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I Love You, I Love You Not

  • 1996
  • PG-13
  • 1h 28m
IMDb RATING
5.3/10
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Claire Danes, Jude Law, and Jeanne Moreau in I Love You, I Love You Not (1996)
Prep school student Daisy and her European-born grandmother Nana share the sad stories of their lives: Daisy tells Nana of her romance with young Ethan and problems in school because she's Jewish; and Nana tells of her young years under Nazis when she was sent to ghetto and then to concentration camp.
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Prep school student Daisy and her European-born grandmother Nana share the sad stories of their lives. Daisy tells Nana of her romance with young Ethan and problems in school because she's J... Read allPrep school student Daisy and her European-born grandmother Nana share the sad stories of their lives. Daisy tells Nana of her romance with young Ethan and problems in school because she's Jewish and Nana tells of her young years under the Nazis when she was sent to a ghetto and ... Read allPrep school student Daisy and her European-born grandmother Nana share the sad stories of their lives. Daisy tells Nana of her romance with young Ethan and problems in school because she's Jewish and Nana tells of her young years under the Nazis when she was sent to a ghetto and then to a concentration camp.

  • Director
    • Billy Hopkins
  • Writer
    • Wendy Kesselman
  • Stars
    • Jeanne Moreau
    • Claire Danes
    • Jude Law
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    5.3/10
    3K
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    • Director
      • Billy Hopkins
    • Writer
      • Wendy Kesselman
    • Stars
      • Jeanne Moreau
      • Claire Danes
      • Jude Law
    • 45User reviews
    • 4Critic reviews
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    Jeanne Moreau
    Jeanne Moreau
    • Nana
    Claire Danes
    Claire Danes
    • Daisy…
    Jude Law
    Jude Law
    • Ethan…
    James Van Der Beek
    James Van Der Beek
    • Tony
    Kris Park
    Kris Park
    • Seth
    Lauren Fox
    Lauren Fox
    • Alison
    Emily Burkes-Nossiter
    • Jessica
    Carrie Szlasa
    • Jane
    • (as Carrie Slaza)
    Natasha Wolff
    • Hope
    Josiah A. Mayo
    • Chris
    Brandon Danziger
    • Josh
    Alex Ballar
    Alex Ballar
    • Alex
    Elzbieta Czyzewska
    Elzbieta Czyzewska
    • Dora
    Frederick Neumann
    Frederick Neumann
    • School Principal
    Peter F. Hopkins
    • Mr. Douglas
    Jerry Tanklow
    • Mr. Gilman
    Julia Stiles
    Julia Stiles
    • Young Nana's Friend
    Ashley Fletcher
    • Marushya
    • Director
      • Billy Hopkins
    • Writer
      • Wendy Kesselman
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    5Rod-54

    Mixed themes yield a disappointment

    For me this film is unsuccessful in intermingling the issue of antisemitism with the coming of age of a relatively studious young woman. On one level the Jude Law character might be only marginally deeper than his disgustingly callow friends. He is attracted by the young woman's seriousness and relatively shy affection for him but this attraction is offset by her social conservatism. The depth of any antisemitism in him or amongst his silly friends is never explored. In the end the motivation of his character, and the point of the film, elude me. An interpretation that springs to mind is that gentiles do not feel the significance of the holocaust, that they trivialise it. Part of coming of age for jewish girls is therefore that they should (or simply do) experience failed love affairs with gentiles. The fact that these affairs fail for these reasons is somehow constructively educational for the girls. I truly hope this is not intended to be the message.
    mark-coffey

    I can't believe I watched this movie

    I was subjected to this movie a couple of nights ago and I have to say - it is the worst film I've seen in a long time. The whole story is sickly sweet. Clare Danes looks (and acts) like she is about 12. The writing is terrible - it has some of the cheesiest lines ever. It is worth watching for the tacky zoom shot in the very last scene. Don't waste your time.
    6Xapora

    Messages and mega-stars!

    Sad, strange little movie stars Claire Danes as Daisy; a shy, bookish girl attending an elite private school in New York. When she's not gushing over the delectable Ethan (Jude Law), she's spending time with her Nana in the countryside reading books and listening to Nana's tales of her survival of the holocaust.

    The movie tries to intertwine the themes of post and modern day anti-semitism via Nana's stories and flashback sequences with Daisy's trials and tribulations at school when knowledge of her Jewish heritage is made public.

    Unfortunately, as hard as this movie tries, it never quite hits the mark. The performances from Danes and Moreau though are heartfelt, and the message is there for those who want to see it. This movie means well and attempts to educate us on one of the all time greatest blights on mankind - prejudice.

    Worth a look for early performances from Jude Law, James Van Der Beek and Julia Stiles before they hit the big time.
    thunderkiSSer

    Daisy daisy

    a nice little story of a bit of a confused girl...i loved the setting and the actors. nothing gets explored too deeply, expect the ups and downs of daisy (clair danes). its a movie i think more young females can relate too and it is a simple, sweet movie worth looking at. u feel at times that u can relate to the main character and sometimes she seems to take things a little further than she should, but it is all part of the person she is. I really loved the movie, but i'd say its more of a chick flick. Worth the watch if u'r looking for an easy, slower movie.
    kathleen-9

    Heartfelt..but dissapointing

    Essentially, this movie has all the makings for..well, a better one. Claire Danes plays a quiet girl with sad eyes, and unloving parents who spends most of her time with her Grandmother. One day in english class, she reads aloud a poem written about Jude Law's character, "Ethan", who is the stereotypical jock/playboy on campus. The two get together...blah blah blah..

    I won't tell you anymore except the the ending is VERY dissapointing. It's as though the movie just, ends. You don't see it coming, you feel like it should be starting to get good, and the plot holes filled up..well, they aren't, and it does. It's really quite aggrivating. Jude Law and Claire Danes performances are great, but not quite enough to push this movie onto my favourite list. But, don't let me discourage you, it's worth the rent.

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    • Trivia
      Julia Stiles' movie debut.
    • Quotes

      Nana: Why should you be normal? It's not the most important thing.

      Daisy: Oh yes it is, I know it is, you know it is!

    • Connections
      Featured in MTV Movie Special: Varsity Blues (1999)
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      Drove All Night
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    • Release date
      • October 31, 1997 (United States)
    • Countries of origin
      • United Kingdom
      • France
      • Germany
      • United States
    • Languages
      • German
      • Polish
      • English
    • Also known as
      • Älskar, älskar inte
    • Filming locations
      • New York, USA
    • Production companies
      • Canal+
      • Chrysalis Films
      • Die Hauskunst
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    • Gross US & Canada
      • $20,677
    • Opening weekend US & Canada
      • $10,587
      • Nov 2, 1997
    • Gross worldwide
      • $20,677
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    • Runtime
      • 1h 28m(88 min)
    • Color
      • Color
    • Sound mix
      • Stereo

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