“My response to the “I am not a feminist” internet phenomenon….
First of all, it’s clear you don’t know what feminism is. But I’m not going to explain it to you. You can google it. To quote an old friend, “I’m not the feminist babysitter.”
But here is what I think you should know.
You’re insulting every woman who was forcibly restrained in a jail cell with a feeding tube down her throat for your right to vote, less than 100 years ago.
You’re degrading every woman who has accessed a rape crisis center, which wouldn’t exist without the feminist movement.
You’re undermining every woman who fought to make marital rape a crime (it was legal until 1993).
You’re spitting on the legacy of every woman who fought for women to be allowed to own property (1848). For the abolition of slavery and the rise of the labor union. For the right to divorce. For women to be allowed to have access to birth control (Comstock laws). For middle and upper class women to be allowed to work outside the home (poor women have always worked outside the home). To make domestic violence a crime in the US (It is very much legal in many parts of the world). To make workplace sexual harassment a crime.
In short, you know not what you speak of. You reap the rewards of these women’s sacrifices every day of your life. When you grin with your cutsey sign about how you’re not a feminist, you ignorantly spit on the sacred struggle of the past 200 years. You bite the hand that has fed you freedom, safety, and a voice.
In short, kiss my ass, you ignorant little jerks.”
The expression ‘the be-all and [the] end-all’, meaning chiefly ‘the central or most important element’ is from Macbeth. Macbeth is contemplating killing Duncan: “…that but this blow/Might be the be-all and the end-all…/…We’d jump the life to come.” (Macbeth, I.vii.4ff)
The phrase ‘the be-all and [the] end-all’ has been popular over the years (usually found without the second ‘the’). Though many people are aware that it is a Shakespearean allusion, it is not as common as, say, ‘to be or not to be’ and it is usually used without any special reference to Shakespeare.
After years of use, ‘the be-all and [the] end-all’ became shortened to ‘the Bs and Es’. As this was said, over time (if you repeat this fast, you will see), it sounds like ‘the bee’s knees’.
This video illustrates why it’s a good thing my career doesn’t involve me being in front of a camera on a regular basis… #awkward
Apologies for my tardiness, but I finally was able to complete the ALS Ice Bucket Challenge issued to me by Hiddlestoners Have Heart. (I wanted to think of the best way to handle it given the current severe drought here in California.)
MTV After Hours gents Joshua Horowitz and Joel Hanek, and partner in crime Josh Wigler - you are hereby on notice!
Geek Cred cohorts Damion Poitier, Michele Boyd, Miley Yamamoto, Wes Robertson and Dan Beals - you are also on deck!
And if you really want to understand what this social media phenomenon is all about, check out this video.
My wife and I have been celebrating our anniversary with a rare overseas trip, to the UK. While we’re on a fairly tight budget here, we did manage to snag tickets our first night to see Coriolanus, a live Shakespeare production starring Tom Hiddleston.
Oh dear. Creepers make IO9.
This account just breaks my heart. How anyone could exhibit so little empathy for another human being (celebrity, theatre employee, anyone) is beyond me.
Wouldn’t it be amazing if, in lieu of the usual material items, fans collectively presented Tom with the gift of empathy, respect and space by honoring the Donmar’s repeated explicit requests to disperse and/or NOT to wait by the fire exit?
Granted, such consideration is long overdue, and should go without saying. But at the very least it sure would be a nice gesture for the remainder of the run.
I’d rather be called a shamer for criticising the obnoxious behaviour of the trophy-hunters, shovers, pushers-in, repeat offenders, stage-snappers, harassers, entitled idiots and shameless objectifying creeps who brag about only going to Coriolanus to leer at Tom Hiddleston…
…than be one of…
A well-reasoned, rational post on a subject that has occupied a lot of bandwidth (not to mention emotion) here of late.
Putting aside the whole debate of some people calling out others for their behavior, I think the fundamental question for each of us as fans (indeed, as human beings) is: how do we want to be perceived and/or remembered?
In my opinion, regardless of the situation, the best action I can take is strive to treat others as I wished to be treated. For me, that implies compassion and respect. But as the saying goes, your mileage may vary.
Okay I’m going to wade into this with my two cents. The reason I’m writing this is because I went to the stage door on Thursday and to see the play/stage door on Friday. I wasn’t sure what to expect after reading so much online about the stage door. But what I got was basically Jekyll & Hyde….
A rational, considered perspective from someone who’s seen both aspects of the stage door experience. Well done.
Somebody was caught trying to film Coriolanus this afternoon.
If this was a fan, I will be more angry than I have ever been before.
Jesus Fucking Christ.
Because apparently the way in which some choose to express gratitude for witnessing such a wonderful production is by being massively disrespectful of the theatre, the cast, and all the other patrons.
Tom Hiddleston’s Coriolanus is a lean, mean killing machine with crippled emotions in this exciting and intense production, says Charles Spencer
There is a good deal about Josie Rourke’s new production of Shakespeare’s Coriolanus, starring Tom Hiddleston, that I found irritating. It is full of modish tricks, including blasts of deafening electronic music, costumes that mix Roman robes and Dr Martens boots, and a people’s tribune played by an actress. This was, after all, the theatre that gave usan all-female Julius Caesar.
But these are merely the trappings of a production that is often exciting and intense, with Hiddleston delivering a powerhouse performance in the title role. He is one of the current crop of gifted Old Etonian actors, and that seems exactly right. For Coriolanus has always put me in mind of the classic English public schoolboy with an undeveloped heart, the bossy and often brutal head prefect who is brilliant on the games field and at telling the younger pupils to “take a brace”, as they used to say in my days at Charterhouse, but all at sea when it comes to emotion and an inner life.
The actor memorably captures both sides of Coriolanus’s personality. In the battle of the first act we see him in all his gory glory, drenched in blood and winning the fight single-handed. In Hiddleston’s performance he’s a lean, mean killing machine, and there is an extraordinary moment in which he takes a shower after the battle and gasps with pain as his wounds turn the water blood red.
But in almost every other respect, Coriolanus is inadequate, an emotional cripple in thrall to his domineering mother, and a crashing snob who can’t bear sucking up to the plebs to get their vote. Here, too, Hiddleston is persuasive, and Rourke’s production excitingly captures the play’s political process as Coriolanus goes from hero to zero, thanks to the pride of his own personality and the machinations of the tribunes who, unlike the awkward hero, know exactly how to bend the mob to their devious will.
But this harsh, flinty tragedy becomes suddenly moving in the last act as Coriolanus’s mother, wife (Borgen’s Birgitte Hjort Sørensen) and son try to persuade him not to take revenge on the Rome that has banished him. Here, Hiddleston marvellously captures a sudden piercing tenderness and love, as if experiencing these overwhelming emotions for the first time. The cruel irony is that he also knows that in following the unfamiliar demands of his heart he is signing his own death warrant.
At every stage of his tragic journey, Hiddleston is compelling and persuasive, and there is fine support, especially from Deborah Findlay as the vicious old boot of a mother who has made him the man he is; Mark Gatiss as the wily, patrician, Menenius; and Elliot Levey and Helen Schlesinger as the manipulative tribunes of the people.
As Aufidius, the Volscian general who becomes Coriolanus’s nemesis, Hadley Fraser rather overplays the hearty northern accent and his character’s homoerotic feelings for his adversary.
But though this is a flawed production, there is no mistaking its dramatic energy, while the mixture of charisma and emotional truth in Hiddleston’s performance is very special indeed.