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Love with the Proper Stranger

  • 1963
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  • 1h 42m
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7.2/10
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Love with the Proper Stranger (1963)
ComedyDramaRomance

A salesclerk at Macy's department store finds herself pregnant after a one-night stand with a musician who does not even remember her.A salesclerk at Macy's department store finds herself pregnant after a one-night stand with a musician who does not even remember her.A salesclerk at Macy's department store finds herself pregnant after a one-night stand with a musician who does not even remember her.

  • Director
    • Robert Mulligan
  • Writer
    • Arnold Schulman
  • Stars
    • Natalie Wood
    • Steve McQueen
    • Edie Adams
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  • IMDb RATING
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    • Director
      • Robert Mulligan
    • Writer
      • Arnold Schulman
    • Stars
      • Natalie Wood
      • Steve McQueen
      • Edie Adams
    • 85User reviews
    • 40Critic reviews
  • See production info at IMDbPro
  • See production info at IMDbPro
    • Nominated for 5 Oscars
      • 1 win & 11 nominations total

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    Natalie Wood
    Natalie Wood
    • Angie Rossini
    Steve McQueen
    Steve McQueen
    • Rocky Papasano
    Edie Adams
    Edie Adams
    • Barbie
    Herschel Bernardi
    Herschel Bernardi
    • Dominick Rossini
    Anne Hegira
    Anne Hegira
    • Beetie
    Harvey Lembeck
    Harvey Lembeck
    • Julio Rossini
    Mario Badolati
    • Elio Papasano
    Penny Santon
    Penny Santon
    • Mama Rossini
    Elena Karam
    • The Woman
    Virginia Vincent
    Virginia Vincent
    • Anna
    Nina Varela
    Nina Varela
    • Mrs. Columbo
    E. Nick Alexander
    • Guido Rossini
    • (as Nick Alexander)
    Marilyn Chris
    Marilyn Chris
    • Gina
    Augusta Ciolli
    • Mrs. Papasano
    Wolfe Barzell
    Wolfe Barzell
    • The Priest
    Tom Bosley
    Tom Bosley
    • Columbo
    Loraine Abate
    • Maria
    • (uncredited)
    Jean Alexander
    Jean Alexander
    • Charlene
    • (uncredited)
    • Director
      • Robert Mulligan
    • Writer
      • Arnold Schulman
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    8Bunuel1976

    LOVE WITH THE PROPER STRANGER (Robert Mulligan, 1963) ***1/2

    Watched out of necessity rather than choice (due to limitations inherent in my DVD recorder's system), I really did not expect to be bowled over by this one – not least because I had been underwhelmed by the subsequent collaboration between director Mulligan and leading man Steve McQueen, BABY THE RAIN MUST FALL (1965), earlier this year – but I was. That said, I knew of its reputation as one of the best showcases for both McQueen and co-star Natalie Wood (she even received an Oscar nod for her work here) – and I certainly agree, going so far as to say that they were probably never better. In essence, this is MARTY (1955) for a younger and more reckless generation (though the protagonists, in this case, are anything but "dogs") – demonstrating the same feeling for the place (New York) and a particular section of its people (Italian immigrants). The narrative (accompanied by a lovely, yet sturdy, Elmer Bernstein score) basically resolves itself in a series of extended scenes set in domestic, working or urban environments – with the most unusual being the opening sequence at a ballroom-cum-employment agency where musician McQueen hustles his way to the odd engagement and, later, when he and Wood hide from her overprotective brothers inside his family's dilapidated dwelling (where Jack Jones is even briefly heard crooning the film's title tune). In this respect, plaudits must go to Arnold Schulman's exceptional Oscar-nominated script: it is no coincidence that his name atypically precedes even that of the supporting cast! Incidentally, while I included the film among my "Drama" viewing (involving, after all, the attempt to abort an unwanted pregnancy borne of a one-night stand), it features almost as much comedy – that, being just as well-observed, adds another layer to the intended realism. Wood's relationship with her possessive family is especially entertaining but also her efforts to dodge, and later withstand, gawky admirer Tom Bosley (in an impressive debut) – whose equivalent in McQueen's life is played by Edie Adams: the former, in fact, has no qualms about taking 'new' girlfriend Wood to her flat while she is away at work! Also, though the latter stages descend into repetitive confrontations between the stars, this does eventually pay off in a hilarious finale – with McQueen deciding to conform to Wood's idealized view of love (even if it means embarrassing himself in public) rather than lose her. In conclusion, I had tried to get hold of this one back in January to be included in my planned retrospective to commemorate the recently deceased Mulligan: while that attempt did not pan out at the time, I happened again upon it just this week, obviously managing now to acquire a copy of the film; for the record, I still have a couple more of the director's efforts to check out (both also delayed for some reason from that initial tribute) i.e. THE GREAT IMPOSTOR (1961) and BLOODBROTHERS (1978).
    8frankwiener

    Wood and McQueen--Ya Know--Something Clicks

    I don't consider myself a huge fan of love stories, but every now and then one comes along that really works for me, and this is one of those rare occasions. While some reviewers consider the subject matter and the prevailing culture of the film to be "dated", do movies have to mirror the 21st century in order to be important, interesting, or even entertaining? I never dismissed "Casablanca" as "dated" because it happened to take place in 1941, a time when even this old geezer didn't yet exist. Now, why would I do that?

    This month's tcm star of the month being Natalie Wood, viewers were treated to a fascinating introduction by Wood's former husband, Robert Wagner, and her daughter, Natasha Gregson Wagner, who was raised by Wagner since infancy. I very much appreciated their special, personal rapport and their "inside knowledge" regarding the making of this film, as well as the two other films shown on the same night, "Splendor in the Grass" and "West Side Story".

    The success of this movie, brilliantly directed by Robert Mulligan ("To Kill a Mockingbird"), revolved around the highly engaging interaction between the two main actors, Natalie Wood as Macy's salesperson Angie Rossini and Steve McQueen as musician Rocky Papasano, but I don't think that their performances would have been as alluring without a very intelligent and complex script, as written by Arnold Schulman. Another vital element of the film's appeal was the outstanding supporting cast, especially Tom Bosley as an awkward, love-stricken restaurateur, Hershel Bernardi as Angie's possessive, produce pushing brother, and Edie Adams as an exotic dancer who also serves as Rocky's roommate of the moment. Portraying their characters as victims of intense personal crisis, both Wood and McQueen very credibly project an entire spectrum of feelings that convey their general state of extreme confusion and frustration. I especially appreciated how McQueen developed his character from unlikable to sympathetic in the course of the film, often employing his entire body in the process, and how Wood enabled us to share the wide range of emotions that Angie endured at a time of severe inner turmoil. The scene of her initial attempt at leaving the only home that she had ever known, for better or for worse, should "hit home" with anyone who had experienced a similar situation in their lives, including myself. Bravo Natalie. Loved the clothes hanging out of the hastily packed suitcase. Nice touch.

    Without fatally destroying the end of this movie for anyone who has never seen it, I was still left guessing how it would end until the very last scene. Even though the ending had its corny aspect, we need to accept the time as the dawn of the protest movement, so the final scene may have had a very different impact on an audience back in 1963 than it does in 2016. I still loved the final resolution. It actually brought tears to my hopelessly sentimental eyes. How about you?
    gregorybnyc

    Natalie and Steve Never Better

    This film has always struck me as Natalie Wood and Steve

    McQueen's best work in movies. Both would go on to successes

    and failures, but neither would seem as natural and as unaffected

    on screen again.

    The story of a good working-class Italian girl in New York who gets

    pregnant by a man she hardly knows, is very strong stuff for 1963.

    So is their decision to have an abortion. Roe vs. Wade was nearly

    a decade in the future. Mulligan shows a very gritty, dirty, New York

    which has emerged from the 50s as a crumbling relic of a city,

    nowhere as clean and shiny as it is today. McQueen is a callow

    young musician, not looking to settle down with anyone, let alone a

    single pregnant girl, even if he is at fault.

    The trip to a bad neighborhood to get the abortion is chilling, and

    Wood's absolute terror is genuine here. McQueen being

    reluctantly honorable is very sexy here. The rest of the film with her

    facing down her overly protective Neanderthal brothers and getting

    her own apartment, follows the young lovers as they try to do the

    right thing. Steve's poster--"Better wed than Dead," is a sweet

    coda.

    I loved this movie. It struck this teenager at the time, as a very

    sophisticated film. Natalie Wood is incandescently beautiful in

    black and white and still the loner, McQueen's intensity is a bit

    more subtle than usual. Good supporting cast. This was an era

    where the final black and white movies were being made--TO KILL

    A MOCKING BIRD, BIRD MAN OF ALCATRAZ, THE AMERICANIZATION OF EMILY, PSYCHO were the last gasp of this

    medium.

    Long overdue for DVD release.
    8rupie

    good on-screen chemistry makes for a great little film

    Very satisfying movie that involves us completely in the conflicted relationship of the leads, played beautifully by McQueen and Wood (evidently Paul Newman was originally slated for the part). We find ourselves really rooting for them to get together. Sounds like a soap-opera "chick flick", but the story is sufficiently gritty and has enough comic touches to appeal to the guys, too. B&W works well to emphasize the New York atmosphere of the flick, with its many locale shots. The ethnic Italian ethos is well-captured, too. And to top it off is a wonderful score by Elmer Bernstein, whose music veers awfully close to sounding like that other Bernstein (and that's not a criticism!). I don't know why we don't see this one more often; thank you American Movie Classics.
    Coxer99

    Love With the Proper Stranger

    Lovely chemistry between superstars Wood and McQueen make this Robert Mulligan a pure charmer. McQueen sheds his tough guy image to play both romance and even a little comedy as well. Oscar nominee Wood matured beautifully into the role of Angie, the girl who finds she's going to have a baby and it's McQueen's! There is a fine performance from Tom Bosley, in his first major role as a clumsy fellow who tries to win Wood's heart. The conclusion to this film is lovely and full of hope for all young lovers out there. A Must see!!!

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    • Trivia
      Natalie Wood said that working on this film was "the most rewarding experience I had in all films, all the way around."
    • Goofs
      When Rocky is lying down on Barbie's bed after she has left to sit at the kitchen table, only the second and third buttons on Rocky's shirt are done up, his shirt not tucked into his pants. In the next shot when he is about to get up, the second, third and fourth buttons on the shirt are done up, the shirt still not tucked into his pants. In the next shot as Rocky is now off the bed, all but the top button on his shirt are done up, the front of his shirt now tucked into his pants.
    • Quotes

      Barbie: You know me in the cold weather - how I love to be in love. We are in love, aren't we? Really in love.

      Rocky Papasano: Yeah - you with yourself, and me with myself.

    • Crazy credits
      As if to recognize the importance of the script, Arnold Schulman's credit appears right after the main title. This was a rarity in an era when screenplay credits traditionally appeared third to last, before the producer and director cards.
    • Connections
      Featured in Entertainment This Week Salutes Paramount's 75th Anniversary (1987)
    • Soundtracks
      Love with the Proper Stranger
      Written by Johnny Mercer and Elmer Bernstein

      Performed by Jack Jones

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    • Release date
      • December 25, 1963 (United States)
    • Country of origin
      • United States
    • Languages
      • English
      • Italian
    • Also known as
      • Desliz de una noche
    • Filming locations
      • 131 East 10th Street, Manhattan, New York City, New York, USA(Rocky and Angie run through St. Mark's Church in-the-Bowery trying to escape her brothers)
    • Production companies
      • Pakula-Mulligan
      • Boardwalk Productions
      • Rona
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    • Budget
      • $8,500,000 (estimated)
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    • Runtime
      • 1h 42m(102 min)
    • Color
      • Black and White
    • Aspect ratio
      • 1.85 : 1

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