Because our school is Leader In Me-focused, we have lots of discussions about being proactive and thinking win-win. One of the ways I like to make these ideas relatable, especially to some kids who struggle with these concepts the most, is to use analogies that they are all familiar with and can easily relate to. My favorite question to ask these days is not, "Are your being proactive or reactive?" but is instead, "Is this a Soda Kid choice or Water Kid choice?" Let me help explain by using…