Soft Skills Aren’t Soft, They’re the Hard Stuff That Connects People
Let’s retire the term “soft skills.” It’s outdated—and misleading.
Because what we’re really talking about are the skills that hold everything together. They’re not just nice-to-haves. They’re what make people effective in a world where work is changing faster than ever.
Empathy? It’s not about being nice. It’s about being able to connect—to really see your team, your customers, your stakeholders.
Adaptability? That’s not flexibility for the sake of it. It’s the ability to lead when the ground is constantly shifting.
And hustle? It’s the spark. The internal drive that separates the people who wait for direction from the ones who move things forward.
These aren’t soft. They’re strong. And they’re getting harder to find.
They’re also the foundation of innovation. Because here’s the truth: people don’t innovate in silos. They innovate when they feel seen, trusted, and supported.
The best ideas in your company aren’t coming from the loudest voice in the room. They’re coming from the people who feel safe enough to speak up—and from the leaders who make that safety possible.
Innovation isn’t a department. It’s a culture. And culture lives or dies by how well we lead with human skills.
So let’s stop calling them soft. Let’s call them what they are:
Human skills. Connection skills. Innovation skills. Business-critical skills.
Why Human Skills Matter Even More in an AI World
Workday’s Chief Philanthropy Officer Carrie Varoquiers recently shared “How human connection drives innovation in the age of AI” in Fast Company:
“In this age of algorithms, fostering genuine human connection is not a soft skill; it’s becoming a core driver of innovation and progress.”
She gets right to the heart of the paradox. When AI does the heavy lifting on data, tasks, and tech, it shines a spotlight on the opportunity for humans to really connect.
Consider this: McKinsey says the top reasons people quit are feeling undervalued by their organization (54%), their managers (52%), or a lack of belonging (51%) And blown‑out loneliness at work doesn’t just hurt feelings—it cripples satisfaction, performance, and resilience
But here’s the shift: when AI frees up bandwidth, it shouldn’t go toward more automation. It should go toward enabling human connection. Additional research backs it up:
94% of employees say feeling connected to colleagues makes them more productive, four times more satisfied, and half as likely to quit.
AI often creates echo chambers unless leaders intentionally build bridges across teams, roles, and backgrounds
That leads to the main point of the Paradox of AI: the more intelligent the tech gets, the more human we need to be—not just at work, but about our work.
So this isn’t about being feel-good. It’s about being effective. When empathy, adaptability, and hustle are infused with real connection, innovation follows. Ideas flow. Collaboration thrives. Culture shifts. And that’s a competitive edge that no algorithm can replicate.
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AI Without Connection Is a Risk, Not a Revolution
Here’s another side to the paradox: AI is here to unlock human potential—but if we’re not intentional, it can isolate us.
In Brené Brown’s book “The Gifts of Imperfection” she says, "In our technology-crazed world, we've confused being communicative with feeling connected. Just because we're plugged in, doesn't mean we feel seen and heard."
Come see Brené Brown speak about connection and courage at Workday Rising!