P E R S O N A L D E V E LO P M E N T
PERSONAL
RELATIONSHIP
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“OBJECTIVE:
Express his/her ways of showing attraction, love,
and commitment.
a. D e fi n e a n d d i ff e r e n t i a t e b e t w e e n a t t r a c t i o n ,
love, and commitment.
b. I d e n t i f y a n d e x p r e s s t h e i r o w n w a y s o f s h o w i n g
attraction, love, and commitment.
c. A n a l y z e a n d d i s c u s s d i ff e r e n t w a y s t h a t
individuals show attraction, love, and
commitment in various relationships.
Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength,
while loving someone
deeply gives you courage. —Lao Tzu
Having and building relationship with others is
natural, yet sometimes, it could be challenging and
confusing.
What is
-attraction, love, and
commitment?
Attraction
a positive connection between two
or more people that share
something in common, like
interests, likes/dislikes, or desires.
Attraction
When you have a positive attitude or
evaluation regarding a particular person
in relation to different components, that
is interpersonal attraction. For many,
interpersonal attraction relates only
between two people having an intimate
and romantic relationship. However, it is
not only limited to such since it may also
transpire between friends, colleagues,
key components of attraction
Physical Attractiveness
Facial features like the shape and color
of the eyes, the nose, the lips, and even
the cheekbones and jaw have an impact
when talking with another person or
people;
the built of the body, the color of the
hair, the complexion, the smoothness of
the skin, and the smile also may be
considered with impact as these are the
Similarity
When you are asked by your teacher to
select a partner for an activity, who do
you usually choose? Why? The common
answer might be a friend who used to be
with you, perhaps, because there is a
connection between the two of you that
you do not have with others. We can say
that you are “on the same wavelength”
that is why
Proximity
One of the important aspects of any relationship is
distance. Proximity pertains to physical distance
with other people, and it is related to functional
distance (how often people interact or
communicate with each other). The more you
encounter or interact with the person, the more
you allow yourself to get to know him/her better
which leads to a better relationship like friendship
or intimate relationship. Most likely, the people
always near you just like your classmate or
neighbor has a big tendency to become your
Reciprocity
We tend to get along with people or
with someone whom we have the
same feelings toward. It is called
reciprocity. It is when feelings with
someone are being reciprocated or
returned in the same way as you do.
Love
strong affection for another arising
out of kinship or personal ties;
attraction based on sexual desire:
affection and tenderness felt by
lovers;
affection based on admiration,
benevolence, or common interests
Love
Three (3) different components/factors:
Intimacy, Passion, and Commitment.
Love
Three (3) different components/factors:
Intimacy, Passion, and Commitment.
Commitment
It is a long-term relationship between
individuals. A more complex relationship
that resulted to increasingly turn to each
other not only for social support but also
for help in coordinating activities,
remembering dates and appointments,
What are some ways to
express or show
attraction, love, and
commitment in a
relationship?
What are some ways to
express or show
attraction, love, and
commitment in a
relationship?
How important are
communication and
understanding each
other’s needs and
preferences in
What are the love
languages?
G E N E RA L I Z AT I O N :
• What is attraction, love, and commitment?
• What are the ways to express and show
attraction, love, and commitment?
• What are the love languages?
TA K E N O T E :
• Everyone is unique
• We have our own way to show our
attraction, love and commitment to
someone.
• We have our own love language.
• Be understanding and mindful of others
love languages.
"assignment
In this activity, you are going to express your best way
of expressing your attraction love or showing
commitment to someone by creating a mini poster out
of cut-outs from magazines, newspapers, or other
printed materials. Your mini poster should be done on
a short bond paper and must showcase your ways of
expressing affections to develop a long term-
relationship. Write a brief explanation of your work at
the back of your mini poster.
