient Japan e se th ea trical per
for m a nce more perha p s li k e the G re ek
, , ,
dra m a than a nythi n g i n o ur m od e rn li fe .
Al l th e moveme nts of the a c tor s are meas
LI FE I N TH E CI TI ES . 2 93
ured and conventionalized spe ech is a poet ,
ical recitative the costum es are sti an d
'
antiq ue m asks a re m uch used and a chorus
, ,
seated upon the stage chants audible co m
men ts upon the various situations This .
alone the most ancient and cl as sical of
,
Japanese theat rical performance s is con ,
sid ere d worthy of the attentio n of the E m
p ero r and the nobility an d takes the place
,
with them of the more vulgar an d realistic
plays whic h delight co m mon people .
The regular theatre preserves in m any
ways the li fe an d costumes of Ol d Japan ,
an d the details of d ress and scener y are
most care fully studied The actors a re usu.
ally men though the re are women t h ea
,
tres in which all the parts are pe rformed
by women I n n o case are the rd l es taken
.
by both sexes upon one stage As the per .
form a nces last all day fro m te n or el eve n,
i n the forenoon u nti l eight or n in e in the
even in g going to the theatre mea ns mu ch
,
more than a fe w hours of entertain ment
after the day s work is over A lunch an d
.
din ner with inn umerable light edibles be
,
tween go to make up the usual bill of fare
,
for a d ay at the play and tea houses in the
-
,
n eighborhood of the theatr e provide the
n ece ss ary meal s a room to take th e m i n a
, ,
'
resti ng place betwee n the a cts and w hat
-
,
ever te a cak es and ot her re fresh m en ts
, ,
may be ordered These latter eatabl e s a re
.
ser ved by the atten dan ts f the tea house
o -
i n the thea tre boxes while the play is in
progress an d the p l aygoers eat and smoke
,
all day l ong th rough roa rin g farce or gori
es t tr aged y .
S imilar to the th eatre i n m any ways a re
the public halls where profes sional sto ry
,
te llers the ha na sln lm n ight afte r n ight
'
, , ,
relate lon g stories to crowded audiences as ,
powerfully and vi vidly as the bes t train ed
elocutionist Each gesture and each mod
.
,
ul a tio n of the voice is studi ed as ca re
,
fully as are those of the actors Many charm .
in g tales are told of old J a pan and ev e n ,
Weste rn stories have found their way to
these assemblies A lon g story is O ften
.
continued from n igh t to night u ntil n
i ehed Un fortunately the cl a ss of people
.
,
who patronize these places is l ow and the ,
moral tone of some of the stori es is pitch ed
accordingly ; but the best of the sto ry -tell
ers those who have talent and reputa
tion are o ften i n vite d to come to ente r
tain ments given at private houses to amuse ,
qui ck sa l e for fr uit con fecti on ery a nd lig h t , ,
l un ches S a kc is ofte n too free ly imbi be d
by t he m e m m a k e rs whose ushed fa ce s ,
sh ow whe n re t ur ning homew a rd how th e i r
, ,
d a y was spen t There is m uch qui et e n .
of the l ovely bl osso m s h
jyo m e n t too , ,
t e ,
b roa d ca lm river and the ga yly dress ed
, ,
c rowds H undreds a nd thou sands of vi si t
.
or s crowd to the subur ba n places ab ou t
Tok yo to Uy eno P ark f or its cherry a n d
,
a h blossom s Kam eido l o r the plum a n d
p e c ,
wist a ria Oji for its famous maple tre es
,
-
,
a nd many others e a ch n ote d for some spe ,
cia l beauty D ango ! aka h as its own pe
.
cul ia r attraction the famous chrysa nth e ,
m um dolls Th ese ingenious gures a re
.
arranged so as to form tableaux sce n es ,
fro m hi story or ction well k n ow n to all
the people T hey are Of li fe size and the
.
,
fa ces hands and feet are made of some
, ,
com position and closely resemble l i fe in
,
ev e ry d e tail But the curious thi n g in
.
th e se ta blea ux is that the scenery whether ,
it be th e representation of a waterfall rocks , ,
or b us h e s the anim a ls an d the dresse s of
, ,
the g ure s a re m a d e e ntire ly of chry s s a
the m n m t wi g s l e a v e s a n d ow e r s not c ut
, , ,
a nd wo ve n i n a s at t he r st gl a nce t hey ,
LI FE I N THE CI TI ES . 297
seem to be ,
so closely a re the leaves and
owers bound toget her to make the a t
sur ace of d ifferent objects
f but al ive an d ,
growing on the pl a n ts It is imposs ible .
to tell where the roots a nd ste ms are hid
den for nothing is vi sible but (for ex
,
am p le ) the w hite spray an d gre en ish shad
ows of a waterfal l or the pa rti co lored g
,
-
ures in a young gir l s d ress But sho uld
.
,
it be the visitor s good fortune to watc h the
repai ring of one of these lifelike images he ,
will nd that the entire body is a frame
woven of split ba mboo within whi ch the ,
plants are placed their roots packed i n
,
damp earth an d bound about with straw ,
while their leaves and owers are pulled
th rough the basket fra me and woven into
whatsoever pattern the arti stic eye and
ski ll ful n ge rs of the ga rdener m a y select .
A roo f of matting shields each g rou p fro m
the s un by day and a slight spri nkling
,
every night serv es to kee p the plan ts fresh
for nearly a month and the owers co n
,
tin ue their blooming d uring that time as ,
cal mly as if in perfectly natu ral positions .
Each of the gardeners of the neighborhood
h a s his own little show containin g several
,
tableaux the entrance to which is guarded
,
by an gate kee per who shouts out
otli c io us -
,
the merits o f his pa rticular groups of g
ures and forces h is show b ills u pon the
,
-
passer-by i n the hOpe of securing the two
,
sen admi ssion fee which is required for
e ach exhibit .
A nd so am id the shopping the fes ti vals
, , ,
the amuse ments of the great cities the ,
women n d the ir l ives varied in many ways .
Their holidays from home duties are S pent
amid these enjoyments ; and if they have
not the out-O f door employments the lon g
-
,
walks up the mo un tain s the days spent in
,
te a picking in harv estin g in all the v a ried
-
, ,
work that comes to the country wo m an ,
the dwelle rs in the city have n o l a ck of
sights and sounds to am use an d inter est
them and would not often care to exchange
,
thei r lot for the fr eer and hardier l ife of
Am erica n hou sewi fe who has bee n accu s
,
to m e d i n her o w n co untry to be t he head
of every deta il of household work leavi n g ,
to her servan ts only the mechanical labo r
of the hands S he begins by showing her
.
O riental help the work to be done and ,
just the way in which she is accustom ed to
ha ving it done at home and the chanc es ,
are about one in a hund red th a t he r serva nt
wi ll carry out her instructions I n the .
n inety n ine other cases h e wi ll accom pli sh
-
,
the desir ed result but by means totally dif
,
fe re nt from those to which the American
housek eeper is accustomed I f the house .
wi fe is one of the worryi ng kind who ca res ,
a s much abo ut the way in which the thing
is do ne as about the accom plished result ,
the chances are th at she wil l wea r herself
out in a fruitless endeavor to m ake h er
servants do th in gs in her own way a nd ,
wi ll when she re turn s to A merica assure
, ,
o u that Japan ese servants are the m ost
y
idle stu pid an d alto geth er worthless lo t
, ,
that it was ever her ba d fortun e to have
to do with . But o n the other hand if t he ,
lady of the house is one who is wi lling to
give general o rders a nd then sit down and
,
wait until the work is done be fore criticis
DOMES TI C s s a VI CE . 3 01
i ng it she wi ll nd that by some mea ns or
,
other the work will be accomplished and
her desi re wil l be carried out provided on ly ,
that her se rvants see a reason for getting
the th ing do ne And as she nds that
.
her dom estics wi ll take respons i bility upon
the m selves a nd will work not only with
, ,
thei r ha nd s but with the will and intellect
,
in her service she soon yields to thei r p ro
,
teeting an d thought ful care for hersel f a nd
h er interests and w hen she return s to
, ,
A merica is loud i n her praises of the com
,
p e te n ce a n d devotion o f her Japanese ser
vants Even in the treaty ports where
.
,
contact with forei gne rs has given to the
Japane se attendants the silent an d t e
pressed air that we regard as the standard
man ner for a se rvant they have n ot re ,
sign e d the ir right of pri vate j udgment but , ,
if faithful and hones t se ek the best good,
of their employer even if h is best good
,
in volv es di sobed ience of his o rders This .
characte ristic of the Japanese se rvant is
aggravated when he is i n the employment
of foreigners for the si m ple reason that he
,
is apt to regard the fore igner as a species
of imbe cil e who m ust be car ed for tenderly
,
b ec au se he is quite inco m pete nt to care for
h im se l f,but wh ose fa ncies m ust n ot be
too m uch regarded Of the re l a ti o ns of
.
fore ig n employe rs an d Japa nes e se r va n ts
muc h mig ht be said but our business is
,
wit h the position of the se rva n ts in a Ja p
a n ese hou sehold .
Un der the old feudal syste m the ser va n ts
,
of every family were its heredi ta ry re ta i n
ers and fro m generation to ge ne r ation d e
,
sired no higher lot tha n personal se r vi ce
in the family to whi c h they belonged The .
principle of l oyalty to the family interes ts
wa s t he leadi n g pri n ciple in the lives of th e
servan ts just as loyalty to the d ai m i was
,
the highest duty of the sa m urai L on g .
and intimate knowledge of the fam ily his
tory and traits of chara cter rendered it p os
s ible for the retainer to w o rk in telligently
for his master an d do i n d e pe nd e ntly for
,
h im many things without orders The ser .
vant in many cases kne w his master an d
his master s interes ts as well as the master
him sel f or even better and m ust a ct by
, ,
the l ight of h is own knowledge in case s
where his master wa s ignorant or misin
for m ed O ne ca n e a sily see h ow ties of
.
good fellow ship a nd sy m p a thy wo uld arise
-
between masters an d serva nts how a com ,
3 04 J P A A N ES E G IRLS AN D WOMEN .
pendent merchant or artisa n As the for .
mer feud al syste m is yet withi n the mem
ory of many of the pre sent ge nerati on ,
a nd its feelin gs still al ive in J a pan m uch ,
of the old sentiment remains ev e n wit h ,
the merely hire d d omesti cs i n a househo l d
of the present day T he servant by h is
.
,
own m aster is a ddre sse d by name with no
, ,
title of res pect, is tr eated as an in ferior ,
a nd spoken to in the lan guage used towar d
in feriors ; but to al l others he is a pe rsou
to be t reated with res pect to be bowe d ,
to pro fou ndly addressed by the title Sa n,
,
and spoken to in the politest of langu a ge .
Y ou make a call upon a Japanese house
hold and the se rvant who admits you wil l
,
expect to exchan ge the formal sa lutati ou s
with you When you are ushered into
.
the reception room should the lady of the
-
,
house be absen t the head se rvants will no t
,
o nl y serve you with tea and re freshme nts
and oe r you hospital ities in their mistress s
'
n ame but m a y i f n o one else be there sit
, , ,
with you in the parlor entertainin g you ,
with con versation u n til the return of the
hoste ss The se rvants of the house hold are
.
by no mean s ignored socially as they are ,
wi th us but are al ways recognized an d sa
,
D OMES TI C S ER VI C E
. 805
l uted by visitors as they pass in to and out
of the room , and are fr ee to join in the con
versation of thei r ba tte rs should they see ,
any place where it is poss ible that they may
sh ed light on the subj ect discussed But .
though given th is l iberty of speech treated ,
with much considerati on and havin g some ,
ti mes muc h res pon sibility serva nts do n ot
,
forget the ir plac es i n the house hold and ,
do not see m to be bold or out of place I n .
deed the man n ers of some of them would
,
seem to any one but a J a pan ese to denote
, ,
a lack of pre per sel f res pect
- a n exce ss of ,
'
h um ility or an a ecta ti on of it
, .
I n expla ining to my scholars who were ,
readin g L itt le Lord Fau ntl eroy i n En g
lish a passage where a footman is s pok e n
,
o f as havi ng nearly disgrace d himsel f by
laughing at some qu a int saying of the young
lord my l ittle peeresses were amazed be yond
,
measure to learn that in Euro pe a n d A mer
ica a servant is expected never to show any
interest in or knowledge of the conversa
, ,
tio n of his bette rs never to speak unless
,
addressed an d never to smile under any
,
circu mstan ce s D oubtl ess in their shr ewd
.
,
little brai ns they formed their Opinion of
,
a ci vil ization i mpos in g such ba rbarous t e
stra ints upon one class of persons .
806 JA PAN ES E C I ELs AN D WOMEN .
The women servants in a family a re i n
p ositio n more like the sel f respect i n g ol-
d ,
fashioned Ne w En gland hel p than th ey
a re like the modern girl They d o no t
.
work all day while the mistress sits i n th e
parlor doing nothin g a nd then when their
, ,
day s work is d one go out an xio us to for
, ,
get ia the soci ety of their friends th e
, ,
drudgery wh ich only the n ecessity for self .
support and the high wages to he earn e d
re nder tolerable As has be en expl a ined
.
i n a previous chapter the mistre ss of th e
,
h o se
u b e she princ e ss or peasant is
hersel f the head se rvant and only gives u p ,
to her hel pers the part o f the labor which
she has not the time or stren gth to per
form .Ce rtain men ial duties tow a rd h er
h usba nd and child ren every Japan ese wi fe
,
and mother must do hersel f and would ,
scorn to delegate to any other woman ex
ce pt in case of absolute n ece ssity Thu s .
there is not that gap be tween m ist ress a nd
m a id that exists i n o ur days among the
women of this country The servants work .
with the ir m istress hel ping h er in every
,
possible way and are trea ted as re sponsi ble
,
m embers of the hou sehold if not of the ,
fam ily itsel f .
or skill in any a rt or profession are hel d i n
great deman d am ong the Japanese a n d a
prominent poet scholar physician or p ro
, , ,
fessiona l m a n of any kin d is often asked by
a nxio us parents to take their so ns u n de r
his own roo f so that they may be un d e r
,
his inuence and receive the benets of
,
stay in such an honora ble house The pa .
rents who thus send their ch ildren m a y
n ot be of low rank at all but ar e u s ually ,
n ot su fciently well to do to spend m uch
- -
m oney in the education of their chil dre n .
T he position th at such boys occupy i n
the household is a curious one They a r e .
cal led S ho sei meanin g stude nts and st u
-
, ,
de nts they usually are S pending all thei r ,
leisure moments and their even i ngs i n
study They a re n ever treated as in fe
.
riors except i n a g e and experience ; they
,
may or may not eat with the family a nd ,
are always ad d ressed wi t h respect On .
the other hand they always feel the m
,
selves to be depen den ts a n d m ust be will ,
ing without wages to work in any c a pa city
about the h ouse for th e sake of picki ng up
,
what crumb s of knowle d ge may fa ll to th e m
from their master s ta ble Service is not
.
absolutely demanded of the m but they a r e ,
DOM ES TI C S ER VI CE . 3 09
expected to do what will pay for thei r
board a nd do not regard men ial work as
,
belo w them performing cheerfu l ly a l l tha t
,
the master m a y req uire of them .
I n this way a m a n of moderate mean s
,
ca n h elp alon g many poor young men in
whom he may feel interested a nd in re ,
turn be save d expen s e about his h ousehold
wo rk ; and the s tuden ts w hile always con
,
s id era te l y tre a te d a r e able withou t grea t
,
expense to study o fte n even to p repa re
,
for college or get a start in one O f t he
,
pro fessions for they have many lei s ure
,
moments to devote to their books M a ny .
prominent men of the present day h a ve
been students of thi s clas s a nd are n o w i n
,
t heir turn helping th e younger genera ti o n .
The boys that one sees in shops or wit h , ,
work men of all kinds helpin g in m a ny ,
little ways are not hirelings but a ppre n
, ,
tice s who hope some day to hold j ust a s
,
good positions as their maste rs and expect ,
to k no w as m uc h if not a gre a t d ea l m ore
, .
At the sh o p or in the h o me they n ot only ,
h e l p i n the trades or occupations they a re
lear n in g but are willing to do any kind o f
,
m enial work for their mas ter or his fa m
ily in return for w ha t they receive fro m
h im ; th ey do not pay for th ei r board
for
nor for what they are taught E ven whe n
.
the age of ed ucation is already p a st grown ,
men and women are willing to leave qui te
i ndependent pos itions to shine with t e
ect ed glory as se rvan ts of persons of h igh
ra nk or distinction The servant is n ot
.
grea ter than his master in Japan ; but i f
the master is great the servant is consid
,
era bly greater than the m a n without a
mast er .
I n a country like Japan where one ,
nds but fe w we a l thy pe ople there may be
,
c a u se for wo nd e r at the large h ouseholds ,
where th e re are s o many se rvan ts Ther e .
will he o fte n a s many as te n or m ore ser
vants in a h o me where i n other ways lux
, ,
ury and w ea lth are not displayed In the .
a im,
or the part o f the ho use where the
lad y of the house sta y s are foun d h e r own
,
maid and women who help in the work
,
about the house sew i n their leisu re m o
,
ments an d are the higher servants of th e
,
fa mily ; there a re a l s o the childre n s a t
te nd a nts oft e n o ne fo r each child as wel l
, ,
as the waiting wom e n for the G o I nky o
Sam a . In the kitchen are the cooks an d
t heir ass ist ants the lower servants a nd usu
, ,
greater pay The family too in many cases
.
, ,
a re used t o having pl enty o f hands to do
the work ; the ladies are much less in d e
pendent and li fe has more form alities an d
,
r ed tape i n Japan than in America A .
grea t deal of the shopping is done by ser
vants who are sent out on errands a n d
,
o ften do i m portant bu si n ess Maid s ac .
com pany th e ir m is tresses to ma ke vi s its
servants g o with parties to the theatr e to ,
picnics or o n jo urneys and th e se expedi
, ,
tions are as heartily enjoyed by them as by
their masters I t is expected especial ly o f
.
,
ladies and persons of high ran k that the ,
detai l s of the journ ey the bargai ning wi th
,
coolies the hirin g of vehicles a nd payi ng
, ,
of bill s be l e ft in charge of some manser
,
vant who is entirely responsible an d who
, ,
makes all the bargains arran ge s the j ou r
,
ney for his em ployer and tak e s charge of
,
everyt h ing even to the amount of fees
,
give n along the way .
Perhaps the highest positi ons of servi ce
no w position s honorable an ywh ere in
Japan a re held by those who remain of
the ol d re tainers of dai mi o s a n d who ,
r egulate the hou seholds of the nob les .
S uch m e n must have good educa tion an d ,
D OMES TI C S EE VI C E
. 31 3
good judgment ; for m uch is le ft in their
hands and they are usually gentlemen
, ,
who would be known as such anywhere .
They are the ste wards of the household ,
the secretaries of their mas te rs ; keep al l
accounts for which they are res ponsible
, ,
and attend to the minor affairs of etiquette ,
the latter no triin g duty in a noble s
home It is they who accompany the no
.
bl es o their journ eys
n regulate ad vise
, , ,
and attend to the litt le a a irs of l ife of
which the mast er m ay be ign orant an d
cares not to l earn Th ey are the l ast of
.
the crowds of feudal reta iners who once ,
lled castle an d ya shiki and are now scat
,
te red t hroughout the length and brea dth
o f the kingdom .
The higher servants in the house hold
m ust be always more or less trained in eti
q u e tte , and are expected to look n e a t a nd
tidy ; to serve guests with tea and refre sh
'
ments without any orders to that ee ct ;
,
and to use their judgment in little house
hold a a irs and thus help the lady of the
'
house They are usually clever with thei r
.
n ge rs and can sew n eatly W hen their
,
.
m istre s s goes out they assist her to d ress ,
a nd only a fe w words from her will be
3 14 JAP N ES E A GI RLS AN D WOMEN .
n ecessary for th em to have everythin g i n
readiness fro m ,
her sash and dress to a l l
the little belongings of a l ady s costu m e
.
Many a bright quick servant is found wh o
,
will un der stand and guess her mistres s s
wants without be in g told eac h de tail a nd ,
t hese n ot only serve with their hands b ut ,
think for their employers .
Much less is expected of the lower ser
va n ts who belong to the kitchen and have
, ,
l es s to do with the family in general a n d ,
little or n o personal contact wit h thei r
m as te rs . T hey perform their round of d u
ties with little re s ponsibility and are re ,
g a r d ed as much lower in the socia l scal e
of serva nts of which we have seen there
,
are many degrees .
T he little gozew ta ki or rice cook wh o
-
, ,
works a l l day in t he kitchen may be a fa t , ,
re d c h ecked frowsy haired country girl
-
,
-
,
p a t i e nt
,
h a rd -working an d humble -minded
, ,
wi ll ing to pother about a ll day with her
ket tl es a nd pa ns a nd S it up h al f the night
,
ove r her own sewing or the study of the ,
oll e n un f am ili a r a rt of reading a n d writ
i ng ; b ut e n ti re ly nna cqua i uted with the
d e ta il s o f e ti qu ette a k nowl e dge of which
,
is a n eces s i ty to the higher servants ,
816 JAPAN ES E GIRLS AN D WOM EN .
to her for the gift and also askin g h e r to
,
thank the g iver This of course is a l
.
, ,
ways done for a g i ft to a servant i s a s
,
m uch of a favor to the m istress as a pres
e nt to a child is to its mother .
When a servant wi shes to leave a fam ily ,
sh e ra re ly goe s to her mistress and sta te s
that s he is d issatised with her positio n ,
a nd th a t so me be tte r chance has be en o f
fe red her Such a natural excuse never
.
occu rs to the Japanese servant unless h e ,
be a j in n lns ha man or betto who may n ot
kn ow how to d o be tter ; for it is a very
r ud e wa v o f lea vi n g service The high .
m ind ed m aid will proceed ve ry differentl y .
A fe w d nvs l ea ve of absence to v i sit hom e
will be a s k ed a nd usually grante d for Ja p ,
a ne se s e r va nts ne ve r have any settle d ti m e
to ta k e h o li d ay At the end o f the give n
.
ti m e t he mi s t res s will be g in to wonder
wha t ha s beco me o f the gi rl who has failed ,
to r tn r n ; a nd the lady will m ake u p her
o
m i nd s he will not let her go ag a i n so read
i ly
. Just whe n s he has a s harp reproo f
rem l v a m es s e ng e r or l e tter w ill a rrive
. ,
with s o m e g o od e x c u se co uc h e d in m o s t
,
li t a nd h um bl e t er m s S ome t ime s it
p o o .
wil l be th a t s he ha s fou nd hersel f too w eak
D OMES TI C S ER VI CE . 3 17
for se rvice or that work at h ome or the
, ,
illness of some member of the family d e ,
tains her so th at s he is not able to come
,
back at present The excuse is under
.
stood and accepte d as nal and another ,
servant is sought for a n d obtained After .
several weeks h a ve passed v ery likely afte r ,
enterin g a new place the ol d servant will ,
t urn up some day express her thanks for
,
all past kindnesses an d regrets at not r e
turning in time wil l take her pay an d her
,
bu ndles and d isappear forever
, .
Even when servants come on trial for a
fe w days they often go a way nominally to
,
fetch their belon gi n gs or m ake arran ge ,
m en ts to return but the lady of the house
,
does not kno w w h eth er the woman is sat
i s e d or not I f sh e is n ot her refusal is
.
,
always brought by a third person I f the .
mistress on her side doe s not wish to hire
, ,
th e girl sh e will n ot tell h er so to her
,
face but will send word at this ti me to pre
,
ve nt her comi ng S uch is th e etiquette i n
.
these matters of mistress and maid .
O nly by a m ultiplicity of details is it
possible to give m uch idea of th e positio n
of servants i n a Japanese house and even ,
then the result arrived a t is that the posi
tions of what we would cal l do m estic se r
vants vary so grea tly in honor and r esp on
s i bility t hat it is al m ost i m possible to dr a w
a ny ge neral conclusions upon this subje c t .
We ha ve see n that there is no d isti n c t
se rvile cl a ss in Japan a nd that a perso n s
,
soci a l s ta tus is not al te red by the fa ct t h a t
he serves i n a meni a l capac ity provid e d ,
t hat se rvice be of one above him in rank
a nd not be lo w hi m This is l a rgely th e
.
res ul t of the gra ding of socie ty upon oth e r
l ines t h a n th ose on which our soci al d is
t inctious a re found ed a nd p a rtly the resul t
,
of the fa ct t h at women of whatever clas s , ,
a r se rv a nts so fa r a s person s of the O ppo
e
s ite se x in th eir own class are conce r n ed .
The wom e of a pn J a n to d a y form the great
-
se r vi le cl a ss a nd,
as they are also th e
,
wive s a nd m oth e rs of those whom they
se rve the v a re tr ea ted
,
of course , wi th a
,
ce rtai n conside ra t io n a nd respect never
i v n to a m e re servant ; a nd th rough
g e
t he m a l l d om esti c se rvice is elevated
, .
There a r two e mp l oy m ents which I
e
hm e m e nti oned a mong t hose of do m estic
s e rm nts bee a nse th ey wo ul d be so classed
b y us b ut whi c h i n J a pa n rank a m ong
,
the trad es . The j inr ikis ha man and the
3 20 JAPAN ES E G I R LS AN D WOMEN .
passen ger u p the steepest an d most slip
pery o f bills and never to h eed hi m if he
,
expresses a de s ire to walk in order to sa ve
his man I have h ad my ha m m a gu stoutly
.
'
re fuse again an d agai n my oers to walk
, ,
up a steep hill even when th e sn ow was
,
so so ft and slippery u nder his bare feet
that he fell three ti mes in m aki n g the
ascent
. Da i jobu (sa fe ) would be h is
smilin g respon se to all my protestati on s ;
-
and once in a jim ikisha the pa sse n ge r is
, ,
en tirely at the mercy of his man in all
matte rs of ge tting into and out of the ve
hicl e . But though the jinrikisha m a n is ,
for the ti me bein g the autocrat an d con ,
tro lling power over his pas senge r a nd ,
though he will n ot obey the be hes ts of h is
em ployer except so fa r as they seem rea
,
son able and i n accordance with the best
interes ts of all concerned he constit utes ,
him sel f the protec tor an d assistant the ,
advi ser a n d coun selor of h im whom he ,
ser ves and gives his best thought a n d i a
,
tel l ige nce as wel l as his speed an d stren gth
, ,
to the service i n which he is en g aged I f .
he thinks it safe he will tear like an n u
,
broken colt through the business porti on s
o f the city knockin g bundles out of the
,
D OMES TI C S EE VI CE . 321
hands of foot passengers or even hit ting ,
the way farers the m selve s in a erce das h
through their midst laughi ng gayly at ,
their prote sts and at threats of wrat h to
,
come fro m his helpless passenger ; but
should hint of insul t or inj ury against ku
m m a,
passenger or passenge r s dog fal l
,
upon h is ears he wi l l dro p the jinr ikis ha
,
shafts and administe r condign punish m e nt
,
to the offe nder unchecked by thoug hts of
,
the ever-present police or by a ny terrors ,
that his e m ploy e r m ay hold over his head .
I n no o ther country i n the world perh a ps , ,
ca n a lady pl a ce more entire con dence i n
the honor an d loyal ty of her servant than
she can in Japan in her Icum m a ya whet her ,
he be he r priva te serva nt or o ne fro m a ,
respectable s tand He m ay not do what.
she bids h im but that is q ui te a secondary
,
m atter He will st udy her interests ; wi l l
.
remember he r likes a nd dislikes ; will tak e
a me ntal in ventory of t he va rious accesso:
ries or bundles th a t she carries with h e r ,
and will never p e r m i t her to l o se or forget
o ne of t he m ; wi ll r un his legs off i n her
service and de fend her a nd her property
,
vali a nt ly i n case of need O f course as .
,
in all clas se s t here a r e diffe re nt grades ,
322 J PAN ES E C I ELS AN D
A WOM EN .
there are ym n kis ha men who seem u
so
have sunk so low i n their callin g that th e y
have lost al l feeling of loyalty to their e m ~
ployer and onl y care selshly for the pit
,
tance they gain Such men are oft e n
.
fou n d i n the treaty ports eage rly see kin g ,
for the rich foreigner fro m whom th ey ,
can get an extra fee and whom they r e
,
g ard a s outside o f their code o f m ora l s ,
and hence as their n atural prey Trav .
clers an d even residents of Japan ha ve
, ,
o ften complained of such treatm e nt ; an d
it is on ly after long stay in Japa n amon g ,
the Japanes e themsel v es that one ca n tel l,
what a jinr ikis ha man is capable of .
I f you employ o ne ka m wa ya for any
length of time you come to have a rea l
,
affecti on for h im on account of his loyal ,
faith ful cheerfu l service such as we se l
, ,
dom nd in this cou ntry except when ia
spired by personal feel ing Wh en you have .
hi dden m iles and m iles by n ight and by,
day th rough rain and sleet an d hottest
,
sunshine behind a m a n who has used
,
every power of body and mind in your se r
vice you can not but h ave a stron g feelin g
,
of affection toward him and of pride i n,
him as well It is so mething the feelin g
.
3 24 J APAN ES E GI RLS AN D WOMEN .
more and more boldly from the fadi ng
background both the gures of fai thful
, ,
se rvants O ne Y us aku the kum m a y a a
.
, , ,
very Herc ules who could k eep close to a ,
pair of coach horses through m iles of city
s treets and who never sue red mortal jive
'
r ikisha man to pass him My champion .
i n all times of dan ger an d al arm but a ,
very au toc rat in all minor m atters hi s ,
cheery face his broad sho ulders wi th t heir
,
blue draperi es his jolly boyis h voice a n d , , ,
his d ainty delicate hands come be fore me
,
as I write and I won der to what fo rtunate
,
person he is now givi ng the intel l igent ser
vice that he once gave so whol e heartedly
to me The other 0 Kaio my maid h er
.
, , ,
plain little face wit h its u pturned eyes , ,
growing as the days went by absolute ly
, ,
beauti ful i n the l ight of pu re goodness
that beamed from it A Japanese Chri s .
tian with al l the Christian vi rtues Well d e
,
ve l o pe d she became to me not only a good
,
se rvant d o ing her work with con scientious
,
d e lity but a sym pathetic fri e nd to whom
, ,
I turned for help in ti me of n eed ; a n d
whom I le ft when I returne d to America
, ,
with a sincere sorrow i n m y heart at part
in g wi th o ne who had grown to ll so l arge
D OMES TI C S EE VI CE . 325
a p l ac e i n my though t s Her lit
. t le hal f ,
shy hal f motherly ways toward her big for
,
-
ei gn mistress had a charm all their own .
Her pride and delight over my progress in
the language ; her patient eorts to make
'
me understand new words or to under ,
stand my uncouth foreign idioms ; her joy ,
whe n at l a st I reached the point where a
story told by her lips could be compre
h end ed a nd enjoyed gave a conti nual e u
,
coura g e m e n t in a ta sk too o ften comple tely
d i sheartening .
D u ring the last su m mer of my stay in
Japan cutting loose fro m all forei gn ers
,
a nd foreign associations I traveled alone
,
with her through the heart of the country ,
stopping only at Japanese hotels and car ,
ryi n g with me no supplies to eke out the
s imple Japanese fare Through oods and
.
typ hoon s we journeyed Long days of
.
scorching heat or dri vin g rain in no way
ab ated her cheerfulness or lessened her d e
,
s ire to do all th a t she could for my aid and
com fort . N ot one sad look nor impatient
word sho wed a a w in her perfec t m m per ;
a nd if she privately m ade up her mind
that I was crazy she never by word or look
,
g a ve a hint o f her thought J i n r iki
.sh a
men grumbl ed and ga ve out ; hote l-kee pers
res en ted the presen ce of my dog or p re ,
good te mper and tac t never failed her ,
Diicul ties w ere sm ooth ed away bill s were
compro m ised an d r ed uced ; the dog slept
secure ly by m y si de on a m d blanket in th e
best rooms of the best hotels ; a nd O Kaio
smil ed told her qua int stories amused m e
, ,
and m inistered to m e, as if I were her on e
ow ect i n l ife, though husband and chiL
dren were far away in di stant Tkyo a nd
,
her m oth er s
h ea r t yearned for her l ittl e
3 30 HVDEX .
Dancing, 38 , 287 , 288 Fancy work , 3
W
. .
Da nc girl s Bee Geinha P " rel a tion to chil d re n,
'
. .
0 ak a , 296 .
Festi val s d oll s , 28 ; of o w
: of
pr oces sions, 27 5 -278 e rs, 27 . 99, 295 -297 ; of t h e
J
.
Decen cy a pa nese st and ard of, D0 year , 25 ; tem p l e , 27 0
;
,
2 55 2 30 . 27
Feud a l syatem , 169 .
Divorce , am ong l owe r cl a sses, 66, 192 ; st ories of, 184 -187
g g
.
69, 73 ; a on h i he r cl au se,
m
66, 68 ; ri h t of, gr ante d t o g
w om en , 66 ; ri h t t o ch ild ren g
in case of, 67 , 105
f
.
Doll s, ea st of, 28-3 1
bb
.
Dre ss , a y , 6, 15 ; m 145 , Fortune -t ell ing , 281- 285
g
.
146 ; i rl s , 15 ; h i
53
Fuji ,
h ouse s, 187 , 192 ; m il itary , of Fi m eral n r vice .
sam ur a i wom e n , 188 ; of
cl asses , 1 26, of p il
osi,
Ed uca tion gi l of r s , 37 -56 ; d im
Geish a ,
ul ti
c i ce w n ne sy ste m , 52 56
f ul t i J p
a n a a none syst em 39
i n ol d ti p 37 m es
,
wh ere gei h s as m ay be hire d ,
Ed u ti high bf
.
ca on , e r, d ou t ul
3
h l p 7 9 ; ff t
e e ec on h om e l i e , f G ta , ood an cl og 13, 14
77 p du i g
, .
ro c n repugna nce t o
m a rria ge , 80
Ed ucation of da im i b s d a u h ter,
g Haor i , a coat of cotton, sk , or
177 180 -
p worn ovem
'
the kim ono,
gr
a e,
b
.
Et oid e red as, 146 , 188,
pg
ro es,
i Ha rap k iri , suicid e by sta bbing in
E p
m e r or , -1 53 , th e abd om en ,
155 H u X 155
ar 168 c
E p ft H m Pi
.
m e r ors, a int rod uct i on of
er ar 1 13r n ce , 15 2
Hei i th l
.
,
C hin ese ci vil i z at ion , 143 -145 ; ass of
m ag
m n,
ng
e
c hil d ren of, 1 64 ; d a u h te rs g ti
ar sans, a m erc
,
of, 155 , ea rl y r e t irem e nt of, 228 , 229 .
13 4 ; i n ear l t im e s , 138 se
H im in , cl ass characteristics of,
e l us ion of, 43 -145 , 155 , 1 56 ,
Hi b hi b i f bu ing
ac a raz er or rn
Em p
,
re ss , 140 , 150- 168 c h l 30 7 2 136 307
a rcoa
Em p Hid ey hi S T y t i
.
, , , , .
re ss d owa ge r , 152 os ee o o om
p Hi i f p up
. . .
w e, th e i az z a tha t l
n n , a c a ss o 228 a ers,
Jp
.
nt a a a n e se h ouse , 23 Hiy i ! 243 an ,
E H l id y 269
. .
t ique tte , cou rt 1 53 ; in d a im i oe
o a s,
H t l 24 7 250
, .
h ouses , 177 - 1 79 ; in t h e h om e , o e s, -
HtlR p
.
19, 20 ; inst ruction in , 46 , 4 7 ; o e - ee e rs ,
of l ea vi n g se r vi ce , 3 16, 3 17 H h l d d uti t i i g f
2u
o se o es, ra n n or ,
t owa rd s se r va nts , 304 , 305
By k u i i h u P
.
a n n f s oe m s o a
y hu d d p t
,
Fa ir ta l es , 32 n re th f oe s, e nam e o a
g g
.
Fam il y , or a niz ation of, 13 9 . 26
am e , .
3 32 HVDEX .
Eoshh a bit of d r ied sh , usuall y
f ol d e d
2
g th k bi th
21 $
.
N ursin e sic 101 a r 2 , 5 ; of eggs ,
g
.
, ,
m one y , 4, 5 on re turn i n .
0 h onoric use d e ore m a ny
an bf f
rom a j on t he
b b
,
n ouns , a nd efore m ost nam es thirti e t h d a y a te r irt h , 5 ; to
of wom e n , 20 ser va n ts, 3 1 1 , 3 15
g P J
. .
0 Ba Sa n, ra nd m oth er , 124 . r ost itutes See 5 r5 . .
0 BKSa n a unt , 124 Prost ituti on, hous es of, 1 14, 214,
g
.
Obi , a i rd le or sa sh , 60
p b
.
Occ u a t ions of t he l ind , 42 ; of 216
t he court , 143 166 ;
of t he d annie s l a d i es , 175
180 of the m ress , 156 E 166 ; p Ret i rem ent rom b us ineu , 13 3f
p p
.
of old p eo l e , 1 36 , 1 20 - 122
, Re ti re m e nt of em erors, 13 4 .
124 - 128 ; of old sa m ura i wo Re ve nge , 198 , 2 10-2 14 .
m en , 22 3, 22 4 ; of se r v a nts , Re vol ut ion of 1868 , 76, 221 .
299, 304, 306 , 30 8 - 3 15 , 3 18 ; of Rice , red been , 3 , 5 , 65
Rm , one te nth of a sen, or about
.
wom e n , 108 - 110 , 85 - 103 , 2 42
256, 279 292, 306, 3 18 ; of il l , m o
on e m .
rl s , 21-34 , 3 8 4 7 R5 nin , a wh o h a s l ost
sam ura i
2
.
0 a re , 1 1 2 13 . his m aste r a nd owes no a ll e
O is h i , 198 , 2 14 .
gia nce to a ny d a im i5 ,
O ji, 296
J
.
S oung l ad y , 20 Sa Cl ey e r a
gs
0 J '
i ki ,
x th e
o a m a a p om ca ,
o a p ri , k n ora b l e r e t ur n , a
g re e ting s h oute d t h e a t te n
by Sa k e, w ine m ad e f rom rice , 22,
d a nt , upo n t h e m a st e r s or w hite , 29
p
.
m istre ss s re t urn to th e h ouse ,
S
Sa m a , or a n , a n h onoric l aced
100 , 3 15 a te rf nam e s , equiva l e nt to
O Ka io , 3 24
.
326 Mr , Mr s , or Miss ,
k
. . .
0 Ki u s m a rr iag e a nd d ivorce ,
7 3 , 74 Sa m is e n , a m us ica l instr um en t ,
p
.
O l d age , ri vi l e g es of, 1 20 , 122 , 4 2 , 127 , 277 , 286
p y
.
123 ; r ovis ion for , 134 . Sa m ura i , th e m il it ar cl a ss, 42 ,
Ol d m e n , 133 , 136 7 5 , 7 6, 105 , 169 , 17 4 , 175 , 1 80
p
.
O m is ge , a re se nt gi ve n on re 196 - 227 , 23 2 , 2 63 , 302 , 303 , 307
t ur ni ng r om a f
journey or 3 19 ; cha rac te r of, 197- 2 07
p
l e as ure e x cur s ion , 274 s pi r it of, 199 , 205
b
. .
O n i , a d e vil o r go l i n, 33 Sa m ura i g1rl s in sch ool , 226
y
. .
Oue e, 2 10 2 13 Sam ura i w om en , cha rac te r of,
p k
.
20 7 - 223 re se nt w or of, 223
Pa l ac e , ne w , 15 1 - 153
P p b ll i
.
a r e nt s d ut ie s to , 134 ; re s e ct Sa ts um a re e on , th e , 222
y
.
fo r , 1 3 3 Sch ool s ste m th e , 50
iii Pee re ss 8
. .
,
P l w , 84 , 87
a re n t s - - a
Sc h ool , t h e
,
.
Pe a s a n t w om e n , 10 8 , 240 26 1 .
l
e us zm try , 2 23 -240 c h oe l e, m is s iona l
p gp gi l
.
,
Ph y s io ia n s fee s , 20 4
e l f- osse ss ion of a a nese r s,
i i
.
P l g r m s , 24 1, 2 4 2 47
Se l f-sac r i ce , 2 14
. .
Pil l o w , 8 9 2 19
p
. .
Pl e a s ur e e xc urs ion s , 99 Se n , on e h und re d th a rt of a
P p b
.
oe m s o f a h und r e d oe ts , 26 y e n , va l ue a out one ce nt , 2 40,
Poe t
.
ry , 2 6, 14 8 - 150 . 27 3 , 2 98 .
HVDEX 3 33
Serv ants, characte risti cs of, 299 T oy otom i H id y oshi ,
302 -3 15 ; in Tra in in g
-sch ool for n urse s, 158
em p
uti e s
f
l oy of or e igne rs, 299 302 ;
of,
.
n um b
e r em p
l oy ed , 3 10 , 3 11 ; Utsun om i ya , 70 , 71
g Uy en o Pa r , 296 k
.
os ti on of, 302-3 10 wa es of,
gi
.
8 awm g , 23 , 94 . Virtue , J p nd W t n
a a nese a es er
Shin to, id eas o , f 215 2 19
Jp ft i g
.
Sh ogi , a a nese ch ess , 136 Visi ts , a e r m arr a e , 63 ; in
Ty bi t h 1 2 ; N w
.
Sh 5g un , th e coon , th e Vice h on or o a r f e
p 25 ; t p
, ,
r oy , or se -ca l l ed te m ora l r ul er Y ea r s , o a r en s, t 98 ; t o
of Jp
a a n und e r t h e e ud al sy s f b
t om s of a nce stors , 98 .
te m , 155 , 1 69 ,
191 , 1 94, 224 , Wa ka m a ts u, 208 , 222
W ed ding Se e Marria ge
.
23 1 234 , 292 ; d a ughte r of, . .
17 6 1 94 W id ows , ch il dl e ss , 123
f
. .
Sh 5gunate , 155 , 222 W i e , ch ild l ess , 102 ; d utie s of,
g
.
Sh oji , sl idi n g wind ows covered 85 - 99 ; in r e a t h ouse s , 92 ;
pp
with a e r , 23 , 7 1 re l a ti on t o h us an d , 84 ; re b
pp
Sh o in g , 264
.
268 l a tion t o par e nt s-in-l a w, 84 ;
i
.
Sh o-sei , a stud ent , 308 soci a l r el a t on s , 91
k T p
. .
Sil -m osa ic , 95 , 192 W om a n s Ch r istia n e m erance
k
.
Sil w orm s , Uni on , 114
b b y
.
Sor o a n, a n a a cus , 266-268 Wom en , in th e cit , 279-298
p
.
S um id a Rive r , 173 , 295 oc c u a ti ons of, 85 103 , 108
p
.
1 10 , 24 2 256 , 306, 3 18 osi tion
of, 17 - 22 , 35 , 36 , 57 , 65 -68 , 7 6
bb
Ta ta, a a y s word for sock or
88 , 90 , 91 , 93 , 99-1 18, 1 20 124 ,
b
ta i , 16 13 2 , 133 , 139 , 143 , 145 , 14 6 , 14 8,
T k T
.
a i o Sa m a See oy otom i 168 , 189 , 190 , 208 , 2 1 6-2 19 , 223
T 227 , 24 2
. .
9 l 92 ; cere m oni al , 44 , 136, 247 , 260 , 261 , 279 , 292 ,
f
e
76 13 , 306, 3 18 ; ur ity of, 216 p
Tea-gard ens, 24 7 313
pp
.
Tea -h ouse s , 250 - 255 W om e n , ol d , a e a ra n ce of, 1 19 ,
T p
.
each e r s p a y , 204
122 , 124 , 1 26 ; e xam l e s of,
T Jp
.
e ac hin g Se e I nst ruction 1 24 , 126- 129 ; in a a ne se p ic
T b k f g
. .
ee th , l ac e ned a t er m a rri a e , tur es, 13 2 .
63
T p
.
em le, 4, Y a m a to Dak , 2 15
g
.
Th e a tre , 33 , 99, 292- 294 Y asa k u, 32 4 ; m arria e and di
T f
.
itl es use d 1n am i l ie s, 20 vorce
T p
.
oe s, re h e n sil e , 1 5 Y ase, 24 3 , 244
T pp k
Y ash i i , a d a im i 5 s m a nsion and
. .
oil e t a a ra t us , 30 .
T5 k a i d 5 , 24 1 un d s , 169 , 1 7 1 , 1 73 , 3 1 1 ,
Tk g
.
o on om a , t h e r ai se d al cove in
aJp a a n ese r oom , 44 Y ed o Se e T5h y 5
Tk p
. . .
o ug a w a , 29 , 1 5 1 , 155 , 23 1 Y oshii , an ad o te d 104
. son , .
T5 k y 5 , 4 9 , 69 7 1 , 108 , 115 . Y um ot o, 245 .
T5h y 5 M a il , 23 1
b
.
Tom s , visi ts to, 98 . ! ori, a stra w sand a l , 13.
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. .
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.
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