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The Dilemma

  • 2011
  • PG-13
  • 1h 51m
IMDb RATING
5.3/10
58K
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Vince Vaughn and Kevin James in The Dilemma (2011)
When Ronny Valentine (Vaughn) discovers the his best friend's wife is cheating on him, he wrestles with the question of whether or not to reveal the truth to his buddy.
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A man discovers that his best friend's wife is having an affair.A man discovers that his best friend's wife is having an affair.A man discovers that his best friend's wife is having an affair.

  • Director
    • Ron Howard
  • Writer
    • Allan Loeb
  • Stars
    • Vince Vaughn
    • Kevin James
    • Winona Ryder
  • See production info at IMDbPro
  • IMDb RATING
    5.3/10
    58K
    YOUR RATING
    • Director
      • Ron Howard
    • Writer
      • Allan Loeb
    • Stars
      • Vince Vaughn
      • Kevin James
      • Winona Ryder
    • 172User reviews
    • 184Critic reviews
    • 46Metascore
  • See production info at IMDbPro
    • Awards
      • 1 nomination total

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    Love & Other Drugs: Oh My God
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    Love & Other Drugs: Oh My God
    The Dilemma: Nick Hears How Ronny Tricked Him To Get A Meeting
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    The Dilemma: Nick Hears How Ronny Tricked Him To Get A Meeting
    The Dilemma: Beth And Ronny Talk About Their Relationship
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    The Dilemma: Beth And Ronny Talk About Their Relationship
    The Dilemma: Susan Tells Ronny And Nick That She Loves Their Idea
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    The Dilemma: Susan Tells Ronny And Nick That She Loves Their Idea

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    Vince Vaughn
    Vince Vaughn
    • Ronny Valentine
    Kevin James
    Kevin James
    • Nick Brannen
    Winona Ryder
    Winona Ryder
    • Geneva
    Jennifer Connelly
    Jennifer Connelly
    • Beth
    Channing Tatum
    Channing Tatum
    • Zip
    Queen Latifah
    Queen Latifah
    • Susan Warner
    Amy Morton
    Amy Morton
    • Diane Popovich
    Chelcie Ross
    Chelcie Ross
    • Thomas Fern
    Eduardo N. Martinez
    • Felix
    Rance Howard
    Rance Howard
    • Burt
    Clint Howard
    Clint Howard
    • Herbert Trimpy
    Guy Van Swearingen
    Guy Van Swearingen
    • Saul
    Troy West
    Troy West
    • Dr. Rosenstone
    Laura Whyte
    • Sue
    Grace Rex
    Grace Rex
    • Cousin Betty
    Mike McNamara
    Mike McNamara
    • Cousin James
    Rebecca Spence
    Rebecca Spence
    • Jackie
    Tim Rhoze
    Tim Rhoze
    • Charles
    • Director
      • Ron Howard
    • Writer
      • Allan Loeb
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    User reviews172

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    4SnoopyStyle

    Tough material to make fun of

    Ronny Valentine (Vince Vaughn) is Nick Brannen's (Kevin James) best friend from college and partner in their own auto design firm. Ronny has girlfriend Beth (Jennifer Connelly), and Nick is happily married to Geneva (Winona Ryder). Then Ronny spies Geneva making out with another man.

    This is probably the worst Ron Howard movie I've ever seen. I don't know what the original intention was. Is cheating in a marriage really slapstick comedy material? Vince Vaughn and Kevin James could be a funny team in another movie. I just can't tell as I worry about what's going on in that marriage. If you're making fun of this material, you'd have to go dark. Neither guy is that great at dark comedies and Ron Howard is the last person to direct that.
    7HotToastyRag

    Great premise

    Vince Vaughn and Kevin James are friends. They get along, and their wives, Jennifer Connelly and Winona Ryder, get along. In the classic scenario that we all hear about but never want to happen to us, what happens if your best friend gets a divorce? It really does upset the apple cart, even though in a logical sense it shouldn't. If your best friend's marriage crumbles, you start to question the solidity of your own. You reconsider inviting him along to outings because he'd be a third wheel, or you feel obligated to split time with his ex-wife because she was your friend, too - and then you have to hide the fact that you're still spending time with her, so he doesn't get hurt feelings. You wonder if he'll start flirting with your wife, or you feel jealous when he enters a new, exciting relationship.

    So, if you saw your best friend's wife having an affair, would you tell him? It's quite a dilemma. The premise and execution of the film is actually quite good, managing to keep enough dramatic tension and realism mixed in with silly humor. If you really don't like the style of Vince Vaughn or Kevin James, though, you probably won't like it. I'm really not a fan of either Winona Ryder or Jennifer Connelly, but I was still able to enjoy the movie. Ladies in the audience will love drooling over Channing Tatum, the boyfriend on the side, and gents will appreciate Vince Vaughn's hesitancy as he tries to do the right thing. If you're in a rocky relationship, I wouldn't recommend this as a date night movie, but if you're watching it by yourself or with some pals it should be fine. Just don't watch it with your best friend unless you're prepared to answer how you'd react in such a dilemma!
    6rawvibes

    Yada Yada Yada

    Ronny and Nick have been best friends since college. The two are partners in their own auto design firm; their big dream comes true when they land a big deal with Chrysler. Nick has found a way to make an electric car sound and feel like a muscle car. Ronny's life has now turned for the worst when he catches Nick's wife cheating with another man. So does he tell his best friend about the other man, or should he wait until the Chrysler presentation is over. Vince Vaughn's character over shot itself. It was just too much Vince. Jennifer Connelly gorgeous as usual. You caught your best friend's wife cheating, but to stretch this topic for a movie for a 1 hr. 58 min was just way to long. Not enough funny parts to compensate for the boring slow pace of the film. Constant yada yada's. Not one of Ron Howard's best films. Soft 3 stars out of 5
    3r3volution11

    How Did They Make This?

    Considering all the great actors, going in you would think it'd be, at the very least, a decent watch. But no, this movie is somehow so aggravating and annoying you want to yell at the actors and ask what in the world they were thinking.

    I can usually find something I like about any movie. With this one there wasn't one thing. This is one of only a few movies I've ever rated under a 5 and it deserves it.
    3Filmy2020

    A waste of $70,000,000

    This movie is a shameful waste of $70,000,000. It's also an unusual waste of a talent like Jennifer Connely.

    I can't even begin to tell you where this movie goes wrong, because it never seemed to go right. For the first 30 minutes of the movie, there is nothing remotely funny, original or entertaining. I gave it the benefit of the doubt, telling myself "ok, Ron Howard is just setting up the premise. It will get better." But it doesn't. Not a bit.

    I had to repeatedly resist the urge to take out my phone and play Skee Ball. I should have, however, given in to the temptation to leave the theatre and demand my money back.

    PS to the studio - don't market a film as a comedy if its not remotely funny. It does nothing to enhance your already tarnished reputation. (Clearly you are still pumping out left over crap from 2010)

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    • Trivia
      The trailer attracted a lot of criticism for the line spoken by Vince Vaughn's character "Electric cars are gay. I mean, not homosexual gay, but my-parents-are-chaperoning-the-dance gay.". Gay & Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation (GLAAD) publicly asking they remove the line, support for the motion being seconded by Anderson Cooper. Universal released a new trailer without the line. Co-Producer and Director Ron Howard, however, refused to cut the line from the film itself as he felt it was tantamount to censorship.
    • Goofs
      The injuries Ronny sustained during his fight would have lasted weeks, but they disappear immediately afterward.
    • Quotes

      Ronny Valentine: Nick, great moments come from great opportunities. And that's what you've earned here today. It's what you've earned here today.

    • Connections
      Featured in The Tonight Show with Jay Leno: Episode #19.63 (2011)
    • Soundtracks
      Baby Don't You Do It
      Written by Brian Holland, Lamont Dozier, Eddie Holland (as Edward Holland,

      Jr.)

      Performed by The Band

      Courtesy of Capitol Records

      Under license from EMI Film & Television Music

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    Details

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    • Release date
      • January 14, 2011 (United States)
    • Country of origin
      • United States
    • Language
      • English
    • Also known as
      • El dilema
    • Filming locations
      • 2000 Naperville Wheaton Rd., Naperville, Illinois, USA(Dodge Automotive HQ)
    • Production companies
      • Universal Pictures
      • Imagine Entertainment
      • Spyglass Entertainment
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    Box office

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    • Budget
      • $70,000,000 (estimated)
    • Gross US & Canada
      • $48,475,290
    • Opening weekend US & Canada
      • $17,816,230
      • Jan 16, 2011
    • Gross worldwide
      • $69,721,966
    See detailed box office info on IMDbPro

    Tech specs

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    • Runtime
      • 1h 51m(111 min)
    • Color
      • Color
    • Sound mix
      • SDDS
      • DTS
      • Dolby Digital
    • Aspect ratio
      • 2.35 : 1

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