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Banned 🔍🦘🛎 @lemmy.world from the community reason: Transphobia
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Banned powerstruggle @sh.itjust.works from the community reason: Transphobe
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Banned powerstruggle @sh.itjust.works from the community reason: Sex "realist"
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Removed Comment Why is this bitch writing on the wall with a pencil? by darvocet @infosec.pub reason: Needlessly aggressive
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Banned Maple Engineer @lemmy.world from the community reason: Transphobia apologism
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Banned jordanlund @lemmy.world from the community reason: Transphobe
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Removed Post A Muslim-majority city banned Pride flags. A judge just ruled on its legality 4 months ago mod
Removed Post Feminist gets 2.5 years in prison for t-shirt that said “Allah is a lesbian” reason: The "feminist" in the article is a TERF, see comments.
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Banned cooligula @sh.itjust.works from the community reason: No defense of TERFism
4 months ago mod
Removed Comment I appreciate your comment. The last part was a bit uncalled for, but anyway. In any case, while I can agree in scientific consensus, there will always be people that don't. And that is the point I was trying to make.
There are people who believe the world is flat, and people who believe the world is 4000 years old. My point was that not agreeing with scientific consensus is not the same as not believing the people who do shouldn't exist or shouldn't participate in society however they want.
In fact, the person I know who doesn't believe in the concept of transgenderism *did in fact* vote in favour of trans rights in my country (as did I). They don't understand it and don't agree with the concept, but they still want everyone to have the rights they deserve and know it's not up to them to decide how one defines themselves.
And I think they are not a bigot. by cooligula @sh.itjust.works reason: No defense of TERFism
4 months ago mod
Removed Comment As far as I read, she doesn't say anything about being against trans rights. What I read is that she believes that being trans doesn't change someone's gender, and I think that's different to being a bigot. One can respect trans people without believing transitioning actually changes their gender, because the meaning of gender has evolved, and not everyone agrees (and this is coming from someone who actually agrees).
I think it's important not to use the word "bigotry" as willy nilly, because if people start calling everyone who doesn't agree with them a bigot, the word loses its meaning altogether.
I do believe in people being transgender, but I do have friends that don't *but, nevertheless, respect trans people anyway*. One can believe transitioning doesn't change the underlying gender but still respect the people who do it anyway.
This might sound a bit weird, but I think the principle is very similar:
You can have an atheist and a theist in the same room. Their beliefs are inherently different, but that doesn't change the fact that they can respect each other. by cooligula @sh.itjust.works reason: No defense of TERFism
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Banned DragonTypeWyvern @midwest.social from the community reason: Defending TERFs
4 months ago mod
Removed Comment Y'all are why the left is losing. by DragonTypeWyvern @midwest.social reason: Defense of TERFism
4 months ago mod
Banned mienshao @lemmy.world from the community reason: Racism/bigotry
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Removed Comment i love idiots spouting this grandiose nonsense that don’t realize humanity is a blip and 99% or so of all species that ever existed on this planet are gone
anyone paying attention to reality right now knows this needed to be resolved 30 years ago
hope you didn’t have kids
by baines @lemmy.cafe reason: Removed to diffuse old argument
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Banned outhouseperilous @lemmy.dbzer0.com from the community reason: Trolling/insults
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Banned resipsaloquitur @lemmy.world from the community reason: Bigot
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Banned PoopChute6969 @piefed.social from the community reason: Troll
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Banned Tired @slrpnk.net from the community reason: New account calling queer folk "pedos"
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Removed Comment Your wireless router probably comes with a guest network feature. Use it.
Though that won't help when the device itself is ratting you out for everything you type into it. by neuracnu @lemmy.blahaj.zone reason: Unrelated, maybe a bot?!
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Removed Post Transgender row rape charity starts new service for biological women reason: Deleted by mod
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Removed Comment What would be the solution here? Trying to maintain fairness in sports is just gonna be a game of wack-a-mole. Women's leagues were created because it was believed they couldn't compete at the same level. Its argued that Trans women shouldn't play in women's leagues because they had too much testosterone, but some biological women also have increased testosterone. Should the league someone qualifies for be determined by testosterone measurements? Just have everyone qualify for men's leagues unless they can prove they're testosterone is below a specific threshold? by School_Lunch @lemmy.world reason: This is not the space to argue for excluding trans folk
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Removed Comment They certainly do. What do you do when a small historically marginalized group may have an advantage at something but has not in any way been shown to completely dominate in it? What's fair? To let them participate or to bar them and force them to compete with people who are definitely significantly advantaged over them? Or do you create a set of rules to ensure things are as balanced as possible without being outright discriminatory? by captainlezbian @lemmy.world reason: This is not the space for making space for transphobic talking points.
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Removed Comment It's almost like this issue is more complicated than just "if you don't support trans women in sports, than you're a right wing fascist and not a leftist."
It's not binary, and it's not team sports, puns intended.
Dave Chappelle makes a great point about this on one of his specials. "If LeBron James got a sex change today, should he be allowed to play for the WNBA and score 800 points per game?"
If I was a girl, or had daughters that were aspiring athletes, and trans women came in and started beating records to the point no women could compete with...? This is real and has happened.
It's a complicated issue. The people who say you're not a leftist if you even question this at all, aren't actually leftists themselves, their just ignorant assholes.
**The billionaires are happy we're arguing about this, instead of talking about taxing the wealth they did not earn and do not deserve.** by Yawweee877h444 @lemmy.world reason: Deleted by mod: Transphobia
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Removed Comment What the fuck do genitals have to do with a goddamn board game??
WHY ARE WE ALLOWING ASSHOLES TO LIVE?? by FreakinSteve @lemmy.world reason:
Hello!
Please mind Blahaj's community guidelines. We get that people are getting frustrated by the constant transphobic abuse, but comments such as yours are still discouraged.
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Removed Comment They do not have the same cultural and social barriers (the relevant ones here being exposure to chess, peer interest in chess, and adult encouragement to participate in chess) if they were raised as boys... Especially when we're talking about young teens who have only recently transitioned. by verdigris @lemmy.ml reason: Dubious arguments
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Removed Comment I mean, in exactly the same way as a cis man's would? It's the entire reason gendered divisions exist in chess. by verdigris @lemmy.ml reason: Dubious arguments
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Removed Comment Nobody was ever arguing there was a biological advantage... As the comment you replied to pointed out, it's about socialization. Since that mostly happens as children, those who transition as teens have already experienced much of that. by verdigris @lemmy.ml reason: Dubious arguments
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Removed Post Bridging the Divide: Bisexual and Pansexual Identity Conflicts reason: Transvitae
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Removed Post California Judge Sides with LGBTQ+ Groups in Grant Funding Fight reason: Deleted by mod
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Removed Comment Nothing concrete, it was just [a widespread practice to molest boy-children under your apprenticeship](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pederasty_in_ancient_Greece) and to sodomize other adult men as an act of power, privilege, and pleasure. You would have been considered a bit peculiar not to do so, were you able.
Technically, both acts were perceived as straight, as male heterosexuality hinged upon being in the penetrative role, but I was just trying to be funni before I noticed the community by F/15/Cali@threads.net @sh.itjust.works reason: What aboutism
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Removed Comment Uhhhhh, what is most of the Mediterranean a few thousand years ago for men. I’ll take anti-heteronormativity for 600 by F/15/Cali@threads.net @sh.itjust.works reason: What aboutism
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Removed Comment Does having your name / reputation / career ruined because a previously consenting straight partner later decides "Nah" count as dangerous? Cause women are sorta doin that to cis men very publicly in some western countries, like Canada. Like there's currently a big public case where a chick was on video consenting to an orgy, callin the guys sissys for not fucking her faster, and now they're all on trial cause she later decided "wait, havin sex with 5 dudes in one night made me feel like a ho!". Being a cis guy and openly expressing an urge to fuck is also a great way to get fired from pretty well any professional job -- but if you're gay, you can get in your gimp suit and party on a parade float and people will cheer you on / you'll be able to sue if you get fired for it.
Or are we going to scope 'dangerous' down to fit a more niche thing to suit the argument?
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Removed Comment Don't tell me. These were Islamic children? I've heard of this in England and Europe. But I guess its coming to the US now. by Cocopanda @lemmy.world reason: Bigotry
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Removed Comment *Permanently Deleted* by Oniononon @sopuli.xyz reason: Ableist slur
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Removed Comment They lose one demographic, gain another. I might actually watch it by Wanpieserino @lemm.ee reason: Bigot
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Removed Post I AM TOTALLY DATING ALEXSYSTEM reason: Troll
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Removed Post i made stickers reason: Queer stickers are good, but spruiking them can't be your only involvement in the community, otherwise, it's just spam
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Removed Post The reality is that there are not just two genders. reason: Blog spam
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