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If I Were You

  • 2012
  • R
  • 1h 55m
IMDb RATING
6.9/10
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Marcia Gay Harden and Leonor Watling in If I Were You (2012)
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When a woman tries to outwit her husband's sexy young mistress, the unexpected consequences include starring as King Lear in a very amateur production--with the mistress, an aspiring actress... Read allWhen a woman tries to outwit her husband's sexy young mistress, the unexpected consequences include starring as King Lear in a very amateur production--with the mistress, an aspiring actress, playing The Fool.When a woman tries to outwit her husband's sexy young mistress, the unexpected consequences include starring as King Lear in a very amateur production--with the mistress, an aspiring actress, playing The Fool.

  • Director
    • Joan Carr-Wiggin
  • Writer
    • Joan Carr-Wiggin
  • Stars
    • Marcia Gay Harden
    • Leonor Watling
    • Joseph Kell
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  • IMDb RATING
    6.9/10
    2.5K
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    • Director
      • Joan Carr-Wiggin
    • Writer
      • Joan Carr-Wiggin
    • Stars
      • Marcia Gay Harden
      • Leonor Watling
      • Joseph Kell
    • 32User reviews
    • 26Critic reviews
    • 28Metascore
  • See production info at IMDbPro
    • Awards
      • 1 nomination total

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    Marcia Gay Harden
    Marcia Gay Harden
    • Madelyn
    Leonor Watling
    Leonor Watling
    • Lucy
    Joseph Kell
    Joseph Kell
    • Paul
    Daniela Saioni
    Daniela Saioni
    • Waitress
    Genadijs Dolganovs
    Genadijs Dolganovs
    • Store Clerk
    Jessica Booker
    • Mother
    Genevieve Kang
    Genevieve Kang
    • Office Assistant
    Gary Piquer
    Gary Piquer
    • Keith
    Kaitlyn Riordan
    • Sarah
    Leon Aureus
    • Tyler
    Jeff Elliot
    • Sam
    Beatriz Yuste
    Beatriz Yuste
    • Carla
    Vickie Papavs
    Vickie Papavs
    • Maggie
    Rhonda Hall
    • Neighbour Elizabeth
    Mairtin O'Carrigan
    • First Lear
    Michael Therriault
    Michael Therriault
    • Rainer (Director)
    Claire Brosseau
    Claire Brosseau
    • Regan
    Bethany Jillard
    • Cordelia
    • Director
      • Joan Carr-Wiggin
    • Writer
      • Joan Carr-Wiggin
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    7Siren555

    Brilliant First Act

    This is an intelligent and funny movie, well worth watching, even if for the first act alone. Harden and Watling are genuinely entertaining to watch. They have great chemistry, playing off each other beautifully. The film's only flaws are in the somewhat uneven plot, and a couple of very minor characters with sub-par acting -- the waitress in the opening scene must be surely be the producer's sister or something.

    The first act is surprisingly great. I literally laughed out loud. The concept is also super fun and intriguing. Marcia Gay Harden's every move is perfect as Madeline, the prim and proper, confused working wife. Leonor Watling also gives a wonderful performance as Lucy. She gives Lucy exactly the right blend of naïvete, savviness, and genuine innocence, which allows us to care about Lucy even if she doesn't always do the right thing.

    The second act continues at a pretty good pace. However, to keep from dragging, the middle of the movie craved a couple of extra plot complications.

    In the third act, the tone of the movie shifts considerably. Now If I Were You is a drama, and a major new character is introduced. The story would have been even stronger if it could have retained more of the fun-loving spirit of the first act.

    Overall, If I Were You gets a 6.5 . . . since that's not an option, 7.
    7tickin

    Worth it

    I have to open by saying I've always enjoyed Marcia Gay Harden. But I was a little worried that comedy might not be her strength. I was happily wrong. She delivers a joke well, very well at times and she carries the 2 hour movie right through to the end. She puts her own style into it too, which is memorable.

    The movie is light entertainment but it's not irritating. It weaves it's own little path and pops out the other end with a smile on it's face. This is probably going to sound mean but the secondary characters were neither here nor there and only served as billboards for Marcia to graffiti. Though Aiden Quinn does carve out a few good moments for his character.

    But It's Marcia's show and she steps up well. Well worth it if you're perhaps on the upper side of 40 and looking for something light, funny and mostly clean.
    9danbranan

    See this film!

    I only recently discovered this little gem on Netflix and I was really impressed. This independent film is everything that so many Hollywood films aren't (anymore): complex, interesting, challenging, funny. The acting (especially Marcia Gay Harden and Aidan Quinn) is excellent. Despite its 2-hour run-time and complex plot, it never bogs down. Director Joan Carr-Wiggin does an admirable job of keeping the story moving and relatable through all the twists and turns of the plot and subplots. In fact, the story itself mirrors the Shakespearean structure with intrigue, mistaken or confused identities, poignant subtext, etc. And to top it all off, there's no formulaic development or "Hollywood ending" to ruin the great story! This film is truly delightful and its a shame that it did so unbelievably poorly at the box-office. The critics have not done it justice, either, giving one-line reviews that make me wonder if they even watched it. If you check on Rotten Tomatoes, you'll see that the audience score is around 70%, while the critic's score is at 9%! Definitely a disconnect with reality, in my opinion. It's not a perfect film, and if IMDb allowed it I would have given it an 8.5, but it's certainly MUCH better than its critical ratings and box-office earnings indicate.
    10sandranord

    Through hilarious circumstances, a wife and mistress help each other with their love lives. But! Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned!

    This is one of the best comedies I have seen in years - I go to the movies a lot! The writing is smart, philosophical, quick witted. The plot comes up with surprise after surprise. You cannot predict the next move at all. The film is laugh-out-loud funny. The audience will put themselves in the shoes of these wonderfully rich characters and go through a fun emotional journey. Zany but plausible! The acting is stellar. I've always been a big fan of Marcia Gay Harden so I am thrilled to see her in a film of this caliber. The big question is "Why isn't this film in more theaters? I accidentally stumbled on this film. If not for that, I never would have seen it. Why? Marketing people ... distribution people ... GET THIS FILM TO THE GENERAL PUBLIC! We need to laugh ... not AT people which happens so often in films these days ... we need to laugh along with the genius of this film!
    10elenid_brown

    Brilliant! With Meaning. Well done.

    This is a real gem of a movie written and directed by Joan Carr-Wiggin, who did an outstanding job at both. The writing was witty, highly intelligent and crisp, without being snappy or predictable, but embodying mature depth and strength. This film is one of those unforgettable films that reach into the inner core of the heart - yet is handled unconventionally and with more savvy than one has come to expect in these genres.

    Marcia Gay Harden is outstanding in this film. Outstanding, deep, multifaceted. It was a joy just to watch her. There is so much about this movie that felt rich - certainly not your average shallow Hollywood product.

    I look forward to more films by Joan Carr-Wiggin.

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    Storyline

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    • Trivia
      Joseph Kell (Paul) and Valerie Mahaffey (Lydia, who believes Paul is gay for her husband Keith) are married in real life.
    • Quotes

      Lucy: Can I ask you a favor? If I just get brain damage, do you promise to hold a pillow over my face?

    • Connections
      References Fatal Attraction (1987)
    • Soundtracks
      Il Vazer Dei Bambini
      Composed, Orchestrated, and Conducted by Paolo Buonvino

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    • Release date
      • August 12, 2021 (Canada)
    • Countries of origin
      • United Kingdom
      • Canada
    • Language
      • English
    • Also known as
      • Если бы я была тобой
    • Filming locations
      • Toronto, Ontario, Canada
    • Production companies
      • Paragraph Pictures
      • TallTree Pictures
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    • Gross US & Canada
      • $9,432
    • Opening weekend US & Canada
      • $3,889
      • Mar 17, 2013
    • Gross worldwide
      • $9,432
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    • Runtime
      • 1h 55m(115 min)
    • Color
      • Color
    • Sound mix
      • Stereo
    • Aspect ratio
      • 1.78 : 1

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