i disappeared for awhile there, oops. i didn't go anywhere, i haven't even really been busy... maybe that's why i'd had nothing interesting to write about ;) we live in a legal 2 bedroom basement suite. we own it, actually, we went in with my husbands parents and we have 1/3 of the house and pay 1/3 of the mortgage. elliott's bedroom is at the end of our hallway behind a fire-door that was actually not part of our suite, it was intended to be an office for use by whoever is living upstairs…