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The R.M.

  • 2003
  • PG
  • 1h 41m
IMDb RATING
5.9/10
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The R.M. (2003)
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After two years as a Mormon missionary, Jared returns to find everything falling apart: his girlfriend leaves, he loses his job, and BYU rejects him. As more problems arise, he questions if ... Read allAfter two years as a Mormon missionary, Jared returns to find everything falling apart: his girlfriend leaves, he loses his job, and BYU rejects him. As more problems arise, he questions if righteous living is worth it.After two years as a Mormon missionary, Jared returns to find everything falling apart: his girlfriend leaves, he loses his job, and BYU rejects him. As more problems arise, he questions if righteous living is worth it.

  • Director
    • Kurt Hale
  • Writers
    • Kurt Hale
    • John E. Moyer
  • Stars
    • Kirby Heyborne
    • Daryn Tufts
    • Will Swenson
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  • IMDb RATING
    5.9/10
    922
    YOUR RATING
    • Director
      • Kurt Hale
    • Writers
      • Kurt Hale
      • John E. Moyer
    • Stars
      • Kirby Heyborne
      • Daryn Tufts
      • Will Swenson
    • 34User reviews
    • 3Critic reviews
  • See production info at IMDbPro
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    Kirby Heyborne
    Kirby Heyborne
    • Jared Phelps
    Daryn Tufts
    Daryn Tufts
    • Basketball Player
    Will Swenson
    Will Swenson
    • Kori Swenson
    Britani Bateman
    Britani Bateman
    • Kelly Powers
    Tracy Ann Evans
    • Emma Phelps
    Merrill Dodge
    • Brigham Phelps
    Michael Birkeland
    Michael Birkeland
    • Dewey
    Maren Ord
    • Sariah Phelps
    Big Budah
    • Humu
    Curt Doussett
    Curt Doussett
    • Defense Attorney
    Wally Joyner
    • Brother Colin Jensen
    Jericho Road
    • Prison Band
    Gary Crowton
    • Bishop Andrews
    Rulon Gardner
    Rulon Gardner
    • Good Samaritan
    Larry H. Miller
    • Car Dealer
    Jimmy Chunga
    Jimmy Chunga
    • Phat Cop
    Ruth Hale
    • Church Organist
    Ruth Todd
    • News Woman
    • Director
      • Kurt Hale
    • Writers
      • Kurt Hale
      • John E. Moyer
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    agoodn2

    Returning To Reality

    In the film "The R.M.", Jared Phelps, played by Kirby Heyborne, returns home from a two-year mission for his church. Out in 'the field' Jared lived the life of a missionary, teaching and preaching a spiritual message to complete strangers. When Phelps finally returns home, he finds that maybe he should have stayed out in the field. Upon his arrival to the airport, Jared finds no one there waiting for him. No friends. No family. No one. A bit disappointed, he justifies this by saying to a stranger: "My mom is probably just getting some flowers." His return to his house is even worse. He goes home, or at least to where home was two years ago, when he left for his mission, but his family has moved! Finally, upon arriving to his 'new' house, he learns that his family thought his return date home was a month later, his mom is pregnant with her seventh child, and the family now has a Tongan foreign exchange student living in the house and sleeping in Jared's bedroom. This is hardly the homecoming Jared anticipated. Not only that, but also after only a few days of being home, he finds out that he has lost his job, and his girlfriend is engaged to someone else. How awful! The movie continues with things that go wrong in Jared's post-mission life. After much prayer, Jared tries to adjust to life as a returned missionary.

    The critical intention of director Kurt Hale was to show the audience how missionaries adjust to their lives after their missions, when they have to enter back into reality. The critical technique is obvious through the secondary characters, inside humor, and minor background music that help to make the movie greater.
    7inkblot11

    A funny film, even for the non-Mormon population!

    Jared is a young Mormon man who has just finished his two year missionary stint. He believes he is coming back to a job and plans on proposing to his longtime girlfriend. Horrors! After buying the ring, he learns his girlfriend is two weeks away from marrying someone else and his job is down the drain, too. Not only that, but his parents have sold his car and adopted a young man who is now inhabiting Jared's old room! Whew. Well, there is the den and Jared snags a job as a repo man for a rental company, among other prospects. And, he valiantly tries to sell the ring to improve his cash flow. But, things look up when he meets Kelly. She is the daughter of an important church man and she is beautiful. Can she possibly be interested in Jared? Everyone will take a shine to this film whether they are Mormon or not. The actors are engaging and funny, the script is snappy and the production values are good. There are a few insider jokes about Mormons which may fly over the viewer's head but it does not matter in the long run. If you are searching for another romantic comedy with good principles, put your faith in this review and find this movie. The film delivers a dose of happiness for any member of the viewing audience.
    6ArizWldcat

    Fun, but a little heavy handed

    I have lived in Utah for 12 years, and like another reviewer, I had seen part of this on a local TV station a couple of weeks ago, and thought what I saw was pretty funny, so I rented the DVD. The first half of the movie is hilarious! Nothing goes right for the main character after he returns from his mission to Wyoming (a big laugh right there...). My daughters and I laughed our heads off. Toward the end of the movie, the momentum was somewhat lost by the convoluted story. The movie tried to turn serious, and it came off as a bit preachy. It was a bit heavy handed toward "jack" Mormons and toward non-Mormons, as they are depicted as heavy drinkers and just all around bad people. It wasn't a bad movie, however, and we got some good laughs out of it. "Big Budah" the local radio personality did surprisingly well in his acting debut! The DVD has a lot of fun extras too. All in all, I recommend it for good family viewing and a few laughs.
    rionm

    Who knew Wally Joyner could act?

    There might be some people that think this movie was bad. However, being LDS I found this movie quite entertaining, and no I am not in Utah. I have never actually lived in Utah. That's beside the point, this movie was rather funny, and if you have ever served a mission, and experienced life afterwards it pretty much hit the nail on the head with how it feels. The story although a little far fetched is not distracting and some of the Mormon stereotypes are hilarious. All-in-all this movie is a good one to add to your collection especially if you are LDS. And by the way I thought that Wally Joyner was probably the funniest person in the whole movie. The only thing funnier was the cameo appearance of Donald Trump's hair. For those of you that have not seen it, watch the movie again and look at Wally Joyner's head as Jared (Kirby H.) finds out that he doesn't have a job anymore. Although it is dyed from the normal blonde hue, you can totally tell it is Trump's toupee.

    7 out of 10
    7BrentCoRe

    Expectations met..

    Just when I imagined LDS-driven comedy had reached a maximum, having no more cracks to make on the cinematic scene, I saw the world premiere of The RM in Sandy, Utah. I found myself bent over in laughter for a majority of the film, but ultimately left the theatre wishing there was more of a story-line and actors with more talent. In comparison to the 2002 film Singles Ward, corny jokes were found without much effort; however, I found a stronger comedial aspect in The RM. I would definately see it again, but not until it reaches the dollar theatre or comes out on video. I would describe this movie as a must-see for LDS people of all ages. I rated this a 7 out of 10.

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    • Trivia
      When Jared first finds out Molly's fiancé's name, he says, "His name's Kirby? That's not even a name." The actor who plays Jared is named Kirby.
    • Goofs
      The Phelps' front door changes in color from pink to green in different scenes.
    • Quotes

      Brigham: You're not just an RM, you're an LDS RM, who's trained at the MTC who became a DL, a ZL, and an AP, who was promised long ago by his bishop through a PPI after BYC that someday he'd be the EQP. I smell GA!

    • Crazy credits
      No animals were harmed in the making of this film...except for that dog - stupid dog!
    • Connections
      Edited into The Singles 2nd Ward (2007)
    • Soundtracks
      In The Hollow Of Thy Hand
      Words and Music by Janice Kapp Perry

      Arranged and Performed by The Sugarland Run

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    Details

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    • Release date
      • January 31, 2003 (United States)
    • Country of origin
      • United States
    • Language
      • English
    • Also known as
      • The Returned Missionary
    • Filming locations
      • Utah, USA
    • Production company
      • Halestorm Entertainment
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    Box office

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    • Budget
      • $500,000 (estimated)
    • Gross US & Canada
      • $1,111,615
    • Opening weekend US & Canada
      • $130,352
      • Feb 2, 2003
    • Gross worldwide
      • $1,111,615
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    • Runtime
      • 1h 41m(101 min)
    • Color
      • Color
    • Sound mix
      • Dolby Digital

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