272 reactions · 5 comments | 1. “Would you say you’re emotionally available right now?” → If he hesitates—you have your answer. 2. “What happened in your last relationship?” → The blame game reveals more than the breakup. 3. “So who do you usually go to when you’re upset?” → No support system = future emotional dumping. 4. “How do you handle a woman who challenges you respectfully?” → Secure men stay present. Fragile ones get defensive. 5. “Do you believe in taking space during conflict—or solving it fast?” → You’ll hear avoidant vs. anxious in one sentence. 6. “What’s your communication style when you’re stressed?” → If he says “I shut down,” believe him. 7. “What do you think about women who know what they want?” → Triggering? You’re already too much for him. 8. “How do you usually end things with someone?” → If it’s ghosting… you’re next. 9. “Do you think it’s okay to still talk to your ex?” → Not always a dealbreaker, but often a red flag in disguise. 10. “Have you ever gone to therapy?” → He either embraces growth—or avoids himself. 11. “What’s something you’re still working on emotionally?” → If he says “nothing,” he’s not self-aware enough to date. 12. “How do you act when someone disappoints you?” → You’ll find out if he shuts down, lashes out—or handles like a man. 13. “What’s your biggest relationship ick?” → His answer = his insecurity projection. 14. “Do you think you’re a good communicator?” → If he says yes, pay attention to his proof—not his pride. 15. “What would your ex say about how you handled emotions?” → Even he knows the answer—and it’ll leak through. 16. “What’s your biggest fear in relationships?” → If he says ‘losing freedom’… believe him. 17. “How do you respond when a woman asks for more clarity?” → Vagueness = a walking red flag. 18. “Are you a planner or more go-with-the-flow?” → Go-with-the-flow often means go-without-effort. 19. “What does loyalty mean to you?” → His definition will tell you if he even believes in commitment. 20. “Do you believe women should ‘submit’ in a relationship?” → Watch how fast he shows you the ego behind the smile. | Flagitaa Michaela | Facebook
272 reactions · 5 comments | 1. “Would you say you’re emotionally available right now?” → If he hesitates—you have your answer. 2. “What happened in your last relationship?” → The blame game reveals more than the breakup. 3. “So who do you usually go to when you’re upset?” → No support system = future emotional dumping. 4. “How do you handle a woman who challenges you respectfully?” → Secure men stay present. Fragile ones get defensive. 5. “Do you believe in taking space during conflict—or solving it fast?” → You’ll hear avoidant vs. anxious in one sentence. 6. “What’s your communication style when you’re stressed?” → If he says “I shut down,” believe him. 7. “What do you think about women who know what they want?” → Triggering? You’re already too much for him. 8. “How do you
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