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The Heart of Me

  • 2002
  • R
  • 1h 36m
IMDb RATING
6.5/10
2.8K
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Helena Bonham Carter, Paul Bettany, and Olivia Williams in The Heart of Me (2002)
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1930's London. Two sisters - Madeleine and Dinah - One marries Rickie, the other falls in love with him. He begins an affair which is to have repercussions throughout their lives.1930's London. Two sisters - Madeleine and Dinah - One marries Rickie, the other falls in love with him. He begins an affair which is to have repercussions throughout their lives.1930's London. Two sisters - Madeleine and Dinah - One marries Rickie, the other falls in love with him. He begins an affair which is to have repercussions throughout their lives.

  • Director
    • Thaddeus O'Sullivan
  • Writers
    • Rosamond Lehmann
    • Lucinda Coxon
  • Stars
    • Helena Bonham Carter
    • Olivia Williams
    • Paul Bettany
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  • IMDb RATING
    6.5/10
    2.8K
    YOUR RATING
    • Director
      • Thaddeus O'Sullivan
    • Writers
      • Rosamond Lehmann
      • Lucinda Coxon
    • Stars
      • Helena Bonham Carter
      • Olivia Williams
      • Paul Bettany
    • 29User reviews
    • 31Critic reviews
    • 53Metascore
  • See production info at IMDbPro
    • Awards
      • 3 wins & 1 nomination total

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    Helena Bonham Carter
    Helena Bonham Carter
    • Dinah
    Olivia Williams
    Olivia Williams
    • Madeleine
    Paul Bettany
    Paul Bettany
    • Rickie
    Eleanor Bron
    Eleanor Bron
    • Mrs. Burkett
    Luke Newberry
    Luke Newberry
    • Anthony
    Tom Ward
    Tom Ward
    • Jack
    Gillian Hanna
    Gillian Hanna
    • Betty
    Andrew Havill
    Andrew Havill
    • Charles
    Alison Reid
    • Bridie
    Katy Maw
    • Sylvia
    • (as Kathryn Tennant-Maw)
    Rebecca Charles
    • Miss Matthews
    John Rowe
    John Rowe
    • Drysdale
    Shaughan Seymour
    • Jeweller
    Simon Day
    • Hospital Doctor
    Jenny Howe
    • Nurse
    Rosie Ede
    Rosie Ede
    • Landlady
    Rosie Bonham Carter
    • Clarissa
    Paul Ridley
    • Policeman
    • Director
      • Thaddeus O'Sullivan
    • Writers
      • Rosamond Lehmann
      • Lucinda Coxon
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    8kluismans

    a thought-provoking and challenging story

    this is the second time that i have seen this movie and it definitely lives up to repeated viewings. at heart the story maybe about an illicit affair of forbidden love, but in reality it seems much more. It lays bare the consequences of the worst betrayals of trust without apportioning blame. all three characters, Madeleine, Dinah and Ricky, are left unsatisfied and the pain that they feel makes the film challenging viewing - it is simply so sad. what i liked most about the story is its time frame, as we weave through fifteen odd years and see the story, or rather the affair through the different perspective of time - it is such a clever technique because our sympathies never rest- we switch allegiance constantly and recognise that for these three people there could be no happy resolution.

    there is so much else to love about this film, i loved the way the large elegant house, appeared to take on the appearance of Madeleine's state of mind - all bright and happy in the beginning and then grey and sterile at the end.

    the film does have a fault i would say, though. which is why i have given it 8. i do not like Helena Bonham carters performance. it was partly because both Olivia Williams and Paul Bettany gave such wonderful performances that hers appears forced and insincere. i think that we are meant to like Dinah and see her as colourful and vital - but i didn't believe in her portrayal. she is remarkable at expressing anguish and truly has a beautiful voice when reciting Blake, but i found her garish costumes and brazen comments, unconvincing and unnatural. she grated on me because i really needed to believe that this woman was worthy of Ricky's obsessional love and i didn't. having said that i still recommend this movie, if only really because of its deep and intelligent exploration of the different types of love.
    8lawprof

    The BBC Agains Shows Why There'll Always be an England (on celluloid)

    I've heard that Western religious dogma eschews the thought never mind the act of a man lusting for his neighbor's wife. What really rocks the boat is a married man sappily and hopelessly enmeshed in the arms of his wife's sister. And that's what we have in this dark hued English drama whose scenes alternate between the pre-war social frivolity of affluent men and women unaware that their time was almost up and postwar scenes tieing the story together.

    Helena Bonham Carter is Dinah, a free spirit given to studying, and perhaps evangelizing, the gospel of malcontents and revolutionaries in that nonthreatening and oddly endearing manner that insures both bemusement and acceptance by well-to-do English gentlefolk. Olivia Williams is her married sister, Madeleine, a hostess with the mostess, married to businessman Rickie, played by Paul Bettany.

    The focus of the film is on this trio, not a menage a trois but a coruscating set of characters wracked by love, lust and confusion leavened by sporadic betrayal and reconciliation.

    It's really simple: Rickie sort of loves or at least very much likes Madeleine but his heart and other body parts desperately seek and need Dinah. Dinah loves her sister and her charming adolescent son but she must have Rickie. Madeleine loves both but is blind to the reality of their relationship until... A story of this genre must have a clear and unambiguous "until."

    Directed by Thaddeus O'Sullivan, the acting of the three principals is, simply, mesmerizingly superb. Helena Bonham Carter is renowned for her period pieces (she can do much more and she does) and she fits into London's prewar world and its gray aftermath as if she actually experienced those times. Paul Bettany captures the lost male guided by his...ah, lust, with but minimal if any moral insight into his conduct. Special mention must be made of Olivia Williams who captures the pathos, hope and desperation of a decent woman swept up by acts of betrayal she never envisaged as possible. I hope we see much more of this fine actress.

    The score by Nicholas Hooper is very good but judicious editing was needed to reduce intrusiveness of the music and the sound level ought to have been lowered for a number of scenes.

    A fine production.

    8/10.
    6=G=

    "The Heart of Me" could use some CPR

    "The Heart of Me" is an excellent film in all respects except one. The pathos soaked story, which moves like a lavalamp, shows us nothing new and does it such a way we are not the least inclined to care. The film traces the life of two English sisters who have a man in common. One is his wife amd the other his mistress. A painfully tedious and stilted film which presents us with such a mawkish protag (Bettany) he can't pick one or the other or manage either much less both. Rather, he lets them manage him resulting in one really whipped dude and a whole lot of crying while we sit watching disconnected and detached. A melancholy affair, "The Heart of Me" is a very pretty flop. (C+)
    7olly1508

    A moving and beautifully acted piece of real cinema

    This film played to a packed audience at the closing night of the London Film Festival last week. The story of an upper class English man falling passionately in love with his wife's sister was so involving I completely forgot myself for the duration of the film (and from what I could see,so did the rest of the audience). It is a flawless film. Intensely moving. The complex characterisations were handled with immense integrity. One of the wonderful things about it was that during the course of the story I both liked and disliked all the characters. By the end it is impossible to judge them, only appreciate what they had gone through. A most wonderful and uplifting film. Paul Bettany is a discovery. An actor of immense subtlety who is not afraid to play a character who appears simply weak on the surface but is actually very complex. A very detailed and brave performance. Olivia Williams is transformed by the character. She plays Madeline, a woman who lives by the strict rules of her class. No emotion is allowed to get in the way of how this class organises their lives and Madeline respects that. When we see her years later in life, Williams makes us utterly believe the immense changes that she has endured. Madeline must forgive her sister Dinah for her betrayal. This seems impossible given what Madeline has endured at the hands of her sister, yet Williams makes us believe in that forgiveness. This was a great lesson to me. To see how you must move on in your life. Helena Bonham Carter is more vulnerable, sensitive and outrageous than I have ever seen her. Her character is on a knife edge. She falls passionately in love with her brother- in- law and from that moment on the film takes you on an emotional roller-coaster ride that I still can't get out of my mind. The film also has one of the best scores I've heard in ages - romantic and tuneful without being slushy or sentimental. It's also a ravishing looking film (maybe that's why I cant get it out of my mind) and yet the powerful images never interfere with the story but add to it all the time. Real cinema.
    Proud_Canadian

    A wonderful film that goes for substance over style.

    I was fortunate enough to see this film at the Toronto Film Festival and talk briefly with the Director afterwards.

    "The Heart of Me" is a period piece set in London during the 1930s and 40s. It is a European-style film that takes the time to give exposition and background to the characters. It builds slowly and chooses substance over style. The mood is somber and much of the lighting and colour scheme reflects this in a similar manner to the Crow.

    It is a drama with a few moments of levity. The three main leads are excellent. Helena Bonham Carter and Olivia Williams play sisters. Helena's character begins to fall in love with her brother-in-law played by Paul Bettany and they have an affair.

    I was pleasantly surprised by Paul's acting. I've only seen him before in "A Knight's Tale" and "A Beautiful Mind" where he has played light-hearted best friend characters. His performance here was understated, subdued, and a change of pace from what I had previously seen. I didn't think he was capable of going head to head with Helena but he was.

    If you like Merchant and Ivory films, then I think you would like this. It has the same feel as "Howard's End" and "Remains of the Day".

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    • Trivia
      The poem read by Dinah (Helena Bonham Carter) in the park is Broken Love, written by William Blake.
    • Goofs
      All entries contain spoilers
    • Quotes

      Dinah: And throughout all Eternity I forgive you, you forgive me

    • Crazy credits
      Thanks to the residents of Fitzroy Square.
    • Soundtracks
      The Very Thought of You
      Written by Ray Noble

      Performed by Al Bowlly with Ray Noble and His Orchestra

      Published by Campbell Connelly & Co., Ltd.

      By arrangement with Past Perfect Vintage Music

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    • Release date
      • May 2, 2003 (United Kingdom)
    • Countries of origin
      • United Kingdom
      • Germany
    • Language
      • English
    • Also known as
      • Benim Kalbim
    • Filming locations
      • Isle of Man
    • Production companies
      • Martin Pope Productions
      • Arch Enterprises Limited
      • BBC Film
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    • Budget
      • $7,000,000 (estimated)
    • Gross US & Canada
      • $196,067
    • Opening weekend US & Canada
      • $21,956
      • Jun 15, 2003
    • Gross worldwide
      • $282,519
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    • Runtime
      • 1h 36m(96 min)
    • Color
      • Color
    • Sound mix
      • Dolby Digital
    • Aspect ratio
      • 1.85 : 1

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