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18 days ago	mod	Removed Post ladies, how do I take care of my hold ups' silicone bands? reason: rule 1
2 months ago	mod	Banned PapaStevesy@lemmy.world from the community WomensStuff@piefed.blahaj.zone reason: Broke rules expires: in 74 years
2 months ago	mod	Banned PapaStevesy@lemmy.world from the community WomensStuff@piefed.blahaj.zone reason: Broke rules expires: in 74 years
3 months ago	mod	Removed Comment You hit the front page of ALL. I’m not reading every rule for every post I click reply. Most sidebars are blank anyways and I have to use a wiki to look up the rules (on mobile). I wasn’t seeking a woman’s group to invade. Enjoy your safe space and I hope you have a lovely day on the front page. by TheAsianDonKnots@lemmy.zip reason: play nice
3 months ago	mod	Removed Comment Treating someone poorly based solely on gender? That's bigotry. Clear communication is _probably_ a better approach. by dhhyfddehhfyy4673@fedia.io reason: misogynist
3 months ago	mod	Removed Comment > Welcome Why do you use the word 'welcome' when obviously you aren't welcoming? Is it so you, and the community, look civil and polite instead of unwelcoming and sexist? by OfCourseNot@fedia.io reason: Deleted by mod: Misogynist
3 months ago	mod	Removed Comment What do you mean? I was just pointing out an(other) obvious lie, no rule was broken (no aggression, personal attack or anything). by OfCourseNot@fedia.io reason: Deleted by mod: Misogynist
3 months ago	mod	Removed Comment > We appreciate your input but Oh! You did it again here... by OfCourseNot@fedia.io reason: rule 2: don't be a dick, play nice
3 months ago	mod	Banned frizzo@piefed.social from the community WomensStuff@piefed.blahaj.zone reason: Trolling expires: in 74 years
3 months ago	mod	Restored Post Gender Equality's Final Frontier: Ourselves
3 months ago	mod	Removed Post Gender Equality's Final Frontier: Ourselves reason: rule 1: only women are permitted to comment or post
3 months ago	mod	Removed Comment ehhh im not really into drag by Jerkface (any/all)@lemmy.ca reason: Deleted by mod: Bigotry
3 months ago	mod	Banned OrteilGenou@lemmy.world from the community WomensStuff@piefed.blahaj.zone reason: Male expires: in 74 years
3 months ago	mod	Banned OrteilGenou@lemmy.world from the community WomensStuff@piefed.blahaj.zone reason: Male expires: in 74 years
3 months ago	mod	Banned orioler25@lemmy.ca from the community WomensStuff@piefed.blahaj.zone reason: History of aggression expires: in 74 years
4 months ago	mod	Banned Grass@sh.itjust.works from the community WomensStuff@piefed.blahaj.zone reason: History of aggression expires: in 74 years
4 months ago	mod	Removed Comment A reminder that cops in the carceral state will fabricate shit a day after you report their misconduct to the FBI and would destroy a family because they don't give a fuck about any of their real victims because they're mostly drunk retards who couldn't do actual jobs. I am dedicating this to the real abusers, people who trust other people to do their shit. Why? They fabricate any bullshit to rob and terrorize minorities like murder threats over a McDouble (YES THIS IS NONFICTION AND ALSO CHANGED THE RESULTS OF THE 2024 ELECTION BECAUSE YOU GAVE PIGS MORE RIGHTS THAN PEOPLE) literally fed off of your ignorance to do terrorism against ten million people and from the affected people it changed the election results because it was abused again because of the state monopolization on violence. Well let's remember what we did to abusers in 1776 today. by mandatstory@lemmy.world reason: Deleted by mod
4 months ago	mod	Banned CannonFodder@lemmy.world from the community WomensStuff@piefed.blahaj.zone reason: History of aggression expires: in 74 years
4 months ago	mod	Banned Getitupinyerstuffin'@lemmy.world from the community WomensStuff@piefed.blahaj.zone reason: Inappropriate remarks expires: in 74 years
5 months ago	mod	Removed Comment Ok, but is there not another side to the coin where you’re blaming men for what women do? by HarneyToker@lemmy.world reason: rule 5: no recently created accounts
5 months ago	mod	Banned FenderStratocaster@lemmy.world from the community WomensStuff@piefed.blahaj.zone reason: Women only comm expires: in 74 years
5 months ago	mod	Removed Comment MAGA is the patriarchy. by Zephorah@discuss.online reason: rule 4: no politics, no Trump
5 months ago	mod	Removed Comment Me too. And the mod. by D_C@sh.itjust.works reason: Deleted by mod
5 months ago	mod	Banned D_C@sh.itjust.works from the community WomensStuff@piefed.blahaj.zone reason: Hostility expires: in 74 years
5 months ago	mod	Banned ILikeBoobies@lemmy.ca from the community WomensStuff@piefed.blahaj.zone reason: Male expires: in 74 years
5 months ago	mod	Banned quacky@lemmy.world from the community WomensStuff@piefed.blahaj.zone reason: Trolling and history of hostility expires: in 74 years
5 months ago	mod	Removed Post Permanently Deleted reason: Deleted by mod
5 months ago	mod	Banned macaw_dean_settle@lemmy.world from the community WomensStuff@piefed.blahaj.zone reason: Trolling, hostility and history of aggression expires: in 74 years
5 months ago	mod	Banned UsernameHere from the community WomensStuff@piefed.blahaj.zone reason: History of trolling expires: in 74 years
5 months ago	mod	Banned kingofras@lemmy.world from the community WomensStuff@piefed.blahaj.zone reason: Requested to expires: in 74 years
5 months ago	mod	Banned kingofras@lemmy.world from the community WomensStuff@piefed.blahaj.zone reason: Requested to be banned expires: in 74 years
5 months ago	mod	Banned Boomer Humor Doomergod@lemmy.world from the community WomensStuff@piefed.blahaj.zone reason: Male expires: in 74 years
5 months ago	mod	Removed Comment Most men aren't doing any of those things either. So why do you treat us as if we are? by WatDabney@lemmy.dbzer0.com reason: Deleted by mod
5 months ago	mod	Banned WatDabney@lemmy.dbzer0.com from the community WomensStuff@piefed.blahaj.zone reason: Man, not there for positive reasons expires: in 74 years
5 months ago	mod	Banned tomiant@programming.dev from the community WomensStuff@piefed.blahaj.zone reason: Troll expires: 5 months ago
5 months ago	mod	Removed Comment Regarding why I ~~turned in~~ burned my (proverbial) man card: So what trait is it appropriate for one gender to have, but not the other (or another?). As the 1980s, all the traits attributed to masculinity were expected of adults in the 1990s, and by the aughts. Everyone is expected to pay bills on time (or contact creditors to negotiate a payment plan). Everyone is expected to be amicable to coworkers, exes, fellow motorists and anyone else that that requires good behavior and negotiation. Over [here](https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/post/29393825/15531357) I explained what ideals of masculinity inspired me as a young man. (Sorry about the inelegant link) which was inspired by the cold war: the ability to have power (sometimes immense power) and _not_ use it, even when provoked. But again, that now comes down to adulting: being responsible. But then we noticed that corporations don't have to treat us the way we're expected to treat them or each other, and there's this whole privileged class (usually, the ownership class) who expects to be able to behave like toddlers and get their way, while the rest of us put up with it. And they're not _actual_ toddlers (which have the advantage of being cute, empathetic and willing to learn) rather they're elected officials and upper management. And now, masculinity, according to Donald Trump and the loudest voices of the manosphere, people l like Matt Walsh, Joe Rogan and Ben Shapiro, is simply having power and using it to behave offensively while others suffer. In the 90s and aughts, I was a gender abolitionist, expecting that different body bits don't make one a better automotive mechanic, or sous chef, or crochet enthusiast and creator, or Linux application coder. Heck, once the San Francisco Fire Department started training women, we soon had top firefighters who were neither male nor Irish. The only reason I'm _not_ a gender abolitionist now is because trans folk get _a whole lot_ out of being their true gender, rather than their birth-assignment. I supposed the next step is asking trans men what _they_ see as masculine, knowing that it's likely to be different than what is assumed in the alt-right and by podders like Rogan, Walsh and Shapiro. Still, I answer to all pronouns, and consider myself enby, just specifically not a man. I'm too ashamed of what manhood looks like to the mainstream. In the _Saints Row_ series of games (in which anyone, man or woman, could wear any article of clothing offered) I was more into the fashion and style game than I was the shooting (but the gunplay was still very cool). by Uriel238 [all pronouns]@lemmy.blahaj.zone reason: Deleted by mod
6 months ago	mod	Removed Comment This problem is not unique to women. by yucandu@lemmy.world reason: rule 1
6 months ago	mod	Removed Comment There’s no gender war. It’s a made-up thing to distract from the class war the rich are fighting while we fight dumb-add “culture wars” by Mongostein@lemmy.ca reason: Deleted by mod: History of trolling and aggression
6 months ago	mod	Removed Comment To be honest, yes. I think some women are in fact choosing horrible fucking men. Whether its because they think they can change them, like the danger, or some lack of self esteem thing. Yes, women choose fucking horrible men all the time. I had friend that got together with a guy when she was around 19. A few months later, they moved away together to a little island down south. After about 2 months, they had this little nothing argument. But he punched her square in the face. That was her first hint that he was a cunt. Seven. FUCKING. YEARS. Later. And shes on the phone to me, crying, telling me that hes had her on the floor and kicking into her stomach while shes 5 months pregnant(this is when I found out everything that had been going on). I told her to pack her shit, I was coming over to take her to her mothers. But she didnt want that, because she had fallen out with her mother... guess what caused that? A day later, they are loved up again like nothing had happened. And Im the fucking asshole for wanting to kick his cunt in for what he did to her. It took another year, and her kids being blind in one eye before she finally let me take her to her mothers. Im not blaming her, but fuck me, she had plenty of warnings who this guy was before their lives got tangled up like they did. And Im but "I love him." is some bullshit. Guys are like this as well. Picking the same horrible women over and over and over again. Gold diggers and social butterflies, pushing other forms of abuse. And the dumb bastards think "nah, it'll be fine." and then they find out she was fucking all his friends. Some people are just horrible at choosing partners, focusing on things like looks, sex, money, style, before looking at a persons character. which is, IMO, the most important thing. Character. by Bennyboybumberchums@lemmy.world reason: Deleted by mod
6 months ago	mod	Removed Comment Permanently Deleted by zeropointone@lemmy.world reason: Deleted by mod
6 months ago	mod	Removed Comment Permanently Deleted by zeropointone@lemmy.world reason: Deleted by mod
6 months ago	mod	Removed Comment All I pointed out was the fact that 30% of the human population is categorically incapable of moral reasoning. This is a very conservative estimate. > We can discuss forever about morals but that wouldn't be helpful either. This ^ is a moral claim. Presumably you think it’s helpful. Talking about morality is how we get rid of things like slavery. > There is no need to de-humanize people who score high in the dark triad I’m not. All humans are animals. Some (small fraction) of these animals instantiate transcendental values. Others do not. That’s why we had slavery for 10,000 years. These are just the facts. Railing against reality does literally nothing. > It's always a good idea to start with looking at your own human nature (Instincts). That is what I am doing. You? by yeahiknow3@lemmings.world reason: Deleted by mod
6 months ago	mod	Removed Comment Also, at least 30% of the human population is categorically incapable of moral reasoning — half of Americans literally voted for Donald Trump. Imagine wading through that mire of subhumanity. by yeahiknow3@lemmings.world reason: Deleted by mod: Politic
6 months ago	mod	Removed Comment Maybe by acknowledging that most children with dysphoria outgrow it in adulthood and just discover they are homosexual? by sir_pronoun@lemmy.world reason: Deleted by mod: Transphobia
6 months ago	mod	Restored Post What do you think of the list?
6 months ago	mod	Removed Post What do you think of the list? reason: Deleted by mod