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Sex and the City
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Boy, Girl, Boy, Girl...

  • Episode aired Jun 25, 2000
  • TV-MA
  • 30m
IMDb RATING
6.9/10
967
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Donovan Leitch Jr. in Sex and the City (1998)
ComedyDramaRomance

Carrie finds out the guy she is dating is bisexual, and because of him, she explores the bisexual community for the first time.Carrie finds out the guy she is dating is bisexual, and because of him, she explores the bisexual community for the first time.Carrie finds out the guy she is dating is bisexual, and because of him, she explores the bisexual community for the first time.

  • Director
    • Pam Thomas
  • Writers
    • Darren Star
    • Jenny Bicks
    • Candace Bushnell
  • Stars
    • Sarah Jessica Parker
    • Kim Cattrall
    • Kristin Davis
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  • IMDb RATING
    6.9/10
    967
    YOUR RATING
    • Director
      • Pam Thomas
    • Writers
      • Darren Star
      • Jenny Bicks
      • Candace Bushnell
    • Stars
      • Sarah Jessica Parker
      • Kim Cattrall
      • Kristin Davis
    • 8User reviews
    • 1Critic review
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    Sarah Jessica Parker
    Sarah Jessica Parker
    • Carrie Bradshaw
    Kim Cattrall
    Kim Cattrall
    • Samantha Jones
    Kristin Davis
    Kristin Davis
    • Charlotte York
    Cynthia Nixon
    Cynthia Nixon
    • Miranda Hobbes
    David Eigenberg
    David Eigenberg
    • Steve Brady
    Willie Garson
    Willie Garson
    • Stanford Blatch
    Eddie Cahill
    Eddie Cahill
    • Sean
    Donovan Leitch Jr.
    Donovan Leitch Jr.
    • Baird Johnson
    • (as Donovan Leitch)
    Alanis Morissette
    Alanis Morissette
    • Dawn
    Chris Tardio
    Chris Tardio
    • Matt
    Jenna Rosenberg
    • Goddess Instructor
    Joey Kern
    Joey Kern
    • Garth
    Michael Medico
    Michael Medico
    • Mark
    Eliza Pryor Nagel
    Eliza Pryor Nagel
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    Torquil Campbell
    • Joel
    Alice Johnson Boher
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    • (as Alice Johnson)
    Peter Bucossi
    Peter Bucossi
    • Cop
    Eric Jones
    Eric Jones
    • Art Gallery Patron
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    • Director
      • Pam Thomas
    • Writers
      • Darren Star
      • Jenny Bicks
      • Candace Bushnell
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    1Isabelle-march

    Disgustingly biphobic

    Filled with the usual insulting stereotypes, hard to watch
    1sianmorgan1999

    Straight up homophobic

    Yes the show was made in the early 90's and the world has really progressed since then but come on. Each character was unbelievably biphobic and disrespectful, even Samantha. Disappointing episode.
    10nekengren-2

    NOT Homophobic

    How do people watch this and conclude it is homophobic? Dang. The episode simply illustrates a range of sexual relationships openly and without judgement. Carrie, our supposedly open writer, gets conflicted on her feelings which is exactly as expected from John Q. Public. Carrie behavior does seem quite out of place for a person writing sexual commentary columns in the local newspaper. Carrie behavior then is consistently out of place most episodes. Funny the Alanis cameo here. They missed an opportunity for her to throw in some clip of one of her sexual angst songs. That would have been awesome.
    5Dreadlock-Soldier

    For A Sex Writer She's Seriously Closed

    I didn't understand how, as a sex writer, she could be so confused about bisexuality.
    koofasa

    I watched this 21 years later

    Now I can see the reason society is so screwed up today. This was the precursor to the 'I don't know who or what I am' generation. I had no idea this lack of understanding about our humanity started here but it did.

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      This episode has been criticised for the biphobic statements made by the main characters.
    • Quotes

      Samantha: I'm a "trisexual". I'll try anything once.

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      Sex and the City Theme
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      Performed by Groove Armada

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    • Release date
      • June 25, 2000 (United States)
    • Country of origin
      • United States
    • Language
      • English
    • Filming locations
      • New York City, New York, USA
    • Production company
      • Darren Star Productions
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      • 30m
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      • 4:3

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