I don't just want to marry you to wake up to you everyday or be with you forever. l want to marry you bc marriage is hard, raising kids is hard, debt & bills & relatives & jobs & blending two families & lives is hard, and you're the person l want to go through bad times with. Life is never going to magically be all butterflies & rainbows just bc you marry your soul mate. Life is hard, & I want to marry you & love you every day through every bump in the road. want to marry you to…