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Waiter

Original title: Ober
  • 2006
  • 1h 37m
IMDb RATING
6.9/10
3.4K
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Waiter (2006)
DutchDark ComedyComedyDrama

A downtrodden waiter decides to take up matters with the screenwriter determined to make him suffer.A downtrodden waiter decides to take up matters with the screenwriter determined to make him suffer.A downtrodden waiter decides to take up matters with the screenwriter determined to make him suffer.

  • Director
    • Alex van Warmerdam
  • Writer
    • Alex van Warmerdam
  • Stars
    • Alex van Warmerdam
    • Ariane Schluter
    • Jaap Spijkers
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  • IMDb RATING
    6.9/10
    3.4K
    YOUR RATING
    • Director
      • Alex van Warmerdam
    • Writer
      • Alex van Warmerdam
    • Stars
      • Alex van Warmerdam
      • Ariane Schluter
      • Jaap Spijkers
    • 14User reviews
    • 13Critic reviews
  • See production info at IMDbPro
  • See production info at IMDbPro
    • Awards
      • 3 wins & 7 nominations total

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    Alex van Warmerdam
    Alex van Warmerdam
    • Edgar
    Ariane Schluter
    • Victoria
    Jaap Spijkers
    Jaap Spijkers
    • Walter
    Mark Rietman
    • Herman
    Thekla Reuten
    Thekla Reuten
    • Suzie
    Kees Prins
    Kees Prins
    • Zakenman 1
    Pierre Bokma
    Pierre Bokma
    • Zakenman 2
    Porgy Franssen
    • Zakenman 3
    Lyne Renée
    Lyne Renée
    • Stella
    • (as Line Van Wambeke)
    Waldemar Kobus
    Waldemar Kobus
    • Richard
    Fedja van Huêt
    Fedja van Huêt
    • Ralph
    Joop Admiraal
    • Magere man
    Jakop Ahlbom
    • Stanley
    Martine Berghuijs
    • Vrouw
    Loek Beumer
    • Ober racletten
    Leny Breederveld
    • Vrouw Gerard
    Bert Bunschoten
    • Gerard
    Aat Ceelen
    • Gezette man
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      • Alex van Warmerdam
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      • Alex van Warmerdam
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    10fatgerman-580-520227

    A black comedy like no other

    Edgar is a waiter in a mediocre restaurant. I could go on, talking about his bedridden wife, his lover, her overprotective brother. But to do so would be to miss the point of this sublime exercise of the writer's art. Ober was my introduction to the films of Alex van Warmerdam and is still my favourite of the many wonderful movies he has produced. On one level it's a black comedy, on another it's an exercise in surrealism, on another level it's an existential movie that asks "What would your life be like if you could talk to your creator". And, on every level, it is completely hilarious. I totally disagree with the reviewer who complains about it being subtitled. I don't speak a lot of Dutch so perhaps that makes a difference, but the actors speaking their native tongue produce an energy in the dialog that is completely lost in dubbed movies, IMO. I cannot praise this film enough. It made me laugh like a loon, it made me cry, it made me think, and I kept thinking about it long after it had finished. That makes it a work of art, in my book.
    9dumsumdumfai

    classic Alex Van Warmerdam

    Other than a bit of editing anomalies in the beginning, I have no complains about this film. Other AVW's film that I saw previously was "Grimm" and that was exceedingly refreshing. Obvious that comparison will be made with other movies of similar theme. But I don't think I can give too much away except it is fun, funny, surrealistic, yet true to the "characters" of the film.

    the story is like Stranger than Fiction, but better - welllll.. my preference anyhow. It's done in deadpan style - leaving the exploration and the enjoyment - to the audience.

    The film is low budget (if you compare to Hollywood) but well crafted with "situations", "scenes", shots and dialogue. There are times, some scenes seem slightly awkward, but in the back of your mind, because you know the situation, you understand the reason why these scenes seem awkward.

    Now I really have to see "The Dress"
    9trapperjohn87

    A crowd pleaser at TIFF

    I am pleased to report that Alex van Warmerdam's "OBER" was well received by the audience at yesterday's Toronto International Film Festival screening. Spectators can be fickle at 9:45 a.m., and it is a testament to the director's talent that his film elicited a laugh-out-loud response from beginning to end.

    I tend to be skeptical of films from the Netherlands. I'm no philistine, but I have encountered several movies from this region that I can only describe as "weird." Now, I won't claim that there aren't unusual elements in this film, but they are employed in the service of comedy rather than abstraction.

    Warmerdam, himself, plays Edgar, a middle-aged waiter who suffers through confrontations with his belligerent customers, unruly neighbours, his chronically ill wife, and his demanding mistress. Warmerdam's dead-pan performance is so consistent that the passivity that defines his character is not compromised when Edgar visits Herman, the screen-writer who is controlling his destiny; he is simply worn out, and has come to request, not demand, that his life might be propelled in a more agreeable direction.

    Herman concedes, but as any screen-writer will attest, a compelling narrative requires conflict. The various fates that are in store for Edgar are, yes, unusual at times, but the comedy is particularly strong in this film because each trajectory is so "unexpected." Another festival film this year is "STRANGER THAN FICTION," (w/ Will Farrell & Dustin Hoffman) which has a similar premise. It was sold out before my tickets were assembled, so I can't assess whether or not it is as successful in its execution as OBER. I do feel, however, that Warmerdam's film has the potential to satisfy a wider audience than it will ever encounter, and I would urge people to seek it out. It is a film with great depth, but it needs to be emphasized that, first and foremost, OBER works as an accessible comedy that even the most skeptical movie-lovers will enjoy.
    10FilmCriticLalitRao

    Director Alex Van Warmerdam poses tough questions about the essence and the fate of a character.

    Most films about human life's ordinary characters are able to charm audiences as they depict the true feelings of human beings. Dutch film 'Ober' is one such film which succeeds enormously as it has chosen a very good theme. It is in the form of the depiction of a waiter who can be hailed as the most ordinary of all ordinary people. Director Alex Van Warmerdam is able to add extra strength to his film by playing the leading role. As the film begins, Alex is shown to bear all insults with utmost coolness and fortitude. However, as the film progresses, Alex decides to ask tough questions about his fate. This situation gives rise to a series of hilarious encounters with screen writers who exercise absolute control over their characters and their fates. In the field of art, an artist is given complete control to develop the characters. One must nevertheless ask the most pertinent questions : Who controls the life of a character ? Is it the character himself/herself who controls his/her destiny ? Does the character have an independent existence ? These questions do not have simple answers as a lot of subjective perspectives do come into picture. Director Alex Van Warmerdam makes a good try at answering them in his film "Ober". His film is a poignant plea for respecting all human beings regardless of their foibles.
    7Ryu_Darkwood

    Prepare to meet your maker...!

    Alex van Warmerdam is the David Lynch of the Dutch cinema. His movies are enigmatic and absurd, and they are filled with dark themes and sexual tension. ''Ober'' is no exception, although it did feel a bit more mainstream than ''Grimm'' or ''De Noorderlingen''.

    This story evolves around a waiter getting smacked around by nearly everyone in his near vicinity. Fed up by this misfortune, he decides to pay the author of his story a visit and ask him for a few chances in the scenario of life. Wrong choice. From that point on the story becomes weirder and weirder.

    I was a bit disappointed at first. The story of meeting the author of your life has the potential to become a thought provoking movie like ''Being John Malkovich'' or ''Eternal Sunshine...''. But sadly it didn't quite reach that level. It's more of a well-crafted and absurd comedy than anything else. That doesn't mean that I didn't enjoy the movie. Alex van Warmerdam, playing the role of the waiter himself, displays himself as a comical genius. It's really funny to see this poor guy being used as boxing equipment by almost everyone. There is also a totally random scene in which nothing else happens than seeing an old lady wrapping up a bow and arrow. It may sound boring, but on-screen it is hilarious.

    As a whole this is a highly enjoyable and funny comedy. Not as good as I hoped for, but certainly better than most of the Dutch garbage released. We need this kind of movies to put Holland on the map of the movie business.

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    • Trivia
      Lyne Renée's debut.
    • Connections
      Featured in Allemaal film: Tussen kunst en kassa (2007)
    • Soundtracks
      Guitar A La Carte
      Written by Vincent van Warmerdam

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    • Release date
      • September 28, 2006 (Netherlands)
    • Countries of origin
      • Netherlands
      • Belgium
    • Official site
      • Official site (Netherlands)
    • Languages
      • Dutch
      • English
    • Also known as
      • 服務生之死
    • Production companies
      • Graniet Film BV
      • La Parti Productions
      • Verenigde Arbeiders Radio Amateurs (VARA)
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    • Gross worldwide
      • $860,741
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    • Runtime
      • 1h 37m(97 min)
    • Color
      • Color
    • Sound mix
      • DTS
    • Aspect ratio
      • 1.85 : 1

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