TO CLIP OR NOT TO CLIP THE VULVA that is the question?,

As the intoxicating mystery of sex is unveiled,  we women are turned into porn stars the world is a sorry den of inequity or is it?.  I believe it is all to do with the hair. The hair of our vagina which represents health, vitality and fertility is being removed, as trees in a forest. Many men have never seen hair and the young face hair often with horror. Today women spend thousands a year on perfecting their vulva, grooming, cutting, tweezing and waxing and the Far East is catching on too, personally, I  think the baldness is hideous and has references to pedophilia and prostitution. It is not just America who has encouraged this trend but Europe too.  It is genuinely not a pretty thing seeming mostly to attract the promiscuous. Real manly men in my life have commented that it is totally unattractive and that they prefer making love with a very hairy bush.  It is however encouraged by beauticians, girl-boys and the porn industry to be hospital ready.  We wear bikinis and thongs and any hair showing makes us feel dishevelled. Could lack of hair be the root of all our problems today?. If you look into Edwardian porn there was nobody to trim your tree. I think it is time to celebrate the bush and be a woman. You could put it down to hygiene but I have three baths a day and am as fresh as a daisy so what then is the obsession with looking ten years old? Yesterday I was told I had 8,000 nerve endings in our vulva 8,000 or 8,000,000 it is an awful lot. The penis is half that, I was told the woman is the Lamborgini to the male counterpart who is a  Penny Farthing. With that thought in mind, hair or no hair seems low down on importance. I was told the important thing is masturbation by my friend and writer Stephanie Theobald. Oops the most important question I forgot to ask her. She believes masturbation keeps us young but I forgot about the plantation. Perhaps you have a more satisfactory sex life if you clip it?
I asked several men and they were none the wiser. They just did not care, they were so much nicer than the women generally,  they just wanted to keep us happy.
As men are not criticised about their liberal attitudes towards sex it is time to protect ourselves, but when I asked a very young friend his views on this, he said women were terrifying and he did not want sex with them at all because he thought more about pregnancy, or that a woman may trap him into paying maintenance or claim the rape card. He too did not mention what he preferred, hair or no hair.
Should we keep our pubic hair for an intimate relationship or art? Should we remove it for porn or our sex life?. I do not find hair under the arms or on the legs attractive and it is not in this equation.
At the same time hair in my mind equates smell, which is very important and is a form of aphrodisiac and therefore magic. When you like somebody's smell you know you love them and are attracted and you will be reminded of them. I was told that if you don't like somebody's smell it is an indication not to marry them.  Human smells are totally individual and if you find someone one who matches you, you better keep them close. Another friend of mine said that she thought about a man for a whole year not knowing him, just remembering the smell of his hair, it drove her to seek him out again, and him her,
Another man said he hated messy hairy bushes because it reminded him about financial trading, whether they were neat financial traders or messy. Oh for goodness sake,  all I asked about is whether no hair was attractive?
Here I think lies the answer too, a man just came into my room and I casually asked him what sort of woman does he like?. He tactfully said "Everywoman, green, yellow, red and blue, variety is the spice of life" and he liked all smells and potions. Phew, I will believe in that then,  and do what hair suits me and so should you.

THE FORLORN WATCH PORN

I went to a youth convention this week end.  I was there to discuss  my photography.  In the corner, I overheard a conversation about porn on the internet.  The boys were saying that porn was better and cheaper than taking a girl out for dinner. They were often given a huge head ache by the women in their lives. They feel shame about wanting sex. In any case they said they had to pay for everything, and at the end of it, not so much as a cuddle.  They were all about 25, good looking and all complaining.  Men are as we know programmed to have sex with as many partners as possible, to procreate. The advice I was given, was to watch sites on line which were easier and as good as making love.
I am an appalling romantic. When I was very young there was nothing better than walking the streets of London holding hands, sharing a coffee, laughing over a film, and falling into bed kissing. I asked them about the sites without looking too interested, they were sniggering, but one boy was helpful. I told him I was going to do an article about it and he showed me the sites on his I phone. I felt I was completely out of  touch. I knew it existed, but its only when you watch it that you  really understand how big the world is.
I got back home and turned on the screen to a couple of sites. I immediately understood, if I were a man I would probably do the same. The girls were live, pretty, perfect, porn stars, looking as if they were in the comfort of their bedroom. The photographs explicit, very real and with a nothing left to the imagination.  Men could imagine making out with her and probably prefer it to taking out someone they know. For very little cost you could see a more pornographic show in the privacy of your bedroom, more exotic than Thailand. The girls can chat with you.  You can become friends with them. All alive in a brash, crazy way. Rather like a pornographic Facebook.
Lonely men  and women could imagine being in love with them. In fact the sites were for both sexes and there are as many women as men watching them.
However there is a downside of course,  Internet porn is killing mens libido causing erectile dysfunction so a report on you tube  by Gary Wilson says. 
They do not teach people to communicate normally . In some cases men are finding it difficult to make love with real women because they find the net less complicated, the real girls in the their life not as attractive and nothing excites them. Men naturally want to have sex with many women as possible and women want men to be faithful. Women go out of their way to be as manipulative as possible while reading self help books. They know what a man needs is an uncomplicated physical seeing to, but they want marriage and children. We are programmed differently.
If you want to see more of me, I hate to bore you but I do not have that kind of website, you will have to hold my hand and bring me a rose.  I shall keep to the past and hold hands with my real life heroes and look forward to naturally being attracted to someone in a normal way. So boys if you wish to be turned on, turn off the porn and feel the real.