Mama’s babies

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Couldn’t agree more. 👏👏👏
This just goes without explanation in our opinion, but if you need one, here it is— If you aren’t showing up, you aren’t a priority. That doesn’t mean if you physically can’t be here we are cutting you out—it means there are many ways to show up and if you can’t find a way to show up, we aren’t going to force our son to know you. Therefore, if he doesn’t know you when he rarely sees you, you have no right to be offended when we don’t force him to interact with you. 🤷🏽‍♀️ He is a human, not a pawn in a game. We want him to understand and respect boundaries that we make, but also encourage him to make his own. Something that we both weren’t good at as children and all the way into early adulthood. But now we understand how truly important they are in protecting your peace.
Parenting
Family and friends respecting your parenting. Parenting is such a selfless expereince, expecially while ypur children are so young. Anyone who shames you or makes you feel guilty for doing what is in the best interest for your family is not someone to give any time to. The time you have with your children is too precious.