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Shut Up & Kiss Me

Original title: Shut Up and Kiss Me
  • 2010
  • Not Rated
  • 1h 18m
IMDb RATING
4.4/10
580
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Ron Smith and Scott Gabelein in Shut Up & Kiss Me (2010)
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Ben, 35, seeks meaningful romance beyond casual sex. Meeting Grey sparks instant chemistry, but their different views on relationships create conflict. Explores modern dating, monogamy, and ... Read allBen, 35, seeks meaningful romance beyond casual sex. Meeting Grey sparks instant chemistry, but their different views on relationships create conflict. Explores modern dating, monogamy, and serodiscordant relationships.Ben, 35, seeks meaningful romance beyond casual sex. Meeting Grey sparks instant chemistry, but their different views on relationships create conflict. Explores modern dating, monogamy, and serodiscordant relationships.

  • Director
    • Devin Hamilton
  • Writer
    • Ron Smith
  • Stars
    • Ron Smith
    • Scott Gabelein
    • Kindall Kolins
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  • IMDb RATING
    4.4/10
    580
    YOUR RATING
    • Director
      • Devin Hamilton
    • Writer
      • Ron Smith
    • Stars
      • Ron Smith
      • Scott Gabelein
      • Kindall Kolins
    • 19User reviews
    • 5Critic reviews
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    Ron Smith
    Ron Smith
    • Ben
    • (as Ronnie Kerr)
    Scott Gabelein
    Scott Gabelein
    • Grey
    Kindall Kolins
    Kindall Kolins
    • Callie
    Joseph Russo
    Joseph Russo
    • Vinnie
    • (as Joey Russo)
    Nate Scholz
    • Brad
    Jenn Jones
    • Sara
    • (as Jennifer Jones)
    Isaac Brantner
    • James
    David Shae
    David Shae
    • Roy
    • (as David Moretti)
    Fia Perera
    Fia Perera
    • Dating Service Lady
    • (as Fia S. Perera)
    Dylan Vox
    Dylan Vox
    • Tom
    Bernadette Pérez
    Bernadette Pérez
    • Amber
    • (as Bernadette Perez)
    Jon Gale
    • Gage
    Mike Korich
    Mike Korich
    • Bear
    Satoshi Matsuoka
    • Ginseng
    Greg Salmon
    • Jojo
    Brendon O'Rourke
    • Goth
    Tenee Hill
    • Receptionist
    Chris Ostroff
    • Momma's Boy
    • Director
      • Devin Hamilton
    • Writer
      • Ron Smith
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    10celebration72

    Really cute story, love the characters

    This is a Really cute story, & I love the characters but the story kinda jumps & the scenery is very poor, but all in all I have this 10 stars because most of us have lived the storyline of this movie. It's a sweet movie & it's worth watching. Just don't expect a blockbuster movie.
    2Coralknight

    In the words of the immortal Karen Walker...

    "oh, no, honey...no..." The funny thing here is I immediately saw the lead character, Ronnie Kerr and thought "wait...I just saw a total piece of crap/waste of time with this guy in it yesterday" and sure enough, went to IMDb and saw not only was he also the lead in the tragic assault to gay cinema called "Saltwater", but also wrote both of them. I'd say that was the only funny thing about this film at all, but I have to be completely honest and say there are a couple of really good performances which were obviously ad-lib-ed (no, not Mark Cirillo's same tired character he does in every performance that will give him a part because he will do full-frontal) but rather the opening scene with the director...yet even HER awesome performance was butchered through very bad editing and B-roll throughout-style camera-work. Look, I get that everyone needs a hobby...but at this point I'd say this niche genre of cheap, badly written/acted/filmed gay films is reaching saturation; no one gets a "pass" anymore, so come back when you have REAL and NEW to say (or at the very least entertaining).
    7myonge-72119

    Enjoyable but with issues

    Have to say that on the whole I enjoyed this movie. It was certainly not blockbuster or Academy Award material but it was an enjoyable watch. (Let's be honest not all Academy award winners are worth watching either if that is what you were looking for) I guess the issue for me was the reasoning behind Gray's(?)argument that Ben should just accept his playing around because that's just the way he is, was a little ingenuous since he was not even willing to consider Ben's side of the argument or his feelings.

    Other than that the movie was fun to watch. thank you for producing it.
    2ekeby

    Oh Man Is This bad

    I'm sorry, but as a gay man, I found this really, really bad. I mean, it's offensive, it's so bad. I feel sorry for anyone--especially inexperienced or young gay guys--who thinks that there's anything authentic about any of this.

    It's fakey. The dialog is not only trite, it's boring. When it tries to be funny, it's cringe-making. But when the dialog is dealing with love, commitment, or just trying to show how two gay guys talk together, it's just fake. It's too writer-ish. People just don't talk that way.

    And that's one of the big problems with this kind of movie. It's people *talking* about life. It's not a movie that *shows* people living a life. And if you've got a dialog-driven movie, you better have A+++ dialog or why bother?

    It's not that this movie doesn't depict situations that gay guys deal with, it does. It's just doing it really, really badly.
    8fb-993-276009

    Shut Up and Give It A Try!

    A fresh take on familiar themes--this 78-minute movie packs a decent amount of humor and poignancy in a short amount of time. While the main plot evolved around dating, I really enjoyed the friendship between the main character (Ben) and his straight best friend/workout buddy (Vinnie).

    There were a couple of brief sex scenes that may surprise (shock, delight, etc.) some viewers, but for the most part this film focuses on the importance of friendships and the challenges of dating in the gay world.

    This indie flick was likely shot on a budget, and like many movies you need to be in the right space to get the most out of your viewing experience. If you can be patient and suspend your disbelief like a good movie-goer should, I think you'll find this to be an enjoyable film that examines a variety of friendships and romantic relationships.

    P.S. I'm SOOOO glad this was available on Netflix Streaming!

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      This movie is based on true life experiences of Ronnie Kerr.
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      Grey's top gets wetter and drier between shots.

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    • Release date
      • July 13, 2010 (United States)
    • Country of origin
      • United States
    • Official site
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    • Language
      • English
    • Also known as
      • Shut Up and Kiss Me
    • Filming locations
      • North Hollywood, Los Angeles, California, USA
    • Production company
      • Kerrdog Productions
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      • $15,500 (estimated)
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    • Runtime
      • 1h 18m(78 min)
    • Color
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    • Aspect ratio
      • 1.78 : 1

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