Should I Ask Him Out?

Find out if it's time to make your move!
This quiz was created by wikiHow user kitty cat.

Your palms are sweaty, your speech is stammering, and you've got butterflies doing jumping jacks in your stomach: yup, you've got a crush! 🥰

The big question now is: how do you know if you should ask him out or not? That's where we come in! Answer some quick questions about your relationship with your crush, and we'll tell you if you should make a move. Hit "Start Quiz" to begin!

A girl daydreaming about the boy she has a crush on.

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1. How does he act whenever you walk into the room or talk to him?
  1. He smiles, lights up, and makes an effort to say hi!
  2. He's friendly and cool, but treats me pretty casually.
  3. He gets a little quiet or shy around me.
  4. He barely notices or kind of ignores me...
2. How do YOU feel whenever he's around?
  1. Super excited and happy—I just want to be around him!
  2. Excited, but a little nervous about saying the wrong thing.
  3. Total butterflies! My mind completely goes blank.
  4. Honestly... a bit stressed or unsure of where I stand.
3. What do you like most about him?
  1. Can I say everything?!
  2. His humor and personality!
  3. His smarts.
  4. Mostly just his looks...
4. Do your friends approve?
  1. Yeah, they totally approve!
  2. I haven't told them yet...
  3. They're split on it.
  4. No... they don't like him.
5. Do you talk to him a lot?
  1. We are like best friends, tbh!
  2. We used to talk a lot... like in class.
  3. Pfft, NO WAY! I get nervous.
  4. I'm not THAT into talking to him yet.
6. Does he know that you like him?
  1. Yeah, I think so!
  2. Who knows! Maybe?
  3. IDK...
  4. No way, I hide it!
7. Do you think he likes you back?
  1. Yes!!! =)
  2. Well... I have seen a few signs!
  3. How should I know???
  4. No... probably not.
8. Is he in a relationship right now?
  1. NO, he is totally single!
  2. Single, but things are a little complicated.
  3. Yeah... but they might break up soon?
  4. YES, he is taken.

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Signs Your Crush Likes You Back

It can be hard to tell if your crush reciprocates your feelings sometimes. That's why wikiHow talked to relationship experts to get their insights on the signs someone returns your romantic feelings. Here are the signs they said to look out for:

  • They flirt with you. Relationship expert Joshua Pompey says playful chitchat and frequent eye contact are strong signs someone's crushing on you.[1] Dating coach John Keegan agrees, but adds that some guys may confuse "flirting" with "teasing": "Sometimes that attention isn't necessarily what seems to be positive. A lot of boys like to tease, joke around, sometimes make fun, in order to flirt with a girl."[2]
  • They talk to you...a lot. Matchmaker and dating coach Lauren Sanders says, "If they like you, they want to know what's going on, want to know what you're up to."[3]
  • They find excuses to be around you. "Do they choose to be around you when they can be around other people?" asks dating coach Candice Mostisser. "Let's say you're at a party. If you walk away, are they making the point to come next to you at some point? And do they try to spend time alone with you?"[4]
  • They do favors for you. Sanders says someone who likes you may not express it verbally, but they'll show it by doing things for you. "They may offer to help you with a piece of work, or buy you some coffee or lunch or something like that."[5]
  • They go out of their way to touch you. Pompey says "some playful touches here and there" are clear signs someone wants to "show romantic interest."[6]



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References

  1. ↑ Joshua Pompey. Relationship Expert. Expert Interview
  2. ↑ John Keegan. Dating Coach. Expert Interview
  3. ↑ Lauren Sanders. Matchmaker & Dating Coach. Expert Interview
  4. ↑ Candice Mostisser. Dating Coach. Expert Interview
  5. ↑ Lauren Sanders. Matchmaker & Dating Coach. Expert Interview
  6. ↑ Joshua Pompey. Relationship Expert. Expert Interview