Cultural Biography of Sukey V.
Villagrana
Names
Sukey Vanessa Villagrana is my birth name. Being that I was born in Mexico, birth
certificates were not issued until the newborn child was officially registered with the Civil
Registry’s Office and, parents were not required to be present during the process. Anyone could
register a child with documentation from a hospital. So it goes that one of my maternal aunt’s
registered me with the official name Sujey (pronounced Su-hay) instead of the name my mother
wanted, which is Sukey (pronounced Su-key). This was a mistake my mother never had
corrected. After decades of hearing countless mispronunciations, I’ve learned to handle it with
much more grace as an adult than I did as a child. Since I am not married, I continue to carry my
father’s last name, Villagrana, which can be traced to my great-grandfather who settled in
Mexico from Spain.
Ancestry/Culture
My mother and father are both of Mexican ethnicity and, my ancestors have lived in
Mexico for many generations. Although we adopted part of the American culture when we
moved to the United States several decades ago, I identify more with the Mexican culture we
continue to embrace. Traditionally, we celebrate or observe Cinco de Mayo, Mexican
Independence Day, El Dia de Las Madres (Mother’s Day), which is celebrated May 10th, and
Quinceañeras, to name a few. This celebration occurs only when a young girl is turning 15 and is
transitioning into adulthood.
Birth Order
I am the youngest of five children born in my family. There is some truth when people say the
last child gets away with more than the older siblings do. My father was very strict with my
three sisters during their junior high and high school years. Most of their time was spent at home
and, they had very little freedom. I, on the other hand, was hardly ever home. Most of my days
were spent at my best friend’s house, attending school sports games and activities and, there was
no curfew established for me. My parents definitely loosened the reins when it came time to
experience what I thought were the best school years of my life.
Linguistic
Spanish is my first language. When my mother and father came to America, they learned
to speak English but wanted us to retain our native language and, so they spoke Spanish only to
my siblings and me. However, I picked up on English from my brother and sisters before I
entered kindergarten. We were very comfortable with the new language and no longer spoke
Spanish to each other. As an adult, I embraced the Spanish language as I realized what a
privilege it is to be bilingual. I chose to pass that on to my daughter and, she is the only one of
my parents’ 13 grandchildren who speaks Spanish.
Religion
As a baby, I was baptized in the Catholic church because my father was raised Catholic.
My mother was not raised in any religion but became a Pentecostal Christian when I was very
young. The earliest memories I have of attending church are when I was about five years old.
Today, I continue to practice the Christian faith and serve within the children’s and youth
ministries, as well as the ladies’ ministries.