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Gray Matters

  • 2006
  • PG-13
  • 1h 36m
IMDb RATING
5.7/10
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Gray Matters (2006)
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Gray and Sam, siblings sharing a NYC apartment, visit a dog park to expand their social circle. Sam meets Charlie, a zoologist. As they all become friends, Gray realizes she may have feeling... Read allGray and Sam, siblings sharing a NYC apartment, visit a dog park to expand their social circle. Sam meets Charlie, a zoologist. As they all become friends, Gray realizes she may have feelings for Charlie, complicating everything.Gray and Sam, siblings sharing a NYC apartment, visit a dog park to expand their social circle. Sam meets Charlie, a zoologist. As they all become friends, Gray realizes she may have feelings for Charlie, complicating everything.

  • Director
    • Sue Kramer
  • Writer
    • Sue Kramer
  • Stars
    • Heather Graham
    • Tom Cavanagh
    • Bridget Moynahan
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    5.7/10
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    • Director
      • Sue Kramer
    • Writer
      • Sue Kramer
    • Stars
      • Heather Graham
      • Tom Cavanagh
      • Bridget Moynahan
    • 50User reviews
    • 29Critic reviews
    • 31Metascore
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    Heather Graham
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    • Gray Baldwin
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    • Sam Baldwin
    Bridget Moynahan
    Bridget Moynahan
    • Charlie Kelsey
    Molly Shannon
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    Rachel Shelley
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    • Julia Barlett
    Bill Mondy
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    • Jordan Phillips
    Don Ackerman
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    • Conrad Spring
    Warren Christie
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    • Trevor Brown
    Alan Cumming
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    Sissy Spacek
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    Samantha Ferris
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    Tim Perez
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    • Roberto
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    • Derek
    • (as Benjamin Ratner)
    April Telek
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    • Lana Valentine
    • (as April Amber Telek)
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    Casey Dubois
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    6ferguson-6

    Nauseous with the Munchkins

    Greetings again from the darkness. First time writer/director Sue Kramer certainly tackles an interesting and unique topic with her initial outing.

    A quick synopsis: Brother (Tom Cavanaugh) and sister (Heather Graham) live together and are so close and spend so much time together that people naturally assume they are a couple (Ick!). Sister sets brother up with gorgeous, friendly, smart newcomer to the city (Bridget Moynahan) whom they meet at the dog park. Brother and newcomer immediately fall in love and set a wedding date for the next weekend. Sister and bride to be share a long, wet kiss before bride to be passes out drunk. This incident threatens to ruin brother - sister relationship while "outing" sister as the reluctant lesbian she is.

    I rarely struggle over a rating or comments for a film. Normally the rating just hits me and the words flow. This one has me almost as confused as Heather Graham's character (Gray). I very much admire the soft-shoe approach that Kramer brings to this most delicate topic. No, I don't consider the theme "coming out" ... I consider the theme self-discovery of identity. Learning to accept one's self and not "pretend" to be what is expected. This topic is explored through some humorous moments, but in a strange way we actually go through the awakening with Ms. Graham.

    The key actors all do a nice job. Graham and Cavanagh have a nice chemistry, Moynahan in lingerie is always a good call, Sissy Spacek as the world's worst therapist and Rachel Shelly in an extension from "The L Word" are all solid. Even Molly Shannon is finally cast in a role that suits her just fine. The best and most entertaining character is the Scottish cab driver played charmingly well by Alan Cumming. He is such a likable guy ... except for the whole gay bar scene.

    What really prevents this one from reaching another level is strictly the number of unbelievable events. Two smart people zipping off to Vegas to get married after 6 days and having someone 30 years old first entertain thoughts of gaydom are just two large examples of stretches that ask the viewer for a bit too much latitude. Still, there are some funny moments, funny lines and a thought provoking identity theme that make it worthwhile.
    8ctelrap

    Moving Comedy/Drama

    On the surface this may seem frivolous, a light, somewhat implausible comedy with affable characters. A girl lives with her brother. She finds herself attracted to his fiancé,and irony ensues. It is, in that respect, a bit formulaic. However, Graham gives a very moving, underrated performance here. I considered myself liberal enough. I favored civil unions, but that was all. I succumbed to the generalization that it was a reasonable compromise. But, I watched a girl crying in an elevator, relating to her brother that she couldn't be GAY because she could never have a normal life. She could never marry. It changed my mind. That is a performance worthy of note.
    LMolho

    Highly recommend

    I saw Gray Matters at the Hampton Film Festival and what a great choice I made. This movie is a must see. Molly Shannon is laughed out loud funny. Tom Cavanaugh and Heather Graham have amazing chemistry. Bridget Moynihan looks stunning. Alan Cumming and Sissy Spacek round out this unbelievable cast. I left this movie on such a high. Everyone who was walking out of the movie was saying how much they loved it from age 13 to an elderly couple and all ages in between. The scenes of Manhattan, music, dancing #'s, and most of all the acting and storyline were phenomenal. I was amazed to find out that this is a new director who also wrote the movie! I can't wait to see more of her work.
    5gabi-12

    When all is said and done, it's nothing but a cute romantic comedy

    Sure, there are a lot of things in "Gray Matters" that don't make sense. Some of the casting is slightly off, sometimes the characters slip into dialogue that seems to be cribbed from an after school special, sometimes the characters conveniently forget things just for the sake of moving the plot along. However, despite the obvious missteps, "Gray Matters", in the end, remains watchable and entertaining.

    The film begins the way a lot of romantic comedies begin - with dancing. Sam and Gray waltz around a New York City loft, easily imitating scenes from their shared love of 1940's musicals. They seem the perfect couple - if only they weren't related... and therein lies the, yes, I'll admit - thin and silly premise upon which the film is based. You see, Sam and Gray are best friends and siblings. They grew up together, they live together, they speak in dialogue reminiscent of screwball comedies (or Lorelai and Rory from "Gilmore Girls", if that's the reference you prefer). Enter Bridget Moynahan as Charlie, the love interest they are about to share, to shake up their entire relationship and Gray's entire world. A wacky love triangle ensues, as do many, many romantic comedy clichés, made all the more clear by Molly Shannon as Gray's kooky best friend.

    Misunderstandings and secrets abound as Gray starts to figure out who she really is, Charlie doesn't have a clue about anything, and Sam grows increasingly nervous. Despite all the silliness and illogical plot transitions, though, "Gray Matters" is, at its heart, a sweet, positive coming out movie. If you can suspend disbelief long enough to believe Heather Graham as a woman questioning her sexuality, it's easy to relate to her realization and subsequent meltdown, and the film takes just the right tone. The film has just enough exuberance to help you get over the illogical ending, too.

    Granted, "Kissing Jessica Stein" does what this film attempts to do so much better, but nonetheless, "Gray Matters" is entertaining and fun.
    7lena-boogie

    Rating this movie is harder than expected

    So actually I really didn't like the movie.. I don't like exaggeration in movies overall and I feel like the actress that played Gray overexaggerated to much. But then, somehow, after about 50 minutes I started liking the movie. Until then, for me, it was like a bad, not really funny, rom-com.. but then it got a deeper meaning. It was less about two people (or 3?) falling in love but about self-discovery.

    So for me this is a movie I will recommend this way (to mostly people of the LGBTQ+ community): "You're probably wanna stop watching it at one point or another, but that would be a mistake. In the end you're gonna be happy that you watched this movie"

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    • Trivia
      In the film's opening sequence, Cavanaugh and Graham are seen dancing alone together in the middle of a studio. Graham is wearing a dress and red high-heeled shoes. Originally,Graham went barefoot so it would be easier for her to dance, but Cavanaugh was an awkward dancer and kept accidentally stepping on her toes, so she needed to put shoes on to shoot the dance number.
    • Goofs
      Heading for dinner at Raoul's, Gray gets out of Gordy's cab at the intersection of Seventh Avenue and something; regardless of where that something is, it's not the SoHo intersection of Prince and Sullivan Streets. In fact, that far south, Seventh Avenue is actually Varick Street.
    • Quotes

      Sam: What are you doing?

      Gray: I want to die right now. I never want to see another human being as long as I live.

      Sam: You're just coming out.

      Gray: I am never coming out of this elevator.

      Sam: This is probably the biggest revelation of your entire life. It's normal to be going nuts. It's normal.

      Gray: I don't feel normal. I'm sick and tired of everyone saying it's normal, it's typical, it's ordinary. I don't feel any of those things.

      Sam: Well how do you feel?

      Gray: Lonely.

      Sam: Why?

      Gray: Because I'm never going to be able to walk down the street, holding hands with my partner without the rest of the world giving us a look. And me never have the wedding that I once dreamed of and I may never have children. And one day when I die people will never give as much respect to my grieving lover as if she were my husband.

      Sam: Gray, it's not as if you made a choice.

      Gray: That's what terrifies me. It's so much easier to be someone else.

    • Connections
      Featured in Siskel & Ebert: Zodiac/Gray Matters/Wild Hogs/Smarter for 10 (2007)
    • Soundtracks
      I Just Remember Goodbye
      Written by Schuyler Fisk

      Performed by Schuyler Fisk

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    • Release date
      • July 13, 2007 (Spain)
    • Country of origin
      • United States
    • Language
      • English
    • Also known as
      • Los líos de Gray
    • Filming locations
      • New York City, New York, USA
    • Production companies
      • Bella Films
      • Bob Yari Productions
      • Contagious Entertainment
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    • Gross US & Canada
      • $71,561
    • Opening weekend US & Canada
      • $25,714
      • Feb 25, 2007
    • Gross worldwide
      • $944,479
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    • Runtime
      • 1h 36m(96 min)
    • Color
      • Color
    • Sound mix
      • Dolby Digital
    • Aspect ratio
      • 1.78 : 1

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