Closure? Not So Fast….
You will never get closure with a narc. NEVER. First, he doesn’t meet the 3 most important pre-requisites: A reasonable degree of sanity; a foothold in reality; empathy. He will never accept his part of the responsibility, as he portrays himself as the long suffering hero and you as the terrible ogre, after every nasty blow-up, attack and cold shoulder episode she initiated and will never admit to any of the atrocities he committed during the relationship now that it’s over.