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The One with the Invitation

  • Episode aired Apr 23, 1998
  • TV-PG
  • 22m
IMDb RATING
6.9/10
5.9K
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Matt LeBlanc in Friends (1994)
ComedyRomance

As Ross and Emily send out wedding invitations, he and Rachel each look back on their relationship together while Joey and Chandler look for a purpose in life.As Ross and Emily send out wedding invitations, he and Rachel each look back on their relationship together while Joey and Chandler look for a purpose in life.As Ross and Emily send out wedding invitations, he and Rachel each look back on their relationship together while Joey and Chandler look for a purpose in life.

  • Director
    • Peter Bonerz
  • Writers
    • David Crane
    • Marta Kauffman
    • Seth Kurland
  • Stars
    • Jennifer Aniston
    • Courteney Cox
    • Lisa Kudrow
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  • IMDb RATING
    6.9/10
    5.9K
    YOUR RATING
    • Director
      • Peter Bonerz
    • Writers
      • David Crane
      • Marta Kauffman
      • Seth Kurland
    • Stars
      • Jennifer Aniston
      • Courteney Cox
      • Lisa Kudrow
    • 13User reviews
    • 4Critic reviews
  • See production info at IMDbPro
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    Jennifer Aniston
    Jennifer Aniston
    • Rachel Green
    Courteney Cox
    Courteney Cox
    • Monica Geller
    Lisa Kudrow
    Lisa Kudrow
    • Phoebe Buffay
    Matt LeBlanc
    Matt LeBlanc
    • Joey Tribbiani
    • (as Matt Le Blanc)
    Matthew Perry
    Matthew Perry
    • Chandler Bing
    David Schwimmer
    David Schwimmer
    • Dr. Ross Geller
    Helen Baxendale
    Helen Baxendale
    • Emily Waltham
    Elliott Gould
    Elliott Gould
    • Jack Geller
    • (archive footage)
    • (uncredited)
    James Michael Tyler
    James Michael Tyler
    • Gunther
    • (uncredited)
    • Director
      • Peter Bonerz
    • Writers
      • David Crane
      • Marta Kauffman
      • Seth Kurland
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    6jpapanone

    a fine episode

    All of these reviews about it being clips from previous shows....Uh...when this came out 20+ years ago...they weren't in syndication...no reruns...dvd box sets weren't a thing, i don't think. pretty sure it was vhs. wasn't in HD. If you missed an episode 20 years ago, you had to wait months for it to re air...and if you missed the re airing...good luck. You can wait a few years to see it again unless you rented the season on blockbuster once it came out...or bought an entire season...how much were they back then??? Like $50 a season? It was insane. This was fine.
    1Egzan

    You can skip this one.

    All you gotta know is ross is trying to figure out if he wants rachel in his wedding or not. And then Rachel is trying to deciede if she actually wants to go.

    Rest of the episode is only flashbacks of rachel-ross relationship moments.
    2studioAT

    The first 'Friends' flashback episode

    This is the first of the 'Friends' flashback/clip episodes, and although I recognise the need for the producers to stretch the budget, there's a lazy quality to these episodes, and this one is no exception.

    Yes, it's nice to see the most memorable moments of the Ross/Rachel relationship, but it doesn't necessarily make for the most interesting of episodes for the audience.

    The linking scenes of new material are OK, but it's laboured stuff all round.

    The beauty of DVD is that you can skip episodes like this and pretend they don't exist. I do.
    10JaneS980

    its not the best but it doesn't deserve to be the worst

    This Friends episode is just a episode containing flashbacks of Ross and Rachel. The writers do a great job with these flashbacks, as they make it interesting. Like here with invitations, Joey's interview, Chandler and Monica's vows, etc. It also makes sense by saving the money for the season finales. Back in the day, people had to watch it on TV every week. It would be very easy to forget some of these scenes. And I get the argument of waiting a week or so for these types of episodes but I don't think fans of Friends would mind that much. It's actually a great trip down the memory lane.

    Now would this arguably be the worst episode of Friends? Yes, probably but as a biased fan, I couldn't help but give it a 10.
    10livinglifing

    For REAL Friends fans...

    So what if it's a compilation, mostly, of great scenes from prior episodes? Every now and then it was nice to look back at some quality stuff put together with a storyline...remember this was before streaming and many people didn't have season disc collections. So lighten up you givers of anything less than an "8"...or go watch Seinfeld...

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    • Trivia
      Out of the 238 episodes rated individually, this episode is rated at the lowest.
    • Goofs
      A close-up of Rachel's invitation shows that Ross made it out to "Rachel Greene". Ross should have known that her last name doesn't have the final "e" and is spelled "Green".
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    • Release date
      • April 23, 1998 (United States)
    • Country of origin
      • United States
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    • Language
      • English
    • Filming locations
      • Dijon Street, Warner Brothers Burbank Studios - 4000 Warner Boulevard, Burbank, California, USA
    • Production companies
      • Bright/Kauffman/Crane Productions
      • Warner Bros. Television
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    • Runtime
      • 22m
    • Color
      • Color
    • Sound mix
      • Stereo
    • Aspect ratio
      • 1.33 : 1

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