How Much of a Girl's Girl Am I?

Take this quiz to find out!

A girl's girl is the bestie everyone wants—a genuinely kind and supportive person who loves to see other girls shine and always stands in solidarity with them. Do you fit the bill? It's time to find out!

Just answer these questions, and we'll tell you how much of a girl's girl you are. Hit "Start Quiz" to get started!

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1. Another girl walks into the room looking amazing. How do you feel?
  1. Jealous—it's only natural!
  2. In awe! I'll prob ask her where her outfit's from.
  3. Indifferent. I'm focused on myself!
  4. Interested. Who is she?
2. Would you ever date a friend's ex if you had a lot of chemistry with them?
  1. Absolutely not! That's way against girl code.
  2. Maybe, but I'd ask for her blessing first.
  3. Yup! Sorry, but my happiness has to come first.
3. Do you have a lot of friends who are girls?
  1. Yes! And I love them so much. 🥹
  2. I have a few good girl friends, but not a ton.
  3. No, friendships with girls are hard! I prefer being friends with guys.
4. You're a friend's wingwoman on a night out, but people keep flirting with you instead of her. What do you do?
  1. Flirt right back! I can't help it if they're attracted to me and not her.
  2. Be polite but distant, so they don't get the wrong idea.
  3. Constantly steer the convo back to my friend to hype her up.
5. A guy you like starts talking trash about a girl you low-key find annoying. What do you do?
  1. Shut it down immediately—we don't do that here!
  2. Stay silent but feel uncomfortable.
  3. Laugh along to keep the conversation going.
  4. Add my own tea about her to the convo to impress him.
6. Are you "like other girls"?
  1. Yes, and I'm proud! Girls are amazing.
  2. A little bit, but I'm also different in a lot of ways.
  3. Not at all. I'm nothing like other girls!
7. You see a girl clearly trying to escape a convo with an annoying dude. What do you do?
  1. Swoop in and rescue her. We gotta stick together!
  2. If she asks for help, I'll help, but I won't go over on my own.
  3. Probably nothing, tbh. It's not really any of my business!
  4. I'm not sure. It depends on the situation!
8. Your bestie gets an opportunity you really wanted (like the lead in the school play or a promotion at work). Your first thought is:
  1. "I can't wait to cheer her on! She deserves this."
  2. "I'm happy for her, but I need a night alone to cry it out first.
  3. "She only got this because the teacher/boss likes her better."
9. When you see another woman succeeding in life or love, how do you usually feel?
  1. Excited for her! I love to see women winning.
  2. Happy for her, but sometimes a little envious too.
  3. Competitive and upset, tbh. Why don't I have what she has?
  4. It depends on who the woman is, honestly.
10. An attractive person DMs you on Instagram, but they clearly have a girlfriend already. What do you do?
  1. Immediately message the GF about it. She deserves to know!
  2. Ignore the message, and leave it at that.
  3. Reply and feel it out. Don't want to miss out on a potential connection!
11. Do you ever put other girls down to make yourself feel better?
  1. No, of course not!
  2. Yeah, I've trash-talked once or twice...
  3. Honestly, I kinda do have a habit of doing this.
12. How often do you compliment other girls?
  1. All the time! 😍
  2. Occasionally.
  3. Never...

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What does it mean to be a "girl's girl"?

Being a girl's girl means being the type of woman who supports other women and cheers them on, rather than getting jealous or competitive when they're succeeding. It also means living by the "girl code" when it comes to things like avoiding dating a friend's ex or avoiding flirting with a friend's crush. Ultimately, a girl's girl is someone who champions other women instead of comparing themselves to them. We talked to wikiHow's mental health and relationship experts for their insights on supporting other women and being confident in oneself, and here's what they had to say:

  • Friendship and belonging expert Dr. Marisa G. Franco says, "First, I would investigate whether you have any biases that come up because sometimes women's friendships are portrayed as catty and jealous...[it's about] making sure that you're kind of approaching women from an open mind with a lot of hope and optimism for what the connection can look like."[1]
  • Life and empowerment coach Jennifer Butler, MSW, suggests finding some women mentors that you look up to based on your core values. She recommends "really knowing what your core values are and then finding a woman, a role model who aligns with those values."[2]
  • Relationship psychologist Supatra Tovar, PsyD, RD, says it's essential to remove comparisons. "Realize that everyone on the planet is unique. There is no other you. So, to compare yourself to others is completely pointless. Learn to focus on your strengths and good qualities, and this can help free you from negative comparisons [and] celebrate others' achievements."[3]
  • Empowerment coach Nicolette Tura, MA, agrees on the importance of removing comparisons. "Don't compare yourself to others. Love your body and surround yourself with people that you can be real with," she says.[4]
  • Certified professional master life coach Jessica George, MA CHt, suggests that the goal shouldn't be to "stand out" or separate yourself from other girls. Speaking from experience, she says, "I already had a great life as a girl and have worked hard to earn my stripes as an adult woman. As a woman, I stand proud of other women, no matter their age. I help other women create wonderful goals for their lives and move ahead with tremendous passion. I inspire girls and women to lead, have a voice, and be kind."[5] We think this is a beautiful model to follow!

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References

  1. ↑ Dr. Marisa G. Franco. Friendship and Belonging Expert. Expert Interview
  2. ↑ Jennifer Butler, MSW. Life & Empowerment Coach. Expert Interview
  3. ↑ Supatra Tovar, PsyD, RD. Relationship Psychologist. Expert Interview
  4. ↑ Nicolette Tura, MA. Empowerment Coach. Expert Interview
  5. ↑ Jessica George, MA, CHt. Certified Professional Master Life Coach. Expert Interview

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