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Who Will Love My Children?

  • TV Movie
  • 1983
  • Not Rated
  • 1h 35m
IMDb RATING
7.4/10
666
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Who Will Love My Children? (1983)
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Based on a true story of Iowa farm wife Lucile Fray. Ann-Margret plays a dying mother of ten whose last wish is to find loving families for her children.Based on a true story of Iowa farm wife Lucile Fray. Ann-Margret plays a dying mother of ten whose last wish is to find loving families for her children.Based on a true story of Iowa farm wife Lucile Fray. Ann-Margret plays a dying mother of ten whose last wish is to find loving families for her children.

  • Director
    • John Erman
  • Writer
    • Michael Bortman
  • Stars
    • Ann-Margret
    • Frederic Forrest
    • Cathryn Damon
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  • IMDb RATING
    7.4/10
    666
    YOUR RATING
    • Director
      • John Erman
    • Writer
      • Michael Bortman
    • Stars
      • Ann-Margret
      • Frederic Forrest
      • Cathryn Damon
    • 28User reviews
    • 1Critic review
  • See production info at IMDbPro
  • See production info at IMDbPro
    • Won 1 Primetime Emmy
      • 3 wins & 9 nominations total

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    Ann-Margret
    Ann-Margret
    • Lucile Fray
    Frederic Forrest
    Frederic Forrest
    • Ivan Fray
    Cathryn Damon
    Cathryn Damon
    • Hazel Anderson
    Donald Moffat
    Donald Moffat
    • Dick Thomas
    Lonny Chapman
    Lonny Chapman
    • Milton Hammond
    Patricia Smith
    Patricia Smith
    • Cleta Thomas
    Jess Osuna
    Jess Osuna
    • Dr. Willis
    Christopher Allport
    Christopher Allport
    • Kenneth Handy
    Patrick Brennan
    • Carl Fray
    Soleil Moon Frye
    Soleil Moon Frye
    • Linda Fray
    Tracey Gold
    Tracey Gold
    • Pauline Fray
    Joel Graves
    • Warren Fray
    Rachel Jacobs
    Rachel Jacobs
    • Joyce Fray
    Robby Kiger
    • Frank Fray
    Cady McClain
    Cady McClain
    • Virginia Fray
    Hallie Todd
    Hallie Todd
    • Joann Fray
    Cory 'Bumper' Yothers
    • Ivan Fray Jr.
    Cheryl Anderson
    Cheryl Anderson
    • Joyce Wehmeyer
    • Director
      • John Erman
    • Writer
      • Michael Bortman
    • All cast & crew
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    User reviews28

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    10VivienLewis

    Saddest movie I have EVER seen

    I saw this movie so long ago, but it remains in my memory as the saddest movie ever. I cried non stop. My mother will not ever watch this movie again because its almost painful to watch. Anyway, apart from that the story isn't exactly complex...Ann Margaret is dying and has to give away her 10(?) children. As if that isn't bad enough, it is during the depression and she has to break up the close siblings one by one. I guess this was very sad to me because I too am from a very large close knit family and could identify with each child's pain of leaving their mother and siblings.

    Maybe I am a masochist but I would like to see this movie again because it was well done and the end, surprisingly, is slightly happy (so at least we could smile and sob simultaneously). It should come on TV sometime so I can see it again.
    10miriammatzeder

    Who Will Love My Children?

    I saw this movie when it was broadcast on television in February of 1983. I was in the hospital, having just given birth to my first and only child. I'll refrain from telling you the extent to which I was moved. Suffice it to say that the memory of the movie has remained with me to this day, almost 23 years later. I hope I can find a copy of this movie, if such a thing was ever made. This movie should be remembered fondly by anyone who ever saw it. However, I must admit that the fact it remains somewhat obscure is just fine by me. This way, it will always be a small secret to me and those who were also moved by it. I never saw Ms. Margaret perform a better part. Nor have I ever seen her in a more convincing role. I will forever respect her just for accepting such a lovely part.
    supermario909

    A very sad, but good movie.

    I saw this movie when it came out on ABC. That was about 19 years ago. It's a heart-breaking true story. A mother finds out she has cancer and tries to find homes for all of her children before she passes away. I've been trying to find out how I can see this movie again.
    furtive-2

    Officially the saddest film ever made

    A single mother has a terminal disease and has to give away all her children. This is officially the saddest film ever made - a real tear-jerker.
    SkippyDevereaux

    Ann-Margret is just superb.

    This is one of the best tv-movies I ever saw. What makes it so gut-wretching is that it is a true story. I cannot imagine living this in real life like these people did. But what makes me angry is at the 1983 Emmy Awards, Ann-Margret lost to Barbara Stanwyck in the category for Best Lead Actress in a Special. This was the first inclination to me that Ann-Margret could really act. Up until then, I always thought of her as the glitzy Las Vegas performer.

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    • Trivia
      At the Emmy Awards ceremony, Barbara Stanwyck won the award for best actress for "The Thorn Birds" over Ann-Margret for "Who Will Love My Children?" In accepting the award, Stanwyck said, "This is an honor. But the woman who should have won this award is sitting over there," pointing to Ann-Margret. "I think she gave one of the finest, most beautiful performances I have ever seen. Ann-Margret, you were superb."
    • Alternate versions
      Two different variations exist: the opening on-screen disclaimer is read by Ann-Margret, but in the international theatrical version, it's in a different alignment and her voice is not heard. The ending credits are featured over a still image of the Fray family and in the international version, the end credits roll against a simple black background.
    • Connections
      Featured in The 35th Annual Primetime Emmy Awards (1983)

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    • Release date
      • February 14, 1983 (United States)
    • Country of origin
      • United States
    • Language
      • English
    • Also known as
      • Der lange Abschied
    • Filming locations
      • California, USA
    • Production company
      • ABC Circle Films
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    • Runtime
      • 1h 35m(95 min)
    • Color
      • Color
    • Sound mix
      • Mono
    • Aspect ratio
      • 1.33 : 1

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