Break the cycle

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3mo
Your parents harsh critic becomes your inner critic. And historically I've always had trouble with giving the wrong people the benefit of the doubt when they were in fact manipulative, and being too harsh on people who didn't deserve it. You're trained when your narcissistic parent makes a "mistake" that they're only human.. but when you make a mistake you're a terrible shameful person. This takes work to undo. Now that I know the signs of cluster B disorders it's easier.