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27K views · 429 reactions | The anxious attacher #anxiousattachment #anxiousattachmentstyle #anxious #insecureattachment #avoidant #avoidantattachment #attachmentstyle #narcissist #gaslighting #noboundaries #heartbroken #breakup #divorce #lovebombing #Relationship #dating | The anxious attacher #anxiousattachment #anxiousattachmentstyle #anxious #insecureattachment #avoidant #avoidantattachment #attachmentstyle #narcissist... | By Malika | Facebook

Why it’s so hard to get over an avoidant (and how to heal). You got this! Healing is possible and it does get better! #avoidant #avoidantattachment #dismissiveavoidant #fearfulavoidantattachment #insecureattachment #attachmentstyle #emotionallyunavailai | Why it’s so hard to get over an avoidant (and how to heal). You got this! Healing is possible and it does get better! #avoidant #avoidantattachment... | By Malika | Facebook

16K views · 2.4K reactions | Avoidants put you and the relationship at the bottom of their priorities list. #avoidant #avoidantattachment #dismissiveavoidant #fearfulavoidant #insecureattachment #insecureattachment #attachmenttheory #breakups #breakup #discard #discarded #divorce #heartbroken #heartbreak #relationships #dating #situationships #attachmentwounds #relationshipcoach | Coach Ryan | Facebook

Anxious attachment is often triggered and revealed when in a relationship with an avoidant #avoidant #avoidantattachment #dismissiveavoidant #fearfulavoidantattachment #insecureattachment #attachmentstyle #emotionallyunavailaible #breakup | Anxious attachment is often triggered and revealed when in a relationship with an avoidant #avoidant #avoidantattachment #dismissiveavoidant... | By Malika | Facebook

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How to Cope With a Dismissive-Avoidant Partner

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124K views · 5.4K reactions | If you’ve ever heard someone say, ‘I can’t give you what you need,’ you know how painful and confusing it can be. But here’s the truth—when an avoidant says this, it’s rarely about you. It’s about their own fears of intimacy, their belief that love = overwhelm, and their deep-seated worry that they’ll never be ‘enough’ for a partner. Avoidants don’t push people away because they don’t care. They push away because closeness feels like a threat. And if you’re anxiously attached, hearing this can trigger every fear of abandonment you’ve ever had. But you don’t have to stay stuck in this cycle. 💬 Have you ever been told this? What did you wish they had said instead? Drop your thoughts below! ⬇️ | Jennifer Wolfe, MA | Life Coach | Facebook

533K views · 8.5K reactions | How To Handle The Silent Treatment | Your power is never in managing someone else’s reactions, it’s about controlling how YOU respond. So when someone gives you the silent treatment,... | By Mel | Facebook

47K views · 1.1K reactions | The avoidant puts on a mask (false confidence) | #fearfulavoidant #dismissiveavoidant #attachmentwounds #avoidant #divorce #insecureattachment #relationships #discard #avoidantattachment... | By Coach | Facebook

When anxious dumps avoidant, it’s usually when the anxious person has nothing left in the tank to give. #avoidant #dismissiveavoidant #fearfulavoidant... | By Coach | Facebook

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15K views · 2.4K reactions | What do avoidants want from their partner? #avoidant #avoidantattachment #dismissiveavoidant #fearfulavoidant #insecureattachment #attachmenttheory #emotionallyunavailable #breakup #breakups #discard #discarded #divorce #relationships #blindsided #heartbroken #heartbreak #dating #situationships #attachmentwounds #fearofrejection #fearofintimacy #fearofvulnerability #relationshipcoach | Coach Ryan | Facebook

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1K reactions · 75 comments | Top 5 signs that it’s time to walk away from the dismissive avoidant. #avoidant #avoidantattachment #dismissiveavoidant #insecureattachment #attachmentstyles #emotionallyunavailable #breakup #breakups #divorce #discard #discarded #heartbroken #heartbreak #attachmentwounds #relationships #fearofvulnerability #fearofintimacy #dating #situationships #relationshipcoach | Coach Ryan | Facebook