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Bad Manners

  • 1997
  • R
  • 1h 28m
IMDb RATING
6.4/10
466
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David Strathairn, Bonnie Bedelia, Saul Rubinek, and Caroleen Feeney in Bad Manners (1997)
ComedyDramaRomance

Wes and Nancy are a married academics couple. One day they host Nancy's long-ago lover Matt and his current sexy girlfriend Kim. Matt is a musician and Kim is a computer specialist who helpe... Read allWes and Nancy are a married academics couple. One day they host Nancy's long-ago lover Matt and his current sexy girlfriend Kim. Matt is a musician and Kim is a computer specialist who helped Matt to make some discovery in his science. Wes suspects Kim of stealing 50 dollars from... Read allWes and Nancy are a married academics couple. One day they host Nancy's long-ago lover Matt and his current sexy girlfriend Kim. Matt is a musician and Kim is a computer specialist who helped Matt to make some discovery in his science. Wes suspects Kim of stealing 50 dollars from him and that starts tension, intrigues, mistrust.

  • Director
    • Jonathan Kaufer
  • Writer
    • David Gilman
  • Stars
    • David Strathairn
    • Bonnie Bedelia
    • Saul Rubinek
  • See production info at IMDbPro
  • IMDb RATING
    6.4/10
    466
    YOUR RATING
    • Director
      • Jonathan Kaufer
    • Writer
      • David Gilman
    • Stars
      • David Strathairn
      • Bonnie Bedelia
      • Saul Rubinek
    • 11User reviews
    • 13Critic reviews
  • See production info at IMDbPro
  • See production info at IMDbPro
    • Awards
      • 1 win & 1 nomination total

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    David Strathairn
    David Strathairn
    • Wes Westlund
    Bonnie Bedelia
    Bonnie Bedelia
    • Nancy Westlund
    Saul Rubinek
    Saul Rubinek
    • Matt Carroll
    Caroleen Feeney
    Caroleen Feeney
    • Kim Matthews
    Julie Harris
    Julie Harris
    • Professor Harper
    Robin Poley
    Robin Poley
    • First Musicologist
    Daniel Koch
    • Second Musicologist
    Steve Forbert
    • Coffeehouse Troubadour
    • Director
      • Jonathan Kaufer
    • Writer
      • David Gilman
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    User reviews11

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    roakes

    A dialogue driven movie that keeps your ears erect!

    This is a very funny, very sad, verbally intoxicating challenge for four gifted screen actors who take you along through a domestic crisis caused by an untimely visit by a wife's college boyfriend and his current infatuation. It could have been called "The Fifty Dollar Misunderstanding". Only in the last few minutes of screen-time are the stage origins too obvious. I loved this movie.
    10jayraskin1

    Original and Intriguing

    This film works on a number of levels. First it is a nice satire on academic life. As others have noted, it is a companion piece to Whose Afraid of Viginia Woolf. It does a nice job of satirizing the competitiveness and egotism of academic life. It also raises two important issues: how can/does non-scientific spirituality interact with a scientifically-minded academic community and misfortune can lead to misunderstanding and ruined relationships. The movie allows us to think about these two problems without forcing any really heavy conclusions on us.

    The acting is excellent and the direction terrific. May wife and I (both teachers) were laughing in just about every scene. I think teachers and other intellectuals will really appreciate the movie. Others may have a tougher time with it.
    6tohu

    Extraordinary - a little 'off the beat'

    An ageing couple of academics are stuck in a stale marriage. Her old boyfriend comes to stay for a few days with his (much younger) girlfriend. Things are tense from the beginning. And then $50 goes missing.

    This is an extraordinary film. I started watching it while working on my computer - so the movie was just on in the background - but gradually it pulled me in and I couldn't take my eyes off it.

    The scenario it sets up could have gone in a number of different directions. At one point early on I had a horrible feeling it was going to be a standard sex flick about middle-aged adultery. Or, after the money goes missing, it might have moved too fast and forced us to watch a bunch of repressed characters suddenly turning to screaming and violence. But no - it's classier than that. What we get instead is a slow-burning exploration of character and relationships. And it isn't at all clear where it is going to go.

    I won't over-praise it. The film drags at times, and as others have said its origins as a stage play are very obvious (there's nothing intrinsically wrong with that, except that it does show a slightly limited imagination). The acting is good, rather than top-notch, and personally I always find Saul Rubineck is one of those actors who plays the same character every time.

    So it is not perfect. But if you're in the mood for something a little 'off the beat,' it's worth watching. Just don't expect to get any work done while it's on!
    7=G=

    Interesting intellectual combat

    Two couples share a home for a few days during which suspicions are hatched, intellectual war is waged, and verbal fencing dominates. "Bad Manners" is a dialogue intense film with a well wrought script and good performances by the ensemble of four. An intriguing watch for more mature audiences.
    6Theo Robertson

    What Unlikable People

    Let`s see if I got this straight ? Nancy invites her former lover Matt and Kim his new partner to stay with her and her husband Wes . Excuse me but how many men would allow their wife to do this ? What you would ? But that`s because you`d like to have a wife swap ! Well that`s not what I meant , what I meant was ... oh never mind . On second thoughts that`s what Wes might have been thinking of . As soon as you see him you`re reminded of that schoolteacher you had , you know the one whose only function in life was to make every kids life a complete misery and I`m certain people like that do so because they`re sexual inadequates . Oh and Wes is money obsessed and a rabid non smoker so I guess he needs a vice like wife swapping to give his life some purpose . And Matt what`s he all about ? He`s a nice guy but he`s a middle aged nice guy , he`s a fat middle aged guy and he`s having it off with Kim a pretty fit girl who`s young enough to be his daughter . Like hello Earth to Ken what`s it like being a schmuck ? I can`t say I can blame Matt since Kim`s fit , young and in your face which is a big turn on for most men especially fat middle aged ones . I bet she`s great in bed too because she comes across as having plenty of past form , in fact compared to her Monica Lewinsky`s a bit frigid . And Nancy ? Well put it like this if someone took an overdose of prozac the doctor`s would prescribe a ten minute conversation with Nancy as an antidote . So in BAD MANNERS not only do the characters deserve all they get - they all deserve each other in this talky drama that states God does not play dice

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    • Trivia
      The teacup held by Professor Harper (Julie Harris) is antique American china made by Stetson called American Beauty. The china was originally sold in grocery stores for pennies a piece, but is now quite valuable.
    • Quotes

      Nancy Westlund: The only thing disturbing the placid surface of my life is you.

    • Connections
      Featured in Siskel & Ebert: Holy Man/Bad Manners/One Tough Cop/The Mighty/The Imposter (1998)
    • Soundtracks
      What's So Funny About Peace, Love and Understanding?
      Written by Nick Lowe

      Performed by Elvis Costello

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    • Release date
      • October 9, 1998 (United States)
    • Country of origin
      • United States
    • Language
      • English
    • Also known as
      • Malos modales
    • Filming locations
      • New York City, New York, USA
    • Production companies
      • Davis Entertainment Classics
      • Skyline Entertainment Partners
      • Wavecrest
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    Box office

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    • Gross US & Canada
      • $31,687
    • Opening weekend US & Canada
      • $11,656
      • Oct 11, 1998
    • Gross worldwide
      • $31,687
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    • Runtime
      • 1h 28m(88 min)
    • Color
      • Color
    • Sound mix
      • Dolby

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