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Love and Pain and the Whole Damn Thing

  • 1973
  • PG
  • 1h 50m
IMDb RATING
6.6/10
1.1K
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Timothy Bottoms and Maggie Smith in Love and Pain and the Whole Damn Thing (1973)
ComedyDramaRomance

Teenage Walter abandons cycling tour, joins Lila's bus tour in Spain. They develop romance, travel together. Relationship tested during extended stay with Spanish nobility.Teenage Walter abandons cycling tour, joins Lila's bus tour in Spain. They develop romance, travel together. Relationship tested during extended stay with Spanish nobility.Teenage Walter abandons cycling tour, joins Lila's bus tour in Spain. They develop romance, travel together. Relationship tested during extended stay with Spanish nobility.

  • Director
    • Alan J. Pakula
  • Writer
    • Alvin Sargent
  • Stars
    • Maggie Smith
    • Timothy Bottoms
    • Don Jaime de Mora y Aragón
  • See production info at IMDbPro
  • IMDb RATING
    6.6/10
    1.1K
    YOUR RATING
    • Director
      • Alan J. Pakula
    • Writer
      • Alvin Sargent
    • Stars
      • Maggie Smith
      • Timothy Bottoms
      • Don Jaime de Mora y Aragón
    • 39User reviews
    • 14Critic reviews
  • See production info at IMDbPro
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    Maggie Smith
    Maggie Smith
    • Lila Fisher
    Timothy Bottoms
    Timothy Bottoms
    • Walter Elbertson
    Don Jaime de Mora y Aragón
    Don Jaime de Mora y Aragón
    • The Duke
    Emiliano Redondo
    Emiliano Redondo
    • The Spanish Gentleman
    Charles Baxter
    • Dr. Elbertson
    Margaret Modlin
    • Mrs. Elbertson
    May Heatherly
    May Heatherly
    • Melanie Elbertson
    • (as May Heatherley)
    Lloyd Brimhall
    • Carl
    Elmer Modlin
    • Dr. Edelheidt
    Andrés Monreal
    • Tourist Guide
    Patricia Wright
    • Woman on Bus
    • (uncredited)
    • Director
      • Alan J. Pakula
    • Writer
      • Alvin Sargent
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    9sj2255

    Boy argues with dad/meets older woman/she resists, then (wisely) gives in.

    I've been looking for a copy of this wonderful movie for several years. I can't imagine why it's never been released on VHS or DVD. Saw it originally in '73, caught it again on some late night movie channel. Haven't seen it since, but the memory lingers on. I STILL have a crush on Timothy Bottoms, thanks to this sweet and romantic movie! Maggie Smith is also wonderful--such a great actress.

    This is a charming story with fun little vignettes (Maggie Smith exiting a "loo" unknowingly trailing toilet paper stuck to her heel) and clever dialogue throughout, set against a trip through beautiful scenery by bus and bicycle.
    Bram-5

    Too romantic, but oh my

    Yes, it's too romantic. Yes, it's a fairy tale. But it's so lovely. Timothy Bottoms is a loser on a bus trip through Spain where he meets his female counterpart, Maggie Smith. Of course, she's older than he is, but they soon find out they're kindred spirits. This movie is a dream. I, of course, am a romantic, so I loved it from the moment I first saw it, when I was just a kid. If you're a romantic, you'll love it too.
    klprice

    Magical, painful, soul-satisfying

    I saw this film when I was 22, with my best friend. The protagonist, played by Timothy Bottoms, was so easy to root for, and Maggie Smith's "older woman" is a thing of beauty, comedic and touching, of course you love her, but, let's be real, what chance is there for THIS relationship... a film that was innovative for it's time, I thought. It's rather hard to find at video stores, so I think I'll try to buy it.
    badpuppy2

    The test of time!

    After viewing Love and Pain nearly thirty years after it's initial release, I felt that this film had certainly passed the test of time. This sometimes overlooked film is an excellent vehicle for Maggie Smith in a dramatic role; even more believable than her classic, The Prime of Miss Jean Brodie. Initially the film appears to be a very clever, dry comedy, accented by Maggie Smith's prim and proper British morals pitted against Timothy Bottom's portrayal of a rich, but socially awkward American student. From the hysterically funny camping-trailer scene to the bitter-sweet twist at the end, Love and Pain is a timeless treasure worthy of a place on your video shelf!
    8john-3032

    Great unobtainable film

    This is a great low key film. Maggie Smith is wonderful in this off beat drama/comedy. She did this I believe after " The Prime of Miss Jean Brodie " but her performance is clearly up to that standard. It really is a very sweet love story with the ups and downs of a relationship between Maggie and Timothy Bottoms. His performance is also very good and kept very low key much like the film in general. I don't know why it is not available on DVD or VHS? I happen to have recorded it off of a Canadian Broadcast years ago. I have also tried searching a number of rental house to no avail. If Mr. Pakula reads this please find away to make this little gem of a film available to everyone. Thank You.

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    • Trivia
      The verses Lila (Dame Maggie Smith) twice repeats aloud to herself, beginning "How beautifully blue the sky", are from the lyrics of the comic opera The Pirates of Penzance, by Gilbert and Sullivan.
    • Goofs
      When Walter and Lila park the caravan trailer for the night, it is pouring down rain, and the ground outside the trailer is saturated with mud and puddles. Yet early the next morning, as Walter emerges from the caravan, it is sunny out and the ground is completely dry, no sign whatsoever of mud or puddles from the previous night's deluge.
    • Quotes

      Walter Elbertson: I love you, Lila. I really love you. You're a pain in the ass but I love you.

    • Connections
      Referenced in Dallas: War and Love and the Whole Damned Thing (1988)
    • Soundtracks
      How Beautifully Blue the Sky
      Written by W.S. Gilbert and Arthur Sullivan

      From "The Pirates of Penzance"

      Lila (Maggie Smith) quotes the lyrics twice

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    • Release date
      • April 1973 (United Kingdom)
    • Country of origin
      • United States
    • Languages
      • English
      • Spanish
    • Also known as
      • The Widower
    • Filming locations
      • La Pedriza, Manzanares el Real, Madrid, Spain
    • Production company
      • Gus Productions
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    • Runtime
      • 1h 50m(110 min)
    • Sound mix
      • Mono
    • Aspect ratio
      • 1.85 : 1

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