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Who Will Love My Children?

  • TV Movie
  • 1983
  • Not Rated
  • 1h 35m
IMDb RATING
7.4/10
666
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Who Will Love My Children? (1983)
Drama

Based on a true story of Iowa farm wife Lucile Fray. Ann-Margret plays a dying mother of ten whose last wish is to find loving families for her children.Based on a true story of Iowa farm wife Lucile Fray. Ann-Margret plays a dying mother of ten whose last wish is to find loving families for her children.Based on a true story of Iowa farm wife Lucile Fray. Ann-Margret plays a dying mother of ten whose last wish is to find loving families for her children.

  • Director
    • John Erman
  • Writer
    • Michael Bortman
  • Stars
    • Ann-Margret
    • Frederic Forrest
    • Cathryn Damon
  • See production info at IMDbPro
  • IMDb RATING
    7.4/10
    666
    YOUR RATING
    • Director
      • John Erman
    • Writer
      • Michael Bortman
    • Stars
      • Ann-Margret
      • Frederic Forrest
      • Cathryn Damon
    • 28User reviews
    • 1Critic review
  • See production info at IMDbPro
  • See production info at IMDbPro
    • Won 1 Primetime Emmy
      • 3 wins & 9 nominations total

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    Ann-Margret
    Ann-Margret
    • Lucile Fray
    Frederic Forrest
    Frederic Forrest
    • Ivan Fray
    Cathryn Damon
    Cathryn Damon
    • Hazel Anderson
    Donald Moffat
    Donald Moffat
    • Dick Thomas
    Lonny Chapman
    Lonny Chapman
    • Milton Hammond
    Patricia Smith
    Patricia Smith
    • Cleta Thomas
    Jess Osuna
    Jess Osuna
    • Dr. Willis
    Christopher Allport
    Christopher Allport
    • Kenneth Handy
    Patrick Brennan
    • Carl Fray
    Soleil Moon Frye
    Soleil Moon Frye
    • Linda Fray
    Tracey Gold
    Tracey Gold
    • Pauline Fray
    Joel Graves
    • Warren Fray
    Rachel Jacobs
    Rachel Jacobs
    • Joyce Fray
    Robby Kiger
    • Frank Fray
    Cady McClain
    Cady McClain
    • Virginia Fray
    Hallie Todd
    Hallie Todd
    • Joann Fray
    Cory 'Bumper' Yothers
    • Ivan Fray Jr.
    Cheryl Anderson
    Cheryl Anderson
    • Joyce Wehmeyer
    • Director
      • John Erman
    • Writer
      • Michael Bortman
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    User reviews28

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    Springer-4

    Quite something!

    Ann-Margaret was nominated for an Emmy, deservedly so, for her work in this film. She is, quite simply, magnificent! I don't believe that she has ever been more beautiful...sans glamour, sans big hair, sans sexuality...yet her beauty shines out from someplace inside giving her performance a layered depth that needs no other trappings. All of the actors, including the kids, are fabulous. John Erman directed this tragic tale of a doomed depression-era mother trying to find homes for her children before she dies with incredible sensitivity and manages to avoid the traps of "maudlin." A terrific film!
    skus

    Saddest movie ever

    Ann-Margaret was unbelievable. I saw this film so many years ago but it had a huge impact on me. I cried throughout the whole movie. My eyes and face were so red

    and swollen that it stayed on my face for a day. The next day in

    school people thought someone in my family had died or I had

    been beaten up. I have watched for it to be rerun on TV but can never find it. I have

    tried to purchase it but I don't think it is possible. I would LOVE to

    see it again and tape it. I would love to show it to my Death and Dying Class. Help?
    SkippyDevereaux

    Ann-Margret is just superb.

    This is one of the best tv-movies I ever saw. What makes it so gut-wretching is that it is a true story. I cannot imagine living this in real life like these people did. But what makes me angry is at the 1983 Emmy Awards, Ann-Margret lost to Barbara Stanwyck in the category for Best Lead Actress in a Special. This was the first inclination to me that Ann-Margret could really act. Up until then, I always thought of her as the glitzy Las Vegas performer.
    supermario909

    A very sad, but good movie.

    I saw this movie when it came out on ABC. That was about 19 years ago. It's a heart-breaking true story. A mother finds out she has cancer and tries to find homes for all of her children before she passes away. I've been trying to find out how I can see this movie again.
    10kengewa

    Warren "Fray" is my brother-in-law

    I have nothing but praise for this movie and cast, especially Ann Margaret. But more importantly I have praise for my in-laws who were (are) the adoptive parents of Warren and Frank in real life. I met most of the "children" at Warren's wedding in 1989. This is an amazing story and is even more incredible to me knowing the family and what everyone went through. It is also enjoyable for me to see how my in-laws were portrayed in the movie. It was pretty accurate. My wife even enjoys seeing some little details such as a toaster that she remembered from her childhood. Yes, it is a hard movie to watch, but so amazing and heartfelt.

    The beauty of this story for me is how many of the children passed through my in-laws lives and, as a result of marrying their daughter,and having Warren as a brother-in-law, how many I have met in mine. For the past 20 years this story has been a part of my life because of what my mother-in-law has shared with me. That and knowing Warren. For what it is worth, Warren lives in California with his family. He married his high school sweetheart, who he reconnected with at his 20 year high school reunion.

    There was a show in the 1980's called "That's Incredible." They had a reunion of the family who also got to meet the cast of the show.

    For anyone's interest, the DVD is available in Great Britain and Australia. It is a tough video to come by here in the United States and I have not been able to find a DVD here, yet.

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    • Trivia
      At the Emmy Awards ceremony, Barbara Stanwyck won the award for best actress for "The Thorn Birds" over Ann-Margret for "Who Will Love My Children?" In accepting the award, Stanwyck said, "This is an honor. But the woman who should have won this award is sitting over there," pointing to Ann-Margret. "I think she gave one of the finest, most beautiful performances I have ever seen. Ann-Margret, you were superb."
    • Alternate versions
      Two different variations exist: the opening on-screen disclaimer is read by Ann-Margret, but in the international theatrical version, it's in a different alignment and her voice is not heard. The ending credits are featured over a still image of the Fray family and in the international version, the end credits roll against a simple black background.
    • Connections
      Featured in The 35th Annual Primetime Emmy Awards (1983)

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    • Release date
      • February 14, 1983 (United States)
    • Country of origin
      • United States
    • Language
      • English
    • Also known as
      • Der lange Abschied
    • Filming locations
      • California, USA
    • Production company
      • ABC Circle Films
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    • Runtime
      • 1h 35m(95 min)
    • Color
      • Color
    • Sound mix
      • Mono
    • Aspect ratio
      • 1.33 : 1

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