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Ben, 35, seeks meaningful romance beyond casual sex. Meeting Grey sparks instant chemistry, but their different views on relationships create conflict. Explores modern dating, monogamy, and ... Read allBen, 35, seeks meaningful romance beyond casual sex. Meeting Grey sparks instant chemistry, but their different views on relationships create conflict. Explores modern dating, monogamy, and serodiscordant relationships.Ben, 35, seeks meaningful romance beyond casual sex. Meeting Grey sparks instant chemistry, but their different views on relationships create conflict. Explores modern dating, monogamy, and serodiscordant relationships.
Joseph Russo
- Vinnie
- (as Joey Russo)
Jenn Jones
- Sara
- (as Jennifer Jones)
David Shae
- Roy
- (as David Moretti)
Fia Perera
- Dating Service Lady
- (as Fia S. Perera)
Bernadette Pérez
- Amber
- (as Bernadette Perez)
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Really cute story, love the characters
This is a Really cute story, & I love the characters but the story kinda jumps & the scenery is very poor, but all in all I have this 10 stars because most of us have lived the storyline of this movie. It's a sweet movie & it's worth watching. Just don't expect a blockbuster movie.
In the words of the immortal Karen Walker...
"oh, no, honey...no..." The funny thing here is I immediately saw the lead character, Ronnie Kerr and thought "wait...I just saw a total piece of crap/waste of time with this guy in it yesterday" and sure enough, went to IMDb and saw not only was he also the lead in the tragic assault to gay cinema called "Saltwater", but also wrote both of them. I'd say that was the only funny thing about this film at all, but I have to be completely honest and say there are a couple of really good performances which were obviously ad-lib-ed (no, not Mark Cirillo's same tired character he does in every performance that will give him a part because he will do full-frontal) but rather the opening scene with the director...yet even HER awesome performance was butchered through very bad editing and B-roll throughout-style camera-work. Look, I get that everyone needs a hobby...but at this point I'd say this niche genre of cheap, badly written/acted/filmed gay films is reaching saturation; no one gets a "pass" anymore, so come back when you have REAL and NEW to say (or at the very least entertaining).
Enjoyable but with issues
Have to say that on the whole I enjoyed this movie. It was certainly not blockbuster or Academy Award material but it was an enjoyable watch. (Let's be honest not all Academy award winners are worth watching either if that is what you were looking for)
I guess the issue for me was the reasoning behind Gray's(?)argument that Ben should just accept his playing around because that's just the way he is, was a little ingenuous since he was not even willing to consider Ben's side of the argument or his feelings.
Other than that the movie was fun to watch. thank you for producing it.
Other than that the movie was fun to watch. thank you for producing it.
Oh Man Is This bad
I'm sorry, but as a gay man, I found this really, really bad. I mean, it's offensive, it's so bad. I feel sorry for anyone--especially inexperienced or young gay guys--who thinks that there's anything authentic about any of this.
It's fakey. The dialog is not only trite, it's boring. When it tries to be funny, it's cringe-making. But when the dialog is dealing with love, commitment, or just trying to show how two gay guys talk together, it's just fake. It's too writer-ish. People just don't talk that way.
And that's one of the big problems with this kind of movie. It's people *talking* about life. It's not a movie that *shows* people living a life. And if you've got a dialog-driven movie, you better have A+++ dialog or why bother?
It's not that this movie doesn't depict situations that gay guys deal with, it does. It's just doing it really, really badly.
It's fakey. The dialog is not only trite, it's boring. When it tries to be funny, it's cringe-making. But when the dialog is dealing with love, commitment, or just trying to show how two gay guys talk together, it's just fake. It's too writer-ish. People just don't talk that way.
And that's one of the big problems with this kind of movie. It's people *talking* about life. It's not a movie that *shows* people living a life. And if you've got a dialog-driven movie, you better have A+++ dialog or why bother?
It's not that this movie doesn't depict situations that gay guys deal with, it does. It's just doing it really, really badly.
Shut Up and Give It A Try!
A fresh take on familiar themes--this 78-minute movie packs a decent amount of humor and poignancy in a short amount of time. While the main plot evolved around dating, I really enjoyed the friendship between the main character (Ben) and his straight best friend/workout buddy (Vinnie).
There were a couple of brief sex scenes that may surprise (shock, delight, etc.) some viewers, but for the most part this film focuses on the importance of friendships and the challenges of dating in the gay world.
This indie flick was likely shot on a budget, and like many movies you need to be in the right space to get the most out of your viewing experience. If you can be patient and suspend your disbelief like a good movie-goer should, I think you'll find this to be an enjoyable film that examines a variety of friendships and romantic relationships.
P.S. I'm SOOOO glad this was available on Netflix Streaming!
There were a couple of brief sex scenes that may surprise (shock, delight, etc.) some viewers, but for the most part this film focuses on the importance of friendships and the challenges of dating in the gay world.
This indie flick was likely shot on a budget, and like many movies you need to be in the right space to get the most out of your viewing experience. If you can be patient and suspend your disbelief like a good movie-goer should, I think you'll find this to be an enjoyable film that examines a variety of friendships and romantic relationships.
P.S. I'm SOOOO glad this was available on Netflix Streaming!
Did you know
- TriviaThis movie is based on true life experiences of Ronnie Kerr.
- GoofsGrey's top gets wetter and drier between shots.
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- $15,500 (estimated)
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- 1h 18m(78 min)
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- 1.78 : 1
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