A New Year, a New Me

January 2012

December 2009

As you can see, quite a change! I've lost almost 60 lbs in the last year, 18 in the last two months working the personal trainer. Life is so much easier and better with out that extra weight! Still have some work to do but well on my way. Keeping everyone happy and healthy. Hope your year is off to a great start too!

Hugs,

Dawn 

Holding on to Summer

A bag of craft store shells

and a beautiful octagonal jar from an estate sale

take me to distant beaches of long ago times.

A Balancing Act

That's what this summer has been.

I'm grateful we have a pool. 

I love to go out late in the evening when the neighborhood has quieted down...

The air is hot and heavy and no breeze stirs the water.

I can't resist.

Perfectly still, perfectly quiet, until one foot breaks the glass-like surface.

The first ripple glides to the far side. 

The porch light now dancing on the water delights me.

I roll up my pants high above my knees and plop down on the hot cement.

I'm tempted to just dive in, clothes and all, but am too practical for that.

I settle for kicking both feet with abandon.

The waves are rocking, slapping against the sides and spilling water onto the sidewalk.

Pants soaked.

I stop and take a few deep breaths while the waves expend the last of their energy.

Quiet stillness again.

Then the screen door slams.

The dogs run out and nearly push me in.

Someone hollers, "mOm?"

They found me...

Rejuvenated.  

Parenting Article ~ The Never-Empty Nest

I  want to take a moment to let you know about an article I just read in the July 2011 issue of Good Housekeeping. It's called "The Never-Empty Nest" by Michael Callahan. I'm not sure if it's on news stands yet but it should be soon. The cover has Angie Harmon and is done in red white and blue.

Mr. Callahan is an uncle to two young adults with autism. Neither will ever be able to take care of himself. This article is interesting as it's from the point of view from someone who is close to the family, loves them dearly, but is still on the outside. One can't really know what it's like to be a full time caretaker unless you've been there. The author touches on sacrifice, fear and acceptance as well as the simple, happy moments that make life good. It also delves into the often unspoken feelings and perceived responsibilities of extended family.

Even if you aren't currently dealing with a developmentally disabled child this is a very interesting article. The issues of dependent adult care are being brought to the forefront more and more. Most people are aware of autism and Alzheimer's but other factors like traumatic brain injury can lead to the immediate need for home health care. While most focus is on the monetary cost the bigger issue for me is the mental and emotional toll on the caregivers. 

Just yesterday I stopped by "English Cottage in Georgia" to check in on my friend Lucy. I was sad to find that her husband Terry has passed away. Terry had suffered traumatic brain injury when knocked down on the sideline of a high school football game several year ago.  I left a note of condolence for this wonderfully strong, loving lady then clicked over to her second blog, "Life is Too Short". It is dedicated to Terry's journey. Her recent post there was about accepting her husband's condition and what it meant in her day to day life. Please stop by and offer Lucy a hug. You'll gain a new perspective on life in return.